7 Best Vibrators for Beginners

“As someone that needs clit stimulation to orgasm, I was surprised when I barely made it through the settings. Within less than 5 minutes and a tiny bit of clit stim, I was done. Seriously! I’ve tried it a few more times to see if it was a fluke and got the exact same results.” The mon ami G-spot Massager is the perfect choice for beginners looking for deep G-spot stimulation. The design is classy, simple, and super easy to use, thanks to its slim shape and flexible shaft. The bulbous tip, a feature of many g-spot vibes, helps it feel filling and satisfying without too much stretch. The best part, however, according to our tester Megan, is the power! Lovehoney claim that it has “sheet-clenchingly powerful vibrations”, and she confirmed that it definitely lived up to that promise. While they’re not so strong that they’ll make you numb, they have the perfect amount of rumble to provide deep stimulation — ideal for newbies looking for g-spot satisfaction.

The We-Vibe Tango X was actually the second vibrator I ever tried! The first was a cheap, buzzy bullet that I enjoyed, but only because I didn’t know anything else. However, as soon the Tango X bullet vibrator entered my life, it changed the game, and it’s still my absolute favorite, even after trying 50+ other toys. The Tango’s superpower is definitely its vibrations. They’re so rumbly that, at the lowest settings, they feel almost like a tapping sensation. I haven’t experienced that kind of deep, penetrating clitoral stimulation from any other toy. Plus, they’re pretty quiet, too! The hard plastic body means that you can really press down, but with some lube, it can still feel gentle on your skin. I adore using it for solo play, either alone or paired with a dildo for that all-important clit stim. But, it’s also an absolute must-have if you want a vibe to use during sex. The compact size and lightweight build means it can easily slip between you and your partner, but you can still grip it easily thanks to the silicone handle. It may be a little bit of an investment, but I all that guarantee that it will be worth it for you.

The We-Vibe Sync 2 is a little different than most vibes suggested for beginners, but that doesn’t mean that it’s not a great choice for adventurous couples! It’s designed to be worn in the vagina, with the larger arm on the outside and the smaller one on the inside, and can be worn during penetrative sex to add some vibes for both of you! Our tester Kasia loved “how small and easy this vibe is, the G-spot arm is small enough to quickly slide in, but the shape makes it stay even with more intense thrusting motions“. The shape is also adjustable, making it easier to find the right angle for you. When it comes to vibrations, Kasia discovered that they weren’t the strongest she had ever encountered, but they were the “perfect balance of buzzy and rumbly” to make them stimulating without being overwhelming. Of course, it can be hard to press buttons on a toy that you’re wearing, so it’s ideal that the Sync 2 comes with both a wireless remote control and optional, free app controls via the We-Vibe app. Kasia preferred to use the intuitive remote control, but the nice thing about using the app is that you can also control the toy long-distance! However you choose to play, the Sync 2 is all about shared pleasure, which I think is a wonderful way to start your vibrator journey.

I know that rabbit vibrators can be a little intimidating for some, but that’s why I love this ultra-beginner-friendly version. The Je Joue Hera Flex’s small size and extra adjustability makes it way more accessible than most rabbits. Bedbible tester Cassie was really impressed with its ‘Body Flex Technology’. She described how she has struggled in the past to find a rabbit that worked for her: “I’ve tried different designs, different sizes, different features… but it just always felt like the fixed distance between the clitoral stem and the insertable shaft didn’t match my proportions“. However, the Hera Flex was different, as the poseable shaft is “so easy to move around yet holds its shape pretty well“, lessening that learning curve of finding the right angles for your body. Cassie also liked that the vibrations “were nice and powerful”, but not overwhelmingly strong. This gives you the perfect opportunity to experience that g-spot stimulation build-up and a fabulous blended orgasm without being immediately bombarded by extra strong clitoral vibes.

The Mantric Wand Vibrator is an ideal first-time wand for a beginner looking for super-powerful and versatile external stimulation. I chose it as the best wand for beginners, mostly because of its slightly smaller size, great price, and easy-to-use design. It’s less complicated than a rabbit or a love egg — magic wands really do deliver when it comes to supercharged clitoral stimulation. Victoria, who tested out this toy, is no stranger to wands, but had never found one that felt good and lasted! However, upon meeting the Mantric wand, she was instantly impressed: “This wand is absolutely great quality and it is my favourite of any I have used before“. Powerful vibes are a must with any wand, and she found that “the vibrations and patterns are strong, you can adjust strength and patterns separately“, something she appreciated, as she didn’t have to keep cycling through vibration modes. Another thing to love about this wand is how user-friendly it is. Victoria loved that “the curve of the wand makes it easy to hold and reach” — this is something that can really help beginners, as you can explore your clit and the rest of your body with minimal effort! One other interesting feature of the Mantric wand is the light on the handle, which changes colors depending on the vibration mode. If you’re playing solo, you won’t really notice it, but it’s a great way for your partner to remember which modes you like best!

The Satisfyer Pro 2 is the absolute clit sucker icon loved by many, not only beginners but more advanced users as well! The reason I chose this toy as a top clit sucker for beginners is the gentle yet powerful stimulation it provides, its affordable price, and the design that is so easy to use and clean. Since I tested it myself, I can also tell you that it’s still a big favorite of mine! While I wasn’t overly impressed with the vibrations, as they felt a bit buzzy, I fell head over heels in love with its clit sucking powers and the unique Liquid Air feature. When combined with a generous dollop of lube, the soft silicone membrane covering the mouth feels like a heavenly fluttering tongue, and it’s actually one of the best oral sex simulating toys I’ve tried. If you want something a bit more intense, you can switch out the head for the regular one, which forms a squishy but effective seal around your clit. And let’s not forget about the app-control! The version of the Pro 2 Gen 3 that I tested is app-enabled, and it was fun to play around with the different features, like syncing it up to music, exploring different stimulation patterns, and  long-distance play. However, if you’d rather go old-school, they also make a non-app-enabled one for about $10 cheaper!

Even if you’re a newbie to vibrators, there’s a good chance that you’ve already heard of the Lovense Lush 3. This cult-classic egg vibrator is a favorite of many, thanks to its powerful vibes and versatile app controls, but it’s also surprisingly beginner-friendly. Our tester Kasia has actually tested both the Lush 3 and its predecessor, the Lush 2, which was one of her first ever sex toys. She found using it to be an eye-opening experience: “Foreplay and powerplay [when wearing the Lush 3] were such a turn-on! I think it’s a great sex toy to tease your partner because just the view of someone wearing it looks very sexy…“. If you’re interested in taking your play public, or want to play with a partner long distance, the Lush 3 is perfect, due to its fantastic app controls and “super quiet, and extra discreet” vibrations. Whether you wear this egg vibe alone or with a partner, there’s no denying how strong those vibrations are! Kasia called it a “powerful vibrating egg vibrator that provides deep G-spot pleasure and features a curved tail for additional clitoral stimulation“, though she was a little disappointed that the external vibrations in the tail were “delicate and weak, even on the highest settings“. If you’re looking for a dual-stimulating toy, the Je Joue Hera Flex above may be a better bet.