The 3 Best Strap On Underwear Harnesses

“I pranced around my room in the harness with the dildo hanging out. And as a transmasc non-binary person, the gender euphoria was next-level.” I chose the Wet For Her Boxer-Style Strap-On Harness as a test winner because they are a pair of simple, and super comfortable boxers you can use for all kinds of strap-on play and packing. The simple design also works as a gender-neutral strap-on harness! There is also a small pocket for a bullet vibrator if you ever feel like adding a bit more buzz to your experience, which I think is a great idea! One of the main reasons why I chose the Wet For Her Boxer Harness was its great review written by our tester Robin. As they said: “I’ve used the Wet For Her Boxer-Style Strap On Harness a lot since I first got it, and I’ve gotta say, I’m still as pleased with it as I was the first time I used it.” Robin highlighted that they were “thrilled with how well it fit [them] and how comfortable it was.” I especially like that there is an extra fabric layer between the dildo and your skin, which adds more comfort. One thing I have to point out is that usually, strap-on underwear harnesses don’t provide as much stability as the classic option, which means you will have to use your hand to adjust the dildo more often, and you should be careful with more intense thrusting during strap-on play. I would also stay away from large/heavy dildos as they might fall or flop around.

I picked the Lovehoney Strap-On Harness Briefs for those looking for simple and comfortable strap-on underwear on a budget. What I like the most about them is how versatile, and accessible they are. They have a pretty good range of sizes, and the design is gender-neutral, which I really appreciate. You can use them for all kinds of strap-on play, and they also turned out handy for packing! As a bonus, these harness briefs feature a small pocket for a bullet vibrator to add a bit more sensation! Our tester Vern, who tested the Lovehoney Strap-On Harness Briefs for us was impressed with the quality and design. They said that they are “comfortable, well-made, and are great for pegging, packing, and feeling sexy! They’re even promoted as unisex, which is great for gender non-conforming folks, like me, looking to get their sexy on!” Vern also pointed out that they enjoyed wearing them in a variety of ways! As they put it: “For packing, I love how these briefs have a small elastic, allowing better stability for the balls of my packer to stay in place! There’s also a piece of fabric that can be pulled aside for someone to be able to use a strapless strap-on, which stabilizes and adds more comfort to the toy.” One thing I have to point out is that these strap-on briefs aren’t best to use with large dildos, as they are not as stable as classic strap-on harnesses.

The Strap-On-Me Diva Harness is a unique product on the list! I’ve never seen such a beautiful and well-made strap-on harness, and I am sure it will be a perfect match for anyone looking for a sexier option for strap-on play! I am actually thinking about getting a pair of these myself because I know I would feel much more comfortable and natural wearing pretty strap-on underwear rather than a classic harness. I love the addition of lace, which makes it look softer and more feminine. The cutout design on the back is also a nice bonus, which adds to a sexier appeal! Our sex expert and tester, Isabelle, who had the pleasure of testing the Strap-On-Me Diva Harness loved everything about the design saying: “I love how comfortable the harness feels and how easy it is to slip on and off.” My partner in crime liked the design and liked that the harness looked like lingerie and had a cut-out back as it allowed me to also have some extra fun while wearing it!” I was happy to hear that the Strap-On-Me Diva also performed well in use. Isabelle said that “the dildo sits well in the harness,” however like it often happens with strap-on panties, she said that “it does require a little stabilization because the fabric can stretch as you thrust.” Overall, I think it’s a top-quality strap-on underwear that will be a great option for anyone who wants a more elegant look and a more natural feel. I love how the Strap-On-Me Diva Harness combines beauty with practicality. The addition of the cutout back and garter makes this harness much more versatile, and they will blend nicely with your underwear.