The 6 Best Oral Sex Toys

   Cassie Mørch
As someone who literally couldn’t live without an oral sex toy at my disposal, I consider myself quite the clit sucker connoisseur. Of course, a lot of products out there claim to feel just like the real thing. Most of the time they don’t, but I’m here to introduce you to the one’s that actually do (or get pretty close and still feel friggin’ amazing)! In this review, I’ve ranked and rated each product based on our testers’ in-depth reviews.
1 Test Winner

VibePad 2 Grinding Vibro-Tongue Vibrator

 VibePad 2

VibePad 2

  • Silicone grinding pad with 2 ergonomically designed mounds to rub against the clitoris, vagina, and anus
  • Heating function (up to 131 °F)
  • Flickering tongue (7 modes)
  • 7 vibration modes
  • All functions can be controlled separately
  • Physical remote control included.

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  • Fully submersible for fun in the tub
  • Hands-free pleasure
  • Surprisingly portable
  • Great alternative (or practice) for face-sitting
  • The warm licking sensation feels quite lifelike

  • Doesn't offer internal stimulation
VibePad 2
Vibration patterns7
Clitoral suction(Flickering tongue) 7 modes
Length11.42 inches
Width8.15 inches
MaterialsSilicone
WaterproofYes
RechargeableYes
Battery Life60 minutes
Charging Time120 minutes
Remote ControlsYes
Colors AvailablePurple

“Overall, the VibePad 2 gets a 10/10 from me. I think it’s a uniquely innovative toy that lets women and vulva-owners explore new, thrilling sensations. And makes pretty good practice for face-sitting too! It’s earned its place as one of my all-time favorite sex toys, and I think folks who like grinding stimulation should definitely give it a try.” Since Sarah gave the VibePad 2 such a glowing review, I thought it was suitable to crown it as our Test Winner for today. Now, the main reason it deserves this place is because of how well it mimics the sensation of oral sex for vulva owners. Thanks to the soft flickering tongue, the heating function, and generous amounts of lube, Sarah found that “this is as close as as sex toy gets to cunnilingus, in my opinion, particularly in the context of a face-riding position.” Apart from the obvious features and design elements that make the VibePad 2 stand out as the best oral sex toy, I am partial to its veratility. Yes, I know it doesn’t look like a very versatile toy, but it really only requires a flat surface for you to enjoy it anywhere you want! This oral sex toy “can be enjoyed on the passenger seat of a car, office chair, partner’s lap — anywhere you want to get your grind on.”

2 Runner-Up

Lelo Sila Oral Sex Toy Stimulator

 Lelo Sila

  • Prefer indirect stimulation
  • Life a thicker, softer mouth
  • Have a bigger clitoris
  • Want to enjoy slow building arousal

Lelo Sila

  • Need a very quiet sex toy
  • Desire extreme power

  • Luxury clitoral suction toy
  • Soft and flexible silicone suction nozzle with a flat rim
  • 8 soft and sensual suction modes.

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  • The flat rim on the mouth creates a great suction seal
  • Low settings dare great for edging and teasing
  • Wide and deep suction nozzle fits most clitoris sizes
  • Elegant design with luxurious metallic accents
  • 100% waterproof

  • Loud when not in contact with body
  • Expensive
Lelo Sila
Clitoral suction8 modes
Length3.1 inches
Width2.9 inches
WaterproofYes
Diameter (internal)0.9 inches
MaterialsSilicone, ABS Plastic
RechargeableYes
Battery Life120 minutes
Charging Time120 minutes
Travel LockYes
Storage Bag IncludedYes

“I absolutely love the Sila and refuse to ever be parted from it. It has easily become my favorite sex toy and the one I find myself reaching for most often. […] I cannot recommend the Lelo Sila enough!” The verdict is self-explanatory in Isabelle’s review of the LELO Sila. We’re talking about a premium quality product with body-safe materials, an elegant design, and a high-performance suction feature. What makes this toy stand out is the performance-enhancing design of the suction nozzle. As Isabelle noted in her review: “the soft, flat, wide rim does a much better job at making a secure seal between the toy and your body — I can pull the toy away from body gently without breaking the seal, which I haven’t found with any other clitoral stimulators.” I also really like the lowest setting is very gentle, so you can enjoy a really slow sensual build up. These soft sensation aren’t necessarily less impressive since “there really is a LOT to be said for slowing down and taking the time to really feel all the amazing sensations your body is capable of.” While clit suckers don’t feel exactly like oral sex (because no direct contact is made with the clitoris), the LELO Sila comes the closest in sensation because of the added suction from that strong seal and the soft silicone nozzle. That’s why it deserves the spot as our Runner-Up for today!

3 Budget-Friendly

Bloomgasm Wild Rose Clitoral Suction Stimulator

 Bloomgasm Wild Rose

Bloomgasm Wild Rose

  • Rose-shaped clitoral suction toy
  • Made of body-safe silicone
  • One button to control the settings
  • 10 suction modes to explore.

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  • Very beginner-friendly
  • Affordable but not poor quality
  • Easy to use with simple controls
  • Delivers a pretty intense suction sensation

  • Quite noisy
  • Can be difficult to clean in between the "petals"
Bloomgasm Wild Rose
Vibration speeds3
Vibration patterns7
Clitoral suction10 modes
Length2.6 inches
Width2.3 inches
Diameter (internal)0.4 inches
MaterialsSilicone, ABS Plastic
RechargeableYes
Charging Time75 minutes
Battery Life90 minutes
WaterproofYes
Colors AvailableLilac, Pink, Red
Travel LockNo
Storage Bag IncludedNo

The Bloomgasm Wild Rose is perfect for anyone on a budget. It doesn’t force you to compromise on quality or performance because this little thing packs quit a punch! Our tester, Asia, was blown away by how small yet powerful it was. In her review, she said this about her first encounter with the Bloomgasm Wild Rose: “That night I orgasmed multiple time s- I want to say it was 6 times.” In terms of the design, I like how it’s “small enough to hold in the palm of your hand” and that the singular button makes it easy to “turn on with a simple press of a finger.” It’s super compact, lightweight, and travel-friendly. “One con is with the petals being wavy it can be difficult to clean with just soap and water or cloth.” Sarah suggested using an old toothbrush to get into the grooves properly.

4 Best For Beginners

Satisfyer Curvy 1+ Pressure Wave Clitoral Stimulator

 Satisfyer Curvy 1+

Satisfyer Curvy 1+

  • Clitoral suction toy with added vibrations
  • Wide suction nozzle
  • The Satisfyer Connect App allows you to customize air pulse and vibration modes, enjoy synchronized audio-erotica stories, use the ambient sound feature, or play with a long-distance partner.

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  • App offers a lot of cool interactive features
  • Fully waterproof and great to use in the shower
  • Suitable for larger clitorises
  • Powerful and satisfying sensations

  • The groove in the silicone can be difficult to clean
  • The surface easily gets scuff marks
Satisfyer Curvy 1+
Vibration speeds3
Vibration patterns7
Clitoral suction11 modes
Length5.2 inches
Diameter (internal)0.6 inches
MaterialsSilicone, ABS Plastic
WaterproofYes
Battery Life60 minutes
RechargeableYes
Charging Time240 minutes
Storage Bag IncludedNo
Travel LockNo
Colors AvailableRed, White

Our tester, Nick, doesn’t hesitate to claim that the Satisfyer Curvy 1+ is his favorite sex toy to date. “As a trans man, I worried that my clit wouldn’t fit into the chamber due to hormone growth, or that the sensation would be too intense.” Although, this oral sex toy has a wider suction nozzle that accommodates bottom growth. As far as the sensations go: “The orgasm hit me like a crashing tsunami and I was left dazed and floating on utter bliss. It was intense and felt unlike any other clitoral orgasm I’d ever had before.” This is also exactly why I’ve picked out the Satisfyer Curvy 1+ as the bst option for beginners in this review. It’s easy to use, accommodates most bodies and clitoris sizes, relatively affordable, and still delivers amazing sensations. “A few nit-picks here and there with cleaning that stubborn groove, potential hand cramping, and unwanted attention due to noise… but the list of positives blow the negatives straight out of the water for me.” Since I’ve personally tried the Satisfyer Curvy 2+, I can attest to those small drawbacks. Although, the hand cramping is more likely to happen during those longer sessions. I would also recommend for people who don’t live with others since it isn’t the most silent oral sex toy.

5 Best For Dual Stimulation

Womanizer Duo 2 Pleasure Air Clitoral & G-Spot Stimulator

 Womanizer Duo 2

Womanizer Duo 2

  • Luxurious rabbit-style clitoral suction toy
  • Targeted g-spot vibrations
  • Insertable shaft has a curved and slightly bulbous tip
  • Comes with 2 silicone suction nozzles in different shapes
  • Smart Silence function only activates the toy when in contact with the skin
  • Afterglow function quickly decreases power to avoid overstimulation after orgasm by pressing the power button.

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  • Amazing for blended orgasms
  • Lasts a long time on a full charge
  • Both the vibrations and the air pulses are very powerful
  • Waterproof
  • Surprisingly quiet

  • All the buttons can be confusing at first
  • Quite heavy
  • Expensive
Womanizer Duo 2
Clitoral suction14 modes
Vibration patterns10
Length8 inches
Insertable length5 inches
Diameter1.6 inches
Diameter (internal)0.48 inches
MaterialsSilicone, ABS Plastic
WaterproofYes
Battery Life120 minutes
RechargeableYes
Charging Time120 minutes
Remote ControlsNo
Travel LockNo
Storage Bag IncludedYes
Colors AvailableBlack, Bordeaux, Blueberry, Petrol, Lilac

“Just all around, I love the Duo 2. She is sublime, superb, outstanding, possibly the love of my life. How many more positive words and phrases are there, cause I need them all. I have no qualms with her and absolutely nothing I would change.” There’s no doubt that the Womanizer Duo 2 was a perfect match for tester, Kiki. She found that this device is one of THE best clitoral suction toys out there for achieving amazing blended orgasms. It’s also completely waterproof which isn’t always a given with Womanizer products. While it doesn’t feel exactly like oral, the suction and the vibrations are incredibly powerful. Kiki said she was even “bordering on tears because of how strong these orgasms are”, so I’d say it’s almost better than the real deal! Since there are external and internal elements, I love how customizable this device is. While all those buttons can seem confusing at first, it’s nice to be able to “individually change the strength of the suction and the g-spot stimulator so you can choose how much force you want on each part of your body.” The additional features like the Smart Silence and the Afterglow both contribute to improving your experience. Smart Silence is great for discretion and the Afterglow allows you to “stay on that orgasm wave for wayyy longer without getting overstimulated and needing to immediately rip it off your body.”

6 Expert Pick

Womanizer Premium 2 Pleasure Air Clitoral Stimulator

 Womanizer Premium 2

Womanizer Premium 2

  • Luxurious clitoral suction toy
  • Coated in soft and silky silicone
  • Comes with 2 suction nozzle heads in different sizes
  • 14 intensity levels to explore
  • Smart Silence feature only activates the toy when in contact with the body
  • Autopilot feature will randomly change patterns and speeds to keep you on your toes.

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  • Incredibly powerful
  • Premium quality
  • Fully waterproof
  • Autopilot mode adds some nice variety
  • Very long battery life

  • Magnetic charger can become disconnected
  • May be too strong for some
Womanizer Premium 2
Clitoral suction14 modes
Length6.1 inches
Width1.97 inches
Diameter (internal)0.48 inches
MaterialsSilicone, ABS Plastic
WaterproofYes
Battery Life240 minutes
RechargeableYes
Charging Time120 minutes
Travel LockNo
Storage Bag IncludedYes
Colors AvailableBlack, Bordeaux, Gray, Blueberry, Raspberry

“I am seriously, seriously obsessed with the Womanizer Premium 2. I might marry this product. When I’m dead and gone, cremate me with this vibrator and mix our ashes together so that we may never be apart.” Another glowing review from our tester Kiki (who does admittedly have a sweet spot for Womanizer products) prompted me to include the Womanizer Premium 2 in this review. Now, we have concluded that sex toy that use air pulses to stimulate the clitoris don’t actually feel like oral since there isn’t any direct contact. However, the sensation of suction (and overall pleasure) is very powerful with this toy. So, thanks to the divine 14 intensity levels the womanizer Premium 2 offers, it’s still pretty darn impressive! Kiki noted that it’s “most definitely the most powerful clit sucker” she has ever tried. “Feeling frisky in the shower, bubble bath, pool, hot tub, or oceanfront on a deserted island?” Don’t worry, this little thing is IPX7 waterproof so it’s perfect for bringing with you on aquatic adventures. I own the Womanizer Premium Eco myself (and yes, I’m obsessed with it) and the biggest drawback is that it’s only splashproof. So, this is an amazing improvement!

Tips & Tricks for a Better "Oral" Experience with Oral Sex Toys

As I already mentioned at the beginning of this article, although many toys claim to feel just like oral sex, it’s pretty hard to recreate the actual feeling of oral sex with a partner. However, here are some ways to get closer to real deal!

Use lube

Use lube - Tips & Tricks for a Better "Oral" Experience with Oral Sex Toys
One of the amazing things about oral sex is that it is so wet and well lubricated! Grab some water-based lube and add a generous slick for more lifelike sensations. You can also gently warm your lube by putting the whole bottle in some warm water.

Let your toys warm to body temperature

Let your toys warm to body temperature - Tips & Tricks for a Better "Oral" Experience with Oral Sex Toys
Another great sensation of oral sex is the warmth of your partner’s mouth! If your toy is made from silicone, it will quickly heat to body temperature if you slip it into bed with you! You could use a warming lube or a clitoral stimulation gel to help stimulate the area.  

Watch some ethical porn or listen to audio erotica

Watch some ethical porn or listen to audio erotica  - Tips & Tricks for a Better "Oral" Experience with Oral Sex Toys
Seeing or hearing oral sex can also help create a more realistic experience with your oral sex toys! Find some oral sex on your favorite ethical porn site, like Sssh.com, listen to some oral sex audio porn or even read some erotic literature to set the scene in your head! For a super realistic experience you can try out some VR porn!

What to Look for When Shopping for an Oral Sex Toy

With so many different types of oral sex toys out there, it can be trick to know which one is worth your money! But don’t worry, I’ve put together an oral sex toy buying guide, so you know exactly what to look for!

Materials

Materials  - What to Look for When Shopping for an Oral Sex Toy
Always look for non-porous materials that are also body safe, such as silicone, borosilicate glass, metal or ABS plastic. In terms of getting the most realistic oral sex sensation, soft, flexible silicone is usually the best option!

Design

Design  - What to Look for When Shopping for an Oral Sex Toy
Some oral sex toys are made to look like realistic tongue whereas others are less representational. Think about which style you prefer.

Direct vs indirect stimulation

Direct vs indirect stimulation - What to Look for When Shopping for an Oral Sex Toy
Clit suckers use indirect stimulation in the form of pulses of air to stimulate your clitoris, while flickering tongue oral sex toys use direct clitoral stimulation. A lot of people can enjoy both sensations but people who find direct stimulation overwhelming might prefer the indirect stimulation of a suction toy.

Size

Size  - What to Look for When Shopping for an Oral Sex Toy
As most oral sex toys are for external use on the labia, clitoris and nipples, the size isn’t as much of an issue as with a dildo for example. However, if you are opting for a clitoral suction oral sex toy, you want to make sure the size of the mouth is big enough for your clitoris. Another thing to consider is that a smaller mouth will offer more precise stimulation while a larger, thicker one will provide broad stimulation.

Battery life

Battery life - What to Look for When Shopping for an Oral Sex Toy
If, like me, you often forget to charge your oral sex toys, I would recommend looking for one with a long battery life!

Waterproof

Waterproof - What to Look for When Shopping for an Oral Sex Toy
If you want to use your oral sex toy in the bath or shower or you want one that’s easy to clean, look for a toy that is waterproof or at least splashproof.

Additional features

Additional features - What to Look for When Shopping for an Oral Sex Toy
Some oral sex toys only provide one type of stimulation (e.g. suction or vibration), but there are some, like the Satisfyer Curvy 2+, that can do both!

How Can Sex Toys Actually Feel Like Oral Sex?

Okay, let’s be totally real here, it’s almost impossible to recreate the actual feel of a human mouth going down on you in a sex toy without getting into super realistic sex robot territory. However, sex toys can recreate certain aspects of oral sex that still feel incredible! Here are some different sensations you can explore with an oral sex toy:
  • Suction — Some oral sex toys, like the Fantasy For Her Her Ultimate Pleasure use actual suction, whereas others, like clit suckers mimic suction with pulses of air.
  • Flickering tongues — Tongue vibrators are usually made of soft silicone that vibrates or moves back and forth to simulate the feeling of a tongue flickering over your clitoris or labia.
  • Rotation — Toys with rotating nubs, like the Lelo Ora 3, also have a tongue-like protrusion but instead of flickering back and forth it rotates in a circle.
  • Vibration — Okay, so this feature doesn’t really mimic oral sex, but some oral sex toys also feature vibrations for added sensation. Some, like the Lelo Enigma, have an internal vibrator so you can enjoy clitoral suction and internal stimulation at the same time — a bit like having a partner go down on you and use their fingers internally at the same time!

How to Use an Oral Sex Toy

Hopefully, you’ve found your perfect oral sex toy and it will be on it’s way to you shortly! Here’s how to use yours for orgasmic oral sex whether you are alone or with a partner!

Lube up

Lube up

Add a slick of water-based lube to your toy for slippery oral sensations. As I mentioned before, you can heat the whole bottle of lube by putting it in some warm water.

Enjoy some foreplay

Enjoy some foreplay

Oral sex toys can feel a little intense if you go straight to clitoral stimulation, so it’s good to warm up first. Luckily, they also make fantastic nipple stimulators too!

Start out on the gentle settings

Start out on the gentle settings

Don’t be tempted to dive straight in with the most powerful setting as this can be too intense and feel uncomfortable. Instead, start out on the low setting and slowly work your way up.

Try edging

Try edging

Use your toy to work up almost to the point of an orgasm and then let the feeling subside, before building up again. Repeat this a few times and then let yourself climax. Many people enjoy this drawn out pleasure. Plus, it can intensify your orgasm!

Try multiple orgasms

Try multiple orgasms

Some people find that it’s easier to have multiple orgasms with clitoral suction stimulators as the indirect stimulation doesn’t lead to over sensitivity!

How to Clean an Oral Sex Toy

If your oral sex toy is waterproof, you can use warm water and a mild soap or sex toy cleaner to clean it thoroughly, making sure to clean in all the little gaps. If it is not waterproof, use a damp cloth and soap or sex toy cleaner to wipe it down and make sure to remove all the residue. Be careful when cleaning inside the mouth of clitoral suction stimulators — don't stick q-tips inside or anything similar inside as this can puncture the thin silicone and ruin the toy.

FAQ

Clitoral suction stimulators (a.k.a.) clit suckers. flickering tongue vibrators, and pussy/clit pumps can simulate different aspects of oral sex.

I've crowned the Lelo Sila the best oral sex toy for women, but it really comes down to personal preference, which is why I've included plenty of other amazing options in this review.

Honestly, I am yet to find a sex toy that actually feels fully like oral sex. This is because oral sex combines lots of different sensations, the dexterity of a human mouth, and the responsive/spontaneous experience of being with another human. That being said, oral sex toys do get close to some of the sensations we know and love from oral sex!

Water-based lubrication is the best option as it is compatible with all sex toy materials.

Oral sex toys are not the most practical to use during penetrative sex as they need to be held in a pretty steady position and they can be a little bulky. However, they are great for foreplay!

What Are Oral Sex Toys?

Oral sex toys are toys allow you to experience the sensations of oral sex without needing a partner! They recreate one or more aspects of oral sex, such as suction or a licking tongue. Clitoral suction stimulators are one of the most popular oral sex toys, and the majority create a seal around your clitoris and then stimulate it with pulses of air. Tongue vibrators made of soft vibrating silicone are also popular!

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