10 Best BDSM Toys

I picked the Saffron Loop paddle as the best overall spanking paddle as I think it’s a great entry level impact play tool that’s also pretty versatile! I think the red design is also really elegant! The Saffron Loop ticked all of Cassie’s spanking paddle requirements too! She was impressed “in terms of aesthetics, functionality, performance, and price.” She really enjoyed being able to explore a range of sensations from “more thuddy” to “quite sharp and more stingy” depending on the intensity of the swing. This makes it a great all-rounder that I would recommend for all tastes. As well as the actual feel of the toy, the other big win for Cassie was the exciting “volume with every smack!” I think something people don’t realize about impact play, is just how much of the sexual excitement comes the psychological thrill, and there’s nothing quite like a loud slap to get that tension building!

Now, the DOMINIX Deluxe Thick Leather Flogger takes things up a notch with its satisfying weight and thick leather falls. Compared to the spanking paddle, I would say this flogger is more suited for those who love heavy-duty impact and intense sensations. Our tester, Lea, found that it’s “a good quality leather flogger with a nice design”. The weight of it really adds to the intensity and the real leather “can be very impactful if manipulated well.” “Because of its size, it requires more distance to be able to target where one wants the impact to land on the body. I used it to flog my partner’s buttocks and I had to practice a few times before finding the right angle, but in the end we had a fun sexy time.”  I appreciate the metal ring at the base of the handle that allows you to attach your own wrist loop for added security.

Bondage tape is a severely underrated piece of BDSM gear. It’s incredibly versatile and can help you tie up any body part or create a makeshift blindfold or mouth cover in a jiffy! It’s also a great tool for creating elaborate body harness designs on any willing victim. When I tested the Ouch! Bondage Tape, I was surprised by how much I enjoyed this versatility. It’s so much easier to use than bondage rope and doesn’t require any elaborate knot tying skills. I was impressed by how well it stuck to itself while still being very easy to unravel. I love that it’s reusable and doesn’t lose its adhesive quality after a while. The width covers a larger area of skin which means that it doesn’t dig in when it gets tightened. This definitely adds to the overall comfort. My favorite part is probably the color. The pink was perfect for me! Luckily, it’s also available in black and red, if you prefer a different aesthetic. All in all, this bondage tape gives you a lot of bang for your buck and I highly recommend trying it out regardless of your experience level.

I think nipple clamps are a staple item in your BDSM arsenal. I love that they usually are pretty small and cheap. As well as the physical sensation, they look great and add to psychological element as well. All that for around $20 is a pretty good deal to me! I picked out the Sportsheets Saffron Nipple to Clit Set because it has a lot to offer for a lot of different experience levels. Since all the parts are removable, you can customize it to fit your needs. Remove the clit clamp and collar and simply use the nipple clamps, opt for only using the clit clamp and collar, or get creative and add extra BDSM gear, like cuffs or a leash! Cassie, who tested this set, pointed out that “the chain collar added an unexpectedly aesthetic touch to the whole product and made it wearable while walking and moving around.” That said, if you want that added weight from the chains to tug on the clamps, the collar is also removable! The main drawback of this set is that the clamp tips are made of PVC, which is a porous material. I always prefer to see silicone tips, especially for clit clamps, since it’s more durable and body-safe. Still, Cassie found that the clamps were incredibly comfortable and easy to use.

If you are looking for a BDSM toy to fulfil you need for speed and your need for bondage, I highly recommend the Quickie Cuffs! Rachel tested them out for us and loved they were “easy and approachable” for BDSM beginners like herself! They were the perfect fun addition to throw in her suitcase and take on vacation as they are light and “won’t set off any security alarms.” If I was looking for some fantastic handcuffs for sex on the go, these would be it! She was also pleasantly surprised that were “sturdier” and less stretchy than they look, so they still gave a good amount of restriction. Overall, the simple design was a hit, but she did “wish they had a way to attach them to other things” for more intense restraint.

Sex bed straps tend to be quite similar in design, but I picked these ones in particular because they aren’t crazy expensive and still offer great quality and comfort. I like they are basic black without any cheap-looking details and they are nicely lined. I reviewed these bed restraint for Bedbible over a year ago and this set has become a permanent fixture on my bed. I love that they are always ready to go with no messing about! There’s nothing more frustrating than getting caught up in the moment and then having to deal with the logistics of getting restraints set up! I really enjoy that its velcro cuffs are easy to get on and off and can even be detached from the restraint points. One thing I find surprisingly sexy about this kit is when my partner pulls the restraints tight to the bed. The sound of the straps tightening and feeling my wrists and ankles pulled tightly to the bed definitely add to the excitement! I would absolutely recommend this to anyone who asked me for a fun bondage set. However, if you prefer restraints with buckles instead of velcro, I would check out the Dominix Deluxe Leather Under Mattress Restraints. 

This is by far my favorite of all the Liberator items in my collection and that’s why I had to choose it as the best piece of BDSM sex furniture as well! It’s versatile, practical, and oh so luxurious! The combination of added support and quick and easy bondage is a real winner in my books! Don’t get me wrong, I love more advanced bondage with buckles and locks, but being able to tied up and held by the comfy supportive foam in a matter minutes really fulfils all my pillow princess desires! The velcro cuffs are lovely and soft and can clip into any of the restraint points for a lot of variation in positions. As well as being great being great for sex, I really love these pillows for giving/receiving oral sex as you get both the thrill of being tied down and it makes it easier on the neck if you’re the one giving. The pillows are super supportive and as the Ramp is sizeable, I would happily recommend to bodies of all sizes. I’m also a fan of ease when it comes to cleaning, and I love that I can just throw the covers in the washing machine. My only slight complaint is that I don’t think the attachment points would hold up to a huge amount of tugging a and pulling.

I chose the Sportsheets Saffron Ball Gag as the best ball gag as I think it’s made from quality materials, has a classic yet simple design, and it’s available at a really great price! Joseph tested it out for us and was really impressed by the overall quality! He had “zero complaints about the quality of the straps” and commented that the “silicone feels soft and has a nice weight to it.” When using it with his partner, he “enjoyed how this added to [their] dynamic” and how it helped him “sink into submission!”. Joseph also commented on how easy it is to clean, and as a sex toy expert, I will only ever use silicone gags for this reason alone! I would say this is a gag is relatively beginner friendly, but if you are still a bit nervous, I would go for the Sportsheets Saffron Breathable Ball Gag instead.

I had the pleasure of testing the DOMINIX Deluxe Female Chastity Belt out myself and I was very impressed by it! It’s definitely more suitable for beginners who are looking to play around with the idea of chastity, and less for those lookin for a seriously impenetrable chastity belt–you can wiggle a finger in there if you try hard enough! That said, very few non-metal chastity belts will ensure full restriction. I really like the design and thought that it looked really cute with the heart-shaped cut-out in the front and very sexy with the thong-style back. The two waist straps are adjustable but they do tend to slide down a bit if it’s not tight enough. Keep in mind that it’s not the most size-inclusive product, since it only adjusts up to a 47 inch waist. The harness itself is a good quality construction and I like the fact that it’s made of real leather. Of course, this does mean that it requires a bit more maintenance and care over time, but it also means that it will last longer and have more durability than faux leather. My main point of critique is how flimsy the included padlocks are. They remind me of those small ones that came with your secret diaries as a kid! If you need something strong and reliable, I recommend replacing them with your own.

The HolyTrainer Chastity Cage is one of my best recommendations for a penis chastity cage. This BDSM toy is designed to prevent a full erection and keep you tucked nicely under lock and key for however long you or your partner wants. Aaron tested this chastity cage out for us and it was his very first experience with a full-on cage like this. He was very impressed with the overall quality and ease of use! “I can confidently say that it’s beginner-friendly. I honestly can’t find a single major thing about it that I think can or should be improved. This thing is durable, effective, and well-designed.” As far as the comfort goes, Aaron also shared that he “honestly barely feel any tension or pressure from the ring. The tube does exert and enormous amount of pressure, but in the way one would imagine before buying a chastity cage. […] I can wear it for hours already, with no issues.” And in the name of comfort, I really appreciate that it’s available in a few different sizes and colors so you’re able to find something that suits you and your size and preferences.