Bondage Boutique Over-the-Door Restraints — Test & Review

   Cierra Addington
Jan 25, 2024


Cierra Addington
: 27
: I've been playing with toys for 9 years, and have played with toys for oral pleasure, vaginal pleasure, clitoral stimulation, anal plugs, prostate toys for my partner, and some BDSM toys as well. I love to play with new toys and I'm willing to try just about anything!
: Female
: Heterosexual
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  • are new to BDSM
  • want your partner to have total control
  • like to be restrained

  • do NOT like being restrained
  • do NOT want to try BDSM
  • do not have a door strong enough to support restraints
  • are looking for weight-bearing restraints

If you like to be restrained during sex, this is the perfect toy for you! The Bondage Boutique Over-the-Door Restraints are comfortable, adjustable, and so much fun! These cuffs are soft and are perfect for lovers that are just starting to experiment with BDSM. They would even be enjoyable for those with the most experience! If you're looking for a great pair of cuffs and an exciting romp, these are the restraints for you!

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Super Comfortable and Secure

I was really excited to get my hands on (and in) these restraints! I’ve used restraint toys before, and these were by far the most comfortable restraints I’ve ever worn. The black polyester fabric is very soft and extremely well-padded, so even at their tightest, I felt no discomfort. The cuffs are secured with velcro, which made it easy to put the cuffs on and take them off, but they stayed on perfectly during sex! My only complaint is the adjustable straps are harder to adjust once they are at the maximum length, BUT safety is important with toys like this, so it’s good they can’t be adjusted too easily!

Versatile, Thrilling, and Sexy

Since the cuffs are individual, you can place them over the door as close together or as far apart as you want. My husband put the cuffs on me and then put the barbells over the door close together. We did standing doggy first, and then he flipped me around and literally lifted me off the ground, and the cuffs helped keep me suspended in the air! It was so exciting and extremely sexy! The product page says these are NOT designed to bear weight. I weigh 110 pounds, and my husband supported the majority of my weight. What worked for me may not work for everyone, so be sure to use caution while performing certain positions!

Lots of Possibilities

With these restraints, there are a lot of positions you can try. You can detach the cuffs from the adjustable straps, so if you want to move your BDSM play to the bed, you definitely can! I haven’t tried using the cuffs anywhere but the door yet, but I definitely plan to! Overall, these cuffs are a great addition to my toy collection, and I will 100% be using them again!

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I like the design. They are simple, one color, and the barbells are not made of metal so they don't bang loudly against the door.

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The restraints are easy to put on on your own before they are put on the door. The velcro on each cuff is easy to pull apart, and the adjustable straps are easy enough to adjust on your own before you put them over the door. Once on the door, if the cuffs are placed far apart, a partner would need to help you take them off or adjust the straps. If they are close together, you can take the cuffs off easily by pulling the velcro, but adjusting the straps is difficult once restrained. This toy would be best used with a partner!

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I think the quality of this product is great! The lobster clips that attach the cuffs to the adjustable straps are metal, and they attach to metal rings that are looped through the straps. The straps are made of strong polyester and held in place by a plastic tri-bar, which helps keep the strap at the adjusted length during play. The barbells are made of a latex material and are large enough to stay in place behind a closed door, which also makes the toy quieter during rough play or vigorous movement. The velcro that allows you to adjust the cuff size is strong and sturdy, but still easy to open for adjustments. And I can't talk enough about how comfortable the cuffs are!

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The price of the product is on the cheaper side for this type of toy. You get the adjustable straps and adjustable cuffs, and the best part for the price is that the cuffs can be detached from the straps! That way, you can use the cuffs for other BDSM play. Overall, it's a great product for the price.

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This toy lives up to its online expectations! It is perfect for those just dipping their toes into the BDSM world. The cuffs are comfortable and soft, the barbells are large and not loud, and the adjustable size is great.

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The packaging was not special. It came in a sealed plastic bag, which is see through and not discreet. The bag only had a warning about risk of suffocation and did not have any logos or any instructions written on it. There was a small label with "Bondage Boutique" in plain writing. However, it did come with a small Lovehoney instruction manual with care and safety instructions written in English and 5 other languages.

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The materials are body-safe, as they are made of polyester. The product itself doesn't weigh very much, as the heaviest part is the barbells. The product page does not say whether the product is waterproof or not, and I have not tried the toy in water to test it. There were no cleaning instructions included with this product, and I have not seen any cleaning instructions online. It also did not come with a storage bag.

LengthWrist cuff: 9.5 inches inches
AdjustableYes, up to 8 inches
MaterialsPolyester, hard plastic, Metal, PVC, Latex
FasteningVelcro
Storage Bag IncludedNo
Colors AvailableBlack

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  • Super comfortable
  • Range of position possibilities
  • Perfect for BDSM
  • Strong quality
  • Stays in place

  • Not the easiest to adjust
  • Not designed to bear weight

I think this toy is awesome! The cuffs are my favorite part, since they are soft, strong, and can be used with other toys. I love it when my husband has full control over my body, and these restraints are perfect for that. If you are into being restrained, haven't tried bondage play before but would like to, or even if you're a BDSM enthusiast, this would be a great toy for you!

You can find some helpful bondage and BDSM guides on the Lovehoney product page. There is no user manual for this specific product online, but if you use my tutorial above, you’ll become an expert with these toys in no time!

Yes! The extra-padded polyester fabric is soft against the skin.

Yes. Per the product page on Lovehoney, this toy contains latex.

Yes! These restraints are easy to use, comfortable, and inexpensive compared to other restraint toys on the market.

Yes! The lobster clips allow you to detach the cuffs from the adjustable straps, so you can use the cuffs for other bondage play.

Yes! These restraints are small, lightweight, and can be discreetly packed into a suitcase, carry-on bag, or even a purse.