Wet For Her Union Strapless Strap On Review
Moira Callahan
Moira Callahan
| : | 26 |
| : | Intermediate |
| : | Female |
| : | Bisexual |
| : | Magic Wand Original |
- Love penetration
- Want to invest money in a high quality toy
- Are interested in strap-ons, pegging, or dual partner stimulation
- Are completely a beginner at toys
- Are on a budget
- Don't like penetration, or can usually only orgasm with intense clitoral stimulation
The Union is a double ended dildo with a bulb for insertion for one partner, and the dildo end for another partner. This toy has 10 vibrating speeds on both ends (three classic increasing intensities, and then 7 patterns). The bulb end also has a ridge for grinding your clit against during penetration, and it can also provide clit stimulation for your partner. I got the Union Small, so around 5 inches of insertable length, with the bulb being around 2 fingers or 2 inches wide. The toy is 100% silicone, and feels very well made and is very soft.
With a Partner
This was really fun to experiment with! This kind of toy is definitely for users who love penetration. It takes some getting used to clenching around the toy in order to support it without a harness, but once we got the hang of it, it was easy to keep inside. Based on the shape of the bulb, it sits fairly securely. We did occasionally reach down and adjust, or hold on to it. Additionally, if you would like the security of a strap-on harness, this toy is compatible with the Wet for Her Jock, Boxer or Brief Strap-Ons! The vibrations of the toy are rumbly, and not super strong, but enough that it definitely provides extra stimulation. We loved that the dual motor sits inside both the bulb and the dildo part, so there’s equal vibrations for both partners.Solo Use
This toy is also great for solo use! You can use it as a standard vibrating dildo; the ridge of the toy provides great clit stimulation and the bulb part can be adjusted for clit stimulation similar to a rabbit vibe. You can also insert the bulb end vaginally, and tug on the shaft for a more grinding-against-your-g-spot feeling. The shaft vs bulb girth is also pretty different, so if you might have a preference on which end feels better based on width.
I really enjoy the design of the Union. The adjustability for the bulb end and the dildo end gives it a high score for me, because these types of toys will really make it or break it for you based on shape. But because you can adjust it for your body type, I feel like the toy is pretty well suited for everyone. The ridge as I've mentioned above is also a nice feature that other double ended dildos don't have. I would say the only qualms is that for some people that the bulb might be too small based on how well they can grip the toy, but there is always the option to size up, as the Union comes in Small, Medium, and Large.
For use, I think the insertable parts are fairly self explanatory. I actually wasn't aware you could fully adjust the bulb and the dildo, so the first time I used it with a partner there was some position adjusting that needed to happen. Also the toy has one button to control the vibrations which isn't my favorite because of how tedious it can be sometimes to try to adjust. I would also not necessarily call this a beginner level toy, in terms of size, girth, and the adjustments you might need to make.
The Union is made of high quality 100% silicone, and is probably one of the softest toys I've ever felt. I've had the toy for almost a year, and feels very durable. The vibrations are less strong, and it is pretty loud.
So depending on the sales you can shop, it seems like Wet for Her sells this toy between $90-100. So compared to Fun Factory ShareVibe ($130-170) or Lovense Lapis ($130), I would actually say that it's on the cheaper side of double ended dildos, but it definitely doesn't feel like it. If you want a quality toy at a great price, I think this toy is it.
Wet for Her's website says "This enables you to choose the angle you want to give it to achieve a larger number of positions, want to go acrobatic, no problem, the toy will remain in position," which it definitely delivers on. The toy is very sturdy in that once you bend it into shape, it won't change shape while you're thrusting. The vibrations are a little less intense than what I'm used to, but they still felt good in terms of extra stimulation. They were a bit loud though, so definitely not a roommate or kids soundproof toy.
Unfortunately, I tend to rip open toys from their packaging and not save the manual or instruction guide, but from what I remember it came in a discreet white box and had clean, attractive looking packaging.
The Union can easily be cleaned with soap or toy cleaner. It did come with a silky bag for storage, however, still not very discreet so keep that in mind. You could also save the box for storage, but the name of the company is printed on the box so be aware.
| Vibration speeds | 3 |
| Vibration patterns | 7 |
| Length | 10 inches |
| Insertable length | 5.9 inches |
| Diameter | Receiver: 1.06 inches, Wearer: 1.38 inches |
| Flexibility | Very flexible |
| Adjustable | Yes |
| Materials | Medical-Grade Silicone |
| Waterproof | No |
| Battery Life | 90 minutes |
| Rechargeable | Yes |
| Charging Time | 150 minutes |
| Remote Controls | Compatible Wireless Remote Sold Separately |
| Travel Lock | No |
| Storage Bag Included | Yes |
| Colors Available | Black, Purple |
- Can be used solo or with partner
- Can be used with or without a strap-on
- Shaft is longer than other toys
- Expensive
- Vibrations are not super intense
- Might need adjusting based on you or your partner's bodies
This is my first strapless double dildo, and I don't think I'll ever go back! As a beginner in the strapless dildo game, this dildo is just enough width and length so it's pleasurable for both users without being overwhelming. This toy is obviously aimed at partner use, and it can take some getting used to using without the security of a strap-on (although this toy can be compatible with some straps, and Wet for Her does sell one!). This toy also is great for solo use, and the ridge at the end of the toy is perfectly made to provide some clit stimulation in addition to penetration.
