8 Best Dildos with Handles

The Tantus Echo Handle takes the cake as the Test Winner for this review. It has that classic handle design combined with a fun, non-anatomical shape, and premium quality materials. I had the pleasure of testing out the Tantus Echo Handle myself, and it has revolutionized solo play for me! Being able to grip comfortably around that long, flexible, ergonomic handle makes all the difference in the world when you’re thrusting away! Of course, the thick tip with a slightly pronounced tip does feel nice on the g-spot (which is probably I liked it). The smooth ridges along the shaft, however, weren’t as noticeable as I was expecting. I really appreciate that Tantus dildos are made of a special formula of “ultra-premium” silicone. They are 100% safe to use internally, easy to clean, incredibly durable and long-lasting with very little maintenance necessary. You can even sterilize it in various ways by either boiling it, bleaching it, or putting it in the dishwasher. All in all, this is a great quality dildo with handle. The price is great for something that both looks cool, is versatile and easy to use, and will last you a lifetime.

The Tantus Anaconda was a clear Runner-Up for me. It shares many similarities to the Tantus Echo Handle, like the flexible and ergonomic handle and the “ultra-premium” silicone. Of all the three Tantus dildos with handles that I tested, however, the girth and shape of the Anaconda was my favorite! This is really great for more experienced users who prefer something thick and solid. That said, this isn’t my absolute favorite overall because of the rough texture that the shaft has. That grippy texture from the handle actually continues up to the insertable bit. This makes it less comfortable to use for longer or more vigorous sessions. I found out that putting a condom on it helps with the friction, but, ideally, it wouldn’t be so rough in the first place. Still, the premium quality and the hyper-realistic design makes this dildo a pretty good contender. I like that it’s super easy to keep clean and sanitary and that it’s very durable and longlasting.

This glass dildo with handle is a simple and elegant toy. It only has a diameter of 1 inch which makes it extremely accessible for beginners. That said, the glass provides some pretty firm stimulation, so I’d say it’s significantly more intense than a slim silicone dildo. Our tester, Mike, tried it with his wife and concluded that “While it might not deliver the satisfying sensation of ‘fullness’ on its own, it transforms into an excellent accomplice when paired with oral or manual techniques.” The double-ended design (which is what essentially makes it a dildo with a handle) makes it versatile. Each end offers different sensations, and are more or less suitable for both vaginal and anal play. Whichever end you’re not using doubles as a handle that’s surprisingly easy to grip – even when covered in lube! Glass is one of my favorite dildo materials since it’s easy to use, compatible with all types of lube, great for temperature play, and easy to sterilize. I love that the curved tip on one end really targets the g-spot or prostate. It’s incredibly cheap for something so long-lasting, beautiful, and versatile.

The Tantus Goddess Handle is my top choice for beginners who need a good dildo with a handle. The Tantus Goddess Handle is very similar to the Tantus Echo Handle. They both even share that iridescent purple color. The main difference is the diameter and the shape of the shaft. Compared to the Echo’s 1.75″ in diameter, the Goddess is only 1.5″. Combined with the smooth surface of the silicone, this dildo is a lot more suitable for those who are new to using dildos or simply prefer less of a stretch. It’s perfect if you’re also into anal play! I was the lucky tester for this dildo, and I really enjoyed the unconventional shape. It stimulating but not too textured, and the non-anatomical design is fun and whimsical. Just as with the other dildos with handles from Tantus, I very much appreciate the ergonomic grip on the long handle. It’s super comfortable to thrust with, and provides a bit more insertable length. All in all, it’s another high quality option that’s both durable, long-lasting, and approachable for beginners who don’t want their hands to cramp up!

The Fun Factory Big Boss is my top pick for those want their dildo with a handle to come with rumbly vibrations. Now, this vibrating dildo is large and in charge (it even says it right there in the name). While our tester, Jess, was a bit intimidated by the size and first, she was put at ease when she first handled it and “realized how flexible and comfortable the toy was.” The shaft itself is made of soft silicone that isn’t as unforgiving as the silicone in the Tantus dildos. This means that it’s “perfect for finding different angles and speeds of play” The looped handle is made of firm ABS plastic and “is perfect for keeping a solid grip on the toy during play”. Even the raised buttons are easy to find and press. The Big Boss may look intimidating, but the design makes it easy to wield.

The We-Vibe Nova 2 is my top pick for those who love enjoying a blended orgasm from dual stimulation. This is a rabbit-style vibrator with a nice, wide base to hold onto, making it a lot easier to use on yourself or a partner without straining your hands or wrists. My favorite feature of the We-Vibe Nova 2 is the adjustable shaft and the flexible clitoral stem. As someone who has always had issues with rabbit vibrators not fitting my body, this customizable toy is a godsend! After testing it out for us, the We-Vibe Nova 2 quickly became Kasia’s favorite sex toy in her collection. The vibrations are incredibly rumbly in both motors, and the clitoral stem even feels like it’s tapping against your clit when at full blast. The app-controlled features take things up a notch and offer so much more versatility in use and interactive features.

I also had the pleasure of testing out the Strap-On-Me Bendable Strap-On Small myself. While it worked surprisingly well as a strapless strap-on, I want to focus on how well it performed as a dildo with a handle! For solo play, I had a blast with this little device. I tried using both ends for different kinds of internal stimulation. I quickly noticed how much easier it was to thrust the dildo when the opposite end doubled as a handle. The adjustable features actually allowed my to line up the bulbous pony with my clitoris. This way I could grind up against that while enjoying the dildo internally. Even though it’s a simple silicone construction without any vibrating bells or whistles, it was an amazing additional function! I would really recommend this to couples who use dildos regularly–both on each other or on themselves–and could benefit from this built-in handle. If those couples also have an interest in strap-on play or pegging (or might want the option to in the future), I highly recommend this product! Although, I would opt for a larger size if you’re an intermediate dildo user.

I picked out the njoy Pure Wand as my expert pick because it’s an amazing double-ended dildo that’s surprisingly easy to grip and control. As our tester, Isabelle, says in her review: “The weight distribution and curve take all of the hard work out of getting that deep stimulation exactly where you want it, and you only have to apply minimal pressure to get some incredibly intense sensations.” The combination of the weight, the firm steel, and that curved, bulbous design makes the njoy Pure Wand stand out among other dildos with handles: “The sensations I felt with the Pure Wand were quite unlike any other dildo I’ve used before.” That said, keep in mind that it gets slippery with lube! As amazing as it is, it also comes with a price tag to match the luxurious aesthetics and quality of the toy. So, it might not be for everyone, but it very much deserves an honorable mention.