5 Best Vibrating Strap Ons

   Katarzyna Halinowska
I know that finding a comfortable and powerful vibrating strap-on can be difficult, so if you’re looking for the best one, reading my handy review guide was the best thing you could have done! I had the pleasure of working with Bedbile’s team of expert sex toy reviewers, and together we selected the best vibrating strap-ons and reviewed them according to their price, size, comfort, and durability. Whether you are looking for a strapless or harness strap-on, I’ve prepared 5 different vibrating strap-ons to suit everyone’s needs!
1 Test Winner

Fun Factory ShareVibe Pro Strapless Strap-On Dildo

 Fun Factory ShareVibe Pro

  • like Fun Factory's products

Fun Factory ShareVibe Pro

  • have a problem gribbing on too a strapless dildo

  • Vibrating strapless strap-on
  • Provides dual stimulation for the wearer
  • Curved shaft with a tapered tip for easy insertion
  • Flexible insertable arm

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  • Silky smooth silicone
  • Perfectly curved for deep internal massage
  • USB rechargeable
  • Waterproof
  • Can be used without a strap-on harness
  • Vibrations are fairly quiet

  • Comes with a learning curve
  • Vibrations don't carry to the shaft very well
  • Shaft is quite short
  • Attracts hair and lint very easily
Fun Factory ShareVibe Pro
Vibration speeds3
Vibration patterns5
Length9.92 inches
Insertable lengthWearer: 4.5 inches, Receiver: 6.1 inches
Diameter1.42-1.61 inches
AdjustableYes, dildo angle is adjustable
Weight1 lbs
MaterialsSilicone
WaterproofYes
Battery Life90 minutes
RechargeableYes
Charging Time360 minutes
Remote ControlsNo
App ControlsNo
Travel LockYes
Storage Bag IncludedNo
Colors AvailableBurgundy, Cool Grey

The Fun Factory ShareVibe Pro is one of the best vibrating strapless strap-ons we’ve ever tested. Its ergonomic design will be perfect for pegging and all kinds of shared pleasure. The vibrations are designed to stimulate both the wearer and the receiver, enhancing the experience for both partners. Our tester, Jess, had a wonderful time with the Fun Factory ShareVibe Pro, particularly enjoying its deep, rumbly vibrations and the added clitoral stimulation. She also praised its flexibility, saying, “The hinge makes it a lot easier to adjust once you put it inside, which prevents the toy from falling out during penetration.” However, like all strapless strap-ons, it does require some practice. Jess noted that the size can be a bit challenging, and while she was able to use it without a harness, she did “occasionally have to reach down and hold it in for additional support.” Because of this, you might find it easier to use a strap-on harness with the ShareVibe, as it helps keep everything in place during those more active moments.  

2 Best for Beginners

Tantus Bend Over Beginner's Vibrating Strap-On Harness Kit

 Tantus Bend Over Beginner Strap-On Kit

  • want a super simple beginner vibrating strap on
  • want something easy to use
  • want a set with 2 different dildos to choose from

Tantus Bend Over Beginner Strap-On Kit

  • want a harness available in bigger sizes
  • want very strong vibrations

  • Classic strap-on design with an adjustable harness
  • The set comes with a choice of two silicone dildos in different sizes and a bullet vibrator
  • Curved dildos for deeper internal stimulation
  • Two different o-rings included, which means you can swap out the dildo included in the set and slip in another dildo or plug of your choice

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  • Great starter set for beginners
  • Comfortable harness
  • Silky, flexible silicone dildos
  • Can be used with larger dildos as well

  • The bullet vibrator is low quality
  • Weak vibrations and only one mode
  • Vibrator pocket does not stay in place
  • Dildos have a similar size
Tantus Bend Over Beginner Strap-On Kit
Vibration speeds3
Harness SizeFits hips up to 60 inches and legs up to 26.5 inches
LengthSmall Dildo: 4.5 inches, Medium Dildo: 5.75 inches
Insertable lengthSmall Dildo: 4.25 inches, Medium Dildo: 5.5 inches
DiameterSmall Dildo: 0.8 inches, Medium Dildo: 1 inches
MaterialsDildos: Silicone, Harness: Polyester, Hard Plastic
WaterproofDildos: Yes, Vibrator: Yes, Harness: Machine-Washable
RechargeableNo, Uses 1 N-type Battery
Storage Bag IncludedNo
Colors AvailablePurple

The Tantus Bend Over Beginner Strap-On Kit is the most popular beginner strap-on kit! It has everything you need to start your pegging journey, including a bullet vibrator, an easy-to-use, and an adjustable harness that works on many different body types. Yet, the key feature of this strap-on kit are the popular Tantus Silk Dildos! I own the Tantus Silk Medium, and I am pretty impressed with its quality and overall performance. Usually beginner toys feature cheap, stiff dilods, but these feel totally different! Both are made with flexible, silky-smooth silicone and come in two beginner-friendly sizes. Based on our tester’s review of the product, “The dildos feel luxurious compared with most beginner butt products.”  Performance-wise, Christina said that “the harness did not loosen at all while thrusting, and the dildo stayed securely in place,” but she and her partner wished that the straps were made from softer material. When it comes to the vibrations, our tester said that the bullet has a “decently strong buzz and has proven durable,” but it felt a bit “cheap” and didn’t offer a ton of stimulation once inserted in the pocket.  All in all, I think that the Tantus Bend Over Beginner Strap-On Kit is a good, reliable product, perfect for total beginners that want to have a smooth and comfortable first experiment with pegging but don’t want to invest in a high-end vibrating strap on. I agree that the design and quality of the harness and the bullet could be better, but given the attractive price and the addition of 2 really well-made dildos, I think it’s worth a try.  

3 Budget-Friendly

Tracey Cox Supersex Strap-On Pegging Kit

 Tracey Cox Supersex Kit

  • want to experiment with pegging

Tracey Cox Supersex Kit

  • want super powerful vibrations

  • Vibrating strap-on kit from
  • Adjustable harness
  • Two silicone dildos included
  • Comes with a bullet vibrator and 3 different size o-rings
 

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  • Big size difference between the dildos
  • Comfortable to wear
  • Easy to use
  • Comes with everything you need to start

  • Battery powered bullet
  • Weak vibrations
  • Harness can be tricky at first
  • Bright pink dildo might not be everyone's taste
Tracey Cox Supersex Kit
Vibration modes7
Length4.5, and 6 inches
Diameter0.87, and 1.51 inches
Insertable length(bulb) inches
Width(bulb) inches
WaterproofYes
Battery LifeN/A minutes
RechargeableNo, 3x LR44 batteries
MaterialsSilicone, ABS Plastic
Travel LockNo

This is a very inclusive toy—anyone who enjoys anal or vaginal penetration will enjoy these smooth silicone dildos. This vibrating strap-on set is perfect for pegging, and the size is great for beginners and more advanced users alike. I really like that the sizes and styles of these dildos are very different; it adds so much more versatility to your play!  While the harness is best used with a partner, the dildos and bullet vibe are also great for solo pleasure. The versatility doesn’t end there! The harness, complete with three o-rings, can be paired with your favorite toys to switch things up. Our tester, Emiel, who reviewed this product with his partner, was impressed with the quality and adjustability of the harness, saying: “The harness fit me comfortably and positioned really well with my own anatomy… Even with faster-paced thrusting, everything stayed really secure.”  While you get some high-quality kit for the price, there are a couple of things that could be improved. Firstly, the vibrations from the bullet tend to lose strength when inserted into the pocket. Emiel said, “While it wasn’t enough for me to orgasm, it felt really good the whole time,” so if you’re looking for super strong vibrations, maybe this isn’t for you. On a side note, the bullet is great for some pinpoint stimulation.  

4 Best Remote Control

Desire Luxury Strap-On Kit

 Desire Luxury Strap-On

  • want to control it remotly
  • want to hump your partner, while they control the vibrations

Desire Luxury Strap-On

  • don't want to pay more for a remote control you don't intent to use

  • Strap-on set with a vibrating dildo
  • Adjustable harness
  • Comes with a wireless remote
  • Comes with three o-rings so you can switch up the dildo with one of your own
 

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  • High quality product
  • Strong vibrations
  • Wide range of vibration settings
  • Comfortable harness
  • Easy to use
  • Waterproof
  • USB Rechargeable

  • Might be too rigid for some
  • Comes with one dildo only
  • Vibrations are quite buzzy
Desire Luxury Strap-On
Vibration speeds12
Vibration patterns8
Insertable length7 inches
Diameter1.6 inches
WaterproofYes (not remote)
RechargeableUSB
Storage Bag IncludedYes
MaterialsSilicone
Battery Life45 minutes
Charging Time90 minutes
Remote ControlsYes

The Desire Luxury Strap-On Kit is a unique vibrating strap-on on my list! Usually, strap-on kits just add a bullet vibrator for that extra buzz, but with this set, you get a vibrating dildo with remote-controlled settings! In my opinion, this vibrating strap-on will be perfect for more advanced users who want up their experience with deep and powerful vibrations! The wireless remote makes switching up the intensity way easier and can be used to tease your partner. The dual-motor vibrations are also a step up and pack some real vibrating power. Based on our tester, Peter’s review, this toy looks and feels “luxurious”, and its performance is top-quality. Peter even said, “It definitely made me squirm around in extreme pleasure.” He said that the vibrations were powerful and surprisingly quiet, and there were many different patterns and speeds to choose from. Additionally, the remote allows you to enjoy your experience hands-free and can also be used for power-play!  There was no negative feedback from Peter and his wife, and even I struggled to find any flaws. I like the sleek design of this strap-on, its power, and the fact that the dildo is remote-controlled, which is a rare find! The only issue might be the size and weight of the dildo, but luckily, there are additional o-rings included, so you can switch things up whenever you please.   

5 Best App Control

Lovense Lapis

 Lovense Lapis

Lovense Lapis

  • Vibrating strapless strap-on
  • Provides dual stimulation for the wearer
  • App-controlled vibrations
  • Textured shaft with a bulbous tip
  • Flexible insertable arm

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  • Top-quality product
  • Powerful vibrations
  • Customizable vibration with app
  • Long battery life
  • Adjustable insertion point
  • Comfortable to use

  • Can slip out of wearer if not using harness
  • The size of the shaft might not fit everyone
Lovense Lapis
Vibration speeds3 preset
Vibration patterns4 preset
Length9 inches
Insertable lengthShaft: 5.43 inches, Base: 3.43 inches
DiameterShaft: 1.61 inches, Base: 1.52 inches
AdjustableYes
MaterialsSilicone
WaterproofYes
Battery LifeUp to 150 minutes
RechargeableYes
Charging Time105 minutes
Travel LockNo
Remote ControlsApp controls
Storage Bag IncludedYes
Colors AvailablePink

The Lovense sex toys belong to my favorite sex toy brand, and I was excited when they finally released an app-controlled vibrating strapless strap-on! I expected the deep and rumbly vibrations and a premium-quality design, and lucky for us, that’s exactly what we got.  Our Bedbible tester, Joseph, really enjoyed their experience with the Lapis! They were impressed by the strong vibrations so much, they said, “I could feel the motor all through my whole body even on the lowest setting.” Therefore, I am proud to say that this is definitely the most powerful vibrating strapless strap on the market, and I can highly recommend it to any advanced user looking for a premium pegging toy. Design-wise, Joseph pointed out that the added texture on the shaft and at the base adds extra stimulation, especially for the wearer, which I think is a great plus.  The key feature of this toy is the app control, and as I expected, it works flawlessly. As a sex toy expert, I’ve tested many app-controlled sex toys, and Lovense Remote has never disappointed me.  The only reason why I didn’t choose the Lovense Lapis as the test winner is the price and the fact that, sadly, it didn’t pass the strapless test. You can still use it with a harness, and I don’t think it’s that big of a deal since many strapless strap-ons have the same issue, but given the price, I was expecting a more innovative solution to solve the universal strapless issue.   

Vibrating Strap-on Buying Guide

If you are looking for the best vibrating strap-on, you should know a few things before purchasing! This comprehensive buying guide is designed to help you navigate the ins and outs of choosing the perfect toy to spice up your bedroom play:

What to Look For in Vibrating Strap-Ons

 

Harness vs Strapless Strap-On

There are two kinds of strap on styles, and while they’re both great, it’s good to know the pros and cons of each to ensure you’re getting the right strap on for you:
Harness Strap on
  • Keeps the dildo steady, and allows for more control
  • Can look visibly sexy
  • Can be tricky to get on in the heat of the moment
  • The penetrating partner doesn’t receive the same pleasure
Strapless Strap-on
  • Both partners receive pleasure
  • Great source of connection with a partner
  • Can be tricky at first, and take some getting used to
  • Don’t always stay in place
 

Best Materials

Now we’ve covered the pros and cons of the harness vs. strapless strap-ons, it’s time to talk about materials- honestly, it’s not as boring as it sounds, but it’s definitely important if you want to purchase a quality vibrating strap on!
  • Silicone — Pure, medical-grade silicone is an ideal material for any kind of sex toy; this is because it’s durable, body-safe, non-porous, soft, flexible, and great for temperature play. It is, however, important to remember that you should use water-based lube with silicone.
  • PVC — This material is widely used in the manufacturing of sex toys, mainly because it is cheap and flexible; though PVC makes many great toys, it is a porous material which means it absorbs bacteria and isn’t suitable for use in water. Any toy made from PVC will degrade quicker and harbor bacteria.
  • Hard Plastic — This type of material is, again, a good choice for those who want a vibrating strap-on that will last; hard plastic is not porous, which means it’s super easy to clean. It is, however, susceptible to heat and therefore shouldn’t be left in direct sunlight or near a heat source.
  • TPE — For fans of the realistic, this material might just be the one for you! The thermoplastic material is perfect for creating a realistic feeling within vibrating strap-ons. Of course, it has its downsides as do all materials; TPE is porous and degrades quicker than other materials due to bacteria infiltrating it.
 

Vibrations

When it comes to vibrations, it’s not something to take lightly- or intensely, or rumbly, or buzzy, or… we could go on forever!
Battery operated vibrating strap-ons
  • With battery-operated vibrators, you never really know when the power might run itself out.
  • Battery-operated toys also tend to produce weaker vibrations as stronger vibrations would run the battery out quicker. Some also prefer them due to the fact that they have softer vibrations, and for those with very sensitive genitals, this can be a good option.
  • Some people prefer battery-operated toys due to the fact that you can remove the battery when traveling for peace of mind, or because they’re eco-friendly and don’t use lots of electricity.
Rechargeable vibrating strap-ons
  • When it dies you can simply plug the charger in and charge it instead of rooting around for a battery that fits.
  • They provide powerful vibrations where battery-operated toys do not.
  • Some people worry that the toy may spring to life during a plane ride, or from the bottom of their bag; yes, lots of rechargeable toys have a ‘travel lock’ option, but many don’t.

Bullet vs Internal Motor

  • Bullet — A vibrating strap-on might earn its name only when a bullet vibrator is inserted; this usually means that the strap-on dildo has a hollow hole in the underside of it which fits a bullet vibrator. Due to the bullet being separate from the dildo itself, vibrations are usually weaker and may not travel to the tip of the dildo; this kind of vibrating dildo is great for those that aren’t a huge fan of powerful vibrations but are looking for that extra kick during strap on play.
  • Internal Motor — A vibrating strap-on with an internal motor will for sure provide you with stronger vibrations. Some vibrating strap-ons have one motor, while some have two in order to balance the vibrations out between each person.

Harness vs. Strapless

Harness vs. Strapless - Vibrating Strap-on Buying Guide
There’s a wide range of designs for vibrating strap-ons. Some come with adjustable straps for a customizable fit, while others are strapless for more skin-to-skin contact. The ones with a harness are much easier to use; however, they are mostly meant to please the receiver, while the strapless strap-ons please both users but are usually less comfortable to wear. The choice is yours!

Harness Design

Harness Design - Vibrating Strap-on Buying Guide
There are many types of strap-on harnesses, including thongs, strap-on underwear, or jockstrap designs. The right harness combines comfort, security, and appeal, all tailored to your unique needs. For comfort, look for a harness with lining or elasticity to avoid skin irritation during play. Stability is crucial, too – your harness should secure the dildo firmly to avoid any mishaps. And don’t forget the sexy factor – choose a design that adds excitement for you and your partner!

Dildo Material

Dildo Material - Vibrating Strap-on Buying Guide
The material of the strap-on can greatly impact comfort and feel. Look for body-safe materials such as silicone, which is hypoallergenic, non-porous, and easy to clean.

Dildo’s size and shape

Dildo’s size and shape - Vibrating Strap-on Buying Guide
Size matters, so make sure to choose something that aligns with your comfort level. Vibrating strap-ons come in various lengths and girths, so there’s something for everyone. Also, the shape of the dildo is very important. When looking for your perfect strap-on, you will come across many different shapes.
  • A smooth dildo is great for beginners because it provides easy and smooth insertion.
  • Meanwhile curved dildos are amazing for deeper P-spot or G-spot stimulation.

Vibrations

Vibrations - Vibrating Strap-on Buying Guide
The more settings, the more opportunities for pleasure! Some models offer multiple speeds and patterns, allowing you to customize your experience.

Power Source

Power Source - Vibrating Strap-on Buying Guide
Some vibrating strap-ons are battery-powered, while others are rechargeable. Rechargeable models are usually more powerful and offer longer playtime, plus no one likes to mess around looking for new batteries in the middle of sex! But the battery-operated vibrating strap-ons are usually much cheaper.

Price

Price - Vibrating Strap-on Buying Guide
The cost of vibrating strap-ons varies based on material, design, and brand. The prices range from 50 dollars to 200, so think about what amount you are ready to spend.

How to use a vibrating strap-on

Vibrating strap-ons are pretty versatile toys that can be used for external stimulation as well as vaginal and anal penetration. With many different styles – strapless, hollow, cock-ring – it can be difficult to choose. Here are some ways to use vibrating strap-on dildos and the best options for the job!

Lesbian sex

Lesbian sex

A vibrating strap-on can be great for lesbian partners who enjoy penetration. If both partners want to experience simultaneous stimulation, a strapless strap-on like the Lovense Lapis is a great option.

Pegging

Pegging

Pegging involves the reversal of the usual heterosexual sex roles. The partner with a vagina wears a strap-on and enters the receiver anally. This can be done using either a strap-on with a harness or a strapless strap-on, which can also provide extra stimulation for the wearer.

Hollow strap-ons

Hollow strap-ons

Hollow strap-ons are unisex and allow a partner with a penis to wear the strap-on over their own penis. This gives them added vibrating stimulation, may help them last longer, and provides the receiving partner with vibrations and the experience of an extra full feeling from the bigger shaft.

How to Clean a Vibrating Strap On

As all of these vibrating strap-ons contain different parts, always follow the manufacturers instructions for washing each individual part (i.e., the harness, the dildo and the bullet). Harness: Most fabric harnesses can be washed in the washing machine unless they have vibrating elements or parts made of other materials. If you have a harness made of silicone, you can wash this with warm, soapy water and cloth, again paying attention to keep any electrical parts dry. Bullet vibrators: Unless the manufacturer explicitly states that the vibrator is waterproof, do not submerge your bullet vibrator in water. Instead, wipe it down with a damp, soapy cloth or sex toy cleaner. Dildos: This depends on the material. Check out our guide to washing different sex toy materials below.

FAQ

Each harness is slightly different, but most are worn like a pair of underwear with straps around the legs and waist. You can step into the harness, get it into a comfortable position and then tighten the straps so that the harness sits snugly against your body.

If you are using a strapless strap on, the bulb or pony is designed to be worn inside the wearer's vagina. Be sure to use some lubrication to ease insertion.

Getting your strapless strap on to stay in place, especially when thrusting can be a challenge that requires some pretty strong vaginal muscles. You can use a harness or specially designed pair of underwear to give your strap on the extra support it needs.

If you are using your vibrating strap on for pegging or anal penetration, it's best to start with a smaller, thinner shaft that is tapered at the end, as this will make insertion easier.

If you already have a dildo and want to try out using it as a strap on before investing in your own harness, you can improvise using some things you might have at home. Underwear harness: If you have a tight-fitting pair of underwear and a dildo with a flared base (e.g., a suction cup dildo), you can cut a hole in the underwear and insert your dildo through the hole. This definitely won't be as stable as a store-bought strap on but will give you an idea if strap-on-wearing is for you. A tight-fitting, substantial pair of underwear works best for this as they will give the most support - it's time for those giant pants to shine! Scarf harness: If you have a long, thin scarf or tie and a suction cup dildo with a flared base, you can fashion a makeshift strap on. Tie the middle of the scarf or tie around the bottom of the dildo and then wrap each side around your body so that they meet at the back. Then pass the two lengths between your legs and fasten to the waist belt, either side of the dildo. This works best with a soft fabric that won't rub your skin. Again, this won't provide the same level of stability as a store-bought option but can be great to try out the sensation. We do not recommend making your own sex toys and always recommend that you purchase purpose-made sex toys from a reputable shop. We are in no way responsible for any harm caused due to the use or sharing of these DIYs. You are 100% responsible for the outcome should you choose to make your own sex toys.

For strapless strap ons, the penetrator would need to have a vagina as a strapless strap on has a bulbed end and a shaft. The bulbed end is inserted into the penetrator's vagina, and the shaft is then inserted into the receivers mouth, anus, or vagina.

This is a good question as there are so many vibrating strap ons out there, and it can become overwhelming when trying to choose! With any kind of sex toy, pleasure is purely subject to the person themselves. Our advice is to read our helpful round up review above, and let our experts help you to find the best vibrating strap on for you.

Water-based lubricants are the best choice for vibrating strap-ons. They are compatible with all toy materials, easy to clean up, and versatile in terms of consistency. Water-based lubes are also safe to use with latex condoms!

What is a Vibrating Strap-On?

Vibrating strap-ons are unisex and can be enjoyed by anyone with any sexuality and any sexual organs. They can be used for vaginal or anal penetration and have the added fun of vibrating components, which increase the sensations and can result in some explosive orgasms. You can use a vibrating dildo with a harness, or you can use a vibrating strapless strap on; both are equally fun, but a little different! A harness and vibrator can be used by anyone, no matter your sexual organs, while a strapless strap on is usually suited to people with vaginas (when they are the wearer). This is because a strapless strap on has a bulbed end and a shaft; the bulbed end is inserted into the penetrator's vagina, while the receiver is penetrated with the shaft.

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