The 13 Best Metal Dildos for Stainless Steel Satisfaction

   Gail Hooper
I’ve reviewed and ranked 9 of the absolute best metal dildos you can buy. I’ve looked at every tiny aspect of them, and gathered first-hand reviews to base my rankings on! I’ve found metal dildos for beginners and more advanced players and options to suit every budget. Plus, I’ve made sure to include metal dildos for both anal and vaginal use! I’ve even dropped in some really handy hints and tips for how to choose the best metal dildo for and how to use metal dildos for all sorts of fun!
1 Test Winner

njoy Pure Wand

 njoy Pure Wand

  • Love g or p-spot stimulation
  • Want to try temperature play
  • Enjoy firm sex toys
  • Want to explore squirting

njoy Pure Wand

  • Are a total beginner
  • Prefer more squishy toys
  • Are on a budget

The njoy Pure Wand is a metal dildo that has reviewers raving about its design, presentation, workmanship and the incredible stimulation they’re getting from it. It’s even known as the squirting wand! The sensually curved shaft of this metal sex toy ends in a 1″ ball at one end and a 1.5″ ball at the other. It’s made of medical-grade stainless steel and is perfect for temperature play. The curved design and weightiness makes it easy to deliver intense g-spot or p-spot stimulation with minimal effort!  

  • Quality, design and presentation
  • Curved for G or p-spot stimulation
  • Weight is great for deep massage
  • Double ended-design
  • Very easy to clean
  • Feels outstandingly good

  • It is heavy
  • Looks a bit scary
  • Will hurt if you drop it on your feet
njoy Pure Wand
Length9 inches
Insertable length8 inches
DiameterSmall: 1 inch, Large: 1.5 inches
MaterialsMedical-grade stainless steel
Weight1.51 lbs
WaterproofFully
Storage Bag IncludedPresentation box
FlexibilityRigid

The njoy Pure Wand is cult classic metal sex toy for very good reason. The weighty balls nestle against your g-spot or p-spot beautifully and only need the slightest amount of pressure to deliver an intensely pleasurable, deep massage. The metal is beautifully smooth and only needs a small amount of your lube of choice to slide smoothly. It also holds temperature incredibly well! It’s pure and perfect. It may well be a little intimidating for beginners, the smaller ball is only 1 inch, which is suitable for most levels! That’s joy of having two ends to play with!

2 Cheapest

Desire Luxury

 Desire Luxury

  • Want an affordable metal dildo
  • Enjoy g-spot stimulation
  • Have a lower budget

Desire Luxury

  • Prefer vibrators
  • Want a larger head on a dildo
  • Prefer realistic looking dildos

The Desire Luxury g-spot stainless steel 7″ dildo is beautifully made and a joy to hold. It’s weighty and the metal is perfectly smooth and polished to perfection. It has slightly different curves at each end and the bulbous heads are also slightly different to give you both broad and pinpoint stimulation. Much fun could be had in finding out which is your favourite end. It’s made of medical-grade stainless steel, making it incredibly easy to clean and perfect for temperature play.

  • Beautiful smooth design
  • Different curves for different sensations
  • Super easy to clean
  • Doesn't look intimidating

  • Heads may not be large enough for some
  • Not for p-spot play
Desire Luxury
Length7.5 inches
Insertable length8 inches
Diameter1.1 inches
MaterialsMedical-grade stainless steel
WaterproofFully
Storage Bag IncludedStorage box
FlexibilitySolid
AllergiesLatex-Free , Phthalate-Free

Lovehoney’s Desire Luxury g-spot stainless steel 7″ dildo is a fantastic quality metal sex toy at a great price. If you’re new to the delights of stainless steel toys and/or temperature play, then this is great. The different curves and ends give you variety in your play as you find out what works for you. However, there isn’t much difference in the size of the heads and some reviewers have stated that they would have preferred a larger head on the metal dildo. For the quality, the pleasure and the cost, this stainless steel dildo does tick all of the boxes.  

3 Beginner

Le Wand Bow

 Le Wand Bow Metal Dildo

  • Love many different sensations from one toy
  • Desire a double-ended toy
  • Want something for g and p-spot play
  • Are open to temperature play

Le Wand Bow Metal Dildo

  • Aren't looking for a ridged metal dildo
  • Have weaker hands

The Bow is a luxurious double-ended metal dildo from Le Wand. It’s beautifully curved with ridges curling around one end, which add some textural stimulation. One end features a beautiful bulbous end, which is great to use as a regular dildo or g-spot stimulator. The other end is smaller and teardrop-shaped, it’s designed to delight your g or p-spot to perfection. The weight and curve of this metal dildo presses against your sweet spots, putting juicy orgasms within your reach.

  • Multiple sensations
  • Temperature play
  • Two very different shaped heads
  • Ridges for extra sensation

  • May be too heavy for some
  • Ridges can be irritating for some
Le Wand Bow Metal Dildo
Length8 inches
Insertable length7 inches
Diameter1.3 inches
Weight1.11 lbs
MaterialsMedical-grade stainless steel
WaterproofFully
Storage Bag IncludedYes
FlexibilitySolid
AllergiesLatex-Free , Phthalate-Free

Le Wand’s Bow has been designed with your pleasure in mind. It’s double-ended, with two very different tips, one has a spiral of ridges on the shaft leading up to it adding to the sensations. The spirals add some interesting texture but can get a little irritating when used for shallow stimulation. Of course, as with most other metal sex toys. it’s is on on the more expensive. However, this is an amazing quality stainless steel dildo for beginners who are ready to explore the world of firm internal massage.

4 G-Spot

Le Wand Hoop

 Le Wand Hoop

  • want something similar to the nJoy Pure Wand
  • love intense g-spot or p-spot massage
  • want something that's safe for anal play
  • like double-ended metal dildos

Le Wand Hoop

  • are on a budget
  • prefer a thicker metal dildo
  • have grip issues

The Le Wand Hoop is actually very similar in design to the nJoy Pure Wand. It’s double-ended with a strong curve. One end has a larger tapered bulb with a few subtle ridges on the shaft and the other end features a smaller bulb. This makes it perfect for reaching all those internal erogenous zones in the vagina or rectum. With the Le Wand Hoop, you’ll be able to provide some impressive stimulation to your g-spot, a-spot, or your prostate! Both the metal dildo and the packaging itself just screams luxury with the padded storage pouch and the small polishing cloth included!

  • High quality metal dildo
  • Extremely durable
  • Provides great g-spot or p-spot stimulation

  • Expensive
Le Wand Hoop
Length10.3 inches
DiameterLage bulb: 1.4 inches
DiameterSmall bulb: 1.3 inches
WaterproofSubmersible
MaterialsMedical grade stainless steel
Weight1.39 lbs
Storage Bag IncludedPadded storage pouch
AllergiesHypoallergenic

Our tester shared that the experience with the Le Wand Hoop was nothing short of eye-rolling ecstasy. The weight of the dildo, combined with its dramatic curvature, makes pinpoint G-spot massage incredibly easy and effective. I also really enjoy the versatility of this metal dildo as a tool for sensation play and teasing external stimulation. The sleek and unyielding design of the Le Wand Hoop looks and feels like a high-end sex toy. The two different ends provide varied sensations and allow for exploration of different uses. While I didn’t really notice the subtle ridges under the teardrop bulb during vaginal penetration, they might be more noticeable when used anally. The Le Wand Hoop is definitely a premium quality metal sex toy, and its price reflects that. It’s not the most budget-friendly option, but for those who enjoy firm internal massage and want a durable toy that will last a lifetime, it’s well worth the investment.

5 Double-Ended

Le Wand Arch

 Le Wand Arch Metal Dildo

  • Are new to stainless steel toys
  • Want to try g and/or p-spot play
  • Are interested in temperature play
  • Love thick, weighty metal dildos

Le Wand Arch Metal Dildo

  • Want two very different sized ends
  • Have problems with strength in your hands
  • Need a lighter toy
  • Need an anal-safe metal dildo

The Le Wand Arch is another double-ended stainless steel dildo that offers versatile stimulation. One thing that stands out is the sheer weight of it! Since this is a fairly thick metal dildo, it’s also a heavy hitter. This just adds to the stimulation and intensity of your thrusts. The shaft is gently curved to help angle the ends at your internal sweet spots. One head is small and flatter, with a bulbous head that’s perfect for g-spot or p-spot stimulation. The other end has a thicker shaft with a tapered tip and slightly ridged texture to stimulate the vaginal opening.

  • The weight is really satisfying
  • Deliciously full feeling
  • Great internal stimulation
  • One bulbed tip and one tapered tip

  • Could be too heavy for some
  • Not a big difference in size between the two ends
  • Expensive
Le Wand Arch Metal Dildo
Length7.9 inches
Diameter1.37-1.4 inches
WaterproofYes
MaterialsStainless Steel
Weight 1.87 lbs
Storage Bag IncludedYes

The Le Wand Arch is designed to please with its perfectly smooth body, slight curve, and two differently shaped ends to play around with. Compared to some of the other metal sex toys on this list, it’s pretty heavy! It’s a weighty beast which helps with stimulation as the Arch does most of the work for you. Although, if you struggle with hand or wrist strength then it might not be ideal. While the two ends are shaped differently, they are very similar in size, so that’s something to consider. I like that the size is approachable for beginners looking for more fun and still thick enough to satisfy some experienced dildo users.

6 Beaded

njoy Fun Wand

 njoy Fun Wand

  • Want a toy that's designed for g-spot and p-spot pleasure
  • Enjoy the sensation of a beaded shaft
  • Want a metal dildo that's great for both anal and vaginal play
  • Like the idea of a versatile, high-end metal dildo

njoy Fun Wand

  • Prefer a bigger metal dildos with more girth
  • Don't enjoy the beaded design
  • Don't want a product that's also designed for anal use

The njoy Fun Wand is another luxury metal dildo with a lot of sensation to offer. This stainless steel dildo has a smaller width and less insertable length. Perfect for beginners or those who simply prefer smaller beads and tips on their dildos. It has an elegant s-shaped curve with one side featuring a bulbous tip for pinpoint g-spot or p-spot stimulation. On the other side, you get ot enjoy the pleasures of a beaded shaft with three balls gradually increasing in size and intensity, while the tip is tapered for easy and enjoyable anal insertion and more p-spot massage. This double-ended dildo really does bring double the fun! Explore the differet sides and sensations, and share the joys with your partner as both a vaginal toy and an anal toy. Being stainless steel, it’s also great for temperature play.

  • Slim build is very beginner-friendly
  • Beaded side for extra sensations
  • Versatile design
  • Great couples' toy
  • Ideal for intense g-spot or p-spot stimulation
  • Beautiful storage case

  • May be too small for some
  • Slippery when lubed up
  • Be still be too intimidating for anal beginners
  • Expensive
njoy Fun Wand
MaterialsMetal
Length9 inches
Insertable length8 inches
Diameter1 inches
FlexibilityRigid
WaterproofYes
AllergiesLatex-Free, Phthalate-Free

I think the njoy Fun Wand is a great introduction to stainless steel dildos and metal sex toys in general. I personally love the beautiful design, and the unique double-ended two-in-one functionality. It also looks pretty non-threatening, because of the slim diatmeter and it actually being the smallest size dildo in njoy range. Our tester really loved how intense the g-spot stimulation felt with the more bulbous tip. She also very much appreciated the versatility in the shape and features of this dildo. While it was a favorite for vaginal play for her, her partner also really enjoyed it for anal play and experienced some very impressive prostate massage! While the beaded design wasn’t necessarily a favorite for them, they liked the varied stimulation it offered, and mentioned that it would be ideal for couples who also love to use anal beads but also want a dildo they both can enjoy! While I personally like that the other end works as a handle while using it, some reviewers online did find that the s-shape of this metal dildo made it more difficult to use for solo play. Overall, the njoy Fun Wand gets a lot of points for it’s versatility, high quality, and fr provided a lot of fun as promised! It’s perfect for beginners and those who find it difficult to play with some of the heavier metal dildos available.

7 Prostate Massager

njoy Pfun

 njoy Pfun

  • Love prostate stimulation
  • Want a designated storage box
  • Want a wearable prostate plug

njoy Pfun

  • Are looking for a vibrating toy
  • Prefer bendable anal toys
  • Need a larger or longer prostate massager

The njoy Pfun is a stainless steel sex toy designed with prostate pleasure in mind. It’s ergonomically curved to target that sweet sweet spot, and a practical loop handle to make it easy to control and anal safe! Like other toys from njoy, this metal sex toy is made from medical-grade 316 stainless steel. Polished to perfection and placed in a presentation box, this massager will be impressing you from the second you open the package! The massager itself offers 3.5 inches of insertable length with a maximum diameter of 1.25 inches. This size makes it approachable by beginners, while more experienced users can enjoy it for its satisfying weight and temperature play.

  • Made of medical-grade steel
  • Curved for prostate targeting
  • Comes with a storage box
  • Tapered tip

  • Only offered in one size
  • Nearly $100
njoy Pfun
Length4.75 inches
Insertable length3.5 inches
Diameter1.25 inches
Weight0.68 lbs
MaterialsStainless Steel

You can definitely use steel dildos for prostate pleasures, but I think my “Prostate Massager” pick will serve that purpose much better. Thanks to its curved shape, this toy reaches perfectly up the anus, hitting the prostate with ease. One thing I really like about this njoy product is that storage won’t pose an issue. The toy comes with its own presentation box! It’s both gorgeous and practical. Although somewhat expensive, the massager costs less than $100, which is always a plus for the “budget-minded”. It’s definitely a cheaper alternative to getting a full-sized metal dildo. Really, when it comes to downsides, the only one I can think of is the lack of sizing options. With a maximum diameter of 1.25”, the head is large enough to satisfy adventurous beginners. However, more experienced users will likely find it underwhelming. All in all, I’d recommend picking one of these up if you’re happy with the size offered and want something specifically designed to target your prostate!

8 Anal

Le Wand Swerve

 Le Wand Swerve

  • Want to take your anal play up a level
  • Enjoy a double-bulbous end
  • Want to try anal massage

Le Wand Swerve

  • Want something more geared to g-spot play

Le Wand Swerve is a targeted anal/p-spot metal sex toy. The double-bulbous end is designed to really push against and stimulate the p-spot (although it can also be used for g-spot play). It curves downwards in a delightful s-shape, culminating in graduated beads that are made for sublime anal massage. The largest diameter of this metal dildo is 1.3 inches, and the smallest is 0.42 inches and it weighs in at 1.14lbs of sleek stainless steel.

  • Multiple sensations from one dildo
  • Targeted p-spot and anal play
  • Can be suitable for g-spot stimulation
  • Beads are great for anal massage

  • It's heavy
  • Mainly geared towards p-spot and anal play
Le Wand Swerve
Length8.46 inches
Diameter 0.42 - 1.3 inches
Weight1.14 lbs
MaterialsMedical-grade stainless steel
WaterproofFully
Storage Bag IncludedYes
FlexibilitySolid
AllergiesLatex-Free , Phthalate-Free

Le Wand Swerve is a tailor-made prostrate and anal-play, sleek, smooth and sensual stainless steel dildo. With the multiple sensations that it offers, it’s guaranteed to your anal play to a new level. The larger end might be too big for beginners, but the anal bead end is more beginner-friendly. If you enjoy prostate and sphincter massage, this is the metal sex toy for you.  Although it is geared towards anal play, the bulbous head is also suitable for g-spot massage.

9 ElectraStim

ElectraStim Bi-Polar Electrosex Wave Metal Dildo 7 Inch

 ElectraStim Bi-Polar Wave

  • Have an ElectraStim unit
  • Are a beginner to electrosex

ElectraStim Bi-Polar Wave

  • Don't want to buy an ElectraStim unit
  • Want something specifically for g or p-spot stimulation

This ElectraStim Bi-Polar Wave metal dildo is a sensual 7 inches of glorious polished steel. Its sleek waves along the slender shaft will send shivers down your spine whether you use it with, or without the ElectraStim unit. The connectors are at the base of the unit and when attached, they send tingly pulsations wherever it touches your body.  At the base of the metal dildo are 7 insulating rubber rings. These prevent the pulsations from going into your hand, keeping them at your sweet spots instead. This metal sex toy is perfect for beginners in electrosex, however, the unit is sold separately.

  • A perfect dildo for electrosex beginners
  • Sleek waves add extra sensation
  • High quality product

  • It's expensive
  • The ElectraStim unit is not included
  • Not waterproof
ElectraStim Bi-Polar Wave
Length7.5 inches
Insertable length5.5 inches
Diameter1.1 inches
MaterialsMarine grade aluminium
WaterproofNo
Storage Bag IncludedNo
FlexibilitySolid
AllergiesPhthalate-Free

The ElectraStim Bi-Polar Electrosex Wave metal dildo is a beautifully designed dildo that works in conjunction with any ElectraStim unit. Once connected it sends tingly pulses wherever the metal touches skin. It can be used without the ElectrStim unit and the cool waves on the dildo feel fantastic regardless. It’s not waterproof, so care must be taken when cleaning it. It’s not worth the investment as a standalone metal sex toy, but coupled with an E-Stim unit it’s going to give you a completely different kind of sensation.

10 Big

njoy Eleven Double Ended Stainless Steel Dildo

 njoy Eleven

  • Crave a thick metal dildo
  • Enjoy a satisfying stretch
  • Want two different types of stimulation
  • Might enjoy a very weighted dildo

njoy Eleven

  • Don't have experience with big dildos
  • Are on a budget
  • Have limited strength in your hands or arms

The njoy Eleven is for anyone who wants something very large and in charge. This sleek silver whopper of a metal sex toy will leave you feeling satisfyingly stretched! At 11 inches long, this metal dildo will help you fulfil your very deepest desires. At one end, you have a textured shaft and tapered tip of 1.75 inches, and at the other, an even thicker, smooth shaft with a juicy bulbous tip measuring 2 inches in diameter! Each njoy Eleven comes with its very own premium leather storage bag with a beautiful magenta lining.

  • Big metal dildo for big sensations
  • Amazing craftsmanship
  • Comes with a premium leather storage bag
  • Satisfying weight

  • Will be too large for many
  • Very expensive
  • May be too heavy for some operate comfortably
njoy Eleven
Length11 inches
Insertable length9.5 inches
DiameterSmall end: 1.75 inches
DiameterLarge end: 2 inches
WaterproofSubmersible
Materials360 grade stainless steel
Weight2.75 lbs
Storage Bag IncludedYes

This is definitely one for the size royalty out there! The size of this metal dildo is intensified by the unyielding rigidity and the sheer weight of it! The construction itself intensifies the sensations with every small move! But, if you love stretching your limits and enjoy intense internal stimulation, then this big metal sex toy will knock your socks off! I also really love the both ends offer truly different sensations and sizes. The “smaller” end seems almost like a walk in the park compared to the *gulp* big one. Now, that one will msot likely require some serious warm-up. I definitely would not recommend this metal dildo to anyone who isn’t very experienced with girthy insertables beforehand! I think the quality of the product is outstanding — it’s hand polished to get the smoothest, shiniest finish and the leather storage bag adds an extra layer of luxury! The only real downside to this metal dildo is the price tag. Premium price for a premium quality product. It’s almost worth it’s own weight in coins! However,  if you love big sex toys and want to invest in your pleasure, the njoy Eleven is a winning choice!

11 Butt Plug

njoy Pure Plug

 njoy Pure Plug

  • Are new to anal play with metal sex toys
  • Want a high-quality plug
  • Enjoy temperature play

njoy Pure Plug

  • Prefer an anal dildo
  • Want additional features like vibrations or thrusting
  • Prefer soft, pliable plugs

Perhaps you’re intested in exploring anal play with metal sex toys but aren’t quite ready to take on a long and girthy metal dildo. Enter, the njoy Pure Plug! Loved by the team here at Bedbible as well as a ton of happy customers, these metal butt plugs come in three different sizes, so you can pick the perfect size for your level of experience. The plug is 100% waterproof, easy to insert, easy to clean, and has a bit of satisfying weight to it! Whether you’re a first-timer or an experienced anal plug aficionado, the njoy Pure Plug  is a plug you’ll surely enjoy!

  • Offered in multiple sizes
  • Comfortable to wear once inserted
  • Warms up quickly
  • Wide base with loop handle

  • Tip could be more tapered
  • Expensive
njoy Pure Plug
Length2.75 inches
Insertable length2.25 inches
Diameter(widest point) 1 inches
MaterialsStainless Steel
WaterproofYes
Weight7 oz. lbs
FlexibilityNone
Storage Bag IncludedNo, but has a storage box

I like that the “Small” size of this plug is quite versatile. With a maximum diameter of just under an inch, this stainless steel toy is sized perfectly for the complete beginner. While it’s approachable for beginners it still delivers a fulfilling weight for more experienced users. I love that the base of the plug is looped, making it easy to insert or remove the toy. The body of the plug offers three inches of insertable length, so you still get to experience a tad of depth. Another benefit of this brand of stainless steel anal toys? They come in their own storage case, ensuring you’ll be able to keep your brand-new piece safe and protected from the outside world. However, this premium experience does come at a cost. With even the small plug costing nearly $100, these toys definitely aren’t for the budget-conscious. That said, if you can swing it and really want to invest in a high-quality plug, the njoy Pure Plug is a metal sex toy that won’t leave you disappointed.

12 Beaded

Desire Luxury Beaded

 Desire Luxury Beaded

  • Enjoy textural stimulation
  • Love the weight of stainless steel toys
  • Want something for g and p-spot play
  • Fancy a stainless steel dildo at a great price

Desire Luxury Beaded

  • Prefer a smooth wand
  • Have weak hands

The Lovehoney Desire Luxury beaded stainless steel dildo is elegant, beautifully designed and made for g and p-spot play. The 6 bulbs of steel feel sensational as they are inserted and removed and provide a rippling internal massage. Plus, they can be warmed or cooled to your pleasure. If you use it for anal play, it’s recommended to use the larger bulb as a handle and make sure to keep the last couple of balls outside of your body. For g-spot play, the choice is yours. Being stainless steel, it is weighty but that adds to the sensation as it presses against your g-spot. It’s an amazing metal sex toy if you love different sensations as the beads give an extra thrill whether you use it vaginally or anally.

  • Beaded design adds more sensation
  • Great price for a metal dildo
  • Sensation play - beads and temperature
  • For both g and p-spot play

  • It's heavy, but nicely so
Desire Luxury Beaded
Length8 inches
Insertable length6.5 inches
Diameter1.59 inches
MaterialsMedical-grade stainless steel
WaterproofFully
Storage Bag IncludedStorage box
FlexibilitySolid
AllergiesLatex-Free , Phthalate-Free

Lovehoney have excelled themselves with their Desire Luxury beaded stainless steel dildo. The price, the materials, the design, all add up to an incredible toy. It might be a little thick for beginners but if you are more experienced the size can be very satisfying. The beads are what make this metal wand stand out from the others. The thick beads add a whole extra layer of stimulation as you move the dildo. Not surprisingly the reviewers are loving it. If you’re looking for some new sensations to add to your collection, this would be a fabulous investment.

13 Vibrator

Crave Vesper

 Crave Vesper

  • Like the idea of a sexy accessory
  • Want a very discreet metal sex toy
  • Enjoy strong and precise vibrations

Crave Vesper

  • Want an insertable toy
  • Need a waterproof vibrator
  • Don't need something wearable

Alright, alright! I am very well aware that this is not technically a metal dildo. It is however a metal sex toy that offers delicious and discreet vibrations! The Crave Vesper is a sleek and elegant vibrator that doubles as a necklace. I mean, style and pleasure do go together. Available in silver, rose gold, and 24k gold, this slimline pendant houses a small but mighty motor, offering discreet vibrations on the go. It features three intensity settings and one pulsation setting, with a USB charger for easy charging. Despite its petite size, it delivers surprisingly strong vibrations and a touch of glamour while you’re at it!

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  • Doubles as jewelry
  • Small but powerful
  • Discreet and portable
  • Different vibration modes to explore

  • Not waterproof
  • No travel lock
  • Pricey
  • Short battery life
Crave Vesper
Vibration speeds3
Vibration patterns1
Length3.8 inches
Diameter0.5 inches
WaterproofSplash-proof when fully assembled
Materials316 stainless steel
RechargeableYes
Battery Life40 minutes
Charging Time90 minutes
Travel LockNo
Storage Bag IncludedYes

While the Vesper’s design is undoubtedly chic and it functions impressively as a vibrator, its short battery life and the fact that it’s not waterproof does deduct some points form the overall score. I don’t think it’s the most practical choice for everyday use or for those who prefer deep, rumbly vibrations. However, as a sexy accessory and for those who enjoy pinpoint stimulation, the Vesper shines! In summary, I do find the Crave Vesper to be an innovative product that offers both style and pleasure. It’s a great choice for those looking for a discreet vibrator with a touch of luxury. While it may not replace more traditional vibrators for some, its elegance and effectiveness make it a noteworthy addition to your metal sex toy collection (or your outfit for date night!).

Metal Butt Plugs and Anal Toys

If you love anal play, here are some sleek metal butt plugs! Get yourself ready, add a dash of lube, relax and enjoy.

Rosebuds Butt Plug

Rosebuds Butt Plug - Metal Butt Plugs and Anal Toys
The Rosebuds Butt Plug is a beautifully crafted stainless steel sex toy with a lovely Swarovski crystal shining from the base! It features a wonderfully smooth, bulbed tip, thin neck and a wodnerfully satisfying weight to it.

Lovehoney Jewelled Metal Butt Plug Set

Lovehoney Jewelled Metal Butt Plug Set - Metal Butt Plugs and Anal Toys
This set of three different sized metal butt plugs is sure to dazzle with their sparkling jewelled bases. Starting at a gentle 1.1 inches in diameter these smooth tapered plugs increase in size to 1.4 inches and then a generous 1.6 inches. Ideal for anyone who wants to progress in their anal play and loves a little sparkle.

Aneros Tempo Stainless Steel S2 Anal Stimulator

Aneros Tempo Stainless Steel S2 Anal Stimulator - Metal Butt Plugs and Anal Toys
A gorgeously sleek stainless steel sex toy. The Aneros Tempo S2 is going to take your anal explorations to new heights. It’s petite so is perfect for beginners to anal play and ideal for prostate massage. With it being stainless steel you can also begin your adventures into temperature too. The Tempo plus oral sex equals the perfect combination for mind-blowing orgasms.

Metal Vibrators For Some Extra Buzz N' Rumble

If you love the cold hard feel of metal but don’t want to give up your favorite vibrations, I’ve got just the thing! A metal vibrator! Here are some of my favorites!

The Doxy Die Cast

The Doxy Die Cast  - Metal Vibrators For Some Extra Buzz N' Rumble
Not only is the Doxy Die Cast the most powerful wand vibrator on the market, it’s also housed in a stone cold aluminium titanium allow case for a durable build that’s also sexy as hell! While the body is made of metal, the head is made of soft silicone, so you can enjoy the extreme power in comfort! Find out more in our in depth review of the Doxy Die Cast.

The Doxy Bullet

The Doxy Bullet - Metal Vibrators For Some Extra Buzz N' Rumble
If you crave the coldness of metal directly against your sensitive spots, this bullet vibrator from Doxy is the way to go! It may be small but it certainly packs a punch!

Types and Sizes of Metal Dildos

Small metal dildos are a great option for anyone new to penetrative play or anyone looking for a metal dildo for anal use as the anus isn’t as stretchy as the vagina. Also, the weight and rigidity of metal dildos can make them feel more intense than a dildo made of a softer, lighter material like silicone. Small metal dildos tend to be under 6 inches in length and have a slimmer shaft or smaller ball. Large metal dildos are best for those who already have some experience with large sex toys and enjoy the feeling of being stretched as they tend to be thicker in diameter. Again, the rigidity will make this feel more intense as the dildo won’t give against your body. It’s also recommended to warm up with a smaller toy if you are exploring particularly girthy metal dildos. Double-ended dildos are of the most common designs. They have two different stimulation ends, with either different sized heads or different shapes and textures. This gives you the ability to explore different sizes or sensations with just one toy! Remember that the insertable length won’t be the same as the full length of the toy as you use one end as a handle.

What Are the Pros and Cons of Metal Dildos?

While it might not be your first thought, metal is actually a fantastic sex toy material! Let’s take a look at why, and at the end, I’ll also share some cons because we want you to have the whole picture!

Temperature play

Temperature play - What Are the Pros and Cons of Metal Dildos?
Stainless steel or any kind of metal is a fantastic temperature conducter. This means, that it will heat up or cool down easily. And that is a fantastic ability for a sex toy for one reason – you can play with the temperature. For example by putting it in the fridge or in hot water – more on that later.

Hits the right (g) spot perfectly

Hits the right (g) spot perfectly - What Are the Pros and Cons of Metal Dildos?
A metal dildo is hard, which means that it is the perfect material for super precise and strong internal stimulation. This makes a metal dildo one of the best types of g-spot dildos out there. If you are interesting in getting good g-spot stimulation you can also consider buying a g-spot vibrator. And lastly, a metal dildo will also make as a fenomenal prostate massager.

Easy to clean

Easy to clean - What Are the Pros and Cons of Metal Dildos?
Metal is a non pourus material, meaning that cleaning and using it is super easy. You can also boil it to sterilize it completely. Unlike silicone you will likely not experience lint and other stuff sticking to it.

Added weight

Added weight - What Are the Pros and Cons of Metal Dildos?
The added weight allows you to achieve more intense, deep stimulation with less effort!

Smooth sensations

Smooth sensations - What Are the Pros and Cons of Metal Dildos?
Metal dildos are lovely and smooth, meaning you are less likely to experience drag or friction when using them! Just a small amount of lube will keep things moving smoothly.

Compatible with all lubes

Compatible with all lubes - What Are the Pros and Cons of Metal Dildos?
Unlike silicone dildos, metal dildos can be used with all kinds of lubricants. So if you prefer the added slip of silicone lube, a metal dildo is a great choice!

Practically unbreakable

Practically unbreakable - What Are the Pros and Cons of Metal Dildos?
Metal dildos are about as sturdy as it gets when it comes to sex toys! If you take good care of them, they will last a lifetime!

Easy storage

Easy storage - What Are the Pros and Cons of Metal Dildos?
Metal dildos can be stored in a box or bag without fear of it getting damaged. Although, you might want to be careful not to damage other sex toys in your drawer of box by dropping your metal dildo on it!

What are the cons of metal dildos?

  • Some find the weight too intense
  • They tend to be expensive (but they do last)
  • If you don’t like cold sensations, you will need to warm it before use
  • The weight might be difficult for some people to manoeuvre, especially for those with any hand or wrist issues

Temperature Play - Getting Hot and Cold

Temperature play is a type of sensation play where hot and cold objects or substances are used to stimulate and arouse the skin. If you want to enhance your experience even more, try it with a blindfold and/or bondage. Metal dildos can be heated or cooled and hold the temperature well, making them an ideal tool for temperature play!

Hot stuff!

Hot stuff! - Temperature Play - Getting Hot and Cold
Heat your metal dildo in some warm (not hot water) and then use it to explore your or your partner’s body! The added heat will help relax your muscles and encourage blood flow for enhanced sensitivity! Plus, the spreading warmth feels deliciously sensual!

Cold as Ice!

Cold as Ice! - Temperature Play - Getting Hot and Cold
Place your dildo in the fridge or in some chilled water for some tingly fun! The sharp cold will wake up your senses and create an intoxicating contrast with the warmth of your body!

Dildo Materials Comparison — How Does Metal Measure Up?

Silicone tends to known as the ‘best’ dildo material as it’s soft, non-toxic and non-porous, but other materials, like glass, metal and ABS plastic, are also non-toxic and non-porous and have their own uniquely pleasure qualities. Plus, there are some materials you should avoid for safety reasons! You’ll notice that glass and metal dildos share a lot of the same qualities, here’s a more detailed post about glass vs metal when it comes to sex toys.

Silicone

Silicone - Dildo Materials Comparison — How Does Metal Measure Up?
  • Can range from soft and squishy to firm
  • Non-porous
  • Can be boiled to be sterilised (as long as there are no electrical parts)
  • Non-toxic
  • Comes in a wide range of colors
  • Only compatible with water-based lubricant

Borosilicate Glass

Borosilicate Glass - Dildo Materials Comparison — How Does Metal Measure Up?
  • Non-porous
  • Non-toxic
  • Can be sterilised
  • Can be heated or cooled
  • Beautiful designs with many different colors
  • Compatible with all lubes
  • They are strong but can break
  • Compatible with all lubes

Metal

Metal  - Dildo Materials Comparison — How Does Metal Measure Up?
  • Non-porous
  • Non-toxic
  • Can be sterilised
  • Compatible with all lubes
  • Weight adds extra stimulation
  • Can be heated or cooled
  • Very difficult to break or damage
  • More limited colors
  • Can be too heavy for some
  • Can be expensive

Dildo materials to avoid

Dildo materials to avoid - Dildo Materials Comparison — How Does Metal Measure Up?
These materials are either porous (meaning they have tiny holes for bacteria and mold to grow in), and they can contain harmful substances, such as phthalates.
  • Rubber
  • Jelly
  • Soft-plastic
  • Own brand realistic flesh
  • PVC
TPE/TPR is non-toxic but it is porous so should be avoided for insertable toys like dildos.

How to Identify Real Stainless Steel from Other Metal Sex Toys

There are a few different methods you can use to see if your sex toys are made from something other than genuine stainless steel. First, observe the toy itself. Is the surface of the toy smooth and shiny? If so, is the metal heavy? You may want to compare the weight of your toy to the weight in the listing. Rusting, staining, or discoloration are instant giveaways. If you see any of these then your toy isn’t made from stainless steel. You can also try rubbing a cloth dipped in isopropyl alcohol on your toy. If there’s a reaction—such as a residue–then it’s not stainless steel.

Different Types of Metal Dildos

In the following I will take you through the different types of metal dildos out there. Of course, that aren’t that much different other than mainly the different shapes – but picking out one it will do you good to know the differences.

Curved metal dildo

Curved metal dildo - Different Types of Metal Dildos
To be fair, most metal dildos actually have some curvature to it. It naturally just makes sense from a design and usage perspective to make it curved. However, some come with a very explicit curve making it optimal for g-spot stimulation, as you can get a “come hither” movement, by just moving the curved metal dildo back and forth making it automatically hit the g-spot.

Bulbous metal dildo

Bulbous metal dildo - Different Types of Metal Dildos
Again, a lot of metal dildos have som sort of bulbeous head which are meant to stimulate either the prostate or the g-spot. The bulb makes for a larger surface area that ensures it is easier to hit the exact right spot.

Double ended metal dildo

Double ended metal dildo - Different Types of Metal Dildos
On most metal dildos you will effectivly be able to use both ends. That is even if one end is shaped and meant to be a handle. If it works for you, it works for you. Typically one end of the dildo will be thicker or have different shapes and textures that the other giving you som flexibility, that is otherwise not really found in steel toys.

G-spot metal dildo

G-spot metal dildo - Different Types of Metal Dildos
Typically the curved metal dildos will be perfect for hitting that g-spot. In essense, the material itself (metal) is awesome because of the hardness. Which is also why, you will see most dildos in metal being shaped in a way that is meant to effectively stimulate the g-spot.

Beaded metal dildo

Beaded metal dildo - Different Types of Metal Dildos
A beaded metal dildo is typically made to target anal use. Similar to anal beads (just harder). Using metal anal beads will stimulate you rectum in a wonderful way. The advantage of the beads and dildo being out of metal is so that it is easy to insert and use in thrusting motions (compared to the typically softer anal beads). Plus, the feeling will be more intense due to the rigidity of the beads.

Smooth metal dildo

Smooth metal dildo - Different Types of Metal Dildos
If you like a very smooth surface on your internal sex toys those are also made of metal. They are less popular, but I have come across some, that do still work quite well. For some people the textures of many of the metal dildos can be a bit to much, making the smoother option a lot nicer!

Electro metal dildo

Electro metal dildo - Different Types of Metal Dildos
Spicing it up with electricity is also an option, as some types of metal dildos have the option to give you electrical shocks. Also called electro metal dildos. They are for the more advances, but a metal dildo also works especially will as an electricity conducter and therefore perfect as an electro sex toy.

What’s So Great About Metal Dildos?

If you’ve made it this far and still aren’t convinced about metal dildos, I’ve put together all of the reasons metal makes for an amazing dildo material!
  • It provides intense stimulation that doesn’t come from vibrations. Maybe you don’t like vibrations or just fancy a change but still crave intense sensations — hello metal dildo!
  • It’s easy to enjoy a deep, firm massage without needing to strain your wrist, as the weight does a lot of the work!
  • Stainless steel, which good quality metal dildos are made from, are is non-porous and non-toxic making it one og the safest sex toy materials.
  • They are easy to clean and can be boiled to be sterilized.
  • Metal dildos are extremely durable and could probably survive the apocalypse. Maybe they will be displayed in space museums as the last remaining artefacts of human civilisation — I hope so at least!
  • You can use any lube you like with a metal dildo, as it won’t react with the material.
  • It hold temperature, making it the perfect temperature play accessory.
  • Metal dildos look sleek, elegant, and a little bit risky — a thrilling combination!
Glass dildos and other glass sex toys share a lot of these amazing qualities with metal ones. If you aren’t sure which one to go for, check out this post on glass vs metal sex toys.

Where to Buy the Best Metal Dildos

If you are sold on metal dildos but want to see some more options before committing to the one, here are some of the best places to buy a top-quality metal dildo. Remember, always shop from trusted, reputable sex toy stores to make sure you are getting not only a great metal dildo but also great customer service and care! Click on the links below to see more amazing metal dildos:  

How to Use a Metal Dildo

Metal dildos are incredible toys to use and when you take the time to get to know them, and the effect on your body, you’re going to be reaching for them time and time again.

You Time

You Time

What could be better than a warm bath or shower and slipping between the sheets with your favourite steel dildo? Add some heat by warming up your metal dildo in a bowl of warm water, or excite your senses by cooling it a bowl of cold water. Lock the door, turn the lights down and enjoy!

Lube it up

Lube it up

The great news about metal dildos is that you can use any lube with them. Nothing is going to damage it. Another plus is that the smoothness of the metal really makes a difference with insertion, so only a touch of lube is needed.

Find your groove

Find your groove

Using a metal dildo for g or p-spot stimulation might take some practice. You’ll be feeling different sensations, especially if you’re incorporating temperature play. So take your time and get to know what works for you. The weight of steel dildos does help to add pressure to those sweet spots. Many people find that a rocking motion works better than a thrusting motion. Check out our ultimate guide to g-spot stimulation for more detailed instructions!

Where?

Where?

  • Most dildos can be used vaginally or anally. If it doesn’t have a flared base or handle anal play isn’t recommended. You’ll find that a lot of metal dildos are double-ended. They usually have one tip larger, or different sized, to the other.
  • If you do want to try both vaginal and anal play then remember to wash the dildo once it’s been used anally. This prevents harmful bacteria from being transmitted to the vagina.
  • The ridges and curves on metal dildos can also be used for massaging tired muscles and exciting erogenous zones.

G-Spot Stimulation

G-Spot Stimulation

When you stimulate your G-spot, you are actually stimulating the internal clitoral structure through the wall of the vaginal canal. Metal dildos make it easy to apply firm pressure and deep massage that many g-spots seem to love! Many vulva owners have found that this more intense stimulation has helped them to unlock g-spot pleasure and even have their first squirting experience!

  1. Angle your metal dildo towards your belly button — this is easiest with a curved metal dildo. You might feel like you need to pee, but don’t worry, this just means you’ve found the right place!
  2. Now you can explore different motions to see what works for you. Try rubbing the tip of the dildo back and forth or side to side over your g-spot, trace circles over it, or even lightly bounce the tip against your g-spot. The weight of the dildo means you won’t have to use a lot of pressure so start out gently!

A-Spot Stimulation

A-Spot Stimulation

The A-spot (anterior fornix erogenous zone) sits a little deeper into the vagina, nestled in front of the cervix. Much like the G-spot, A-spot pleasure is believed to involve stimulating the deeper parts of the clitoris. And, like all sexual stimulation, people experience it differently. Some can orgasm from A-spot stimulation, some find it increases arousal and wetness, and some don’t enjoy it.

  1. When you reach the back of your vaginal canal, slide the tip of your dildo in front of your cervix, so it’s resting against the front wall of your vagina.
  2. The A-spot responds to pressure so once you find it, allow the weight of your metal dildo to rest against it while you stroke the tip over your A-spot in whichever way feels best for you.

Anal Stimulation and Prostate Play

Anal Stimulation and Prostate Play

If you were assigned male at birth, you will have a prostate gland, a.k.a P-spot, that can be stimulated through anal penetration and can lead to incredibly pleasurable orgasms, often described as full body orgasms. Vulva owners, as well as stimulating the sensitive nerves around the anus, you can enjoy g-spot and a-spot stimulation during anal play, so it’s a fun for all activity!
  • Slowly insert the tip of your metal dildo. Take it slowly and use long, slow exhales to help you relax.
  • To stimulate your P-spot (penis owners) or G-spot (vulva owners), concentrate the stimulation a few inches in and towards your belly button. For A-spot stimulation, you want to go deeper, around 4-6 inches, and angle the stimulation towards your vagina.
  • Explore different stroking motions to figure out what works best for you!

Partner Play

Partner Play

Metal dildos are great to bring out for partner play. They’re a great warm-up toy for any gender and can be incorporated easily into sex play.

  • Combine oral sex with g or p-spot massage with your metal dildo.
  • Try some sensory play with different temperatures.
  • Introduce a blindfold to enhance your senses and intensify your experience while your partner plays with you.
  • You could also try some sex restraints for added excitement.

Tips for Maximum Pleasure With Your Metal Dildo

The rigidity and weight are what give metal dildos their magical powers but that also means you need to be a little more careful than if you were using a soft dildo.

  • Enjoy some foreplay. The more aroused you are when you insert your dildo, the more pleasurable it will be, so give your external erogenous zones some love and get your brain in the mood before diving in!
  • Heat it to body temperature first. While you are getting warmed up, let your dildo heat up to body temperature to avoid the shock of cold metal. You can put it under your body, in some warm water, or just hold it for a while.
  • Use plenty of lube. A slick of lube goes a long way with a metal dildo and creates a super smooth slide that feels just *chef’s kiss* delightful!
  • Take it slowly. Metal dildos feel more intense than silicone dildos so you won’t want to thrust as vigorously, especially in the beginning. Instead take it slowly and explore more massaging motions.
  • Enjoy some dual stimulation. Get even more of the good stuff by stimulating your clitoris, penis, or nipples while you use your metal dildo. This can also help you get to the big O if internal stimulation alone isn’t enough.

How to Clean Metal Dildos

It's important to clean your dildo after each use. The good thing is that cleaning metal dildos couldn't be easier as they're made of non-porous materials. There are a few different ways of cleaning metal dildos and it all depends on if they have any electronics within them. Solid metal dildos with no moving parts can be washed with soap and water, or a toy cleaner. They can also be boiled for a few minutes to sterilize them or put in the dishwasher. Metal dildos like the ElectraStim Wave are not waterproof and will need to be wiped down with a cloth after each use. Always check the manufacturer's instructions beforehand, just in case there are any different requirements for cleaning.

FAQ

They shouldn't be. They're very smooth and with a dash of lube they should be easy to insert. If you find it difficult it could be because you have too large a toy. While you're learning what you can do with a metal dildo start slowly and gently, you'll be surprised at how great they feel.

Steel dildos are very firm, solid in fact. If you're used to softer dildos then it could be a good idea to choose something that's smaller than the size you are used to. If you haven't used a sex toy at all before then there are some great beginner's steel dildos in our review.

It would be quite difficult to damage a solid steel dildo. They can become scuffed if they're dropped or if they scrape against something. If this happens try repairing the scuff with a metal polishing cream. Always follow the instructions and make sure that all excess cream is removed and wash with hot soapy water.

Metal dildos are ultra-smooth. They are highly polished and the finish means that you can use less lubrication with them. They can also be cold. The great thing is that they can be warmed up by putting them into a bowl of warm-hot water (test before using). They have no give in them at all and tend to be heavy. This means that the toy will do the work of pressing on your g or p spot, making stimulation a lot easier.

Stainless steel itself is a high-quality material. Creating the toys requires more intensive molding and manual labor than other materials, resulting in a higher cost to you. Metal dildos are an investment. With normal use, it will likely last a lifetime, so there will be no need to replace it.

Yes, they can be. Luckily they are temperature-responsive so it's very easy to warm them up in a bowl of warm or hot water. Make sure that you test the temperature of it before you use it. They can also be made colder by putting them in a bowl of cold water.

Take a look through our review and you'll find links to shops where you can buy the metal dildos that we've featured here.

Purely stainless steel sex toys are waterproof. However, for toys that contain electrical or other components, it can vary from toy to toy.

Temperature play is the practice of heating or cooling a sex toy as a form of sensation play. Stainless steel sex toys are great at this, as the metal quickly changes temperature!

That’s the best part of stainless steel sex toys: you can use them with any type of lube!

If properly cared for, stainless steel sex toys will last a lifetime (or more)!

What is a Metal Dildo?

Metal dildos and stainless steel sex toys simply sex toys that are made fully—or partly—of stainless steel and provide realy firm and weighted stimulation. They come in a variety of different forms, including dildos, butt plugs, prostate massagers, and even vibrators! They are incredibly temperature-responsive sex toys that can be used for fun temperature play both solo or with a partner. The weight of them presses beautifully on your internal erogenous zones and provide some intense massage. The harsh look and cold feeling also make them popular for BDSM play!

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