8 Best Long Distance Sex Toys

Lovense Lush 3 App Controlled Egg Vibrator

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Lovense Lush 3
Lovense Lush 3
- Bulbed for G-spot stimulation
- Fixed tail for clitoral stimulation
- App enabled with long-distance and interactive capabilities


- Discreet and quiet for public play
- Powerful vibrations
- Comfortable to wear
- Great connectivity
- Not a lot of clitoral stimulation
- The tail doesn't stay in place
Lovense Lush 3 | |
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Vibration speeds | 3 Preset |
Vibration patterns | 4 Preset |
Length | 8 inches |
Insertable length | 3.5 inches |
Diameter | 1.43 inches |
Battery Life | 300 minutes |
Materials | Silicone |
Waterproof | Yes |
App Controls | Yes |
Storage Bag Included | Yes |
Rechargeable | Yes |
Colors Available | Pink |
Travel Lock | No |
The original Lovense Lush kick-started the app-controlled sex toy revolution and it’s latest version, the Lush 3 has managed to remain the best long-distance sex toy! I tested the Lush 2 and it’s still my go to for wearing for discreet play with my partner in control of the vibrations. My fellow Bedbible sex toy expert, Kasia, tested the Lush 3 and agrees that this is the by far the best long-distance vibrator! She “had a blast using it” and was impressed by it’s “powerful, super quiet, and extra discreet” vibrations. She was also a big fan of the egg shaped design as it was “very comfortable to wear and walk around with it inside.” Having worn the Lush on a 30 minute walk (for research purposes, of course), I can fully back this up! Kasia was a bit disappointed that the vibrations didn’t travel as well into the tail so clitoral stimulation was minimal, but adding some finger play using the tail felt great! It’s also one of the quietest long-distance vibrators, reaching a maximum of around 43 decibels, which is definitely quiet enough to use anywhere with a bit of background noise. Another big reason I chose the Lush 3 as the test winner is the app control! The Lovense Remote is hands-down the best sex toy app I’ve ever tried and the one I will recommend to friends time and time again! I’ve never had any issues connecting my toy to the app, it’s stays connected well and generally reconnects by itself, so even if it drops out, it doesn’t interfere too much with the proceedings.
Svakom Erica

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Svakom Erica
Svakom Erica
- Two motors provide internal and external vibrations
- Adjustable angles
- App for close range and long-distance control


- App easy to set up and use
- Can be used vaginally or anally
- Beginner-friendly
- Luxury design at affordable price
- Buzzy vibrations
- Might not fit all bodies
Svakom Erica | |
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Materials | Silicone, ABS |
Vibration patterns | 11 |
Vibration speeds | 5 |
App Controls | Yes |
Length | 4.1 inches |
Insertable length | 3.6 inches |
Width | 3.5 inches |
Diameter | 1.2 inches |
Waterproof | Yes |
Rechargeable | Yes |
Charging Time | 90 minutes |
Battery Life | 60 minutes |
Storage Bag Included | Yes |
Colors Available | Blue, Rose |
Travel Lock | No |
I know that most long-distance sex toys are well over $100 but there are few gems, like the Svakom Erica that can be purchased for around $50! You really get a lot for your money with this one — a decent app and two vibrating motors! Kasia tested it out for us and had a lot of good things to say! She “loved how smooth the silicone feels and how flexible the shaft is.” She found the shaft delivered “a nice G-spot massage” but the base was a bit too short to sit comfortably against her clitoris in many positions. In terms of vibrations, they were “more buzzy than what [she is] used to” but she appreciate that “they are powerful and quiet,” so I can see this being great when you need to be discreet! Kasia also found the Erica comfortable to wear and it stayed in place well when she moved around. For a much cheaper long distance vibrator, I was also impressed by Kasia experience using the app. She wrote that “the app control works great” and it “added a lot of fun to [her] experience.”
Satisfyer Pro 2 Generation 3

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Satisfyer Pro 2 Generation 3
Satisfyer Pro 2 Generation 3
- Pressure wave stimulation
- Optional silicone membrane for direct contact
- Can be controlled via the Satisfyer Connect App


- Two ways to use
- Easy to connect
- Gentle but satisfying stimulation
- Air pulse can be a little jumpy
- Gets quite loud on higher settings
- Vibrations are a bit buzzy
Satisfyer Pro 2 Generation 3 | |
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Vibration speeds | 5 |
Vibration patterns | 7 |
Clitoral suction | 11 modes |
Length | 6.5 inches |
Width | (Base) 2 inches |
Diameter | (Mouth) 0.6 inches |
Materials | Silicone, ABS Plastic |
Waterproof | Yes |
Battery Life | 120 minutes |
Rechargeable | Yes |
Charging Time | 240 minutes |
App Controls | Yes |
Travel Lock | No |
Storage Bag Included | No |
Colors Available | Burgundy Red, Purple, Black |
“The new Satisfyer Pro 2 Generation 3 hits all of the marks for me, and has given me some absolutely spectacular orgasms!” That’s high praise from our reviewer and fellow Bedbible sex toy expert, Rachel, who isn’t usually a clit sucker fan! She absolutely loved the newest version of the iconic Satisfyer! I chose this as the best long-distance sex toy for beginners because it’s easy to use and focusses on external stimulation, which can be less intimidating. It’s also got a few different types of stimulation, so it gives you more to explore. Rachel loved the Liquid Air Technology as the silicone cover created the “closest sensations to oral sex” that she’s experienced in a sex toy! She described it as being “like a soft, fluttering tongue that you can tease your clitoris with or press down for satisfyingly firm pressure!” The vibrations aren’t particularly strong and Rachel found them “pretty buzzy,” but if you are new to sex toys, you probably don’t want anything too powerful! The app is also very beginner-friendly! Rachel found it “very easy to connect the toy to the Satisfyer Connect app” and she “didn’t experience the toy disconnecting at all.” The only real downside I can see with this long-distance sex toy is that it’s not wearable or hands-free so you can’t use it for public play!
Lovense Gravity
Lovense Gravity
Lovense Gravity
- Up to 140 strokes/min with a 1.18 stroke length
- Suction cup base
- Connects to Lovense App for long-distance control and gamified features


- Great range of interactive functions
- Can be used with or without suction cup base
- Vibes and thrusts controlled independently
- Powerful stimulation
- Not fully waterproof
- Vibrations aren't the strongest
- Quite loud
Lovense Gravity | |
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Thrust Modes | 7, plus more with app |
Vibration speeds | 3, plus more with app |
Vibration patterns | 4, plus more with app |
Length | 10.2 inches |
Insertable length | 5.12 inches |
Diameter | 1.46 inches |
Materials | Silicone |
Waterproof | No, water-resistant |
Battery Life | 240 minutes |
Rechargeable | Yes |
Charging Time | 120 minutes |
App Controls | Yes |
Travel Lock | No |
Storage Bag Included | Yes |
I really wanted to include the Lovense Gravity, as not only does it offer some really great stimulation (hands-free thrusting, yes please!), but also the suction cup allows for totally hands-free use, which opens up some really fun video sex possibilities! Flora tested it out for us and described it as a “mechanical marvel” that “outperforms any mortal companion!” She was so impressed by its “thrusting power and satisfying vibrations,” she wrote she’s “sure to please the proud pillow princess and performer alike.” The app was also a big hit! She loved that it made the Gravity into her own “personal creative tool” with all the fun ways to use it! She particularly like that the “long-distance control and voice feedback, allowed for deeply intimate sessions.” I also think having both the thrusting and vibrating to control offers a bit more fun for the partner in the driving seat. Aside from all of the amazing app capabilities and powerful stimulation, one of the main reasons the Gravity is great for long-distance play is the suction cup, which Flora describes as having “unbudgeable force.” In my experience, having a hands-free toy with a big visual impact, like this one, makes long-distance sex video calls a lot more fun!
Lovense Ferri Long Distance Panty Vibrator
Lovense Ferri
Lovense Ferri
- Clips into panties with a strong magnet
- Ergonomic shape stimulates clitoris and labia
- Connects to Lovense app for long-distance control


- Hands-free
- Can be worn in strap-on harness
- Powerful vibrations
- Quiet
- App performs well
- Lack of pressure against clitoris
- Could be more powerful
Lovense Ferri | |
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Vibration speeds | Preprogrammed: 3 |
Vibration patterns | Preprogrammed: 10 |
Length | 3 inches |
Width | 0.83 inches |
Waterproof | Yes |
Materials | Silicone |
Rechargeable | Yes |
Battery Life | 180 minutes |
Charging Time | 60 minutes |
App Controls | App |
Storage Bag Included | Yes |
Travel Lock | No |
The Lovense Ferri is one of the best long-distance sex toys for anyone who prefers clitoral stimulation. It’s also one of the best for public play, given how quiet the vibrations are. Jen tested it out and really liked that the design allowed her to use it in a strap-on harness. Overall, she was impressed with it, writing that “is of high quality- feels luxurious, never malfunctions, and the battery lasts long” She was also impressed with the app: “For masturbation, the app adds an interesting layer. There are many vibration patterns to try out”. The Ferri stays put pretty well with moderate movement such as walking or sitting, but Jen found it moved around a bit when wearing it in a strap-on harness during sex. The only issue with the Ferri, and most panty vibrators in my experience, is that once you stand up and gravity is at play, there is a lack of pressure against the clitoris. This also means you don’t get the full impact of the vibration power. I’ve found wearing some tight-fitting underwear helps!
Kiiroo Keon Interactive Male Masturbator

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Kiiroo Keon
Kiiroo Keon
- Up to 230 strokes per minute with adjustable stroke length
- Can interact with VR porn
- Connects to the Feel Connect app for long-distance play and interactive features


- Great for VR porn experience
- Can interact with other Kiiroo toys
- Comes with realistic looking and feeling stroker
- Stroker can be used separately
- A lot of customisation
- Quite large and heavy
- Gets pretty loud
Kiiroo Keon | |
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Length | 8.67 inches |
Width | 5.12 inches |
Weight | 2.43 lbs |
Materials | Case: ABS & PC, Sleeve: TPE |
Waterproof | Yes |
Rechargeable | Yes |
Battery Life | 30 - 240 minutes |
Charging Time | 240 minutes |
Openings | Vulva |
App Controls | Yes |
Storage Bag Included | No |
The Kiiroo Keon was an obvious as the best long-distance masturbator because it’s the most advanced automatic masturbator out there with the widest variety of features! I like that the thrusting allows you to recreate the sensation of sex with a partner no matter how far apart you are! In his review, our tester, Josh, wrote that the Keon “looks great, it’s effective, and it’s an all-round premium toy that gets the job done.” He was particularly impressed by the quality of the stroker, writing that it’s “fantastic quality, made of a soft and fleshy silicone that feels life-like and textured.” Out of all the interactive masturbators, I feel like the Keon has some of the best interactive features, from syncing to online content to connecting to other Kiiroo toys. Josh like that despite all of the features, “the controls for the power, mode, speed, and stroke length of the Keon are all simple and intuitive, and with a little fiddling and trial and error, you can find something that will really rock your world.” Josh did mention that the Keon “might be a little too big and bulky for some people’s liking” but he also found “something undeniably satisfying about holding the toy by its ‘hips’ as it bounces up and down.” We actually have a Keon here in the Bedbible office, and agree that it’s not a small toy but that’s a sacrifice I’d be willing to make for overall experience.
Lovense Hush 2 - App-controlled Vibrating Butt Plug

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Lovense Hush 2
Lovense Hush 2
- Tapered bulb shape plug with powerful vibrations
- T-bar base
- Connects to Lovense App


- Rumbly and quiet vibrations
- App offers game, video, music, and voice interactivity
- Comfortable to wear, even during public play
- Luxurious feel
- Too firm for some
- Can only store up to 10 customized patterns
Lovense Hush 2 | |
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Vibration patterns | 4 (+ more in-app) |
Vibration speeds | 3 (+ more in-app) |
Length | 4.78 inches |
Insertable length | 3.94 inches |
Diameter | 1.5 inches |
Materials | Silicone |
Waterproof | Yes |
Battery Life | 240 minutes |
Rechargeable | Yes |
Charging Time | 60 minutes |
App Controls | Yes |
Travel Lock | No |
Storage Bag Included | Yes |
Colors Available | Black |
The Lovense Hush 2 is the both the best long-distance butt plug and it even won the top spot in our best vibrating butt plug review. It’s simply a really well-made and powerful vibrating butt plug that features the best app control on the market. Our tester, Flora, really enjoyed the “powerful, rumbly vibrations” and even called it a “a truly transcendent experience.” Design-wise, she pointed out that “The ergonomic design was comfortable to wear, even during long sessions”. She also poined out that “”Hush” is an appropriate name to convey the discretion”, making it an ideal choice for some discreet public play. Flora described the Lovense Remote App as the true “star of the show that transformed the butt plug into “an interactive masterpiece.” Another glowing review of the Lovense App! The other thing I really like about the Hush is that it comes in four different sizes so there’s a Hush for every level of experience! Jesse reviewed the Hush 2 Large and wrote: “This toy really impressed me. Not only in the good quality and well thought design, but in its vibration capabilities, and its app capabilities.”
We-Vibe Rave 2
We-Vibe Rave 2
We-Vibe Rave 2
- Assymetric shape designed to be twisted
- Adjustable angles
- App for long-distance play and customisability


- Vibrations spread through whole vibrator
- Quiet vibrations
- Fully waterproof
- Rumbly vibrations
- Can lose bend under pressure
- Grip size is a little small
We-Vibe Rave 2 | |
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Vibration patterns | 10 |
Vibration speeds | 10 |
Length | 8.54 inches |
Insertable length | 4 inches |
Diameter | 1.5 inches |
Materials | Silicone |
Waterproof | Yes |
Battery Life | 120 minutes |
Rechargeable | Yes |
Charging Time | 90 minutes |
Travel Lock | Yes |
App Controls | Yes |
Storage Bag Included | Yes |
Colors Available | Blue, Pink |
I wanted to include a more traditional long-distance vibrator, as although it’s not wearable, it’s great for when you want to recreate the sensation of penetrative sex with your long-distance lover! The Rave 2 just goes above and beyond the competition with it’s dual motors that distribute the vibrations, ensuring maximum stimulation throughout the toy. Our tester, Mariah crowned it her “favorite for g-spot stimulation”. She found that “The ability to bend the neck of this toy to fit your anatomy, as well as the dual-controlled motors (one for g-spot stimulation and one for stimulating the vaginal opening) is a complete game changer.” As a sex toy expert, I love it when companies allow for different bodies within the design as We-Vibe have done with this posable vibrator! Mariah discovered this was great for “deep G-spot stimulation” and noted “if you’ve ever wanted to squirt, this is the toy to start with!”
Best Long Distance Sex Toys for Couples (Interactive)
The Lovense go one step beyond the usual connectivity with sex toys that can actually interact with each other! You can do this with any Lovense Max, Max 2, or Calor. There are three different ways to connect them:
- Lond distance remote control where you are given the controls over your partner’s toy (or the other way around).
- Dual control allows you to control both toys at the same time using your phone. up your toys. In this mode, you’ll be able to control both your and your partner’s toys at the same time.
- Sync/interactive mode allows you to control the functions of your partner’s toy through your toy’s movements alone.
Lovense Nora

Lovense Max 2

Which is the Best App?
It seems like every sex toy company has jumped on the app bandwagon with varying levels of success! I’ve had some great experiences and some incredibly frustrating ones — tech problems aren’t the kind of teasing I enjoy! The number one most important thing for great long-distance experience is a reliable connection. I would say an easy to use app comes in second place for me and then range of features.Lovense

We-Vibe App

Kiiroo App/ Feel Connect

Satisfyer App

How can long-distance sex toys benefit your sex life?
Sex tech can sound incredibly impressive and exciting but the important thing is that it enhances your sex life! Here are some of the benefits of having a long-distance sex toy.Greater intimacy in long-distance relationships

Safer sex when dating

Sync with VR porn and audio erotica

Greater customisation

Fun in-app features

Enjoy public play

Power play

How to use a long distance sex toy
There are so many different ways to use a long distance sex toy, and. not all of them require the long-distance aspect! Here are just a few ways you can bring one of these amazing connected sex toys.
Long distance relationships

Of course this is the primary function of this list, so we couldn’t leave it off the how to use section! App control functionality allows your long distance lover to take charge of your toy giving them total control of your pleasure no matter where they are in the world. This makes these toys the best vibrators for long distance relationships, whether the distance is for the long or short term it will help to keep you satisfying each other while you are miles apart.
Discreet Public Play

Bear in mind that not all long distance sex toys are suitable for discreet public play! Make sure that you test out if your toy is a silent vibrator at home first, before you to take it out for a spin. Wearable vibrators such as panty vibrators work the best for taking out on date night, to add an extra bit of naughtiness to your evening.
Hands-free solo play

The remote control aspect of long distance sex toys means that many of them are great for hands-free masturbation. One of the best things about not using your hands to operate your toy is that it frees them up to stimulate other areas, while your vibrator gets to work on your primary pleasure giving zones.
During Sex

Long distance sex toys like butt plugs and clitoral vibrators are also perfect for using during sex with a partner for extra stimulation. They can be used for trying out double penetration, or just for dual stimulation for a beautifully blended orgasm.
How to clean your long distance sex toy
Cleaning is a drag, we know, but it's one of the most important parts of play time because it stops bacteria from gathering on the surface of your toy. Anything that is porous, such as soft plastic, requires extra attention and a more intensive clean after every use because otherwise bacteria gets in the little pores of the toy and can cause nasty infections if allowed to build up. We've put together a handy little guide to help you properly clean your toys, but you should always check the manufacturers instructions too.

FAQ

What is a Long Distance Sex Toy?
A long distance sex toy is any type of sex toy that can be controlled remotely using the internet. While many toys offer Bluetooth controls for local remote controls, long distance sex toys use an internet connection instead, allowing them to be controlled from across the world! This makes them ideal for couples who live apart but still want to have a sex life together.
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