8 Best Non-Phallic Dildos

   Katarzyna Halinowska
Personally, I am not a fan of realistic dildos. That’s why I know exactly what to look for when it comes to non-phallic dildos that still feel incredible! So, I’ve compiled a list of my top recommendations! All dildos in this review have been personally tested and reviewed by our Bedbible Tester Team. They’ve been rated based on quality, design, and ease of use to help you find the best dildo for your needs.
1 Test Winner

Lovehoney Sensual Glass Double-Ended G-Spot Dildo

 Lovehoney Sensual G-Spot Dildo

Lovehoney Sensual G-Spot Dildo

  • Double-ended dildo made of durable, borosilicate glass
  • Each end features a bulbous tip in different sizes
  • Slim and smooth shaft is curved for ideal g-spot or p-spot massage
  • Measures 1.4 inches in diameter at its widest point.

  • Great for intense g-spot or p-spot massage
  • Easy to clean and sterilize
  • Temperature play
  • Beginner-friendly

  • May be too heavy for some
  • Not compatible with a strap-on harness
Lovehoney Sensual G-Spot Dildo
Length10 inches
Insertable length8.5 inches
Diameter4.5 inches
MaterialsBorosilicate Glass
WaterproofYes
Storage Bag IncludedYes
Colors AvailablePurple

I picked out the Lovehoney Sensual G-Spot Dildo as the Test Winner in this review because it’s a great quality dildo that offers a good amount of intensity for a very affordable price! Glass dildos are a game-changer since the firm material provides amazing internal pressure. The particular size and shape of the Lovehoney Sensual G-Spot Dildo even makes it satisfying yet approachable for lots of different experience levels. Our tester, Karla, gave it an amazing rating. In her experience, “the weight and hardness of the glass provide intense sensations” that made it a joy to use for both penetration and nipple play. She particularly liked being able to experiment with temperature play by warming up or cooling down the dildo before use. Another amazing pro about glass dildos! While the double-ended design renders it unfit for use with a strap-on harness, it does offer some great versatility, since the two ends offer different sizes. The smaller one is also ideal for exploring beginner-friendly anal play!

2 Runner-Up

Tantus Cush Dual Density Dildo

 Tantus Cush

Tantus Cush

  • Dual density dildo with a solid silicone core and a soft, squishy exterior layer
  • Unique non-phallic design with a deep ridge about halfway down its shaft and a pronounced glans
  • Flared base makes it suitable for anal use and compatible with strap-on harnesses.

  • Dual density feels super lifelike
  • Beautiful gradient design
  • Premium quality silicone
  • Flexible and squishy

  • No suction cup base
  • Pronounced ridge can be uncomfortable for some
Tantus Cush
Length7 inches
Insertable length6.5 inches
Diameter1.75 inches
WaterproofYes
MaterialsSilicone
Storage Bag IncludedNo
Colors AvailableRose Quartz, Twilight

The Tantus Cush is a clear Runner-Up in this review. I love the beautiful gradient design, and the pronounced yet tapered tip, along with the raised ridge around the middle. This makes this simple dildo look just non-phallic enough while still providing a lifelike internal feel. The most important feature, however, is the dual-density; it is a life changer! Our tester,  Cassie, said the Tantus Cush has a “cushy, squishy, comfy feel,” which makes it “super comfortable to use in all sorts of ways.” She also pointed out that this dildo is ”stable and solid enough to provide some delightful internal massage yet comfortable to use for a longer period of time.” However, she did find that the pronounced ridge, while adding to the stimulation, did create more friction than expected, which just required extra lube. This wasn’t a deal-breaker but something to be mindful of. I do think the lack of a suction cup base is a slight letdown, especially considering the price point. Despite these minor drawbacks, I still think the Tantus Cush is a fantastic choice for those seeking a non-phallic, high-quality dildo.

3 Best for Beginners

Tantus Charmer G-Spot and P-Spot Dildo

 Tantus Charmer

Tantus Charmer

  • Slim, silicone dildo
  • Slightly ridged shaft for added stimulation
  • Flared base makes it suitable for anal use and compatible with strap-on harnesses.

  • Perfect size and shape for complete beginners
  • The ridges create a dynamic experience
  • Great size for anal play

  • May not be satisfying for experienced users
  • No suction cup base
Tantus Charmer
Length7 inches
Insertable length6.5 inches
Diameter1.2 inches
WaterproofYes
MaterialsPremium silicone
Storage Bag IncludedNo
Colors AvailableLavender, Sapphire, Copper

I think the Tantus Charmer is a great non-phallic dildo for first-timers. It’s significantly thinner and shorter than most other dildos in this review. The shape is also comfortable for beginners to use vaginally and for more experienced users to enjoy anally! Our tester, Isabelle, is pretty experienced so she pointed out that “the slightly larger head and slimmer shaft feel great,” but the slimmer shaft at the bottom left her wanting a “fuller feeling when using vaginally.” So, for those who are looking for a slimmer non-phallic dildo that can still grow with you as you level up, I think it’s a great option! The ridged shaft is designed to stimulate your G-spot and A-spot repeatedly as it moves in and out. They provide some dynamic stimulation during thrusting, especially during anal play! Performance-wise, Isabelle liked the ridged shaft, saying that they have “the slight feel of anal beads as the shaft is inserted but not as intense, and they add some subtle stimulation while the toy is inside as well.”  Overall, I think that the Tantus Charmer is a high-quality non-phallic dildo that many users will appreciate for its unique design. The only small issue is the lack of a suction cup base.

4 Budget-Friendly

Lovehoney Slimline G-Spot Sensual Glass Dildo

 Lovehoney Slimline Glass Dildo

Lovehoney Slimline Glass Dildo

  • Double-ended glass dildo with a smooth, slimline design
  • Made of 100% body-safe and non-porous borosilicate glass
  • Diameter of 1.4″ at its widest point.
  • One tip has a tapered and slightly curved bulb while the other is straight and rounded.

  • Simple but versatile
  • Great g-spot or p-spot massage
  • Temperature play
  • Compatible with all lubes

  • Can be chilly before use
Lovehoney Slimline Glass Dildo
Length8 inches
Insertable length7 inches
Diameter1.4 inches
FlexibilityNone
MaterialsBorosilicate Glass
WaterproofYes
Storage Bag IncludedYes
Colors AvailableClear

This super affordable, beginner-friendly dildo is one of my top recommendations for a non-phallic dildo that won’t break the bank. Although it may not look like much, glass dildos offer a lot of sensation because of how firm the material is. For this price, you’re getting a surprising amount of bang for your buck. Especially if you’re pretty new to using dildos! You got switch between the two different ends, depending on what shape you’re in the mood for. Also, the temperature-play option is a great addition that can easily spice things up both during external and internal use. Our tester, Ashley, gave this budget-friendly dildo an amazing review: “Let me tell you, I LOVE the Lovehoney Slimline G-Spot Sensual Glass Dildo! It’s slightly curved, so it’s the perfect toy to really hit your G-spot. The bulb curves into a thinner tip to really rub against it. The glass holds the cold very well, which I love!”

5 Expert Pick

njoy Pure Wand Stainless Steel Dildo

 njoy Pure Wand

njoy Pure Wand

  • Double-ended metal dildo 
  • Rounded tips for intense internal stimulation
  • Curved design targets the G-spot, A-spot, or P-spot
  • Suitable for anal play.

  • Provides super intense sensations
  • Great for squirting
  • Great for temperature play
  • Easy to clean and sterilize
  • Compatible with all lubes

  • No flared base or suction cup base
  • Can be a bit too heavy for some
  • Expensive
njoy Pure Wand
Length9 inches
Insertable length8 inches
Diameter1, 1.75 inches
WaterproofYes
MaterialsMedical-grade stainless steel
Storage Bag IncludedStorage case
Colors AvailableSteel

The nJoy Pure Wand takes the cake as my Expert Pick out of all the non-phallic dildos in this review because of the amazing performance. The unique shape with its perfect curvature expertly hits your G-spot or P-spot for a firm and intense massage (that may or may not make you squirt like never before). “The njoy Pure Wand absolutely deserves its place in the sex toy hall of fame.” Our tester, Isabelle, is absolutely in love with this dildo! She was impressed by the effect of the weighty feel and the unique shape: “The sensations I felt with the Pure Wand were quite unlike any other dildo I’ve used before. The curve gives the perfect angle to massage the front wall of the vagina (the most sensitive part) and target your g-spot without straining your wrist.” She also mentioned that she was surprised at how effortless this dildo is to use: “Not only was the pressure perfect for some of the best g-spot stimulation I’ve had with a dildo, but it was also so much easier to keep hitting the right spot at a steady rhythm for the amount of time I needed, which really is the magic combo!”  Because it’s made of steel, it is quite heavy, which is definitely a question of preference. Some may really like how the added weight assists in massaging the G-spot or P-spot, whereas others might find it tiresome to use, especially if they have grip issues. Keep in mind that this smooth and simple dildo gets very slippery with lube!

6 Best Textured Dildo

Maia Kendall Silicone Dildo

 Maia Kendall Dildo

Maia Kendall Dildo

  • Spiralled ridges on the shaft provide extra stimulation during thrusting
  • Bulbous head for impressive internal massage
  • Suction cup base
  • Harness compatible.

  • Intense and dynamic texture
  • Firm silicone provides great internal massage
  • Strong suction cup base

  • Can be a bit too firm for some
Maia Kendall Dildo
Length8 inches
Insertable length7 inches
Diameter1.75 inches
WaterproofYes
MaterialsSilicone
Storage Bag IncludedNo
FlexibilityFlexible
Colors AvailablePurple, Black, Blue

The Maia Kendall Dildo is a delightful option for those who appreciate a bit of texture and curve in their play. The size and shape is perfect for both vaginal and anal play, and the ridged shaft will provide extra stimulation with every thrust. Our tester, Jenay, said that the design of the shaft allowed her to “hit all the right spots while being easy to hold and maneuver.” However, she also mentioned that this dildo is “fairly firm to the touch,” which will be great for intense stimulation, but less comfortable for beginners. So, if you are looking for something with a little bit more give to it, I suggest opting for one of the more flexible options or one of the dual-density dildos on this list. Jenay was impressed with the strength of the suction cup, saying it stuck fast to the surface and wasn’t going to go anywhere, “ and that it was a great addition to the couple’s play, even in the shower! Overall, while it may not be the best choice for beginners due to its size and lack of vibrations, I think it’s an excellent option for intermediate users looking for a non-phallic, textured dildo!

7 Best G-Spot Dildo

Tantus Curve G-Spot Dildo

 Tantus Curve

Tantus Curve

  • Silicone dildo with a tightly curved shaft
  • Slightly tapered tip and a flared base
  • Firm silicone that’s slightly bendy and squishy.

  • Strong curve effectively targets the g-spot or prostate
  • Tapered tip for easy insertion
  • Great for using in a strap-on harness

  • The silicone has a bit of a rough, grippy texture
  • Requires a lot of lube
  • No suction cup
Tantus Curve
Length6 inches
Insertable length5 inches
Diameter1.37 inches
WaterproofYes
MaterialsSilicone
Storage Bag IncludedNo
Colors AvailablePurple

I chose the Tantus Curve for anyone who enjoys deep, targeted stimulation of the G-spot or P-spot. I think it’s particularly suited for those who enjoy a fuller feeling and are not complete beginners with penetrative toys. Our tester, Rachel, loved the design and how “the flexibility and slight squish make it comfortable to insert, but its firmness means it still provides the g-spot, a-spot, or p-spot stimulation you deserve.” I did notice that the matte texture of the silicone, while requiring generous lubrication, adds to the overall experience, providing a unique sensation that differs from some of the smoother toys on this list. Again, I’m not a fan of dildos without a true suction cup base, but I still think the Tantus Curve should get credit where credit is due. Its effectiveness in harness play, anal play, and solo use more than compensates.

8 Best Poseable Dildo

Fun Factory Limba Flex Medium Dildo

 Fun Factory Limba Flex

Fun Factory Limba Flex

  • Slim silicone dildo with a very tapered tip
  • Asymmetrical suction cup base
  • An internal wire allows you to bend it to any desired angle for a customized experience.

  • Holds its shape very well
  • Great for anal penetration
  • Stong suction cup base
  • Comfortable to use

  • Might be too slim for some users
  • There a bit of learning curve to master the poseable feature
  • The sanded silicone attracts hair and lint
Fun Factory Limba Flex
Length7 inches
Insertable length6.8 inches
Diameter1.26 inches
WaterproofYes
MaterialsSilicone
Storage Bag IncludedYes
Colors AvailableDeep Sea Blue

Unlike other non-phallic dildos, the Fun Factory Limba Flex is extremely poseable and holds its new shape pretty well. It’s perfect for discovering and exploring all the different angles that will push you over the edge! I think its design is great for beginners as well as more advanced users (especially for anal play) since it can be customized to your liking. According to our tester, Mike, the possibilities with this dildo are endless, and the idea of exploring something new every time is great: “We’ve explored various methods of using the Limba Flex M to keep things exciting. From sticking it to different surfaces for a hands-free adventure to using it by hand, the versatility of this toy has added a level of creativity to our intimacy.”  I was surprised to hear how strong the suction cup is. Mike even said it’s “too good at times,” which is rare with such a small dildo. This allows for some serious hands-free fun! The only small issue I found was that Fun Factory silicone likes to attract lint, which requires extra attention during cleaning, but that’s all!

How to Choose the Right Non-Phallic Dildo

Figuring out which kind of dildo would be best for you can take some time and experimentation. There are a lot of factors to consider: the size, girth, harness compatibility, safe for anal use, if balls are attached. When it comes to non-phallic dildos, you also need to think of what type of design you like and if it fits your fantasy. Check out some of my best tips on how to pick the perfect non-phallic dildo for you!

Things to Consider

If you’ve decided to buy a non-phallic dildo, you’ve undoubtedly realized that the options are near limitless! Of course, that doesn’t mean you should buy just any dildo, so here are a few factors to consider when picking out your new bedroom bestie.
  • Length – There are two lengths to consider here: the total length and the insertable length. Pay close attention to these, as the first one lets you know how much you’ll have to hold onto & the second measurement explains how deeply the toy can penetrate you.
  • Girth – Commonly measured in either diameter or circumference, this measurement simply states how wide the dildo actually is. Consider your level of experience (as well as how you plan to use the dildo) when comparing girth.
  • Material – As long as you choose a body-safe, non-porous material (like silicone, glass, or metal) then you’ll be good to go. However, the material you choose will affect the possibilities and limitations of your new toy in terms of rigidity or using different types of lube. Avoid using porous materials, like PVC, jelly, soft plastic, etc. since these aren’t safe for internal use as the material can harbor bacteria over time.
  • Shape – Non-phallic dildo shapes can get pretty creative, especially if you’re looking at fantasy dildos. Generally speaking, curved dildos will work best for g-spot stimulation, whereas straight dildos are more suited for size training.
  • Texture – The exterior texture of your dildo can make or break the experience. If you just prefer deep penetration then a smooth dildo may be fine, but people who enjoy intense stimulation should consider options like a ribbed dildo instead.
  • Flexibility – Your dildo will need a certain level of stiffness to be able to penetrate you effectively, but that doesn’t mean it needs to be “rock hard”. Silicone dildos are softer and more flexible, metal dildos and glass dildos are hard, and dual density dildos feel the most “lifelike” because of the solid inner core and the squishy, soft outer layer.
  • Features –  Some dildos offer additional features like flared bases (making them safe for anal use), suction cup bases, the ability to be posed, or added vibrations. Consider the available options and see whether they’re worth paying extra for or which features might be well suited for your needs.

Shape

Shape - How to Choose the Right Non-Phallic Dildo
  • Shape is incredibly important to think about before buying a non-phallic dildo.
  • If you’re unsure what shape to choose, think whether you like a filling feeling or prefer long dildos over girth.
  • If you’re new to dildos, make sure to look for ones with a tapered end for easy insertion.

Materials

Materials - How to Choose the Right Non-Phallic Dildo
  • Non-phallic or realistic, you should always go for dildos made of non-porous materials, like silicone, glass, metal, or even ABS plastic. The first three materials are most commonly seen in dildos and they’re also easy to clean and sterilize in boiling water.
  • Avoid porous materials since they aren’t actually safe for internal use. The microscopic holes in the surface of the material can harbor dirt and bacteria over time, making it unsafe for internal use. If you are using a dildo made of porous materials, at least slap a condom on it!

Texture

Texture - How to Choose the Right Non-Phallic Dildo
  • What makes non-phallic dildos amazing is that they are limitless in how they are textures.
  • Many unrealistic dildos have bulb like ridges. Or, as in the case of the SelfDelve Corn on the Cob dildo, a knobbly shaft provides constant pleasure.
  • If you’re unsure what you’ll like, it’s a good idea to start with non-phallic dildos that don’t have extreme ridges in them until you know what you like

How to Use Non-Phallic Dildos

Using non-lifelike dildos during your solo or couple sessions can majorly enhance the enjoyment of exploring different interests and kinks. But, how do you use non-phallic dildos?

Solo Sessions

Solo Sessions

Seems fairly straight forward, right? Non-phallic dildos are an amazing way to play out different kinks and fantasies in the comfort of your own space. If you’re unsure if you like the idea of using a lifelike dildo, unrealistic dildos are the ultimate compromise!

Couple Kinks

Couple Kinks

If you want to learn or show your saucy interests with your partner, non-phallic dildos are a great middle ground. Some people can be uncomfortable introducing a penis looking dildo into their couple sessions. No matter if you’re in a same sex couple or not! Not only that, why not grow your trust in each other even more by introducing some other-worldly or deep-sea fantasies?

Anal Adventures

Anal Adventures

Before using any toy, be sure that it’s safe for anal use! Discovering the pleasures of anal play is incredibly erotic. But, because of its sensitivity, it’s important to go small and slowly at the beginning. Until you’re ready to graduate up a level, that is! Make sure your non-phallic dildo is at least flared at the base. And if you fancy incorporating it until your couple play, check for its harness compatibility too!

How to Clean Non-Phallic Dildos

When it comes to cleaning non-phallic dildos, it's much like any other sex toy. It depends on the material is made from as there's a greater variety of choices with unrealistic dildos. If your dildo doesn't contain an electrical element, you can simply rinse it with warm soapy water and dry it gently with a towel. If it does have an unremovable electrical component, wipe the toy down with a warm, soapy cloth or with antibacterial wipes. And allow it to dry completely before storing away.

Cleaning different materials

FAQ

Water-based lube is an all-rounder and is suitable for all materials. As many non-phallic dildos are made from stainless steel and borosilicate glass, you have the option to use silicone-based lubes with those toys. Always follow the product's recommended lube type.

This is completely up to each person's preference. Stainless and borosilicate glass are both amazing materials for temperature play. But they're both heavier than their silicone counterparts so if you don't like that weighted feeling or have pelvic floor issues, these materials may not suit.

Anyone can use these toys. Each person has their own interests and kinks and these unrealistic dildos are designed to let you explore them. For many reasons, many people don't like the idea of using a penis-like dildo during their steamy sessions but they still want to experience that filling feeling. Non-phallic dildos are perfect for these times as well as for living out your wildest fantasies!

Nope! While it’s true that many dildos resemble penises, there are also many dildos that work great despite not looking like a real penis.

As long as the dildo in question has a flared base, you can use it anally! You should avoid using dildos anally that lack a flared base because these toys can be over inserted and require medical intervention to remove them from your anus.

What is a non-phallic dildo?

A non-phallic dildo is essentially a simple dildo that doesn't look like a real-life penis. Each unrealistic dildo will vary on how different it looks from a typical dildo shape. It could be ribbing along the shaft, a bulbous head, or even just the rigidity of steel or glass. Since they’re not limited to an anatomically accurate design, there are a seemingly unlimited number of designs for non-phallic dildos and the dimensions (length and width) vary widely. The world is your oyster when picking your new non-phallic friend!

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