5 Best Tribbing Toys for Grinding

   Isabelle Uren
Role up for a round up of the best tribbing toys to take your bumping and grinding to new heights of pleasure! Together with a team of Bedbible testers, we’ve reviewed a ton of toys, and the winner of the all is actually specifically designed for tribbing with a partner. But, don’t worry, I’ve also included some great solo options!
1 Test Winner

Wet For Her RockHer Scissoring Vibrator

 Wet For Her RockHer

  • Want a toy specifically for scissoring
  • Want a versatile toy
  • Enjoy powerful vibrations
  • Enjoy supporting lesbian-founded businesses

Wet For Her RockHer

  • Find vibrations overstimulating
  • Are not ready for a bit of a learning curve

  • Specifically to for scissoring/tribbing
  • Consisting of a vibrating bulb and molded silicone loop

  • Can be used in many ways
  • Wireless remote
  • Powerful vibrations
  • Flexible to fit a range of bodies

  • Might not work well for bigger bodies
  • Splashproof but not submersible
  • Medium strength vibrations
  • Only comes in purple
Wet For Her RockHer
Vibration speeds3
Vibration patterns7
Length2.75 inches
Insertable length2.6 inches
Width1.26 inches
MaterialsMedical-Grade Silicone
WaterproofSplashproof (suitable for shower)
Battery Life60 minutes
RechargeableRockHer: Yes, Remote Control: No
Charging Time60 minutes
Travel LockNo
Remote ControlsPhysical remote
App ControlsNo
Storage Bag IncludedNo
Colors AvailablePurple

You can really tell that this is a purpose-designed scissoring toy made by people who have experience of scissoring which is why this is one the best tribbing toy – no doubt! And I had to to make it the test winner! I love how versatile it is, so even if it doesn’t do it for you as scissoring toy, there are still other ways to enjoy this smart little vibe! Our tester, Kaitlyn and her partner, primarily experimented with those as they generally don’t like scissoring. Despite that preference, she did say: “I would for sure recommend buying it (sooner rather than later) if you’re someone who already loves scissoring”. this is in large part because the RockHer’s “outer loop provides clitoral stimulation and light labia spreading” at the same time, making it really great if you actually had two – one for each partner. And, for Kaitlyn it “inspired some creativity”, which is more than she can say about other toys they’ve tried and they “enjoyed experimenting” with it.

2 Budget-Friendly

ROMP Wave Clitoral Vibrator

 ROMP Wave

  • Are fan of gentle, more buzzy vibrations
  • Want a soft flexible tribbing toy
  • Prefer an abstract, neutral design

ROMP Wave

  • Prioritize internal stimulation
  • Prefer rumbly vibrations
  • Need a lot of power

  • Leaf-like shape, no handle, soft on either side
  • One button control

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  • Lovely soft silicone
  • Quiet vibrations
  • Discreet design
  • Waterproof

  • Might not be powerful enough for some
  • Need to hold in place
  • Too buzzy for some tastes
ROMP Wave
Vibration speeds6
Vibration patterns4
Length4.3 inches
Width1.9 inches
WaterproofSilicone
WaterproofYes
FlexibilityFlexible
RechargeableYes
Battery Life60 minutes
Charging Time120 minutes
Travel LockNo
Storage Bag IncludedNo

Our tester, Morgan, found the vibrations very buzzy and on the weak side, but she actually enjoyed this. And, the added benifit is that the vibrations were also “whisper quiet” for Morgan. If you crave intense, rumbly vibrations, this is not the tribbing toy for you. But, if you’re okay with weaker vibrations and want to save some money to try it out, then it’s great. Morgan and her partner really loved the smooth contours of the Romp Wave and the neutral design saying it is “great for all genitals”. The ultimate reason I chose this as the best budget-friendly option is this comment from Morgan that really sealed the deal: “the contoured shape fit well between my partner and myself and was a delightful sensation to grind against whilst riding my partner”. Also, they added it “traveled discreetly” although it wouldn’t make it to her collection of personal toys, it did prove to be a great tribbing vibrator at a very low-cost price.

3 Best for Beginners

Lovehoney Desire Dual Stimulation Love Egg

 Lovehoney Desire Dual Stim. Love Egg

Lovehoney Desire Dual Stim. Love Egg

  • Posable tail
  • Remote controlled

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  • Made with high-quality silicone
  • Cordless remote control
  • Waterproof
  • Extremely quiet
  • Comfortable to wear while walking

  • Clitoris nub can become uncomfortable
  • Vibrations are on the weak side
  • Clitoral nub doesn't vibrate on its own
  • Not ideal for thrusting
  • Remote control is small and easy to lose track of in the moment
Lovehoney Desire Dual Stim. Love Egg
Vibration speeds5
Vibration patterns5
Length5.5 inches
Insertable length3 inches
Diameter1.35 inches
MaterialsSilicone
WaterproofYes
Battery Life60 minutes
RechargeableYes
Charging Time120 minutes
Remote ControlsCordless Remote
Travel LockYes
Storage Bag IncludedYes
Colors AvailablePurple

One particular thing about the review from Britnee and her partner made me certain this was the best tribbing toys for beginners. Even without prior knowledge about the toys possible usages, Britnee and her partner started “both enjoy(ing) it at the same time by doing some grinding in just the right spot but the end of the clitoral tail”. You can’t expect similar levels of stimulation to some of the more specific tribbing vibrations, but because of the design of the toy the vibrations will travel up and into the tail. As a more experiences couple you might find that it “is better for daytime teasing and during masturbation” than for actual tribbing sessions like Britnee and her partner did. But I still strongly believe that it’s a great way to start of your toy-enhanced scissoring/tribbing journey.

4 Best Double Dildo

Blush Rusé Double Dildo

 Blush Rusé

  • both want to experience penetration
  • prefer a girthy shaft
  • don't mind realistic designs

Blush Rusé

  • need something very slim
  • prefer clitoral stimulation
  • aren't a fan of phallic designs

  • Holds U-shape, but can be slightly bent
  • Shaft features realistic textural details + sculpted head

  • Satisfying girth
  • Pleasure for both partners
  • Body-safe silicone
  • Versatile use

  • Can be tricky to position
  • Might not work for all bodies or positions
  • Not for beginners
Blush Rusé
WaterproofYes
Length18 inches
Insertable length9 inches
Diameter1.75 inches
MaterialsSilicone
Storage Bag IncludedNo
Colors AvailableHot Pink, Black

Finding a double dildo that’s made of body-safe silicone and not some awful jelly thing is nothing short of a miracle! And, in my expert opinion, I have no f-ing clue why that is. But, when Ashley from the Bedbible tester team finally reviewed (and loved) a silicone double dildo I knew it had to be included in this post. It’s a super high-quality scissoring dildo at a very reasonable price! Although Ashley was very surprised about the large size, she did say the “the silky feel helps with the thickness of it” and that “it is very filling”.  The main concert Ahsley had was that it couldn’t be bent enough to straighten out completely. Which, in turn, does make it “more suitable for partner play” and tribbing, while not being the best for solo use.

5 Best for Solo Tribbing

Uberrime LaBae Grinder

 Uberrime LaBae Grinder

Uberrime LaBae Grinder

  • Textured like labia major and minor
  • Meant for manual grinding

  • Super cute, unique design
  • Soft, gentle, squishy yet firm silicone
  • Easy to use with other toys

  • Not a lot of distinct textures
  • Small size leads to awkward hands-off angles
  • May need assistance if you have mobility issues
Uberrime LaBae Grinder
Length3.5 inches
Width2.58 inches
Height1.5 inches
MaterialsPlatinum-Grade Silicone
WaterproofYes
Storage Bag IncludedNo
Colors AvailableIndigo/Pink, Indigo/Violet

The Uberrime LaBae is mainly meant for solo use, as it only has one side to grind on, and no vibrations or any other features. It’s a quite a simple toy, but as with a lot of the reviews on Bedbible, it often happens that simpler the toys get better the reviews. It was no different when I heard how much Vern liked testing the Uberrime LaBae. He said using it “makes for a heavenly grinding session” and are perfect for anyone who wants a little extra texture action to a grinding session”. Also, Vern found it was“easy to use in tandem with other toys”, which makes sense because the silicone is so soft. It also works great as it felt to Vern like he was “scissoring someone”, but “without the awkwardness of the right angles on another person’s body”. One thing Vern did comment on, was how important using lube with a soft silicone toy like this  as “there’s a good bit of friction when using it dry”. He also experienced the fun of “using a wand in tandem with it” as it “leads to a fun vibration grind-sesh”.

Use Sex Pillows to Elevate Your Tribbing With Some Angled Assistance

Whether you are grinding against a partner or a sex toy, getting the right position and right angles can make or break a tribbing sesh! Sex pillows allow you to easily adjust your angle so you make as much contact as possible and support your body at the same time. Many are made with high density foam, meaning that unlike regular pillows, they don’t flatten under your body weight. I can also recommend opting for one with removable, machine washable covers, as we all know, things can get messy!

Liberator Jaz Motion Rocking Sex Pillow

Liberator Jaz Motion Rocking Sex Pillow - Use Sex Pillows to Elevate Your Tribbing With Some Angled Assistance
This cleverly shaped pillow from Liberator has a curved edge to help you find your groove and rock and grind until your heart’s content! The micro velvet cover is luxurious soft, and is machine washable. The pillow also has a moisture resistance inner lining to protect the foam! Not just for tribbing, the Liberator Jaz is great for adding support in a whole host of sex positions, including oral play!

The Best Tribbing Toys for a Solo Tribbing Experience

If you love tribbing and want to recreate the delicious grinding sensation in your solo sessions, there are loads of great grinding toys to choose from. Here are a couple of my favorites.

VibePad

VibePad - The Best Tribbing Toys for a Solo Tribbing Experience
The soft mounds of the VibePad nestle up against your vulva and deliver 7 modes of powerfully pleasing vibrations. As you grind against the soft silicone, you can use the wireless remote to find your perfect setting. This beautifully designed humping vibrator is great enjoyed alone or with a partner!

Bumpers to Go in Your Strap-On Harness For a Tribbing Feel

Strap-on harnesses are a great way to enjoy penetrative sex with your partner but there’s often a lack of stimulation for the wearing partner and the dildo can sometimes bash against your pubic bone. However, these cute cushions fix both problems! They slip over the end of your dildo to cushion the bottom and have a textured grinding pad on the other side to stimulate the wearers clitoris and labia!

BumpHer Bumpher Dildo Base

BumpHer Bumpher Dildo Base  - Bumpers to Go in Your Strap-On Harness For a Tribbing Feel
The Bumpher has two pleasure bumps to bump and grind against while you enjoy strap-on sex with your partner! Unlike the previous two bases, the Bumpher has an open back design that stretches over the base of your dildo, making it compatible with any dildo with a base up to 3 1/4 inches in diameter!

Go All Out With A Sex Machine for Solo Tribbing

If you are ready for some turbo tribbing in your solo sessions, this sex machine takes things to a whole new level! Saddle up and get ready for the ride of your lifetime!

The Cowgirl Unicorn Premium Sex Machine

The Cowgirl Unicorn Premium Sex Machine - Go All Out With A Sex Machine for Solo Tribbing
This sleek sex saddle packs a whole lot of power! 1200 RPM of mind blowing vibrations, in fact. It comes with one grinding pad and one insertable attachment, so you can switch things up. You can control this bucking bronco using the wired remote or connect to the app for some long-distance play!

Why You Should Introduce Sex Toys Into Your Tribbing Time

While tribbing can be incredibly pleasurable without sex toys, tribbing toys certainly take things up a notch! Here are some of the main benefits of using tribbing sex toys:
  • Added sensations — Many tribbing toys vibrate or have added textures that can enhance the stimulation for one or both partners and increase the pleasure and the chance of having an orgasm.
  • Internal stimulation — While tribbing focusses on external stimulation of the labia and clitoris, some tribbing toys, like double dildos, and internal stimulation to the mix.
  • Better positioning — Sex pillows are a great tool for helping you and your partner get comfortable and find a position where your vulva’s are better aligned.
  • Shared fun — Trying something new with your partner can be great for building intimacy and keeping this exciting!

Types of Tribbing Toys

Unfortunately, there are still relatively few sex toys dedicated purely to tribbing. However, there are plenty of sex toys that take your tribbing up a notch! Here are the different types of tribbing sex toys you can enjoy.
  • Love eggs — Vibrating eggs are a great way to get some internal/g-spot stimulation while tribbing. They are convenient as they are contained inside the vagina so don’t restrict the vulva. The only downside is that both partner’s will need one each if they want to enjoy the added stimulation!
  • Double dildos — If you both love internal stimulation, a double dildo is the way to go! You can choose between a molded U-shape or a long, flexible one.
  • Strapless strap-ons — If you both enjoy internal stimulation but prefer one partner to take on the penetrating role, a strapless strap on is a good option. They are made up of a smaller insertable bulb or pony, which sits inside the wearer’s vagina and a longer shaft to penetrate their partner. You can also get vibrating strap-ons if you like a bit of buzz!
  • Couples vibrators — Also known as c-shaped vibrators, couple’s vibrators have one vibrating arm that sits inside the wearer’s vagina and on that bends around and rests against the clitoris.

How to use tribbing toys

There are many different types of tribbing toys and each one has a slightly different way to use it. Often, it will take a little trial and error to find the right position between both of your bodies so take some time to make sure you are both comfortable and getting the stimulation you need! Here are my other top tips for how to use tribbing toys for maximum pleasure for two!

Figure out the controls

Figure out the controls

If your toy has vibrating parts, take some time to figure out how to turn the toy on and off and adjust the settings. You’ll also want to work out how to use the remote or app settings if your tribbing toy has either of those. It’s much easier to do this now than in the heat of the moment!

Use lots of lube

Use lots of lube

As tribbing is all about the rubbing and grinding, you want to make sure you use lots of lube to prevent any friction! If your tribbing sex toy is made of silicone, you should stick to water-based lube, but if you have a scissoring dildo made of stainless steel or glass, you can use any lube you like.

Communicate clearly

Communicate clearly

As the tribbing and scissoring sex toys are being used for two bodies, it’s important you communicate clearly with each other to find the placement and settings that work best for you both.

Adjust as necessary

Adjust as necessary

It’s also likely that you will need to adjust the position of the tribbing toy or your bodies to find the best fit so don’t be scared to take some time to adjust and find what works best. You might also find you need to use your hand to stablize some toys and prevent them from moving around.

Enjoy!

Enjoy!

Once you find that sweet spot, you are ready to bump and grind until your heart’s content!

How to clean a tribbing toy

How you clean your tribbing toy will depend on whether or not it is waterproof, so be sure to check the information that comes with it before submersing it under water! Waterproof toys can be washed under warm water with some mild soap or sex toy cleaner, while non-waterproof toys should be wiped down with mild soap/sex toy cleaner and a damp cloth. As a lot of tribbing sex toys are textured, be sure to clean in all the dips and grooves and make sure your toy is clean before storing it in a bag or box.

FAQ

Tribbing is the act of two vulva owners rubbing or grinding their vulvas on each other to stimulate the labia and clitoris. Scissoring is tribbing specifically in the scissoring position, although the two terms tend to be used interchangeably.

If your tribbing sex toy is made of silicone, you should use a water-based lube but if your toy is made of glass or metal, you can use any lube, including oil or silicone based lube.

Silicone is a great material for tribbing toys as it is the only flexible material that is also non-toxic and non-porous!

Tribbing refers specifically to two vulva owners having sex by rubbing their vulvas together, but anyone can use a tribbing toy as they can be used in more than one way!

What is a tribbing toy?

Tribbing toys are any sex toys that can be used to enhance your tribbing session, such as double dildos, shareable vibrators, or egg vibrators. They are a way to add new sensations like vibrations or internal stimulation and help you and your partner get more stimulation. They are very few toys designed specifically for tribbing but, with a bit of creative thinking, many regular sex toys can be used as tribbing sex toys!

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