Strap-On-Me Diva Lingerie Harness — Test & Review

I really like the more feminine look of the Strap-On-Me Diva Harness. The lace details are very cute and I love the cheeky open back design. It looks super sexy and means you can wear it with a butt plug or enjoy some anal play without taking it off! I would love if the design were a little more high-waisted but that's a personal preference thing. I'm also a big fan of the garters that you can wear with stockings or take off if you don't want to use them. I'm not such a fan of the Strap-On-Me text and logo on the waistband, but it's not a huge issue for me.

I love how easy the Strap-On-Me Diva Harness is to use! It makes a fantastic introduction to strap-on play of all kinds. Unlike strap-style harnesses that come with a lot straps to figure out and adjust, you just slip it on like underwear! It's also very easy to slip a dildo into the elasticated O-ring. The downside of having just one, elasticated O-ring is that you are limited to using dildos that fit. This one can take dildos up to 1.6 inches in diameter, but it's worth keeping in mind that dildos much smaller than this won't be supported as well as ones that have a more snug fit. I will say, the hold-up fastenings are super fiddly but you can take the straps off if you don't want to mess around with stockings!

The Strap-On-Me Diva Harness feels very well-made! There's no loose stitching and the fabric is great quality — it's soft against the skin but also feels strong and durable. The only place where I wasn't that impressed by the quality was the garter straps, within the first use, one of the silky ribbons on the fastenings has come off, so I'll need to stitch that back into place.

I would say the Strap-On-Me Diva Harness is in the mid-price range for underwear style harnesses, and I think the overall quality and unique design justify the price! I think this makes a great investment for anyone excited to explore strap-on play!

I felt amazing wearing the Strap-On-Me Diva Harness and It was very comfortable to wear. I love that you can slip it on or off. The dildos I've tried sit very well in the harness and are comfortable to wear. Given the stretchy nature of the fabric, it does require a little stabilising, although this is pretty hard to avoid with underwear style harnesses. If you want something more stable, I would go for a harness with non-stretchy adjustable straps.

The Strap-On-Me Diva Harness comes in a stylish box with a picture of a woman wearing the harness with a dildo on the front. It's not very discreet, so be sure to open your parcel in private! The back has sizing and care instructions. Inside the box, is another plain cardboard box, which I thought was an unnecessary use of materials, especially considering the harness is wrapped in black tissue paper. I would much rather they stuck to just one box and the tissue paper.

The Strap-on-me Diva harness is made from microfiber and lace. The website and box say that the harness is machine washable, but label inside says hand wash only, which is a little confusing. I will be washing mine on a low temperature and avoiding tumble drying to prolong the quality as long as possible. Once clean and dry, you can just pop it in your drawer ready for next time!