Have you heard of this magical hands free and penis free penetration toy but not quite sure what exactly strap ons are all about? Don’t worry, I’ll walk you through the basics. I will tell you what a strap on is, what people use it for and how! So strap in (yes, literally), and join me on this little introduction to the world of phallic attachments and harnessed fun!
Here are the points I will take you through in this post:
- What is a Strap On Actually?
- What Can You Use Strap Ons For?
- Types of Strap Ons
- Tips For Use!
- Cleaning & Care
What is a Strap On Actually?
Okay, let’s cover the basics! Basically, a strap on is a wearable dildo. Fastened to a harness on the lower body of the wearer. This can give you the option to play around with penetration and thrusting without having a penis! Complete penis free and hands free penetrative sex!
You can buy strap ons as a kit with everything included. Or buy the elements separately. You can pick out your preferred type of harness. Just make sure it’s compatible with your dildo of choice.
Some strap ons secure the dildo to the harness with an O-ring fastening. But strap ons with a vac-u-lock are also a good alternative for ultra secure fastening!
Get the right fit for you! Here, we have selected some of the best plus size strap on harnesses out there!
There are different types of harnesses in different kinds of material. Mostly body safe materials, such as leather, nylon, soft plastics, or thick cotton. Leather harnesses are a popular choice as they often don’t chafe, have breathable and adjustable designs. They also just look really cool! Also, underwear harnesses are less supportive but provide a more comfortable and natural feel.
What Can You Use Strap Ons For?
So who can use strap ons and on whom? Well, anyone who wants to can use them on anybody who wants to, really. Strap-ons are for unisex use, and anybody with the desire to play around with this fun attachment CAN!
Whether you’re a vulva-owner, penis-owner, or something in between, a strap on dildo can actually help you experience giving or receiving penetrative sex without an erect penis at your disposal! This way, strap ons are a great tool for…
- Gender affirmation
- Eretile dysfunction
- Double penetration
- Simulating oral sex.
They are great for both vaginal and anal penetration and stimulation. Curved dildos attached to your strap on harness are then great for stimulating g-spots in vaginas. Or for prostate stimulation during anal penetration of penis owners (also known as “pegging”).
Different couples’ constellations call for different types of strap ons with different features and designs. We’ve taken the liberty to select a few for a number of categories:
Types of Strap Ons
Although there are many different types of strap ons out there, I’ll just briefly take you through some of highlights!
Vibrating
Vibrating strap ons are usually made by including a vibrating element (like small bullet vibrator) within the product. This Tracey Cox strap-on, for example, has space for a small bullet inside the dildo. Other types make room for them on the inside of the harness to create some clitoral stimulation for the wearer.
The ones with some sort of built-in vibrating element also ripples out into the shaft, stimulating the receiver simultaneously!
Strapless
Strapless strap ons are designed for vulva-owners to have some dual stimulation harness free fun!
This type of toy, like the Desire Luxury Strapless Strap On, is secured by inserting a bulbed pony into the wearers vagina. The pony will move with every thrust and stimulate their g-spot (and will often include an element that stimulates the clitoris as well) thus providing ultimate pleasure for both parties involved and for several different erogenous zones!
Learn more about how to use a strapless strap on and find out if these strapless contraptions actually do work or not!
Hollow
Hollow strap ons are designed for penis-owners who would like to wear a strap-on sleeve around their penis to create a sizeable and firm extention of their member. This Doc Johnson Silicone Hollow Strap-On Kit comes with 4 different hollow dildos for different sizes and functions!
Hollows are also often used by people with erectile dysfunction or ejaculation problems.
Double Penetration
Double penetration strap ons are the ultimate treat for couples who want to fill two holes with one thrust! This Menage A Trois For Two Strap On from Sportsheets allows you to do just that!
Some of these toys are designed both for people with or without a penis. Simply use your own penis and attach a dildo underneath or use two different kinds of dildo for a varied penetrative double-stuffed experience!
There are also a few different variations of the classic strap on that might be of interest to you:
- Realistic strap ons are great if you want to create a realistic look and feel for both you and your partner. Ideal for gender affirmation or if you simply prefer a life-like aesthetic.
- Large strap ons are also a category in themselves! Looking for extra large fulfillment with your strap activities? These monstrosities will take you there!
- On the other side that spectrum we have thin strap ons. Slim and sleek, these dildos are perfect for strap on beginners, first time peggers, and also double penetration!
SpareParts Joque — Test & Review
Check out our own test and review of this SpareParts Joque strap-on harness!
This harness is compatible with dildos up to 2 inches in diameter with a flexible O-ring fastening.
Pockets on the inside of the harness make room for you to insert your own bullet vibrator to add to the fun!
Tips For Using a Strap On!
If you’re beginner, we have got plenty of material to guide you through this venture! Check out our basic guide on how to use a strap on and our favourite straps to get you started! We also have 7 tips for your first time use!
These attachable phallic wonders are good for vaginal, anal, and even oral fun. Depending on what you are looking to explore with your partner, there might be some things to consider while using these types of toys:
- Comfort – Always make sure the person receiving is comfortable with the sensations you are imparting as the giver. It can be difficult to know what the other person is feeling, so don’t hesitate to check in with each other along the way. Make sure everyone is always having a good time!
- Positions – Depending on what type of penetrative sex you are looking to plore with your partner, consider which positions are best for strap on sex. it is always a good idea to find a few good positions to start in. Even if you’re experienced or a beginner, using these devices can sometimes be tricky. The key is to start out with positions that create stability and control over the thrusting. Start slow and communicate about what is happening!
Cleaning & Care
Check out our blog post on how to clean a strap-on properly! Here’s the short version:
The Dildo
Cleaning your dildo depends on its material. Most dildos are mode of body safe non-porous materials like silicone, glass, steel, or ABS plastic. Clean them with a mild soap and warm water or with any sex toy cleaner.
If the dildo you’re using has some form of internal vibrator, be sure to check how waterproof the product is before submerging it!
The Harness
Cleaning the harness itself also depends largely on the material.
Wipe down your leather og vinyl with mild soap and water. Thick cotton and nylon harnesses go in the washing machine!
Remember to clean your toys straight after use to avoid them drying out and making them even harder to clean. Once clean and dry, be sure to store your dildo and harness correctly. Protect them from lint and dust until your next strappy adventure!
