9 Best Sex Toys For Women

Choosing the best sex toy for women was no easy feat, as we are all unique! However, after a lot of consideration I chose the We-Vibe Tango X because I really think it has something to offer most people! It’s got some of the best vibrations I’ve experienced in a smaller toy, it’s super versatile, and it’s affordable! I actually waited a long time to get my hands on the We-Vibe Tango X, but I’m so happy I finally got one! Rachel reviewed it for us, and it’s still her all time favorite sex toy to this date! My absolute favorite thing about the Tango X is it’s incredibly rumbly vibrations. On the lowest setting, it feels almost like a tapping more than a vibration and it doesn’t gets buzzy or numbing, like many other small vibes do. Rachel really loved how the lipstick shaped tip “allows for incredibly precise stimulation on the point, while the flat side of the tip is great for broader massaging.” She was also a big fan of the ABS plastic, as it “feels so smooth, never drags on the skin (even when you’re not using lube), and allows you to get really firm with your stimulation.” I also enjoy the sensation but found it made it slide around more, especially during partnered use, making it hard to direct the pinpoint stimulation. Rachel loves the We-Vibe Tango X so much it’s her go to for both partnered and solo sex! I find myself reaching for mine when I want something easier and smaller than a wand!

I gave the Satisfyer Pro 2 Next Generation the runner up spot as it’s a fantastic clitoral suction toy with a lot of versatility. It’s also a fair bit cheaper than the clit suckers while still delivering some quality stimulation! Not to mention our tester, Rachel, was blown away by it, commenting “The new Satisfyer Pro 2 Generation 3 hits all of the marks for me, and has given me some absolutely spectacular orgasms!” You might recognise this toy, as it’s previous version has become a somewhat iconic female sex toy, but this new version has some really great upgrades! The first is the ‘liquid air technology,’ which is a thin silicone cover that can sit over the mouth, creating a fluttering feeling. Rachel, loved this addition and thought it “might actually be among the closest sensations to oral sex that a toy can produce.” She loved how it felt “like a soft, fluttering tongue that you can tease your clitoris with or press down for satisfyingly firm pressure.” Unlike the original, it also has vibrations. Rachel found them “pretty buzzy” but I like that you can control them separately, so if buzzy vibrations aren’t your thing you can just enjoy the suction stimulation! Another great upgrade is the addition of the app controls! Rachel tried it out and found it was “very easy to connect” and she “didn’t experience the toy disconnecting at all,” which for a lower price toy is very impressive!

If I was starting my sex toy adventure all over again, I think the Maude Vibe would be the best introduction! It’s simple and non-intimidating whilst also being high-quality and beautiful to look at! It’s also a steal at under $50! Our tester Oli thought the “Maude Vibe finds the perfect mix between basic controls and pleasure, offering an awesome vibrator for beginners.” The Maude only has three set speeds, but in my opinion, this simplicity is exactly what you want in a starter toy! When testing the toy, Oli found the “first setting is too mild” but once she tried the second and third levels, she “was surprised by their strength!” Having a very gentle first speed is great for beginners that might be more sensitive! She also enjoy “the softness of the silicone covering over the firmness of the toy itself,” making it very comfortable to use. 

I picked the Lovehoney Mon Ami G-Spot Massager as the best budget-friendly sex toy for women because I think this is a fantastic option for anyone looking for an affordable, beginner-friendly vibrator that doesn’t compromise on performance. What I love most about it is its simplicity and versatility—the slim shaft makes insertion comfortable, while the pronounced head is perfect for G-spot stimulation. Plus, its slightly flattened tip doubles as a clitoral stimulator, making it a great all-in-one toy. Our tester Megan was seriously impressed with how well it performed. She raved about the vibrations, saying, “Within less than 5 minutes and a tiny bit of clit stim, I was done. Seriously! I’ve tried it a few more times to see if it was a fluke and got the exact same results.” She also loved how quiet it was, even at higher settings. At its price point, the Mon Ami is an incredible value. While it might not have the luxury feel or extreme power of some high-end toys I’ve included in this post, it’s a reliable, versatile vibrator that delivers where it counts. I think this is a wonderful choice for beginners or anyone looking for a simple, effective toy.

You might be thinking I’m mad picking a hunk of metal as the best dildo for women, and I too was a little wary when I first got mine. But OH BOY that was soon replaced with wonder! This amazing steel dildo helped me unlock g-spot pleasure like never before! And I’m not alone in that, this dildo is a cult classic has become known as the squirting dildo, and for good reason! The weight and curve of the Pure mean it nestles into the G-spot, providing a deep massage without needing to use a lot of effort. You can massage in circles or rock it back and forth and it just feels heavenly! G-spot vibrations never did it for me but this certainly did! I was also surprised by how much I enjoyed the stainless steel. It’s so smooth and slides beautifully, and I love that it can be heated or cooled.

It took everything in my power not to put this as the test winner. From a very subjective point of view, I think the Doxy Die Cast is the greatest sex toy of all time. If I could have only one sex toy, this would be it without a doubt. The reason I didn’t put it as the test winner is that, being the most powerful wand vibrator there is, it’s just going to be too powerful for most women! On the lowest setting, it rumbles unlike anything I’ve ever felt before and on the highest, it’s powerful enough to blast me through the back wall. If you want to be a sub to a sex toy, this is the one to go for! It’s definitely got BDE (big Dom energy). The weighted head really does make for some seriously rumbly vibrations. All that power does come at a price though! This thing is loud! I personally don’t find it distracting during use. Trust me, you won’t be thinking about that! However, I wouldn’t want to use it with other people in the house. I’m pretty sure my neighbours can hear it through the walls. I just pray they think I’ve gotten really into late night DIY! It’s also heavy! I don’t mind the weight, and actually enjoy it, but it’s worth keeping in mind, especially if you have any mobility issues. I will also add that this is my go to for partner play as it’s super easy for my partner to use the broad head on me and we’ve even used it on him as well!

The Lovense Lush 3 has earned a place in the sex toy hall of fame, and I definitely think it deserves a spot! It’s easily one of the best app-controlled vibrators and one of the best wearable vibrators out there. Kasia reviewed it for us and “had a blast using it” and loved using it “for foreplay, teasing, and fun in general.”  She loved that “the egg itself provides powerful vibrations, and it’s very comfortable to wear and walk around with it inside.” This is great if, like me, you like to add a little pleasure to more mundane daily activities! She was also impressed that “the egg’s vibrations are very powerful but quiet simultaneously.” I’ve worn the Lush 2 out in public without any fear of being found out! The Lovense app is also a clear front-runner. Out of all the sex toy apps I’ve used, it has the best features and best connectivity! The only thing that Kasia wasn’t impressed by was the clit vibrations which were weak and hard to place.

The Lelo Dot has become a surprise favorite for me as well as being the quietest vibrator I own! I’m often wary of sex toy companies bold claims about innovative new technology which ends up being the same old same old. However, this oscillator from Lelo truly feels amazing! For me, the magic is in the tip being made of soft, flexible silicone rather than the more rigid tips in other similar toys, like the Zumio S. It creates such a lovely flickering sensation that’s a really nice change from vibrations or suction. As well as being super quiet — I can’t hear it through a closed door and on the lower setting, I can barely hear it from under a duvet, it also has a discreet appearance. The teardrop shape looks very elegant and is super comfy to hold! I find myself reaching for this vibrator late at night when I don’t want to disturb the peace or when I’m craving something a little gentler but still deeply satifying!

Couples vibrators are such a fantastic invention for women, like myself, who crave hands-free clitoral stimulation during penetrative sex and the We-Vibe Sync 2 delivers the function, design and price! Kasia found it came with a small learning curve but it was worth it, writing “once I found the right position I was obsessed with it!” She was impressed by it’s versatility, commenting that it’s “a great toy not only for penetrative sex but also for solo action, public play, hands-free shower fun and so much more.” One of the main concerns is whether it will stay in place, but Kasia found that “the shape makes it stay even with more intense thrusting motions.” Having tested the We-Vibe Chorus, which has the same design, myself, I can attest to this! Kasia enjoyed the vibrations of the Sync 2, noting that they “aren’t overly powerful, but they are the perfect balance of rumbly and buzzy” which was just right for her. Another big pro about the Sync is that it comes with both a physical remote and app controls. Personally, I don’t like using phones in the bedroom, so I like that it comes with the option of a physical remote too! Kasia also isn’t the biggest fan of apps but found that “sometimes it can be really fun” and was so impressed she “would rate their app at 100/100. “