6 Best Handcuffs for Sex and Bondage

I love these Leather Handcuffs from Bondage Boutique! They look the part, they play the part and they are just an all-round solid pair of handcuffs! Peter and his partner tested them for us and gave them a perfect score of 5/5! They loved that the cuffs had a “a nice comfy fit and feel” and that the leather and metal design gives them “a luxurious look and finish.” They did note that the leather feels “slightly stiff” but “softens up with time,” and this is totally normal in my experience! They were pleasantly surprised by the low price considering the “quality of the product is high and the materials used are not a cheap.” Although these sex cuffs only come with one double ended clip, the D-rings mean you can attach your own restraints, and Peter found they worked well with his spreader bar. As these cuff fasten with a buckle, I would go for them as my first set of restraints, but I would love a pair for more heavy duty bondage!

I like that you don’t need to spend a lot to get a really decent set of handcuffs that will get the job done! I think these soft cuffs from Bondage Boutique are going to satisfy most needs and are a real steal at well under $20! Edie, who’s got more than 30 years of sex toy experience under belt, tried them out and gave them her seal of approval! She loved that they were “comfortable, breathable, and don’t leave any bruises or marks on [her] wrist.” As they are velcro, I would recommend these to anyone looking for their first pair of handcuffs, but Edie also found they were “surprisingly secure” even when “pulling, wiggling and struggling.” Another nice feature is that the metal clips “swivel so they don’t get stuck.” In my experience with these kinds of sex cuffs, they aren’t as durable as stronger materials like leather or metal, so they aren’t good for hardcore bondage, however, they are great for light bondage and occasional use.

I love cute and kinky BDSM accessories, and I think the Sex & Mischief Brat Locking Cuffs are just the perfect combination of elegance and sturdiness. I especially like the rose gold touches and the faux leather, as I often opt for vegan-friendly accessories. The reason why I picked them as my Expert Pick is the use of soft, yet sturdy material, additional D-rings for bondage play, and the unique locking feature. Our tester, Ashley, who tested the Brat Locking Cuffs highlighted how comfortable they are: “Inside of the cuffs feels felted, making them even more comfortable!” She also pointed out that these handcuffs are adjustable and easy to use. What she loved the most about them was the rose gold design and the addition of the chain: “The chain was very easy to disconnect when needed, and it slides right back on to reconnect the cuffs.” I agree that the detachable chain is pretty cool, I think this is a great feature that adds a lot of versatility to your play. One feature that she wasn’t so impressed with was the locking feature. She compared the locks to those you often see with “secret diaries for teenagers,” which might not sound appealing if you are looking for real BDSM handcuffs. Overall, I personally don’t mind the lower quality of the locks, as these handcuffs are pretty affordable. I like how versatile, and cute they are, and I would be much more excited to explore bondage play if I had a pretty pair of handcuffs like these. I can definitely recommend them if you are looking for beginner-friendly bondage handcuffs.

I think metal handcuffs like these are the quintessential sexy handcuffs that spring to mind for many people. They aren’t as comfy and maybe not quite as versatile as separate cuffs but they do have a very naughty vibe to them! On top of that, the cold metal can add an extra thrill as it hits your skin, helping to set the mood! Kasia tried them out with her partner and thought the overall “quality is great,” especially for “those new to bondage [or] roleplaying.” She found that “they are lightweight, easy to adjust, and the lock works smoothly” but she did find herself wanting “something weighty, sturdy, and more serious.” With that in mind, I wouldn’t choose these for more intense bondage but instead as a fun accessory for a particular look. Kasia, did “really like the shiny silver look with the Fifty Shades of Grey branding engraved” that was a nice change from the usual black leather or fabric cuffs.

I love getting creative with bondage positions so wanted to include some handcuffs for sex that moved beyond the bed, while still being super accessible! I love just how easy these cuffs are to use and that they can be use with any closing door. Cassie and her partner had fun trying them out and she loved having “a much more versatile playground at [her] disposal.” She even discovered that they “can even be used under the door to secure your ankles” for even more ways to play! She also appreciated that they are “super affordable, very easy to use, ideal for bringing with you on the go.” She was a little concerned that they don’t feel the highest quality but found that “during use they actually are quite durable” and that the “velboa fabric feels super soft on the skin.” The main drawback in these cuffs is that you can’t adjust the length of the restraint, so while they will fit most people and doors, if you are particularly tall or short or have very high doors, I recommend measuring to make sure they will work.