8 Best Long Distance Sex Toys

   Isabelle Uren
As a sex toy expert, I’ve made it my mission to try out all of the popular sex toy apps, and I’ve found there are definitely some that outperform the others! I’ve used my own experience, together with our tester’s reviews to pick out the best long-distance sex toys out there that will leave you feeling satisfied and connected instead of sexually and technologically frustrated! I’ve included my top toys for long-distance sex, including some great ones for video sex, as well as some that are perfect for discreet public play.
1 Test Winner

Lovense Lush 3 App Controlled Egg Vibrator

 Lovense Lush 3

Lovense Lush 3

  • Bulbed for G-spot stimulation
  • Fixed tail for clitoral stimulation
  • App enabled with long-distance and interactive capabilities

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  • Discreet and quiet for public play
  • Powerful vibrations
  • Comfortable to wear
  • Great connectivity

  • Not a lot of clitoral stimulation
  • The tail doesn't stay in place
Lovense Lush 3
Vibration speeds3 Preset
Vibration patterns4 Preset
Length8 inches
Insertable length3.5 inches
Diameter1.43 inches
Battery Life300 minutes
MaterialsSilicone
WaterproofYes
App ControlsYes
Storage Bag IncludedYes
RechargeableYes
Colors AvailablePink
Travel LockNo

The original Lovense Lush kick-started the app-controlled sex toy revolution and it’s latest version, the Lush 3 has managed to remain the best long-distance sex toy! I tested the Lush 2 and it’s still my go to for wearing for discreet play with my partner in control of the vibrations. My fellow Bedbible sex toy expert, Kasia, tested the Lush 3 and agrees that this is the by far the best long-distance vibrator! She “had a blast using it” and was impressed by it’s “powerful, super quiet, and extra discreet” vibrations. She was also a big fan of the egg shaped design as it was “very comfortable to wear and walk around with it inside.” Having worn the Lush on a 30 minute walk (for research purposes, of course), I can fully back this up! Kasia was a bit disappointed that the vibrations didn’t travel as well into the tail so clitoral stimulation was minimal, but adding some finger play using the tail felt great! It’s also one of the quietest long-distance vibrators, reaching a maximum of around 43 decibels, which is definitely quiet enough to use anywhere with a bit of background noise. Another big reason I chose the Lush 3 as the test winner is the app control! The Lovense Remote is hands-down the best sex toy app I’ve ever tried and the one I will recommend to friends time and time again! I’ve never had any issues connecting my toy to the app, it’s stays connected well and generally reconnects by itself, so even if it drops out, it doesn’t interfere too much with the proceedings.

2 Best on a Budget

Svakom Erica

 Svakom Erica

Svakom Erica

  • Two motors provide internal and external vibrations
  • Adjustable angles
  • App for close range and long-distance control

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  • App easy to set up and use
  • Can be used vaginally or anally
  • Beginner-friendly
  • Luxury design at affordable price

  • Buzzy vibrations
  • Might not fit all bodies
Svakom Erica
MaterialsSilicone, ABS
Vibration patterns11
Vibration speeds5
App ControlsYes
Length4.1 inches
Insertable length3.6 inches
Width3.5 inches
Diameter1.2 inches
WaterproofYes
RechargeableYes
Charging Time90 minutes
Battery Life60 minutes
Storage Bag IncludedYes
Colors AvailableBlue, Rose
Travel LockNo

I know that most long-distance sex toys are well over $100 but there are few gems, like the Svakom Erica that can be purchased for around $50! You really get a lot for your money with this one — a decent app and two vibrating motors! Kasia tested it out for us and had a lot of good things to say! She “loved how smooth the silicone feels and how flexible the shaft is.” She found the shaft delivered “a nice G-spot massage” but the base was a bit too short to sit comfortably against her clitoris in many positions. In terms of vibrations, they were “more buzzy than what [she is] used to” but she appreciate that “they are powerful and quiet,” so I can see this being great when you need to be discreet! Kasia also found the Erica comfortable to wear and it stayed in place well when she moved around. For a much cheaper long distance vibrator, I was also impressed by Kasia experience using the app. She wrote that “the app control works great” and it “added a lot of fun to [her] experience.”

3 Best for Beginners

Satisfyer Pro 2 Generation 3

 Satisfyer Pro 2 Generation 3

Satisfyer Pro 2 Generation 3

  • Pressure wave stimulation
  • Optional silicone membrane for direct contact
  • Can be controlled via the Satisfyer Connect App

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  • Two ways to use
  • Easy to connect
  • Gentle but satisfying stimulation

  • Air pulse can be a little jumpy
  • Gets quite loud on higher settings
  • Vibrations are a bit buzzy
Satisfyer Pro 2 Generation 3
Vibration speeds5
Vibration patterns7
Clitoral suction11 modes
Length6.5 inches
Width(Base) 2 inches
Diameter(Mouth) 0.6 inches
MaterialsSilicone, ABS Plastic
WaterproofYes
Battery Life120 minutes
RechargeableYes
Charging Time240 minutes
App ControlsYes
Travel LockNo
Storage Bag IncludedNo
Colors AvailableBurgundy Red, Purple, Black

“The new Satisfyer Pro 2 Generation 3 hits all of the marks for me, and has given me some absolutely spectacular orgasms!” That’s high praise from our reviewer and fellow Bedbible sex toy expert, Rachel, who isn’t usually a clit sucker fan! She absolutely loved the newest version of the iconic Satisfyer! I chose this as the best long-distance sex toy for beginners because it’s easy to use and focusses on external stimulation, which can be less intimidating. It’s also got a few different types of stimulation, so it gives you more to explore. Rachel loved the Liquid Air Technology as the silicone cover created the “closest sensations to oral sex” that she’s experienced in a sex toy! She described it as being “like a soft, fluttering tongue that you can tease your clitoris with or press down for satisfyingly firm pressure!”  The vibrations aren’t particularly strong and Rachel found them “pretty buzzy,” but if you are new to sex toys, you probably don’t want anything too powerful! The app is also very beginner-friendly! Rachel found it “very easy to connect the toy to the Satisfyer Connect app” and she “didn’t experience the toy disconnecting at all.”  The only real downside I can see with this long-distance sex toy is that it’s not wearable or hands-free so you can’t use it for public play!

4 Expert Pick

Lovense Gravity

 Lovense Gravity

Lovense Gravity

  • Up to 140 strokes/min with a 1.18 stroke length
  • Suction cup base
  • Connects to Lovense App for long-distance control and gamified features

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  • Great range of interactive functions
  • Can be used with or without suction cup base
  • Vibes and thrusts controlled independently
  • Powerful stimulation

  • Not fully waterproof
  • Vibrations aren't the strongest
  • Quite loud
Lovense Gravity
Thrust Modes7, plus more with app
Vibration speeds3, plus more with app
Vibration patterns4, plus more with app
Length10.2 inches
Insertable length5.12 inches
Diameter1.46 inches
MaterialsSilicone
WaterproofNo, water-resistant
Battery Life240 minutes
RechargeableYes
Charging Time120 minutes
App ControlsYes
Travel LockNo
Storage Bag IncludedYes

I really wanted to include the Lovense Gravity, as not only does it offer some really great stimulation (hands-free thrusting, yes please!), but also the suction cup allows for totally hands-free use, which opens up some really fun video sex possibilities! Flora tested it out for us and described it as a “mechanical marvel” that “outperforms any mortal companion!” She was so impressed by its “thrusting power and satisfying vibrations,” she wrote she’s “sure to please the proud pillow princess and performer alike.”  The app was also a big hit! She loved that it made the Gravity into her own “personal creative tool” with all the fun ways to use it! She particularly like that the “long-distance control and voice feedback, allowed for deeply intimate sessions.” I also think having both the thrusting and vibrating to control offers a bit more fun for the partner in the driving seat. Aside from all of the amazing app capabilities and powerful stimulation, one of the main reasons the Gravity is great for long-distance play is the suction cup, which Flora describes as having “unbudgeable force.” In my experience, having a hands-free toy with a big visual impact, like this one, makes long-distance sex video calls a lot more fun!

5 Best Panty Vibrator

Lovense Ferri Long Distance Panty Vibrator

 Lovense Ferri

Lovense Ferri

  • Clips into panties with a strong magnet
  • Ergonomic shape stimulates clitoris and labia
  • Connects to Lovense app for long-distance control

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  • Hands-free
  • Can be worn in strap-on harness
  • Powerful vibrations
  • Quiet
  • App performs well

  • Lack of pressure against clitoris
  • Could be more powerful
Lovense Ferri
Vibration speedsPreprogrammed: 3
Vibration patternsPreprogrammed: 10
Length3 inches
Width0.83 inches
WaterproofYes
MaterialsSilicone
RechargeableYes
Battery Life180 minutes
Charging Time60 minutes
App ControlsApp
Storage Bag IncludedYes
Travel LockNo

The Lovense Ferri is one of the best long-distance sex toys for anyone who prefers clitoral stimulation. It’s also one of the best for public play, given how quiet the vibrations are. Jen tested it out and really liked that the design allowed her to use it in a strap-on harness. Overall, she was impressed with it, writing that “is of high quality- feels luxurious, never malfunctions, and the battery lasts long” She was also impressed with the app: “For masturbation, the app adds an interesting layer. There are many vibration patterns to try out”. The Ferri stays put pretty well with moderate movement such as walking or sitting, but Jen found it moved around a bit when wearing it in a strap-on harness during sex. The only issue with the Ferri, and most panty vibrators in my experience, is that once you stand up and gravity is at play, there is a lack of pressure against the clitoris. This also means you don’t get the full impact of the vibration power. I’ve found wearing some tight-fitting underwear helps!

6 Best Masturbator

Kiiroo Keon Interactive Male Masturbator

 Kiiroo Keon

Kiiroo Keon

  • Up to 230 strokes per minute with adjustable stroke length
  • Can interact with VR porn
  • Connects to the Feel Connect app for long-distance play and interactive features

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  • Great for VR porn experience
  • Can interact with other Kiiroo toys
  • Comes with realistic looking and feeling stroker
  • Stroker can be used separately
  • A lot of customisation

  • Quite large and heavy
  • Gets pretty loud
Kiiroo Keon
Length8.67 inches
Width5.12 inches
Weight2.43 lbs
MaterialsCase: ABS & PC, Sleeve: TPE
WaterproofYes
RechargeableYes
Battery Life30 - 240 minutes
Charging Time240 minutes
OpeningsVulva
App ControlsYes
Storage Bag IncludedNo

The Kiiroo Keon was an obvious as the best long-distance masturbator because it’s the most advanced automatic masturbator out there with the widest variety of features! I like that the thrusting allows you to recreate the sensation of sex with a partner no matter how far apart you are! In his review, our tester, Josh, wrote that the Keon “looks great, it’s effective, and it’s an all-round premium toy that gets the job done.” He was particularly impressed by the quality of the stroker, writing that it’s “fantastic quality, made of a soft and fleshy silicone that feels life-like and textured.” Out of all the interactive masturbators, I feel like the Keon has some of the best interactive features, from syncing to online content to connecting to other Kiiroo toys. Josh like that despite all of the features, “the controls for the power, mode, speed, and stroke length of the Keon are all simple and intuitive, and with a little fiddling and trial and error, you can find something that will really rock your world.” Josh did mention that the Keon “might be a little too big and bulky for some people’s liking” but he also found  “something undeniably satisfying about holding the toy by its ‘hips’ as it bounces up and down.” We actually have a Keon here in the Bedbible office, and agree that it’s not a small toy but that’s a sacrifice I’d be willing to make for overall experience.

7 Best for Anal

Lovense Hush 2 - App-controlled Vibrating Butt Plug

 Lovense Hush 2

Lovense Hush 2

  • Tapered bulb shape plug with powerful vibrations
  • T-bar base
  • Connects to Lovense App

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  • Rumbly and quiet vibrations
  • App offers game, video, music, and voice interactivity
  • Comfortable to wear, even during public play
  • Luxurious feel

  • Too firm for some
  • Can only store up to 10 customized patterns
Lovense Hush 2
Vibration patterns4 (+ more in-app)
Vibration speeds3 (+ more in-app)
Length4.78 inches
Insertable length3.94 inches
Diameter1.5 inches
MaterialsSilicone
WaterproofYes
Battery Life240 minutes
RechargeableYes
Charging Time60 minutes
App ControlsYes
Travel LockNo
Storage Bag IncludedYes
Colors AvailableBlack

The Lovense Hush 2 is the both the best long-distance butt plug and it even won the top spot in our best vibrating butt plug review. It’s simply a really well-made and powerful vibrating butt plug that features the best app control on the market. Our tester, Flora, really enjoyed the “powerful, rumbly vibrations” and even called it a “a truly transcendent experience.” Design-wise, she pointed out that “The ergonomic design was comfortable to wear, even during long sessions”. She also poined out that “”Hush” is an appropriate name to convey the discretion”, making it an ideal choice for some discreet public play. Flora described the Lovense Remote App as the true “star of the show that transformed the butt plug into “an interactive masterpiece.” Another glowing review of the Lovense App! The other thing I really like about the Hush is that it comes in four different sizes so there’s a Hush for every level of experience! Jesse reviewed the Hush 2 Large and wrote: “This toy really impressed me. Not only in the good quality and well thought design, but in its vibration capabilities, and its app capabilities.”

8 Best G-spot Vibrator

We-Vibe Rave 2

 We-Vibe Rave 2

We-Vibe Rave 2

  • Assymetric shape designed to be twisted
  • Adjustable angles
  • App for long-distance play and customisability

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  • Vibrations spread through whole vibrator
  • Quiet vibrations
  • Fully waterproof
  • Rumbly vibrations

  • Can lose bend under pressure
  • Grip size is a little small
We-Vibe Rave 2
Vibration patterns10
Vibration speeds10
Length8.54 inches
Insertable length4 inches
Diameter1.5 inches
MaterialsSilicone
WaterproofYes
Battery Life120 minutes
RechargeableYes
Charging Time90 minutes
Travel LockYes
App ControlsYes
Storage Bag IncludedYes
Colors AvailableBlue, Pink

I wanted to include a more traditional long-distance vibrator, as although it’s not wearable, it’s great for when you want to recreate the sensation of penetrative sex with your long-distance lover! The Rave 2 just goes above and beyond the competition with it’s dual motors that distribute the vibrations, ensuring maximum stimulation throughout the toy. Our tester, Mariah crowned it her “favorite for g-spot stimulation”. She found that “The ability to bend the neck of this toy to fit your anatomy, as well as the dual-controlled motors (one for g-spot stimulation and one for stimulating the vaginal opening) is a complete game changer.”  As a sex toy expert, I love it when companies allow for different bodies within the design as We-Vibe have done with this posable vibrator! Mariah discovered this was great for deep G-spot stimulation” and noted “if you’ve ever wanted to squirt, this is the toy to start with!”

The Rave 2 also has decently rumbly vibrations, which create a deeper penetrating stimulation. Having tried a few We-Vibe toys myself, I know they know a thing or two about rumbly vibes! They also did a complete overhaul on their app, which has been a massive improvement!

Best Long Distance Sex Toys for Couples (Interactive)

The Lovense go one step beyond the usual connectivity with sex toys that can actually interact with each other! You can do this with any Lovense Max, Max 2, or Calor. There are three different ways to connect them:

  1. Lond distance remote control where you are given the controls over your partner’s toy (or the other way around).
  2. Dual control allows you to control both toys at the same time using your phone.  up your toys. In this mode, you’ll be able to control both your and your partner’s toys at the same time.
  3. Sync/interactive mode allows you to control the functions of your partner’s toy through your toy’s movements alone.
All Lovense toys are able to connect with each other using the ‘Mirror’ sync mode in the app. That’s where you can move the icons to control the functions of both toys at once. However, the Long-Distance Sex function, which allows your toy to respond to the movement of your partner’s toy, can only be used with the Max, Max 2, Nora, and Calor. Our fellow sex toy expert, Rachel, put this technology to the test with her partner. They tried out the interactive features using the Lovense Nora and Max 2. Here’s what they found:

Lovense Nora

Lovense Nora - Best Long Distance Sex Toys for Couples (Interactive)
“When we connected them using the Long-Distance Sex function, I noticed the same problems as when I tried to sync its functions to music or my boyfriend’s voice. It’s so sensitive that it was immediately set off by even his smaller movements. Annoyingly, when I turned down the sensitivity slider, it didn’t seem to change much. Furthermore, the rotations don’t seem to have the same range of intensity as the vibrations, so the shifts in speed weren’t nearly as noticeable. They turned on and off as he moved, but that didn’t feel particularly natural to me. In fact, none of it felt very natural at all.”

Lovense Max 2

Lovense Max 2 - Best Long Distance Sex Toys for Couples (Interactive)
“The Lovense Max 2, however, is a different story. There was lots of variation in the vibrations and contractions that really did get faster and slower as I moved the Nora. When I was moving the Nora slowly, the vibes in the Max 2 were low (but rumbly) and the contractions were intense but slow. Then, as I got more into it, the contractions got faster and even more intense for him, which he loved! In fact, he had to turn the sensitivity slider down to avoid it being too much, but it was nice to know the slider actually worked for the Max. It seems like the progression from slow to intense feels more natural in the Max than the Nora, making it way more enjoyable. Given our different experiences, perhaps the Long Distance Sex function would work better if you are two penis-owners both using Lovense Maxes?”

Which is the Best App?

It seems like every sex toy company has jumped on the app bandwagon with varying levels of success! I’ve had some great experiences and some incredibly frustrating ones — tech problems aren’t the kind of teasing I enjoy! The number one most important thing for great long-distance experience is a reliable connection. I would say an easy to use app comes in second place for me and then range of features.

Lovense

Lovense  - Which is the Best App?
The Lovense App is the overall best app on the market right now. Of all of the apps I have tried, it’s the easiest to set up, has the most reliable connectivity, and the best range of features. I also feel like Lovense are always adding innovative new ways to control their toys, including gamified experiences, the option for handing over control anonymously, group play and even Dom/sub set ups!

We-Vibe App

We-Vibe App - Which is the Best App?
The new version of the We-Vibe app is a huge improvement on their original app which was pretty unreliable and didn’t always recognise the toy. The new app has much better connectivity and it’s much easier to connect the toys. It has fewer features than Lovense and focusses more on customisation and long-distance control.

Kiiroo App/ Feel Connect

Kiiroo App/ Feel Connect - Which is the Best App?
I’ve had mixed experiences with the app, both with my own toys and my partners. We were able to get the app and toy set up relatively easily and could control each other’s toys no problem. However, we could not make the interactive features, where the toy’s movements interact, work. We also struggled to get to the video call function to work while controlling each other’s toys so it ended up being quite a frustrating process. My partner had much more success connecting his Kiiroo to online content, but did note that it didn’t work great with free videos so you will likely end up needing to pay for premium content.

Satisfyer App

Satisfyer App - Which is the Best App?
For toys in a lower price bracket, the Satisfyer App is pretty decent, although some people do experience disconnection problems. It also doesn’t have quite as many fun features as other apps.  

How can long-distance sex toys benefit your sex life?

Sex tech can sound incredibly impressive and exciting but the important thing is that it enhances your sex life! Here are some of the benefits of having a long-distance sex toy.

Greater intimacy in long-distance relationships

Greater intimacy in long-distance relationships - How can long-distance sex toys benefit your sex life?
If you’ve ever spent any time away from your partner, you know how frustrating it can be when you just want to rip each other’s clothes off and get down to it. Sure sexting and masturbating is a fine option but it definitely lacks excitement and intimacy. Long-distance sex toys allow you and your partner to stimulate each other for more connected long-distance sex. You also get to experience more intense, exciting stimulation than using your own hands!

Safer sex when dating

Safer sex when dating - How can long-distance sex toys benefit your sex life?
You don’t have to be in a relationship to use long-distance sex toys! They can also be a great way to enjoy safe sex when dating online.

Sync with VR porn and audio erotica

Sync with VR porn and audio erotica  - How can long-distance sex toys benefit your sex life?
Many long-distance sex toys can sync to your favorite adult entertainment so you get a fully immersive masturbation experience! If this interests you, make sure to check your chosen toy has this feature as not all long-distance toys do.

Greater customisation

Greater customisation  - How can long-distance sex toys benefit your sex life?
The majority of long-distance sex toys offer a lot of in-app customisations, from greater control over power levels to endless pattern options.

Fun in-app features

Fun in-app features - How can long-distance sex toys benefit your sex life?
A lot also have other in-app features such as setting your vibrations to music, sounds, or even using your sex toy as an alarm clock. Again the available features vary by brand and product.

Enjoy public play

Enjoy public play - How can long-distance sex toys benefit your sex life?
Being able to control your sex toy via an app also means you can discreetly control it while you are out and about! This only applies to wearable sex toys.

Power play

Power play - How can long-distance sex toys benefit your sex life?
Long-distance sex toys are a great tool for power play. Whether your partner is in the room with your or the other side of the world, they can be in total control of your sex toy and whether or not you get to orgasm!

How to use a long distance sex toy

There are so many different ways to use a long distance sex toy, and. not all of them require the long-distance aspect! Here are just a few ways you can bring one of these amazing connected sex toys.

Long distance relationships

Long distance relationships

Of course this is the primary function of this list, so we couldn’t leave it off the how to use section! App control functionality allows your long distance lover to take charge of your toy giving them total control of your pleasure no matter where they are in the world. This makes these toys the best vibrators for long distance relationships, whether the distance is for the long or short term it will help to keep you satisfying each other while you are miles apart.

Discreet Public Play

Discreet Public Play

Bear in mind that not all long distance sex toys are suitable for discreet public play! Make sure that you test out if your toy is a silent vibrator at home first, before you to take it out for a spin. Wearable vibrators such as panty vibrators work the best for taking out on date night, to add an extra bit of naughtiness to your evening.

Hands-free solo play

Hands-free solo play

The remote control aspect of long distance sex toys means that many of them are great for hands-free masturbation. One of the best things about not using your hands to operate your toy is that it frees them up to stimulate other areas, while your vibrator gets to work on your primary pleasure giving zones.

During Sex

During Sex

Long distance sex toys like butt plugs and clitoral vibrators are also perfect for using during sex with a partner for extra stimulation. They can be used for trying out double penetration, or just for dual stimulation for a beautifully blended orgasm.

How to clean your long distance sex toy

Cleaning is a drag, we know, but it's one of the most important parts of play time because it stops bacteria from gathering on the surface of your toy. Anything that is porous, such as soft plastic, requires extra attention and a more intensive clean after every use because otherwise bacteria gets in the little pores of the toy and can cause nasty infections if allowed to build up. We've put together a handy little guide to help you properly clean your toys, but you should always check the manufacturers instructions too.

FAQ

Any interactive sex toy that can be controlled remotely is a great option for a long distance relationship, because it allows your partner to control how the toy pleasures you from wherever they are in the world.

Always be sure that where you are purchasing your toy from is a trusted retailer. Any of the shops we have included in this list are perfect to buy your long distance sex toys from.

Anyone that has a compatible mobile phone, so that you can download the necessary app for the long distance function to work. Even if you don't have the ability to use the long distance function, the toy will still work for you to use for solo pleasure or to use during sex.

Typically long distance sex toys are bluetooth or wifi sex toys that can be controlled by an app on you or your partners mobile phone. Looking for this app controllability function is your best bet in terms of figuring out whether something is a long distance sex toy.

Some of the leading long-distance brands are Lovense, Kiiroo, OhMiBod and We-Vibe but there are lots of great options out there!

What is a Long Distance Sex Toy?

A long distance sex toy is any type of sex toy that can be controlled remotely using the internet. While many toys offer Bluetooth controls for local remote controls, long distance sex toys use an internet connection instead, allowing them to be controlled from across the world! This makes them ideal for couples who live apart but still want to have a sex life together.

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