11 of the Best Sex Toys for Beginners

   Isabelle Uren
Today I’m bringing you all of the best sex toys for beginners of every type! I was too a beginner once, and made some crucial mistakes I’d like to help you avoid. To make it super easy, I’ve curated a list of the best beginner toys in every sex toy category. I’ve done this together with the Bedbible tester team, and we’ve had our hands of hundreds of different toys to decide on the right ones for this list.
Clit Vibrator

Dame Pom

Clit Vibrator

Dame Pom

  • Smooth, soft, and flexible
  • Ergonomic shape is easy to hold
  • Versatile shape

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Clit Sucker

Satisfyer Pro 2

Clit Sucker

Satisfyer Pro 2

  • Large mouth with soft silicone
  • Good range of intensities
  • Easy to use

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Couples

We-Vibe Chorus

Couples

We-Vibe Chorus

  • Strong rumbly vibrations
  • Stimulation for both partners
  • Hands-free clit stimulation during sex

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Bullet Vibrator

We-Vibe Tango X

Bullet Vibrator
We-Vibe Tango X Bullet Vibrator

We-Vibe Tango X

  • Simple, discreet design
  • Silky soft silicone
  • Rechargeable

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Fleshlight

Fleshlight Go Surge

Fleshlight

Fleshlight Go Surge

  • Compact model is great for travel
  • Two different textural sensations
  • Adjustable suction

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Dildo

Tantus Charmer

Dildo
Tantus Charmer

Tantus Charmer

  • High-quality silicone
  • Ridges add extra stimulation
  • Curved for g-/p-spot stimulation

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G-Spot

Satisfyer Yummy Sunshine

G-Spot

Satisfyer Yummy Sunshine

  • Loop handle for comfortable use
  • Gently curved for g-spot stimulation
  • Buttons are textured and glow when pressed making them easier to find

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Finger Vibrator

Dame Fin

Finger Vibrator

Dame Fin

  • Intuitive to use
  • Great to use on a partner
  • Choose between pointy side and flat side

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Masturbator

Tenga Egg New Standard Pack

Masturbator

Tenga Egg New Standard Pack

  • 6 different textures to try
  • Will stretch to envelope your whole shaft
  • Great for travel and on-the-go fun

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Butt Plug

njoy Pure Plug

Butt Plug
Njoy Pure Plug Feature Image

njoy Pure Plug

  • Beautifully made
  • Compatible with all lubes
  • Smooth insertion

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Vibrating Butt Plug

Lovehoney Butt Tingler

Vibrating Butt Plug

Lovehoney Butt Tingler

  • Slim size is perfect for beginners
  • Tapered end for easy insertion
  • Smooth silicone

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1 Clit Vibrator

Dame Pom

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 Dame Pom

  • want a vibrator for external use
  • prefer gentle to moderate stimulation
  • love soft, flexible silicone
  • are looking for a discret toy

Dame Pom

  • prefer rigid materials
  • need very precise pinpoint stimulation
  • crave a lot of power

The Pom from Dame is a soft squishy vibrator that hugs your body while delivering 10 modes of pleasurable vibrations wherever you choose to use it! 5 intensites and 5 different patterns. The pebble-shaped vibrator can be laid flat for broad stimulation or you can use the tip for more precise stimulation exactly where you want it. Plus the small peak on the underside is perfectly for nestling against your clitoris! Intuitive to use, waterproof and easy to clean, this makes a great vibrator for beginners.

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  • Smooth, soft, and flexible
  • Ergonomic shape is easy to hold
  • Versatile shape
  • Waterproof

  • Easy to accidentally change settings during use
  • Not powerful enough for some
  • On/off button a little stiff
  • Short battery life
Dame Pom
Vibration speeds5
Vibration patterns5
Length3.25 inches
Width2.2 inches
WaterproofWaterproof
MaterialsSilicone
RechargeableYes
Battery Life60 minutes
Charging Time120 minutes
Travel LockYes

The Dame Pom ticks all the boxes for an amazing sex toy for beginners, which is exactly why I chose it as today’s test winner! Firstly, it is very easy to use — both the buttons and the shape are intuitive to use. Secondly, it’s soft and flexible and will flex to your body, making it comfortable to use. Lastly, it’s made from body-safe materials that are easy to take care of. I also love that you can use it for all kinds of external stimulation and the little peak is just perfect for nestling over your clitoris. My only real critique of the design is that it can be easy to accidentally change the settings during use. This is a little expensive for a first time toy, but if you are looking for an external vibrator, I would say it’s worth the investment. You can also keep an eye out for a sale!  

2 Clit Sucker

Satisfyer Pro 2 Next Generation

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 Satisfyer Pro 2

  • Want to try a clit sucker
  • Find vibrators irritating or numbing
  • Want to explore new sensations

Satisfyer Pro 2

  • Need a very quiet sex toy
  • Prefer a smaller, more precise suction mouth

The Satisfyer Pro 2 is one of the most popular sex toys of all time! This powerfully pleasing and affordable clit sucker is the perfect choice for clitoris owners looking to buy a first-time suction toy. This suction toy provides intense stimulation without directly touching the clitoris, so you are less likely to experience the tingly numbness some people get with vibrations. The wide mouth has a thick silicone rim, making it comfortable to use and it can be removed and replaced, making it easy to clean. You get 11 intensities to choose from, so you can enjoy slow and sensual stimulation or turn it up for more intense power!  

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  • Large mouth with soft silicone
  • Good range of intensities
  • Easy to use
  • Can remove/replace silicone mouth

  • Gets loud on the higher settings
  • Design feels a little bulky
  • Not as powerful as other clit suckers
  • Short battery life
Satisfyer Pro 2
Clitoral suction11 modes
Length6.5 inches
Width1.5 inches
MaterialsABS plastic, silicone
WaterproofYes
Battery Life30 minutes
Charging Time90 minutes
Travel LockNo
Storage Bag IncludedNo

There’s a reason this sex toy is so popular! This really is the best clit sucker for beginners in my humble opinion! It allows you to experience the delicious sensations of clit suckers without being overwhelmingly powerful or breaking the bank. It’s also super simple to use and clean. It is however a little noisy on the higher settings, which is something to bear in mind if you live with other people. It is however waterproof, so you could use it in the shower for more discretion!  

3 Couples

We-Vibe Chorus

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 We-Vibe Chorus

  • want a sex toy to use during penetrative sex
  • struggle to orgasm from penetration
  • love dual clit and g-spot stimulation
  • love rumbly vibrations

We-Vibe Chorus

  • are looking for a toy for solo play
  • want reliable long-distance connection

The We-Vibe Chorus is a revelation for penis-in-vagina (PIV) sex. This C-shaped has two powerful, rumbly motors that can be controlled on the toy, in the app or using the remote control. The first motor is in the external arm, which provides intense clitoral stimulation for the wearer and the second is in the internal arm which stimulates the wearer’s g-spot and their partner’s penis at the same time! The adjustable neck in the middle of the toy bends to fit your body, so you can enjoy all of this amazing stimulation hands-free! You can also connect the Chorus to app for greater customisation or long-distance play.  

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  • Strong rumbly vibrations
  • Stimulation for both partners
  • Hands-free clit stimulation during sex
  • Squeeze activated remote
  • Discreet charging dock/storage case
  • Adjustable angles

  • App connection not reliable
We-Vibe Chorus
Vibration modes10 + more in app
Length3.5 inches
Insertable length3 inches
WaterproofYes
MaterialsSilicone
RechargeableYes
Battery Life90 minutes
Charging Time120 minutes
Remote ControlsYes — physical + app
Travel LockYes
Storage Bag IncludedCharging/storage case

I absolutely love the We-Vibe Chorus and think it makes an amazing couples vibrator toy for beginners and more advanced users alike. As someone who needs clitoral stimulation to have reliable orgasms during penetrative sex, this was a real game-changer! It’s easy to get into position and stays in place and I really like that it comes with a physical remote so you don’t have to use your phone during sex if you don’t want to! It’s also fun that you can squeeze the remote for an extra boost of power to tip you over into an orgasm. The vibrations are powerful and rumbly and everything you could want and the silicone is velvety soft! I personally didn’t have much luck with the app and found it unreliable, but I haven’t tried it recently so it might be more stable now.  

4 Bullet Vibrator

We-Vibe Tango X

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 We-Vibe Tango X

  • prefer simplicity
  • want a vibrator for external use
  • enjoy pinpoint stimulation
  • aren't bothered about patterns

We-Vibe Tango X

  • want to explore patterns
  • need a submersible vibrator
  • have a very sensitive clitoris

This We-Vibe vibrator is a simple but stylish vibrator that looks like a minimalistic sculpture! The teardrop shape means you can enjoy pinpoint stimulation using the tip or broad stimulation by laying it flat against your body. The single-button controls make it easy to switch between the three different vibration intensities. The whole thing is covered in deliciously smooth silicone that feels fantastic against your body with a slick lube!

  • Simple, discreet design
  • Silky soft silicone
  • Rechargeable
  • Easy to use
  • Incredibly rumbly vibrations
  • Lipstick-style shape for precision stimulation

  • A little loud
  • Battery runs out quickly
  • Limited vibration modes
  • No internal stimulation
We-Vibe Tango X
Vibration speeds8
Vibration patterns7
Length3.9 inches
Diameter0.9 inches
WaterproofYes
Battery Life120 minutes
RechargeableYes
Charging Time90 minutes
MaterialsSilicone/ABS Plastic
Travel LockYes
Storage Bag IncludedYes

I’m so hyped about the We-Vibe Tango! It is by far one of the best vibratos (overall) I’ve ever tried. It’s a super simple bullet vibrator which is what makes it so perfect for beginners. It is one of the smaller toys on the list, at least compared to most other vibrators. That can make it a little difficult to find the exact right spot. Overall though it’s super rumbly and a fantastic place to start your sex toy journey.

5 Fleshlight

Fleshlight Go Surge Realistic Vagina Masturbator

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 Fleshlight Go Surge

  • want a compact masturbator
  • enjoy realistic masturbators
  • want a travel-friendly sex toy
  • Enjoy the use of strokers
  • Are looking for a cheaper toy
  • Are looking for something smaller and easier to store

Fleshlight Go Surge

  • have a penis that's longer than 7 inches erect
  • prefer an anal sex toy
  • want more varied textures
  • Are looking for a full-sized Fleshlight
  • Want something less tight

Good things come in small(er) packages is most certainly true where the Fleshlight Go Surge is concerned. You get all the pleasure of a full size Fleshlight, just in a smaller, compact model. The realistic vulva leads to a delightfully soft sleeve that’s laced with textures that add intense stimulation with each thrust. This sleeve features three texture canals with pleasurable nubs and cross-hatch textures. Plus, you can adjust the suction intensity by tightening or loosening the cap at the end of the case.  

  • Compact model is great for travel
  • Two different textural sensations
  • Adjustable suction
  • Hard, discreet case
  • Suction is adjustable
  • Easier to use due to being smaller
  • Easier to store
  • Cheaper than regular Fleshlights

  • Compact size might not fit larger penises
  • Requires thorough cleaning and drying
  • Could be a little bit too tight for some
  • Plain looking orifice entrance
  • Unrealistic skin tone
Fleshlight Go Surge
Length8.5 inches
Insertable length7 inches
Diameter (internal)0.5 inches
AdjustableYes
MaterialsTPR, TPE, ABS Plastic
WaterproofYes
Storage Bag IncludedComes with a Case and Cap
Colors AvailableBlack (Case); Rose (Sleeve)

The smaller size and cheaper price of this compact model makes the Fleshlight Go Surge a perfect masturbator for beginners or just smaller-sized penises. The medium intensity texture is exciting without being overwhelming and the discreet flashlight-style case is great if you live with other people or for travel! The compact size might not be big enough to accommodate larger-than-average penises, in which case, you are betting off going for a full-size Fleshlight. The inner sleeve material is lovely and soft and feels amazing when combined with some lube but you have to will to clean and dry it thoroughly after each use to prevent it from getting nasty! Here’s how to clean your Fleshlight.   

6 Dildo

Tantus Charmer

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 Tantus Charmer

  • enjoy firm but flexible silicone
  • want a dildo for anal or vaginal use
  • have a little experience with penetrative sex

Tantus Charmer

  • want a very soft, squishy dildo
  • need a suction cup base
  • prefer a smooth shaft

The Tantus Charmer will certainly charm your sweet spots with its rippling shaft and top-quality silicone! The 6.5 inch insertable shaft has a slight curve and four ridges to massage you g-spot or p-spot with each thrust. This dildo is anal and vaginal safe and can be slipped inside a harness for all kinds of strap-on play!

  • High-quality silicone
  • Ridges add extra stimulation
  • Curved for g-/p-spot stimulation
  • Suitable for anal or vaginal use
  • O-ring harness compatible

  • Wide tip won't suit everyone
  • No suction cup base
Tantus Charmer
Length7 inches
Insertable length6.5 inches
Diameter1.1 inches
WaterproofYes
MaterialsSilicone

I love both the look and feel of the Tantus Charmer! At just 1.1 inches in diameter, it makes a great dildo for beginners. The silicone is soft and has a glossy finish, making it glide effortlessly with a slick of lube. I personally prefer the shape as anal dildo, but if it’s your first time exploring anal penetration, I would recommend using a finger or two to warm up first! The only thing that would make the Charmer even more charming would be the addition of a suction cup base!  

7 G-Spot

Satisfyer Yummy Sunshine G-spot Vibrator

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 Satisfyer Yummy Sunshine

  • enjoy g-spot stimulation
  • prefer flexible shafts
  • have some experience with penetration
  • You want something that is solely for internal stimulation
  • Are looking for a heftier toy
  • Like the idea of deep rugged, waves for internal stimulation
  • Prefer buzzy vibrations

Satisfyer Yummy Sunshine

  • are sensitive to vibrations in your hand
  • need very intense, rumbly vibrations
  • are looking for dual stimulation
  • Don't like the idea of only internal stimulation
  • Would prefer a toy that is soft and squishy
  • Need a toy that is more on the quiet side

Get those yummy sunshine vibes all year round with the Satisfyer Yummy Sunshine G-spot Vibrator. With 12 vibration modes to explore, the Yummy Sunshine is great for internal or external stimulation. The gentle curve and ripples of this beautifully flexible shaft are perfect for treating your g-spot to some intense pleasure! Plus, the Yummy Sunshine is waterproof, so you can use it in the bath or shower!  

  • Loop handle for comfortable use
  • Gently curved for g-spot stimulation
  • Buttons are textured and glow when pressed making them easier to find
  • Deep wave-like ridges for more complex internal stimulation
  • Made with body safe materials
  • Rechargeable
  • Waterproof

  • Difficult to position clitoral stimulation bump
  • Vibrations can be felt in the handle
  • Controls feel limited
  • On the pricier side for its limited features
  • Magnetic charger likes to disconnect mid-charge
Satisfyer Yummy Sunshine
Vibration modes12
Length8.9 inches
Diameter1.7 inches
Weight0.6 lbs
MaterialsSilicone, ABS Plastic
WaterproofYes, IPX7 waterproof
Battery Life50 minutes
RechargeableYes
Charging Time210 minutes
Travel LockNo
Storage Bag IncludedNo
Colors AvailableYellow

This is a wonderful vibrator for beginners, especially if you are looking for a g-spot vibrator. The combination of the curved shaft and vibrations, makes it easy to find and stimulate your g-spot. The ergonomic loop handle is also a really nice feature! The shaft is very flexible making comfortable to press against your g-spot. For some it might be a bit tricky to enjoy the clitorial stimulation at the same time as the shaft is pretty long. The shaft get’s a little thicker towards the base, so you might need to work up to inserting the whole thing if you are totally new to penetration.  

8 Finger Vibrator

Dame Fin

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 Dame Fin

  • want an vibrator for solo or partnered play
  • prefer buzzy vibrations

Dame Fin

  • need intense, rumbly vibrations
  • need a quiet vibrator
  • want to explore vibration patterns

Slip the Dame Fin over your finger and let your hands wander! The Fin features one side with soft, squishy silicone for more gentle, broad stimulation and a side with a more rigid point for pinpoint stimulation. Perfect to explore angles, positions and pinpoint stimulation. You can also choose to use the silicone tether to secure it to your fingers or simply use the finger handle on the back to hold the Fin in place as you explore your or your partner’s body. This intimate, intuitive finger vibrator has three speeds to choose from and is USB rechargeable.

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  • Intuitive to use
  • Great to use on a partner
  • Choose between pointy side and flat side
  • Use with or without the finger tether

  • Vibrations are quite buzzy
  • Gets loud on the higher settings
  • Not submersible
  • No patterns
  • Not a lot of difference between soft and pointy side
Dame Fin
Vibration speeds3
Length2.75 inches
Width1 inches
WaterproofSplashproof
MaterialsMedical Grade Silicone, ABS
RechargeableYes
Battery Life90 minutes
Charging Time120 minutes
Storage Bag IncludedYes

The Fin makes a great addition to solo or couples play and the cute, approachable design makes it an ideal candidate for a vibrator for beginners. Another reason I think this is one of the best sex toys for beginners is it is so intuitive to use on yourself or a partner — you can use your hands or fingers as you would usually just with the added power of vibration! The shape is great for using on all areas of the body and all types of genitals, but there’s not a lot of difference in sensation between the squishy side and pointy side. The vibrations do tend towards the more buzzy end of the spectrum but they are powerful and still pleasant, especially if you enjoy more buzzy, surface stimulation. It does get loud on the highest settings so keep that in mind if you need a discreet vibrator.

9 Masturbator

Tenga Egg New Standard Pack

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 Tenga Egg New Standard Pack

  • want to try masturbators for the first time
  • don't mind single-use sleeves
  • are on a budget
  • want a fun gift for a partner
  • want a travel-friendly masturbator

Tenga Egg New Standard Pack

  • would rather invest in a reusable masturbator
  • prefer something with a realistic design

Make masturbation egg-citing again with the Tenga Egg New Standard Pack! The ideal male masturbator for beginners. These masturbation eggs reveal a soft and stretchy TPE sleeve with a delicious internal texture. Lube it up and use it as a stroker for an incredibly enhanced handjob! As the sleeve stretches over the shaft with every stroke it envelops your shaft and teases it from base to tip with teasing textures. Plus, each egg has a different internal texture to discover! Now these eggs are made for single use, so clean-up is a breeze since you just have to chuck it out when you’re done! They’re super compact, lightweight, and easily portable, making them great to throw in your bag for some fun wherever you go!

  • 6 different textures to try
  • Will stretch to envelope your whole shaft
  • Great for travel and on-the-go fun
  • Affordable
  • Very discreet and easy storage

  • Only single use
Tenga Egg New Standard Pack
LengthUnstreched: 2.4 inches
Insertable lengthStretches up to 7.8 inches
DiameterUnstretched: 1.9 inches
TextureIncludes WAVY II, BOXY, BRUSH, TORNADO, SPHERE, and SILKY II
MaterialsSleeve: TPE, Packaging: Polyproplyene, Polyethylene
WaterproofYes
Storage Bag IncludedComes with individual shells and egg carton box

I think masturbation eggs make a great introduction to masturbators as you can try out different textures before committing to a full masturbator sleeve. They also make a great gift for a partner or an an exciting addition to a handjob! Our tester really enjoyed the Tenga Egg New Standard Pack! He liked being able to try out a bunch of different textures and designs within the same product, as well as how compact and portable these babies are! Of course, you do have to consider whether or not you’re looking for a reusable masturbator or if you’re fine with experimenting with these first. I definitely think they’re very approachable for first-timers! The TPE is very stretchy so will fit most penis sizes but can tear if you are very vigorous with it. Of course, this is where the disposable aspect is pretty practical. If you do enjoy these sensations, TENGA makes some really great reusable masturbators too, like the Tenga Spinner and the Tenga Flex Silky White.

10 Butt Plug

njoy Pure Plug Small

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 njoy Pure Plug

  • prefer a rigid butt plug
  • want to be able to use silicone lube

njoy Pure Plug

  • prefer something soft and squishy
  • are completely new to anal play

This sleek silver butt plug from njoy features a bulbed tip that provides a satisfying feeling fullness whether you enjoy it alone or during sex. Made from pure stainless steel, this plug has a pleasant weightiness and it is compatible with all lubes. Plus, you can gently warm the plug before insertion for a more sensual, relaxing feel or even cool it for some tingly fun. The base features a loop handle making it easy to insert, move during use, and remove.  

  • Beautifully made
  • Compatible with all lubes
  • Smooth insertion
  • Can be warmed or cooled before use
  • Loop handle for easy insertion/removal

  • End is not that tapered
  • May be too weighted for some
njoy Pure Plug
Length2.75 inches
Insertable length2.25 inches
Diameter1 inches
MaterialsStainless Steel
WaterproofYes
Weight0,43 lbs
Storage Bag IncludedPresentation box

While you might not instantly think of stainless steel as a beginner sex toy material, it actually has a lot of benefits. It’s incredibly smooth, which makes insertion much easier and you can use silicone lube, which has more slip than water-based lube. The handle also makes it very easy to manoeuvre. The added weight also creates a sensation of fullness without the bulb being too big. This is great for anyone has dipped their toes into anal play with some anal fingering and is ready to take it up a level with some anal toys. The price is quite high but this metal butt plug will last a lifetime with the correct care!  

11 Vibrating Butt Plug

Lovehoney Butt Tingler

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 Lovehoney Butt Tingler

  • are new to anal play
  • want a slim, vibrating anal plug
  • prefer a removable bullet vibrator

Lovehoney Butt Tingler

  • crave intense vibrations
  • are looking for a rechargeable vibrating butt plug

Discover the sweet sensation of anal vibration with the Butt Tingler. Featuring a tapered tip for easy insertion and 10 function bullet vibrator, this vibrating butt plug is a pleasurable addition to solo or partner play. The T-bar base sits comfortably between your cheeks and keeps the plug safely anchored outside your body. And, the whole thing is waterproof so you can slip it in before you slip into the shower.  

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  • Slim size is perfect for beginners
  • Tapered end for easy insertion
  • Smooth silicone
  • Use with or without bullet vibrator

  • Vibrations are quite mild
  • Battery powered
Lovehoney Butt Tingler
Vibration speeds3
Vibration patterns7
Length5 inches
Vibration modes3.5
Diameter1.1 inches
WaterproofYes
MaterialsSilicone, ABS Plastic
RechargeableNo (1 x AAA battery)

This is a super approachable anal toy and makes for a fantastic first time vibrating butt plug. The size is manageable even for beginners and the vibration is pleasant without being overwhelmingly intense. I also like that you can use the plug with or without the bullet vibrator giving you more ways to play for your money. The only downside of this vibrating butt plug is that it’s battery powered, so you’ll have to stock up on batteries!  

The Essential Tool (Lube) with Any Sex Toy for Beginners

Hopefully you’ve found your perfect sex toy for beginners and are excited to get your hands on it and try it out, but before you get started, you are going to want some lube! Lube is essential for a pleasurable experience allows your sex toy to glide over your chosen sex toy to glide over the sensitive skin in your intimate areas without any friction. It’s especially important if you are using an anal toy as the anus does not produce any of it’s own lubrication. You might be tempted to go rogue and make your own lube with stuff you have at home, but that’s a really bad idea! Not only can these things be harsh or damaging to your most sensitive areas, they can also damage your sex toys. Here are some things to avoid:

  • Oils — coconut, olive, any cooking oil
  • Vaseline or any similar products
  • Yoghurt
To keep both you and your sex toys safe and happy, choose a purpose-made lubricant for sex. Here are my top picks:

Sliquid H2O Original Water-Based Lubricant

Sliquid H2O Original Water-Based Lubricant - The Essential Tool (Lube) with Any Sex Toy for Beginners
Sliquid’s water-based lube is a fantastic lube to use during foreplay, vaginal sex and with all kinds of sex toys. It is hypoallergenic, non-toxic, and glycerin-free, making a great choice for anyone with a sensitive vulva. Check out our full review of Sliquid H2O to see what our tester thought of it!  

Lovehoney Discover Water-Based Anal Lubricant 3.4 fl oz

Lovehoney Discover Water-Based Anal Lubricant 3.4 fl oz - The Essential Tool (Lube) with Any Sex Toy for Beginners
If you are using an anal toy or want a lube for anal sex, a thicker water-based lubrication, like this one from Lovehoney, is a better option. The thickness provides better prevention against friction and will mean you need to reapply lube less often! It’s also safe with all sex toy materials.  

Sliquid Organics Natural Silk Hybrid Lubricant 4.2 fl oz

Sliquid Organics Natural Silk Hybrid Lubricant 4.2 fl oz - The Essential Tool (Lube) with Any Sex Toy for Beginners
If you want even longer lasting slippery sensations, a hybrid lube, like the Sliquid Organics Silk, is a great option. It is mostly water-based, making it condom and sex toy compatible but it has a small amount of silicone for added slip!  

How Much Should You Spend on Your First Sex Toy?

You should never spend more than $200 on sex toys as a beginner, start by buying just 1 good quality toy. The worst thing you can do as a beginner is go for a whole bunch of sex toys at once, or buy a very cheap product. You will likely have a bad experience and ruin your future relationship. I can’t give an exact amount. So the exact answer to this very good question of course depends on the type of toy and your budget. It can be a good idea to opt for a more affordable sex toy in the beginning, as you can never really be sure you will like the sensation the toy provides. That being said, it does pay to spend a good amount to get a safe sex toy that’s made of body-safe materials. If you are buying a vibrator, you might also want to avoid very cheap options as they tend to have low-quality vibrations that will leave you feeling unsatisfied. Here are my tips for buying your first sex toy without breaking the bank:

Look for sex toys made from safe materials

Look for sex toys made from safe materials - How Much Should You Spend on Your First Sex Toy?
Anything you put inside your body should be non-toxic and non-porous, meaning there are no microscopic holes for mold or bacteria to grow in. These materials are all body-safe:
  • Silicone
  • Borosilicate glass
  • Metal, such as steel or aluminium
  • ABS plastic
Most of these materials can be found relatively cheaply, especially silicone, ABS plastic, and glass Sex toy materials to avoid:
  • PVC
  • Jelly
  • Rubber
  • Soft plastic
  • Silicone blends
TPE/TPR is non-toxic but it is porous. This type of material is generally considered safe for external toys, such as masturbators, but not for internal toys as bacteria can grow in the microscopic holes.  

Check deals on sex toy websites

Check deals on sex toy websites - How Much Should You Spend on Your First Sex Toy?
Popular sex toy stores, such as Lovehoney, SheVibe and HustlerHollywood often have discounts to celebrate special holidays or at different points throughout the year. These are a great opportunity to get more for your money!

Consider what's most important to you and prioritise that

Consider what's most important to you and prioritise that - How Much Should You Spend on Your First Sex Toy?
Everyone has different priorities when it comes to sex toys so think about what’s most important to you. Is it that it has especially strong vibrations, how it looks or that it’s made from a specific material?

Read reviews before committing

Read reviews before committing - How Much Should You Spend on Your First Sex Toy?
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What Type of Sex Toy a Beginner Should Choose

In almost all cases I would advise all beginners to choose a simple vibrator as their first toy. But, to help you decide, allow me to explain a bit more. The sheer number of different types of sex toys can be overwhelming when looking for a sex toys as a beginner. Here are some of the types of toys you can consider, and what they are good for:
  • Internal vibrators can be used vaginally, while only ones with flared bases are anal-safe. You can also use internal vibrators externally! G-spot vibrators tend to be curved to make it easy to stimulate the front wall of your vagina.
  • External vibrators can only be used to stimulate external areas, like the clitoris, penis, perineum, and nipples.
  • Dildos are mainly used for internal stimulation to recreate the feeling of penetrative sex. Again all dildos can be used vaginally but only flared base dildos are safe for anal use. Dildos for beginners tend to be smaller in size.
  • Anal toys should always have a flared base to prevent them travelling up inside you. Some common anal toys include butt plugs, vibrating butt plugs, anal beads, and anal dildos.
  • Cock rings lightly constrict the penis to give a firmer erection. You can also get vibrating cock rings that stimulate a partner’s clitoris during penetrative sex.
  • Bondage gear includes all types of sexual restraints for tying up/down your partner. They are great for exploring domination and submission and can be used during penetrative sex or other types of stimulation.
  • Nipple toys include nipple clamps, nipple suckers, and nipple pumps. They all work to increase nipple sensitivity but nipple suckers are the most beginner-friendly as they don’t involve any pain and are easy to use.

How to Introduce Sex Toys into the Bedroom as a First Time User

Bringing up using sex toys with a partner can be a little nerve-racking, especially if you aren’t used to these conversations, but being able to talk more openly about what you in the bedroom can be extremely beneficial for your sex life and relationship! Here are my top tips for bringing sex toys into the bedroom:

Always get consent

Always get consent - How to Introduce Sex Toys into the Bedroom as a First Time User
As with everything sex-related consent is a non-negotiable. You should never use a sex toy on someone without their full enthusiastic consent. You also shouldn’t coerce them into saying yes.

Talk to your partner when you both feel relaxed

Talk to your partner when you both feel relaxed - How to Introduce Sex Toys into the Bedroom as a First Time User
Don’t bring up the topic in the heat of the moment. Wait until you are both relaxed and in a good mood.

Reassure your partner

Reassure your partner - How to Introduce Sex Toys into the Bedroom as a First Time User
Some people can feel intimidated by sex toys or they might get the idea you aren’t satisfied with your sex life, which can make them feel sad or defensive. It can be a helpful to reassure your partner that you love them and you enjoy your sex life but you want to make it even better for both of you.

Shop for sex toys together

Shop for sex toys together - How to Introduce Sex Toys into the Bedroom as a First Time User
Get onto to Lovehoney and browse the options together to make it a collaborative activity and so you can choose something you both enjoy.

Start out simple

Start out simple - How to Introduce Sex Toys into the Bedroom as a First Time User
Choose something easy to use, like a magic wand vibrator, masturbator, or cock ring to start off with and get used to using toys with each other.

Set and respect boundaries

Set and respect boundaries - How to Introduce Sex Toys into the Bedroom as a First Time User
You will need to clearly communicate your boundaries before using sex toys. For example: “I would love to use the dildo for vaginal penetration but anal is off limits.”

Take it slowly and communicate clearly

Take it slowly and communicate clearly - How to Introduce Sex Toys into the Bedroom as a First Time User
When you do get your new sex toy, start out gently with it as you learn what feels good for each of you. You will also need to guide your partner on what feels good. What pressure should they use, are they holding it in the right place, what speed feels good, etc. You can also use the traffic light system to get feedback from your partner. Green means this feels great, keep going, yellow means you are getting close to a limit so proceed with caution, and red means stop.

Accept that things go wrong sometimes

Accept that things go wrong sometimes - How to Introduce Sex Toys into the Bedroom as a First Time User
Sex is unpredictable and might not always go according to plan. If something doesn’t work for you, being able to laugh it off together is a great skill!

How to use a sex toy for beginners

   

How to clean

FAQ

This really depends on what body part you want to stimulate but a simple vibrator is a good place to start as it is versatile and easy to use.

Water-based lube is the best option as it can be used with all sex toy materials. Silicone lube shouldn't be used with silicone toys as it can degrade the material.

All of the links in this review are for trusted sex toys stores that are beginner friendly! I can highly recommend Lovehoney and SheVibe for their great ranges of products.

What is a sex toy for beginners?

While there are no specific sex toys for beginners, a great sex toy for beginner's should be approachable, easy to use, and appropriately sized! Most people starting their sex toy journey will want a sex toy that isn't too big or intensely powerful as this can be overwhelming or even painful, so it's best to start out with something less intense and then work your way up if you enjoy it!

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