13 Best BDSM Restraints for Bedroom Bondage

   Isabelle Uren
The world of BDSM restraints can be a little daunting at first and it’s hard to know which ones are going to be the best for your preferences. But fear not, because as a long time bondage restraint expert, I’m here to help! I’ve put together a list of 13 different BDSM restraints that I found the best. My list includes different types such as handcuffs, hogties, rope, as well as full bed kits.
1 Test winner

Fifty Shades of Grey Sweet Anticipation Bondage Restraint Kit

 Fifty Shades Sweet Anticipation Bondage Restraint Kit

  • want a set for full-body bondage
  • want a durable restraint system
  • do not want something for permanent installment
  • need an adjustable and versatile restraint system

Fifty Shades Sweet Anticipation Bondage Restraint Kit

  • have a madress that is larger than king size
  • are small, and have very small ankles or wrists

The Fifty Shades of Grey Sweet Anticipation Under Mattress Restraint Set is part of the official Fifty Shades of Grey Pleasure Collection, offering a stylish and high-quality accessory for bedroom bondage. This versatile set features reversible cuffs with soft padding for comfort, chains with clips for easy linking and unlinking, and D-rings on each cuff. The connecting straps are extendable to fit a king-size bed, and the product is finished with nickel-free metal hardware, bearing the Fifty Shades of Grey logo.

  • Fully adjustable straps and cuffs
  • Easy buckle fastnings
  • Easy to set up
  • Lightweight (travel-friendly)

  • The glossier side can get flakey over time
  • Not small enough to get tight for small wrists/ankles
  • Quite expensive
Fifty Shades Sweet Anticipation Bondage Restraint Kit
MaterialsCuffs: Faux leather & fabric
MaterialsStraps: Nylon
MaterialsChains, buckles, clips: Nickel-free metal hardware
WaterproofSplashproof
FasteningBuckles
Storage Bag IncludedYes
AdjustableYes
Colors AvailableReversible cuffs: choose between neutral black leather or detailed fabric with red roses

In conclusion, the Fifty Shades of Grey Sweet Anticipation Under Mattress Restraint Set is an appealing option for those who are fans of the series or looking for a stylish, comfortable, and versatile addition to their bedroom adventures. Its quality and design reflect the theme of the Fifty Shades of Grey series, making it a unique piece in the pleasure collection. However, if you’re not particularly drawn to the branding or if your preferences lean towards more traditional or budget-friendly options, you might want to explore other alternatives.

2 Cheapest

Quickie Cuffs Super-Strong Silicone Restraints

 Quickie Cuffs

  • Are new to bondage restraints
  • Want discreet handcuffs
  • Are looking for handcuffs you can travel with

Quickie Cuffs

  • Are looking for luxury handcuffs
  • Want adjustable cuffs

If you are new to the BDSM game and don’t know where to start, these Quickie Cuffs might just be the answer you’re looking for because bondage cuffs are one of the easiest places to start! They’re made from soft silicone so are reasonably comfortable, and they’re super easy to just slip on without having to fiddle around with keys and fastenings. They also don’t make any noise unlike a lot of handcuffs so are perfect for anyone who is looking for discreet handcuffs. You can also take these traveling with you as they are airport friendly, so just pop them in your handbag and use them whenever and wherever the mood takes you!

  • Easy to use
  • Travel-friendly
  • Discreet

  • Not adjustable
  • Not aesthetically pleasing
Quickie Cuffs
Length7.5 inches
Diameter(internal cuffs) 2.069 inches
MaterialsSilicone
FasteningSlip-on

As the name suggests Quickie Cuffs are perfect for speedy restraint giving you the ability to use them whenever the mood strikes! They’re really easy to use and super discreet which makes them perfect for anyone who wants a gentle way into bondage restraints. The only real flaws of these cuffs are that they aren’t the most attractive, and they’re not adjustable so smaller wrists might slip out and they might be a tad uncomfortable for larger wrists.

3 Beginner

Fifty Shades of Grey Hard Limits Bed Restraint Kit

 Fifty Shades of Grey Hard Limits Bed Restraint Kit

  • Aren into full-body bondage
  • Like the idea of easy to use velcro restraints
  • Like experimenting with sensory play
  • Want sturdy yet comfortable padded cuffs

Fifty Shades of Grey Hard Limits Bed Restraint Kit

  • Need something suitable for heavy duty bondage play
  • Aren't a fan of the silver design
  • Have a very large bed (and shorter limbs)

The Fifty Shades of Grey Hard Limits Bed Restraint Kit is the perfect entry-level kit for full-body bondage because the cuffs are sturdy yet comfortable and the velcro and adjustable straps just make it really easy to use. It can be fitted to any sized bed and it comes with a handy storage bag so you can travel with it or just store it discreetly when you’re not using it. The set also comes with a matching blindfold to enhance your bondage experience with some spicy sensory play!

  • Easy to use and easy to install
  • Comfortable padding in the cuffs
  • Adjustable straps
  • Portable
  • Blindfold and storage bad included
  • Beginner-friendly

  • Not ideal for advanced play
  • You can easily escape the velcro cuffs
  • Cannot be adjusted in length under the mattress
Fifty Shades of Grey Hard Limits Bed Restraint Kit
Length inches
MaterialsPolyester
WaterproofYes
FasteningCuffs: Velcro, Mask: Elastic, Straps: Carabiner Clips
Storage Bag IncludedYes
AdjustableYes, both Cuffs & Straps
Colors AvailableBlack/Silver

I think this the Fifty Shades of Grey Hard Limits Bed Restraint Kit is ideal for any beginner kinksters out there! With the detachable ankle and wrist cuffs, you can use this set at whichever level you’re comfortable with. Start with using the handcuffs by themselves, or try the under-the-mattress system with only your legs restrained. You can also simply play around with the blindfold in the beginning and allow this kit to help you level up as you go. This BDSM restraint kit is soft and comfortable enough to be perfect for beginner use, but firm enough to give you the full bondage experience. Perfect for turning any bed into a piece of BDSM furniture without making any permanent alterations to your bed or bedroom! Of course, our tester did find that this set won’t be able to withstand the intensity that most experienced kinksters may be looking for. The velcro cuffs are easy to escape from since they aren’t built to take much intense tugging or pulling. In that case, you might want to check out the Fifty Shades of Grey Sweet Anticipation Under Mattress Restraint Set. This set has sturdy cuffs and buckle fastenings that are more suitable for some next level BDSM play.

4 Bondage Cuff Kit

Sportsheets Bondage Cuff Kit

 Sportsheets Bondage Cuff Kit

  • Would enjoy fun date-night excitement and want to ease into playful bondage.
  • Want to try bondage but are nervous about being fully restrained.
  • Are looking for a gentle way to ease your partner into trying bondage.

Sportsheets Bondage Cuff Kit

  • Are looking for high-end bondage restraints.
  • Want restraints that will last a long time.
  • Don't want to fiddle with tying knots to make the restraints secure.

The Sportsheets Beginner’s Bondage Fantasy Kit is an introductory bondage kit designed for couples looking to explore trust, power, and greater intimacy. The kit includes four adjustable restraint straps and a blindfold, providing everything needed for an intense erotic experience. The straps can be used on chair legs, bedposts, and more, allowing for a variety of bondage scenarios. Despite its low price, the kit is highly rated for its design, ease of use, and quality.

  • Very inexpensive
  • Unintimidating
  • May be secured or just tucked in, depending on comfort level
  • Soft and comfortable

  • The box is not discrete
  • This set will not last an extrememly long time
  • The blindfold is very cheaply made
  • The cloth may take on fluids easily
Sportsheets Bondage Cuff Kit
LengthStrap Length - 48 inches
WidthCuff Width - 2 inches
DiameterCuff Diameter - 3 inches
MaterialsNylon webbing, soft fleece, and plastic hook-and-loop
WaterproofNo. It is, however, made of cloth so it will dry.
FasteningHook-and-loop for the cuffs and knot-tying for the straps
Storage Bag IncludedNo
Colors AvailableBlack

The Sportsheets Beginner’s Bondage Fantasy Kit is an excellent choice for couples looking to experiment with light bondage. Its simple design and ease of use make it a non-intimidating option for beginners, while its quality ensures a safe and enjoyable experience. The kit’s low price makes it an affordable entry point into the world of bondage. Whether you’re looking to spice up your sex life or explore new fantasies, the Sportsheets Beginner’s Bondage Fantasy Kit offers a fun and exciting way to do so.

5 Spreader Bar

Sportsheets Saffron BDSM Spreader Bar

 Sportsheets Saffron Spreader Bar

  • Like the Sportsheets Saffron Series
  • Are looking for a versatile bondage tool
  • Are going to be playing with a partner
  • Want to explore more intense restraining

Sportsheets Saffron Spreader Bar

  • Want your sub completely restrained
  • Are looking for an adjustable bar
  • Prefer real leather
  • Want something capable of bearing weight

The Sportsheets Saffron Spreader Bar is an elegantly designed, user-friendly bondage toy that promises to add a thrilling dimension to your intimate moments. This versatile accessory features clips for both wrist and ankle cuffs, making it a valuable addition to any bondage collection. The product has received high ratings for its design, ease of use, and quality. Users have praised its luxurious faux leather look, easy operation, and the inclusion of a storage bag. However, some have noted that it doesn’t come with cuffs, isn’t adjustable, and is relatively expensive. The spreader bar’s sleek leather wrap, gold detailing, and smooth swivel snaps contribute to its aesthetic appeal and functionality. Despite its higher price tag, the product’s performance and quality make it a worthwhile investment for those interested in bondage play.

  • Luxurious faux leather look
  • Versatile
  • Easy to use
  • Sturdy construction

  • Not adjustable
  • Expensive
Sportsheets Saffron Spreader Bar
LengthBar: 24.75, Cuffs: inches
MaterialsStainless Steel, Nickel-Free Metal, Polyurethane Foam
FasteningBuckle

The Sportsheets Saffron Spreader Bar is a high-quality, aesthetically pleasing bondage toy that offers an exciting and unique experience. Despite some minor drawbacks such as the lack of included cuffs and adjustability, the product’s overall performance, design, and ease of use make it a valuable addition to any collection. Its luxurious faux leather look, smooth operation, and the inclusion of a storage bag add to its appeal. While it may not be the first choice for beginners due to its price and the need to purchase cuffs separately, it is highly recommended for those who are fans of the Sportsheets Saffron series or are looking to explore bondage play. The product’s high ratings and positive user experiences attest to its quality and effectiveness, making it a worthwhile investment for those seeking to enhance their intimate moments.

6

Sportsheets Under the Bed Restraint System

 Sportsheets Under the Bed Restraint System

  • Are looking for discreet BDSM restraints
  • Haven't used restraints before
  • Want restraints you can travel with

Sportsheets Under the Bed Restraint System

  • Are looking for luxury products

The Sportsheets Under the Bed Restraint System is one of the best restraints systems for anyone who wants to get into BDSM or anyone who wants discreet bondage straps. These bondage straps are easy to fit under the bed for 4 poster-style restraints, and they can then just be tucked back under the mattress when you’re not using them. The adjustable cuffs are padded for maximum comfort for the wearer, but still strong enough to prevent them from escaping!

  • Discreet
  • Beginner friendly
  • Comfortable cuffs
  • Secure

  • Not very aesthetically pleasing
Sportsheets Under the Bed Restraint System
Length60 inches
MaterialsPolypropylene webbing, plastic hardware, nickel free metal hardware, Velboa fabric, Velcro
FasteningVelcro

The Sportsheets Under the Bed Restraint System is one of the best restraints if the most important features of your BDSM restraints are discretion and ease of use. You can easily take them wherever you go and they hide nicely under the mattress when you’re not using them. The only real downside to these BDSM restraints is that they aren’t the prettiest to look at!

7 BDSM Rope

Oxy Rainbow Silk Kinbaku Bondage Rope

 Oxy Rainbow Silk Kinbaku

  • Are looking for a beginner friendly rope
  • Want a long rope for restraining
  • Prefer soft ropes
  • Are new to rope tying

Oxy Rainbow Silk Kinbaku

  • Want a restraint for quick use
  • Are looking for a short rope
  • Want to use rope for suspension

This beautiful 10m Japanese-Style bondage rope is the perfect BDSM restraint if you want to try practicing elaborate knots. It’s a great soft beginner rope because it comes with a knot tying guide, and it’s made of soft cotton and is designed to lay flat against the skin for maximum comfort. As always with rope tying it’s always a good idea to keep some scissors close by just in case you need to cut your lover free in an emergency, but otherwise this rope is so strong that they will be totally at your mercy!

  • Strong and durable
  • Beautiful colors (and two different options)
  • Made from soft cotton
  • Beginner friendly

  • Knot tying guide can be confusing
  • Color variations can be distracting when tying
  • Too long for some purposes
Oxy Rainbow Silk Kinbaku
Length(26.25 feet) 315 inches
Diameter0.24 inches
MaterialsBamboo silk
Storage Bag IncludedNo
Colors AvailableRainbow and solid colors

This rope is perfect for beginners who want to try the world of rope restraining because it’s really soft and comfortable so not too intense for anyone not used to them. It’s amazing that you get a knot tying guide with this one but it can be a little confusing still if you are a complete novice when it comes to knots, so you might need to do a little bit of additional research too.

8 Legs & Thighs

DOMINIX Deluxe Leather Wrist to Thigh Restraints

 DOMINIX Deluxe Wrist to Thigh Restraints

  • Want luxury bondage straps
  • Prefer aesthetically pleasing sex restraints
  • Are looking for hand restraints
  • Enjoy bondage play

DOMINIX Deluxe Wrist to Thigh Restraints

  • Want budget restraints
  • Don't like faux leather
  • Have a 30"+ thigh

These Dominix Deluxe thigh cuffs are the ideal choice for anyone who loves BDSM restraints that look amazing on you with their gorgeous red snakeskin design. Both the wrist cuffs and the thigh cuffs are fully adjustable so suitable for most people and they are relatively versatile in terms of the positions they can be used in. They are also very simple to use so are a beginner-friendly option, but there are cheaper options that you might want to go for while deciding if you like thigh cuffs before you commit to investing in a luxury pair like these.

  • Luxurious quality
  • Adjustable
  • Beginner friendly
  • Simple to use
  • Comfortable

  • Awkward in some positions
  • Easy to get out of
  • Somewhat weak stitching
  • Only fits thighs up to 29"
DOMINIX Deluxe Wrist to Thigh Restraints
Length29 inches
Width1 inches
Adjustable0-30
FasteningMetal Buckle
MaterialsLeather, Silver Metal
WaterproofNo
Storage Bag IncludedNo
Colors AvailableBlack

Overall these faux snakeskin wrist to thigh cuffs are stunning restraints that will give you aesthetic pleasure as well as enjoyment from their functional use. They’re a beautiful quality that will fit most sizes but they can be relatively easy to get out of, so if you want inescapable BDSM restraints then these ones probably aren’t for you.

9 Over Door Cuffs

Sportsheets Door Jam Cuffs

 Sportsheets Door Jam Cuffs

  • Want some soft, comfortable cuffs
  • Enjoy standing bondage play
  • Already have some experience with light bondage
  • Need some affordable BDSM restraints
  • Want some BDSM restraints that are easy to use

Sportsheets Door Jam Cuffs

  • Want some BDSM restraints that you can use in bed
  • Are looking for BDSM restraints for heavy duty bondage or suspension
  • Want to be able to remove the cuffs
  • Are much shorter than average

The Sportsheets Door Jam Cuffs have the unusual ability to turn your doors into bondage restraints! They’re super lightweight, affordable, and easy to use. A great alternative to a getting a full-blown St. Andrew’s Cross installed in your bedroom! So, if you’re really into the idea of standing bondage but want to start out with something down to earth, the Sportsheets Door Jam Cuffs might be great for you! These adjustable velcro straps are easily adjusted to your wrist (or ankle) size, and the soft furry velboa lining means they’re comfortable to wear too. They’re really easy to use as the tubes keep the straps fixed in place without causing any damage to the doors. Done with your session and ready for cleaning? Well, one of my favorite things about these babies is that you can remove the tubes and throw the cuffs in the washing machine!

  • Unique style of restraints
  • Comfortable to wear
  • Adjustable cuffs
  • Beginner-friendly
  • Can be used on most doors
  • Machine-washable

  • Not designed for full suspension
  • Can't be used in bed
  • Height is not adjustable
  • Cuffs cannot be removed for independent use
  • Lower quality materials
Sportsheets Door Jam Cuffs
LengthLength of strap when secured in the door: 8.5 inches
WaterproofYes
MaterialsVelboa fabric, polypropylene webbing, nickel-free metal hardware, and plastic
AdjustableNo
FasteningVelcro

The Sportsheets Door Jam Cuffs are great for what they’re designed for but unfortunately can’t really be used for any other bondage restraint play, so make sure to keep that in mind when thinking about purchasing them! After trying these out, I am now a firm believer in over door cuffs as a great investment for any kinky couples out there! Even tohugh they’re not super versatile, they do offer great support for a lot of versatile play. Bring them with you on the go, and use them with any door, throw them in the washer after use, and adjust them to fit snugly to any size ankles or wrists. Play around with over-door fun or under-door fun! They’re a wonderfully unique style restraint that will definitely add a whole new dimension to sex given that you can easily turn any room of your house into a kinky playground with these BDSM restraints.

10 Collar & Leash

Bondage Boutique Collar with Leash

 Bondage Boutique Collar with Leash

  • Are new to collar and leash play
  • Want to play around with power dynamics
  • Are interested in pet play
  • Like the idea of a glow-in-the-dark accessory

Bondage Boutique Collar with Leash

  • Would prefer a long chain
  • Are looking for something high-quality and long-lasting
  • Prefer real leather

The Bondage Boutique Glow-in-the-Dark Collar and Leash set is an exciting novelty item for those new to the BDSM or kink scene. This set, featuring a soft interior and a faux leather exterior that glows in the dark, is perfect for nighttime play. The design is simple yet effective, and the set is easy to use, making it beginner-friendly. However, it has received slightly lower ratings for quality, and users have noted that it can stain easily and could benefit from longer chain attachments. Despite these minor drawbacks, the collar and leash set is affordable and offers a unique glow-in-the-dark feature. Users have found it fun to use, whether for keeping a partner in one place or for walking them around the house. The set’s design, ease of use, and affordability make it a great starting point for those exploring collar and leash play.

  • Easy to use
  • Glows in the dark
  • Beginner-friendly
  • Affordable

  • Lower quality
  • Stains easily
  • Needs longer chain attachments
Bondage Boutique Collar with Leash
Length(Leash) 35.5 inches
Diameter(Collar) approx. 6.4 inches
MaterialsFaux Leather
WaterproofYes
FasteningBuckle
AdjustableYes
Storage Bag IncludedNo

The Bondage Boutique Glow-in-the-Dark Collar and Leash set is a fun, affordable, and beginner-friendly addition to any BDSM or kink collection. Despite its somewhat lower quality and tendency to stain, the set offers a unique glow-in-the-dark feature that adds an exciting element to nighttime play. Users have found it comfortable to wear and easy to use, making it a great choice for those new to collar and leash play. While it may not be the highest quality option on the market, its affordability and unique features make it a worthwhile investment for those looking to explore power dynamics or pet play. The set’s overall performance and user experiences suggest that it can provide an enjoyable and unique experience for those new to the BDSM or kink scene.

11 Position Master

Fetish Fantasy Position Master With Cuffs

 Fetish Fantasy Position Master

  • Like the idea of a position enhancer
  • Already have some experience with BDSM restraints
  • Enjoy deep penetration
  • Are flexible enough to explore this kind of bondage
  • Don't need a premium quality product

Fetish Fantasy Position Master

  • Prefer high-end BDSM restraints
  • Don't enjoy full-body bondage
  • Prefer lockable cuffs
  • Want a sturdy position enhancer that's made to last
  • Struggle with neck pain or flexibility in general

The Fetish Fantasy Position Master With Cuffs is a great device for anyone who loves to explore fun (and maybe more advanced) sex positions during their kinky playtime. This position enhancer is designed to help you nail those difficult positions that you might struggle to hold with no support. It helps take the pressure off your legs and core, while your Dom gets to keep you in position while they have their (consensual) way with you! To add some *spice* to your enhanced positions, the detachable wrist cuffs can help you feel even more powerless when strapped in. With velcro fastenings, these are easy to adjust and remove in a pinch. It’s fairly easy to use and comes with a neck cushion to give you some comfort during your acrobatic adventures!

  • Versatile use
  • Neck cushion for added comfort
  • Wrist cuffs are detachable
  • Quick and easy to use
  • Good for deep penetration or full display positions

  • Not ideal for total beginners
  • Not a premium quality product
  • Can pull a bit much on the neck
  • Fabric isn't super soft
Fetish Fantasy Position Master
AdjustableYes — cuffs and leg straps
FasteningVelcro
MaterialsNylon, neoprene, metal, plastic

I like the idea of the Fetish Fantasy Position Master With Cuffs. I also think this little device is a pretty easy and affordable way to spice up your experience with BDSM restraints. It’s a lot more interesting than a regular pair of cuffs, and surprisingly versatile. You can explore so many kinky positions and be put in a semi-permanent state of complete exposure and powerlessness. I love that this can both enhance the psychological aspect of your playtime but also potentially enhance the physicaly sensations though deeper penetration. While the neck cushion is a good addtion, our testger noted that it still pulls significantly around the head and neck. Keep that in mind if you struggle witgh neck or back pain and this could be a problem. Since this definitely isn’t a product of the highest quality, I am a bit unsure of whether this device could work for people in larger bodies. It definitely isn’t suitable for really heavy-duty bondage and doesn’t seem like it’s built to be very long-lasting. Still, for the price it’s available at, I think it could be a nice and fun addition to your BDSM restraints collection. It’s adventurous, fun, and may just elevate some of your kinky fantasies!

12 Swing w. Restraints

Bondage Swing With Restraints

 Bondage Swing With Restraints

  • If you are a beginner and want a simple sex swing.
  • Are only playfully into light bondage.
  • Will only use the swing occasionally.
  • Have a small body build.

Bondage Swing With Restraints

  • Need hand grips for balance.
  • Are in need of padding for comfort.
  • Have a curvy or thick body.
  • Want a sex swing that will last for years.
  • Are into hardcore bondage.

The Fetish Fantasy Bondage Swing is a single mount sex swing designed for light bondage play. It includes wrist and ankle cuffs, chains, and a blindfold, and comes with a metal eye-bolt for easy installation on a ceiling or door frame. The swing is a single piece design, which makes it easy to install and use. However, it has received low ratings for design and quality, with users noting that the padding is minimal, the adjustment options are limited, and the silver lame’ covering looks cheap and peels off. Despite these drawbacks, the swing is priced at a medium range and has received high user ratings.

  • Easy, 1-piece assembly
  • Single hook mount
  • Comes with wrist and ankle cuffs
  • Includes ceiling or door frame eye bolt

  • Made for smaller-framed people
  • Not all parts are adjustable
  • Lame’ coating peels off
  • Foam padding only ¼ “
  • Head injury risk
Bondage Swing With Restraints
LengthSeat and Backrest Pad 23 inches
WidthSeat and Backrest Pad 4.5 inches
WidthOverall swing width 19.5 inches
MaterialsNeoprene coated with lame'
Maximum WeightWith spring 250 lbs
Maximum WeightWithout spring 350 lbs

The Fetish Fantasy Bondage Swing offers a unique experience for those interested in light bondage play. Its ease of use and inclusion of wrist and ankle cuffs make it a fun addition to any collection. However, its design and quality leave much to be desired. The swing’s minimal padding, limited adjustability, and cheap-looking covering detract from its overall appeal. Despite these issues, users have found the swing enjoyable to use and have given it high ratings. While it may not be the best choice for those seeking a high-quality, durable sex swing, its unique features and ease of use make it a worthwhile consideration for beginners or those looking for a simple, easy-to-install option.

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Fifty Shades of Grey Totally His Soft Handcuffs

 Fifty Shades of Grey Soft Handcuffs

  • Are new to using bondage restraints
  • Prefer comfortable handcuffs
  • Want adjustable handcuffs

Fifty Shades of Grey Soft Handcuffs

  • Want aesthetically pleasing handcuffs
  • Enjoy uncomfortable restraints

More comfortable than the previous Fifty Shades of Grey handcuffs on this list, the Totally His Soft Handcuffs are also much more approachable and beginner-friendly! They’re totally adjustable and easy to use with just a simple clip attaching the two cuffs. This makes maneuvering between positions simple because you don’t have to mess around undoing the cuffs. The clips also make it really easy to attach these handcuffs to other BDSM toys, so they’re super versatile giving you endless opportunities to try different things.

  • Soft and comfortable
  • Sturdy
  • Adjustable
  • Beginner friendly
  • Can be clipped to other toys

  • Easy to escape from
  • Might not be enough for experienced users
Fifty Shades of Grey Soft Handcuffs
MaterialsPolyester, metal clips
FasteningVelcro
Storage Bag IncludedYes

You can’t really go far wrong with the Totally His cuffs! As with all of the Fifty Shades of Grey toys, they’re of amazing quality, and these handcuffs are perfect for beginners or anyone who prefers comfortable restraints. The only potential snag is that if you have tons of BDSM experience you might find that these don’t quite hit the spot.

Popular Types of BDSM Restraints 

  • Hand and Ankle Cuffs – These bondage cuffs are available in a couple of different designs, but they all accomplish the same thing, restraining your sub from moving their hands or ankles!
  • Sexual Bed Restraints – These restraints are used to tie your sub to the bed, perfect for any full-body domination situation!
  • Door Restraints – The designs of these restraints vary. Most simply restrict your sub from moving their arms by holding their arms above their head using wrist restraints attached to the door frame, but some models may also restrict their ankles using the door frame as well.
  • Hogtie – Hogtie restraints restrain the sub’s arms and legs behind them, preventing any form of effective movement and giving you easy access to their clitoris/penis.
  • Spreader Bars – These bars feature restraints on each end of the bar. Once strapped in, your sub will be forced to keep their legs and/or arms spread wide!
  • Bondage Rope – Also known as shibari rope, this purpose-made rope is designed to safely restrain your sub using knots/designs of your choice. Rope is an excellent option for doms who want to get a bit more creative when restraining their partner.

How to use BDSM restraints

Bdsm restraints can seem a bit daunting at first but they really don’t have to be as there are so many different options. We have jotted down a few ideas to help you get started and hopefully the whole world of BDSM restraints doesn’t seem to intimidating!

Choose your restraints

Choose your restraints

The first step in trying out bondage restraints is choosing the right ones. Start off with super gentle and comfortable restraints that you know you can escape and this will help give you an idea of what you enjoy. This goes for all bdsm tools and toys, for example, if you are intrigued by nipple clamps and want to try them, it’s a good idea to see what’s out there and then start off with the most beginner friendly options.

Talk to your partner

Talk to your partner

Before you start using bondage restraints make sure that you discuss with your partner what you are comfortable with and what you’re not. It’s important to do this before you begin. This is especially important if you are going to be using something like ball gags, where the wearer won’t be able to talk to you during sex.

Safety first

Safety first

Make sure that you agree on a safe word beforehand, just in case things get a bit too intense and you’re no longer comfortable. You should always make sure that you have a quick and safe escape from your restraints in case of emergency. For example, if you’re using rope ties it’s a good idea to have a pair of scissors close by for a quick release if necessary.

Do your research

Do your research

With any new BDSM restraint, you should read the instructions before you use them to make sure that you know how to use them comfortably and safely. The more research that you’ve done about BDSM then the more comfortable you are going to be when you get starting trying different things. Even when you are a BDSM pro there will still always be more than you can learn, research will allow keeping sex fresh and exciting from trying out different sex positions to new toys.

How to clean your BDSM restraints

It's super important to make sure that clean your toys after every use to stop harmful bacteria from building up, which I think we can all agree nobody wants! All materials require cleaning in different ways so it's best to check with the manufacturer's instructions as to how to clean your bondage restraints, but we've also put together a handy little guide to help you get started.

FAQ

Anyone! There are all kinds of bondage restraints for different preferences and experience levels. It's always best to start off with gentle and comfortable restraints and you can work your way up to more advanced restraints.

No! Some restraints are uncomfortable due to their material but you can get really comfortable and gentle restraints so you can choose your ideal level of comfort.

From any reputable sex toy shop! Make sure that you check that you are buying from a respected retailer. You can safely purchase your toys from any of the shops on this list.

There are many tutorials online that will help you with this task. However, since we don’t recommend doing so yourself, we won’t be providing any links here!

For the most part almost all materials can be used for the straps themselves. Mostly you will find that most restraints use nylon or some type of hemp rope. However, when looking for the material of the cuffs itself, look for something breathable and preferably soft. Leather is always a good option here, but it can be expensive.

What are BDSM restraints?

BDSM restraints are restrictive accessories that allow you to explore different balances of power during sex. Bondage restraints can be used on different or all parts of the body: the most common BDSM restraints are those used on the wrists (such as handcuffs!). There are all kinds of things you can use as BDSM restraints such as ropes, handcuffs, or satin ties. The type of bondage restraints you choose will depend on the activities you plan on partaking in, as some endeavors may require stronger restraints than others.

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