11 Best Long Distance Sex Toys for Bliss Without Borders

   Isabelle Uren
I know just how hard long-distance can be, so I’ve put together the ultimate list of all the very best long-distance sex toys! I’ve found all sorts of app-enabled toys for men (penis owners) and women (vulva owners). I’ve also tested the best interactive sex toys that will allow the toys to respond to each other’s movements!
1 Test Winner

Lovense Lush 3 App Controlled Egg Vibrator

 Lovense Lush 3

  • Want a sex toy with long distance control
  • Are looking for a quiet vibrator
  • Enjoy using your toys in public
  • Are looking for an interactive sex toy
  • Want a toy with customisable vibration patterns

Lovense Lush 3

  • Want a budget friendly toy
  • Crave intense clitoral stimulation

The Lovense Lush 3 is our winner on this list of long distance sex toys, with its powerful vibrations and whisper quiet motor it’s perfect for long distance fun with a partner or for taking out to spice up date night with some discreet public play. You can completely customise the patterns of vibration by using the app, and you can synchronise it to music and it will stimulate your g-spot and clitoris along to the beat with its deep rumbly vibrations. It’s also completely waterproof so perfect for aquatic adventures and up to 5 hours of battery life, so you can play wherever and for as long as you desire.


  • App controlled
  • Vibrations can be synced to sounds
  • Discreet and quiet for public play
  • Powerful vibrations
  • Comfortable to wear

  • Expensive
  • Not a lot of clitoral stimulation from the tail
Lovense Lush 3
Vibration speeds3 Preset
Vibration patterns4 Preset
Length8 inches
Insertable length3.5 inches
Diameter1.43 inches
Battery Life300 minutes

Overall the Lovense Lush 3 is one of the best vibrators for long distance relationships because of its complete customisability in terms of vibrations, and the luxury quality of the toy itself. This wonderful wearable vibrator isn’t limited to long distance relationships, it’s also perfect to take out on date night or for some hands-free alone time. It’s not a budget-friendly toy but it’s a worthy investment and will prove its worth to you every time you use it.

2 Runner Up

Lovense Exomoon Long Distance Bullit Vibrator

 Lovense Exomoon

  • want an app-enabled vibrator
  • prefer clitoral over internal stimulation
  • love powerful, rumbly vibrations
  • want a discreet vibrator
  • want a sex toy for on the go

Lovense Exomoon

  • prefer internal vibrations
  • need the power of a wand
  • prefer ABS plastic to silicone stimulation tip

The Lovense Exomoon is a powerful and versatile bullet vibrator with a discreet, ‘lipstick’ style design. It offers a range of vibration intensities and patterns, which are easily controllable via its app. The device is compact, waterproof, and includes a protective case for hygiene and discretion. Additionally, it’s compatible with the Bloom erotic audio site for a synced audio-erotic experience.


  • Powerful, rumbly vibrations
  • Discreet design
  • Great app connectivity
  • Easy to navigate app
  • Quiet vibrations
  • Comes with a case and bag

  • Lipstick design won't suit all tastes
  • No travel lock
  • Single button design
  • Rattly noise
  • Charging port cover collects water and gets in the way of charging
Lovense Exomoon
Vibration speedsCustom options in app + 3 preprogrammed
Vibration patternsUnlimited in app + 4 preprogrammed
Length3.46 inches
Vibration modes0.87
DiameterStimulation tip: 0.7 inches
MaterialsABS plastic, Silicone
Battery Life180 minutes
Charging Time125 minutes
Remote ControlsApp control
Storage Bag IncludedYes

I’ve had really good experiences with the Lovense Exomoon. For one, I love its powerful, rumbly vibrations, which are the thing that standout the most in such a compact device. I’ts really versatile and fun to use. But, I’m not saying it’s perfect – the noise level can be a drawback, and I had some trouble syncing it with Bloom’s audio stories. Despite these hiccups, the discreet design and good battery life make it a great choice for on-the-go pleasure. If you’re into high-power, versatile bullet vibrators and you don’t mind a bit of noise, the Exomoon could be a fantastic addition to your collection.

3 Budget-Friendly

Satisfyer Curvy 2+ Long Distance Clit Sucker

 Satisfyer Curvy 2+

  • want to try long-distance sex toy for the first time
  • enjoy suction and vibration
  • prefer clitoral stimulation
  • want a toy for solo and partner play

Satisfyer Curvy 2+

  • crave very intense vibrations
  • need a large stimulation nozzle

The Satisfyer Curvy 2+ brings twice the pleasure with both clitoral suction stimulation and vibrations! The smooth curves are comfortable to hold and the soft silicone mouth feels amazing around your clitoris. Enjoy the sensual waves of pleasure from the air pulse technology or add in the vibrations for a heady cocktail of pleasure. Once connected to the Satisfyer app, you can connect long distance to a partner, explore custom stimulation patterns, set your stimulation to music or ambient sounds, and even listen to erotica that comes with corresponding stimulation patterns!


  • Wide silicone rim spreads stimulation
  • Beautifully smooth, curvy design
  • Great in-app features and customisation
  • Waterproof
  • Whisper mode for when you need to be quiet

  • Suction nozzle might not fit all clitorises
  • Can be uncomfortable to hold/press buttons in longer sessions
  • Long charging time
  • No storage bag
Satisfyer Curvy 2+
Vibration modes11
Clitoral suction11 modes
Length5.3 inches
Width1.8 inches
MaterialsSilicone, ABS plastic
Battery Life60-120 minutes
Charging Time240 minutes minutes
Travel LockNo
Storage Bag IncludedNo

Considering most long-distance sex toys cost upwards of $100, the Satisfyer Curvy 3+ is a really great affordable option for some long-distance loving! I really love that you get both vibrations and suction in one toy and the thick silicone mouth really helps the stimulation resonate and spread. The vibrations are pleasing and compliment the suction well but they aren’t the most powerful so keep that in mind if you need very powerful vibrations. The app is also surprisingly reliable for a cheap long distance sex toy!

4 Best for Beginners

We-Vibe Melt Clitoral Stimulator

 We-Vibe Melt

  • Prefer clitoral stimulation
  • Want an app controllable vibrator
  • Love using your sex toys in the shower
  • Want to try edging

We-Vibe Melt

  • Want a cheap long distance toy
  • Prefer internal stimulation
  • Are looking for a wearable vibrator

The We-Vibe Melt is our pick as the most beginner friendly long distance sex toys, as it’s powerful and has a ton of functions but it’s super easy to use. This clitoral vibrator is perfect if you want to try edging too, which is where you continually bring yourself closer to the edge but then stop. You keep doing this until you finally allow yourself to have an explosive and intense orgasm. The We-Vibe Melt uses Pleasure Air technology, which means it engulfs the clitoris with waves that pulsate and have a gentle suction effect for glorious sensations without the toy ever even touching you. It’s another of the best vibrators for long distance relationships, but it can also be used during sex to give any vagina owner a blissfully blended orgasm.


  • Can be used during sex
  • Long distance app control
  • 12 different intensities
  • Waterproof

  • Expensive
  • Not silent
  • No travel lock
We-Vibe Melt
Clitoral suction12 Preset modes
Length6 inches
Diameter1.35 inches
Battery Life120 minutes
Charging Time90 minutes
Remote ControlsApp
Storage Bag IncludedYes
Travel LockNo

If a long distance controlled clit sucker is what you are seeking, then the We-Vibe Melt is going to blow your mind. It’s the perfect addition to any relationship whether it’s long distance or not, but it’s also great for solo use too so it’s extremely versatile. Although it’s not a budget friendly toy but it has a beautifully luxurious quality, and any sex toy with app controllability is always going to be a bit of an investment.

5 Hands-Free

Lovense Dolce LDR Vibrator

 Lovense Dolce

  • enjoy both internal and external stimulation.
  • value the ability to customize your pleasure experience.
  • are in a long-distance relationship and seek intimate connection.
  • .appreciate high-quality, body-safe materials.
  • don’t mind investing a bit more for a versatile sex toy.

Lovense Dolce

  • prefer simple, easy-to-use toys without a learning curve.
  • are looking for a budget-friendly option.
  • need a toy with a reliable Bluetooth connection.
  • dislike heavier or larger vibrators.
  • prefer a wide range of color options.

The Lovense Dolce is a dual vibrator designed for both internal and clitoral stimulation. It boasts an adjustable design for personalized pleasure, made of silky smooth silicone with a weighty feel. Featuring two motors, it allows for different vibration levels and patterns, which can be controlled either through buttons on the device or via a companion app. A standout feature is its capability for long-distance interaction, enabling partners to control the device remotely.


  • Adjustable Design
  • Sturdy head and firm shaft
  • Quality Material
  • Customization of vibe-patterns
  • Waterproof

  • A bit expensive
  • Requires time to understand
  • Connection can be unstable
Lovense Dolce
Vibration modesUnlimited in app
Vibration patterns7
Insertable length3 inches
Charging Time60 minutes
Battery Life120 minutes
Remote ControlsApp-controlled
Storage Bag IncludedYes
AllergiesLatex-free and phthalate-free
Colors AvailableFuchsia

My time with the Lovense Dolce was a journey of discovery. Initially I was skeptical about dual vibrators in general. But I have to admit, the Dolce changed my mind. Its adjustability was a key feature for me, letting me find just the right spots. The app control added a fun, innovative element, especially for long-distance play with it. I did have some challenges. Especially mastering the controls and dealing with some Bluetooth hiccups. But, overall the Dolce’s quality and versatility is impressive. It’s a great choice if you’re into high-tech toys and don’t mind the price point it comes at. Perfect for anyone looking for a blend of power, personalization, and long-distance connectivity.

6 Best Wand

Lovense Domi 2 Long Distance Wand Vibrator

 Lovense Domi 2

  • Prefer external stimulation
  • Love powerful vibrations
  • Want a midi-sized wand
  • Prefer a cordless wand

Lovense Domi 2

  • Prefer more gentle stimulation
  • Need a completely submersible wand
  • Want a full-sized wand
  • Want a sex toy for public play

The Lovense Domi packs all the power of a full-sized magic wand vibrator into a more compact model. This sleek, black wand is covered in soft silicone and the flexible neck makes it easy to find the perfect angle, wherever you choose to use it! The dual rotating head technology provides intensely powerful, high-quality vibrations that you can control using the buttons on the wand or via the app. Once connected to the app, you can relinquish control to a partner or explore the fun in-app features and custom control options!


  • Powerful vibrations
  • Great to use with a partner, solo, or long-distance
  • Broad, rumbly stimulation
  • Versatile uses
  • Long battery life

  • Might be too intense for some
  • Not submersible, only splashproof
  • Vibrations in the handle can numb your hand
Lovense Domi 2
Vibration speeds3 Preset
Vibration patterns4 Preset
Length9.21 inches
Diameter1.74 inches
MaterialsMedical Grade Silicone and ABS Plastic
Battery Life300-360 minutes
Charging Time150 minutes
FlexibilityFlexible neck
Weight0.6 lbs
Storage Bag IncludedYes

Don’t let the Domi’s compact size fool you, this is a one powerful wand! The more compact design also makes it great to using during partnered sex or for those who struggle with a full-sized wand. The firm but flexible neck provides intense sensation wherever you use it! I love how versatile this wand is — you can use it no matter what genitals you have and it’s great for solo or partner play, and long distance, of course! The only downside of it being a wand is that you will still have to hold it in place and it’s not suitable for discreet public play!  

7 Best Panty Vibrator

Lovense Ferri Long Distance Panty Vibrator

 Lovense Ferri

  • Prefer clitoral stimulation
  • Want a vibrator for discreet public play
  • Enjoy hands-free stimulation
  • Want a vibrator to use in a harness

Lovense Ferri

  • Want to use it hands-free and need a lot of pressure

The Lovense Ferri is a feisty little panty vibrator that’s small in size but big in power! Slip the vibrator into your underwear, secure it in place with the magnet and you are ready to enjoy intense pleasure wherever you go! Connect to the Lovense app to control the vibrations when you are out and about or even give a partner control from anywhere in the world! The app also gives you access to create custom patterns which you can save and share. This long-distance panty vibrator is perfect for public play, power play, and solo fun!

  • Powerful, but quiet vibrations
  • A lot of customisation in the app
  • Stays in place well with moderate activity
  • Can be worn in panties or a strap-on harness
  • Hands-free clitoral stimulation

  • Might still need to use your hands for added pressure
  • Magnet can slide around with very vigorous movement
Lovense Ferri
Vibration speedsPreprogrammed: 3
Vibration patternsPreprogrammed: 10
Length3 inches
Width0.83 inches
Battery Life180 minutes
Charging Time60 minutes
Remote ControlsApp
Storage Bag IncludedYes

The Lovense Ferri is one of the best long distance sex toys for anyone who prefers clitoral stimulation. It’s also one of the best for discreet public play, given how powerful but quiet the vibrations are! Of course, they aren’t totally silent but as long as you are somewhere with some level of background noise like a busy bar or restaurant, you should be fine! This remote control vibrator stays put pretty well with moderate movement but might move around during more vigorous movement, like if you are using it in a harness during sex. The only issue with the Ferri, and most panty vibrators for that matter, is that you might not get enough pressure against your clit when using it hands-free. It’s best to wear very tight fitting, stretchy underwear to hold the toy as close as possible to your body.

8 Best Masturbator

Kiiroo Keon Interactive Male Masturbator

 Kiiroo Keon

  • Want a masturbator you can connect to online videos
  • Are looking for male long distance toys
  • Want to invest in a luxury masturbator
  • Prefer strokers to vibrators

Kiiroo Keon

  • Don't care about connecting to videos or app control
  • Want a cheap masturbator
  • Want a masturbator that vibrates
  • Don't like realistic masturbators
  • Need a discreet masturbator

Explore the ultimate sex tech and experience the mind-blowing sensations of 230 strokes per minute! The Kiiroo Keon is a high end male masturbator that you can use for a full immersive experience by connecting it to movies and online videos, or you can use it as a long distance sex toy with the app control function. It’s also lighter than it looks, so not too strenuous on the wrists as you hold it in position while the stroker moves up and down the length of your penis. The interior is designed to feel beautifully realistic, with a slight sucking sensation as it moves and a textured interior that will give you delicious massages as it moves. You can completely tailor the length of the strokes and the speed up to find your perfect ride.

  • Can be synced to movies and videos
  • Long distance control
  • Textured interior sleeve
  • Easy to use

  • Expensive
  • Lifelike look not to every taste
  • Gets pretty loud
Kiiroo Keon
Length8.67 inches
Width5.12 inches
Weight2.43 lbs
MaterialsCase: ABS & PC, Sleeve: TPE
Battery Life30 - 240 minutes
Charging Time240 minutes

The Kiiroo Keon is one of the more expensive masturbators out there but the technology it utilises and the quality of the toy more than make up for it. Equally if you aren’t going to use the functions such as app control and syncing the toy to videos and movies, then you will probably be able to find a male masturbator that will fulfil your personal needs that isn’t as expensive as this one. It’s compatible with water-based lube, so definitely lube up first for the best possible experience with this toy.

9 Best Rabbit

We-Vibe Nova 2 App Controlled Rabbit Vibrator

 We-Vibe Nova 2

  • Enjoy internal and external stimulation
  • Want a flexible head for perfect g-spot targeting
  • Need an app controllable rabbit
  • Want to invest in a luxury vibrator
  • Had trouble finding the right position with other rabbits

We-Vibe Nova 2

  • Are not going to use the app function
  • Prefer larger girths
  • Want a wearable vibrator

Finally a flexible rabbit that adjusts to your body! The We-Vibe Nova 2 perfectly targets the g-spot with its curved shaft which has been designed to be gloriously flexible enough to allow you to reach that perfect angle. Of course this is all the while the external arm gets to work on your clitoris for that perfectly blended orgasm. It’s perfect for long distance relationships too! Connect the Nova to the  We-Connect app and let your lover control your pleasure from wherever they are.


  • Beginner friendly
  • Dual stimulation
  • Waterproof
  • Customisable vibration patterns

  • Girth too slim for some
  • Expensive
We-Vibe Nova 2
Vibration speeds10
Vibration patterns10
Length8.5 inches
Insertable length5 inches
Diameter1.3 inches
Charging Time90 minutes
Battery Life120 minutes
Travel LockYes
Storage Bag IncludedYes

The Nova 2 is an exceptional rabbit vibrator on its own with its flexibility and bulbous head to target your g-spot, and the external arm to vibrate against your clitoris for an explosive blended orgasm. Not only does the flexibility allow you to get the right position for both arms, but the clitoral stimulator flexes against your body, providing some really great clit pressure! That’s without even mentioning the app control function, where you can completely customise how the toy vibrates to suit your personal desires or to continuously try something new. This is also a great feature as a long distance relationship sex toy because it allows your partner to totally customise how they please you.

10 Interactive For Women

Lovense Nora Interactive LDR Vibrator

 Lovense Nora

  • Enjoy a girthy shaft
  • Prefer internal rotations
  • Enjoy dual stimulation
  • Prefer a flexible rabbit design

Lovense Nora

  • Need a very quiet vibrator
  • Prefer internal vibrations
  • Crave intense g-spot stimulation
  • Want a wearable long-distance sex toy

Discover the joys of a rotating shaft with the Lovense Nora. The thick, bulbous shaft rotates to massage your g-spot while the external arm pampers your clitoris with powerful vibrations! Plus, the external arm flexes, making it easier to find the right fit and enjoy internal and external pleasure at the same time! Not only is the Lovense Nora able to connect to the Lovense app for long distance play, but it can also interact long-distance with the Lovense Max, the Lovense Calor, or another Nora, so when your partner moves their toy, you feel it in yours!


  • Strong clitoral vibrations
  • Flexible external arm
  • Long-distance and interactive
  • Long battery life

  • Rotation is loud
  • Difficult to get a lot of stimulation from rotations
  • Heavy
Lovense Nora
Vibration speeds3 rotation speeds
Vibration modes7
Length10 inches
Insertable length4.7 inches
Diameter1.5 inches
MaterialsSilicone, ABS Plastic
Battery LifeUp to 240 minutes
Charging Time150 minutes
Travel LockYes
Remote ControlsApp
Storage Bag IncludedYes
FlexibilityExternal arm

The Nora is a great long-distance rabbit for anyone who loves dual stimulation but prefers manual, massaging g-spot stimulation to vibrations. You do, however have to hold the handle pretty firmly to get the full effect of the internal rotations. The flexible external arm is a really clever design as it creates a better fit for different bodies and the external vibrations are nice and powerful. The interactive feature is an impressive feat of sex tech and can really help long-distance sex feel much more seamless, connected, and intimate. If you want to know more about this feature I recommend this blog post on connecting the Lovense Max and Nora.

11 Interactive For Men

Lovense Max 2 Interactive LDR Masturbator

 Lovense Max 2

  • Want a vibrating masturbator
  • Enjoy suction stimulation
  • Want a toy to use with VR porn
  • Want an interactive masturbator
  • Enjoy high-tech sex toys

Lovense Max 2

  • Want a simple masturbator
  • Don't want to deal with the clean-up

Enjoy the intensely pleasurable combination of deep rumbling vibrations and satisfying suction with the Lovense Max 2. Plus, the soft inner sleeve features pleasurable nubs that add another layer of sweet sensation to the experience! You also get three different ways to enjoy the Max – use it as a stand-alone masturbator, connect it to Lovense App for added functionality and long-distance play, hook it up to a Lovense Nora, Calor, or another Max for interactive long-distance sex!

  • Long-distance and interactive capabilites
  • Powerful, rumbly vibrations
  • Adjustable suction strength
  • Soft sleeve with internal textures

  • Tricky to get sleeve back in the case after cleaning
  • Cleaning is a bit of a task
  • Controls are a bit of a learning curve
Lovense Max 2
Vibration speeds3
Vibration patterns4
Thrust Modes3 Contraction Levels
Length9.5 inches
Insertable length6.25 inches
Diameter3.4 inches
Diameter (internal)2 inches
Openings1 Neutral
MaterialsSleeve: TPE, Case: ABS Plastic
Battery Life300 minutes
Charging Time100 minutes
Travel LockNo
Storage Bag IncludedYes

This one is definitely for the sex-tech lovers out there! The Lovense Max can really do it all! The vibrations are strong and very deep and rumbly, and the compression creates a great feeling of suction. That being said, it can be overwhelming if you aren’t used to intense stimulation! It’s also a really great option if your partner has any of the other interactive toys from Lovense (the Nora or Calor) as your sex toys can then respond to each other’s movements from anywhere in the world! The cleaning can feel like a bit of a project when all the fun is over, but it’s a small price to pay for the pleasure it brings!

Best Long Distance Sex Toys for Couples (Interactive)

In my personal opinion there are only really one very good recommendation for interactive sex toy sets that work on long distances. The set is from the amazing brand, Lovense.

Lovense Nora and Max 2

Lovense Nora and Max 2 - Best Long Distance Sex Toys for Couples (Interactive)
I’ve tested out both the Lovense Nora and the Lovense Max 2, and they are the perfect synergy of a couples. They provide an amazing option to use the toys together, so that any movement and stimulation made by one partner is transferred to the other partners toy. A unique experience I can truly recommend anyone try out, being in a long distance relationship or not.

Lovense vs Kiiroo

Lovense and Kiiroo are the two leading manufacturers of interactive sex toys, which is why (as you might have noticed) they feature heavily on this list.


Lovense - Lovense vs Kiiroo
Lovense toys tend to be more focused on the app/ remote control aspect of their sex toys, making them a primary choice when it comes to long distance relationship sex toys. This means that you will generally find Lovense toys to be better in terms of customising the way that your partner pleasures you from their app, such as by creating personalised vibration patterns.


Kiiroo - Lovense vs Kiiroo
Kiiroo toys are also great wifi sex toys which makes them another solid choice for long distance loving, but their focus tends to be on the connectivity of their toys to things like online videos. So Kiiroo toys are on the whole better if you are looking for a toy that is going to give you an immersive experience when you are using it flying solo.

What is teledildonics and how does it work?

Teledildonic toys are in their essence impressive technologically advanced sex toys that not only connect to the internet, but are also capable of connecting to videos, synchronising to music, and giving you complete control over their functions such as vibration patterns. Long-distance sex toys connect via the internet. Usually, you will connect your device to the compatible app and your partner can also sign into their account and you can invite them to take control of the toy remotely. Some toys can also connect to each other via the internet, so that when toy is moved in a certain way, it activates the other partner’s toy. So for example, when one partner thrusts their masturbator faster, the vibration level in their partner’s toy increases. Teledildonic toys are constantly evolving so it’s exciting to see where they will be in the future!

How can long-distance sex toys benefit your sex life?

Sex tech can sound incredibly impressive and exciting but the important thing is that it enhances your sex life! Here are some of the benefits of having a long-distance sex toy.

Greater intimacy in long-distance relationships

Greater intimacy in long-distance relationships - How can long-distance sex toys benefit your sex life?
If you’ve ever spent any time away from your partner, you know how frustrating it can be when you just want to rip each other’s clothes off and get down to it. Sure sexting and masturbating is a fine option but it definitely lacks excitement and intimacy. Long-distance sex toys allow you and your partner to stimulate each other for more connected long-distance sex. You also get to experience more intense, exciting stimulation than using your own hands!

Safer sex when dating

Safer sex when dating - How can long-distance sex toys benefit your sex life?
You don’t have to be in a relationship to use long-distance sex toys! They can also be a great way to enjoy safe sex when dating online.

Sync with VR porn and audio erotica

Sync with VR porn and audio erotica  - How can long-distance sex toys benefit your sex life?
Many long-distance sex toys can sync to your favorite adult entertainment so you get a fully immersive masturbation experience! If this interests you, make sure to check your chosen toy has this feature as not all long-distance toys do.

Greater customisation

Greater customisation  - How can long-distance sex toys benefit your sex life?
The majority of long-distance sex toys offer a lot of in-app customisations, from greater control over power levels to endless pattern options.

Fun in-app features

Fun in-app features - How can long-distance sex toys benefit your sex life?
A lot also have other in-app features such as setting your vibrations to music, sounds, or even using your sex toy as an alarm clock. Again the available features vary by brand and product.

Enjoy public play

Enjoy public play - How can long-distance sex toys benefit your sex life?
Being able to control your sex toy via an app also means you can discreetly control it while you are out and about! This only applies to wearable sex toys.

Power play

Power play - How can long-distance sex toys benefit your sex life?
Long-distance sex toys are a great tool for power play. Whether your partner is in the room with your or the other side of the world, they can be in total control of your sex toy and whether or not you get to orgasm!

Which Types of Toys Can Be Used Long-Distance?

You’d be surprised: there are a lot of options when it comes to long-distance loving! Here’s a quick overview of the various types of toys you can use on a far-away partner.
  • Egg Vibrators – These toys are designed to sit comfortably inside of the vagina, with the vibrating egg directly targeting the G-spot. Many models can also be used for clitoral stimulation as well, although you should never use them in your anus due to the lack of a flared base.
  • Clit Suckers – If you love it when your partner “does that thing” with their mouth but—unfortunately—they’re halfway across town, why not use the next best thing: a clit sucker! As the name suggests, these sex toys simulate oral stimulation by “sucking” on your clitoris.
  • Rabbit Vibrators – These toys have two parts: the main dildo and the “ears”. While the dildo hits your g-spot, the ears stimulate your clitoris for an amazing combination of internal and external pleasure!
  • Male Masturbators – Available in many different designs, you can find handjob imitators, blowjob machines, frenulum vibrators, and even hands-free masturbators! Designs vary widely so we recommend checking your options before settling on a specific model.
  • Vibrating Butt Plugs – This type of remote control vibrator is designed to sit comfortably inside of your butt, providing a satisfying “fullness”. Depending on the size of the toy (and your specific anatomy), you might also be able to stimulate your prostate using one of the bad boys! Some models may also be suitable for outside-of-the-bedroom wear.
  • Panty Vibrators – Varying in size, design, and functionality, vibrating panties are designed to sit inside or outside of your panties, providing clitoral stimulation on demand!
  • Prostate Massagers – Designed to specifically target the p-spot, prostate massagers generally won’t stay inside when you’re walking around (unless you find some way to secure them). However, they will stimulate your prostate more than a simple butt plug can!

How to use a long distance sex toy

There are so many different ways to use a long distance sex toy, and. not all of them require the long distance aspect! Here are just a few ways you can bring one of these amazing connected sex toys.

Long distance relationships

Long distance relationships

Of course this is the primary function of this list, so we couldn’t leave it off the how to use section! App control functionality allows your long distance lover to take charge of your toy giving them total control of your pleasure no matter where they are in the world. This makes these toys the best vibrators for long distance relationships, whether the distance is for the long or short term it will help to keep you satisfying each other while you are miles apart.

Discreet Public Play

Discreet Public Play

Bear in mind that not all long distance sex toys are suitable for discreet public play! Make sure that you test out if your toy is a silent vibrator at home first, before you to take it out for a spin. Wearable vibrators such as panty vibrators work the best for taking out on date night, to add an extra bit of naughtiness to your evening.

Hands-free solo play

Hands-free solo play

The remote control aspect of long distance sex toys means that many of them are great for hands-free masturbation. One of the best things about not using your hands to operate your toy is that it frees them up to stimulate other areas, while your vibrator gets to work on your primary pleasure giving zones.

During Sex

During Sex

Long distance sex toys like butt plugs and clitoral vibrators are also perfect for using during sex with a partner for extra stimulation. They can be used for trying out double penetration, or just for dual stimulation for a beautifully blended orgasm.

How to clean your long distance sex toy

Cleaning is a drag, we know, but it's one of the most important parts of play time because it stops bacteria from gathering on the surface of your toy. Anything that is porous, such as soft plastic, requires extra attention and a more intensive clean after every use because otherwise bacteria gets in the little pores of the toy and can cause nasty infections if allowed to build up. We've put together a handy little guide to help you properly clean your toys, but you should always check the manufacturers instructions too.


Any interactive sex toy that can be controlled remotely is a great option for a long distance relationship, because it allows your partner to control how the toy pleasures you from wherever they are in the world.

Always be sure that where you are purchasing your toy from is a trusted retailer. Any of the shops we have included in this list are perfect to buy your long distance sex toys from.

Anyone that has a compatible mobile phone, so that you can download the necessary app for the long distance function to work. Even if you don't have the ability to use the long distance function, the toy will still work for you to use for solo pleasure or to use during sex.

Typically long distance sex toys are bluetooth or wifi sex toys that can be controlled by an app on you or your partners mobile phone. Looking for this app controllability function is your best bet in terms of figuring out whether something is a long distance sex toy.

Some of the leading long-distance brands are Lovense, Kiiroo, OhMiBod and We-Vibe but there are lots of great options out there!

What is a Long Distance Sex Toy?

A long distance sex toy is any type of sex toy that can be controlled remotely using the internet. While many toys offer Bluetooth controls for local remote controls, long distance sex toys use an internet connection instead, allowing them to be controlled from across the world! This makes them ideal for couples who live apart but still want to have a sex life together.

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