7 Best Sex Pillows and Wedges

   Isabelle Uren
On my quest to transform my bedroom into a sexy soft play area, I have tried out a fair few sex pillows! Using my own experience and reviews from our tester team, I’ve carefully selected the very best sex pillows out there. I think the Liberator Wedge is by far the best all-rounder, but I’m also a massive fan of the Liberator Black Label Wedge Ramp Combo!
1 Test Winner

Liberator Wedge

 Liberator Wedge

Liberator Wedge

  • High-density foam
  • Moisture resistant lining
  • Machine washable cover

  • Increased G-spot stimulation
  • Holds its shape during use
  • Great for oral sex
  • Can be used in different positions

  • Pricey
  • Cover is a little slippery
Liberator Wedge
Length14 inches
Width24 inches
Height7 inches
MaterialsNylon Microfiber, Polyester, Polyurethane Foam
WaterproofMoisture-Resistant Liner
Colors AvailableBlack, Blue, Red, Purple, Gray, Brown

The Liberator Wedge “totally changed the game” for our sex toy expert Rachel and both her and her partner “could feel an immediate difference.” To me, the Liberator Wedge is the quintessential sex wedge and an essential for anyone who loves good old missionary but craves more G-spot stimulation. I chose it as the test winner because it’s one of the classics. It’s quite simple and small compared to all the other sex pillows, but it has that perfect angle and the right amount of support that enhances the pleasure.  From my experience, sex wedges have the perfect angle to provide deeper and more comfortable G-spot stimulation. Still, they come in handy for all kinds of penetrative play, anal as well.  Although it’s hard to put your finger on the feeling, Rachel found that “the penetration felt deeper and much more satisfying.” The only small issue she ran into was that although the soft velvety material felt lovely, it did cause her to slide down and need to reposition now and again. I’m a massive fan of Liberator’s sex pillows, and love that they come with moisture-proof linings to protect the foam and machine-washable covers. Sexy and practical!

2 Best for Beginners

Whipsmart Love Cushion

 Whipsmart Love Cushion

Whipsmart Love Cushion

  • Heart shaped sex wedge
  • 2 velcro cuffs
  • Moisture-proof and machine-washable cover

  • Holds shape well
  • Soft cover
  • Can be used with or without cuffs

  • Not fully waterproof
  • Handcuffs not the highest quality
  • Cuffs are too big for wrist restraint
Whipsmart Love Cushion
Length14.47 inches
Width18.89 inches
Height6.29 inches
MaterialsHigh Density Foam, Nylon
WaterproofMoisture Proof
Colors AvailableRed

I chose the WhipSmart Love Cushion as the best for beginners, as I think the cute heart design makes it very approachable and it’s cheaper than the Liberator range. Kiki tested it out for us and found this sex pillow “really does perfectly angle your pelvis for all kinds of fun.” She really liked the overall construction, commenting that the pillow is “very sturdy; the foam doesn’t collapse under weight, but it also wasn’t too hard.” She also “love[d] the restraint element to this as well,” although she was a little disappointed that the cuffs weren’t the most comfortable and only really worked as ankle restraints due to the size. I think the restraints are a fun addition and a good choice for those looking to dip their toes into bondage play. For more advanced users who want a sex pillow specifically for bondage, I would opt for something stronger, like the Liberator Black Label Wedge Ramp Combo. As a sex toy expert, I can definitely recommend the WhipSmart Love Cushion for beginners or those looking for a cute and simple sex pillow to use during sex. I see it as a good addition for penetrative or oral sex, and the added restraints are going to add some kinky spice to your play. But I don’t think it’s a good choice for those who require a lot of extra body support or have mobility issues.

3 Best Budget-Friendly

DOMINIX Deluxe Sex Position Wedge

 DOMINIX Deluxe Wedge

DOMINIX Deluxe Wedge

  • Firm foam
  • Loops for attaching restraints
  • Removable, washable cover

  • Doesn't collapse
  • Soft cover
  • Can be used in many different positions

  • Foam is a little rigid
  • No waterproof lining
DOMINIX Deluxe Wedge
Length24 inches
Height7 inches
WaterproofNo
MaterialsPolyester
Colors AvailableBlack

While the Dominix Deluxe Sex Position Wedge isn’t super cheap, it’s still cheaper than the Liberator Wedge, which is the most similar in terms of size and shape! Unfortunately, most quality foam sex pillows just aren’t that cheap! The Dominix Deluxe Sex Position Wedge is also one of the firmer sex pillows in the review. This does mean that it holds its shape very well, but our tester, Kathy, found it a little firm for her tastes. However, aside from that, she thought it was “a great toy for spicing up your sex positions!” She loved the support that it added in doggy and how it allowed her to “stay in position for ages.” She also noted that the added loops make it a “good product if you want to ‘dip your toes’ into the world of BDSM,” but you will have to provide your restraints. I think the Dominix Deluxe Sex Position Wedge is a wonderful option if you want a classic sex wedge on a budget or a wider sex pillow for a couple’s play. The design, specifically the angle, is perfect for penetrative play, as it allows for deeper and more comfortable G-spot or P-spot stimulation.

4 Best for Bondage

Liberator Black Label Wedge Ramp Combo

 Liberator Black Label Wedge

Liberator Black Label Wedge

  • Large ramp and medium size wedge
  • Comes with 4 padded restraints
  • Multiple attachment points for restraints
  • Moisture-resistant lining and machine washable covers

  • Suitable for use in lots of positions
  • Pillows can be use together or separately
  • Super comfortable restraints and eye mask

  • Pricey
  • Takes up a lot oof space
  • Restraints points aren't super strong
Liberator Black Label Wedge
LengthWedge: 14, Ramp: 34 inches
WidthWedge: 24, Ramp: 24 inches
HeightWedge: 7, Ramp: 12 inches
WaterproofMoisture resistant lining
MaterialsPolyurethane foam, nylon microfiber cover, polyester lining
Storage Bag IncludedNo
FasteningCuffs: Velcro, plastic clips
Colors AvailableBlack

I am absolutely in love with the Black Label Wedge Ramp Combo and either myself or my partner reach for one or both of this amazing sex pillows on a regular basis. Just using one under my hips makes a whole world of difference during penetrative sex! As a sex toy expert, I specifically appreciate the versatility of this piece. You can really play around with both wedges, and the possibilities for trying out different sex positions are endless. I was pleasantly surprised that the pillows held together quite well and didn’t just slide off each other. My favorite way to use the set is with the bigger ramp under the hips for more elevation and the smaller wedge to prop up my head, so I don’t feel like I’m lying upside down. Me and my boyfriend find this position works fantastic for oral for both of us, as the added pelvic height gives better access and makes it easier on the neck. It’s super fun to add in the restraints and I found them super comfy! They clip on with plastic clips but there’s also metal D-rings if you want to use your own. They are pretty sturdy as well, so I can highly recommend them as a sex pillow for bondage play!  I also have to mention that the blindfolded included is the best I have ever come across! It has a padded strip on the bottom that makes it super comfy and really blocks out the light!

5 Smallest

Liberator Jaz

 Liberator Jaz

Liberator Jaz

  • Compact size
  • Moisture-resistant liner
  • Machine-washable velvish cover

  • Travel-friendly
  • Easy to manoeuvre during sex
  • Waterproof

  • Could be too small
  • Fabric is a little slippery
Liberator Jaz
Length14 inches
Width18 inches
Height6 inches
WaterproofMoisture-resistant lining
MaterialsPolyester microvelvet, polyurethane foam
Vibration modesCyan, rose, red, black, platinum, gold, natural, ocean, silver

The Jaz was my first sex pillow and even though I tend to use the Wedge Ramp Combo more these days, I still think it’s a great pillow if you are tight on space or want a more travel-friendly option. It’s still got all the usual pros of Liberator’s sex furniture, like super soft velvety cover and a moisture-resistant liner, just in a smaller package! In my experience, the Jaz works great under the hips in missionary (or missionary adjacent) sex positions, but it wasn’t quite high enough for doggy or other styles. I can also imagine it wouldn’t be the best for those in bigger bodies.

6 Best Toy Mounts

Liberator BonBon Toy Mount

 Liberator BonBon

Liberator BonBon

  • High-density, half-barrel sex pillow
  • Pocket to hold sex toy
  • Moisture-resistant lining
  • Soft-machine washable cover

  • Can be used with a dildo or vibrator
  • Great for solo or couples play
  • Comfortable to ride

  • Size won't suit those who are particularly tall or short
  • Some toys aren't long enough
  • Difficult to access toy's buttons
Liberator BonBon
MaterialsMicrovelvet, Polyester,
Length15 inches
Width12 inches
Height8.5 inches
WaterproofMoisture-resistant lining
Colors AvailableGrey, black, blue, rose, red

I went for the BonBon over other toy mounts because it’s the most versatile in terms of which toys you can use it with. I love the idea of combining sex pillows with sex toys, as most sex furniture pieces are designed with couples in mind, and this one is a brilliant toy both for solo and couple’s play! Our tester, Kasia, said the BonBon is “a revolutionary tool for masturbation” and also found it “comes in very handy during penetrative sex.” She found it was great for “extra support during doggy style” and “opened the door for extra creativity in the bedroom.” She loved how she could have a different experience by riding her favorite toys hands-free. The BonBon has a different design than the sex wedges; it’s more rounded and higher, which in solo play will be perfect for grinding and bouncing, and for couple’s play, I recommend using it for doggy-style positions or oral play. The sex toy hole worked well for rabbits and dildos, but it wouldn’t work for smaller toys or full-sized wands. If you do want a mount for wands, I can personally recommend the Liberator Wanda, which I really enjoyed testing!

7 Most Versatile

Liberator Flip Ramp

 Liberator Flip Ramp

Liberator Flip Ramp

  • Two different constellations
  • High-density foam
  • Moisture-resistant linings
  • Machine-washable covers

  • Can be stored discreetly
  • Supports the hole body
  • Can be used in multiple positions

  • Might not be great for much larger bodies
  • Takes up a lot of space
Liberator Flip Ramp
LengthFlat: 37, Folded: 19 inches
WidthFlat: 19, Folded: 19 inches
HeightFlat: 12, Folded: 15 inches
WaterproofMoisture-resistant lining
MaterialsFoam: polyurethane, Cover: polyester
Colors AvailableBlack, Platinum, Merlot, Plum, Natural, Espresso

I had to add the Liberator Flip Ramp as it is an amazing piece of equipment! It’s one of the most versatile sex pillows on my list, and I specifically chose it for those looking for a lot of body support. Our tester, Cassie, and her partner “had a blast trying out the Liberator Flip Ramp”. They loved that it “provide[d] great support during longer sessions.” She also noted that it makes for some comfy living room lounging too! Her only critique was that it might not work so well for people in larger bodies, as although it’s high-density foam, it might not hold all weights. I love multipurpose tools, and this one really delivers on that front. Folded out, it’s like a small sex chaise with curves to support your body, and folded up, it makes a fantastic spanking bench or stool! From my professional experience, I see it as a great choice for those who want a sex pillow that offers full body support, and it will work amazingly for stabilizing your body for longer periods during many different sex positions. I also like that it is sturdy enough to support two people at once, which opens the door for exploring even more exciting positions!

What Should You Consider When Shopping for a Sex Pillow?

Material

Material - What Should You Consider When Shopping for a Sex Pillow?
Sex pillows generally fall into two categories: foam and inflatable.
  • Foam pillows are made from dense materials that offer sturdy body support, making them suitable for various body types and sizes. They are also more durable and easier to maintain. However, they can be bulky and take up considerable space.
  • Inflatable pillows are a lighter option, offering portability and easier storage. While they provide support, they may be less suitable for larger bodies or multiple users. Their ability to be deflated makes them convenient for travel and storage, offering flexibility that foam options may lack.

Shape

Shape  - What Should You Consider When Shopping for a Sex Pillow?
Some sex pillows are designed to provide support in specific areas or make certain positions more comfortable. As you shop, think about how you plan to use the pillow and what you’re looking for to help find the right fit. I’ve listed 4 types of sex pillows you can find and what they are the best for:
  • Wedges are designed to angle your hips for more satisfying penetrative sex, particularly in the missionary position or its variations.
  • Ramps offer the same benefits as wedges, but—thanks to their larger size—can support your entire body! This makes them for people with larger bodies. The added height compared to a wedge also makes them better for support in doggy-style positions.
  • Compact Pillows are best for added support in a missionary position and are a good option if you are short on space.
  • Sex Toy Mounts have a hole, or sometimes multiple holes to hold different sex toys, allowing you to enjoy them hands-free during solo or partnered play. Different mounts can accommodate different styles of sex toys.

Case

Case - What Should You Consider When Shopping for a Sex Pillow?
I always recommend going for sex furniture with a waterproof case that’s removable and can be washed in a washing machine. That makes the clean-up and overall comfort of your play much higher, as you don’t have to worry about your body fluids and you get to explore different types of lube or massage oils.

Benefits of Using a Wedge Pillow During Sex

Angles

Angles - Benefits of Using a Wedge Pillow During Sex
Bustle reported on a study by Dame Labs which found that 81% of respondents wanted to find better angles during sex with their partner. That’s understandable — it’s simply a matter of trigonometry! Let me explain… Say you’re in the missionary position. If your body is flat on the bed and your partner is penetrating you, they’ll be doing so at a slight downwards angle. That means that their penis or dildo will be hitting the back wall of your vagina the most. However, when your hips are raised, the angle is more horizontal. That means they’ll make much greater contact with the front wall of your vagina, and therefore your g-spot. It also allows for better access to the anus, if that’s something you’re into (or curious about…).

Deeper Penetration

Deeper Penetration - Benefits of Using a Wedge Pillow During Sex
Using a wedge or pillow during sex can also be a gateway to much deeper penetration. If both you and your partner on the same level, then they’ll find it much easier to thrust deeper. This can be super satisfying for both parties! You’ll experience a much ‘fuller’ feeling, and may even get some a-spot stimulation. The a-spot (or anterior fornix) is located at the inner-most part of the vagina, next to the cervix, and is a part of your internal clitoral structure like the g-spot. Deep stimulation can feel super pleasurable, and can result in some deeply satisfying orgasms. A sex wedge can help you achieve deep penetration in lots different positions, from missionary, doggy and beyond!

Accessibility

Accessibility - Benefits of Using a Wedge Pillow During Sex
There are a myriad of reasons why people might not be able to assume or hold themselves in a position. But why should limited mobility be a barrier to enjoying all the best angles that sex has to offer? There’s lots of sex furniture out there that can help with these issues! A sex wedge can change the angle of penetration, raise the penis-haver’s hips to help ‘push back’ as you grind and more, all without you needing the muscle strength to do it yourself!

Explore More Positions

Explore More Positions - Benefits of Using a Wedge Pillow During Sex
It may be that you have some mobility issues preventing you from trying out some more adventurous positions, or perhaps you and your partner have a large height difference. Whatever the hurdle is, a sex wedge can often help out. Depending on placement and position, a sex wedge or pillow can open up a whole new world of sex positions. They’re not limited to partnered sex positions, either! A sex wedge can be a helpful friend for your solo masturbation sessions, too. Scroll down a section or two to see our tips for using a sex wedge in all kinds of different positions.

How to use a sex pillow

Here are some tips to shake loose your sex pillow creativity!

Oral sex

Oral sex

Sex pillows are everything when it comes to giving good oral. Not only do you get a great view of your partner, you also get easier access and less stiffness, so you can really take your time!

Solo

Solo

Who says me-time doesn’t deserve the effort? There are so many ways to incorporate a sex pillow into your masturbation. The toy mount is obvious, but you can also grind against the sides, or simply use it to rest against, so you have a better view of the action.

How to clean

The frequency you clean your sex pillow at depends on what you use it for. If you're just leaning against it, that's at your discretion to spot clean as needed and throw in the wash after every few uses. If you're grinding against it, you'll want to clean it after every use. The great news is you can usually remove the outer lining of your sex pillow and wash as the instructions direct!

FAQ

For a bona fide sex pillow, you're looking at anywhere between $30-300, which isn't easy to budget for. For those on a budget, investing in an orthopedic pillow can make a world of difference, and it won't feel cheap.

That depends on your purpose. For grinding, you might want to look at a cylindrical shape, and for support, a wedge. It's best to shop around and check reviews for your best fit!

Ideally, you want something that doesn't stain easily, and something that's easy to wash. Sex pillow covers come in all sorts of materials: silk, nylon, cotton, blends, and more! As for the base, a good foam block will be sturdy enough to keep you going, and have enough give for maximum comfort.

At BedBible, we only recommend stores that offer discreet packaging. So no parcels with SEX PILLOW plastered all over the box. As for assembly, it depends on the pillow, but many are delivered fully intact with no assembly required!

Not really! Sex pillows can be easily tucked under beds, stored, or disguised as bed rests. If someone is really in the know, they might be able to spot a distinct brand, but for everyday purposes you shouldn't have any issues.

What is a sex pillow?

A sex pillow is a pillow (typically with a foam base) that's used for supporting your body during sex. They can help elevate the hips to allow for deeper penetration, better access for oral sex, whatever you can think of! They provide bespoke support to relieve any aches and pains that may come from certain sexual positions, making them invaluable items to people with joint pains or back problems. While most sex pillows are self-supporting, some pillows are inflatable, allowing them to be deflated for simple storage. In addition to body support, certain pillows integrate toy holders into their design, allowing them to be ridden like a partner for solo sessions!

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