14 Best Sex Bed Straps for Sexual Restraining

   Josh Gill
This is the guide to read, if you consider investing in a set of sex bed straps! I’ve spent a shit-ton of time testing and ranking the different sex restraints and straps. I found that most models offer either two or four restraints, and some are a lot better than others! Whether you’re looking to begin your BDSM journey, on a budget, or you’re looking a quality set of sex bed straps I’ll point you in the right direction.
Test Winner

Sportsheets Under the Bed

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Sportsheets Under the Bed

  • Easy to mount/unmount
  • Velcro-fastened cuffs for easy control
  • Quick-release clips for safety

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Cheapest

Purple Reins Under Mattress

Cheapest

Purple Reins Under Mattress

  • Cheap
  • Decent quality
  • Purple color

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Beginners

Fifty Shades of Grey Hard Limits

Beginners

Fifty Shades of Grey Hard Limits

  • Adjustable straps and cuffs
  • Fits most mattresses
  • Beginner-friendly

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Reversible

Fifty Shades of Grey Sweet Anticipation Under Mattress Restraint Set

Reversible

Fifty Shades of Grey Sweet Anticipation Under Mattress Restraint Set

  • All cuffs and straps are fully adjustable
  • Cuffs are fastened with sturdy buckles
  • Reversible design for variety

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Over Door

Sportsheets Door Jam Cuffs

Over Door

Sportsheets Door Jam Cuffs

  • Lightweight & easily portable
  • Easy to use
  • Very comfortable

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Bondage Boutique Black Bound

Bondage Boutique Black Bound

  • Easy to mount
  • Easy to use
  • Unclip system for easy changes in positions

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Quickie Cuffs

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Quickie Cuffs

  • Flexible and stretchy
  • Suitable for beginners
  • Affordable

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Dominix Deluxe Over the Door Cross

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DOMINIX Deluxe Over the Door Cross Position Restraint Kit

Dominix Deluxe Over the Door Cross

  • Great for BDSM play
  • A fun full body restraint
  • Pretty adaptable

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DOMINIX Deluxe Adjustable Leather Cuff

DOMINIX Deluxe Adjustable Leather Cuff

  • Easy attaching system
  • Genuine leather
  • Ultra stron nylon straps

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Kit

Scandal Under Mattress

Kit

Scandal Under Mattress

  • Includes ball gag and blindfold
  • Nice design
  • Easy to adjust

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SEX & MISCHIEF BED BONDAGE

SEX & MISCHIEF BED BONDAGE

  • Good material
  • Great price
  • Totally functional

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Bed Buckler Tether

Bed Buckler Tether

  • Great quality
  • Easy to set up
  • Take it everywhere

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BOUNDLESS VEGAN LEATHER

BOUNDLESS VEGAN LEATHER

  • Sturdy
  • Good materials
  • Well built

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Scandal 8 Points of Love Bed Restraint

Scandal 8 Points of Love Bed Restraint

  • Good looking design
  • Great price
  • Easy to set up

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Sportsheets Under the Bed Restraint System

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 Sportsheets Under the Bed

  • want a good set for good price
  • want a travelling set
  • want a comofortable restraining set

Sportsheets Under the Bed

  • want something a top quality set
  • want something more sturdy
  • want something to set up permantly at your place

If you have ever wanted to try some bondage or you are an experienced user and want to have sex bed straps, that are light and easy to carry whilst traveling, then the Sportsheets Under the Bed is a great choice for you. It is easy to install and can fit in any bed, it is a 4 points style restraining with a 60-inch connecting strap, it is recommended for beginners because it is easy to set up and it is comfortable, you have 4 Velcro-fastened cuffs that can be adjusted and also a 60 inch restrain strap for attaching to the bedpost, chairs or even each other, so if you want bed sex strap to go or simply to have it at your place but not permanently, then this is the way to go!

  • Easy to mount/unmount
  • Velcro-fastened cuffs for easy control
  • Quick-release clips for safety
  • 4 points restraint

  • The straps could be more sturdy
  • Should come with a carrying bag
Sportsheets Under the Bed
AdjustableYes, 4 Velcro cuffs can be adjusted 6 - 15 inches
FasteningYes, velcro
Lengthconnecting strap 60 inches / restraint straps 60 inches

For the price, these sex bed straps are a great option, this set is sturdy, easy to carry, easy to mount and unmount, it is pretty comfortable and it is recommended for beginners for these reasons, but that doesn’t mean advanced users can use it, the materials are great and the only downside that I found is that it doesn’t come with a carrying pouch, otherwise it would be a perfect choice for those who don’t want to spend a good amount of money for a good product.

2 Cheapest

Purple Reins Under Mattress Spreader Restrain

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 Purple Reins Under Mattress

  • want the cheapest option
  • like the purple color
  • want something just to use from time to time

Purple Reins Under Mattress

  • want something more sturdy
  • want something with more quality
  • don't like the purple color

If you want to enjoy a full-body restraint with a sex bed straps system, but don’t want to have the restraints permanently in your bed, then the Purple Reins Under Mattress is your way to go. All sex bed straps slip on with ease for speedy use, the padded cuffs keep on their place and it is a perfect kit for persons who are just starting or that don’t want to have fun every day, just for special moments. The wrist and ankle cuffs can be adjusted between 6.5 and 10 inches and are secured via strong velcro fastenings. The main mattress strap can be adjusted between 61 and 192 inches and fits almost any bed. The connecting cuff straps can be adjusted between 0 and 28 inches to work with different mattress depths and sub heights. These sex bed straps are a fair option that you must consider.

  • Cheap
  • Decent quality
  • Purple color
  • Good materials

  • Can feel a bit cheap
  • Foam is too moveable (cuffs)
  • Recommended for ocassional use not for every day
Purple Reins Under Mattress
AllergiesLatex-free
FasteningVelcro
Length96 inches
MaterialsNylon

For a very inexpensive and so far the cheapest option regarding sex bed straps, the Purple Reins Under Mattress is a kit that can give you fun from time to time. It is important to consider that for the price it is not recommended to use it every day because it is not going to give you the same results as some expensive options, the foam in the cuffs can easily get off with the movements so you have to be careful or find a way to fit it permanently there, it is sturdy but you can’t expect to be as sturdy as other options, overall the quality is decent and can work for those who are just starting or those who want just to have fun sometimes.

3 Beginners

Fifty Shades of Grey Hard Limits Bed Restraint Kit

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 Fifty Shades of Grey Hard Limits

  • want a great product to start
  • want a good product to travel with
  • want good quality and comfortable materials
  • Are looking for an affordable, approachable set of restraints
  • Like the idea of experimenting with bondage and sensory play
  • Want some comfy, padded cuffs

Fifty Shades of Grey Hard Limits

  • don't want to spend that much
  • want something less "soft"
  • Are looking for cuffs that can stand a lot of pulling and resistance
  • Have a very large or long bed
  • Would prefer sleek, dark-colored restraints

Fifty Shades of Grey has Hard Limits Bed Restraint Kit, which are sex bed straps recommended for beginners or persons that want to take fun everywhere. The design and the quality of the materials are great, made out of polyester, the feeling is soft and nice whilst the straps are strong and sturdy. Comes with 4 soft cuffs with Velcro fastenings and includes a blindfold to add more submission to the session. It fits single, double, kingsize, and super-kingsize beds.

  • Adjustable straps and cuffs
  • Fits most mattresses
  • Beginner-friendly
  • Easy to install and travel with
  • Comes with a soft blindfold and storage bag
  • Cuffs are detachable

  • More D rings would be appreciated
  • Velcro cuffs are not very secure
  • Doesn't have an extra adjustable straps (unlike other sets)
  • Bright silver look isn't for everyone
Fifty Shades of Grey Hard Limits
Length inches
MaterialsPolyester
WaterproofYes
FasteningCuffs: Velcro, Mask: Elastic, Straps: Carabiner Clips
Storage Bag IncludedYes
AdjustableYes, both Cuffs & Straps
Colors AvailableBlack/Silver

The sex bed strap set is nice, comes with a blindfold which is useful, personally, I would have changed that blindfold for a nice carrying pouch, but someone might found the blindfold more useful. It is soft and nice, the straps feel comfortable and are very easy to set up, the price is a bit high compared to other options but is not that expensive. The package is nice and can be a good erotic gift for your partner. Perhaps a few more rings would be nice to use and a bit tighter system would be even nicer, but overall is a great sex bed straps kit

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Fifty Shades of Grey Sweet Anticipation Under Mattress Restraint Set

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 Fifty Shades of Grey Sweet Anticipation Under Mattress Restraint Set

  • want some sturdy sex bed straps
  • like the idea of a reversible design
  • need cuffs with buckles for secure bondage
  • want to engage in more intermediate level bondage

Fifty Shades of Grey Sweet Anticipation Under Mattress Restraint Set

  • have a bed that's larger than a king size
  • have very slim ankles or wrists

The Fifty Shades of Grey Sweet Anticipation Under Mattress Restraint Set transforms any bed into a playground of desire ready to take you to the next level of your bedroom bondage play. This set, also inspired by the iconic series, like the Fifty Shades of Grey Hard Limits Bed Restraint Kit, includes adjustable straps that fit under any mattress size up to a king, and comes with four sturdy cuffs for wrists and ankles. What makes this product stand out is the overall durability of the restraint system with buckle fastenings rather than velcro. The cuffs are also reversible, featuring a glossy, romantic design on one side and a classic black faux leather on the other, catering to different moods and preferences. This set is offers a lot of adjustability, versatility, and the added excitement it brings to the bedroom, making it a perfect choice for both beginners and seasoned enthusiasts looking to explore restraint play.

  • All cuffs and straps are fully adjustable
  • Cuffs are fastened with sturdy buckles
  • Reversible design for variety
  • Can withstand quite a bit of tugging and pulling
  • Storage bag included

  • The glossy design on the cuffs can deteriorate over time
  • Could be more suitable for smaller sized ankles and wrists
  • On the pricier side
Fifty Shades of Grey Sweet Anticipation Under Mattress Restraint Set
MaterialsCuffs: Faux leather & fabric
MaterialsStraps: Nylon
MaterialsChains, buckles, clips: Nickel-free metal hardware
WaterproofSplashproof
FasteningBuckles
Storage Bag IncludedYes
AdjustableYes
Colors AvailableReversible cuffs: choose between neutral black leather or detailed fabric with red roses

With the Fifty Shades of Grey Sweet Anticipation Under Mattress Restraint Set, I was impressed by how easy it was to set up and how discreet it is if you simply remove the cuffs and tuck in the straps. You’ve got a built-in restraint system in your bed all the time! I like that this kit stands out on this list by being the best choice for intermediate users, who may have graduated beyond the point of beginner-friendly velcro cuffs. These feature sturdy faux leather cuffs with buckle fastenings that are much harder to escape! While I do like that the adjustability of these cuffs cater to a wide range of body sizes and comfort levels, I think people with very small wrists or ankles might struggle to get a tight grip (which is pretty much the point with restraints). I absolutely love that the reversible cuffs add a touch of versatility. This cool feature allows users to switch between aesthetics based on their mood. Although the glossy red side may easily deteriorate over time. However, while the set offers a premium experience, the price point may reflect the brand’s prestige as much as the product’s quality. All in all, I do think the set’s practicality, especially its discreet storage and ease of use, makes it a valuable addition to any couple’s collection.

5 Over Door

Sportsheets Door Jam Cuffs

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 Sportsheets Door Jam Cuffs

  • are looking for some affordable restraints
  • want a much simpler alternative to a St. Andrews cross
  • love doing standing bondage
  • enjoy really soft and lightweight cuffs
  • like the idea portable standing restraints that you can use anywhere!

Sportsheets Door Jam Cuffs

  • need an extra pair of removable cuffs
  • need over-the-door cuffs that are adjustable in height
  • want cuffs that are more suitable for heavy-duty bondage

The Sportsheets Door Jam Cuffs are affordable, easy to use, bondage straps that can be used on any kind of door at home! Simply put the 9 inch nylon straps over the top of the door, close it to make sure that they’re secured with the plastic barbells on the other side, and you’re good to go. It’s just THAT easy. The cuffs themselves are made from fuzzy and soft velboa fabric for maximum comfort, and the velcro straps allow you to adjust the cuffs for the perfect fit around your wrists or ankles. Yes, you can totally use these on your ankles too! Not to much into having your arms above your head during standing bondage? Well, these can go under the door, just as easily as they can go under the door! These babies are also machine washable, lightweight and easy to bring with you on the go! I love that they’re just the ideal type of bondage straps to play around with any other BDSM accessories or sex toys!

  • Lightweight & easily portable
  • Easy to use
  • Very comfortable
  • Beginner-friendly

  • Not adjustable
  • Cuffs aren't removable for independent use
  • Lower quality materials
Sportsheets Door Jam Cuffs
LengthLength of strap when secured in the door: 8.5 inches
WaterproofYes
MaterialsVelboa fabric, polypropylene webbing, nickel-free metal hardware, and plastic
AdjustableNo
FasteningVelcro

The Sportsheets Door Jam Cuffs are a great option for both beginner and intermediate kinksters who liek the idea of standing bondage! They’re versatile, easy to use, work on most doors, are lightweight and easily portable, and have velcro fastenings that will fit most ankles and wrists. The soft velboa fabric also makes for a super comfortable experience. I also really appreciate that the cuffs are machine washable! However, the materials aren’t super durable and don’t seem very long-lasting. Definitely not suitable for heavy duty bondage or suspension! I also have to mention that these over door bondage straps may not be suitable for anyone much taller or shorter than average, since the cuffs cannot be adjusted in terms of height. So, if you’re extremely short, you may not be able to reach the cuffs comfortably as they’re hanging down from the top of the door. If you’re also looking for some bondage straps that includes a pair of removable cuffs that can be used without a door, then you should probably opt for a different kind of product. All in all, I really enjoyed them as an affordable option for anyone looking to explore some standing bondage without having to make any permanent home improvements!

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Bondage Boutique Black Bound to Please Under Mattress Restraint

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 Bondage Boutique Black Bound

  • want a nice and sturdy sex bed straps
  • want to choose the color of the sex bed straps
  • are a beginner and want a decent price option

Bondage Boutique Black Bound

  • want something with top quality
  • want a more sturdy option

If you want to transform your bed permanently or temporarily into a bondage training field, then Bondage Boutique Vlack Bound are sex bed straps that you need in your collection. With 4 velcro-fastening cuffs, it is easy to strap your partner easily and fast. The easy system to unclip the cuffs allows you to change positions easily and very fast so you don’t lose the mood whilst playing. Suitable for almost any size of the bed, these sex bed straps are going to unleash your darkest desires.

  • Easy to mount
  • Easy to use
  • Unclip system for easy changes in positions
  • 4 velcro fastening cuffs

  • Would be nice to include a carrying pouch
  • Extra set of cuffs would be nice with the unclip system to change roles fast
Bondage Boutique Black Bound
AllergiesLatex-Free
FasteningVelcro
MaterialsPolyester
LengthCuff straps an extend to 50 inches // connecting straps extends to 48 inches

One of the best parts of these sex bed straps are the unclip system that allows you to change positions easily and fast, so you can get to the next step without having to wait, a recommendation would be to include another set of cuffs so the roles can be changed easily and fast, or that you buy two of these sex bed straps and keep one for traveling, the other permanent in your bed and you and your partner wear the cuffs at the same time for role swapping. In any case, it is very easy to mount and the sex bed straps feel sturdy and good, the price is decent and affordable and I think this is a great option for everyone. Another thing that would be great would be a traveling pouch but is not a must, but for all the features I think this is a great sex bed straps kit to consider.

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Quickie Cuffs

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 Quickie Cuffs

  • are new to bondage
  • are looking for affordable bondage accessories
  • want easy to use and flexible handcuffs

Quickie Cuffs

  • prefer regular sex bed straps
  • like a very kinky bondage session

Looking for a fast and effortless way to spice up your bedroom antics? Try Quickie Cuffs! These handcuffs are incredibly easy to use and made from strong and smooth silicone, ensuring maximum comfort during your bondage play. Perfect for beginners or those looking for a hassle-free experience, these cuffs take the intimidation out of bondage and BDSM. And with their sleek design, they’re as attractive as they are functional. So why not add a touch of excitement to your playtime with the Quickie Cuffs? You won’t be disappointed!

  • Flexible and stretchy
  • Suitable for beginners
  • Affordable
  • Waterproof

  • Difficult to attach to other restraints
  • Can't be locked
Quickie Cuffs
MaterialsSilicone
Diameter1.95 inches
WaterproofYes
FasteningSlip-on
AdjustableNo
Storage Bag IncludedNo
Colors AvailableBlack, Red

The Quickie Cuffs are a convenient and user-friendly choice for those exploring bondage and BDSM. Made from high-quality silicone, these handcuffs provide a comfortable and painless experience, making them perfect for beginners! With their simple slip-on design and two available sizes, the Quickie Cuffs are flexible and adaptable to meet the needs of any user. Whether you’re a seasoned pro or just starting, the Quickie Cuffs are a great addition to any collection and will bring a new level of fun and adventure to your playtime.

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Dominix Deluxe Over the Door Cross

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80/100
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 Dominix Deluxe Over the Door Cross

  • Want to be restrained on a cross
  • Like the full body restraint
  • Love something that's adjustable

Dominix Deluxe Over the Door Cross

  • Want an easier to set up bondage toy
  • Prefer to be restrained while laying down
  • Don't want to damage your door

The Dominix Deluxe Over the Door Cross is a delicious bondage strap that restrains you up against the door! It keeps your arms and legs spread wide apart for easy access and gives you that real feel of being vulnerable and on display, ready to be used by your dom! It’s an adaptable toy so if you’re on the shorter side then don’t worry, the cuffs can be moved and positioned wherever is best for you and your partner! Bed straps are all well and good, but door straps are better!

  • Great for BDSM play
  • A fun full body restraint
  • Pretty adaptable

  • Not easy to set up
  • Only for standing up use
  • Can cause damage
Dominix Deluxe Over the Door Cross
MaterialsLeather
Length100 inches
FasteningBuckle
AllergiesContains nickel

The Dominix Deluxe Over the Door Cross spreads the user wide open and restrains them in such a way that they can be used in a wide variety of naughty ways. The cuffs are adaptable and can be moved to wherever suits the user and they are firm but comfortable. It’s not the easiest of crosses to set up – especially in the heat of the moment! It might take a couple of people to correctly set up, and it isn’t designed to bare too much weight. Try putting too much weight on it and you’re going to maybe damage the toy, and almost definitely damage your door. For what it is it’s fun and it does it’s job, but does it do it’s job WELL? Hmm…not so much!

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DOMINIX Deluxe Adjustable Leather Cuff Under Mattress Set

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90/100
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 DOMINIX Deluxe Adjustable Leather Cuff

  • want a leather cuffs
  • want good priced sex bed straps
  • want a good quality sex bed straps

DOMINIX Deluxe Adjustable Leather Cuff

  • don't like leather
  • want a differnet system

These sex bed straps have a totally different system, two straps to mount on the bed that are placed at the bottom and top of the bed and come with bed loops to attach the handcuffs and do a perfect starfish. Made from ultra-strong Nylon and genuine leather cuffs, there is no way your partner can escape, and who doesn’t love the smell of leather? This is a simple kit with just 2 pieces, and 4 leather cuffs, making it easier to move around and with practice easy to mount. It has a seatbelt-style clasp to release each strap very easily. The easy attaching system allows you to tight the sex bed straps once and let them be there until you need to take them with you or replace your bed.

  • Easy attaching system
  • Genuine leather
  • Ultra stron nylon straps
  • Good price

  • If you are not interested in leather you can find cheaper options
  • Mount the main straps can be hard the first time
  • Theres no other colors
DOMINIX Deluxe Adjustable Leather Cuff
AllergiesContains nickel, Latex-free
FasteningBuckle
Length95 inches
MaterialsLeather

If you like leather, then I’m sure you are going to like these sex bed straps, the few pieces in the system make it easy to use, but, it can be a bit tricky to mount the first time, after the first time, if you unmount it is going to be easier to mount it the next time you want to use it. The straps might look a bit cheap but are sturdy and hold up very well, unfortunately, there is no other color than black, the price is very nice considering you get genuine leather cuffs. It is a very nice starting point if you are getting into this kind of play or a good addition to your collection if you are already in. Unless you dislike the leather, I’m sure you are going to enjoy this easy and good-priced sex bed straps system.

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Scandal Under Mattress Bed Restraint Kit (3 Piece)

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 Scandal Under Mattress

  • want a good looking sex bed straps kit
  • want a breatahable ball gag
  • want a double ring fastening

Scandal Under Mattress

  • don't like the colors
  • are not into gagging
  • want a different design

This sex bed straps kit is great for those who are planning to try a full submission, no matter if you are just starting or you have experience, the Scandal Under Mattress is going to give you a lot of fun (fun that you can take with you). The kit includes a restraint system to bind arms and legs, a breathable ball gag, and a blindfold. It is easy to mount and adjustable to fit up to a king-size bed, you can mount it and leave it there to keep playing some other time or just unmount it and mount it back whenever is needed. Velcro cuffs adjust up to 14.5 inches around and gag up to 25 inches around.

  • Includes ball gag and blindfold
  • Nice design
  • Easy to adjust
  • Easy to mount

  • The design might be a bit too "nice" if you are rough user
  • A carrying bag would be nice
  • Different versions of the kit would be even better (like including more toys)
Scandal Under Mattress
AllergiesLatex-Free
FasteningVelcro
MaterialsVelvet
LengthVelcro cuffs 14.5 inches around // gag up to 25 // Bed strap adjust up to 143 inches

So far this is the most complete, well-looking, and comfortable sex bed straps kit, it comes with a blindfold and a breathable ball gag it would be very nice that would come with a carrying pouch as well but we can’t complain because the price is good! It looks good, it looks nice, it feels even better, it is easy to mount, easy to use and you can let it be there permanently or unmount it if you need to travel and you want to take the fun with you. Overall I think it is a great option if you are starting and you want to go full in into submission or if you are experienced and want to have a nice, light, and good-looking sex bed straps traveling kit.

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SEX & MISCHIEF BED BONDAGE RESTRAINT KIT

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88/100
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 SEX & MISCHIEF BED BONDAGE

  • want a cheap sex bed straps kit
  • want a funcitonal kit
  • don't mind the materials

SEX & MISCHIEF BED BONDAGE

  • care about how it looks
  • mind about the materials
  • want something with more quality

With the Sex & Mischief Bed Bondage, you don’t need any post in your bed, this bondage playground is easy to install on your bed. You get four soft cuffs that are attached to 60-inch adjustable straps, it is totally portable which means that you can take it wherever you want, even if you make long traveling. It is made out of Polyester and plastic and even though it doesn’t look “cute” it is totally functional and resistant.

  • Good material
  • Great price
  • Totally functional
  • Sturdy

  • Doesn't look cute
  • Might be a bit too stiff
SEX & MISCHIEF BED BONDAGE
MaterialsPolyester, ABS Plastic
LengthAdjustable straps with cuffs and connector strap are 60 inches

If you don’t care that much about the esthetics of the product then the Sex & Mischief Bed Bondage is going to be great for you, especially because it is very cheap, the polyester and the plastic are a good combination and the straps feel sturdy, it is impossible you can tear them apart with your bare hands or strength, so if your only concern is about the functionality, let me tell you this works perfectly! A little bit of design would have been nice to make it look better, but the truth is that once you are on fire, the less thing you do is to check how does the straps looks, right?

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LIBERATOR BLACK LABEL BED BUCKLER RESTRAINT SYSTEM - MICROFIBER MIDNIGHT

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 Bed Buckler Tether

  • want one of the best sex bed strap out there
  • want an easy system to set up
  • want a comfortable cuffs
  • are not in a budget

Bed Buckler Tether

  • mind about the price
  • want a different material

If you are looking for one of the best sex bed straps kits out there, let me tell you the Bed Buckler Restraint is a kit you are never going to regret having. Designed to go anywhere and ready to use anytime, the set is built with soft cuffs that work as a web-strap restraint and the strap slips under the mattress, box spring, or futon to be discreet. It is very easy to use and mount, with 20-inch adjustable nylon tethers that wrap around the surface of the bed, there is no chance your partner can escape, even if he/she would like to.

  • Great quality
  • Easy to set up
  • Take it everywhere
  • Comfortable to use

  • Expensive
  • The only way to adjust it once it is placed is by moving the whole matress
  • Doesn't come with assembly instructions
Bed Buckler Tether
MaterialsMulti-fabric
FasteningVelcro
Lengthfour tethers of 20 inches

The Bed Buckler Tether and Cuff Restraint System is good quality and it feels great, it is easy to set up but…..if you have to make adjustments once it is placed you have to remove your mattress and do the adjustments, thing that might be a turn off if you are already set on fire, the price is high, but you are paying for a great quality product and you are not going to be disappointed. You can take it everywhere and place it for use, the cuffs are actually pretty comfortable and are going to give you a lot of nice experiences, so, if the price is not a concern to you, I would say you could consider this sex bed straps as a strong option for you and your partner!

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BOUNDLESS VEGAN LEATHER BED RESTRAINT BY CALEXOTICS

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90/100
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90/100
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 BOUNDLESS VEGAN LEATHER

  • are vegan and doesn't support the animal cruelty
  • want to have vegan leather
  • want a decent price
  • want a heavy duty sex bed straps

BOUNDLESS VEGAN LEATHER

  • you like genuine leather
  • want a different system

If you are concerned about animal cruelty and you want still to have the benefits of the leather, then the Boundless Vegan Leather Bed Restraint is something it might appeal to you. If you don’t have space to make your own bondage dungeon then you should get sex bed straps and stop using that excuse. With these sex bed straps you can mount it and unmount it as many times you like and take the fun with you if you have to travel, it is a total adjustable restraint system that works great with the included hooks, it slides underneath your bed and it is easy to set it up. Comes with four padded cuffs for the ankle and wrists that use velcro to secure your limbs and also with durable nylon straps and metal hardware to secure everything well. Made of polyester fabric and nickel-free, this is one of the best options for you.

  • Sturdy
  • Good materials
  • Well built
  • Very durable

  • Can be a bit tricky to set up the first times
  • The carabiners looks a bit weak
BOUNDLESS VEGAN LEATHER
FasteningVelcro
MaterialsPolyester, iron
AllergiesNickel-free
LengthTether 63 inches
DiameterCuff (max) 4.5 inches

The Boundless Vegan Leather Bed Restraint gives an alternative for those who are concerned about animal cruelty offering vegan leather. If you are vegan or concerned about this subject, these sex bed straps are going to be your way to go! These sex bed straps are very sturdy and last for a long time, it is a bit hard to set it up for the first time but once you do it then you are going to find a way to make it easier. Something that I didn’t like that much was that the carabiners look a bit weak, but those are not, and of course, it is not genuine leather but otherwise, it is a good choice for you and your partner to have your own playground in your bedroom, easy and quick.

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 Scandal 8 Points of Love Bed Restraint

  • want a good price sex bed straps
  • want a very good looking design
  • want good working strap system

Scandal 8 Points of Love Bed Restraint

  • don't like the design
  • want something with more quality
  • if you don't like carabiners

The Scandal 8 Points of Love Bed Restraint is an excellent and adjustable bondage system of sex bed straps that will turn your bedroom into a scene of a bondage fantasy. Packed with 4 tethers for wrist and ankles and a very nice looking red and black brocade. The tethers are equipped with swivel snap hook connectors that you can use to connect them to one another and get them set up for playing very fast. It is fully adjustable and can be used up to a king-sized mattress (180”).

  • Good looking design
  • Great price
  • Easy to set up

  • First times setting it up can take a while
  • Carabiners look weak
Scandal 8 Points of Love Bed Restraint
LengthStraps: 200 inches by 180 inches
LengthTeathers: 24 inches
MaterialsPolyester, Iron, Polypropylene
AllergiesNickel-free

You can get a good-looking sex bed straps system for a reasonable price. The Scandal 8 Points of Love is an excellent option if you are on a budget or don’t want to spend much. It is an 8 point system that gets down to offer the same possibilities that a 4 point system can do. It is made of polyester, polypropylene, and iron. It looks sturdy, but the carabiners are different. Carabiners don’t look sturdy, but those really are. It is hard to mount it the first time but with practice comes easy, one thing that I would have liked to see would be a different design, perhaps different options of colors, but overall I can’t complain, if you are looking for a sex bed straps that have good quality and decent a price, then perhaps this might be your option to go.

Get All Tied Up

Sometimes we are not ready for a full sex bed straps kit to restrain our partner (or get restrained). Sometimes the only thing that we are looking for is to spice things up a bit and give a small turn in some new things to enhance our pleasure. Or, if you have already a sex bed strap kit that you use to restrain your partner and you are looking for an extra attachment, then take a look at the next product!

Bondage Boutique Soft Bondage Rope Restraints

Bondage Boutique Soft Bondage Rope Restraints - Get All Tied Up
  • The  Bondage Boutique Soft Bondage is a set of ropes that will help you to restrain (even more) your partner. This set can be attached to any furniture bars, works especially well with bondage racks, collars, and other restraints with bondage clips.
  • If you have sex bed straps, it would work wonderfully giving you a few extra options to play with.
  • The ropes can be adjusted easily using a simple slip knot feature, the ropes are silky soft and incredibly secure, so if you want something comfortable and good for your partner, the Bondage Boutique Soft Bondage Rope Restraints are something you might want to take a look at.

All-Purpose Bondage Straps

Sometimes you just need some bondage straps that are general purpose. Who knows how you might want to use them! You might want to add them to an existing toy, extend the straps you already have, add a little extra restraint…the options are limitless. So what you need are some all-purpose bondage straps. Lucky for you we have just the thing you’re looking for!

Garment Leather Bondage Straps

Garment Leather Bondage Straps - All-Purpose Bondage Straps
These Garment Leather Bondage Straps pair of versatile straps that can be utilized in any way that you see fit! Each strap is 28 inches in length and 2 inches in width, and is made of a high quality premium garment leather. On one end there is a 2 inch wide D-ring, and on the other there is a 1.75 inch D-ring. These definitely give you some kinky options whether you are strapping your sub to a chair or binding their wrists to the bed.

If You Like Your Bondage More Kinky

Not everything is sex bed straps, maybe you are an intermediate or advanced user that is looking for something else, or perhaps sex bed straps are not appealing to you and you need something else to get adventurous. Below I’m going to show you two options that are going to blow your mind and you will be wanting to do a test drive!

SCANDAL OVER THE DOOR CROSS RESTRAINTS

SCANDAL OVER THE DOOR CROSS RESTRAINTS - If You Like Your Bondage More Kinky
Does a “to-go” bondage cross sound appealing to you? The Scandal Over The Door is a fully adjustable cross made out of sturdy straps and bar hooks to secure this over-the-door placement and fit both standard and oversized doors. You can find this Cross set comes with totally adjustable and detachable universal wrist and ankle cuffs, to play whilst using the cross or use it independently. Both wrist and ankle cuffs are soft and plushy on one side and a great designed fabric on the other.

Liberator Bondi Portable Playscape

Liberator Bondi Portable Playscape - If You Like Your Bondage More Kinky
But what if you want to take your kinky furniture anyway? If sex bed straps are just not enough for you, or you want to have something else complementary and have your “Full bondage traveling kit” then the Liberator Bondi Portable Playscape is a must in your collection.    

Alternatives to Bondage Straps

Bondage straps not your thing? Cool, don’t worry; they’re really not for everyone! There are alternatives out there though that work just as well, so let’s take a look at some of the options available to you!

Lovehoney Black Bondage Tape

Lovehoney Black Bondage Tape - Alternatives to Bondage Straps
The Lovehoney Black Bondage Tape is a self-adhesive tape for bondage, blindfolds, BDSM and role play. It sticks to itself without sticking to the skin, meaning that removing it isn’t going to completely wax you and rip off half of your skin too! Similarly clothing and furniture is also super safe and not going to get damaged. This 20 meter roll comes in a variety of colors and is a fine addition to your collection!

Lovehoney Oh! Silky Bondage Restraints

Lovehoney Oh! Silky Bondage Restraints - Alternatives to Bondage Straps
Measuring in at 49.5 inches each, the Lovehoney Oh! Silky Bondage Restraints are satin strips that can be looped and tied. It will feel silky smooth against the body and can be used to tie arms, ankles, thighs, whatever you want to the bed. It’s a sensually spicy addition that is perfect for beginners or those wanting to take things a little more slowly!

Doc Johnson Japanese-Style Bondage Rope

Doc Johnson Japanese-Style Bondage Rope - Alternatives to Bondage Straps
This isn’t just any old rope. This is the Doc Johnson Japanese-Style Bondage Rope! This 10 meter length of woven cotton rope is ideal for bondage play. It is designed to lay flat against the skin, and along with its soft finish it reduces the risk of rope burn. Ouch! Practice your rope art or just get brutal and tie someone up, whichever you choose it is perfectly fine to wash in a washing machine! Jackpot!

Ouch! Bondage Safety Scissors

Ouch! Bondage Safety Scissors - Alternatives to Bondage Straps
The Ouch! Bondage Safety Scissors are an absolutely essential bit of kit that you’ll need to hand when engaging in any kind of bondage play. With their blunt ends they are safe against the body and can be used to but restraints in a hurry, and the stainless steel blades feature serrated edges that cut through rope, tape and cloth quickly and easily. As an added bonus feature these are a great prop for any medical role playing fantasies you might have! Kinky!

Types of Sexual Restraints

The world of sexual restraints is as diverse as it is exhilarating. From bondage ropes to genital restraints, there are so many types of sexual restraints for exploring dominance, submission, and the thrill of the taboo within the safety of your own boundaries. In this comprehensive guide, we’ll delve into the many types of restraints available, discuss the materials they’re made from, and explore different fastening mechanisms. This guide caters to both novices just starting their journey into BDSM and seasoned enthusiasts looking to expand their knowledge. Safety and consent are cornerstones of any form of BDSM play, so I will also offer some essential advice on practicing bondage play safely and consensually. Let’s buckle up and get to it, shall we?

Bondage Rope

Bondage Rope - Types of Sexual Restraints
Bondage rope is the Picasso of restraints – versatile, expressive, and perfect for creating intricate designs on the human canvas. It’s ideal for a simple sexy knot and also for those who want to weave a deeper sense of artistry into their BDSM play. Not only does it allow for a virtually unlimited number of binding positions, but it also adds a sensual aesthetic element to your playtime. One word: versatility. A bondage rope gives you the freedom to explore various positions and restraints without the need for additional equipment. Plus, the process of tying and being tied can be an intimate, sensual experience. However, you might not be able to enjoy all the benefits of boindage rope if you’re a complete bondage beginner or just not that into all the tying and knots. Let’s check out some more beginner-friendly restraints below!

Bondage Tape

Bondage Tape - Types of Sexual Restraints
Simple yet effective, bondage tape is another versatile addition to any restraint repertoire. What makes bondage tape different from your regular duct tape? It sticks to itself, not your skin, making it a great choice for those new to the world of restraints. It’s super safe and easy to use! If you’re looking for a gentle introduction into the world of bondage, look no further. Bondage tape is easy to apply, comfortable to wear, and just as easy to remove without any residue. If you’re in a hurry to remove it, a pair of safety scissors will easily cut you free.

Handcuffs

Handcuffs - Types of Sexual Restraints
Nothing screams authority and dominance like a pair of shiny handcuffs for sex. They’re simple to use, sexy, and can transform your bedroom into a realm of playful power dynamics. They’re a staple in many a bedroom drawer and offer a quick and easy way to experiment with restraints. They come in all sorts of shapes and sizes. There are silicone cuffs, metal cuffs, leather cuffs, and even cuffs made specifically for your ankles! Some are flexible, some are adjustable, and some even have a lockable feature for some serious submission. Handcuffs provide a sense of control and submission that’s both tangible and immediate. Plus, they’re relatively easy to use, making them perfect for beginners and experienced kinksters alike!

Types of Full Body Sexual Restraint Systems

Types of Full Body Sexual Restraint Systems - Types of Sexual Restraints
Ready to take it up a notch? A full-body restraint system is your next step. Typically featuring cuffs for the wrists and ankles attached to straps or harnesses, a full-body restraint system allows for numerous positions and a whole lot of fun. These are the comprehensive packages of the restraint world, offering a multitude of options to restrict movement in one device! Perfect for those craving total surrender or control but want everything they need in one product. Full-body restraint systems are often a great way to engage in some light predicament bondage, as the arms, wrists, or legs are restrained to another body part that will be then be pulled on if the cuffed bits are tugged on. You will be be restrained by your own body with these devices. The sense of surrender and the eroticism that comes with full-body restraint can be a massive turn-on for some. Plus these systems are adjustable to comfortably fit a range of body sizes and types.

Under the Bed Sexual Restraints

Under the Bed Sexual Restraints - Types of Sexual Restraints
Why bother with a four-poster bed when you can turn your regular one into a playground of pleasure with under the bed restraints? These systems are versatile, easy to install and remove, and they don’t require any permanent fixtures to your furniture. They’re great for spontaneous fun whenever the mood strikes. The mere convenience of under-the-bed restraint systems is very impressive. The straps are fully adjustable to fit any size mattress, they’re machine washable, and you can simply store the straps under your bed and put the cuffs away when you’re not using it!

Hogtie

Hogtie - Types of Sexual Restraints
Bringing together the wrists and ankles in a classic bondage position, the hogtie restraint is an all-time favorite amongst many BDSM enthusiasts. If you enjoy vulnerability and helplessness as part of your play, the hogtie will deliver. Remember to check in with your partner and ensure they’re comfortable at all times. The positions you can explore with hogtie are limited but they are great for exploring a very vulnerable disposition during your kinky sessions. Strap your sub in and play with them however you would like with this little device!

Spreader Bar

Spreader Bar - Types of Sexual Restraints
A BDSM spreader bar is designed to keep the legs or arms apart, offering an enticing view and easy access. From a visual and psychological standpoint, spreader bars can be incredibly stimulating. They limit mobility and enhance vulnerability, which can be a thrilling dynamic in the bedroom. Spreader bars will often have extra attachment points that allow you to secure your wrists to the spreader bar while your ankles are restricted as well! You’re probably wondering what sex with a spreader could look like with so many options and positions available. Check out Edwina’s blog post on the best spreader bare positions for some inspiration!

Types of Over the Door Sexual Restraints

Types of Over the Door Sexual Restraints - Types of Sexual Restraints
Turn your bedroom door into a bondage playground (suitable for aerial acrobatics) with these over door restraints. Drape these babies over a closed door and enjoy a plethora of new sex positions and enhanced angles with this vertical bondage play. Most over the door restraints are fairly easy to set up and remove. No fixtures or permanent home renovations needed for this kind of fun! Since they mostly consist of straps and hooks, they’re also super easy to store without taking up too much space. They’re often quite versatile, and can add a new level of excitement to your play. Plus, they’re perfect for those with limited space or who need to keep their kink on the down-low.

Bondage Board

Bondage Board - Types of Sexual Restraints
This portable piece of furniture allows for many different positions and is perfect for those looking to explore more intense bondage scenarios, again, without any permanent fixtures required in your home! Bondage boards are a great way to safely explore more advanced bondage positions. Plus, the portability means you can bring the board wherever your naughty adventures take you. It’s like having a tiny BDSM dungeon with you on the go!

Bondage Pillows

Bondage Pillows - Types of Sexual Restraints
Designed with comfort and flexibility in mind, bondage pillows can help make certain positions easier and more enjoyable. You can use them enhance your regular sexual routine with better angles for more comfort and deeper penetration. And if you’re looking for a little more spice, these sex pillows offer attachment points and different accessories to restrict your mobility. Whether you’re looking to spice up your sex life or relieve some physical strain during your kinky play, a bondage pillow can be a fantastic addition to your sexual restraint play!

Thigh Sling

Thigh Sling - Types of Sexual Restraints
These clever devices take the stress off your legs and lower back (perhaps even your own arms), making certain positions more comfortable and sustainable. If you enjoy positions that require a bit of leg lift, but find holding them up a chore, a thigh sling could be your new best friend. Fully adjustable to encourage the angles that feel the best for you!

Thigh Cuffs

Thigh Cuffs - Types of Sexual Restraints
Similar to handcuffs, but adding your thighs into the mix! Thigh cuffs provide a new layer of control and can be used in conjunction with other restraints for added excitement. They’re a great way to introduce a new element of restraint without becoming too complicated or intimidating.

Types of Genital Sexual Restraints

Yes, you read that right. These devices add a whole new level of intensity to your play. For all those advanced kinksters who enjoy a bit of pain with their pleasure. There are several kinds of gential restraints:
  • Vulva restraints: A clamp of some sort attached to either the labia or the clitoris with a leash or a different sexual restraint attached. Ideal for anyone who want to involve their most sensitive spots in their bondage play.
  • Penis or ball restraints: There are so many variations of cock and ball devices that are ideal to attach to any other sexual restraint. Some of them are designed to pinch, stretch, or restrict the genital in some way in addition to being attached to restraints. Although, some are relatively simple and allow you to take your penis out for a little walk or tug, like the one pictured below.
  • Restraints with nipple clamps: While nipple clamps in themselves can provide quite a bit of stimulation, imagine what intense sensations could arise when you attach them to a collar, a ball gag, or a leash!
If you’re looking to push boundaries and explore some spicy new sensations, genital restraints can provide a tantalizing mix of pleasure and pain.

Materials for Different Types of Sexual Restraints

When it comes to sexual restraints, the material can make a big difference in how suitable a product is for your personal level of experience. So, let’s go over some common materials and their pros and cons!  

Leather

Aesthetically and tactilely pleasing, leather brings a sense of classic BDSM enticement. It’s often a bit more suitable for heavy duty bondage, but can be pricier and requires special care and maintenance to keep it supple.

Metal

Metal restraints like handcuffs or shackles offer a high level of control. They’re durable and easy to clean but can be uncomfortable if worn for extended periods. Metal sexual restraints are not my go-to for bondage beginners.

Nylon

A softer alternative to leather or metal, nylon restraints are often super adjustable, comfortable to wear, more affordable, and easy to clean. However, they may not provide the same aesthetic appeal.

Silk

Silk restraints ofte come in the shape of blindfolds or scarves that can be used to tie someones wrists or ankles. They’re super soft, smooth to the touch, and often very visually appealing. While they are perfect for sensual kinkster, they are, on the other hand, not suitable for heavy duty restraint play and can be a bit difficult to clean. Be careful when tying knots using silk scarves as the slippery slik may cause the knots to tighten.

Types of Fastening Mechanisms on Sexual Restraints

The choice of fastening mechanism can drastically impact your BDSM experience. Again, some mechanisms are much ore suitable for beginners, while advanced users crave extreme solutions. Let’s compare the most common ones!

Velcro

  • Pros: Ideal for beginners. Velcro restraints are easy to adjust and remove. Comfortable to wear.
  • Cons: May not provide a strong sense of restraint, less durable.

Buckles

  • Pros: Buckles offer a higher level of security and stronger sense of restraint. Authentic BDSM aesthetic.
  • Cons: Can be difficult to adjust and remove in the moment, higher level of restraint can lead to potential discomfort.

Lock and Key

  • Pros: Provides a very strong sense of restraint, can add a psychological element of control.
  • Cons: Potential for accidental lock-ins, can be difficult to remove quickly.

Bondage Strap Safety

We can’t understate how important safety is when it comes to using bondage straps (or any BDSM toys, for that matter)! So what we’d like to do is go over something that we call ‘The Three Cs’: communication, consent and code word. These three things will help you keep things as safe as can be in the bedroom!

Communication

Communication - Bondage Strap Safety
Communication is important. Speaking to your partner before you even jump into bed really is very important, as you need to set ground rules and understand each other’s point of view, wants, desires, and needs. Clearly communicating puts you both on the same page and allows you not have to second guess if they’re enjoying themselves.

Consent

Consent - Bondage Strap Safety
Making sure that you both consent to what is happening is another key aspect of using bondage straps. You need to know that they are totally up for this kind of play, just as much as they need to know that you’re up for it too. Understanding that you both consent to what will happen takes away any ambiguity and alleviates worries you might have.

Code word

Code word - Bondage Strap Safety
So you might have communicated what you both want and you might have consented to that kind of play, but what if things get a little too much? What if you suddenly want out and to just take a step back? This is where code words come in. Understanding that there is a pre-agreed upon word that either of you can say is important, as this word will indicate to you or your partner that you need to stop. Don’t make it a word that might naturally come out of your mouth during the sexy session, instead go for something quite random and memorable that you’d only say when you needed to communicate that you were ready to stop.

Are you inspired by Fifty Shades of Grey?

When Fifty Shades of Grey came to light with the first book, everyone (mostly women) were out of their minds. Fifty Shades of Grey came in a popular way to show that BDSM is not that bad after all and that we all have our kinks, especially if you are super-rich (pun intended). If you are like me, and you have read the books, or maybe not like me but you have watched the movie, or even totally different you haven’t ever watched the movie or read the books, but you know about the topic, at least for “common knowledge”. Then you must admit there are some good and bad things about it. Below I will list a few things from my perspective about the subject.

What is it about?

What is it about? - Are you inspired by Fifty Shades of Grey?
Fifty Shades of Grey is a novel that nowadays has a movie also about a  21-year-old student called Anastasia who begins a relationship with a 27-year-old man called Christian Grey, who is a successful, powerful, rich, businessman, who later offers a non-disclosure agreement to her for a private sexual relationship where she is going to discover some of the kinks of him, mostly BDSM.

Is it actually BDSM?

Is it actually BDSM? - Are you inspired by Fifty Shades of Grey?
Well, that depends on your conception of BDSM, for many it can be, for others it is just a joke, and many others can consider it as a vanilla BDSM, personally, I consider this last one as it is a fictional story targeting women from all ages and all cultures, so real BDSM would be a bit too much for a public audience.

Is it an interest story then?

Is it an interest story then? - Are you inspired by Fifty Shades of Grey?
Well, I think it is, actually what I most like it is was to see the perspective from a woman since I’m a man, I think it is something we as men are always interested in, as for the sexual parts I think it was more like a “general” women dream while the character of Christian is a stereotype many men wants to be. So if you ask me if you should read the book, perhaps you should, there isn’t anything wrong as long as you keep it as fictional, but you have to keep your mind open knowing it is not true BDSM and if you move the story to a real-life can be a very scary, manipulative and sexual abuse story.

Is there anything good about it?

Is there anything good about it? - Are you inspired by Fifty Shades of Grey?
I believe so since the story came out, it has been one of the best sellers and the movie was very welcome, but you might be wonder, what’s good on that if you are not even appealed to know about it? well, persons who read the book are starting to be more open about those subjects, which, in case you are into it, it might be good because you can find easily a partner that might want to try at least a soft BDSM. But on the other hand, if you consider the story from a real perspective it is not much than sexual abuse, harassment, and violence, which is a totally different concept from BDSM.

Restraints and BDSM

Restraints and BDSM - Are you inspired by Fifty Shades of Grey?
So most likely, if you are alone and looking for a partner in crime, you might found actually women that have read the book or seen the movie that wouldn’t think it is weird to use a set of sex bed straps to be like Anatasia and Grey or even some other BDSM toys, like these, so, the activities in the book might be a vanilla BDSM for some, but the truth is that it has open opportunities for some others to explore, and who knows, maybe your new partner could like it more than you expect!

Just please bear this in mind!

Just please bear this in mind! - Are you inspired by Fifty Shades of Grey?
The story is fictional, if you hear this story without knowing it you can be sure it is a story from a violented woman who needs help ASAP, Christian the male character, is abusive, possessive, and violent, Anastasia, on the other hand, sounds like a woman who can’t stand against a man like him. In BDSM this never happens, in order to have a relationship of this kind, you must speak with your partner, communication is everything as well as respect.

So what do we need to have a BDSM relationship?

So what do we need to have a BDSM relationship? - Are you inspired by Fifty Shades of Grey?
In order to have a proper BDSM relationship, you must know there are healthy and ethical ways to combine pain and pleasure. A BDSM relationship requires communication, self-knowledge, being emotionally stable, mature, self-awareness, trust, and independence. It’s not just about harming other ones in order to have pleasure, but to take care of your partner and both get pleasure from the same things, or would you like to get violated, harmed, or even raped just to give pleasure to others? Don’t get misled, a fictional story is going to be always fictional, learn to separate good things from bad things. What will always help you is to put yourself in the other one’s shoes with something you don’t like (or you are not sure if you like it or not).

How to be safe with Sex Bed Straps?

So let’s think that you have a partner already that likes to play with sex bed straps or that you found a person that connects with you in that way. How can you make it a safe and good experience to repeat again? I’m going to write down a list of things I consider to be things you should always do in order to have a nice, safe, and wonderful time with sex bed straps.

Trust

Trust - How to be safe with Sex Bed Straps?
One of the most important things to have in a relationship, especially if you are using sex bed straps or you are into BDSM is trust. Basically, you are submitting yourself to your partner (or your partner to you) giving free will to do whatever you (your partner) want with the other bodies, it is not just about tying up somebody to a bed but to know the one that is not tied up is going to use the confidence to seek pleasure for both without harming or putting anyone at risk. So if your partner is confident and trusts you and you trust your partner, it means your relationship is on a different level and you are going to enjoy it more.

What do you like and what you don't

What do you like and what you don't - How to be safe with Sex Bed Straps?
It is satisfying to know the kinks of the other one, but it is good to know what your partner doesn’t like as well as you let your partner know what you don’t like. In this way, none of you are going to get a bad experience and probably an awkward moment and you are going to use your time wiser to get more pleasure, never do anything your partner doesn’t like.

Safewords

Safewords - How to be safe with Sex Bed Straps?
Safewords are a topic that might be silly nowadays for many due to Fifty Shades of Gray as it turned to be a mainstream topic. But beyond that having safewords might actually improve your experience and keep you safe and happy. We know sometimes we lose control when we are enjoying and we believe often we can give more pleasure by doing something that might not be perhaps the best call, but we are so excited that our brain doesn’t work well and we do it thinking it is something good. Having safewords will control these situations if there is anything you or your partner doesn’t like, and as safewords are usually something non-sexual related, it is easy to realize you are doing something wrong (or to let your partner know there is something wrong). Levels are often suggested, one for something you might be aware of but you can keep going, something to be aware it might not be grateful, and the last one when it is totally not okay and you or your partner should stop.

Always have an emergency back up plan

Always have an emergency back up plan - How to be safe with Sex Bed Straps?
It is unusual to face a situation that turns to be dangerous but sometimes it is just enough to be prepared in case face something it is out of control. One of the accessories it is recommended to always have bondage scissors. Bondage scissors are just medical scissors made especially to ensure this experience can be safe always, especially when using ropes or lockable straps, the scissors will allow you to cut pretty much through everything without harming your partner or yourself in the intent if something goes wrong.

Aftercare, cuddles

Aftercare, cuddles - How to be safe with Sex Bed Straps?
In the end, we both are pleased, it is possible, depending on how rough the session is, to start to feel not okay about something, perhaps physical pain or even psychological remorse. It is totally normal to feel like that, but what can help you both is to understand it was just an experience and nothing that was said or done was intended to harm the other one, aftercare means to let the other understand it is okay to have fun like that but that you actually care for the other one beyond your needs and cuddling is a good way to make this process work flawlessly.

How to use sex bed straps

Sex bed straps are easy to use, perhaps, the most complicated part is to learn how to mount them on your bed, but once you figure it out, next time is going to be an easy cake. In any way, if you are finding trouble with this, I’m going to tell you how to use sex bed straps to take advantage and enjoy your experience!

Mount your sex bed straps

Mount your sex bed straps

Most of the sex bed straps come with instructions, it is not that is rocket science but when you can actually see the process it is faster, if you are one of the unlucky ones that got sex bed straps without instructions, as I said before, it is not rocket science, you can figure it out how to sort your problem but it will take more time, just ask yourself if you want to keep the sex bed straps attached to your bed for a lifetime or if you want to remove, so it is easy for you to remember how to unmount it and how to mount it again if you need to do so.

Gather everything you might need

Gather everything you might need

Having handy everything you need is useful so you don’t have to stop in the middle of the experience to try to find something, especially if you are not good at keeping your things in their place. Think about what you might need and ask your partner to be sure nothing is forgotten. Things like any kind of toys, lubricant, wet wipes, towels, paper, and any other thing that might be a tool for your experience are always nice to keep it close.

Set up rules and remember safe words

Set up rules and remember safe words

Rules are often important to make sure, no matter how excited you or your partner are, that there are some things that must not be done or certain limits that shouldn’t be trespassed. Safewords are important too and are an “on-time” sign that something it might not feel okay, is not feeling okay, or that the whole action should be stopped immediately. But what happens if you or your partner are using a ball gag? Well, you find a way to show the other you are not agreeing to do something or to keep going, snapping fingers, tapping something with your hand, even a peace and love sign can do the trick, the important part is to be safe in order to enjoy more.

Agreements

Agreements

Something that might add fun and enjoyment to your experience is to know who is going to be tied up and who doesn’t and if there is a chance to swap roles, which often is interesting. Speak about turns, roles, or any other idea that might add fun in order to know when it is okay to change and do totally differently.

Caring is good but showing it is even better.

Caring is good but showing it is even better.

After all the fun, caring about your partner is good in other to show there is respect and that nothing said or done was mean in any way to harm him/her. Even when your relationship could be merely to have fun or even a friendship it is very important to know the other you care about him/her in order to have a healthy and good relationship. If you are enjoying and your partner as well, it would be silly to end up your relationship just because of something small like this. Besides, who doesn’t love to have a lovely moment and be spoiled when both of you are cuddling and just post-enjoying.

How to clean sex bed straps

There is no big deal when it comes to cleaning your sex bed straps, mainly because it is unusual those get dirty, but if something messy happens, you can clean them out with warm water and regular clothing soap. You can use a small brush to brush it and let it dry. Try to avoid wetting the metallic parts of the sex bed straps; otherwise, you get the risk of getting those rusty. As usual, I will show you an infographic with a few tips on "how to clean" certain materials.

FAQ

Absolutely. Most of them assure you are free of materials that commonly produce allergies, but overall al the materials are safe.

No, it shouldn't do! The aim of the game with bondage straps is to keep you restrained and held. The restraints are often firm and unforgiving but the materials they are made of often allow for comfort. You want to enjoy yourself after all! If you feel any pain or discomfort then stop immediately and check you're using it right!

Everyone who has confidence with his/her partner. Confidence is one of the keys to using sex bed straps, so if you have confidence with your partner and both agree and are willing to try sex bed straps then everything should work well.

Yes! They are all tried and tested THOROUGHLY before they are safe for use! All products go through rigorous testing before they are produced en mass, and you can be assured that everything is body-safe as can be!

As long as you and your partner want. Some of the sex bed straps come with cushions and a very comfortable wrist, so it would be fair to say that it is most likely easier for you to get tired and than uncomfortable.

Anyone! That one was easy! If you and your partner want to give bondage straps a go then just do it! As long as you communicate with each other and understand each other’s limits then you should be absolutely fine. Keep it safe and have fun!

Unfortunately, the correct answer here is the one that you like the most. I personally like the St. Andrews Cross.

Well, for as long as you and your partner want. Some are cushioned for comfort and offer levels of support, so they're good to go for as long as you are. The best thing to do is listen to your body - if it's telling you you're getting tired then give it a rest and come back to your bondage straps later.

Sex bed straps are ideal for beginners since they use adjustable straps, rather than requiring the user(s) to get good at tying knots. They can also be used with any mattress, meaning your options won’t be limited by your type of bed.

With a bit of creativity, nearly anything is possible! Since yoga straps are relatively stretchy but can easily be pulled taut, they can be used in a wide variety of ways to restrict your partner’s movements. Experiment to see what works best for you & your partner.

What are sex bed straps?

Sex bed straps are an easy and intelligent way to turn your bed into a BDSM playground. Sex bed straps are easy to mount/unmount and can be taken anywhere if you travel a lot, making them perfect for BDSM beginners. These systems provide 2 to 4 restraint points where the wrist and ankles can be held. They are a great option if you don't have a proper space to have this kind of fun or if you are traveling a lot. Sex bed straps are a must-have for persons who love BDSM as well as those who are just getting into it. Bondage straps allow you to restrain or be restrained. They could come in the form of simple hand cuffs or ankle cuffs, all the way up to full body restraints for sexy and powerfully pleasing positioning. They're great for BDSM adventures and a sexily fun accessory to have in your bedroom arsenal! Available in a variety of designs and made from a wide selection of materials, there are bondage straps for people of all lifestyles, sexual deviances, and body types, making bondage both affordable & available to everyone.

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