The 11 Most Extreme BDSM Toys for the Toughest Kinksters
Cassie Mørch
Screamer Dual Hook Sex Swing
Screamer Sex Swing
- are looking for a sturdy beginner sex swing
- want to explore fun suspended positions
- want the option to add extra restraints
Screamer Sex Swing
- prefer sex swings that mount on a door
- want a swing that is extra padded
Explore endless suspended positions with this sturdy Screamer Sex Swing. The two strong mounting points and all-metal hardware provides a secure and sturdy foundation for all the fun. The sleek and comfortable design ensures both functionality and comfort for longer lasting sessions! With the adjustable and removable strap design, you can freely experiment with different kinds of positions. If you’re looking to use this sex swing to engage in some extreme bondage and BDSM, you can purchase the Screamer Bondage Swing Kit instead. Apart from the swing itself, this kit includes 4 leather cuffs with faux fur for your ankles and wrists along with 4 adjustable webbing strap for full control over your sub.
- Dual hook for secure suspension
- Wide base for comfortable seating
- Heavy duty springs included
- Mounting tools not included
| Screamer Sex Swing | |
|---|---|
| Materials | Cotton canvas & metal |
| Maximum Weight | 300 lbs |
| Storage Bag Included | Yes |
| Colors Available | Black |
| Adjustable | Yes |
This sex swing is a great option for beginners to start their journey on suspended fun! This heavy duty swing will allow you to relax and feel comfortable and weightless as you experiment with new and fun positions and angles! The best part is that you’re easily able to get this swing in a bondage version with the Screamer Bondage Swing Kit! See how it feels to be teased and tortured in the air!
Flicker Whip
Flicker Whip
- want a stingy sensation
- are looking for a longer whip
- enjoy intense impact play
Flicker Whip
- prefer a milder impact
- want a thuddy sensation
This sleek and thin flicker whip is not only elegant but also viciously precise! Beware of the delicious stingy feeling when whipping that braided tassel at the tip across your bare skin! The whip is 34 inches long and complete with a red leather covered handle for a comfortable grip while you’re relentlessly teasing and torturing your sub.
- Elegant and slim
- Powerful stingy sensation
- Comfortable grip
- Not super flexible
| Flicker Whip | |
|---|---|
| Length | 34 inches |
| Materials | Leather, nylon & metal |
This Flicker Whip is great way to amp up your impact play with some serious force and stingy sensation! If you’re on the lookout for an unyielding yet slim and elegant stinging whip to explore higher heights with, this long device may be for you! It is not the cheapest flicker whip available but you definitely get what you paid for in terms of quality and performance in this product.
Bondage Boutique Squeeze & Tease Nipple Clamps
Bondage Boutique Nipple Clamps
- love a pinching sensation on your nipples
- want intense nipple play
- need your nipple clamps to stay put
- Enjoy intense pain
- Are an experienced pain player
- Are looking for something you can add weights/decorations/ additions to your nipple chains
- Would like an affordable option for your pain play
Bondage Boutique Nipple Clamps
- want your clamps to tighten when you pull the chain
- need adjustable pinchers
- Are new to pain play
- Are looking for an all-day wear clamp
- Don't enjoy intense pain
Looking for more extreme nipple clamps? These industrial-style clover clamps offer a firm squeeze on your sensitive nipples, making you yearn for the release. Non-adjustable for intense unyielding tightness for experienced kinksters. Each clamp has two rubber-tipped pinchers with a textured surface for extra stimulation. The wide surface area of the clip itself allows for better grip and control of the clamps.
- Easy to grip and control
- Textured tips for extra stimulation
- Strong pinching grip
- Unique style
- Chain can tolerate weight
- Adds high pain quickly
- Slighty small opening
- Short chain
- Not adjustable
- Bulky
| Bondage Boutique Nipple Clamps | |
|---|---|
| Length | 20 inches inches |
| Materials | Metal |
| Fastening | Squeeze clamp |
| Adjustable | No |
| Storage Bag Included | No |
This is the perfect accessory for someone who has grown out of their beginner or intermediate adjustable nipple clamps and now looking for something even tighter with an unyielding grip. It becomes very intense very quick… The non-adjustable design is made for more advanced kinksters who know which sensations they’re into and which boundaries they’re willing to explore in terms of pain and pinching on the nipples. Play around with tugging on the clamps once they’re on or try adding some weights for makeshift weighted nipple clamps!
Hismith App-Controlled Premium Sex Machine
Hismith Premium Sex Machine
- want to enjoy realistic thrusting without a partner
- want a powerful machine to use on your sub
- like app-controlled settings
Hismith Premium Sex Machine
- don't have space for this large machine
- don't want to disturb roommates with the noise
- don't enjoy a thrusting motion
This powerful and sturdy sex machine with a strong stainless stell frame provides you with trustworthy thrusts and impressive speeds to play with! The motions of the sex machine are easily controlled via the app for some remote control action. This also allows the user to share the controls with someone else – perfect for long-distance play!
- App-controlled
- Heavy duty automatic thrusting
- Powerful strokes
- Loud
- Takes up a lot of space
| Hismith Premium Sex Machine | |
|---|---|
| Thrust Modes | 0-240 RPM. Fully adjustable thrust settings. |
| Insertable length | 8 inches |
| Diameter | 1,4 inches |
| Weight | 25 lbs |
| Materials | Stainless steel (frame), ABS plastic (controller), silicone (dildo)) |
| Adjustable | Yes |
| Remote Controls | Wired, wireless, and app-enabled |
| Rechargeable | No (corded power) |
| Storage Bag Included | Yes |
Although this is more sturdy and extreme BDSM gear, it is also relatively accessible as the frame itself only weighs 25 lbs. Of course, it takes a up more space than most other sex toys and it might not be your most quiet thrusting item, but what else can you expect from a sex machine? This compact yet powerful machine that allows for remote (and long-distance) control really is an exciting device to step up your BDSM game and explore even more aspects of power play and submission!
Kinklab Neon Wand ElectroSex Kit
Kinklab Neon Wand
- enjoy e-stim wands
- want to explore different sensations with attachments
- want to play with milder electrical sensations
Kinklab Neon Wand
- want more intense or painful e-stim toys
- don't enjoy e-stim sensation play
- have a pacemaker, a heart condition, or are pregnant
This lightweight Neon Wand Kit comes with 4 glass attachments for a varied sensation of skin contact to experiment with. This wand creates an erotic electric discharge on the surface on the skin when in contact. The intensity can easily be controlled via the dial on the wand itself or the preferred electrode you’re using. This delicious sensation can vary a lot, going from a mild warm tingling to a concentrated intense (sometimes pleasantly painful) feeling.
- 4 glass attachments for variation
- Lightweight wand (for longer sessions)
- Long power chord
- Elegant lighting in the glass probes
- Not as powerful or painful as other wands
| Kinklab Neon Wand | |
|---|---|
| Materials | PPV plastic hardware, copper tube, and glass rods |
| Length | 13 inches |
| Rechargeable | No - corded |
The fact that the highest settings on this wand still does not reach the often painful levels that other wands would, makes this Neon Wand accessible for beginners looking to explore e-stim sensation play but is also perfect for intermediate to advanced kinksters to use on more sensitive body parts. The lightweight design and the 4 attachments allow you to easily experiement with different sensation and different levels. Remember! Do not use electro sex toys on people with heart conditions or pregnant people!
Ze Mango Magnetic Ball Stretcher
Ze Mango Ball Stretcher
- are looking for a simple ball stretcher
- want a secure fit
- like an easy magnetic function
Ze Mango Ball Stretcher
- prefer more intense ball stretchers
- want more accessories on your ball stretcher
This thick and weighty magnetic ball stretcher is made of sturdy stainless steel with a sleek matte finish. The rounded design makes for comfortable and visually impressive stretching device! With the simple snap-on, snap-off magnetic function to secure the stretcher around your scrotum, you’re free to do as you please without worrying about it staying in place. The simple design also allows for versatile use as it doubles as a cock ring!
- Sleek and elegant
- Weighted and comfortable
- Simple magnetic fastening
- Non-adjustable
| Ze Mango Ball Stretcher | |
|---|---|
| Diameter (internal) | 1,3 inches |
| Materials | Stainless steel |
| Height | 1,2 inches |
| Weight | 0,6 lbs |
This is great ball stretcher for all levels of experience. Whether you’re a beginner ball stretcher or a more experienced user, this accessory is a great way to enjoy the feeling of stretching out in a comfortable and elegant way with a simple magnetic fastening that’s super easy to get in and out of. Although, if you’re more into extreme weighted or spiked stretchers with more constrictive designs, this may be a bit simple for you.
OUCH! Silicone Vibrating Urethra Plug
OUCH! Urethra Plug
- are looking to explore sounding
- want to add vibrations to your urethra plug
OUCH! Urethra Plug
- are not into deep sounding
- do not enjoy vibration sensations around (or in) your penis
Made of soft but firm silicone this urethra vibrator can be inserted up to 4,1 inches into the penile urethral opening. The vibrating feature is activated by a remote controller. There are 20 different vibration modes to explore within this whisper-quiet motor at the base of the urethra plug itself. Add a buzzy feature to your silicone sound experience with this easily insertable plug!
- Added vibrations to your sounding gear
- Remote controlled
- Deep insertion for ultimate prostate stimulation
- Only available in one color
| OUCH! Urethra Plug | |
|---|---|
| Vibration modes | 20 |
| Rechargeable | USB |
| Charging Time | 120 minutes |
| Battery Life | 60 minutes |
| Materials | Silicone |
| Length | 5,3 inches |
| Diameter | 0,2 inches |
| Insertable length | 4,1 inches |
If you’re looking to take the next step on your sounding journey and open to adding a buzzy element to your urethral plugs, I think this product would be great for you! The insertable length is deep enough to stimulate the prostate while the shaft is sleek and slim enough for beginners as well. Actually, if you’re a completely new to what sounding is and feels like I still think this plug would be a good starter product. Then when you’re ready to explore the vibrating feature, it’s already there!
Mike's Spikes Cock & Ball Torture Device
Mike's Spikes CBT Device
- are looking for an adjustable CBT device
- want a CBT cock ring and ball stretcher in one
- enjoy spikey torturous pleasure on your shaft
Mike's Spikes CBT Device
- prefer fully restrictive chastity cages
- have a penis girth that exceeds 1,7 inches
This hardcore CBT stainless steel cylinder toy is both adjustable and versatile! You can use it as a CBT device around the shaft of the penis for pleasantly painful erections or as a ball stretcher! You can either use the adjustable sharp or blunt allen screws to find the sweet spot for you and just the right amount of restriction you’re looking for. Add a padlock (not included) to make this torture device into a customizable restrictive spiked chastity cage.
- Adjustable screws for tailored torture
- Heavy and sturdy cylinder cage
- Can be used as a chastity cage
- Padlock and allen wrench not included
| Mike's Spikes CBT Device | |
|---|---|
| Height | 1,5 inches |
| Diameter (internal) | 1,7 inches |
| Length | 0,6 (screw length) inches |
| Materials | Stainless steel |
This extreme BDSM toy is perfect for going medieval on your dong! The visual aspect adds a delicious element to the torture. You can also be fully in charge of the intensity of this CBT device by adjusting the amount of screws in the cylinder and how far you want them to dig into you. Perfect for when you want to convert it into a ball stretcher or chastity cage! Devices like this are generally for the more experienced CBT users but the adjustable element makes it a bit more approachable for people with less experienes as well.
Fun Factory The Boss Stud Realistic Dildo
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Fun Factory The Boss Dildo
- love a full feeling when using a dildo
- enjoy a basic suction cup dildo
- like a weighty dildo
Fun Factory The Boss Dildo
- don't like girthier dildos
- prefer vibrating or thrusting dildos
This Fun Factory The Boss dildo is a big one! A firm, smooth, and girthy silicone shaft with a large pronounced realistic head and textured veining for enhanced internal stimulation. This baby will give you 7,5 whole inches of fullness either vaginally or anally. The suction cup at the base allows for hands-free fun and more controlled insertion. Make sure to use plenty of lube when you go to see The Boss… It might not be the best for beginners but for the rest you are in for the real deal.
- Firm and heavy dildo for solid fun
- Realistic design
- O-ring harness compatible
- Suction cup
- Can be a bit too firm
- Only available in one color
| Fun Factory The Boss Dildo | |
|---|---|
| Insertable length | 7,5 inches |
| Diameter | 1,7 inches |
| Waterproof | Submersible |
| Materials | Silicone |
| Flexibility | Firm |
| Allergies | Latex-free and phthalate-free |
This big bossy dildo really seems to be a crowd pleaser! If you’re really into a long, girthy, sturdy, and weighty dildo with a suction cup for both solo and harnessed fun, then this toy is definitely for you! It might not be suitable for people who prefer slimmer shafts or internal vibrations. Although if you’re looking to up your big dildo game, this might be the perfect toy for you!
OXY Stainless Steel Anal Hook
OXY Anal Hook
- want to enjoy anal bondage
- looking for an advanced prostate stimulator
OXY Anal Hook
- prefer anal thrusting instead of static pleasure
- want deep anal stimulation
This OXY Anal hook is made from surgical grade stainless steel. It is completely body-safe, rust-free, non-porous, firm and smooth. Anal hooks are great way to combine anal stimulation with the pleasures of hardcore bondage gear. The tip with the ball is inserted into the anus (with plenty of lube!) and then ropes, chains, or cuffs can be fastened through the eyelet of the hook to secure your sub in any given position! This way, anal hooks give you the option to play around with predicament bondage, where your sub gets to experience being pulled and tortured by oppositional forces.
- Basic anal hook with a ball on insertable tip
- Easy to clean
- Ideal for temperature play
- No added textures or shapes in insertable shaft
| OXY Anal Hook | |
|---|---|
| Insertable length | 5 inches |
| Diameter | Ring: 1,5 inches, Ball: 0,8 inches |
| Storage Bag Included | Yes |
If you’re looking to try an anal hook for the first time, you can hardly go wrong with this classic design of extreme bondage gear. Once you’ve understood the concept, this anal hook is easy to use and great material for firm, secure, and, of course, safe fun! For a thorough cleaning, be sure to unscrew the ball and wash separately. Allow to dry completely and put away for safe storage.
Colt Muscle Nips Pumps
Colt Muscle Nips Pumps
- want to enhance nipple sensitivity and size
- are looking for a step up in nipple play
Colt Muscle Nips Pumps
- don't like individual nipple pumps
This nipple pump consists of two multi-use heavy-duty cylinders with a flared base for secure suction, a flexible silicone hose with individual air valves for adjustable use and for quick and easy release. The valves allow the air hose to be removed while maintaining the suction within the cylinders. The squeeze trigger handle lets you easily control the suction and air flow.
- Individual valves for adjustable suction
- Easy-release air valve
- Easy squeeze trigger handle
- Not available in other colors or designs
- The hoses are a bit short
| Colt Muscle Nips Pumps | |
|---|---|
| Length | Cylinder: 2 inches |
| Width | Cylinder: 1,5 inches |
| Materials | Acrylic (cylinder), silicone (hose), ABS (handle, release valve), POM (connector & on/off valves) |
| Weight | 0,4 lbs |
| Quick-release valve | Yes |
This nipple pump will definitely help you on your way to more intense nipple play! If you want to explore something that’s a bit next level from nipple clamps or individual manual nipple suckers, then this pump is the way to go! The powerful suction will allow you to enjoy an enhanced sensation with synchronized pump and release!
If You Are Into Shocking Stimulation
Do electro sex toys excite you? If you’re interested in other devices that create an erotic electric charge, I’ve got you covered!
Electroshock Cock Ring with Ballstrap
ElectraStim Electrosex Silicone Komodo Dildo
Looking for Sex-Dungeon Furniture?
Alright, if you’re truly aiming for decadence and heavy-duty equipment, you might want to look into some BDSM furniture!
Steel Puppy Cage Deluxe
Medieval Dungeon Wood Neck Stockade
Stockroom Stockade
Extreme Bondage Gear
Still on the look-out for some extra gear to use in your hardcore bondage adventures? Here are a few more product recommendations for you to take things up a notch!
Bondage Boutique Soft Bondage Rope 10 Meter
Bondage Boutique Faux Snakeskin Restraint Harness
How to Use Extreme Bondage Toys
If you’re here looking for extreme BDSM toys, I’m assuming you are familiar with the use of this kind of gear, so I won’t go into the absolute basics of how to use BDSM toys. But here are some general things to remember while playing with hardcore bondage gear!
Consent
If you’re an experienced kinkster, you should already know that consent may be the most important aspect of engaging in hardcore BDSM. Although it never hurts to be reminded! Consent and trust is absolutely vital to safe BDSM fun.
Safety
When playing around with extreme bondage gear and especially when playing around with pleasure and pain, safety precautions should be a priority! Make sure to have some safety shears, extra keys for padlocks, and perhaps even a first aid kit on hand for emergencies. Better safe than sorry!
Work Your Way Up...
Alright, having fun with hardcore BDSM equipment is not a race! The whole point is to explore and enjoy new sensations. So go for it and explore the different levels of intensity, but take it slow so you have time to adjust to the sensations.
Pushing Boundaries & Respecting Limits
Consent and communication are a big part of successful BDSM. But exploring your personal limits can be a really fun part of engaging in this kind of play in the first place! I like to say that the healthy balance is to have fun experimenting with pushing boundaries while totally respecting limits.
How to Clean Extreme BDSM Toys
Cleaning and storing your extreme BDSM toys properly varies and depends on the size and material of your toy. Most non-porous materials like silicone, ABS plastic, glass, or metal can be washed with a mild soap and warm water or with a sex toy cleaner. Check if your toy is waterproof (splash-proof or fully submersible) before you figure out it's best to clean it. Larger pieces of furniture can be wiped down with a damp cloth.
FAQ
What Are Extreme BDSM Toys?
Extreme BDSM toys describe a category of BDSM toys that are mostly suitable for people of an advanced level of experience with BDSM and kink. Many BDSM toys that are beginner friendly (like restraints, floggers and whips, adjustable clamps etc) are actually also suitable for more intense play. In this case, more extreme often means more restrictive, more sturdy, or more intense or painful. That's why extreme BDSM toys also refers to whole pieces of BDSM furniture, heavy duty restraint systems, super intense impact toys, insertable e-stim gadgets, and even powerful automated sex machines!
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