Dame Com — Test & Review

The look of the Dame Com is striking. The entire toy, head and body, is the soft silicone that Dame is known for. You can always point out a Dame product by their gentle pastel colors and silky-smooth feeling! Then, of course, there's that unique curve that hugs my body like nothing else. It's a beautiful design all around!

There are three buttons, one to turn the vibrator on and off that doubles as a way to change the toy's pattern, and two to change the intensity. There isn't a learning curve necessarily, but the smoothness of the buttons that melt into the rest of the silicone body, it took a few tries to find the right spots for the right change I was looking for. But it's perfect for those who may have mobility issues, as this toy will hug your body and is very easy to hold onto!

The Dame Com is so close to getting a perfect quality rating, but those buttons keep me from going all the way. They're a little tricky to figure out at first, and sometimes seem to get a little stuck as if it didn't read my pressure at first. But it is one of the quietest wands I've used, is sturdy and built to last, and feels like a great quality toy.

The price of this toy is NOT going to break the bank! When debating getting a Dame Com of your own, remember that you're getting a great quality toy for a fair price. It's not cheap, per say, at just under $90, but it's a price that shows its top-notch quality while being accessible to folks with varying budgets!

I wish the Dame Com had a slightly better battery life. At only an hour or so of run time I can get a couple of sessions in with it before it dies mid-use. Otherwise, it has a great vibration strength that is stronger than other Dame products while not being overpowering to the point of numbing my vulva and clitoris. It's not too loud, doesn't get too hot, and all around performs better than many of the toys I have in my arsenal!

I love Dame's gender-neutral packaging, but I have seen a slight downgrade in their packaging over time. While I love that their plastic is recyclable, my Com arrived with the plastic holding it being folded over, so my grand reveal was a bit of a bummer and made me worry about the quality of the toy. Still, after unfolding the plastic (with few blemishes, as seen in the image) and looking at the rest of the products in the box, I found it to be wonderfully well-done. I love the sticker and the pamphlet on demystifying sexual wellness and pleasure, as well as on how to get the most out of your Dame Com!

The Dame Com is lightweight for its size and made of body-safe silicone that's soft to the touch. It's totally waterproof, so you can easily clean it in warm water and soap, or just your choice of toy cleaner. It even comes with a cute storage bag for you to the toy into for safe keeping once it's been cleaned!