Fleshlight Ice Lady — Test & Review

   Jason Bragdon
May 30, 2023

Jason Bragdon
: 40
: Moderate
: Male
: Heterosexual
: Fleshligh Ice Lady

  • want a realistic masturbator
  • enjoy the best of the best
  • like to "watch"

  • are on a budget
  • don't want to spend time cleaning it
  • don't have a place to dry it properly

The Fleshlight Ice Lady is like the next IPhone, looks and sounds familiar, but with one killer feature. This is the Ice feature which adds more visual sensation to your play. The Fleshlight is the #1 selling male sex toy in the world and I'm going to tell you why the hype is real.

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My Experience

This was my first experience with a Fleshlight. I’ve used other masturbators in the past. Manual ones, portable ones, automatic ones, cheap ones, you get the idea.  But there is a reason why Fleshlight is the OG of male masturbators. Right out of the box you know this is different.  There’s a weight to it, not heavy, but substantial.  You can tell its solid and quality built. The look of the see through plastic shell and sleeve are mesmerizing. You move it around and the light catches all the different facets and grooves. It is an engineering marvel. Then you pull off the lid. Initially, it looks like a normal pussy masturbator, but then you touch it. It’s soft, almost sticky texture is a little worrisome at first. Once you add of the included Fleshlube water-based lube (thank you) you start to notice that this isn’t your normal masturbator from one of the random international sellers. This is special and it’s gonna be amazing.  And boy howdy, was it ever.

The Results

The variation in internal texture combined with the soft, squishy TPE (thermoplastic elastomer) sleeve made for one heck of a ride. It didn’t make me numb after awhile like some of my other masturbators. As you’re going, you can adjust end cap to allow more or less pressure which increases the suction sensation due to the vacuum that’s created. Then there is the visual side of things.  You wouldn’t think that being able to watch the action as its happening would be that much of a turn on, but the Fleshlight Ice material just added to my experience. Men are very visual creatures, so being able to see yourself during the action, just puts me over the edge.

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As before, the main draw here is the crystal, ice material used. The shell is completely clear and the sleeve is almost completely transparent. There is the screw on pressure cap at the end as well as the twist on storage cap. There are ridges on the outside of the shell to help with grip during those particularly exciting or messy sessions. It's a similar design to pretty much every fleshlight, except for it being clear. But hey, if it ain't broke!

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What is there to say here? Get yourself hard, twist off the cap, lube up and enjoy. It doesn't get much better or easier than that. You can warm the sleeve in warm water to make it "more realistic" but I found that it feels great either way.

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The top quality materials definitely differentiate the Fleshlight Ice Lady from its competitors. The thick shell and supple sleeve show the time and care that went in to make this product for me to enjoy. The weight of it also shows that it isn't made of cheap plastic. Also, with this being clear, if there were imperfections in the product, either shell or sleeve, you'd know it and this thing is immaculate.

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At around $80, I would consider this on the more expensive side for a manual masturbator. But the old saying, "you get what you pay for", really applies here. The quality of the build materials and the packaging definitely make this worth the price.

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Once you add the lube, you are off to the races. This thing feels like the real deal. It's soft, variable contoured interior could easily be mistaken for the real thing and with the quality craftsmanship, you will be using it for years to cum.

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The actual packaging definitely wasn't discreet but when you are getting a Fleshlight, who cares? The box was labeled well with all the specifications and need to know information. Inside, you find the Fleshlight securely in the packaging with the included instructions, a sample pack of water-based lube, a V.I.P. Card for free access to free videos and other information and the unit itself.

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The super, soft TPE feels great to the touch, at room temp or warmed up. Once finished just remove the sleeve and wash it with warm water and mild, unscented soap. The opening at both ends of the sleeve make cleaning out any water based lube and bodily fluids a breeze. Just make sure you got all the nooks and crannies. Once clean try to set it up right to let all the water drain out and it dry completely. After its dry, place it back in the shell, replace the caps and store it in a cool dry place until your next adventure.

Length10 inches
Insertable length9 inches
Width3 inches
Diameter (internal)0.75 inches
Weight1 lbs
MaterialsCase: Plastic, Sleeve: TPE (Thermoplastic Elastomers)
Colors AvailableClear

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The most obvious thing about this masturbator is easily its best and most special feature. Most fleshlights are the typical peach, pink, tan or brown color but this one is a clear Fleshlight. Now, you say “Jason, what difference does that make?” — most people think of sex just based on touch, but sex is a whole body experience using all 5 of the senses. Your vision is one of those and in combination with the touch, sound and even smell, it just puts it over the top. It adds a certain, je ne sais quoi that you can’t get with most other toys.  Consider all of that with the fact that its the #1 selling male sex toy with a slew of other options and accessories, and this becomes one of the best purchases you can make.

  • The shell makes it easy to store and travel with
  • Variable suction/pressure with end cap
  • Clear shell and sleeve for visual stimulation
  • Incredibly realistic

  • Pricey
  • Cleaning/drying can be cumbersome
  • Slightly heavy

I think it's important to state that this toy will not be for everyone. That being said, if you have a penis and enjoy orgasming either solo or with a partner, the Fleshlight Ice Lady will easily blow your mind. The build quality and materials are premium but so is the price. Take into account the clear, visual stimulation that is associated with it and you will be hard pressed to find another manual masturbator that will beat it. And taken care of, the Fleshlight Ice Lady will be pleasing you for many years to cum.

There isn’t a manual available online for the Fleshlight Ice Lady, but you can check my how-to guide above for tips.

Water-based lube is recommended as silicone lubricants can degrade the TPE.

Remove the sleeve from the shell and run it through/under some warm water. Use a mild, unscented soap to clean it and make sure any bodily fluids have been removed. Then let the sleeve air dry before inserting it back into the shell.

The shaft of the Fleshlight Ice Lady can handle up to a 9 inch long penis. Most humans will be able to enjoy with product without any problems.

Fleshlight is synonymous with male masturbators. Add in the visual aspect to the Ice Lady and you have a formula that can't be beat.