10 Best Strapless Strap-on Dildos [Harness-Free Fun]

   Isabelle Uren
I’ve searched high and low for the best strapless strap-ons to add even more intimacy to your strap-on sex! The Fun Factory ShareVibe is today’s winner as it’s a such a high-quality strapless strap-on, but I’ve also included some more beginner-friendly strap-ons and some very affordable options too! Using a strapless strap-on can be a bit of a learning curve, so I’ve also given you a lot of tips and advice as well!
1 Test Winner

Lovense Lapis Strapless Strap-On

 Lovense Lapis

  • want to use app-controlled
  • love rumbly vibrations

Lovense Lapis

  • are on a budget
  • want to remote control without the use of an app

The Lovense Lapis is a versatile, strapless strap-on designed for both solo and partner use. It features a ribbed shaft and a thick, insertable base with adjustable angles. The device has a simple one-button control and is compatible with an app for customizable settings. It’s made of soft silicone and offers powerful, yet quiet, vibration settings.

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  • Really powerful motor
  • Good battery life
  • Insertion point is adjustable
  • Custom vibration settings

  • Insertion point can feel too big
  • Quite expensive
  • Only comes in one pink-ish color
Lovense Lapis
Vibration speeds3 preset
Vibration patterns4 preset
Length9 inches
Insertable lengthShaft: 5.43 inches, Base: 3.43 inches
DiameterShaft: 1.61 inches, Base: 1.52 inches
AdjustableYes
MaterialsSilicone
WaterproofYes
Battery LifeUp to 150 minutes
RechargeableYes
Charging Time105 minutes
Travel LockNo
Remote ControlsApp controls
Storage Bag IncludedYes
Colors AvailablePink

Using the Lovense Lapis has been a mix of excitement and slight challenges. As someone who’s not typically a top, I found its powerful vibrations incredibly satisfying, offering a unique blend of pleasure. The softness of the silicone adds a luxurious feel, and its quietness is a huge plus. However, maintaining its position without a harness was a bit of a letdown, as it somewhat contradicts its ‘strapless’ claim. The control button’s accessibility is a minor hiccup, yet it’s easily overcome with a bit of planning and using the app. While it’s on the pricier side, the quality and versatility of the Lapis make it a worthwhile investment for those who enjoy exploring and pushing the boundaries of pleasure. For me, it’s a valuable addition to my collection, blending functionality with fun in a sleek, high-quality package.

2 Cheapest

Lovehoney Desire Luxury Strapless Strap-On

 Lovehoney Desire Luxury Strap-On

  • enjoy some extra clitoral stimulation
  • want an adjustable bulb
  • prefer built-in vibrations

Lovehoney Desire Luxury Strap-On

  • aren't a fan of the rabbit ear design
  • prefer a dildo that's a bit more soft and squishy

Dive deep into luxury with the Desire Luxury Strapless Strap-On. Designed so that both the wearer and receiver get their share of the fun, this vibrating strapless strap-on provides plenty of pleasure for two! This fully waterproof, rechargeable vibrating strap-on is perfect for any strapped fantasies you might have. Both the wearer and the receiver get to experience the 8 patterns and 12 speeds of intense vibrations. Better yet, the vibrations in either end can be controlled independently. The wearer also gets the added bonus of clitoral stimulation from the rumbly rabbit ears. This strap-on is made of smooth and body-safe silicone and can be adjusted to suit the angles of both your bodies, so you both get maximum pleasure.

  • Vibrations in both ends can be controlled separately
  • Adjustable angle
  • Waterproof
  • Luxurious storage bag
  • Additional clitoral stimulation

  • May be too rigid for some
  • The placement of the rabbit ears won't necessarily fit all bodies
  • Difficult to access controls when in use
  • Can be tricky to hold in for longer periods of time
Lovehoney Desire Luxury Strap-On
WaterproofYes
Vibration modesDifferent modes for different ends of a strap on
Storage Bag IncludedA very fancy leather pouch
RechargeableYes -power cable included but no plug
Remote ControlsNo
WeightLight lbs
AdjustableYes

From the velvety smooth silicone to the lockable storage case that lets you charge your toy discreetly, you are getting a truly luxurious experience with this strap-on. Our tester thought the vibrations were nice and intense and amp up the stimulation for both partners. She also found that the strap-on works very well for solo pleasure as well!. It’s a vibrating dildo, g-spot vibrator, and rabbit vibrator all in one! I really like the the vibrations in both ends of the toy can be controlled separately so you can customize the experience for you and your partner. One downside for me is that the controls are located on the bottom of the toy and are difficult to access when you are already in the swing of things. For this price, I think it would be fair to expect a remote control. Lastly, the rabbit ear clitoral stimulator misses the mark slightly. The ears are a little too big and too rigid to feel comfortable for a lot of different bodies, so it can be tricky to find the right position for them. The rest of the functionality is pretty spot-on, especially if we are talking g- or p-spot. Whether you are using this on someone with a g- spot or a p-spot, you can adjust the angle, so it hits all the right spots for both partners.

3 Beginners

Wet for Her Union Double Dildo

 Wet For Her Union

  • prefer non-phallic designs
  • want a posable shaft
  • want an adjustable strapless strap-on

Wet For Her Union

  • crave super powerful vibrations
  • want a soft dildo

Cum together with the Union from Wet For Her! The medical-grade silicone shaft and bulb can be adjusted to fit both of your bodies using the copper wire core that bends easily and holds its position. The wearer gets to enjoy the 1.45-inch wide bulb that provides an internal massage and holds the strap on in place, and added clitoral stimulation from the pleasure bump that picks up vibrations from the bullet vibrator. The receiver you can enjoy the 5 speeds of bullet vibrations that travel down the 5.9-inch, flexible, posable shaft that comes in a choice of three different diameters.  

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  • Posable
  • Multi-speed bullet vibrator
  • USB rechargeable
  • Three size options

  • Can be too rigid for some
  • Requires some practice and patience
  • Might need a harness for stability
Wet For Her Union
Vibration speeds10
Length5.9 inches
DiameterBulb: (S/M) 1.34, (L) 1.45; Shaft: (S) 1.06, (M) 1.38, (L) 1.61 inches
Insertable lengthBulb: (S/M) 2, (L) 2.75, Shaft: 5.9 inches
MaterialsSilicone
WaterproofYes
RechargeableYes
Travel LockNo

This strap-on is quite an investment, but you do get a top-quality, adjustable product. The smooth silicone curves of this strap-on make it extremely inviting, and the non-realistic design makes it perfect for people who don’t enjoy realistic-looking toys. This strapless strap-on is more customizable, making it easier to find the right fit. Not only can you choose between three different shaft sizes, which is ideal if you want something smaller, but you can use the copper wire core to bend the toy to fit your and your partner’s bodies. The other thing to consider with this strap-on is the rigidity; it is a level 3 out of 5 for firmness, so it might not be the best choice if you prefer soft toys.

4 Happy Rabbit

Happy Rabbit Strapless Strap-on

 Happy Rabbit Strapless Strap-on

  • want added clitoral stimulation for the wearer
  • enjoy having lots of vibration settings

Happy Rabbit Strapless Strap-on

  • have a very sensitive clitoris
  • want a remote control for the vibrations
  • don't enjoy very firm dildos

You will be two happy bunnies with this strapless strap-on from Happy Rabbit! The internal bulb rests against the wearers g-spot for a delightful massage as they move, while the rabbit ears surround their clit with powerful vibrations! There’s also a second vibrating motor in the shaft with 12 teasing vibration settings to play with! Plus, it’s waterproof, rechargeable and even has a travel lock so you can slip it your bag for fun wherever you go!

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  • Powerful vibrations
  • Posable
  • Vibrations for both partners
  • Waterproof

  • Too rigid for some
  • Buttons tricky to reach when in use
  • Rabbit ears won't fit all bodies
Happy Rabbit Strapless Strap-on
Vibration modesShaft: 12, Ears: 3
Insertable lengthBulb: 5.5, Shaft: 4.5 inches
DiameterBulb: 1.35, Shaft: 1.43 inches
AdjustableYes
WaterproofYes
MaterialsSilicone
RechargeableYes
Travel LockYes

This strapless strap-on brings even more pleasure to the wearer with it’s rabbit ears. As with all rabbit style toys, the placement won’t suit all bodies, so if you know you have a bigger gap between your vagina and clitoris or have struggled to make rabbits work in the past, this might not be for you. I love that you can pose the angle of the bulb for a better fit in different positions. The shaft is great for anal or vaginal play and is very firm, which again, might not suit everyone. The vibrations are powerful and there are lots of settings to choose from in the main shaft. It can be a little tricky to change the settings while in use as you can’t see the buttons.  

5 Adjustable

Lovehoney Posable Strapless Strap-On

 Lovehoney's strapless strap-on

  • want something, that is adjustable
  • want to explore a variety of positions

Lovehoney's strapless strap-on

  • need something with strong vibrations

This tantalizing turquoise treat from Lovehoney takes the strap out of strap-on with a bulb that sits snugly inside the wearer’s vagina. The receiver can enjoy the buzzing sensations and ribbed texture of the long 6-inch long shaft that can be used for vaginal or anal penetration. Waterproof, USB rechargeable, and 90 minutes of playtime, this vibrating strapless strap-on is as practical as it is pretty!

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  • Adjustable angles
  • Strong bullet vibrator
  • USB rechargeable
  • Waterproof

  • Bullet buttons tricky to access when in use
  • Requires the wearer to have some grip strength
  • Shaft may not be big enough for some
Lovehoney's strapless strap-on
Vibration speeds3
Vibration patterns7
Length6 inches
DiameterPony: 1.35, Shaft: 1.43 inches
Insertable lengthPony: 3, Shaft: 6.5 inches
MaterialsSilicone
WaterproofYes
Battery Life90 minutes
RechargeableYes
Travel LockNo

So first of all, what a beautiful strap-on! The unique color and smooth silicone curves remind me of the rolling sea in summer, and the non-realistic design is perfect if realistic penis designs don’t float your boat. It’s also a very reasonable price! The bullet provides some good vibrations that do transfer pretty well to the shaft. Some users have found that the bullet can slip out during use though. The full adjustable angles make this much more likely to work for your body as you can pose it exactly how you want it and even adjust the shaft to hit your g- or p-spot. This can be tricky at first, but fantastic when you find what works for you! The vaginal bulb features a very narrow neck, making it easier for the wearer’s muscles to grip around the bulb. It can take a bit of squeezing to stay in place, but a pair of strap-on pants can help keep things in place.  

6 Large

Vixen Peacemaker

 Vixen Peacemaker

  • love a girthy shaft
  • prefer a realistic design
  • want the realistic feel of dual density
  • don't enjoy firm strapless strap-ons

Vixen Peacemaker

  • prefer a rigid dildo
  • want vibrations

Enjoy the ultimate in realistic sensations with the Peacemaker from Vixen. The shaft end is made from their dual density silicone, meaning it has a firm core with a softer, squishier outer layer. Combined with the realistic textures, this thick shaft feels as close to the real deal as it gets! The wearer’s bulb has some more subtle textural details and is curved for stability and G-spot stimulation.

  • Realistic feeling dual-density silicone
  • Lifelike textural details
  • Handmade
  • Lifetime warranty
  • Choice of skin tones

  • Can feel slightly tacky
  • Will most likely need a harness
Vixen Peacemaker
Insertable lengthBulb: 5.25, Shaft: 6.5 inches
DiameterBulb: 1.5, Shaft: 1.9 inches
WaterproofYes
MaterialsPlatinum silicone
Colors AvailableVanilla, Caramel, Purple

I am a massive fan of Vixen’s Vixskin silicone. It is the most realistic feeling silicone I have experienced yet, making this a really great option for anyone who craves more lifelike sensations in their strap-on sex. It’s also a really nice alternative to the many rigid options on the market. While the core is firm, the softer design does mean you are probably going to need a harness with this, but then again, most people will find that with all “strapless” strap-ons! The shaft is pretty thick, so it’s not suitable for beginners but it will satisfy more experienced users with a taste for size! This is a more expensive strapless strap-on but Vixen Creations make some of the best dildos out there and they come with a lifetime warranty! Not to mention, each dildo is handmade!

7 Remote control

Strap-On-Me Vibrating 3 Motors Strap-On

 Strap-on-me 3 motors

  • want a vibrating strapless strap-on
  • want a remote control strapless strap-on
  • prefer something posable

Strap-on-me 3 motors

  • are new to strapless strap-ons
  • don't enjoy intense vibrations
  • prefer something more simple

This revolutionary vibrating strapless strap-on from Strap-On-Me really takes customizability to the next level! With a whopping three vibrating motors that can be controlled independently, you and your partner can get exactly what you need to reach some awesome orgasms. The three vibrating motors are positioned to maximize orgasm power for both partners by targeting the wearer’s g-spot and clitoris and the receiver’s p- or g-spot. The innovation doesn’t end there, the flexible strap-on features position memory that holds your device in your desired position, so there’s no more readjusting in the middle of a session. The thoughtfully crafted ergonomic design even earned it a Red Dot award in 2019. As well as some cutting-edge technology, this beautifully designed silicone strapless strap-on is fully waterproof

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  • 3 indpenedent vibrating motors
  • Position memory
  • Remote control
  • USB rechargeable
  • Remote control

  • Expensive
  • May still require a harness
  • Can be a learning curve
Strap-on-me 3 motors
Vibration speeds3
Vibration patterns3
Insertable lengthBulb: 2.75, Shaft: 6 inches
DiameterBulb: 1.5, Shaft: 1.4 inches
MaterialsSilicone
WaterproofYes
RechargeableYes
Battery Life45 minutes
Remote ControlsYes, for all 3 motors
Travel LockYes

Although this is one of the more expensive strap-ons on the market, you are getting an incredibly sexy piece of technology that can’t really be compared to the other options currently available. The three inbuilt motors are perfect if you and your partner prefer different types of vibration or one of you prefers no vibration at all. The remote with LED lights is intuitive to use and lets you switch up the sensations without having to fiddle around with a bullet or reach under the toy. You are also able to adjust the toy with the flexible but firm core that keeps its position, eliminating the need to keep adjusting the angle. As with all strap-ons, you may still need a harness with this strap-on to keep it in position and give you a steadier base to work with. While I wouldn’t recommend this as a first-time strapless strap-on due to the price, if you know you love strap-ons and customizable vibrations, this is worth the investment

8 Realistic

Lifelike Lover Luxe Strapless Strap-On

 Lifelike Lover Luxe

  • want a realistic strap-on dildo
  • like the textures the realistic shape provides
  • prefer a posable strapless strap-on
  • are a trans-man looking for a gender affirming strap-on

Lifelike Lover Luxe

  • prefer a non-phallic design
  • want vibrating strapless strap-on

If you are looking to get as close you can to the real deal, then look no further. The velvety smooth silicone and attention to detail in this Lifelike Lover Luxe realistic strapless strap-on create a fantastic realistic look and feel. The 6-inch long shaft curves upward gently and features raised veins and a sculpted head that add some tantalizing textural stimulation. Fully waterproof and posable, this strapless strap-on is comfortable, practical, and can be used for anal and vaginal penetration.

  • Fully posable
  • Realistic details
  • Waterproof
  • Silicone

  • Flexible core can lose shape when in use
  • Limited choice of skin tones
Lifelike Lover Luxe
Insertable lengthBulb: 3, Shaft: 6 inches
DiameterBulb: 1.35, Shaft: 1.43 inches
MaterialsSilicone
WaterproofYes

This strap-on definitely feels luxurious, the silicone is super smooth and feels fantastic, especially when used with plenty of lubrication. You also get an added layer of sensation from the raised veins and pronounced head which feel incredibly realistic and enhance the sensations from the shaft as it moves. The flexible core makes it easier to find the right angle for you and your partner, but it can lose its position a bit as you move around. The realism also makes this a great gender affirming product for trans-men, although I wish it came in more skin-tone options. For the quality and level of detail, this is a reasonably priced strap-on if you love lifelike dildos.

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Blush Temptasia Luna

 Blush Temptasia Luna

  • want added vibrations
  • prefer a smaller bulb
  • are on a budget

Blush Temptasia Luna

  • are new to penetrative play
  • need a thicker bulb
  • might be too firm for some

  • Great price
  • Powerful, removable bullet vibrator
  • Quality silicone
  • Waterproof

  • Bulb is too small for some
  • Ridges for clit stimulation miss the mark
Blush Temptasia Luna
Vibration modes10
Insertable lengthBulb: 2.75, Shaft: 7.5 inches
DiameterBulb: 2.75, Shaft: 7.5 inches
WaterproofYes
MaterialsSilicone
RechargeableYes

The Temptasia Luna from Blush Novelties will suit some bodies more than others. The small bulb is going to be great for anyone who isn’t used to vaginal penetration or that needs a small bulb for medical reasons. That also means that it will be too small to stay in for others. The bullet vibe is very powerful and I like that it’s both waterproof and rechargeable. You are essentially getting two toys for a great price! The Luna is a very firm dildo, so that something to bear in mind before you decide if this is the strapless strap-on for you!

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Fun Factory ShareVibe

 Fun Factory ShareVibe

  • experience with dildos over 1 in diameter
  • want a vibrating strapless strap-on
  • don't mind a bit of a learning curve

Fun Factory ShareVibe

  • want a first-time pegging dildo
  • want a posable strapless strap-on

Sharing is caring with the ShareVibe from Fun Factory. This strapless strap-on delivers dual internal stimulation so both partner’s can get a slice of the action! As well as the thick silicone shaft, the ShareVibe has a powerful, removable bullet vibrator so you can enjoy the vibes together! Plus, the pleasure bump provides some grinding clitoral stimulation!

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  • Thick, satisfying shaft
  • Firm but flexible
  • Powerful vibrations
  • Bullet vibrator can be removed

  • Can slip out without a harness
  • Attracts lint and dust
  • Too big for first-time anal use
  • No storage bag
Fun Factory ShareVibe
Vibration speeds2
Vibration patterns3
Insertable lengthBulb: 3.5, Shaft: 5.25 inches
DiameterBulb: 1.6, Shaft: 1.4 inches
WaterproofYes
MaterialsSilicone
FlexibilityFlexible
RechargeableYes
Battery Life45-90 minutes
Charging Time120 minutes
Storage Bag IncludedNo
Travel LockNo
Colors AvailableDark Violet, Pink, Vanilla

The ShareVibe is all round great strapless strap-on thats great for pegging or vulva-vulva penetrative sex. It might be a little girthy for first-time anal use, so I would recommend doing some warm-up like our testers did! The removable bullet vibrator is surprisingly powerful, and I love that you can use it in the ShareVibe or as a standalone bullet vibrator. The silicone is great quality and the flexibility makes it comfortable to use in a range of positions. However, as with all strapless strap-ons, most people could benefit from pairing it with a strap-on harness for extra support as the bulb can slip out.

Strapless strap-ons for pegging your partner

Pegging has garnered quite a lot of attention recently, and it has even been referred to in some mainstream media, including Deadpool and Broad City. And rightly so! This sexual practice, which involves a cis heterosexual woman penetrating a cis heterosexual man with a dildo or strap-on, can bring about some primo p-spot orgasms and open up a whole new level of intimacy with your partner. So if you’re ready for some role reversal revelry then check out these p-spot-pleasing strapless strap-on that also stimulates the wearer for pleasure all around! Ready to start your pegging adventure? Check out our guide on how to prepare for pegging.

Fantasy For Her Her Strapless Strap-On

Fantasy For Her Her Strapless Strap-On - Strapless strap-ons for pegging your partner
The smaller shaft size of this strapless strap on make it ideal choice for pegging, especially if you are new to anal penetration. Both partners get to enjoy the adjustable vibrations from the motors at either end of the device that serve up pulsating pleasure for two! The added vibrations can also relax your muscles, making for a more comfortable and enjoyable insertion.

Pros:

  • 2 vibrating motors with 9 vibrating patterns
  • Stimulation for both partners’
  • Remote control
  • Waterproof

Cons:

  • Expensive
  • May need a harness or harness underwear for added stability

A strapless strap-on for lesbians and vulva-vulva sex

While all strapless strap-ons can be used by lesbian partners, some are designed specifically to maximize clitoral and vaginal pleasure. Wet For Her, for example, is a whole brand designed specifically for lesbians, with some beautifully unique strapless strap-ons, like the Union, which got a spot on our top table. Here’s another great option designed to increase intimacy and pleasure for both partners.

Eve's Dual Motor Strapless Strap-on

Eve's Dual Motor Strapless Strap-on - A strapless strap-on for lesbians and vulva-vulva sex
This non-realistic vibrating strapless strap-on features dual motors so that everyone gets a slice of the action! The smooth silicone curves are enhanced by the added texture on the shaft and clitoral stimulation, and the toy is completely waterproof.

Pros:

  • Dual motors to stimulate both partners
  • 9 vibrating functions
  • Textured for added stimulation
  • Waterproof

Cons:

  • Expensive
  • May be too rigid for some
  • Expensive

Strap-On-Me Licking Remote Control Vibrating Strapless Strap-On

Strap-On-Me Licking Remote Control Vibrating Strapless Strap-On - A strapless strap-on for lesbians and vulva-vulva sex
Now you can enjoy the toe-curling pleasure of clitoral suction stimulation while you penetrate your partner! The Strap-On Me Licking Strapless Strap-On combines a flickering clitoral stimulator with a whopping three vibrating motors for intense pleasure for both partners! You also get a remote control, making it easy to switch up the settings while in use. Simply adjust the flexible neck to suit your body, and you are ready for a strap-on experience unlike no other! If you look for more colourful strap-ons than the two suggested here.

How do strapless strap-ons work?

If all this talk of strapless strap-ons, bulbs, and shafts has left you a little confused, you aren’t alone! Strapless strap-ons can be a bit difficult to get your head around, so I’m going to break it down for you here. Essentially, the bulb is inserted into the vagina of the wearer and held in place by squeezing the pelvic floor muscles. This can be both tricky and tiring, so using a harness can ease the strain and help stabilize your strapless strap-on. Once in place, they can then use the other end to penetrate their partner vaginally or anally or even explore strap-on blow jobs!

The bulb

The bulb  - How do strapless strap-ons work?
Also known as a pony or saddle, the bulb is worn inside the wearer’s vagina. The curve and bulbed shape helps to keep it in place and can provide some internal/g-spot stimulation. Some bulbs also vibrate. Different shaped bulbs will work better for different bodies.

The shaft

The shaft - How do strapless strap-ons work?
This is the part that will penetrate the receiving partner. Like all dildos, the shaft comes in a wide range of sizes and designs, including realistic and non-phallic. They can be textured for extra stimulation or have added vibrations.

Bullet vibrator and clitoral stimulator

Bullet vibrator and clitoral stimulator - How do strapless strap-ons work?
Some strapless strap-ons have removable bullet vibrators that slip into the base. There are also some with built in vibrations and even remote controls. Another common feature is a bump or textured pad for added clitoral stimulation, although it can be hard to get these in the right position.

Types of strapless strap-ons

Let’s take a closer look at the different types of strapless strap-on so you know exactly which one will be your ride or die!

Posable/adjustable strapless strap-ons

Posable/adjustable strapless strap-ons - Types of strapless strap-ons
Posable strapless strap-ons allow you to adjust the angle of the pony, the shaft, or both. This makes it easier to find the right angle to hold the strapless strap-on in place and adjust the angle of penetration in different sex positions.

Vibrating strapless strap-ons

Vibrating strapless strap-ons - Types of strapless strap-ons
Vibrating strap-ons can either have a removable bullet that’s inserted into the base of the toy or built-in vibrating motors. The vibrations can be focused in the shaft, the bulb, or both.

Realistic strapless strap-ons

Realistic strapless strap-ons - Types of strapless strap-ons
Realistic strap-ons have a realistic design and lifelike textural details to create the look and feel of a real penis. They are also great for trans-males who want their strap-on to look and feel as real as possible and can help ease gender dysphoria.

Rabbit-style strapless strap-ons

Rabbit-style strapless strap-ons - Types of strapless strap-ons
Rabbit style strap-ons have a set of rabbit ears that deliver vibrations to the wearer’s clitoris. This can be a great addition as the stimulation you get from the bulb isn’t always enough to help you reach orgasm.

Strapless Strap-on vs Double Dildo: What's the Difference?

Sure both of these fantastically phallic toys feature two ends and can be used for vaginal and anal penetration, but there are some key differences between the design and usage of strapless dildos and double dildos, and which one you buy depends on how you want to use it!

Strapless strap-ons or harness free strap-ons

Strapless strap-ons or harness free strap-ons - Strapless Strap-on vs Double Dildo: What's the Difference?
  • Smaller bulb for the wearer + regular shaft for the receiver
  • Suited to vaginal and anal penetration, including pegging
  • Tend to be more rigid and posable
  • Can be vibrating or non-vibrating

Double-ended dildos or double dongs

Double-ended dildos or double dongs - Strapless Strap-on vs Double Dildo: What's the Difference?
  • Can be used for solo pleasure
  • Good for solo double penetration
  • Can be used for couple play but works better for vaginal penetration
  • Can be long and flexible or rigid and U-shaped
  • Most are non-vibrating

Do strapless strap-ons actually stay in?

Although strapless strap-ons are designed to be worn without a harness, most people will struggle to make this work for them. And when you think about the practicalities, this makes sense — your vaginal and anal muscles are pretty strong and the wearer tends to have the smaller part so it’s more likely to fall out.

The problem with strapless strap-ons

The problem with strapless strap-ons - Do strapless strap-ons actually stay in?
The magic of the vagina means that the more it gets turned on the wetter and therefore, the more slippery it gets. Add that to the effect of gravity and you’ve got a lot of things working against you, even if you do kegel CrossFit seven days a week! All these issues are amplified when you are using your strapless dildo for anal penetration as the muscles in the vagina are no match for those super-strength sphincter muscles.

The solution

The solution - Do strapless strap-ons actually stay in?
This means that most people will still need to use a strap-on harness with an open o-ring to help keep their strapless strap-on in place and be able to enjoy a good range of movement. The Spareparts Joque is a really great harness to use with your strapless strap-on! It’s comfortable and gives you a lot more control!

What are the benefits of a strapless strap on?

There are a few factors that have helped make strapless strap-ons a sex toy staple and earned them a place in a lot of people’s sex toy collections. It also seems their popularity is only growing with pegging being in the spotlight. So let’s break down a few reasons why we love strapless strap-ons. You can also check Edwina Caito’s great article on BedBible.com that goes into more detail.

Enhanced intimacy

Although most strapless strap-ons will probably require some kind of harness or strap-on-friendly underwear, you still get a more intimate experience with a strapless dildo compared to a harness. Both the wearer and the receiver can feel the sensations produced by the toy moving inside the other person creating a more connected feeling.

Dual stimulation

With a strapless strap-on, both partners receive stimulation whether from the shaft or the bulb or even added vibrations.

More realistic

Wearing a strap-on gives a more realistic look and feel of having a penis or penis-like appendage to the wearer. This is great for role reversal or people who have gender dysphoria about feeling like they should have a penis.

Tips for using your strapless strap-on

We’ve already talked about some of the challenges of using a strapless strap-on so let’s look at what you can do to help keep your strapless strap-on in place and maximize pleasure for both partners!

Try it out solo first

Try it out solo first - Tips for using your strapless strap-on
If you are the wearer, practice wearing your strapless strap-on alone to get used to using your pelvic floor muscles to hold it in place as you move.

Use lube wisely

Use lube wisely - Tips for using your strapless strap-on
Usually I preach the more lube the better but in this case, it can be better to only use a small amount of lube, if necessary, on the wearer’s bulb. You don’t want to make it any easier for the bulb to slip out!

Choose your positions wisely

Choose your positions wisely  - Tips for using your strapless strap-on
Riding and grinding positions are easier for using a strapless strap-on than thrusting positions as they help hold the dildo in place. Check out our sections on the best strapless strap-on sex positions!

Best strapless strap-on sex positions

While it is possible to thrust with strapless strap-ons, the more vigorous the movement, the more likely it is for the bulb to slip out of the wearer’s vagina. Here are some sex positions that will help you keep better control of your strapless strap-on! The positions are great for both anal and vaginal sex.

Cowgirl

Cowgirl - Best strapless strap-on sex positions
Having the receiving partner ride the dildo requires less movement from the wearer and helps the strapless strap-on stay in place.

Spooning

Spooning  - Best strapless strap-on sex positions
This cuddly, cosy, intimate position is also great for strapless strap-ons as you are rocking together rather than thrusting.

Missionary

Missionary  - Best strapless strap-on sex positions
Another classic sex position that works really well with a strapless strap-on!

A guide to strapless strap-on materials

Size and style are important when it comes to choosing a strapless strap-on but the material will also impact how the toy performs as well as it’s safety! Here are some materials to look out for and which ones to avoid!

Safe materials

Safe materials - A guide to strapless strap-on materials
  • Silicone — this is the most popular material because it feels soft and body safe! It can be firm or soft, depending on the strapless strap-on.
  • ABS plastic, is also body safe, but many people find the rigidity uncomfortable in a strapless strap-on.

Materials to avoid

Materials to avoid - A guide to strapless strap-on materials
As your strapless strap-on is being shared and coming into contact with very sensitive, absorbent areas you should avoid materials that are porous and/or contain harmful substances such as:
  • TPE/TPR
  • Jelly
  • Rubber
  • PVC
  • Soft plastics
  • Silicone blends

How to Use a Strapless Strap On

Strapless strap-ons are pretty versatile little sex toy! The only restriction is that the wearer needs to have a vulva, aside from that, they can be used in all sorts of ways. Here are some ideas:

How to clean a strapless strap-on

As always, keeping strapless strap-on clean is a top priority for you and your partner. Always check the manufacturer’s instructions and be careful to keep any electrical components dry unless the toy is waterproof. A lot of strapless strap-on dildos are made of silicone which can be washed with soap and water. Here’s our handy guide on how to wash different sex toy materials

FAQ

A strapless strap-on sits inside the wearer's vagina and is designed to be held in place by the muscles inside the vagina while the shaft is used to penetrate the receiving partner.

Strapless strap-on dildos with a bulb or pony are designed to be worn by someone with a vagina.

If you haven't worn a strapless strap-on before, it is a good idea to spend some time getting used to it before using it with a partner. It involves inserting the wearer's end into your vagina using your pelvic floor muscles to hold the dildo in place, and this can be quite hard work. You will most likely feel a full feeling from the size of the bulb and the weight of the toy and your pelvic floor muscles will tense around the toy to help it stay in place. Depending on the dildo, you may also get some g-spot stimulation or vibrations.

If you are having trouble getting your strapless strap-on to stay in place, you can use a harness or harness underwear to help it stay in and keep it steady. You can also try positions where the wearer is lying on their back with the partner riding them.

The bulbed end of a strapless strap on is designed to be worn inside of a vagina, however the receiver can take the shaft in their mouth, anus, or vagina.

Its all about what you like! There are pros and cons of each method and so we recommend thinking about which you would prefer. A harness keeps the dildo steady and is great for beginners who are still finding their feet, however they can sometimes be tricky to put on if they're tangled up, especially in the heat of the moment! A strapless strap on ensures that both partners receive pleasure during sex, however there is definitely a learning curve when wearing one for the first time as it will take some strong vaginal muscles to keep it in place.

No two people are the same, so why should sex toy preference be any different? When it comes to 'the best', one person might love it, while one person doesn't. We recommend reading through our round up above, where our skilled testers can help you decide which strapless strap on is best for you.

What is a Strapless Strap On?

A strapless strap-on is a dildo with two ends, a bulb or pony worn inside the wearer, and a shaft that is used to penetrate the receiver. They can be used vaginally or anally, create a more intimate strap on experience, and provide stimulation to both partners at the same time. There are lots of pros to owning a strapless strap on, as they are an extremely fun and pleasurable way to connect sexually with a partner. With this particular toy, there is a learning curve that should be noted; it can take some getting used to if you are the wearer of the strapless strap on as it requires some strong vaginal muscles to hold it in place.

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