The 14 Best Oral Sex Toys for Heavenly Head

   Isabelle Uren
I found the very best oral sex toys out there that lick, suck, flicker and recreate the delicious sensations of oral sex! Today’s Test Winner is my absolute favorite clitoral suction stimulator, the Lelo Sila, but I’ve also found the best tongue vibrators and rotating stimulators so there’s something for everyone! I’ve also added my top tips for the most realistic experience with your new toy!
1 Test Winner

Lelo Sila

 Lelo Sila

  • Prefer indirect stimulation
  • Life a thicker, softer mouth
  • Have a bigger clitoris
  • Want to enjoy slow building arousal

Lelo Sila

  • Need a very quiet sex toy
  • Desire extreme power

The Lelo Sila is a sensual clit sucker that will add some real luxury sensations to your solo play. The thick, soft mouth surrounds your clitoris and delivers delicious pulsing stimulation. I have to admit, I am partial to the way that the Lelo Sila offers really mild stimulation that isn’t overwhelming but still extremely pleasing. Sila is covered in buttery soft silicone and it’s waterproof, making the perfect shower companion!

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  • Wider mouth creates more suction
  • Low settings can be use for long build-up
  • Deep mouth will fit most bodies
  • Easy controls
  • Waterproof

  • Loud when not in contact with body
Lelo Sila
Clitoral suction8 modes
Length3.1 inches
Width2.9 inches
WaterproofYes
MaterialsSilicone & ABS plastic
RechargeableYes
Battery Life120 minutes
Charging Time120 minutes
Travel LockYes
Storage Bag IncludedYes

I am a big fan of clitoral suction stimulators in general and this is the by far the best oral simulator I have tried to date. I absolutely love the soft wide mouth — it feels super comfortable, creates more of a seal, and allows the stimulation to cover a broader area. I also really like the lowest setting is very gentle, so you can enjoy a really slow sensual build up. Like most clitoral suction stimulators, the Sila is a bit noisy, but it’s not the loudest I’ve tried either. Also it’s only loud when it’s not pressed against your body so it’s not distracting when you are actually using it. As with a lot of Lelo toys, it’s not the cheapest option out there, but if you enjoy suction stimulation, the Sila is worth every penny in my opinion!

2 Cheapest

Satisfyer Pro 2 Next Generation

 Satisfyer Pro 2

  • Are on a budget
  • Want to try a clit sucker for the first time
  • Want a suction toy with a large mouth

Satisfyer Pro 2

  • Crave intense power
  • Need a very quiet toy
  • Prefer a smaller, more pinpoint mouth
  • Need a long battery life

The Satisfyer Pro 2 is another clit sucker that has cemented it’s place in sex toy of fame! Adored by vulva owners the world over, this oral sex toy revolutionised pleasure for many! The ergonomic handle makes it easy to hold and position the toy while the mouth delivers delicious indirect clitoral stimulation. The whole toy is waterproof and the silicone mouth can be removed for easy cleaning!

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  • Affordable
  • Great range of intensities
  • Removable silicone head
  • Thick silicone rim is comfortable to use

  • Short battery life
  • Looks and feels a little bulky
  • Design looks a little cheap
  • Not as powerful as other vibrators
Satisfyer Pro 2
Clitoral suction11 modes
Length6.5 inches
Width1.5 inches
WaterproofYes
RechargeableYes
MaterialsABS plastic, Silicone
Rechargeable30

The Satisfyer Pro 2 is still a really great clit sucker for anyone on a budget or who wants to try out this type of stimulation before investing too much. I really like the larger silicone rim and it delivers some pretty good stimulation. Although not as powerful as the likes of the Lelo Sona, it does have decent range of intensities so a lot of people will be able to enjoy this oral sex toy. I’m not a huge fan of the design — I think it can look a little bulky and not the most luxurious but at this price, I can’t really complain. One other thing to keep in mind is that the battery life is pretty short, so you’ll have to remember to keep it charged!

3 Beginner

Womanizer Classic 2

 Womanizer Classic 2

  • Want a luxury clitoral suction toy
  • Enjoy powerful indirect stimulation
  • Need a clit sucker with a long battery life

Womanizer Classic 2

  • Want a softer mouth
  • Need a very quiet toy

The Womanizer Classic 2 is an elegant clitoral suction stimulator that delivers powerful clit pleasing stimulation. The classic Womanizer tear drop design is easy to hold and oval mouth encapsulates your clitoris while you enjoy 10 levels of suction stimulation. Plus, when you do reach the big O, you can activate the After Glow function which takes you back down to the lowest setting for some gentle stimulation as you climax.

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  • Elegant design
  • Comes with different sized mouths
  • Powerful stimulation
  • Long battery life
  • Afterglow setting for pleasant post climax stimulation

  • Can be loud
  • Long charge time
  • On/button can be a little stiff
Womanizer Classic 2
Clitoral suction10 modes
Length6.5 inches
WaterproofYes
MaterialsSilicone & ABS plastic
RechargeableYes
Battery Life180 minutes
Charging Time120 minutes
Storage Bag IncludedYes

The Womanizer Classic 2 is, well, a classic! There’s a reason that many people think of Womanizer when they think of clit suckers! They really do make some of the best on the market! I love that this one comes with two different size stimulation mouths so you can find the best fit. It’s also got a really great battery life so you won’t need to charge it as often. The Afterglow Function is also a really nice touch for anyone who gets a very sensitive clitoris as they orgasm. While it’s not the most expensive oral sex toy out there, the Womanizer Classic 2 is still a bit of an investment, but a worthwhile one if you love clitoral stimulation.

4 Tongue

Fantasy for Her - Her Ultimate Pleasure

 Fantasy for Her - Her Ultimate Pleasure

  • Want to recreate the sensation of licking (on the nipples or clitoris)
  • Enjoy firm stimulation
  • Want to explore pussy pumps
  • Are looking for a toy with both internal and external stimulation

Fantasy for Her - Her Ultimate Pleasure

  • Need a quiet toy
  • Want both internal and external pleasure at the same time
  • Are on a budget
  • Get easily overstimulated

For anyone who loves versatile and varied stimulation, the Fantasy for Her – Her Ultimate Pleasure is a pussy licking toy that really does it all! This toy features a pussy pump with two different shapes of suction cups to create a gentle (or intense) vacuum around your vulva. This increases blood flow to the area and makes everything a lot more sensitive. Then the flickering tongue works it’s magic on your clitoris. It also comes with a textured TPE sleeve that slips over the tongue for added sensation. And, if that wasn’t enough, the handle is actually a vibrating G-spot stimulator! That’s a whopping three toys in one!

  • 2 different size suction cups
  • Multiple stimulation modes
  • Versatile pleasure
  • Texture sleeve for the tongue
  • All features can be controlled separately

  • Quite noisy
  • Can be difficult to create a suction seal on larger bodies
  • Does not seem fully waterproof
Fantasy for Her - Her Ultimate Pleasure
Vibration speeds3
Vibration patterns10/7
Clitoral suction3 modes
Length10 inches
Insertable length5.1 inches
Diameter1.3 inches
MaterialsSilicone, ABS Plastic, TPE
WaterproofYes
Weight0.7 lbs
Charging Time90 minutes
Battery Life60 minutes
Travel LockNo
Storage Bag IncludedNo
Colors Availablepurple

The Fantasy for Her – Her Ultimate Pleasure seems to be a very hit or miss toy with some people absolutely loving it and others struggling to get it to work for their body. The suction from the pussy pump can feel pretty intense, so if you are already very sensitive, it can be overwhelming, especially as the tongue is quite firm. If, however, you enjoy intense stimulation, this could be a great toy for you! Suction helps draw more blood into your vulva making it extra sensitive. Our tester also noted that creating and maintaining a good suction seal around the vulva can be difficult for larger bodies or larger vulvas. That said, it’s still quite nice that there are two different shapes of suction cups included. Another thing to keep in mind is that this oral sex toy is a little on the loud side. Some users have also found that it doesn’t live up to it’s waterproof claims and have found that the suction stops working if it gets wet. Our tester was also very skeptical about just how waterproof this sex toy is. She mentioned that she definitely was expecting something of higher overall quality at that price range. But overall, she was very impressed with the sensations and the versatility. If you like the idea of such a multifunctional toy and don’t mind splurging on something on the more pricey side, I’d recommend the Fantasy for Her – Her Ultimate Pleasure.

5 Rabbit

Womanizer Duo

 Womanizer Duo

  • Love dual stimulation
  • Want a luxury sex toy
  • Want a toy for solo play
  • Enjoy a girthy g-spot stimulator

Womanizer Duo

  • Are new to penetrative play
  • Want a very straightforward toy
  • Prefer to thrust the internal arm

Dive into dual stimulation with the new and improved Womanizer Duo 2, an oral sex toy in the style of a classic rabbit vibrator. This incredible pleasure machine delivers deep, rumbly g-spot vibrations and clitoral suction at the same time for some seriously strong blended orgasms! The Duo also feature Womanizer’s Smart Silence function which shuts the stimulation off when the toy is not in contact with your body.

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  • Powerful clitoral suction
  • G-spot arm with rumbly vibrations
  • Smart silence function
  • Waterproof

  • Gets a bit loud
  • Can be difficult to position as not flexible
  • Comes with a bit of a learning curve
Womanizer Duo
Vibration speeds10
Vibration patterns14
Clitoral suction14 modes
Length9 inches
Insertable length5 inches
Diameter1.25 inches
WaterproofYes
MaterialsSilicone
RechargeableYes
Battery Life120 minutes
Charging Time120 minutes
Travel LockNo
Storage Bag IncludedYes

Having tested the Womanizer Duo original, I can say that these toys deliver intensely pleasurable stimulation! Both the vibrations and the suction stimulation are the great quality you would expect from Womanizer. The bulbous internal arm is really great for targeting your g-spot although, there’s not a whole lot of flexibility so the shape and angle might not work for all bodies. The fixed shape also means that this toy is not designed for thrusting so keep that in mind if you are someone who craves that. The Womanizer Duo 2 is one of the most expensive oral sex toys in this review, but you are getting two great toys in one, and I love that you can control the vibrations and suction separately to suit your desires.

6 Flickering

CalExotics Inspire Flickering Intimate Arouser

 Inspire Flickering Intimate Arouser

  • Love direct clitoral stimulation
  • Want flickering and vibrations
  • Want an easy to use toy
  • Are on budget

Inspire Flickering Intimate Arouser

  • Want clitoral suction
  • Don't enjoy vibrations
  • Need a quiet oral sex toy

The Inspire Flickering Intimate Arouser is a clit licking toy that recreates the pleasure of a partner’s tongue teasing your clitoris. The mouth of the toy surrounds your clitoris while the soft tip flickers back and forth with the 10 modes of vibration! Plus, all proceeds from the sale of this oral sex toy go to Living Beyond Breast Cancer® so you can feel good while you feel gooood!

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  • Soft flickering tongue
  • 10 vibrating modes
  • Ergonomic curved handle
  • Proceeds go to Living Beyond Breast Cancer®.

  • Loud
  • Tongue might not be long enough for all bodies
  • Long charge time
Inspire Flickering Intimate Arouser
Vibration modes10
Length5.75 inches
Width2 inches
WaterproofYes
MaterialsSilicone, ABS
RechargeableYes
Vibration modes60-90
Charging Time240 minutes
Travel LockNo

This licking sex toy is best suited to those who crave more direct clitoral stimulation without needing too much pressure. You get to enjoy the combination of the vibrations spreading throughout the mouth and the flickering tongue. The curved handle of this tongue vibrator make it easier to hold the toy at the right angle and the buttons are easy to use, although you do need to cycle through the intensity settings. The battery life seems a bit short in comparison to the charge time — it takes four hours to complete a full charge, but the battery only lasts 60-90 minutes. However, this is one of the cheapest licking sex toys in this review so it makes sense that the battery might not be as great as some of the more expensive options.

7 App-Controlled

We-Vibe Melt

 We-Vibe Melt

  • Want to play with a long-distance partner
  • Enjoy app-controlled toys
  • Love clitoral suction stimulation

We-Vibe Melt

  • Want customizable patterns
  • Have a larger clitoris

The We-Vibe Melt is a powerful clitoral suction stimulator that also app-enabled! The slim handle of the Melt makes it easy to hold and even slip between two bodies during partnered sex. Plus, you can even play with a partner who miles away with the We-Vibe long-distance play feature! You can connect your Melt to the We-Vibe app and let a partner control the toy from anywhere in the world.

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  • App + long-distance compatible
  • Slim design can be used during sex
  • Smaller mouth for more pinpoint stimulation

  • Mouth too small for some clitorises
  • Mouth is too firm for some
We-Vibe Melt
Clitoral suction12 modes
Length12 intensity levels + more in-app modes inches
DiameterMouth: 0.9 inches
WaterproofYes
MaterialsSilicone
RechargeableYes
Battery Life120 minutes
Charging Time90 minutes
Travel LockNo
Remote ControlsYes - app
Storage Bag IncludedYes

The Melt is a top quality suction stimulator! It’s covered in the lovely soft silicone and provides powerful suction stimulation. The mouth shape is smaller and more oval in design which will suit people with a small to average size clitoris much better. It also means the stimulation is a little more concentrated. Those with a larger clitoris might find the Melt’s mouth size too small. The app capabilities are a bit of a mixed bag. Our tester was a little bit disappointed by the lack of customisation available in the app for the Melt as you can’t create custom patterns as you can with their vibrators. They also found the app was a little unreliable and disconnected at times. Keep in mind that the app has since been updated with better connectivity so these problems should be improved now! I had similar issues with other We-Vibe toys that were improved with the new app!

8 G-spot

Lelo Enigma

 Lelo Enigma

  • Love dual stimulation
  • Want a luxury toy
  • Want a flexible
  • Prefer a more precise suction head

Lelo Enigma

  • Want a very quiet toy
  • Prefer more gentle stimulation

The Lelo Enigma combines clitoral suction stimulation with powerful internal vibrations for a truly luxurious solo session. Lelo’s SenSonic stimulation lavishes the clitoris with sonic waves, so you can enjoy intense stimulation without the numbness that can come with vibrations. The bulbed internal arm delivers g-spot stimulation and the flexible neck helps you find just the right spot to enjoy both parts at the same time!

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  • Powerful clitoral suction
  • Bulbed vibrating g-spot arm
  • Luxurious look and feel
  • Flexible design for better fit

  • Suction head too small for some
  • Cannot control functions separately
Lelo Enigma
Vibration modes8
Clitoral suction8 modes
Length7.3 inches
Insertable length5.5 inches
Width1.9 inches
MaterialsSilicone
RechargeableYes
Battery Life120 minutes
Charging Time120 minutes
Travel LockYes
Storage Bag IncludedYes

The vibrations and clitoral suction are top quality in the Lelo Enigma but the unsung hero of this toy has to be the flexible neck! Many people struggle to find the position when using dual stimulators but the adjustable neck does away with that issue, meaning this toy will work with more bodies! This is a powerful toy, especially as you are stimulating both the internal and external parts of the clitoral structure at the same time, so it might not be the best for those with a very sensitive clitoris, but if you enjoy intense stimulation, then I think you are going to like the Enigma! Our tester was very impressed with this oral sex toy and loved how both types of stimulation work together! The only thing they were a bit disappointed by was not being able to control the vibrations and suction stimulation separately.

9 Rotating

Lelo Ora

 Lelo Ora

  • Are looking for rumbly vibrations
  • Enjoy firm stimulation
  • Like the feeling of direct, manual stimulation

Lelo Ora

  • Prefer a soft, flexible stimulator
  • Have any grip issues
  • Need a quiet toy

The Lelo Ora 3 recreates the toe curling pleasure of a partner’s tongue tracing teasing circles around your clitoris and combines it will more broad vibrations. The pleasure nub that sits under the soft silicone exterior using Lelo’s PreMotion technology to move rhythmically in circles over your labia or clitoris. Combine that with the rumbly vibrations and you’ve got a seriously stimulating oral sex toy!

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  • Rumbly vibrations
  • Rotating silicone nub
  • Soft silicone
  • Waterproof

  • Nub feels unnaturally hard
  • Difficult to find & maintain the right position
  • Starts on highest setting
  • Pricey
Lelo Ora
Vibration modes12
Diameter3 inches
WaterproofYes
MaterialsSilicone
RechargeableYes
Battery Life60 minutes
Charging Time120 minutes
Travel LockYes
Storage Bag IncludedYes

This another oral sex toy that seems to be a bit hit or miss, depending on what type of stimulation you enjoy. The rotating nub is pretty firm and provides pretty precise, direct pleasure. If you have a very sensitive clitoris or prefer indirect stimulation, this might not be the toy for you. Our tester said it felt pretty mechanical but still pleasurable in it’s own way. They were also impressed by the vibrations — they are both powerful and rumbly and really complement the rotating nub. This could also be a good option for anyone looking to explore new sensations and add to their expanding sex toy collection. It’s a little on the pricey side but it has a very luxurious look and feel to it!

10 Powerful

Lelo Sona 2 Cruise

 Lelo Sona 2 Cruise

  • Crave intense power
  • Prefer a smaller, more precise mouth
  • Want a luxury clit sucker

Lelo Sona 2 Cruise

  • Prefer more gentle stimulation
  • Want a wider, softer mouth

The Lelo Sona 2 Cruise is a sleek, elegant oral sex toy that delivers intensely powerful suction stimulation. The slim, nozzle shaped mouth delivers Lelo’s SenSonic pulsing stimulation straight to your sweet spots! Plus, the Cruise function gives you a boost of power when you press the toy against you — perfect for those who love a little kick of power as they near the finish line!

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  • Powerful SenSonic stimulation
  • Easy to hold
  • Precision mouth
  • Cruise control for power boost
  • Waterproof

  • Can get noisy
  • Mouth too small for some
  • Difficult to clean inside mouth
  • Starts on the highest setting
Lelo Sona 2 Cruise
Clitoral suction12 modes
Length4 inches
WaterproofYes
MaterialsSilicone
RechargeableYes
Battery Life120 minutes
Charging Time120 minutes
Travel LockYes
Storage Bag IncludedYes

The Lelo Sona 2 Cruise was the first oral sex toy that I fell in love with! The small nozzle and powerful stimulation make for a pretty intense experience, so it’s best suited to those who crave power in their sex toys! The SenSonic stimulation feels a little different to other air pulse stimulators in that it feels a little smoother and less bassy. The mouth is a little hard to clean, which can be a little annoying. You also want to be careful not to poke anything in there as the you can damage the silicone.

11 Tapping

Fun Factory Volta

 Fun Factory Volta

  • Want a versatile oral sex toy
  • Love the feeling of a flickering tongue
  • Prefer soft, flexible silicone

Fun Factory Volta

  • Require a lot of pressure
  • Don't want to spend time figuring out the controls
  • Prefer broad stimulation

The Volta from Fun Factory is a tempting tongue vibrator that will lavish your sweet spots with it’s vibrating silicone tongues. It features 6 vibration speeds and 6 vibration speeds that travel through the soft silicone to tease whichever body part takes your fancy! I personally love that this versatile vibrator can be used on your nipples, labia, clitoris and much more.

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  • Unique flickering sensations
  • Easy to hold loop handle
  • Great for clitoral or nipple stimulation
  • Travel lock

  • Buttons are confusing
  • Attracts a lot of dust
  • Long charge and short battery life
Fun Factory Volta
Vibration speeds6
Vibration patterns6
Length7.4 inches
Diameter1.85 inches
MaterialsSilicone, ABS Plastic
RechargeableYes
Battery Life80 minutes
Charging Time135 minutes
Travel LockYes
Storage Bag IncludedNo

The Fun Factory Volta is another oral sex toy for those who love direct stimulation and crave the feeling of being licked all over by their partner! The silicone is lovely and soft, although is it slightly textured, meaning it attracts more dust than smooth silicone. The buttons can be a bit of a learning curve as the when you turn the Volta on it starts on the medium setting.

12 Dual Stimulation

Tracy’s Dog OG

 Tracy’s Dog OG

  • love dual stimulation
  • want something insertable that's not too girthy
  • need a flexible shaft
  • like the sensation of a slim suction nozzle to make a better seal

Tracy’s Dog OG

  • want a super powerful oral sex toy
  • want to be able to feel strong vibrations on your clit as well
  • don't need an insertable feature in your oral sex toy

The Tracy’s Dog OG is a unique 2-in-1 sex toy that promises a blend of clitoral suction and g-spot stimulation. It features a flexible insertable shaft designed to adapt to your body, offering a more personalized experience with whichever angle suits you. The insertable part is bulbous for g-spot massage but slightly tapered at the tip for easy insertion. With 10 different suction modes powered by Pleasure Air technology and 10 vibration modes, this oral sex toy is all about variety and finding what works best for you. The waterproof and body-safe silicone material makes it easy to clean and maintain, ensuring hygiene and durability.

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  • Dual stimulation is great for blended orgasms
  • Flexibility allows for more customization
  • Has a versatile design
  • Fun packaging with storage bag included

  • Not the most powerful oral sex toy out there
  • No remote control or app compatibility
  • Fixed distance in design can still be difficult for some anatomies
Tracy’s Dog OG
Vibration modes10
Clitoral suction10 modes
Insertable length4.5 inches
Diameter1.5 inches
WaterproofSplashproof
MaterialsBody-safe silicone
RechargeableUSB
Battery Life60 minutes
Charging Time110 minutes
Storage Bag IncludedYes
FlexibilityFlexible shaft
Colors AvailablePurple, pink

With the Tracy’s Dog OG, I was a mix of curious and skeptical. The name, admittedly, threw me off a bit. But hey, it’s all about the experience, right? I’m definitely focusing less on the name and more on the beautiful blended orgasms after having tried it out! The dual stimulation is the star of the show here. The clitoral suction isn’t overpowering, which I appreciate, as it allows for a more nuanced exploration of sensations. The vibrations are there, but they’re not earth-shattering. In my case, that was alright, since I prefer to focus on the suction sensation. It’s not the most luxurious toy out there, but it doesn’t pretend to be. It’s a reliable, fun addition to the toy box, especially if you’re new to dual stimulation toys. I would have preferred if the shaft was adjustable rather than just flexible. While I can maneuvre the toy in place to my liking, it takes a bit of effort to keep it in place like that. So, for anyone who maybe struggles to use “rabbit-like” oral sex toys that have a fixed distance between the shaft and the clitoral stimulation, this may be an issue or at least a learning curve with the Tracy’s Dog OG.

13 Egg Vibrator

Lovehoney Rose Glow 2-in-1 Clitoral Suction Stimulator with Egg Vibrator

 Lovehoney Rose Glow 2-in-1 Clitoral Suction Stimulator

  • Love dual stimulation
  • Want a powerful oral sex toy
  • Enjoy a cute and feminine design
  • Like the idea of subtle internal stimulation

Lovehoney Rose Glow 2-in-1 Clitoral Suction Stimulator

  • Need a very quiet oral sex toy
  • Can't handle flashing lights from your vibrator
  • Have a really sensitive clitoris
  • Don't want anything insertable

The Lovehoney Rose Glow 2-in-1 Clitoral Suction Stimulator with Egg Vibrator is a beautifully designed oral sex toy that offers a unique combination of clitoral suction and internal stimulation. This toy features a rose-shaped suction head and an egg vibrator, each with multiple settings to cater to various preferences. It’s perfect for solo play or adding an extra dimension to partner play. This little bud is travel-friendly with a travel lock feature, boasts a long runtime, and is fully submersible for versatile use.

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  • Adorable design
  • Internal egg vibrator for dual stimulation
  • Great for blended orgasms
  • Strong suction sensation

  • A bit loud
  • Flashing lights can be annoying
Lovehoney Rose Glow 2-in-1 Clitoral Suction Stimulator
Vibration patterns6
Vibration speeds3
Clitoral suction10 modes
Insertable length10 inches
Width3.5 inches
WaterproofYes
Battery Life55 minutes
RechargeableYes
Travel LockYes
AllergiesLatex free, Phthalate-Free

The Lovehoney Rose Glow 2-in-1 Clitoral Suction Stimulator with Egg Vibrator is a delightful discovery. Its dual functionality offers both clitoral suction and internal stimulation, making it a versatile and enjoyable addition to any collection. I like that the egg vibrator acts as a great option for anyone who may want some g-spot stimulation added to the mix but who may not enjoy a large or rigid shaft inserted. While it’s not the quietest toy, the level of pleasure it provides is actually quite impressive, especially for its reasonable price. It’s an excellent choice for anyone exploring oral sex toys that offer a little extra spice, combining style with effective performance.

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Dame Aer

 Dame Aer

  • Want intense clitoral stimulation
  • Enjoy a few different patterns to choose from
  • Like the sensation of "flappy" clittoral suction
  • Want an elegant toy
  • Need something you can use in the bath or shower

Dame Aer

  • Have a very sensitive clitoris
  • Are on a budget
  • Prefer more gentle suction
  • Have a larger than average clitoris

The Dame Aer is a clitoral suction toy that stands out with its unique design and functionality. It’s a luxury oral sex toy that is fully waterproof, designed by women for women, combining elegance with innovative technology. It features 5 patterns added to its pressure wave technology, offering both consistent stimulation and intermittent patterns. This sleek and elegant clit sucker is also crafted from body-safe silicone and is compact enough for easy portability.

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  • Patterns for the air-pulse stimulation
  • Elegant and discreet design
  • Alert for low-power
  • Fully submersible
  • 3-year warranty

  • May not fit larger clitorises
  • Can be tricky to clean
  • Suction seal is not easily maintained during grinding
  • Pricey
Dame Aer
Clitoral suctionYes; 5 intensity levels and 5 modes
Length4.66 inches
Width1.46 inches
Diameter0.5 x 0.8 inches
MaterialsMedical-Grade Silicone
WaterproofYes, fully waterproof
Battery Life120 minutes
RechargeableYes, Magnetic USB
Charging Time90 minutes
Remote ControlsNo
Storage Bag IncludedYes
Travel LockNo
Colors AvailablePeriwinkle and Papaya

While the Dame Aer is a beautifully designed and innovative product, it might not be suitable for everyone. I found that the intense pulsations almost feel more like vibrations than subtle suction, seo you may be disappointed if you’re looking for that classic clitoral suction sensation. Not only can it be slightly disappointing, this sensation can actually be overwhelming for sensitive users. It’s a product that requires some experimentation to find the right way to enjoy it. Also, the smaller, rigid suction nozzle may not fully envelop larger clits out there, so keep that in mind! For those who prefer a more direct and powerful sensation, the Dame Aer could be a delightful discovery. However, if you have a sensitive clitoris or prefer a gentler touch, you might want to consider other options.

Oral Sex Toys for Men & Penis-Owners

Everyone deserves the delightful sensations of oral sex in their life, so I’ve found my favorite oral sex toys for people with penises too!

Fleshlight Fleshlight Turbo Thrust

Fleshlight Fleshlight Turbo Thrust - Oral Sex Toys for Men & Penis-Owners
The Fleshlight Turbo Thrust is specially designed to provide you with the same sensations as you would experience from real-life oral! Instead of providing visual realism, all the energy went into the design and performance of this blowjob stroker.

Arcwave Ion

Arcwave Ion - Oral Sex Toys for Men & Penis-Owners
The Arcwave Ion is not technically designed to mimic a blowjob. Instead, it’s designed to carefully (and impressively) stimulate the frenulum, pampering the tip of the penis in perfect blowjob style.

Blowmotion Warming Vibrating Male Masturbator

Blowmotion Warming Vibrating Male Masturbator - Oral Sex Toys for Men & Penis-Owners
The Blowmotion Warming Vibrating Male Masturbator allows you to enjoy the sweet sensation of a blowjob whenever you want! This blowjob machine has a soft silicone sleeve that delivers penis pleasing vibrations. On top of that, it has a gentle heating function to recreate the warmth of a partner’s mouth!

TENGA Original Vacuum Deep Throat Onacup

TENGA Original Vacuum Deep Throat Onacup - Oral Sex Toys for Men & Penis-Owners
If you crave the deep pleasure of deep throat, get yourself one of these onacups from Tenga! This TENGA Original Vacuum Cup is a single use masturbator lined with pleasurable nubs and bumps to tease your whole shaft. It even comes pre-lubricated so all you have to do is slip inside!

TENGA Egg Wonder Male Masturbator Set (6 Pack)

TENGA Egg Wonder Male Masturbator Set (6 Pack) - Oral Sex Toys for Men & Penis-Owners
Soft, stretchy, and oh so satisfying, this single use TENGA Egg New Standard Pack  pack a surprising amount of stimulation! Each egg features a different texture so you’ve lots to eggs-plore!

Oral Sex Toys for Riveting Rimming

Now you no longer need a partner to enjoy the sweet sensations of rimming! You can recreate the glorious feeling at home with a rimming plug!

b-Vibe Rimming Plug 2

b-Vibe Rimming Plug 2 - Oral Sex Toys for Riveting Rimming
The b-Vibe rimming plug 2 features rotating rings around the neck that mimic a partner’s tongue tracing circles around your anus. On top of that, the body of the plug has a powerful vibrating motor for internal stimulation!

A Brief Comparison of the Best Oral Sex Toy Out There

When it comes to choosing the best oral sex toy for you, the market offers a wide range of options catering to different preferences, experience levels, and budgets. Here’s a comparison of some of the popular models I’ve already reviewed above, highlighting their key features and categorizing them for different user needs.

For Beginners:

  1. Satisfyer Pro 2: With a user-friendly design (95/100 in ease of use) and a low price, this oral sex toy is an excellent choice for beginners. It offers 11 modes of clitoral suction, providing a gentle introduction to this type of stimulation.
  2. Lelo Sila: Scoring an overall 4.8 out of 5.0 and featuring a comfortable design (95/100), the Lelo Sila is another great option for those new to oral sex toys. It’s medium-priced and offers 8 modes of clitoral suction. The gentle sensations are perfect for total newbies. Although, it is a steep price to pay for something you’re trying out for the first time.

For Advanced Users:

  1. Womanizer Duo 2: This high-quality toy (100/100 in quality) is perfect for experienced users looking for dual stimulation. It’s a bit pricier but offers 14 modes of clitoral suction and 10 vibration settings.
  2. Lelo Enigma: With a perfect score in design and quality (100/100), the Lelo Enigma is ideal for those who seek a luxurious and powerful experience. It offers both clitoral and G-spot stimulation, making it a versatile choice for advanced users.

For Budget-Conscious Users:

  1. Satisfyer Pro 2: Not only beginner-friendly but also budget-friendly, this toy offers good quality (80/100) at a low price.
  2. Inspire Flickering Intimate Arouser: Priced low and scoring 4.6 out of 5.0 overall, this toy is a great option for those on a budget. It offers a unique flickering sensation that differs from traditional suction.

Special Features:

  • App-Controlled: The We-Vibe Melt stands out with its app-controlled feature, allowing for a more personalized experience.
  • Tongue Simulation: The Her Ultimate Pleasure toy offers a tongue-like sensation, ideal for those who prefer a more realistic experience.
  • Powerful: The Fun Factory Volta is known for its very rumbly and powerful vibrations, suitable for those who desire intense stimulation.

Tips & Tricks for a Better "Oral" Experience with Oral Sex Toys

As I already mentioned at the beginning of this article, although many toys claim to feel just like oral sex, it’s pretty hard to recreate the actual feeling of oral sex with a partner. However, here are some ways to get closer to real deal!

Use lube

Use lube - Tips & Tricks for a Better "Oral" Experience with Oral Sex Toys
One of the amazing things about oral sex is that it is so wet and well lubricated! Grab some water-based lube and add a generous slick for more lifelike sensations. You can also gently warm your lube by putting the whole bottle in some warm water.

Let your toys warm to body temperature

Let your toys warm to body temperature - Tips & Tricks for a Better "Oral" Experience with Oral Sex Toys
Another great sensation of oral sex is the warmth of your partner’s mouth! If your toy is made from silicone, it will quickly heat to body temperature if you slip it into bed with you!

Watch some ethical porn or listen to audio erotica

Watch some ethical porn or listen to audio erotica  - Tips & Tricks for a Better "Oral" Experience with Oral Sex Toys
Seeing or hearing oral sex can also help create a more realistic experience with your oral sex toys! Find some oral sex on your favorite ethical porn site, like Sssh.com, listen to some oral sex audio porn or even read some erotic literature to set the scene in your head! For a super realistic experience you can try out some VR porn!

What to Look for When Shopping for an Oral Sex Toy

With so many different types of oral sex toys out there, it can be trick to know which one is worth your money! But don’t worry, I’ve put together an oral sex toy buying guide, so you know exactly what to look for!

Materials

Materials  - What to Look for When Shopping for an Oral Sex Toy
Always look for non-porous materials that are also body safe, such as silicone, borosilicate glass, metal or ABS plastic. In terms of getting the most realistic oral sex sensation, soft, flexible silicone is usually the best option!

Design

Design  - What to Look for When Shopping for an Oral Sex Toy
Some oral sex toys are made to look like realistic tongue whereas others are less representational. Think about which style you prefer.

Direct vs indirect stimulation

Direct vs indirect stimulation - What to Look for When Shopping for an Oral Sex Toy
Clit suckers use indirect stimulation in the form of pulses of air to stimulate your clitoris, while flickering tongue oral sex toys use direct clitoral stimulation. A lot of people can enjoy both sensations but people who find direct stimulation overwhelming might prefer the indirect stimulation of a suction toy.

Size

Size  - What to Look for When Shopping for an Oral Sex Toy
As most oral sex toys are for external use on the labia, clitoris and nipples, the size isn’t as much of an issue as with a dildo for example. However, if you are opting for a clitoral suction oral sex toy, you want to make sure the size of the mouth is big enough for your clitoris. Another thing to consider is that a smaller mouth will offer more precise stimulation while a larger, thicker one will provide broad stimulation.

Battery life

Battery life - What to Look for When Shopping for an Oral Sex Toy
If, like me, you often forget to charge your oral sex toys, I would recommend looking for one with a long battery life!

Waterproof

Waterproof - What to Look for When Shopping for an Oral Sex Toy
If you want to use your oral sex toy in the bath or shower or you want one that’s easy to clean, look for a toy that is waterproof or at least splashproof.

Additional features

Additional features - What to Look for When Shopping for an Oral Sex Toy
Some oral sex toys only provide one type of stimulation (e.g. suction or vibration), but there are some, like the Satisfyer Curvy 2+, that can do both!

How to Use an Oral Sex Toy

Hopefully, you’ve found your perfect oral sex toy and it will be on it’s way to you shortly! Here’s how to use yours for orgasmic oral sex whether you are alone or with a partner!

Lube up

Lube up

Add a slick of water-based lube to your toy for slippery oral sensations. As I mentioned before, you can heat the whole bottle of lube by putting it in some warm water.

Enjoy some foreplay

Enjoy some foreplay

Oral sex toys can feel a little intense if you go straight to clitoral stimulation, so it’s good to warm up first. Luckily, they also make fantastic nipple stimulators too!

Start out on the gentle settings

Start out on the gentle settings

Don’t be tempted to dive straight in with the most powerful setting as this can be too intense and feel uncomfortable. Instead, start out on the low setting and slowly work your way up.

Try edging

Try edging

Use your toy to work up almost to the point of an orgasm and then let the feeling subside, before building up again. Repeat this a few times and then let yourself climax. Many people enjoy this drawn out pleasure. Plus, it can intensify your orgasm!

Try multiple orgasms

Try multiple orgasms

Some people find that it’s easier to have multiple orgasms with clitoral suction stimulators as the indirect stimulation doesn’t lead to over sensitivity!

How to Clean an Oral Sex Toy

If your oral sex toy is waterproof, you can use warm water and a mild soap or sex toy cleaner to clean it thoroughly, making sure to clean in all the little gaps. If it is not waterproof, use a damp cloth and soap or sex toy cleaner to wipe it down and make sure to remove all the residue. Be careful when cleaning inside the mouth of clitoral suction stimulators — don't stick q-tips inside or anything similar inside as this can puncture the thin silicone and ruin the toy.

FAQ

Clitoral suction stimulators (a.k.a.) clit suckers. flickering tongue vibrators, and pussy/clit pumps can simulate different aspects of oral sex.

I've crowned the Lelo Sila the best oral sex toy for women, but it really comes down to personal preference, which is why I've included plenty of other amazing options in this review.

Honestly, I am yet to find a sex toy that actually feels fully like oral sex. This is because oral sex combines lots of different sensations, the dexterity of a human mouth, and the responsive/spontaneous experience of being with another human. That being said, oral sex toys do get close to some of the sensations we know and love from oral sex!

Water-based lubrication is the best option as it is compatible with all sex toy materials.

Oral sex toys are not the most practical to use during penetrative sex as they need to be held in a pretty steady position and they can be a little bulky. However, they are great for foreplay!

What Are Oral Sex Toys?

Oral sex toys are toys allow you to experience the sensations of oral sex without needing a partner! They recreate one or more aspects of oral sex, such as suction or a licking tongue. Clitoral suction stimulators are one of the most popular oral sex toys, and the majority create a seal around your clitoris and then stimulate it with pulses of air. Tongue vibrators made of soft vibrating silicone are also popular!

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