The 4 Best Butterfly Vibrators

   Isabelle Uren
With my extensive experience with vibrators I’ve always wanted to find out, which of the butterfly vibrators are the best. Together with a team of testers at Bedbible we reviewed and ranked the 5 best.
1 Test Winner

Lovense Dolce

 Lovense Dolce

Lovense Dolce

  • Called “Quake” earlier
  • Double vibrator
  • Adjustable/flexible neck

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  • Powerful dual vibrations
  • Sturdy rounded head and firm bulbous shaft
  • Adjustable
  • App-controlled
  • Waterproof

  • A bit expensive
  • Only available in one color
  • Somewhat unstable bluetooth connection
Lovense Dolce
Vibration modesUnlimited in app
Vibration patterns7
Insertable length3 inches
WaterproofSubmersible
MaterialsSilicone
RechargeableUSB
Charging Time60 minutes
Battery Life120 minutes
Remote ControlsApp-controlled
Storage Bag IncludedYes
FlexibilityFirm
AdjustableYes
AllergiesLatex-free and phthalate-free
Colors AvailableFuchsia

The big thing about insertable butterfly vibrators is that they can give dual orgasm, by stimulating both the clit and g-spot at the same time. So, when I learned that Cassie, who tested the Lovense Dolce, had finally found a vibrator that could give this too her despite having “always been skeptical of dual vibrators”, I simply had to include it here. She had been scared away from the classic anatomically non-diverse rabbit vibrators (a thing I often see with testers trying non-flexible rabbit vibrators is that they never really ‘fit’ just right).  This is solved by the genious bending/flexible mechanism of the Dolce, which is firm enough “so once you’ve found an angle that works for you, that baby will stay in place”. Despite still not being “super easy for me [her] to achieve”, Cassie did say that “the orgasms with the Dolce are pretty amazing”. She also “loved the interactive feature, and had a blast letting my partner control my stimulation”. The Lovense App used by the Dolce, and a bunch of other Lovense products gets amazing feedback and reviews from all of our testers. She did have some trouble “getting to know the functions of the two buttons on the head itself” and learning which one controlled which motor (quickly making the Lovense App the go-to control method).

2 Runner Up

Bombex Butterfly Desire Vibe Pro

 Bombex Butterfly Desire Vibe Pro

Bombex Butterfly Desire Vibe Pro

  • 2 individual motors
  • Remote controlled
  • Has clit sucker

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  • 10 different vibration settings
  • Travel lock feature
  • Handsfree capabilities
  • Dual motors for maximum pleasure

  • One button controls everything
  • May not be girthy enough for experienced users
  • Awkward for couple play
  • Very strong vibrations
Bombex Butterfly Desire Vibe Pro
Vibration modes10
Clitoral suction10 modes modes
Insertable length4 inches
Diameter1.5 inches
MaterialsSilicone
WaterproofYes
Battery Life40-60 minutes
RechargeableYes, USB charging
Charging Time150 minutes
Remote ControlsPhysical Remote
Travel LockYes
Storage Bag IncludedNo

Kate, who tested the Bombex butterfly vibrator for us, were in for a surprise. Her initial impression of the Bombex was that it “looked bigger” than she had thought judging from pictures online – which is typical for most people buying sex toys online. However, it proved to not be her biggest surprise. During a solo session she was surprised that “within 5 minutes this vibe made me squirt hard”, and she says even reaching orgasm usually takes 20 minutes, and she had not had a squirting orgasm “happened during solo play” before. For good reasons, it’s become her “all-time favorite solo session toy”, while “during couple sessions, it’s a bit awkward to use”, Kate says. She only had one major concern, which is the fact that it only has one “one button to control the settings”, and as with any vibrator that is button controlled, it’s better with the option to cycle back and forth, and not have to cycle all the way through. She thought the “the silicone is the softest out of any of the toys I already have” and loved that the there is “hardly a peep from the Butterfly Desire Vibe Pro”.

3 Best for Beginners

Dame Eva Hands-Free Clitoral Vibrator

 Dame Eva

Dame Eva

  • Made to be hands-free and fit inside labia
  • One of the smallest vibratos out there

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  • Small and flat — perfect for use during sex
  • Hands-free design
  • Adjusts to different body shapes

  • Very buzzy vibrations
  • Loud
  • Can be hard to put in place
  • Can slip out of place when you move
Dame Eva
Vibration speeds3
Length1.7 inches
Width(Without Wings) 1.3 inches, (With Wings) 2.4 inches
MaterialsMedical-Grade Silicone
WaterproofYes
FlexibilityFlexible Wings
Battery LifeAt least 60 minutes
RechargeableYes, Comes with Charging Case
Charging Time240 minutes
Remote ControlsNo
Travel LockYes

This uniquely designed, hands-free couple’s vibrator from Dame is the perfect addition to either especially partner play and definitely doesn’t feel like three’s a crowd. But as an expert I’ll say the buzzier vibrations that Rachel, who tested the Dame Eva, reported about is better suited for beginners. As she said, it’s “probably the most buzzy vibrator I’ve tried”. Despite the downside in terms of vibrations being buzzy, this is because you can’t fit a rumblier motor inside such a small vibrator, which is the reason it fits perfectly during for example missionary and without any straps can keep itself in place just by pushing against the labia. And, as Rachel said, it “took missionary sex to a whole new level”, making the small size invaluable and perhaps a worthy compromise for buzzy vibrations. To Rachel’s surprise she found the design actually worked and “stayed put without too much trouble”. She did have one problem, “actually pressing the button when the Eva is in position”, as she said that when you “use a bit of force to press it down, it often moves the Eva out of place“.

4 Budget-Friendly

Svakom Erica

 Svakom Erica

Svakom Erica

  • Single motor
  • One button control + app

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  • Affordable price
  • Quick to set up and easy to use app
  • Flexible body
  • Can be used for anal and vaginal play
  • Beginner-friendly size
  • Beautiful packaging

  • Buzzy vibrations
  • Won't fit most bodies
  • No dual-motors
Svakom Erica
MaterialsSilicone, ABS
Vibration modes11
Remote ControlsApp Control
Length4.1 inches
Insertable length3.6 inches
Width3.5 inches
Diameter1.2 inches
WaterproofYes
RechargeableUSB
Charging Time90 minutes
Battery Life60 minutes
FlexibilityFlexible
Storage Bag IncludedYes
Colors AvailableBlue, Rose

Out of all the things the Svakom Erica comes with, what I’m most impressed about is how Svakom managed to keep the price for all this, this low. Of course, that meant there most be other areas where they compromised, the lack of a second vibration motor is one of them. Kasia, who tested the Svakom Erica, did say that the vibrations are “quite strong, and quiet, and they got the job done”, but she also did have her fair share of difficulty getting adequate stimulation for her clit. This is for one due to the lack of a second motor, but also the lack of adjustability  of the clitoral arm (like I found with the Lovense Dulce). Second, the shape also doesn’t allow for pressure to build on the clit, although Kasia did “try using the Svakom Erica as a wearable vibrator, and it passed the test”. Overall, Kasia did also note that the “vibrations are focused more on internal stimulation”, and she loved it for that.

Types of Butterfly Vibrators

  • Classic – A classic one is defined as a hands-free version that is held against your vagina (with straps or by the wings). A good example of that is the Dame Eva.
  • Remote control – Works with remote control, and could therefore be used in public both alone and with a partner. The best remote control butterfly vibrator that we recommend is the Lovehoney Venus Butterfly.
  • With Penetration – Do stimulate both internal and external. So in its simplest form, it’s inserted into your vagina. The Venus Butterfly G-Spot Vibrator is a great example of this.

What is so Special About Butterfly Vibrators?

With so many different types of vibrators and stimulators on the market, it can be difficult to know what they do and which one is best for you. Here is a quick explanation of what a butterfly vibrator does!

Puts your clit in the spotlight

Puts your clit in the spotlight - What is so Special About Butterfly Vibrators?
The glorious clitoris, small but mighty and overlooked for so long. But, no more! It’s finally time to put your clitoris in the spotlight. Butterfly vibrators are just one of many toys designed specifically with clitoral stimulation in mind and with good reason! With 80% of women unable to reach orgasm without clit stimulation a butterfly vibrator “understands” this problem. The clitoris has a high number of nerve endings, making it one of the most sensitive erogenous zones and a powerhouse of pleasure and for many women, clitoral stimulation is the main route to reaching orgasm.

How does the butterfly help with this?

How does the butterfly help with this? - What is so Special About Butterfly Vibrators?
While the clitoris extends inside the body, butterfly vibrators work by applying delicious flicks, flutters and vibrations to the part that sits outside of the body. Butterfly vibrators often feature a butterfly with a body that vibrates and presses against the clitoris with antennae that sit around the clitoris and wings that envelope the labia for intense stimulation either alone or with a partner.

Remote VS No Remote

When it comes to picking a butterfly vibrator, there are a couple of different types to choose from. You can opt for a classic hand-held butterfly vibrator, a wearable butterfly vibrator, or even a remote control butterfly vibrator! The best option for you will depend on your personal needs, and whether or not you’re going to be using your butterfly vibe solo or with a partner. If you’re looking to get some clitoral vibration during sex, you might find that a wearable butterfly vibrator corresponds more to your needs. On the other hand, if you want to enjoy some fun power play with your partner, you might prefer a remote-controlled, Bluetooth butterfly vibrator to spice things up between the sheets (or elsewhere!)

Regular Strap-On versus Butterfly Strap-On

Strap-ons are a great addition to your and your partners’ pleasure. Whether it be penetrative sex, power play, oral or gender affirmation. Strap-ons are usually designed to be worn and used on a partner, however, newer designs have focused on direct physical stimuli for both parts. So what are the differences between regular strap-ons and butterfly strap-ons?

Regular Strap-Ons 

  • Designed to be worn and used on another person than the wearer
  • Often associated with BDSM
  • Can be used by all genders

Butterfly Strap-Ons 

  • Designed to provide stimuli to both parts
  • Intertwines the dominant and submissive roles
  • Most are designed to be worn by vagina owners
  • The butterfly is oftentimes used to stimulate the wearers’ clitoris

How to Use a Butterfly Vibrator

So now you know all about the joys of butterfly vibrators, here are a few exciting ways to use your new toy for solo or partner play.

For clitoral stimulation during penetration

For clitoral stimulation during penetration

Most butterfly vibrators with a harness or adjustable arms are designed to fit snugly against your clitoris while leaving you open to enjoy penetration. Simply get the butterfly vibrator in place and have your partner enter you either with a penis or dildo. Go for positions where the clitoris is more exposed, such as the butterfly position, so you can easily apply more pressure to the toy as needed.

Foreplay

Foreplay

Ok, so this is a broad category and leaves a lot to your imagination. Vibrators that sit inside the pants or are worn with a harness are a great way to get in the mood for a steamy session. As well as using butterfly vibrators on the clitoris during foreplay, you can also use those juicy vibrations to excite or parts of the body such as the nipples.

Control and orgasm denial

Control and orgasm denial

Wearable vibrators that come with a wireless remote control are ideal for adding an element of control to partner play. Hand over the remote and put yourself at the mercy of your partner. Not knowing when you’re going to get that sweet buzz or how strong it will be, adds a whole new layer of excitement. You can also add in some orgasm denial by letting your partner reach the brink of orgasm and then stealing it away, repeating the process again and again to build the anticipation.

Secret stimulation in public

Secret stimulation in public

If the thrill of getting caught excites you, why not take your wearable vibrator out for a little walk. This excitement can be heightened by putting your partner in control if your toy comes with a remote. The intense sensation and exhilaration of being outside can make for some electrifying orgasms. You just have to try and keep a straight face and make sure you go for a model with quiet vibrations.

Double penetration

Double penetration

​Butterfly dildo vibrators that come with insertable shafts or g-spot stimulators are perfect for trying out double penetration with a partner with either a penis or dildo. The intense stimulation of vaginal and anal penetration with the butterfly stimulating your clitoris is bound to push you over the edge.

How to Clean a Butterfly Vibrator

It’s important to clean your sex toys before and after every use to prevent any nasty infections and keep them in top condition. And after all the love they show you, it’s only fair to give a little back! As butterfly vibrators contain electrical parts, you have to be careful when cleaning them and never submerge them in water unless they are completely waterproof. When it comes to cleaning toys, always manufacturer’s guideline first. Oh and don’t forget to get into all the nooks and crannies for a full and thorough clean! If your butterfly vibrator is made of a non-porous material such as silicone or some hard plastics, it can be washed with a soapy cloth and dried before storing in its own storage box or bag. If your butterfly vibrator is made of a porous material such as rubber, vinyl or Cyberskin, you can wash your toy with a soapy cloth but be extra gentle when cleaning and drying your toy as these materials degrade more easily.

FAQ

A butterfly vibrator stimulates both the greater labia area while providing intense stimulation to the clitoris.

Most are designed with an internal and external stimulator. Therefore, vagina owners are the ones using butterfly strap-ons. There are options without an internal stimulator or shaft that penis owners can use.

Traditional butterfly vibrators are designed for people with clitorises. However, couple's vibrators are designed to stimulate both partners as vibrations can also feel fantastic for people with penises. You can also use vibrating toys on other areas of the body such as the nipples or the head of the penis.

The main difference between a standard bullet vibrator and a butterfly vibrator that bullet vibrators are used to apply stimulation to the clitoris whereas butterfly vibrators often feature wings to stimulate the labia and antennae that flicker with the vibrations. Butterfly vibrators are also often handsfree, being held in place with a harness, insertable shaft or underwear.

I always recommend internal stimulators made of medical-grade silicone since it's the safest and most hygienic option. If you want a butterfly toy with straps, you can choose the material you think is most comfortable to have strapped around your waist and thighs.

As with all sex toys, non-porous materials are safer and longer-lasting than porous materials as they are easier to clean. Body-safe or medical grade silicone is a great material for a butterfly vibrator as it is easy to clean and feels soft against your body. Porous materials such as jelly or TPE/TPR /rubber are cheaper but porous and therefore cannot be fully cleaned and will degrade over time.

Absolutely! A lot of butterfly vibrators are designed so they can be worn during penetration. Choose a couples vibrator or one that comes with a harness that keeps the vibrator in place.

I always recommend water-based lubricants for toys, and that applies for butterfly strap-ons as well! Water-based lubricants are the safest option for medical-grade silicone.

Remote control butterfly vibrators can be lots of fun to use with a partner! While certain models might differ, most remote control butterfly vibrators will come with either an app-control or physical remote control: a remote control will be powered by Bluetooth and allow a partner (or yourself!) to control the sensations hands-free!

Feminist inventor Joani Blank invented the iconic Butterfly sex toy in 1977, after identifying a gap in the market for hands-free clitoral stimulators. Historically, clitoral and labia stimulation was used by Doctors as a means to treat "female hysteria" - and the first-ever vibrator was invented to relieve doctors from arm cramps!

We always recommend buying your sex toys from reputable adult toy retailers. We only ever recommend trustworthy sex toy shops with great customer service, to ensure that you're guaranteed authenticity and quality.

There's products with external attachments for giving pleasure, and there's products with both internal and external attachments for equal stimuli. They come with either straps or as strapless strap-ons. You can also find butterfly strap-ons for solo use only.

Most butterfly vibrators will be quite discreet, especially if they're designed to be app-controlled. However, you should always check out reviews beforehand if you're worried about noise. In all our vibrator reviews, we rate the toy's noisiness on a scale of 1-5.

What is a Butterfly Vibrator?

A butterfly vibrator is a sex toy designed for external clitoral stimulation. It often looks like its namesake, with wings that sit over the labia and sometimes with antennae that sit either side of the clitoris. Some butterfly sex toys have a harness that holds them in place, which also looks like a butterfly, whereas others have an insertable part that sits inside the vagina. The butterfly clit stimulator delivers delicious buzzing sensations to your clitoris while the wings lightly stimulate your labia, leading to trembling orgasms whether used alone or with penetration. What is a butterfly strap-on? A butterfly strap-on is a version of standard strap-ons, however, they are meant to provide simultaneous stimuli to the giver and receiver. Butterfly strap-ons are designed to stimulate the giver's clitoris, and oftentimes they come with double-dildos for extra pleasure. You can find butterfly strap-ons with or without vibration.

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