The 7 Best Anal Gaping Toys to Open You Wide Up
Cassie Mørch
Tantus Inner Band Trainer
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Tantus Inner Band Trainer
Tantus Inner Band Trainer
- Silicone dildo with a very tapered tip
- Designed to train the sphincter and the puborectalis
- Simple, smooth shaft
- Diameter: 2 inches.
- Great for stretching the inner muscles
- Perfect balance between firm and flexible
- Smooth surface feels super nice during gradual insertion
- Good quality materials
- Not suitable for wearing long-term
| Tantus Inner Band Trainer | |
|---|---|
| Length | 9 inches |
| Insertable length | 8.5 inches |
| Diameter | 2 inches |
| Materials | Premium silicone |
| Waterproof | Yes |
I picked out the Tantus Inner Band Trainer as the Test Winner because it’s a great quality anal gaping toy. It’s comfortable to use and, according to our tester, Devon, “unlike most butt plugs, it doesn’t have any annoying pops upon insertion. It has a continuous girth that is perfect for holding the outer sphincter and inner band open simultaneously for a balanced full stretch.” This simple design with a tapered tip and straight tubular shaft may seem almost too simple but that’s the beauty of it. Not only will it leave your hole gaping and open after using it for a while, it will warm you up for bigger or longer anal toys for depth play. The length and diameter makes it “the perfect tool for stretching both the Anal sphincter and the Puborectalis muscle” which is more commonly known as the inner band. The quality of the Tantus Inner Band Trainer “is top notch – 5 stars for sure. […] It is a perfect stiffness of excellent 100% Ultra-Premium soft silicone. Soft and stiff at the same time, not floppy.” A lot of huge anal toys like this are often made of PVC (including some of the items on this list) which is a porous material. For complete peace of mind in terms hygiene and a more long-lasting product in general, silicone is a much better option.
Titanmen Master Tool No.4 Butt Plug
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Titanmen Master Tool No.4
Titanmen Master Tool No.4
- Beaded butt plug
- Made of PVC
- Wide flat base
- Diameter: 2.54 inches
- Great for gradual anal stretching thanks to beaded design
- Stiff enough to be easy to insert
- Wide base makes it easy to push in with your whole hand
- A bit too long for comfortable long-term wear
- PVC is porous
| Titanmen Master Tool No.4 | |
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| Length | 7 inches |
| Insertable length | 6 inches |
| Diameter | 2.54 inches |
| Materials | Phthalate-free PVC with Sil-A-Gel |
| Waterproof | Yes |
The Titanmen Master Tool No.4 is a girthy butt plug that offers a little extra stimulation with its beaded design. This gradually increasing girth with the smooth transition between the beads is designed to slowly stretch you out. Our tester, Sierra, “found insertion of this large butt plug to be quite easy. The top of the toy is very smooth and not much larger than the tips of two fingers (depending on the size of your fingers, of course)”. Going through each bead does take some patience and lube, but, luckily, “the wide, flared base of the toy allows you to use your whole hand to push on it which makes insertion relatively easy if playing solo”. While you can the plug as you go about your day, Sierra did wish it was a tad shorter since “it was hitting in the wrong spot for me” while walking and sitting. As far as the quality goes, it’s pretty decent. I’m not a fan of PVC toys but non-porous materials are safer to use for anal play rather than vaginal penetration. Although, they are difficult to keep completely clean. To keep things sanitary, you can always use it with a condom.
Oxy Ass Anchor Expanding Butt Plug
Oxy Ass Anchor
- Love using large butt plugs
- Love the feeling of being stretched out
- Want a 100% silicone anal toy
- Like the idea of a "peep hole"
Oxy Ass Anchor
- Prefer using a silicone based lube for anal play
- Struggle with grip issues of limited hand strength
- Don't have a partner to help insert the toy
- Expanding butt plug with a T-bar base
- Made of flexible silicone
- Hollow design
- Diameter ranges between 1.6-2.95 inches.
- Body-safe silicone that's easy to sterilize
- Comfortable to wear thanks to the flexible T-bar base
- Hollow design adds some visual stimulation for a partner
- No different color or size options
- Difficult to use alone
- Tip is more rounded than tapered
| Oxy Ass Anchor | |
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| Length | 3 inches |
| Insertable length | 2.8 inches |
| Diameter | Collapsed: 1.6 inches, Expanded: 2.95 inches |
| Materials | Liquid Silicone |
| Waterproof | Yes |
The Oxy Ass Anchor Expanding Butt Plug is another great option for achieving some gorgeous anal gaping. The flexible silicone ‘petals’ can be pushed together while inserted and automatically ‘blooms’ once placed inside the anus. Leaving it in for a while as well the act of pulling it out while expanded can help the sphincter stretch out nicely. Our tester, Felicia, did find that insertion is difficult to tackle alone. It’s quite tricky to hold the plug together while it’s all lubed up. Especially since the tip is a lot more rounded than tapered. That said, Felicia “loved the feel of the plug once it was in, and expanded; it gave a fulfilled, yet empty sensation.” The large base is comfortable and keeps the plug securely in place. Another great feature is the ‘peep hole’ at the bottom. Apparently, “the hole in the bottom made it so that there was a bit of a “breeze” coming up the tunnel. This was a wild sensation for me, and definitely shivered my timbers!” The only minor con that came up during this review was that it was a bit difficult to clean in between each ‘petal’ but otherwise, the silicone itself makes it pretty easy to submerge in water and sterilize. “It also collects dust fairly quickly so storing it away in a silk bag or in a hidden chest somewhere is ideal.”
Cock Locker Ace of Spades XL Gaper Butt Plug
Cock Locker Ace of Spades XL
- Are tired of traditional toys
- Want an adjustable anal gaper
- Have a willing partner
- Enjoy anal stretching
- Training your body for large insertions
- Pushing your anal boundaries
Cock Locker Ace of Spades XL
- Are allergic to latex
- Need a budget-friendly option
- Are buying your first anal toy
- are new to anal play
- haven't mastered breathing and relaxation techniques
- are not interested in anal stretching
- Huge inflatable butt plug
- Made of expandable latex
- Includes a hand pump, a hose, and a quick-release valve
- Can be inflated up to 6.4 inches in diameter.
- Customizable girth
- Easy to use
- Has a very wide range of widths to explore
- Insertion can be a bit tricky
| Cock Locker Ace of Spades XL | |
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| Length | 8.5 inches |
| Insertable length | 8 inches |
| Diameter | Up to 6.4 inches |
| Waterproof | Yes |
| Materials | Latex |
| Quick-release valve | Yes |
The Cock Locker Ace of Spades XL is an impressive device that will stretch you to your limit. The inflatable butt plug can expand to up to 46.4 inches in diameter! As our tester, Sierra, concluded in her review: “If you’re interested in anal training for girth, this is the toy for you. It’s adjustable diameter allows you (or your play partner) to slowly increase its size and allow your body time to adjust. Your inner sadomaschist is going to love it!”. You can easily inflate the plug to your desired size with the hand pump, and deflate it quickly with the quick-release valve when you need a break. In practice, Sierra also found her limit much earlier than she was expecting: “By pump 12 or 13, I was definitely feeling the plug and by pump 15, I was feeling quite full. I was quite surprised because from my initial pump test, 15 pumps was barely inflated at all! […] Another slow squeeze…Oh. Em. Gee. And another – I moaned and whimpered involuntarily (a first for me). I gave one more half pump before I couldn’t quite take it anymore.” Playing around with the wide range of girth as well as removing it while inflated will very quickly make your anus into a gaping hole. Although keep in mind that insertion can be a bit tricky unless it’s a bit inflated already. It could be improved by having a bit of a firm core. Still, there is one potential issue you may run into with this anal expander, and that’s the fact it’s made of latex. While this shouldn’t pose an issue for most people, those with allergies won’t be able to enjoy this toy. Those who don’t like using porous materials internally can always use it with a condom.
Oxy Extreme Anal Spreader
Oxy Extreme Anal Spreader
- Are very experienced with anal play
- Want a unique type of toy
- Prefer budget-friendly options
- are into anal stretching/gaping
- accommodating large objects
- are working towards fisting
- enjoy being able to view inside the body
Oxy Extreme Anal Spreader
- Are new to anal play
- Don’t have an interested partner
- Don’t like metal toys
- are new to anal play
- uncomfortable with being a little uncomfortable
- are not into pushing your limits
- Stainless steel anal speculum
- Can be adjusted y the 6 screws & wingnuts
- Expands up to 4.33 inches.
- Easy to adjust
- Stainless steel is durable and great for temperature play
- Great for anyone with a medical fetish
- Offers a wide range of expansion
- Difficult to operate alone
| Oxy Extreme Anal Spreader | |
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| Length | 5.7 inches |
| Insertable length | 4.9 inches |
| Diameter | Up to 3.55 inches |
| Materials | Zinc Alloy |
| Allergies | Contains nickel |
| Waterproof | Yes |
The Oxy Extreme Anal Spreader is different type of anal gaping toy. This is a kind of anal speculum that expands and stretches your anus open as your tighten the screws. It gives a full view to your insides and leaves your hole gaping open afterwards. This anal gaper is a toy that’s best left to those with a decent amount of experience under their belt. Fortunately, this anal expander is pretty easy to operate. The experience needed is mostly in regards to the stretch you’ll be experiencing with this device. Our tester, Sierra, noted that “for experienced anal players, at fully closed, the toy is easily inserted and the cool metal makes for an deliciously interesting sensation.” While it doesn’t offer quite as “filling” of an experience as your traditional plug, it does offer a different experience which could be a welcomed change for advanced users. If you’re bored of other toys then it’s worth trying out, but if you also happen to have a medical fetish, then this is practically a must-have for your toy box! Even though Sierra was mostly pleased with the sensation from this anal gaper, “my only wish was that the prongs were longer to open up a little more inside me”. She did struggle a bit with the rubber rings meant to stop the wingnuts from getting too close to the center. They often made it difficult to move the screws. Therefore, this is definitely kind of toy you want some help with using.
Oxy Anal Slaughter Huge Butt Plug
Oxy Anal Slaughter Huge Butt Plug
Oxy Anal Slaughter Huge Butt Plug
- Girthy cone dildo
- Made of PVC
- Suction cup base
- Diameter: 3 inches.
- Perfectly stiff for this kind of anal stretching
- Easy to clean
- Incredibly strong suction cup base
- PVC is porous
| Oxy Anal Slaughter Huge Butt Plug | |
|---|---|
| Insertable length | 5 inches |
| Length | 7.5 inches |
| Diameter | 3 inches |
| Waterproof | Yes |
| Materials | PVC |
Devon also tested the Oxy Anal Slaughter Huge Butt Plug for us. This is one of the best cone dildos that we’ve tested here at Bedbible. Even though it’s made of porous PVC, it performs very well and is surprisingly easy to use! “It looked a bit intimidating at first but as soon as I sat down on it I was thinking “who is gonna slaughter who, challenge accepted”. Cone dildos are great for experiencing a smooth, gradual stretch as you lower yourself down on it. This one offers some impressive girth along with that. “The fullness provides very pleasurable pressure internally to include the prostate. I grind and thrust to massage and stretch my sphincters and muscles within the pelvis.” As far as the materials go. Devon actually preferred the PVC: “Pure silicone toys I have tried are just not firm enough. Though it has some stiffness, the Anal Slaughter Huge Butt Plug has the right amount of flexibility to move with my body when thrusting against a solid surface such as the floor, yet enough stiffness to handle most of my body weight without collapsing.” Last but certainly not least is this added feature of a strong suction cup base. According to Devon, it was one of the strongest ones he has tried. “I even left town for four days and upon return, this was right where I left it – on the wall and not easy to remove.”
Cannonballs Giant Silicone Anal Beads
Cannonballs Giant Silicone Anal Beads
Cannonballs Giant Silicone Anal Beads
- Huge anal beads with a sturdy finger loop at the end
- Set of three beads with slim smooth silicone “string” in between each bead
- Made of silicone
- Diameter: 2.4 inches
- Incredibly intensity sensations
- You can insert as much as you're comfortable with
- The weight and density makes it great for impact play as well
- Lack of taper makes it difficult to use
- Only suited for very advanced users
| Cannonballs Giant Silicone Anal Beads | |
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| Length | 16.5 inches |
| Insertable length | 13 inches |
| Diameter | 2.4 inches |
| Materials | Silicone |
| Waterproof | Yes |
Anal beads are also a great tool for achieving that gaping hole that’s ready for anything. In fact, they offer a lot more intensity compared to some of the other products in this review. With the Cannonballs Giant Silicone Anal Beads, each bead is a project. You get to enjoy the sensation of pushing three large beads in and pulling three large beads out for every insertion. Our tester, Allen, actually found that they were way too big for his comfort and ended up giving it a lower score because of this. But, as he mentions in the review as well, I think they’re great for advanced anal adventurers who are looking for a project toy to work their way up to. “It’s the largest toy I’ve ever tried to use as far as width goes. 2.4″ wide right from the get go with ZERO taper to help get things started. This toy was going to stretch me to my limits.” The balls are also very rigid and have not give whatsoever. It took three separate tries and he even had to learn how to fist himself before successfully inserting the first bead. “Once they were in, they felt great, satisfyingly filling and not uncomfortable in any way. I was however only able to fit two of the three balls in me, the third was too long.” Expected experience level aside, I really do think the Cannonballs Giant Silicone Anal Beads are a good quality item since they’re made of silicone. They’re very durable and last a lot longer than porous materials. Because of the sheer weight of these, Allen also noted that they could potentially be used for impact play as well. Of course, only on the meatier areas of the body and while exercising plenty of caution and consent!
Types of Anal Gaping Toys
Different types of toys work better for different purposes, but that doesn’t mean you need to limit yourself to one type of anal gaper!- Butt Plug Set – A set containing multiple sizes of butt plugs. While the plugs included in the set will generally all use the same shape, some sets may offer different styles of plugs as well!
- Expanding Plugs – These plugs use an external pump to expand the plug size, often doubling the size of the plug (or more!). Hand pumps are the most common method used for pumping these toys, but the lack of long-term reliability may be an issue (depending on the product in question).
- Hollow Plugs – These plugs function similarly to regular butt plugs. However, they’re completely hollow in the middle, which allows the wearer’s partner to have full visual access inside the wearer’s anus.
- Anal Speculums – These medically-inspired devices are designed to manually spread the anus. Essentially, they’re the same devices used by doctors to perform a Pap smear, just repurposed for anal use!
How to Use Anal Gaping Toys
Although there are a few different types of anal gaping toys you can choose from, they all generally work in the same manner. Is it your first time using an anal gaper? If so, you can follow this general process outline to safely and properly enjoy your new toy!
Apply Lube
Assuming you already have your anal gaper in hand, the first thing you’ll need to do is apply lube. Apply lube directly to your anus, as well as to the toy itself. If you haven’t warmed up yet, you can just lube your anus for now, saving lubing the toy itself until right before you insert it.
Warm Up
Before attempting to use any type of large anal toy, it’s always a good idea to warm yourself up first. This is fairly easy to do! You can either do this with your fingers (massaging around and inside the area) or by using a smaller toy. Make sure you’re properly warmed up before attempting to insert the anal gaping toy to prevent injury.
Insert the Toy
Once you’re all warmed up and the anal expander is properly lubricated, it’s time to try inserting the toy. Apply constant pressure while inserting, but don’t force anything. If needed, add more lube, and try warming up more if lube alone isn’t enough to make insertion possible. You’ll need to continue this gentle, consistent force until you’ve pushed the toy properly into place. Once you feel the toy fall into place, you can start to really enjoy your new anal gaping toy!
How to Clean Anal Gaping Toys
It might be a bit of a pain, but fortunately, cleaning your anal gaping toys isn’t very hard. All toys can be cleaned, but only toys without electrical components that are made from a non-porous material—such as silicone-–can be cleaned. To clean your anal gaper, simply use antibacterial soap and warm water. Clean once, then wash the toy off with water only. To sterilize your anal expander, drop the toy in a pot of boiling water for a minimum of five minutes. Once you’re done cleaning and/or sterilizing your toy, it’s time to dry it off. Pat the toy down using a towel and then leave it out to air dry. Never store your toy(s) away when they’re still damp as this can cause bacteria and mold to grow in the moisture!
FAQ
What are Anal Gaping Toys?
Anal gaping toys are toys that are designed to keep the anus spread apart. These toys can come in many different forms—from butt plugs to speculums—-but they all serve the same purpose. Although not specifically limited to more advanced users, most gaping toys are rather large, making them best for the experienced.
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