The 9 Best Fleshlight Alternatives for Different Kinds of Delight

   Josh Gill
Fleshlights are good, but sometimes fleshlight alternatives can be better! I’m going to be talking you through 9 of the most incredible masturbators out there that will tease and please you to completion. And if that’s not enough, I have a few bonus fleshlight alternatives to keep you on your toes!
1 Test Winner

TENGA Flip Zero Masturbator

 TENGA Flip Zero

  • Love toys that are easy to keep clean
  • Want a toy with multiple sensations
  • Like be able to customise your mastubator

TENGA Flip Zero

  • Don't like the flip-open design
  • Have a larger than average penis
  • Are looking for a more affordable toy

Slip your schlong into this stealthy masturbator for thrilling sensations galore. Unlike standard strokers it opens like a book, revealing climax-inducing nubs, ripples and bumps, and meaning clean-up is a piece of cake. Just lube up, slide in and go! To use, simply open the Flip Hole and season generously with your favorite water-based lubricant. Close the masturbator, slide into the hole at the end and hey presto, you’re away!  Thanks to their truly innovative book-like designs, Flip Hole masturbators make lube application easy, and thorough cleaning a doddle.


  • Easy to clean
  • Great sensations
  • Simple to use

  • Too small for some
  • Relatively expensive
TENGA Flip Zero
MaterialsSoft plastic
Insertable length6 inches
Width(canal) 0.5 inches
Vibration modes5
RechargeableYes: via USB

Cleaning out sex toys can be a nightmare, but that’s where the TENGA Flip Zero really shines. It’s easy to use and even easier to clean! You’ll be buzzing at how small and discreet this toy is while offering a massive variety of sensations within its 6 inch length. I have to commend it on its fantastic internal sensations that really get the job done in a sexy and sensual kind of way. Will it be for everyone? No, if you’re blessed with a longer-than-average penis, then it may not fit. Also, if you’re on a budget, you might want to look elsewhere. But otherwise, there’s a lot to love here. But the number 1 feature of the TENGA Flip Zero is the ability to flip it open and keep it clean! It’s literally that simple!

2 Budget-Friendly

TENGA Original Vacuum Cup

 TENGA Original Vacuum Cup

  • Love manually stimulating yourself
  • Can't resist a deep-throat blow job
  • Are looking for an affordable fleshlight alternative
  • Like the idea of a disposable item

TENGA Original Vacuum Cup

  • Want a reusable toy
  • Prefer realistic openings
  • Don't like blowjobs or suction

Shaped with a pinched ‘waist’ for unparalleled tightness and lined with air valves to create a deep sucking sensation, the TENGA Original Vacuum Cup is a vacuum-fired deep-throat blow job you can keep on your bedside table for some easy fun. Taking advantage of the 15 years of engineering advancements since the original TENGA launch, the Original Vacuum’s celebrated design now features improved internal texturing for an even more sensational play session. Use the air hole at the end to augment its sucking sensations, while its rows of soft tendrils surround and engulf your erection in an immersive blow-job simulation. Plus, it’s pre-lubricated for your convenience and total pleasure.

  • Easy to use suction control
  • Full-sized cock masturbator
  • Pre lubricated
  • Great for on-the-go fun
  • Cheaper alternative

  • No additional vibrations
  • Can only be used a few times
  • Slightly pricey for a disposable item
TENGA Original Vacuum Cup
Insertable length5 inches
Diameter (internal)0.5 inches
MaterialsPE & TPE
IngredientsLube: Water, Glycerin, Propylene Glycol, Hydroxyethylcellulose, Sodium Polyacrylate, Phenoxyethanol, Methylparaben, Hydroxypropyl Beta Cyclodextrin, IPBC.
Condom safeYes

The TENGA Original Vacuum Cup attempts to replicate the sensual sucking sensation of a deep-throat blow job. Yes – it’s pretty high-tech for a disposable item! With its realistically textured inner canal, it will stroke you til you can’t hold back any longer! Our tester did enjoy the textures and the suction control feature, but didn’t feel like it felt super similar to an actual blowjob. It did feel good, and was an impressive fleshlight alternative, especially for a disposable product! However, it doesn’t feel quite as impressive and realistic as most multiple-use masturbators and fleshlight alternatives out there. The neutral opening of the Tenga Original Deep Throat Onacup features a lotion reservoir which keeps that insertion point wet making it super quick and easy to grab and go. The main issue is that it can only be used once, and cannot be cleaned out. This is a big downside if you enjoy this toy! However, if you use it with a condom, you can get away with using it a couple more times. That said, it is a slightly more expensive single-use item. The TENGA eggs are definitely cheaper, but this masturbation cup could be a step up from those if you’re looking to try something new!

3 Best for Beginners

TENGA Egg New Standard Pack

 TENGA Egg New Standard Pack

  • Want a small and discreet masturbator
  • Are a beginner to these kinds of toys
  • Want something that is affordable
  • you are on a budget
  • are a sex toy beginner and a looking for an easy masturbation upgrade
  • you adore clever marketing and packaging
  • you are looking for a single-use toy
  • you are a frequent traveler

TENGA Egg New Standard Pack

  • Are a more advanced masturbation toy user
  • Don't like the egg design
  • Want something a little more premium
  • you want something that will last a while
  • you are expecting a lot of variety between the "eggs"
  • your hands get tired easily

TENGA Egg New Standard Pack stimulation awaits within this pleasuring little egg, an orgasmic innovation from TENGA. Crack open the egg to reveal its soft internal sleeve, peppered with embossed hearts to deliver intense stimulation when stretched over your shaft. Packed into a petite and couple-friendly egg, the sleeve of the TENGA Eggs stretches up to 12 inches in length as you move it up and down your shaft to pleasure all sizes. A perfect Valentine’s gift and for romantic nights in and weekends away together, discreetly pop your TENGA Egg in your weekend bag or keep it inside your bedside drawer for pleasure whenever you please.

  • Small and discreet
  • Easy to use
  • Great for beginners
  • Completely portable

  • Too simple for more advanced users
  • No open-tip
  • "One-time" use
TENGA Egg New Standard Pack
LengthUnstreched: 2.4 inches
Insertable lengthStretches up to 7.8 inches
DiameterUnstretched: 1.9 inches
MaterialsSleeve: TPE, Packaging: Polyproplyene, Polyethylene
Storage Bag IncludedComes with individual shells and egg carton box

For sex toy beginners, there are few toys better than the TENGA Eggs. It quite literally looks like an egg, with a hard plastic outer shell hiding a soft plastic interior. It is easy to hold, and easy to use, making it perfect if you’ve never tried out a sex toy before. Is it going to be fore everyone? Nah, it’s a very beginner-friendly toy and more advanced users may find it a little tame and boring. But for those that are happy to use this kind of thing and enjoy not only how it feels but also how it looks, the TENGA Eggs is one of the best places to start.

4 Vibrating

Kiiroo Titan Interactive Masturbator

 Kiiroo Titan

  • Like vibrations on your penis
  • Love a hi-tech penis masturbator
  • Don't want to manually stimulate yourself
  • Want to sync up with adult movies while using the Titan

Kiiroo Titan

  • Are looking for something cheaper
  • Find it too complicated to use
  • Are happy with a manual stimulation toy

The Kiiroo Titan Interactive Masturbator represents the top-of-the-line when it comes to penis masturbation toys. It is a handheld stroker with touch-sensitive vibration technology. It features a real-feel sleeve and houses 9 bullet vibrators. These bullet vibrators intensify your masturbatory experience. The Kiiroo Titan Interactive Masturbator is the perfect penis stroker toy to expand on your masturbation techniques. Do not mistake this sex toy for a mere penis vibrator. Penetrate this designer pleasure product. You will find it is one of the best penis sex toys available right now. This interactive male masturbator is fully teledildonic. Play alone and enjoy the many different modes and speeds that the Kiiroo Titan Interactive Masturbator has to offer. Connect the Kiiroo Titan Interactive Masturbator to one of over 4,000 interactive videos on a range of different content platforms. Feel every movement made by your favorite stars, whether it is in 2D or VR.


  • Interactive
  • High-tech
  • Automatic
  • Straight-forward
  • Can connect to other toys and adult videos

  • Expensive
  • Too complicated for some
  • Can be hefty to hold during use
Kiiroo Titan
Vibration modesmanual - targeted and targeted power, and automatic - auto, pulse, blow, and endurance
Length8.7 inches
Insertable length7.5 inches
Width3.5 inches
Diameter (internal)1.8 inches
Openings1 Neutral Opening
MaterialsShell: ABS Plastic, Sleeve: TPE, Bullet Holder: NBR
WaterproofShell: No, Sleeve: Yes
Battery Life30-40 minutes
Battery Life180-210 minutes
Remote ControlsYes, Bluetooth-compatible
Travel LockNo
Storage Bag IncludedNo
Colors AvailableBlack

The Kiiroo Titan Interactive Masturbator is the future of masturbation and the porn-viewing experience! This high-quality toy literally thrusts you into the action. In every sense! The masturbator is super easy to control with buttons along the side where you can customize the various settings until you find one you can get into. People who are claustrophobic might not appreciate the sensation of wearing the VR headset as it can make you feel trapped. However, if you’re a tech head, the Kiiroo Titan Interactive Masturbator is a winner!

5 Cup

Lovense Max 2 App Controlled Masturbator

 Lovense Max 2

  • Want to have interchangeable sleeves
  • Love the interactive elements of this toy
  • Want a long-distance masturbator

Lovense Max 2

  • Aren't too tech-savvy
  • Don't have that kind of money to spend
  • Don't enjoy vibrations too much

Experience synced VR with the Lovense Media Player. Still boasting long-distance lovin’ thanks to its app and sweet suction adjustment, Max 2 has been enhanced with 360° contractions, more powerful vibes, improved sensors, and a longer-lasting battery. With an air pump designed to mimic muscular contractions, Max 2 is designed to deliver mind-blowing sensations with every stroke – explore 3 different contraction strengths. Want to hand over the controls to your lover? Download the Lovense Remote app and allow them to control Max 2 from any distance. With the app, you can sync your play with Lovense Nora or another Max 2, so you and your lover can share the bliss from any distance.


  • Powerful vibrations
  • Customizable
  • Good for long-distance fun

  • Loud
  • Tricky to clean
Lovense Max 2
MaterialsSoft plastic
Length9.5 inches
Insertable length6 inches
RechargeableYes - via USB
Battery Life210 minutes

The Lovense Max 2 App Controlled Masturbator is another interactive delight that allows you to engage in some erotic, automatic excitement. Great for long-distance relationships, this little beauty can be controlled via an app from anywhere in the world. Sure, the Lovense Max 2 App Controlled Masturbator might be a little too technical for those just looking for a cheap and quick thrill, but if you have the time and patience to make it work for you, I’m sure you’ll love what this toy has to offer!

6 Wings

Hot Octopus Pulse Duo Lux

 Hot Octopus Pulse

  • Love direct penis vibrations
  • Are suffering from erectile dysfunction
  • Want an automatic penis masturbator

Hot Octopus Pulse

  • Prefer a more fully encompassing penis toy
  • Are happy to manually stimulate yourself
  • Are looking for a quieter masturbator

Who wants to treat their tool right? You do! So explore the impressive strength and unbelievable satisfaction of the Pulse Solo Essential by Hot Octopuss, a rechargeable male vibrator that throbs with pleasure potential by the truckload. Intense sensation blasts out of the oscillating central plate that forms the core of Pulse’s patented PulsePlate technology. Simply slip your dong inside the spreadable silicone wings to enjoy a comfortable fit and embrace the 6 powerful patterns with 8 intensity levels each. Since you don’t need to be erect or even physically stroke to use it, it’s a great choice for anyone who experiences erectile dysfunction (ED) or struggles with mobility or grip.


  • Easily controlled
  • Strong vibrations
  • Waterproof

  • Kind of noisy
  • Expensive
Hot Octopus Pulse
Length4.5 inches
Vibration modesMultiple
Battery Life60 minutes

The Hot Octopus Pulse Duo Lux has a fun name, and I’m not going to lie, it’s a pretty fun and interesting toy. Design-wise it holds onto your cock with its two ‘winds’. The premium silicone feels great and natural, so you’re sure to have fun with it. If you have erectile dysfunction, then the Hot Octopus Pulse Duo Lux is a great choice, as it can clip onto even a flaccid penis. It really does make it easy to provide those direct vibrations exactly where they are needed. Downsides? Well, this toy is not the easiest to control, and it is fiddly to set it so it is just right. Also, because it is quite a tech-heavy toy, the price reflects that.

7 Twist

Tenga Flex Silky White

 Tenga Flex Silky White

  • Are looking for a small and discreet toy
  • Enjoy manually stimulating yourself
  • Want something that feels good to hold as well as use

Tenga Flex Silky White

  • Prefer some hands free fun
  • Aren't a fan of the twisting and twirling sensation

Lose yourself in flexible spiraling sensations! Find release with the Tenga Flex Silky White Masturbator. Tenga’s latest malleable material has allowed the creation of a brand new sensation! The Tenga Flex Silky White Masturbator’s spiral-ribbed casing has created spinning stimulation. Cover the air hole at the top of the item during use, and the toy will wind and unwind, creating a spiraling movement! Additionally, the malleable casing allows you to squeeze, twist and grip the item to directly change the stimulation to suit your desire! Silky white features softer internal details with gentle spiraling ribs that embrace with delightful suction.

  • Nice spiral design
  • Mid-priced toy
  • Easy to use

  • Not automatic
  • No vibrations
Tenga Flex Silky White
MaterialsTPE, ABS Plastic
Length6.93 inches
Insertable length6.85 inches
Width2.89 inches
asdSubmersible asd

If you’re looking for a toy that gives you the same sensations as a fleshlight while not actually being a fleshlight, then the Tenga Flex gives you some pretty cool options. You can either use it in the same way you would use a traditional fleshlight, or you can cover the air hole and push it up and down to create that unique spiraling movement. It feels soft and nice to hold, and the textures on the inside really do feel great whichever way you decide to use it. This toy just lacks something a little special that a lot of the other Tenga toys on this list have. I understand that some people won’t like the design or the textures – it’s an acquired thing – but for the most part it’s certainly a winner.

8 Double Ended

Arcwave Voy Male Stroker

 Arcwave Voy

  • Love the double ended design
  • You like the idea of adjustable tightness
  • Are looking for an open-tipped toy

Arcwave Voy

  • Want a full length penis masturbator
  • Like realistic masturbators
  • Are looking for a vibrating stroker

Designed to fit perfectly in the palm of your hand, Voy’s ergonomic shape makes it easy to handle and store discreetly, while the smooth CleanTech silicone envelops your member with superior softness. This cutting-edge material is hygienic, exceptionally durable and provides enough flexibility to accommodate most sizes. Equipped with a pleasure-inducing Tightness Adjustment System (TAS) – specific to Arcwave – the Voy can be adjusted within 8 different pressure settings to achieve the perfect fit and feel. Engineered to target the Merkel-Ranvier receptors (highly sensitive pleasure receptors) in the penis, the Voy applies just the right amount of pressure to your sweet spots, adding new waves of sensation to your regular masturbation regime.

  • Body safe materials
  • Compact size
  • Adjustable

  • A bit expensive
  • No vibration function
Arcwave Voy
Length7 inches
Width5.5 inches
OpeningsNeutral x2
Storage Bag IncludedYes

The Arcwave Voy Compact Stroker is an awesome product! Its biggest advantage is the soft and squishy CleanTech silicone coating and the ability to adjust the tightness for a more personalized experience. The sleek and elegant design makes it the perfect travel companion, and it’s great for solo sessions or spicing things up with a partner. If you want to take this bad boy into the shower, then that’s fine too – it’s completely waterproof! The Arcwave Voy Compact Stroker is made of premium materials, and has a high-quality build, which means that it’s perfect for fun wherever you go!

9 Realistic

Thrust Pro Mini Ella

 Thrust Pro Mini Ella

  • Love the realistic looks and feels
  • Want something that will take your full penis
  • Like the handheld, easy to stroke design
  • Want a masturbator that has a very tight feeling
  • Like the feel of a realistic toy
  • Are on a budget

Thrust Pro Mini Ella

  • Want something a little larger
  • Prefer toys with even more textures
  • Don't really care about realism
  • Are looking for a Fleshlight competitor
  • Have larger than average penis girth
  • Expect the highest quality possible

THRUST Pro Ultra Zoey pocket pussy has been crafted to look and feel just like the real thing. Plunge your manhood between the welcoming lips, experience a super-tight canal that embraces your full length, then ride out your fantasies to their explosive conclusion. Take solo play with Zoey up a gear by adding a bullet vibrator to the hole in the base, and always use with plenty of lube to ensure premium sensations. Ella can also be introduced to your partner to add a new dimension to couples’ play. Your partner can pleasure you with the masturbator as they would with their hand, or they might enjoy watching you use it to polish your pole.

  • Realistic looks
  • Sexy sensations
  • Easy to hold

  • May be too floppy
  • Not for those who prefer anal/oral
Thrust Pro Mini Ella
Length7 inches
Insertable length6 inches
Diameter (internal)0.5 inches
TextureBumpy, realistic
Weight9.8 lbs
MaterialsTPE, Hard Plastic
Storage Bag IncludedNo
Colors AvailableLight, Medium and Dark Skin Tones

If you – like me and so many other people do – value realism and authentic textures, then the THRUST Pro Ultra Zoey is going to send shivers up and down your spine. It will be able to take your full penis and caress it with its many internal textures. This tight pocket pussy has a lot to offer, no one can complain at how well it is made or how good it feels. The THRUST Pro Ultra Zoey itself is a little floppy to hold, though once you get stroking things start to feel incredible. It may take a few moments to get the hang of, but once you figure it out, you’re going to wonder how you ever coped without it!

Need an Alternative for the Classic Fleshlight Look?

The classic fleshlight can get a little boring, so here are a few alternatives that can spice them up a little bit!

Main Squeeze Lela Star Masturbator

Main Squeeze Lela Star Masturbator - Need an Alternative for the Classic Fleshlight Look?
Sexy brunette and #1 performer on Snapchat Lela Star joins the Main Squeeze lineup with a variable pressure hard-case stroker molded directly from her body. Handcrafted in lifelike ultraskyn, Lela’s Main Squeeze features a tight, textured interior that warms to the touch and feels just like the real thing. Play your favorite Lela Star scene and become her costar! Each ultraskyn sleeve features a different textured interior, making your experience as unique as each of our sexy Main Squeeze girls. The double-cap hard shell design doubles as a discreet travel and storage case, keeping your Main Squeeze fresh and ready for whenever the mood strikes.

Kiiroo FeelStars Victoria

Kiiroo FeelStars Victoria - Need an Alternative for the Classic Fleshlight Look?
Discover an incredibly authentic experience with the Victoria male masturbator. Featuring an anatomically correct, sculpted vulva, modeled on adult mega star, Victoria, this textured masturbator is the closest thing to doing it with the goddess herself. Formed in realistic-feeling TPE soft plastic and boasting a deeply textured canal, the Kiiroo masturbator gives you a truly authentic experience.

A Fan of Affordable Fleshlights?

Money can sometimes be as tight as…well, a vagina! So I totally get the need for an affordable fleshlight. Here are a few cheap choices!

Fleshlight Quickshot STU

Fleshlight Quickshot STU - A Fan of Affordable Fleshlights?
Trigger intense sensation with the turbulent SuperSkin textures of Quickshot. Pioneering Fleshlight’s first dual-orifice design, the clear masturbator’s open-ended sleeve comes fluted with non-anatomical nodules and chambers for potent stimulation. Engineered to invigorate manual pleasure or supplement oral strokes, move the unit from shaft to tip to experience the full breadth of sensation, watching yourself through the clear case and sleeve. Each end seals with twist-to-lock caps for simple storage, while the open design ensures easy cleaning. Keep one cap shut for shallow stimulation, then release to replicate the effects of a deep plunge.

Larger Realistic Masturbators for a Full-Body Fleshlight Alternative

If you want something that’s truly life-size and immersive, then may I suggest one amazing masturbator that will surely blow your mind (as you’re blowing your load)!

Thrust Pro Elite Alana

Thrust Pro Elite Alana - Larger Realistic Masturbators for a Full-Body Fleshlight Alternative
Meet Alana, a full-scale vagina and ass masturbator with a luscious rounded rear. Plunge inside her tight little ass or plump pussy lips – her two distinct ribbed canals offer twice the stimulation and twice the excitement. Get creative with your lady playground as you explore and enjoy her. Stroke her soft skin, squeeze her yielding flesh, spank her ass and then slip inside for the main event. You can check out my full review here!

How to use fleshlight alternatives

Lubricate yourself properly!

Lubricate yourself properly!

Fleshlight alternatives toys always work best when lubricated! Grab your favorite water-based lube and generously apply it to not only the toy, but also your penis. It’s far too easy to get cuts and friction burns and abrasions if not lubricated properly, and trust us – it’s no laughing matter! So get lubed up. You’ll thank us later!

Relax and take things slow!

Relax and take things slow!

We’ve all heard that saying; patience is a virtue. Well, we have to agree. Especially when it comes to fleshlight alternatives! More often than not you can’t just jump straight in, cock first; you have to take things slow and let your body accustomed and familiar with the toy you’re using. Relax and take it easy and soon enough you’ll be enjoying your fleshlight alternatives more than you would have ever thought you could!

Use your common sense!

Use your common sense!

Common sense is overrated, sometimes. But it’s always worthwhile taking a moment to stop thinking with what’s in your pants and instead use your brain. That can really help you heighten the moment. Unsure how to use something or what to do with your fleshlight alternative? Don’t just guess – try checking manufacturer’s guidance. It beats just jumping in and damaging the toy or – even worse – your cock!

How to clean fleshlight alternatives

Keeping your felshlight alternatives is important if you want to keep them sanitized, hygienic, and in tip-top condition. But how do you do that? Well, allow me to talk you through it now!


No, they're just different! It all depends on what you want out of your masturbation experience. Some people love normal fleshlight, while others strive to find something a little different. It's all good - you just have to figure out what YOU need!

As always, I would strongly recommend water-based lubes as they are body safe, won't damage your toys, and won't leave any residue when you're all done!

Sure, why not?! It's always fun when you can share a sexy experience with your partner! They make fun items for teasing and pleasing, and could be an invaluable part of foreplay!

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What are Fleshlight Alternatives?

Fleshlight alternatives give you a different option if you want to use something that is not a fleshlight! Sure, fleshlight are fun, but sometimes you just want something a little different to help you get your rocks off! That's where fleshlight alternatives really come into their own!

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