Pegging Toys: 6 Best Pegging Dildos, Strap-ons and More

I picked out the Desire Luxury Vibrating Strap-On Kit as the Test Winner for this review because it’s a high quality kit that has everything you need to explore pegging. The harness even comes with three different sizes of o-rings so you can use it with other dildos you already have at home or may purchase in the future. Our tester, Peter, really enjoyed his experience with this kit. He found that “the quality is great” and appreciated the “packaging and smart zip case to keep the toy in and protect when not in use”. The harness itself is made from durable nylon and has fully adjustable sections to customiza the fit around the thigs and waist. According to Peter and his wife, the range of adjustability makes the harness fit “from a slim person all the way up to the fuller figure ladies”. As far as the vibration goes, the sensations were incredibly pleasurable. “When my wife did take control, it put me in absolute heaven with its powerful vibration and nice size. It definitely made me squirm around in extreme pleasure.” The wireless remote control is also a nice plus as that makes it easier to change the settings while you are using the toy.

Introducing the Lovense Lapis as our Runner-Up. This pegging dildo is much more than just strap-on. It’s a strapless strap-on with a unique design that can stimulate both wearer and receiver and send impressive vibrations through both ends. Lovense products also feature app control so you can change the vibrations in both parts of the toy with your device! After trying it out, our tester, Joseph, could conclude that it’s “a fantastic choice for a strap-on accessory. The motor is strong but quiet, the patterns are highly customizable, you can adjust the fit, and the material feels just like skin once it’s warmed up.” Although the biggest drawback is that is doesn’t stay in very easily. While it can be used without a harness, Joseph found that it required a lot more grip to keep it in. “When I used it without a harness, I ended up needing to hold it in place with one hand so it didn’t slip out, which didn’t ruin the mood but was annoying”. Using it in a harness helps you focus on enjoying the experience better. Still, the sensations that this Lovense Lapis delivers are worth having to use the harness. Joseph first let their partner use it on them, “and boy let me tell you, it felt amazing. I could feel the motor all through my whole body even on the lowest setting”. The ridges at the base of the shaft are great for the wearer to rub up against, “and the shaft itself also has a gentle ripple design that feels amazing for the person the toy is being used on.”

The Tantus Silk Medium is one of our more simple and beginner-friendly pegging dildos. It’s one the cheapest good quality pegging dildos that we’ve reviewed here at Bedbible. So just because you’re on a budget, you won’t have to compromise with the quality of your pegging experience. Even though our tester, Kasia, tried it out primarily for vaginal penetration, she concluded that this shape and size was better suited for anal play and pegging in particular. In terms of the design, it’s completely smooth and has a uniform diameter along the whole shaft. I think this shape is perfect for anal play since Kasia also found that “the insertion went so quickly, even without a lube”. It has a slightly curved shaft that and the feel of the silicone itself is “flexible, but the core is firm, so I had no problem reaching the G-spot”. Of course, this also translates into how well the Tantus Silk Medium could target the prostate during pegging. For such a simple dildo, I would have loved to see a suction cup base. This would make it a lot more versatile for solo play. Luckily, the flared, rounded base is still perfect to strap into a harness.

Even though the Fun Factory Limba Flex M doesn’t have the smallest diameter out of all of the pegging dildos in this review, I would still recommend it as the best option for beginners. It still has a very small girth of 1.26 inches. The super tapered tip also makes insertion a lot more comfortable for those who don’t have much experience with anal play. What really stands out to me about this pegging dildo is the adjustable. You can pose the dildo to whichever shape and angle you prefer, and it will holds its shape during penetration. This is a great feature since you can customize the kind of internal stimulation you’re looking for. It’s also a plus if you want to share this dildo with a partner who has other erogenous zones to target. For our tester, Mike, the modular nature of the dildo is what he appreciated most: “Depending on what my partner is in the mood for, we can easily bend and shape it to accommodate her desires. This adaptability is a significant advantage, as it allows us to explore various angles and positions to find what suits her best.” As far as the cons go, Mike added that “while the material feels wonderful, it has a propensity to pick up lint, which can be a minor annoyance.” Having tried a few Fun Factory dildo myself, I know that this can be a bit off-putting. Although, it’s nothing a quick rinse before use won’t take care of.

The Fun Factory ShareVibe Pro is my Expert Pick of this review. I really like the vibrations in Fun Factory toys in general and, thanks to our tester, Jess, I know how big of an upgrade this model is from the original Fun Factory ShareVibe. The dildo is slightly girthier but features an ergonomic shape with a bit of bulbous tip for added prostate pleasure. “The Pro was easier to peg without a harness due to the adjustable hinge” and the unique (and girthy) shape of the insertable pony. Being able to adjust the hinge according to your bodies makes a huge difference in how well it stays in place during use. As far as the girth goes, “depending on the shape your vagina (it) could be uncomfortable if you do not get it placed correctly at first. I did have a little bit of a learning curve with placement for myself.” A small bonus of the adjustable hinge is that Jess was able “to use it as a standard vibrating dildo with a handle, as well as a dildo with clitoral stimulation by closing the hinge more and pushing the other end into the clit.” As far the vibration goes, Fun Factory states that Share Vibe Pro offers natural-feeling thrusting and has the strongest motor of any double dildo on the market. In her review, Jess concluded that she thinks “it 100% lives up to those promises.” She was even “amazed at the sound level, given the strength of them.”

Last but certainly not least is my top recommendation for a good quality strap-on harness that both feels comfortable and looks incredibly sexy. This is the perfect harness for leaning into that elegant pegging aesthetic! The Strap-On-Me Diva Lingerie Harness even has removable garter straps so you customize to your preferred level of ‘dressing up’. For our tester, Isabelle, her partner  liked how it actually looked like lingerie “and had a cut out back as it allowed me to also have some extra fun while wearing it! Perfect for pairing with a cute butt plug.” “The dildo sits well in the harness but does require a little stabilization, because the fabric can stretch as you thrust.” That said, this is often the case with strap-ons made of fabric rather than nylon or leather. It offers pretty good value for money since it’s so comfortable to wear and easy to put on and take off. It’s not adjustable but is available in multiple sizes (S, M, L, XL, & 2XL). However, as a plus-size person I would have loved to see a wider range in sizes. All in all, I think the Strap-On-Me is a great strap-on harness for anyone looking for their first strap-on or an elegant and sexy strap-on for occasional use. “I love the design, comfort, easy of use and think I feel amazing wearing it!”.