Lovehoney Desire Luxury Strapless Strap-On — Test & Review
Vicki Misiunaite
- are kinky and love Dom/sub play
- you and your partner are into anal play
- both of you want to try new experiences and sensations
- are a bit squeamish and not okay dealing with body fluids
- never played with anyone's ass before, not a beginner toy
- are looking for a quick orgasm/ quick play/ aren't comfortable with scene prep
The strap on is created in the way that both partners would be able to enjoy at the same time. While usual strap ons are used with harness and it is indicated to pleasure other person, this does not require a separate harness and allows you to feel pleasure and vibrations while you are using the toy on your partner too. It has a lovely colour, is very smooth and has multiple different vibration settings for different ends of a strap on.
Casual pegging after work? Not as easy as you might have thought!
I was so excited once I saw it had been delivered and could not wait to use it! For some reason, it didn’t register in my brain that this strapless strap-on might not be a toy that can be used straight away. Especially if your partner does not live in the same city as you! 🙂 To my disappointment, I figured that this might need some time and a bit of preparation to get the logistics in place. I was eager to open up the toy and was pleasantly surprised by the quality and the posh leather pouch for storage! I was more than keen to learn about this vibrating strap-ons patterns and settings, and I was glad I took my time with it as it was a bit confusing! Once the logistics and schedules were sorted, Saturday pegging afternoon was officially in the diary! I was actually grateful to have a bit of time to familiarize myself with the toy before using it, to get to know how it works. Unfortunately, I am not a very patient person…When patience eventually runs out…
As I was not able to peg anyone in the meantime and, believe me, I truly tried to find additional volunteers, my curiosity won and I decided to see if the toy can be used in more ways than just pegging. The answer is YES! I pleasantly discovered that this toy could be used as two separate toys too: G-spot vibrator and a vibrating dildo! The top bit for G spot can be adjusted too so it is easier to put on the exact right spot to achieve maximum amounts of pleasure. Let me just tell you, I was definitely not disappointed with this new revelation. 😉The pegging day has come!
Finally, the day arrived when they toy could find its purpose! As fun as it sounds, unfortunately, it required a bit of preparation. We created prolonged scene as it was essential to warm up my partner’s anus and stretch it out before putting the toy in. Depending on your comfort level of bodily fluids as well, an enema or a douche is worth considering and you should keep in mind the additional time that it requires. It felt a bit wobbly not using the harness and changing the vibration settings without seeing the buttons was an interesting experience, but eventually we found our rhythm. The angles in doggy position worked very well and the vibrations just increased the pleasure. It is a lot of pressure on the vagina to hold onto strap on so it can get quite tiring, however the vibrations do help to increase the pleasure. Eventually, both ends hit the right spots and it was a connecting experience as both of us were at the blink of orgasm at the same time. The waiting and the effort were well worth it. 🙂Clean up crew to the rescue!
In the middle of extreme passion, dildo can be inserted quite far (be careful not to hurt your partner) so even with extensive preparation, it might still get messy once the toy is removed. I can reassure you that aftermath was not as bad as you would think and the toy is extremely easy to clean. As it is waterproof it can be washed off easily and used disinfected products on it if needed. Everything did not go smoothly, but we both enjoyed using the toy, and I can see that with some more practise, the little hiccups can be easily resolved! It truly helps to do a long foreplay beforehand, if the vaginal muscles aren’t that strong to move the strap on for a long time. 🙂
It is lovely purple colour. I like the smoothness and the design of the toy. With the leather pouch that it came with felt like a very posh toy! Personally I love it!
The toy is quite self explanatory and isn't very hard to use, but if you are not used to using sex toys, there might be few difficulties you might encounter on the way. The buttons are a bit confusing. The main button does not turn the toy on as expected. The way to turn it on is to press plus - increasing button and to turn it off it is minus decreasing button few times. The main button just changes the settings. I suggest looking at it and playing with it before playing with a partner as you might by accident increase the vibrations without realising and if you suddenly needed to turn it off, you might not be able to if you are pressing the wrong button. There are different vibration settings, where one end vibrates and the other doesn't so it is useful to know which vibration setting you want beforehand too. It takes a bit of practise to use it too without thinking that it will fall out. You definitely need to use lube and warm up the anus as it is easy to hurt your partner if they aren't used to anal play or haven't done in a while! It's not a beginners toy for sure, but once you both warmed up, you can both experience some great sensations! The vagina muscles get tired too, so intense thrusting might not be achievable for long. However, using the vibrations and going slowly helps to increase pleasure and save your energy too! It was definitely easier to use it as a solo toy than using it as a strap on.
The quality of the toy is great. It does not feel cheap. It is a light toy, but you can feel reliability and the quality of both ends and vibrations. It is adjustable so you can find the right angle for both partners to feel pleasure!
It is not a cheap toy, but it is definitely worth the money you pay for it. The quality of the toy is amazing and all the features are worth the price. Compare to other high end vibrators, similar toys the price is actually very reasonable and a bit cheaper than some other companies. So as it might not be a cheap toy, but the value for the price in comparison is excellent.
The vibrations are amazing! Definitely quite strong, but it didn't feel like you needed strong vibrations on this toy. but the different patterns can make you loose control. Some patterns actually make one side vibrate, but not the other which I found it quite interesting. The vibrations aren't too loud and battery lasted well! It does not hurt the top partner at all but could hurt a bit the bottom one if the toy is used fast and hard without proper preparation or lubrication. The toy did not die on us so not sure what is the battery life just yet.
Feels very genderless. It isn't the smallest toy so not the most discreet one, but the colour does not stand out too much. In the pouch there was instructions how to use it.
Lovely toy! Smooth and aesthetically pleasing! It is waterproof and has great vibrations. Very easy to clean, It feels light in your hand and when putting it in, easy to manage. It has a lovely leather pouch for storage too!
| Waterproof | Yes |
| Vibration modes | Different modes for different ends of a strap on |
| Storage Bag Included | A very fancy leather pouch |
| Rechargeable | Yes -power cable included but no plug |
| Remote Controls | No |
| Weight | Light lbs |
| Adjustable | Yes |
- Can be used for solo and couples play
- Posh storage bag
- Different vibration settings for both ends of the strap on
- Smooth and ecstatically pleasing design
- Good quality toy
- Can pleasure both partners at once, instead of needing additional toys
- Sometimes needed a bit adjustment
- Can feel like it is going to slip out if moving fast
- Buttons are a learning curve
- Needs some preparation time
- Requires quite strong pelvic floor muscles
- Can get quite tiring
Are you a bit bored at doing the same things with your partner and are looking for new hobbies to do together? Fancy trying something new like casual pegging on Saturday afternoons? If so, look no further! This toy will guarantee to brighten you and your partner's weekend.
