Sex Pillows: The 11 Best Wedges, Cushions, and Rams

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I’ve spent 26 hours researching the absolute best sex pillows on the market (so you don’t have to!) I’ve got all bases covered from full size sex wedges to compact sex pillows and even one with built-in restraints! Today’s test winner is the Liberator Wedge, which is a top quality sex pillow that’s also one of the most versatile, but if that’s not your cup of tea, there’s plenty more to choose from!
1 Test Winner

Liberator Wedge

 Liberator Wedge

  • Want to increase g-spot stimulation during intercourse
  • Enjoy oral sex
  • Want to explore more sex positions

Liberator Wedge

  • Don't have the storage space
  • Are only having solo sex

The Liberator Wedge will revolutionise your experience of partnered sex! It’s the third player you didn’t realise you needed! The pillow is made with a dense foam that holds it shape while you play, meaning unlike a regular pillow, the Wedge will keep you, and your sex, elevated the whole time! By angling the hips, you can enjoy both deeper penetration and more intense g-spot stimulation during partnered intercourse, making for some of the most stimulating sex yet! The Wedge has a micro velvet cover that is buttery soft and machine washable. Plus it has a moisture-proof lining to keep the cushion in top condition!

  • Big enough for most bodies
  • Holds its shape during use
  • Moisture-proof lining
  • Soft, machine-washable cover
  • Great for penetrative and oral sex

  • Pricey
  • Velvet cover is a little slippery
  • Takes up a lot of space
Liberator Wedge
Length24 inches
Width14 inches
Height7 inches
MaterialsNylon Microfiber, Polyester, Polyurethane Foam
WaterproofMoisture-Resistant Liner
Colors AvailableBlack, Blue, Red, Purple, Gray, Brown

The Liberator Wedge is absolutely the best sex pillow if you are looking to upgrade your partnered sex! Our tester compared it a lightbulb moment when she realised just how good penetrative sex could feel! While the Wedge is a bit pricey, if you have the space and budget for it, it’s definitely a worthwhile investment! It’s great for all kinds of partnered sex — vaginal, anal, and oral and can be used for support in lots of different positions! The only slight drawback is that because the cover is so fantastically soft, it can also be a bit slippery so you can slide down and need to readjust sometimes!

2 Cheapest

Adam & Eve Inflatable Position Pillow

 Adam & Eve Inflatable Position Pillow

  • Are on a budget
  • Aren't interested in strenuous play
  • Are just experimenting with sex pillows
  • Have limited storage space

Adam & Eve Inflatable Position Pillow

  • Dislike velvet textures
  • Want something for rigorous play
  • Want a long-lasting pillow

Low on storage space? From Adam and Eve, the Inflatable Position Pillow inflates for your pleasure and deflates for your convenience. Easy grip handles at either side give you something to hold onto, and keeps yourself and the pillow in place. And that’s not all the handles can do! If you’re interested in bondage, grab your favorite ties and turn this inflatable sex pillow into a bondage pillow!

  • Handles
  • Compact
  • Inexpensive
  • Easy to assemble

  • Doesn't inflate to a wedge
  • Not leak-proof
  • Poor quality
Adam & Eve Inflatable Position Pillow
Length24 inches
Width16 inches
Height4-8 inches
Maximum Weight300 lbs
WaterproofNo
MaterialsVinyl, faux velvet

The Adam & Eve Inflatable Position Pillow is an inexpensive option for anyone looking to dip their toes into the sex pillow world. Overall, however, it just doesn’t hold up. Many users report being unable to inflate the pillow at all, and those that can get it to inflate see it burst after just a few uses. That being said, if you’re not interested in particularly strenuous play, then this is a good, inexpensive option, even if it doesn’t quite bring the quality that others do.

3 Beginner

Liberator Jaz

  Liberator Jaz

  • Travel a lot
  • Don't have a lot of storage space
  • Have a height different with your partner
  • Enjoy oral sex

Liberator Jaz

  • Prefer a larger pillow
  • Have a larger body

The Liberator Jaz is a petite alternative to Liberator’s wide range of sex furniture for those looking for something a little more compact. The small size makes it great for travelling, or as an alternative to typical sex pillows if you’re on the shorter side! The boost is great for oral sex, doggy style, and plain ol’ missionary – plus, there’s no need to worry about making a mess! The moisture-proof liner and microvelvet cover are easy to wash after you’re done playing.

  • Compact
  • Travel-friendly
  • Comfortable
  • Waterproof

  • Could be too small
  • Fabric is a little slippery
Liberator Jaz
Length14 inches
Width18 inches
Height6 inches
WaterproofYes
MaterialsPolyester microvelvet, polyurethane foam

The Jaz Motion Rocking Cushion provides an excellent boost to your sex life on the go. Compact enough to fit in a small suitcase, this is a great option if you’re low on storage space, or simply travel a lot. The price is good for the quality you get if you’re likely to get a lot of use out of it. Make sure to consider the height before purchasing, as it is significantly smaller than typical pillows, so you may not get the boost you want.

4 Mount

Liberator BonBon Toy Mount

 Liberator BonBon

  • Want to upgrade your solo play
  • Want to enjoy hands-free riding
  • Crave deep penetration
  • Enjoy dual stimulation
  • Find it difficult to hold a sex toy

Liberator BonBon

  • Have a short legs
  • Want a pillow for partnered play
  • Want a weighted pillow

The BonBon toy mount from Liberator is a little different from most sex pillows, with a secure slot to insert your favorite toy into! This sex pillow is compatible with flared and non-flared toys, vibrators, dildos, whatever you fancy! It doubles as a position pillow, too. Adding this innovative position pillow to your sex life will enhance masturbation, enable hands-free arousal, and even make double penetration a piece of cake when enjoyed with your partner.

  • Holds many different toys
  • Doesn't collapse under body weight
  • Can be used for solo and couple's play
  • Velvety, machine-washable cover

  • Size won't suit those who are particularly tall or short
  • Not suitable for toys with attachments
  • Difficult to change toy's setting during use
Liberator BonBon
MaterialsMicrovelvet, Polyester,
Length15 inches
Width12 inches
Diameter8.5 inches
Colors Available5

If you’re looking for sex furniture, you’re going to come across Liberator. And when you come across Liberator, you might be a little put off by the prices. But generally speaking, Liberator’s bespoke sex furniture lives up to the hype, and this is no exception. This mount can transform your toys into ride-ables! This is great if you crave a more realistic ‘sex’ experience during your solo play, especially if you love cowgirl! It can also add some extra support during partnered sex or allow you to explore double penetration with a partner. You will need to check the size to make sure it suits your body, especially if you are taller or shorter than average.

5 Combo

Liberator Sex Position Wedge Ramp Combo

  Liberator Wedge Ramp Combo

  • Have issues with joint pain/stiffness
  • Want to try out complex positions
  • Are looking to invest in your sex life
  • Enjoy longer sessions

Liberator Wedge Ramp Combo

  • Are on a budget
  • Don't have a lot of storage space
  • Want a toy mount

Looking for a two-in-one? The Liberator Wedge/Ramp Combo delivers ultimate support in two premium parts. This combo is great for extended sex sessions and effortless transitions. Get ready for longer sessions, deeper penetration, and maximum comfort. This sex pillow puts you and your partner’s bodies in comfortable and stable positions without the added pressure on the knees, wrists, or back. Plus, the removable microfiber cover is easy to remove, easy to wash, and feels amazing against your skin.

  • Ergonomic design
  • Comfortable memory foam
  • Luxurious
  • Two-in-one

  • No mount
  • Pricey
  • Very large
Liberator Wedge Ramp Combo
LengthShort: 32 inches, Regular: 34 inches, Tall: 36 inches
HeightShort: 10 inches, Regular: 12 inches, Tall: 14 inches
Width24 inches
WaterproofYes
MaterialsMicrofiber, polyurethane

The Sex Position Wedge/Ramp Combo from Liberator promises to be the ‘greatest invention for sex since the bed’ and it just might be. While it’s not cheap, you’re sure to get endless use out of it, as the two parts can be stacked in a variety of ways to unlock dazzling new positions. The added support makes for deeper penetration and overall more intimate positions. It’s completely body-safe, comfortable, and extremely luxurious.

6 Bondage

Liberator Black Label Hipster With Wrist Cuffs, Blindfold & Tethers

 Liberator Black Label Hipster

  • Are into the BDSM scene
  • Enjoy bondage
  • Enjoy G-spot stimulation
  • Need some lumbar support

Liberator Black Label Hipster

  • Aren't interested in bondage
  • Are on a budget

The Black Label Hipster from Liberator is a position pillow built for bondage. Enjoy comfortable, new sex positions with the handy cuff connectors on each side of the pillow, suited perfectly for the wrist cuffs, blindfold, and tethers that come with the sex pillow. The high arch gives you complete control while exploring anal sex, while the lower end is perfect for prolonging your oral sex sessions. The ebb and flow of this sex furniture piece boosts your body and provides impressive access and G-spot stimulation.

  • Excellent lumbar support
  • Built for bondage
  • Luxurious
  • Comfortable

  • Doesn't come with pictured straps
  • Very expensive
Liberator Black Label Hipster
Length33 inches
Width24 inches
Height10 inches
WaterproofYes
MaterialsPolyester, nylon microfiber, polyurethane foam

Liberator’s Black Label collection is a super comfortable bondage pillow that puts in the work. Honestly, the only downside is the price, but if you think you’ll get a lot of use out of it, it’s definitely worth the price. All the restraints are detachable, so you can take them off and store it in plain sight discreetly. It’s great for people with disabilities, especially if you cramp a lot and find typical restraints difficult to manage. Plus, we can all benefit from a little lumbar support!

7 Simple Wedge

DOMINIX Deluxe Sex Position Wedge

 DOMINIX Deluxe Sex Position Wedge

  • Want optional restraints
  • Enjoy oral sex
  • Experience joint pain
  • Want something discreet

DOMINIX Deluxe Sex Position Wedge

  • Want something waterproof
  • Want to attach multiple restraints

Boost your sex position game with this simple wedge sex pillow from LoveHoney’s DOMINIX range! With a pair of sturdy loops for attaching your choice of restraints (not included), this sex pillow also doubles up as a bondage accessory and, thanks to its wedge-shaped design, it lifts the receiving partner’s pelvis and puts them in prime position for precise stimulation and mind-blowing orgasms.

  • Bondage optional
  • Luxurious
  • Comfortable
  • Easy to wash

  • Simplistic
  • No handles
  • Not waterproof
DOMINIX Deluxe Sex Position Wedge
Length43 inches
WaterproofNo
MaterialsPolyester, foam

The DOMINIX Deluxe Sex Position Wedge is a no-brainer. It’s simple, easy to use, and helps just the way it should. If you’re not into a velvety texture, you way want to look elsewhere, but it does help that it’s a non-slip material. It’s inconspicuous enough that you can have it around the house and nosey guests won’t notice, and is easy to sort underneath the bed if you’d rather keep it out of sight.

8 Vibrating

Fetish Fantasy Inflatable Hot Seat

 Fetish Fantasy Hot Seat

  • like inflatable sex furniture
  • are looking for a sex pillow that come with vibrations
  • enjoy internal stimulation
  • are looking for a sex pillow for hands-free masturbation

Fetish Fantasy Hot Seat

  • want a sex pillow specifically for couples
  • don't want porous sex toys
  • are not into inflatable sex furniture

This inflatable hot seat is perfect if you are looking for an all-in-one, ready-to-jump-on vibrating sex pillow! Bounce on this dildo while the powerful vibrations add extra buzzy stimulation and intensify your orgasm. You can explore different speeds via the remote control. This pouf is small and easy to use, and you don’t need to prepare any other sex toys to enjoy double stimulation. It’s also inflatable, so you don’t worry about storage issues. It’s a perfect cushion for a bouncy solo session, so take some lube on and hop on!

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  • Easy to use
  • Small and easy to store
  • Comes with a vibrating dildo and an eye mask
  • You don't need any extra toys to enjoy the vibrations

  • Difficult to clean
  • Might be too small for couples
  • Made with porous materials
Fetish Fantasy Hot Seat
MaterialsSoft Plastic, Plush
WaterproofSplashproof
Vibration speedsMultiple
Height12 inches
Width16 inches
LengthDildo: 6 inches
Insertable lengthDildo: 6 inches
Diameter1.7 inches
Maximum Weight300 lbs

This pouf is perfect for beginners because it already has all the features you need to achieve a powerful orgasm! The inflating takes only a few minutes, and once you are done, just release the air and hide it in the closet. Please remember that the dildo is made of PVC, a porous material, so we recommend using a condom for penetrative play.

9 For Sex Toys

Liberator Axis Magic Wand Toy Mount

 Liberator Axis

  • want a top-quality sex pillow
  • love wand vibrators and you want to use them hands-free
  • are looking for a small and discreet sex pillow

Liberator Axis

  • want a spot for internally stimulating sex toys
  • prefer a sex pillow for 2 people to sit on

Experience enhanced pleasure and deeper satisfaction with this amazing vibrating sex pillow! The Liberator Axis is designed to provide extra comfort and support for various sex positions, and many doggy-style lovers will appreciate its unique shape! The pillow is made from high-quality materials; a dense and steady foam covered in smooth, moisture-proof microfiber cover features and a built-in pocket for a vibrator for added stimulation during sex. Whether you’re looking for solo play or to spice up your sex life with a partner, this vibrating sex pillow is the perfect addition to your intimate activities!

  • Top quality
  • Small and easy to store
  • Easy to clean
  • Moisture-proof, removable cover
  • A window to see and access the buttons

  • Too small to accommodate two people
  • Meant only for external stimulation
Liberator Axis
MaterialsMicrofiber
Length20 inches
Width20 inches
Height10 inches
Weight7 lbs

The Liberator Axis is a great choice if you are looking for extra support during adventurous lovemaking. The unique shape of this pillow will be super handy for doggy style, missionary, and many other sex positions! The position of the vibrator pocket is well-thought-through, perfect if you don’t like to hold your vibrator during sex but still want to feel deep vibrations on your sweet spots. This pillow is super easy to clean and use. The cover is removable and easy to clean.

10

Liberator Heart-Shaped Sex Position Wedge

 Liberator Heart-Shaped Sex Position Wedge

  • Want something discreet
  • Enjoy deep penetration
  • Have stiff neck issues
  • Want more leverage for riding positions

Liberator Heart-Shaped Sex Position Wedge

  • Prefer a softer material
  • Are on the shorter side
  • Are on a budget

Isn’t this so cute? This adorable heart-shaped sex pillow provides easy access for deep penetration and G or P-spot stimulation! It’s a more compact version of the typical Liberator wedge, and the design makes it easy to blend it in with your other furniture. The firm, yet pliable material allows for easy positioning and experimentation. Covered in ultra-soft velvish material in designer colors to match your bedding, this design looks right at home on top of the bed.

  • Aesthetically pleasing
  • Blends in
  • Luxurious
  • Waterproof

  • Very high
  • Very firm
  • Can be difficult to position at first
Liberator Heart-Shaped Sex Position Wedge
Length14 inches
Width18 inches
Height7 inches
WaterproofYes
MaterialsPolyester microvelvet, polyurethane foam

Honestly, for aesthetic value alone, this is a great addition to your collection. More practically speaking, the main issues with this product come with the height and texture. It can be very difficult to position if you’re under 5’5″, and there aren’t any size options that make this problem easier. If you’re not a fan of firmer textures, too, maybe give this one a miss. Otherwise, the Liberator Heart Wedge Pillow works just as well as any other sex pillow, and is super cute on top!

11

Dame Pillo

 Dame Pillo

  • are mismatched in height with your partner
  • have chronic pain
  • Want to experiment with new positions
  • Get stiff-necked during oral

Dame Pillo

  • Don't want a firm pillow
  • Want to choose a colour

Bring on the Pillo! Pillo is comfortable yet structurally firm, allowing you to take familiar positions and elevate them, or turn your world upside-down. The 100% cotton cover is removable and easy to machine wash or spot-clean, and blends in with your furniture when the fun is done. The unique, ergonomically-designed shape is perfect for people suffering with joint stiffness, chronic pain, or any level of physical discomfort during sex.

  • 100% Cotton
  • Unique design
  • Blends in
  • Ergonomic

  • Quite firm
  • Can be steep
  • Tall
Dame Pillo
Length15 inches
Width18 inches
Height7 inches
WaterproofYes
MaterialsPolyurethane foam, cotton, nylon

The Pillo by Dame shoots for the middle in price, and the top in quality. It’s very well-designed and rigorously tested to be comfortable for solo pleasure, couples, all shapes and sizes. If you’re used to a standard sex pillow, you may find the Pillo to be a little too high and a little too steep. Overall, however, it’s an excellent investment that is sure to take your position game to the next level!

The Ultimate Positioning Help Kit

Combine comfort and kink with a bondage pillow kit!

Lovehoney Position Master Mega Bondage Kit (8 Piece)

 Lovehoney Position Master Mega Bondage Kit (8 Piece)  - The Ultimate Positioning Help Kit
Get more bang for your buck with the Lovehoney Position Master Mega Bondage Kit! This beginner-friendly kit is packed to the brim with tools to tie and props that pose, and a handy how-to guide on beginning your bondage journey. It costs the same as many standard sex pillows, but includes so much more, including blindfolds, restraints, swings, and more!

Get Your Grind On

Does grinding get you giddy? These accessories are made for just that.

VibePad Silicone Rechargeable Waterproof Grinding Vibrator With Remote

VibePad Silicone Rechargeable Waterproof Grinding Vibrator With Remote - Get Your Grind On
Save a horse: ride a Vibe Pad. This flat vibrator has two quiet motors, each with 7 powerful vibration modes that can be independently controlled and adjusted to find just the right spot. It can be used atop a sex pillow for perfect positioning, or by itself for some hands-free fun. Still not sold? Check out this review for a full look at the product.

b.cush Honeybunch Soft Silicone Dildo Base with Vibe Pocket for Harness Play

b.cush Honeybunch Soft Silicone Dildo Base with Vibe Pocket for Harness Play - Get Your Grind On
The b.cush Honeybunch Soft Silicone Dildo Base with Vibe Pocket is a soft, supple, silicone grind made to meld to the base of your favorite dildos. Want some vibration? It’s designed to hold a bullet vibe! Enjoy as a dildo base stimulator during strap-on play, or on its own for grinding away.

Comparing the different pillows on ratings and features

To help you find the perfect sex pillow, we’ve organized our comparison of the top seven options based on ratings and features. We’ll discuss overall scores, Bedbible ratings, user ratings, prices, and other essential aspects to help you make an informed decision.

Overall Score

When considering the overall score, the Liberator Wedge Ramp Combo and Dame Pillo are the top picks, both scoring 4.8 out of 5.0. These two options offer excellent support, design, and quality, ensuring a comfortable and enjoyable experience. The Adam & Eve Inflatable Position Pillow has the lowest overall score at 3.9 out of 5.0, mainly due to its less durable materials.

Bedbible Rating

The Liberator Wedge Ramp Combo, Dame Pillo, Liberator Black Label Hipster, DOMINIX Deluxe Sex Position Wedge, and Liberator Heart-Shaped Sex Position Wedge all have high Bedbible ratings of 4.8 out of 5.0, reflecting their quality and design. The Adam & Eve Inflatable Position Pillow has a lower Bedbible rating of 4.0 out of 5.0.

User Rating

The Liberator Black Label Hipster has the highest user rating of 5.0 out of 5.0 from 23 users, indicating exceptional satisfaction among customers. Other high-scoring pillows include the Liberator Wedge Ramp Combo and Dame Pillo, with user ratings of 4.9 out of 5.0 from 371 and 246 users, respectively. The Adam & Eve Inflatable Position Pillow has the lowest user rating at 3.8 out of 5.0 from 373 users.

Price

If you’re looking for a budget-friendly option, the Adam & Eve Inflatable Position Pillow is the cheapest choice. However, keep in mind that its lower price may be indicative of less durable materials. The other six sex pillows fall into the medium price range, offering a balance between quality and affordability.

Design

The Dame Pillo, Liberator Heart-Shaped Sex Position Wedge, and Liberator Jaz Motion Cushion all score 100 out of 100 for design. These pillows are not only visually appealing but also ergonomically designed for maximum comfort and support. The Adam & Eve Inflatable Position Pillow has the lowest design score at 60 out of 100.

Ease of Use

The Liberator Wedge Ramp Combo and DOMINIX Deluxe Sex Position Wedge both score 100 out of 100 for ease of use, making them the most user-friendly options. The Dame Pillo and Liberator BonBon both score 80 out of 100, indicating they are relatively easy to use but may not be as versatile as the top-scoring options.

Quality

The Liberator Black Label Hipster and Liberator Jaz Motion Cushion have the highest quality scores of 100 out of 100, indicating excellent durability and materials. The Adam & Eve Inflatable Position Pillow scores the lowest in quality, with a rating of 40 out of 100.

Materials

All Liberator products, as well as the Dame Pillo, are made from high-quality materials like microfiber, polyester, and polyurethane foam. The Adam & Eve Inflatable Position Pillow uses vinyl and faux velvet, which may not be as durable or comfortable as the other options.

Waterproof

Most of the sex pillows on our list are waterproof, making them easy to clean and maintain. These include the Liberator Wedge Ramp Combo, Dame Pillo, Liberator BonBon, Liberator Black Label Hipster, Liberator Heart-Shaped Sex Position Wedge, and Liberator Jaz Motion Cushion. The Adam & Eve Inflatable Position Pillow and DOMINIX Deluxe Sex Position Wedge are not waterproof, which may require extra care during cleaning.

Dimensions

The dimensions of the sex pillows vary significantly, with the Liberator Wedge Ramp Combo being the largest and most versatile option, offering three different sizes to choose from (Short, Regular, and Tall). The Dame Pillo and Liberator Jaz Motion Cushion are more compact, making them easier to store and transport.

Maximum Weight

The Liberator BonBon and Dame Pillo can support up to 300 lbs, making them suitable for a wide range of users. The maximum weight capacity for the other pillows is not specified, but their high-quality materials and construction should be able to accommodate most users.

Conclusion

In conclusion, the best sex pillow for you will depend on your specific needs and preferences. Consider factors such as overall score, user rating, price, design, ease of use, quality, and materials to make the right choice. The Liberator Wedge Ramp Combo and Dame Pillo are top contenders, but other options like the Liberator Black Label Hipster and Liberator Jaz Motion Cushion also have their unique advantages.

Types of Sex Pillow

  • Wedge – Able to be used alone or with other wedges, this type of pillow can raise your hips, allowing you to position yourself for the perfect penetration angle(s)!
  • Ramp – These pillows offer the same benefits as wedges, but—thanks to their larger size—can support your entire body!
  • Half Moon – This particular type of half-moon-shaped pillow is designed with a toy holder in the middle, allowing you to mount your favorite dildo, prostate massager, probe, or other toy in the middle, which can then be ridden.
  • Cylinder – Similar to the half-moon pillow, these toys could be considered “full moon”. Depending on the design, they can be used as a sex toy mount, a way to position your body, or both!
  • Inflatable – For those who don’t have top dollar to drop on premium foam-filled sex pillows, inflatable furniture offers a functional, more affordable alternative.
  • Sex Toy Mount – Any type of pillow that can hold (mount) a sex toy to itself would fall under this category.

Positions to Try with Your Sex Cushion

Stuck on how to start? Here are a few suggestions that’ll take your sex life to the next level.

Legs over the shoulders

Legs over the shoulders - Positions to Try with Your Sex Cushion
Add a little oomph to missionary by elevating the hips with a sex pillow! Have the receiving partner lie with the pillow pointing their hips upwards, and have them rest their legs on your shoulders. This angle allows for deeper penetration and a great view!

Lazy dog

Lazy dog - Positions to Try with Your Sex Cushion
If angles are a challenge for you during regular old doggy, or you just want a deeper penetration, try lying face down with a pillow under your stomach and legs together. Your partner can then penetrate you from behind, and the close fit will make for some mind-blowing orgasms.

'The Half Pipe'

'The Half Pipe' - Positions to Try with Your Sex Cushion
This one is great with a vibrator mount. Lay face down over the mount, using your favorite vibrator for clitoral stimulation. Have your partner kneel between your legs and finger you for amazing dual stimulation!

Missionary

Missionary - Positions to Try with Your Sex Cushion
Let’s start with the basics. The simplest (and best) upgrade you can make to your missionary sex is to place a sex wedge pillow underneath your hips. Orient the wedge with the lower end facing toward your butt and find a place that feels comfortable and non-straining for your back. It may be helpful to use a longer wedge with a more gradual slope. This will open up a whole new angle of penetration for both you. Look forward to much more incredible g-spot contact and deeper thrusts! If you want it even deeper and tighter, you can try having your legs up in the air. Rest them on your partner’s chest or shoulders for comfort – a wedge will make this much easier and less strenuous!

Doggy Variations

Doggy Variations - Positions to Try with Your Sex Cushion
Doggy is another one of the classics, and is cited by many people as their favorite sex position! It can feel really great for both parties, but did you know it can get even better? If you and your partner have a significant height difference, then you may have some problems similar to that of regular missionary. Putting a sex pillow underneath your knees can put you both more on the same level, resulting in deeper penetration and less awkwardness. Then, you have numerous variations on the original doggy:
  • Lazy Dog – Putting the tall end of a wedge under your pelvis can take the weight off your knees and ease potential pains. Your partner may have to lean a bit forward and down to be able to penetrate you, but this can feel much more intimate than your standard doggy-style. To switch things up even more, put your legs together and have your partner straddle them, which will make them feel extra snug inside you.
  • Standing Doggy – standing sex is something that many of us see in movies and wish to emulate, but in reality it’s often not so practical. Often, your bed is just not at the right level for you to match the height of your partner, and things can go from dirty to disappointing real quick. Next time, whip out your sex wedge and place it under your knees at the height that works best for you. If it’s longer, you can also grab onto the taller end and use it to steady yourself.

Oral Sex

Ever had some amazing oral cut short because your partner’s neck just can’t take the strain anymore? The struggle is real. Placing a sex wedge under your hips (just like in missionary) lifts your sweet spots up to just the right height, so they can really get their tongue exploring. It can also be your secret weapon for 69-ing. If you’re on the bottom and struggle to lift your head for a longer period of time, prop it up with a wedge and get going!

Cowgirl

If you’re on top, having your partner’s pelvis slightly raised with a sex wedge can give your legs a lot more room for bouncing and grinding! This can also be helpful if your partner is more well-endowed (or you’re using a bigger dildo), as you have more room to control the depth of penetration. Also, using a longer wedge has the added benefit of raising the whole top half of their body. That’s the perfect height for them to give your nipples some serious love.

Masturbation

Of course, sex isn’t limited to partnered sex! There are lots of situations where a sex wedge can improve your solo sessions, too. Many people can have difficulties reaching certain areas with a sex toy, especially if they require some thrusting, like a dildo. Of course, there are many sex toys that are designed with this in mind, like curved dildos and those with handles, but a sex wedge can help as well. By lifting up your hips while on your back, you won’t have to reach so far down and all your bits will be much more accessible. Plus, you’ll have a better view of everything, too!

DIY Sex Pillows

Want to experiment before you invest? Don’t have the cash right now? We’ve got you. Disclaimer: We do not recommend making your own sex toys, and always recommend that you purchase purpose-made sex toys from a reputable shop. We are in no way responsible for any harm caused due to the use or sharing of these DIYs. You are 100% responsible for the outcome should you choose to make your own sex toys.

Fold a pillow

Fold a pillow - DIY Sex Pillows
If grinding’s your game, you may already know this trick. In a pinch, folding a pillow in half and grinding against it can feel seriously amazing. If you have lube on hand, it’ll be great for reducing some of that harsher friction. You can also lean against a folded pillow or two and use them for support!

Strap up

Strap up - DIY Sex Pillows
Turns out, you’re just one elasticated band, strap, or even rope away from some sex mount action. You can easily attach your favorite vibrator to a standard pillow for a truly DIY sex pillow. You might want to change the cover afterwards!

Orthopedic pillows

Orthopedic pillows - DIY Sex Pillows
Orthopedic pillows are typically memory foam pillows used to relieve all sorts of sleeping problems: apnea, acid reflux, neck problems, even snoring! They also come in a handy wedge form, look almost exactly like sex wedges, and can be a lot cheaper than built-for-purpose ones.

Get crafty

Get crafty - DIY Sex Pillows
Who says you can’t build your own? If you’re especially crafty, grab a pair of scissors, some memory foam, an old bedsheet (and a few other bits), and follow along with this tutorial by an inspired Imgur user. Hell, you could even pattern your own!

Types of vibrating sex pillows

Mount on: These pillows are a great combination of regular positioning sex cushions with a fun twist. They usually have a hole to add your vibrator or dildo to enjoy the hands-free fun. They can come in different sizes and shapes, but no matter the dimensions, they can be used in many sexy and creative ways! Inflatable: Inflatable sex furniture is super handy if you don’t have much storage space. Vibrating inflatable pillows usually have a sex toy already mounted on the top, so they are ready to bounce up and down right away, which is perfect if you don’t have a big collection of sex toys that would fit the regular sex pillows.

How can you benefit from a vibrating sex pillow?

More sex positions:

Vibrating sex cushions provide a buzzing feature, and you can use them to try sex positions with your partner or solo. Whether you want to have a cowgirl riding session with your dildo or a vibrator or enjoy a double-penetration with your special someone, the sex cushion has your back, literally.

Deeper stimulation:

Use the special spot of the cushion to invite your favorite sex toy into play. Dildos, vibrators, magic wands, it’s up to you! And the extra support will make the penetration deeper, guaranteeing a very intense orgasm for both partners.

Hands-free solo-time:

Vibrating pillows are a must-have if you are into hands-free masturbation and want to try something more exciting than suction cup dildos. Bouncing on a soft pillow and trying our new positions with your new sex toys sounds like an awesome plan for the night!

Benefits of Using a Wedge Pillow During Sex

Angles

Bustle reported on a study by Dame Labs which found that 81% of respondents wanted to find better angles during sex with their partner. That’s understandable — it’s simply a matter of trigonometry! Let me explain… Say you’re in the missionary position. If your body is flat on the bed and your partner is penetrating you, they’ll be doing so at a slight downwards angle. That means that their penis or dildo will be hitting the back wall of your vagina the most. However, when your hips are raised, the angle is more horizontal. That means they’ll make much greater contact with the front wall of your vagina, and therefore your g-spot. It also allows for better access to the anus, if that’s something you’re into (or curious about…).

Deeper Penetration

Using a wedge or pillow during sex can also be a gateway to much deeper penetration. If both you and your partner on the same level, then they’ll find it much easier to thrust deeper. This can be super satisfying for both parties! You’ll experience a much ‘fuller’ feeling, and may even get some a-spot stimulation. The a-spot (or anterior fornix) is located at the inner-most part of the vagina, next to the cervix, and is a part of your internal clitoral structure like the g-spot. Deep stimulation can feel super pleasurable, and can result in some deeply satisfying orgasms. A sex wedge can help you achieve deep penetration in lots different positions, from missionary, doggy and beyond!

Accessibility

There are a myriad of reasons why people might not be able to assume or hold themselves in a position. But why should limited mobility be a barrier to enjoying all the best angles that sex has to offer? There’s lots of sex furniture out there that can help with these issues! A sex wedge can change the angle of penetration, raise the penis-haver’s hips to help ‘push back’ as you grind and more, all without you needing the muscle strength to do it yourself!

Explore More Positions

It may be that you have some mobility issues preventing you from trying out some more adventurous positions, or perhaps you and your partner have a large height difference. Whatever the hurdle is, a sex wedge can often help out. Depending on placement and position, a sex wedge or pillow can open up a whole new world of sex positions. They’re not limited to partnered sex positions, either! A sex wedge can be a helpful friend for your solo masturbation sessions, too. Scroll down a section or two to see our tips for using a sex wedge in all kinds of different positions.

Do I Really Need a Special Sex Wedge?

Honestly? Of course not. Humans have been having sex for millennia without the need for specialized sex pillows, and it doesn’t seem to have stopped us yet! However, that doesn’t mean that they can’t make sex a whole lot better. You may well have already seen on TikTok that you can use a regular old sleeping pillow to help raise your hips a bit during missionary. However, the truth is that they’re not particularly well-suited to the job. Standard bed pillows are only really designed to support the weight of your head. That means they flatten pretty easily, and aren’t great at providing much lift. Sex wedges, on the other hand, are usually made of foam that is much more dense, and much more supportive. Using a normal pillow also often calls for a lot of folding or rolling up to find the right amount of lift. And then, when you find it, it’s only a matter of time before it unrolls again. Wedge pillows give you instant and easy angles without the fuss, and you can find them in all shapes and sizes. And finally, most sex wedges have something crucial that regular pillows lack: waterproof covers. Enough said? If you’re still sceptical, then it may be worth experimenting with a firm pillow that you already own first. After all, sex wedge pillows can be an investment! It’s more than fair to want to have a test run first.

Sex Wedge Positions

How to use a sex pillow

Here are some tips to shake loose your sex pillow creativity!

Oral sex

Oral sex

Sex pillows are everything when it comes to giving good oral. Not only do you get a great view of your partner, you also get easier access and less stiffness, so you can really take your time!

Solo

Solo

Who says me-time doesn’t deserve the effort? There are so many ways to incorporate a sex pillow into your masturbation. The toy mount is obvious, but you can also grind against the sides, or simply use it to rest against, so you have a better view of the action.

How to clean

The frequency you clean your sex pillow at depends on what you use it for. If you're just leaning against it, that's at your discretion to spot clean as needed and throw in the wash after every few uses. If you're grinding against it, you'll want to clean it after every use. The great news is you can usually remove the outer lining of your sex pillow and wash as the instructions direct!

FAQ

For a bona fide sex pillow, you're looking at anywhere between $30-300, which isn't easy to budget for. For those on a budget, investing in an orthopedic pillow can make a world of difference, and it won't feel cheap.

That depends on your purpose. For grinding, you might want to look at a cylindrical shape, and for support, a wedge. It's best to shop around and check reviews for your best fit!

Ideally, you want something that doesn't stain easily, and something that's easy to wash. Sex pillow covers come in all sorts of materials: silk, nylon, cotton, blends, and more! As for the base, a good foam block will be sturdy enough to keep you going, and have enough give for maximum comfort.

At BedBible, we only recommend stores that offer discreet packaging. So no parcels with SEX PILLOW plastered all over the box. As for assembly, it depends on the pillow, but many are delivered fully intact with no assembly required!

Not really! Sex pillows can be easily tucked under beds, stored, or disguised as bed rests. If someone is really in the know, they might be able to spot a distinct brand, but for everyday purposes you shouldn't have any issues.

What is a sex pillow?

A sex pillow is a pillow (typically with a foam base) that's used for supporting your body during sex. They can help elevate the hips to allow for deeper penetration, better access for oral sex, whatever you can think of! They provide bespoke support to relieve any aches and pains that may come from certain sexual positions, making them invaluable items to people with joint pains or back problems. While most sex pillows are self-supporting, some pillows are inflatable, allowing them to be deflated for simple storage. In addition to body support, certain pillows integrate toy holders into their design, allowing them to be ridden like a partner for solo sessions!

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