The 7 Best Gay Masturbators for Men who Love Men

   Kevin Foley
Today, we’ll be looking at seven of the best gay masturbators you can find and buy online right now! When it comes to these types of toys, there are definitely plenty of options to choose from, but finding the one that’s right for you can pose quite a challenge. In this article, I’ll be going over the pros and cons of all these top-rated toys, complete with an honest analysis to help you pick the perfect toy. Out of all the gay male masturbators, I ended up picking the “Channing Male Torso Sex Doll” as the “Test Winner”. However, simply because I gave it this title doesn’t necessarily mean that it’s the best option for you. So, which one is? Well, you’ll have to keep reading to find out!
1 Test Winner

Channing Male Torso Sex Doll

 Channing Sex Doll

  • Want to ride your toy
  • Love detailed sex toys
  • Need a flexible penis

Channing Sex Doll

  • Primarily enjoy penetrating
  • Want skin tone color options
  • Need something lightweight

First up on this list of gay masturbators, we have the Channing Male Torso Sex Doll! Extremely detailed and made from high-quality TPE, this doll has much more to offer than your average gay male masturbators. Being a sex doll torso, Channing is capable of both giving and receiving pleasure. Exactly how you enjoy the doll is up to you! The penis on this doll is flexible, making it easy to insert up inside you with adequate lube. Meanwhile, the 5.91-inch anal tunnel is simply waiting for you to ravish it! Whether you prefer giving or receiving, the Channing Male Torso Sex Doll can help you enjoy both experiences!

  • Easy to clean
  • Flexible penis
  • Excellent design
  • Perfect for riding

  • Penis is too flexible
  • Not very portable
  • Porous
Channing Sex Doll
Height21.26 inches
LengthPenis: 7.09, Leg: 3.94 inches
Insertable length5.91 inches
Diameter (internal)0.28 inches
Condom safeYes
Storage Bag IncludedYes

Being multi-purpose, high-quality, and coming complete with a storage bag, the Tantaly Channing doll beat out the other gay masturbators to become my pick for “Test Winner”. That said, this toy isn’t without flaws. Some users have had backdoor issues with this doll. Like most dolls, its anus is very tight, so that’s something you’ll want to keep in mind. Also, since the doll doesn’t have legs, you may have to get a bit creative with your poses. The penis on the Channing doll is pretty flexible, which is helpful for deepthroating but not so much for penetration. After the first few inches, the penis gets hard, but the first few inches aren’t easy to insert. Essentially, the Channing doll is the jack of all trades when it comes to gay male masturbators. While it doesn’t exactly excel in any particular area (beyond realism), it provides an all-around positive experience at a fair price.

2 Cheapest

PDX Reach Around Stroker

 Reach Around Stroker

  • Need a budget-friendly option
  • Love realistic gay masturbators
  • Want a dual-purpose toy

Reach Around Stroker

  • Want a firm shaft
  • Prefer skin tone options
  • Want a silicone toy

Up next is the PDX Reach Around Stroker, a unique masturbator that also doubles as an anal dildo! Made of Fanta Flesh, this realistic-to-the-touch toy has 6.5 inches of penetrable pleasures for you to enjoy. This toy is made with more care than many other gay male masturbators, as demonstrated by the high level of overall detail. Complete with balls and able to both take & receive, the PDX Reach Around Stroker is perfect for both solo & partner-based sexcapades!

  • Dual-purpose
  • Detailed design
  • Soft to the touch

  • Porous
  • No skin tone options
Reach Around Stroker
MaterialsFanta Flesh (TPE)
Length9.5 inches
Insertable length6.5 inches
Diameter3.8 inches

The PDX Reach Around Stroker can be yours for less than $60, making it a shoo-in for my “Cheapest” mention.  Despite this low price point, this PDX still manages to provide a good user experience overall. I think this toy performs just as well as most other gay male masturbators, specifically when it comes to stroking. Fanta Flesh may be porous, but the material itself still feels great against the skin. Complete with inner ribs for added stimulation, this toy is sure to drive you over the edge! Of course, the PDX Reach Around Stroker can also be used for penetrating yourself. This gives it an advantage over single-purpose gay masturbators. However, the shaft is a bit floppy, which may or may not be desirable (depending on personal preferences). Overall, I’d say that this stroker is an excellent option for budget-minded individuals who want a dual-purpose sex toy!

3 Beginner

Lifelike Lover Realistic Dildo and Ass

 Realistic Dildo and Ass

  • Want a dual-porous toy
  • Love prostate stimulation
  • Enjoy realistic toys

Realistic Dildo and Ass

  • Need something portable
  • Prefer more than 8” of shaft
  • Want skin tone color options

Many people enjoy gay male masturbators that can serve two purposes, but—with so many options currently offered—it can be hard for complete beginners to find the best option. Enter, the Lifelike Lover Realistic Dildo and Ass! As the name implies, this toy generally outperforms other gay masturbators when it comes to overall realism. From its tight butthole down below to its massive 8” penis protruding from the front, every part of this Lifelike lover toy was obviously made to please! Easy on the eyes and stimulating during use, the Lifelike Lover Realistic Dildo and Ass is a great option for first-timers and experienced users alike!

  • 8” shaft
  • Easy to clean
  • Has balls
  • Waterproof

  • Porous
  • Pricey
  • Sizable
Realistic Dildo and Ass
MaterialsSoft plastic
Length8 inches
Insertable length5.5 inches
Diameter(Penis) 1.9 inches

Negatives first: you may find this toy a bit hard to hold on to! Of course, that is to be expected (considering it’s only a sex torso, after all!). However, it’s still big enough for storage to potentially pose an issue, which is something you should keep in mind. Besides these two potential problems, there aren’t many negative things you can say about these gay masturbators. Designed to both give and receive, this is a toy that will surely keep your attention for a long time. Many gay male masturbators are hard to clean, but that’s not the case with the Lifelike Lover. Some also struggle with being lightweight, allowing them to move around during use. Fortunately, you won’t run into that issue with this toy either! Although the Lifelike Lover Realistic Dildo and Ass is a bit pricey, I think it’s an excellent option for beginners. Easy to use, easy to clean, and large enough to satisfy most, it’s hard to beat this masturbator when it comes to beginner-friendly fun!

4 Fleshlight

Brent Corrigan

 Brent Corrigan

  • Like Brent Corrigan
  • Need a portable toy
  • Want an easy-to-clean toy

Brent Corrigan

  • Want an inconspicuous toy
  • Prefer a toy with a body
  • Need a budget-friendly option

If you’re looking for something a bit more portable then this next pick is for you! Ever heard of Brent Corrigan? I sure hope so, because this next toy is molded directly from the star himself! Being made by the Fleshlight company, you know you can expect quality from these gay male masturbators. Their proprietary SuperSkin blend is temperature-responsive, meaning the sleeve will heat up perfectly in no time! There are many gay masturbators on the market that are far cheaper than this one. However, if you want the best of the best then the Brent Corrigan Bliss Texture toy is surely worth considering!

  • Molded from Brent Corrigan
  • Pretty blue casing
  • Removable sleeve
  • Has available attachments

  • More expensive than generic strokers
  • Require infrequent maintenance
  • Porous
Brent Corrigan
MaterialsThermoplastic Elastomer (TPE), ABS Plastic
Length10 inches
Insertable length9 inches
Diameter3.5 inches
Diameter (internal)0.44 inches
Weight1.4 lbs

Aside from the price, there really isn’t much to complain about the Brent Corrigan toy. Compared to other gay masturbators, Fleshjack toys can be a bit pricey, but they also are compatible with a ton of different Fleshlight accessories. Personally, I think this versatility—combined with the high-quality build of the toys themselves—makes these gay male masturbators worth the asking price. Despite being a bit pricier than the competition, you can still pick one up for less than $100! The toy comes in a light blue casing, which does a great job protecting the toy from dirt and dust. However, this bright color might attract some unwanted attention, so that’s something to keep in mind. Being a TPE blend, it’s recommended to treat the sleeve every so often with renewal powder. This isn’t unique to this toy, but it’s still an ongoing cost you’ll want to be aware of. As the only Fleshlight on this list, it’s easy to see why this toy gets the “Fleshlight” mention. Sure, there are many other FleshJack toys available, but when it comes to overall performance, I think Brent Corrigan takes the cake!

5 Ass Masturbator

Stroke It Bottom Banger Masturbator

 Bottom Banger Masturbator

  • Don’t need a penis
  • Want a realistic experience
  • Love rear-entry positions

Bottom Banger Masturbator

  • Need a penis
  • Want a budget-friendly option
  • Don’t want a toy with balls

Although many gay masturbators have a penis, you don’t necessarily need a shaft to have a good time. One example? The Stroke It Bottom Banger Masturbator! These unique gay male masturbators are designed around the experience of “hitting it from the back”. Complete with a plug, spankable bum and a big set of balls, this premium masturbator toy is smaller than a full-sized sex doll but easily outperforms a handheld stroker toy. Made of TPE and sized for realism, this masturbator toy is perfect for those who only want to give!

  • Relatively lightweight
  • Internal suction
  • Also offered in “Ivory”
  • Has balls

  • Porous
  • Lacks a penis
  • Hard to clean
Bottom Banger Masturbator
Length11.25 inches
Width9.25 inches
Height5.5 inches
Weight7.26 lbs

As mentioned above, this toy only provides a penetrative experience. Unlike many of the other gay male masturbators on this list, the Stroke It Bottom Banger lacks a penis, which is really the only reason you might not want to purchase it. However, if that’s exactly what you want from your toy then this is a good choice. Made from CalExotics’ Pure Skin TPE, this toy feels great to the touch. Being a closed-end masturbator, you’ll really be able to feel the suction on your shaft as you enter the back of the toy. Love playing with the balls? This toy has a detailed set ready for you to mess around with! That said, like most closed-end toys, cleaning the Stroke It Bottom Banger out completely will require a bit more effort than it might take to clean other gay male masturbators. Still, I think it’s worth the trouble. Priced fairly affordably, made from top-notch materials, and extremely realistic to the senses, the Stroke It Bottom Banger Masturbator is the best option if you’re looking for an ass masturbator!

6 Torso

Pipedream Extreme Realistic Male Sex Doll

 Extreme Realistic Male Sex Doll

  • Prefer dual-density dildos
  • Need an easy-to-clean toy
  • Want to try DP with your partner

Extreme Realistic Male Sex Doll

  • Don’t like the flat-back design
  • Want skin tone options
  • Prefer non-porous toys

Looking for the best male sex doll torso, regardless of how much it costs? If so, then the Pipedream Extreme Realistic Male Sex Doll is for you! Made of premium TPE and crafted to perfection, this doll easily blows other gay masturbators out of the water. Complete with a dual-density penis, realistic-feeling Fanta Flesh, a ribbed anal canal, and a base hole for streamlined cleaning, you’re sure to fall in love with this TPE beauty. Great for singles and couples alike, this muscular sex doll is a premium product you won’t want to miss out on!

  • Dual-density penis
  • Realistic detailing
  • Easy to clean

  • Expensive
  • Takes a bit to warm up
  • Heavy
Extreme Realistic Male Sex Doll
MaterialsSoft plastic
Length(Penis) 8 inches
Insertable length8 inches
Diameter (internal)0.25 inches
Weight2.18 lbs
AllergiesLatex & phthalate-free

Being a premium product, the asking price of this doll goes well beyond the average price of most gay male masturbators. For this simple fact, I chose the Pipedream Extreme Realistic Male Sex Doll as my “Torso” pick: it’s too expensive to be the “Test Winner”! However, if you can stomach the price, this is a toy that won’t disappoint. From its impressive cock and balls to its tight, ribbed anus down below, this toy is perfectly crafted for optimal performance. It uses a dual-density design for the penis, making it feel much more realistic during use. Perfect for riding and penetrating, this doll is easy to use all around. While the price will likely make this toy seem a bit less appealing than other gay masturbators, if you want a torso that’s the “best of the best”, I think the Pipedream Extreme Realistic Male Sex Doll is worth considering.

7 Interactive

PDX Male Dirty Talk Fuck My Cock

 Male Dirty Talk Fuck My Cock

  • Enjoy vibrations
  • Want a dual-purpose item
  • Love dirty talk

Male Dirty Talk Fuck My Cock

  • Don’t care about vibrations
  • Need a budget-friendly toy
  • Don’t want a talking toy

Last but not least is the PDX Male Dirty Talk Fuck My Cock. Intrigued? You should be! Unlike any of the other gay masturbators I’ve shown you so far, this toy not only lets you ride the shaft, but you can penetrate it as well! Equipped with dual-density Fanta Flesh, an interactive vibrator, and a built-in speaker for audible excitement, the Dirty Talk Fuck My Cock is a two-in-one toy like no other. Perfect for those who enjoy the naughty words of a dirty partner, this compact stroker can both give and receive. Tired of regular old gay male masturbators and want to try something new? If so, then this is one worth checking out!


  • Dual-purpose
  • Built-in speakers
  • Rechargeable
  • Made of Fanta Flesh

  • Porous
  • Expensive
Male Dirty Talk Fuck My Cock
Length(Total) 10.7 inches, (penis) 6.6 inches
Width5.8 inches
Height5.8 inches
Insertable length9.1 inches
RechargeableYes (USB)
Battery LifeUp to 120 minutes
Charging Time90 minutes
Vibration modesReactive

The design of this toy will make or break it for you. Personally, I think the idea of making a penis that you can penetrate is very innovative. To top it all off, it even talks! However, since it’s essentially just a penis with a hole beneath the balls, you won’t get the visual stimulation that you might with a round bum instead. For some of you, this might be an issue. For others, it’s hardly a worry! Thankfully, this toy is USB rechargeable. The internal battery powers the vibrations and the dirty talk speaker (both of which react to your thrusts!). It’s an excellent option for those who want to use gay masturbators as a stand-in for their partner, which is what earned it the “Interactive” mention in this list. Sure, it may not be full-sized, but it can talk and return pleasure: what more could you ask for? Ultimately, this toy is a bit pricey and fills a niche you might have not known existed. While it won’t be for everyone, I think those who find themselves intrigued by its unique design will be more than pleased with how the toy works in practice.

Discover the Fleshjack Boys

By now, you’ve probably noticed that there are many different brands of gay masturbators. However, if you’re the type of person who prefers to go with well-known reputable brands then you should check out Flighlight’s line of gay male masturbators, the Fleshack Boys!

Tyler Wu

Tyler Wu - Discover the Fleshjack Boys
Able to accommodate penises up to 9 inches in length, the Tyler Wu Fleshjack makes it easy to enjoy your favorite content creator’s hole from the comfort of your own home!

Max Konnor

Max Konnor - Discover the Fleshjack Boys
Whether you want to ride the 2019 “Hottest Cock” or take him for a ride instead, the Max Konnor Fleshjack toys are waiting and eager to please!

Diego Sans

Diego Sans - Discover the Fleshjack Boys
Tight, lengthy, and textured for maximum penetrative pleasures, the Diego Sans Fleshjack toy is sure to “get the job done”. Of course, you can also wrap your hands around his dildo if you feel like switching things up!

The Best Fleshlight with Balls

Gay masturbators that have balls instantly seem more realistic than their ball-less counterparts. Are you a fan of realism? If so, check this toy out!


FleshSack - The Best Fleshlight with Balls
Offering multiple textures inside and a big pair of dangly balls on the outside, the FleshSack is a toy that’s perhaps best described as a handful!

If You Prefer Non-Realistic Male Masturbators

Realism is great, but it’s not for everyone. Sometimes, you just want to be able to let your imagination run wild, free of limitations! If so, check out one of the gay male masturbators below.

Lovense Max 2

Lovense Max 2 - If You Prefer Non-Realistic Male Masturbators
Perfect for long-distance relationships (thanks to app control!), the Lovense Max 2 is a luxury masturbator that is perfect for singles & couples alike. Whether you’re syncing up to your favorite VR videos or just enjoying a more traditional session, the suction & vibrations of this toy will drive you wild!

Tenga Flex

Tenga Flex - If You Prefer Non-Realistic Male Masturbators
Simple yet effective, the Tenga Flex is a silky white masturbator that offers spinning stimulation to your sizable shaft. Come find out what suction and twisting textures have to offer (or read about it here)!

Lovense Gush

Lovense Gush - If You Prefer Non-Realistic Male Masturbators
App controllable, body-safe, and perfect for nearly any size of penis, the Lovense Gush is a vibrator masturbator that can be used hands-on or hands-off. With a runtime of nearly two hours and a completely submersible design, this toy is sure to get you off wherever you happen to be going!

How to Use Gay Masturbators

If this is your first time using gay masturbators then you might be a bit curious on how to go about the whole thing. No worries! Here is a quick outline of the general process that you would use for any masturbator toy.

Check Your Toy

Check Your Toy

Even if your toy is brand new, it’s always a good idea to check your gay male masturbators for physical damage. This will also give you time to get familiar with the general design of your toy (if you’re not already). From here, grab some lube!

Apply Lube

Apply Lube

You always need to use lubricant on a male masturbator. Don’t worry about adding too much or too little: you can always adjust this later on! To get started, I recommend applying lubricant first to the toy itself, and then to your penis.

Insert Yourself

Insert Yourself

Once everything’s been sufficiently lubricated, it’s time to penetrate your toy! From here, you’ll just have to experiment with your specific toy to find the best speeds, depth, and more. Have fun (and don’t be afraid to add more lube as needed)!

How to Clean Gay Masturbators

It’s a very straightforward process when it comes to cleaning gay masturbators. However, depending on your specific toy, it may be a bit time-consuming! Any masturbator can be cleaned using antibacterial soap and warm water. I recommend cleaning it once with soap and water, then washing away any leftover soap with water only. However, if your toy doesn’t contain any electrical components and is made of a non-porous material (like silicone), you can also sterilize it. To do so, simply drop the toy into a pot of boiling water for five minutes. Once you’re done cleaning and/or sterilizing your toy, pat it down with a towel and then leave it out to air dry completely before storing it away. Never store your gay masturbator away when it’s still wet, as the leftover moisture can cause unwanted bacteria to grow!


Unless otherwise recommended by the manufacturer, I always recommend sticking to water-based lubricants. These are completely safe to use, no matter the type of sex toy material you’re working with!

I would recommend stroker toys for complete beginners. Not only are these generally the cheapest option, but—since there are so many different stroker textures out there—it will also help you find your favorite type(s) of internal textures.

That depends entirely on your personal preferences! While some people may really enjoy these bonus features, others may find them a bit of a letdown. I always recommend trying a cheaper version of the feature you’re interested in before investing in a top-end model.

Being non-porous, silicone is undoubtedly the best material for gay masturbators. However, TPE is a far more common material. It’s still a high-quality material, but unlike silicone, TPE is porous. This makes it slightly less appealing (and makes cleaning much more important!).

That depends on a variety of factors, including the type of toy it is and how well you take care of it. Generally, though, you can expect to get at least a few years of use from your toy with proper aftercare.

What are Gay Masturbators?

Gay masturbators—or gay male masturbators—are masturbators that would likely be appealing to the average gay man. These toys often build upon or alter the “standard” stroker toy, such as focusing on anuses for the orifice or adding balls to a stroker. These toys can be made from a small variety of materials, but TPE is by far the most common material.

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