The 5 Best Metal Dildos for Stainless Steel Satisfaction

   Isabelle Uren
Since the njoy Pure Wand landed in my hands, I’ve been a metal dildo convert! I’ve used my own experience with these stainless steel beauties, together with the reviews from the Bedbible tester team to select the very best metal dildos out there. I’ve included a lovely small metal dildo for beginners as well as huge metal dildo for more advanced tastes!
Test Winner

njoy Pure Wand

Test Winner

njoy Pure Wand

  • Great for G or p-spot stimulation
  • Weight is great for deep massage
  • Beautiful presentation box

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Best for Beginners

Le Wand Bow

Best for Beginners
The Le Wand Bow is curved to help achieve a g-spot orgasm.

Le Wand Bow

  • Ridges add sensation
  • Smaller end good for very targeted stimulation
  • Less intimidating than other dildos

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Best Beaded

njoy Fun Wand

Best Beaded

njoy Fun Wand

  • Beaded end is great for anal
  • Very different sensations from each side
  • Slim and beginner-friendly

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Most Realistic

Le Wand Arch

Most Realistic

Le Wand Arch

  • Creates more of a full feeling
  • Two very different ends for different sensations

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Biggest Metal Dildo

njoy Eleven

Biggest Metal Dildo

njoy Eleven

  • Provides stretch and extreme fullness
  • A marvel to look at and hold
  • Premium leather storage bag

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1 Test Winner

njoy Pure Wand

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 njoy Pure Wand

  • Love g or p-spot stimulation
  • Want to try temperature play
  • Enjoy firm sex toys
  • Want to explore squirting

njoy Pure Wand

  • Are a total beginner
  • Prefer more squishy toys
  • Are on a budget

  • Dual ended with two different size bulbs
  • Extreme curve
 

  • Great for G or p-spot stimulation
  • Weight is great for deep massage
  • Beautiful presentation box

  • Can catch on pubic bone
njoy Pure Wand
Length9 inches
Insertable length8 inches
DiameterSmall bulb: 1 inch, Large bulb: 1.5 inches
MaterialsMedical-grade stainless steel
Weight1.51 lbs
WaterproofYes
Storage Bag IncludedPresentation box

The njoy Pure Wand is an iconic sex toy that definitely lives up to it’s status! I got my hands on the njoy Pure Wand relatively early on in my sex toy reviewing career and it blew my mind! You might be wondering it has a slightly lower score than some others in the review even though it’s the the test winner, but it’s simple because it has so many more user reviews — hundreds compared to the others which have fewer than 10. There’s no doubt in my mind that this is the best metal dildo there is! Using the Pure Wand was a real G-spot awakening for me. I loved how deeply I could massage my G-spot because of the intense curve, rigidity, and weightiness of the wand. It was a sensation quite unlike I had been able to get with silicone dildos. I would absolutely recommend the Pure Wand to anyone looking for the best metal G-spot dildo! I will say the times I’ve enjoyed the Pure Wand most are when it’s been used on me by a partner, because it is heavy and can take quite a lot of work, but I still enjoy using it myself from time to time! The only slight downside is that I find it can catch on my pubic bone sometimes, but that’s more of a user error than a flaw with the dildo. The real icing on the cake for this beautiful metal dildo is the almost regal presentation box it comes in, with a silky pink pillow to place it on!

2 Best for Beginners

Le Wand Bow

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 Le Wand Bow

  • Love many different sensations from one toy
  • Desire a double-ended toy
  • Want something for g and p-spot play
  • Are open to temperature play

Le Wand Bow

  • Aren't looking for a ridged metal dildo
  • Have weaker hands

  • Double ended with different size balls
  • Swirling ridge around one end
  • Slight curve

  • Ridges add sensation
  • Smaller end good for very targeted stimulation
  • Less intimidating than other dildos

  • Not recommended for anal play
  • Ridges can be irritating for some
Le Wand Bow
Length8 inches
Insertable length7 inches
Diameter1.3 inches
Weight1.11 lbs
MaterialsMedical-grade stainless steel
WaterproofFully
Storage Bag IncludedYes
FlexibilitySolid
AllergiesLatex-Free , Phthalate-Free

Metal dildos can look quite intimidating, but that doesn’t mean they can’t be beginner-friendly! I love that the Le Wand Bow delivers all the amazing benefits of the other metal dildos on the market in a smaller size. Our tester, Rachel, was “blown away” by just how good the Bow felt. She really enjoyed having the smaller side to start with as it was less intimidating but really enjoyed that “the rounder end also felt like it was making much more contact with all the right spots inside” She found it was “great both for standard in-and-out thrusting, as well as a rocking motion” and appreciated that you“don’t have to exert a lot of force to get a lot of stimulation from it.” She wasn’t such a fan of the ridging as they could be a bit irritating, especially during more vigorous thrusting, so that’s something to keep in mind if you are very sensitive to textures. If I were choosing between the Bow and other metal dildos, I would go for the Bow if I wanted a small metal dildo for vaginal play. However, I would say the intense curve of the Pure Wand or Hoop are better for more intense G-spot stimulation and have the benefit of being anal safe.

3 Best Beaded

njoy Fun Wand

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 njoy Fun Wand

  • Want a toy that's designed for g-spot and p-spot pleasure
  • Enjoy the sensation of a beaded shaft
  • Want a metal dildo that's great for both anal and vaginal play
  • Like the idea of a versatile, high-end metal dildo

njoy Fun Wand

  • Prefer a bigger metal dildos with more girth
  • Don't enjoy the beaded design
  • Don't want a product that's also designed for anal use

  • Three tapered beads
  • One tapered bulbed end
  • S-shape curve

  • Beaded end is great for anal
  • Very different sensations from each side
  • Slim and beginner-friendly

  • May be too small for some
  • Could be intimidating for anal beginners
njoy Fun Wand
Materials316 graded alloy stainless steel
Length9 inches
Insertable length8 inches
Diameter0.75 - 1 inches
WaterproofYes

I chose the njoy Fun Wand as the best metal dildo for anal because of it’s slimmer, beaded design that’s similar to anal beads. The other end also has single bulb that’s fantastic for g-spot or prostate massage! Kasia reviewed the Fun Wand and commented that the “metal shaft’s weight and firmness felt amazing” Her favorite side was the single bulbous tip, as “it worked wonders on [her] G-spot.” She also “enjoyed the beads, even though the anal play is not [her] favorite thing” And luckily for us, Kasia also let her partner try it out to get a penis owners perspective, reporting that “He also really enjoyed the bulbous end” for prostate stimulation and he was even “close to finishing from penetration only.” Given Kasia and her partner’s experience with the Fun Wand, I would say this is a great all round metal dildo. I would go for this over other options if I wanted more precise stimulation or some interesting textural stimulation.

4 Most Realistic

Le Wand Arch

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 Le Wand Arch

  • Are new to stainless steel toys
  • Want to try g and/or p-spot play
  • Are interested in temperature play
  • Love thick, weighty metal dildos

Le Wand Arch

  • Want two very different sized ends
  • Have problems with strength in your hands
  • Need a lighter toy
  • Need an anal-safe metal dildo

  • Thick bulbed end with ripples
  • Flat tipped end
  • Light curve

  • Creates more of a full feeling
  • Two very different ends for different sensations

  • Heavier than other metal dildos
  • Not a big difference in size between the two ends
  • Not anal safe
Le Wand Arch
Length7.9 inches
DiameterFlat tip: 1.35, Bulbed tip: 1.4 inches
WaterproofYes
MaterialsMedical-grade stainless steel
Weight 1.87 lbs
Storage Bag IncludedYes

As much as the Pure Wand will always be my first love when it comes to metal dildos, the Le Wand Arch fills a niche with it’s thicker, bulbous tip. Unlike the Pure Wand that has a ball and then a thin shaft, the Arch is thick and bulbous, creating a wonderfully full feeling. It’s much closer to the feel of penetrative sex, only it’s the got the wonderful weightiness and glide of a metal dildo. Although, the Arch is double ended, I found that much preferred the thicker end to the flat tip. That being said, I can see it being enjoyable for g-spot or A-spot massage. The one downside to all that girth is that it does make the Arch heavier than most similar metal dildos on the market. The added weight isn’t all bad though, as in some positions it means gravity really gives you a helping hand, almost pulling the dildo back inside you.

5 Biggest Metal Dildo

njoy Eleven

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 njoy Eleven

  • Crave a thick metal dildo
  • Enjoy a satisfying stretch
  • Want two different types of stimulation
  • Might enjoy a very weighted dildo

njoy Eleven

  • Don't have experience with big dildos
  • Are on a budget
  • Have limited strength in your hands or arms

  • Extra long and girthy
  • Double-ended
  • Extremely weighty

  • Provides stretch and extreme fullness
  • A marvel to look at and hold
  • Premium leather storage bag

  • Will be too large for many
  • Very expensive
  • May be too heavy for some to manoeuvre
njoy Eleven
Length11 inches
Insertable length9.5 inches
DiameterSmall end: 1.75, Large end: 2 inches
WaterproofYes
Materials316 graded alloy stainless steel
Weight2.75 lbs
Storage Bag IncludedYes

I won’t lie, my jaw dropped when I saw the njoy Eleven. It is big and it is dominating! Our tester, Cassie, described it as “elegant, luxurious, sturdy, and just pretty darn impressive,” and I think that is the perfect description! She made sure to take her time with this massive metal dildo, but was actually “pleasantly surprised at how easy it was to use the smaller end of the toy.” She found that the bigger 2-inch end was a bit more of a challenge, but once inserted, “It provided a really nice feeling of being stretched out.”  As well as the intense sensations that the Eleven offers, I think a big part of the appeal is psychological, with the idea of being completely full and pushed to your limits being arousing for many people. Cassie and her partner certainly found that they were “both a bit excited to test [her] limits.” Based on the price and size of the Eleven, I wouldn’t recommend it to most people unless you are looking for the most advanced metal dildo on the market.

What Are the Pros and Cons of Metal Dildos?

While it might not be your first thought, metal is actually a fantastic sex toy material! Let’s take a look at why, and at the end, I’ll also share some cons because we want you to have the whole picture!

What’s so great?

If you’ve made it this far and still aren’t convinced about metal dildos, I’ve put together all of the reasons metal makes for an amazing dildo material!
  • It provides intense stimulation that doesn’t come from vibrations. Maybe you don’t like vibrations or just fancy a change but still crave intense sensations — hello metal dildo!
  • It’s easy to enjoy a deep, firm massage without needing to strain your wrist, as the weight does a lot of the work!
  • Stainless steel, which good quality metal dildos are made from, are is non-porous and non-toxic making it one of the safest sex toy materials.
  • They are easy to clean and can be boiled to be sterilized.
  • Metal dildos are extremely durable and could probably survive the apocalypse. Maybe they will be displayed in space museums as the last remaining artefacts of human civilisation — I hope so at least!
  • You can use any lube you like with a metal dildo, as it won’t react with the material.
  • It can be heated or cooled and holds temperature, making it the perfect temperature play accessory.
  • Metal dildos look sleek, elegant, and a little bit risky — a thrilling combination!

How to Identify Real Stainless Steel from Other Metal Sex Toys

There are a few different methods you can use to see if your sex toys are made from something other than genuine stainless steel. First, observe the toy itself. Is the surface of the toy smooth and shiny? If so, is the metal heavy? You may want to compare the weight of your toy to the weight in the listing. Rusting, staining, or discoloration are instant giveaways. If you see any of these then your toy isn’t made from stainless steel. You can also try rubbing a cloth dipped in isopropyl alcohol on your toy. If there’s a reaction—such as a residue–then it’s not stainless steel.

Different Types of Metal Dildos

In the following I will take you through the different types of metal dildos out there. Of course, that aren’t that much different other than mainly the different shapes – but picking out one it will do you good to know the differences.

Curved metal dildo

Curved metal dildo - Different Types of Metal Dildos
To be fair, most metal dildos actually have some curvature to it. It naturally just makes sense from a design and usage perspective to make it curved. However, some come with a very explicit curve making it optimal for g-spot stimulation, as you can get a “come hither” movement, by just moving the curved metal dildo back and forth making it automatically hit the g-spot.

Bulbous metal dildo

Bulbous metal dildo - Different Types of Metal Dildos
Again, a lot of metal dildos have som sort of bulbeous head which are meant to stimulate either the prostate or the g-spot. The bulb makes for a larger surface area that ensures it is easier to hit the exact right spot.

Double ended metal dildo

Double ended metal dildo - Different Types of Metal Dildos
On most metal dildos you will effectivly be able to use both ends. That is even if one end is shaped and meant to be a handle. If it works for you, it works for you. Typically one end of the dildo will be thicker or have different shapes and textures that the other giving you som flexibility, that is otherwise not really found in steel toys. Double-ended dildos are of the most common designs. They have two different stimulation ends, with either different sized heads or different shapes and textures. This gives you the ability to explore different sizes or sensations with just one toy! Remember that the insertable length won’t be the same as the full length of the toy as you use one end as a handle.

G-spot metal dildo

G-spot metal dildo - Different Types of Metal Dildos
Typically the curved metal dildos will be perfect for hitting that g-spot. In essense, the material itself (metal) is awesome because of the hardness. Which is also why, you will see most dildos in metal being shaped in a way that is meant to effectively stimulate the g-spot.

Beaded metal dildo

Beaded metal dildo - Different Types of Metal Dildos
A beaded metal dildo is typically made to target anal use. Similar to anal beads (just harder). Using metal anal beads will stimulate you rectum in a wonderful way. The advantage of the beads and dildo being out of metal is so that it is easy to insert and use in thrusting motions (compared to the typically softer anal beads). Plus, the feeling will be more intense due to the rigidity of the beads.

Electro metal dildo

Electro metal dildo - Different Types of Metal Dildos
Spicing it up with electricity is also an option, as some types of metal dildos have the option to give you electrical shocks. Also called electro metal dildos. They are for the more advances, but a metal dildo also works especially will as an electricity conducter and therefore perfect as an electro sex toy.

How to Use a Metal Dildo

Metal dildos are incredible toys to use and when you take the time to get to know them, and the effect on your body, you’re going to be reaching for them time and time again.

You Time

You Time

What could be better than a warm bath or shower and slipping between the sheets with your favourite steel dildo? Add some heat by warming up your metal dildo in a bowl of warm water, or excite your senses by cooling it a bowl of cold water. Lock the door, turn the lights down and enjoy!

Lube it up

Lube it up

The great news about metal dildos is that you can use any lube with them. Nothing is going to damage it. Another plus is that the smoothness of the metal really makes a difference with insertion, so only a touch of lube is needed.

Find your groove

Find your groove

Using a metal dildo for g or p-spot stimulation might take some practice. You’ll be feeling different sensations, especially if you’re incorporating temperature play. So take your time and get to know what works for you. The weight of steel dildos does help to add pressure to those sweet spots. Many people find that a rocking motion works better than a thrusting motion. Check out our ultimate guide to g-spot stimulation for more detailed instructions!

Where?

Where?

  • Most dildos can be used vaginally or anally. If it doesn’t have a flared base or handle anal play isn’t recommended. You’ll find that a lot of metal dildos are double-ended. They usually have one tip larger, or different sized, to the other.
  • If you do want to try both vaginal and anal play then remember to wash the dildo once it’s been used anally. This prevents harmful bacteria from being transmitted to the vagina.
  • The ridges and curves on metal dildos can also be used for massaging tired muscles and exciting erogenous zones.

G-Spot Stimulation

G-Spot Stimulation

When you stimulate your G-spot, you are actually stimulating the internal clitoral structure through the wall of the vaginal canal. Metal dildos make it easy to apply firm pressure and deep massage that many g-spots seem to love! Many vulva owners have found that this more intense stimulation has helped them to unlock g-spot pleasure and even have their first squirting experience!

  1. Angle your metal dildo towards your belly button — this is easiest with a curved metal dildo. You might feel like you need to pee, but don’t worry, this just means you’ve found the right place!
  2. Now you can explore different motions to see what works for you. Try rubbing the tip of the dildo back and forth or side to side over your g-spot, trace circles over it, or even lightly bounce the tip against your g-spot. The weight of the dildo means you won’t have to use a lot of pressure so start out gently!

A-Spot Stimulation

A-Spot Stimulation

The A-spot (anterior fornix erogenous zone) sits a little deeper into the vagina, nestled in front of the cervix. Much like the G-spot, A-spot pleasure is believed to involve stimulating the deeper parts of the clitoris. And, like all sexual stimulation, people experience it differently. Some can orgasm from A-spot stimulation, some find it increases arousal and wetness, and some don’t enjoy it.

  1. When you reach the back of your vaginal canal, slide the tip of your dildo in front of your cervix, so it’s resting against the front wall of your vagina.
  2. The A-spot responds to pressure so once you find it, allow the weight of your metal dildo to rest against it while you stroke the tip over your A-spot in whichever way feels best for you.

Anal Stimulation and Prostate Play

Anal Stimulation and Prostate Play

If you were assigned male at birth, you will have a prostate gland, a.k.a P-spot, that can be stimulated through anal penetration and can lead to incredibly pleasurable orgasms, often described as full body orgasms. Vulva owners, as well as stimulating the sensitive nerves around the anus, you can enjoy g-spot and a-spot stimulation during anal play, so it’s a fun for all activity!
  • Slowly insert the tip of your metal dildo. Take it slowly and use long, slow exhales to help you relax.
  • To stimulate your P-spot (penis owners) or G-spot (vulva owners), concentrate the stimulation a few inches in and towards your belly button. For A-spot stimulation, you want to go deeper, around 4-6 inches, and angle the stimulation towards your vagina.
  • Explore different stroking motions to figure out what works best for you!

Partner Play

Partner Play

Metal dildos are great to bring out for partner play. They’re a great warm-up toy for any gender and can be incorporated easily into sex play.

  • Combine oral sex with g or p-spot massage with your metal dildo.
  • Try some sensory play with different temperatures.
  • Introduce a blindfold to enhance your senses and intensify your experience while your partner plays with you.
  • You could also try some sex restraints for added excitement.

Tips for Maximum Pleasure With Your Metal Dildo

The rigidity and weight are what give metal dildos their magical powers but that also means you need to be a little more careful than if you were using a soft dildo.

  • Enjoy some foreplay. The more aroused you are when you insert your dildo, the more pleasurable it will be, so give your external erogenous zones some love and get your brain in the mood before diving in!
  • Heat it to body temperature first. While you are getting warmed up, let your dildo heat up to body temperature to avoid the shock of cold metal. You can put it under your body, in some warm water, or just hold it for a while.
  • Use plenty of lube. A slick of lube goes a long way with a metal dildo and creates a super smooth slide that feels just *chef’s kiss* delightful!
  • Take it slowly. Metal dildos feel more intense than silicone dildos so you won’t want to thrust as vigorously, especially in the beginning. Instead take it slowly and explore more massaging motions.
  • Enjoy some dual stimulation. Get even more of the good stuff by stimulating your clitoris, penis, or nipples while you use your metal dildo. This can also help you get to the big O if internal stimulation alone isn’t enough.

How to Clean Metal Dildos

It's important to clean your dildo after each use. The good thing is that cleaning metal dildos couldn't be easier as they're made of non-porous materials. There are a few different ways of cleaning metal dildos and it all depends on if they have any electronics within them. Solid metal dildos with no moving parts can be washed with soap and water, or a toy cleaner. They can also be boiled for a few minutes to sterilize them or put in the dishwasher. Metal dildos like the ElectraStim Wave are not waterproof and will need to be wiped down with a cloth after each use. Always check the manufacturer's instructions beforehand, just in case there are any different requirements for cleaning.

FAQ

They shouldn't be. They're very smooth and with a dash of lube they should be easy to insert. If you find it difficult it could be because you have too large a toy. While you're learning what you can do with a metal dildo start slowly and gently, you'll be surprised at how great they feel.

Steel dildos are very firm, solid in fact. If you're used to softer dildos then it could be a good idea to choose something that's smaller than the size you are used to. If you haven't used a sex toy at all before then there are some great beginner's steel dildos in our review.

It would be quite difficult to damage a solid steel dildo. They can become scuffed if they're dropped or if they scrape against something. If this happens try repairing the scuff with a metal polishing cream. Always follow the instructions and make sure that all excess cream is removed and wash with hot soapy water.

Metal dildos are ultra-smooth. They are highly polished and the finish means that you can use less lubrication with them. They can also be cold. The great thing is that they can be warmed up by putting them into a bowl of warm-hot water (test before using). They have no give in them at all and tend to be heavy. This means that the toy will do the work of pressing on your g or p spot, making stimulation a lot easier.

Stainless steel itself is a high-quality material. Creating the toys requires more intensive molding and manual labor than other materials, resulting in a higher cost to you. Metal dildos are an investment. With normal use, it will likely last a lifetime, so there will be no need to replace it.

Yes, they can be. Luckily they are temperature-responsive so it's very easy to warm them up in a bowl of warm or hot water. Make sure that you test the temperature of it before you use it. They can also be made colder by putting them in a bowl of cold water.

Take a look through our review and you'll find links to shops where you can buy the metal dildos that we've featured here.

Purely stainless steel sex toys are waterproof. However, for toys that contain electrical or other components, it can vary from toy to toy.

Temperature play is the practice of heating or cooling a sex toy as a form of sensation play. Stainless steel sex toys are great at this, as the metal quickly changes temperature!

That’s the best part of stainless steel sex toys: you can use them with any type of lube!

If properly cared for, stainless steel sex toys will last a lifetime (or more)!

What is a Metal Dildo?

Metal dildos and stainless steel sex toys simply sex toys that are made fully—or partly—of stainless steel and provide realy firm and weighted stimulation. They come in a variety of different forms, including dildos, butt plugs, prostate massagers, and even vibrators! They are incredibly temperature-responsive sex toys that can be used for fun temperature play both solo or with a partner. The weight of them presses beautifully on your internal erogenous zones and provide some intense massage. The harsh look and cold feeling also make them popular for BDSM play!

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