7 Best BDSM Toys and Equipment for Bondage Fun
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FSoG Nipple Clamps
- enjoy nipple stimulation
- are looking for some beginners clamps
- prefer adjustable clamps
FSoG Nipple Clamps
- want a more extreme pinch
- want clamps you can tug on
- prefer something weighted
- have inverted nipples when aroused
- Tweezer style clamps
- Adjustable slider
- Silicone tips
- Small beaded weights
- Easy to find the right intensity for you
- Suitable for all levels
- Comfortable to wear
- Can be fiddly to get on
- Might not fit larger nipples
FSoG Nipple Clamps | |
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Length | 3.5 inches |
Materials | Metal & silicone |
Storage Bag Included | Yes |
I think nipple clamps are a staple item in your BDSM arsenal. Only if you like nipple play of course! I love that are small and cheap. As well as the physical sensation, they look great and add to psychological element as well. All that for under $20 is a pretty good deal to me! They are also made to last. Jess reviewed for us and can confirm that she has “had them for over a year, and they are still in great condition.” She says these were the “perfect first set of nipple clamps” for her and the “tension bar is smooth and easy to adjust.” She loved that they delivered “the perfect pinch and pleasure sensation!” One last thing I love about these, from an expert point of view is that are covered in silicone tips, making them body safe and comfortable!
Sportsheets Under the Bed Restraint System
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Sportsheets Bed Restraints
- want to transform your bed into a bondage bed
- want a travel-friendly bondage kit
- need some discreet restraints
Sportsheets Bed Restraints
- want restraints with buckles
- Adjustable straps fit most mattress sizes
- Lined wrist and ankle cuffs
- Velcro fastenings
- Removable cuffs
- Quick and easy to install
- Easy to adjust
- Portable
- Strong
- Comfortable
- Might not satisfy more extreme bondage tastes
Sportsheets Bed Restraints | |
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Length | Connector strap: 60 inches; Straps 60 inches inches |
Materials | Polypropylene, polyester, nickel free metal, hook and loop, ABS plastic |
Adjustable | Fits any size mattress |
Sex bed straps tend to be quite similar in design, but I picked these ones in particular because I feel the quality of the restraints themselves are just that little bit higher. I like they are basic black without any cheap-looking details and they are nicely lined. I reviewed these bed restraint for Bedbible over a year ago and this set has become a permanent fixture on my bed. I love that they are always ready to go with no messing about! There’s nothing more frustrating than getting caught up in the moment and then having to deal with the logistics of getting restraints set up! I really enjoy that it velcro cuffs are easy to get on and off and can even be detached from the restraint points. One thing I find surprisingly sexy about this kit is when my partner pulls the restraints tight to the bed. The sound of the straps tightening and feeling my wrists and ankles pulled tightly to the bed definitely add to the excitement! I would absolutely recommend this to anyone who asked me for a fun bondage set. However, if you prefer restraints with buckles instead of velcro, I would check out the Dominix Deluxe Leather Under Mattress Restraints.
Sportsheets Saffron Loop Paddle
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Saffron Loop Paddle
- want to explore thuddy and stingy sensations
- love a loud thwack
- prefer vegan leather
Saffron Loop Paddle
- prefer real leather
- crave a very thuddy sensation
- Made from vegan leather
- Wrist loop
- Loop design creates a loud noise on impact
- Stylish design
- Wrist loop adds security
- Too big to travel with
- Not as durable as real leather
Saffron Loop Paddle | |
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Length | 17 inches |
Width | 3 inches |
Materials | Vegan PU leather |
I picked the Saffron Loop paddle as the best overall spanking paddle as I think it’s a great entry level impact play tool that’s also pretty versatile! I think the red design is also pretty cute! The Saffron Loop ticked all of Cassie’s spanking paddle requirements too! She was impressed “in terms of aesthetics, functionality, performance, and price.” She really enjoyed being able to explore a range of sensations from “more thuddy” to “quite sharp and more stingy” depending on the intensity of the swing. This makes it a great all-rounder that I would recommend for all tastes. As well as the actual feel of the toy, the other big win for Cassie was the exciting “volume with every smack!” I think something people don’t realise about impact play, is just how much of the sexual excitement comes the psychological thrill, and there’s nothing quite like a loud slap to get that tension building!
Sportsheets Saffron Flogger
Sportsheets Saffron Flogger
- want to explore impact play
- are new to floggers
- prefer vegan leather
Sportsheets Saffron Flogger
- are looking for a more heavy duty flogger
- crave a very heavy, thuddy impact
- prefer a real leather flogger
- Vegan leather
- Smooth metal handle
- Wrist loop
- Can create a range of sensations
- Fun red and black design
- Beginner-friendly
- Not for more heavy duty impact play
Sportsheets Saffron Flogger | |
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Length | Falls: 17 inches, Handle: 6 inches |
Materials | Polyurethane, nickel free metal, nylon |
I also tested the Saffron Flogger out myself and have thoroughly enjoyed using it, or should I say, having it used on me! I was impressed by how well made it is, especially considering the price. I’ve had it for over a year now and it still looks like new! The metal handle is a really nice touch but I’m glad it also has a wrist strap, otherwise it could be a little slippery! The falls are made from vegan leather, and while it’s not my favorite feeling as it can be a little rigid, they do make for a nice impact. For me, this has been a great introduction to floggers, and I would definitely recommend as a beginner-friendly flogger. It’s also great to grab in the heat of the moment for light sensation play or less serious impact play. However, with more experience I’ve found myself craving something a little heavier.
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Quickie Cuffs
- Are new to restraint play
- Want cuffs that are quick to get on
- Are looking for travel-friendly cuffs
Quickie Cuffs
- Want secure cuffs you cannot escape
- Are looking for advanced bondage gear
- Crave more intense restraint
- Want to attach them to furniture
- Stretchy silicone
- Slips over wrists
- Quick to get on/off
- Comfortable to wear
- Travel/airport-friendly
- Waterproof
- Nowhere to attach other restraints
- Only good for light bondage
- Not the sexiest design
Quickie Cuffs | |
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Materials | Silicone |
Diameter | 1.95 inches |
Waterproof | Yes |
Fastening | Slip-on |
Adjustable | No |
Storage Bag Included | No |
Colors Available | Black, Red |
If you are looking for a BDSM toy to fulfil you need for speed and your need for bondage, I highly recommend the Quickie Cuffs! Rachel tested them out for us and loved they were “easy and approachable” for BDSM beginners like herself! They were the perfect fun addition to throw in her suitcase and take on vacation as they are light and “won’t set off any security alarms.” If I was looking for some fantastic handcuffs for sex on the go, these would be it! She was also pleasantly surprised that were “sturdier” and less stretchy than they look, so they still gave a good amount of restriction. Overall, the simple design was a hit, but she did “wish they had a way to attach them to other things” for more intense restraint.
Sportsheets Saffron Ball Gag
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Sportsheets Saffron Ball Gag
- want to explore submission with gag play
- prefer a ball gag without breathing holes
- are looking for a silicone gag
- want a lockable ball gag
Sportsheets Saffron Ball Gag
- prefer a breathable ball gag
- prefer genuine leather
- Have very small mouth or jaw
- Solid silicone ball
- Adjustable vegan leather straps
- Buckle fastening
- Can be used with a padlock
- Solid silicone ball is comfortable to bit on
- Locking buckle
- Easy to use and easy to clean
- High quality materials
- May not be ideal for complete beginners
- The brand tag can feel a bit uncomfortable
Sportsheets Saffron Ball Gag | |
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Length | Total: 24 inches |
Diameter | 1.8 inches |
Materials | Silicone, PU, Nickel-free metal |
Waterproof | Yes |
Fastening | Buckle |
Storage Bag Included | Yes |
Colors Available | Black/Red |
I chose the Sportsheets Saffron Ball Gag as the best ball gag as I think it’s a great ball gag, made from quality materials at a really great price! Joseph tested it out for us and was really impressed by the overall quality! He had “zero complaints about the quality of the straps” and commented that the “silicone feels soft and has a nice weight to it.” When using it with his partner, he “enjoyed how this added to [their] dynamic” and how it helped him “sink into submission!” Joseph also commented on how easy it is to clean, and as a sex toy expert, I will only ever use silicone gags for this reason alone! I would say this is a gag is relatively beginner friendly, but if you are still a bit nervous, I would go for the Sportsheets Saffron Breathable Ball Gag instead.
Liberator Black Label Wedge Ramp Combo
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Wedge Ramp Combo
- Want to get creative with sex positions
- Enjoy some added support during sex
- Want to explore light bondage
- Need a pillow to support your whole body
Wedge Ramp Combo
- Are short on storage space
- Need heavy duty restraints
- Aren't into bondage (go for the regular set instead)
- Two sex pillows of different sizes
- 4 lined velcro cuffs and eye mask
- Multiple attachment points
- Water-resistant lining
- Doesn't collapse under body weight
- Velvet cover feels fantastic
- Machine washable
- Versatile
- Takes up a lot of storage space
- Restraints points aren't super strong
Wedge Ramp Combo | |
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Length | Wedge: 14 , Ramp: 34 inches |
Width | Wedge: 24, Ramp: 24 inches |
Height | Wedge: 7, Ramp: 12 inches |
Waterproof | Moisture resistant lining |
Materials | Polyurethane foam, nylon microfiber cover, polyester lining |
Storage Bag Included | No |
Fastening | Cuffs: Velcro, plastic clips |
This is by my favorite of all the Liberator items in my collection and that’s why I had to choose it as the best piece of BDSM sex furniture as well! It’s versatile, practical, and oh so luxurious! The combination of added support and quick and easy bondage is a real winner in my books! Don’t get me wrong, I love more advanced bondage with buckles and locks, but being able to tied up and held by the comfy supportive foam in a matter minutes really fulfils all my pillow princess desires! The velcro cuffs are lovely and soft and can clip into any of the restraint points for a lot of variation in positions. As well as being great being great for sex, I really love these pillows for giving/receiving oral sex as you get both the thrill of being tied down and it makes it easier on the neck if you’re the one giving. The pillows are super supportive and as the Ramp is sizeable, I would happily recommend to bodies of all sizes. I’m also a fan of ease when it comes to cleaning, and I love that I can just throw the covers in the washing machine. My only slight complaint is that I don’t think the attachment points would hold up to a huge amount of tugging a and pulling. The eye mask is also one of the comfiest and most effective I’ve come across. If you ever see me wearing this thing on a plane, no you didn’t, but they’ve held up well for me so far!
Where to buy the best bondage gear?
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Buying Guide for Finding the Best Bondage Gear
There’s a whole lot of bondage gear out there but not all are made equal! When stocking up your bondage supplies, it’s important to buy safe, quality gear that’s going to let you fulfil your desires, so I’ve put together some things to consider when shopping for new bondage equipment.Safety
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Function
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Restraint compatibility
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Size
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Beginner’s Tips!
Since you’re here, you’re probably already aware of what BDSM is and why some people really enjoy engaging in it. If you want to know a bit more, read our blog about basic BDSM for beginners. In this blog post, however, we will be focusing on BDSM toys and how to use them. BDSM stands for Bondage, Discipline, Sadism, and Masochism. The term more commonly refers to any type of sexual act that might be considered especially “kinky”, “rough”, or “hardcore”. BDSM activities often involve some type of sexual power play, expanding the possibilities you have to either dominate or submit to (or both!) to a special someone. BDSM toys are any kind of tool, accessory, equipment, or toy used to play around with BDSM activities and hopefully enhance the experience! Here’s our pick of the best BDSM toys to get started on your kinky journey!Don’t Be Intimidated…
Some people may initially be cautious when learning about these toys. Although, I assure you, BDSM play can also be super gentle, slow, and soft. Actually, it can be whatever you want it to be. You’re the boss. Start slow, play around, do what makes you feel good, and be willing to explore what that means to you while learning about these toys and how to use them. Before you begin using one of these toys, I would recommend getting to know it outside of the bedroom first. Touch it, examine it, test it, and explore its features – the texture, the weight, the sensation. This way, you will be much more familiar with the product before you introduce it to a sexually charged situation where one might be a bit distracted from examining a toy’s safety features…24 different types of BDSM toys
The world of BDSM toys can seem overwhleming at times. So, for any confused kinksters out there, I’m here with the ultimate guide to all the different types of BDSM toys out there! BDSM itself is a very broad term encompassing all sorts of sexual practices that involve some kind of bondage, discipline, domination, submission, sadism and masochism. Kinky sex can be practiced at many different levels of intensity and generally in many ways! These types of BDSM toys are simply creative tools that enhance these experiences. Although, the wide range of BDSM practices means that BDSM toys come in a lot of different types and styles. Each designed to cater to specific preferences and kinks. Today, we’ll delve into the different types of BDSM toys and their uses. Of course, I will also go over some basic BDSM safety tips to ensure a pleasurable and safe kinky experience.1. Bondage Rope
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2. Bondage Tape
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3. Bondage Cuffs
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4. Harnesses
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5. Hogties
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6. Spreader Bars
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7. Ball Gags
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8. Bondage Hoods and Masks
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9. Collar & Leash
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10. Arm Binders
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11. Anal Hooks
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12. Wartenberg Pinwheel
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13. Ticklers
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- Do you like ticklish yet soft and supple movements on your skin? Feather ticklers are great for this.
- Do you want something that can send cold or warm tickles down your skin? Metal ticklers are temperature responsive. Heat them up or cool them down prior to your session.
- Do you want something that feels light or heavy? Again, metal ticklers can provide some sturdy sensations, while lighter rubber or feather ticklers feel much lighter to the touch.
14. Electro-Stimulation Toys
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15. Sex Candles/Massage Candles for Wax Play
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16. Nipple Clamps
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17. Nipple Suckers
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18. BDSM Floggers
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- The force you swing with
- The weight of the flogger
- The number and width of the falls
- The materials they’re made from.
19. BDSM Whips
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20. Spanking Paddles
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21. Chastity Belts
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22. Chastity Cages/Cock Cages
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23. Speculums and Dilators
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24. CBT Toys
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- Ball Stretchers: These are devices that fit around the top of the scrotum and pull down on the testicles, creating a stretching sensation. Mostly made of materials like leather, silicone, or metal. Some designs add to the torture with added weights or spiked attachments for additional pressure and pain.
- Urethral Sounding Toys: These are long, thin rods that are inserted into the urethra. They can create a range of sensations, from a gentle stretch to a more intense feeling of fullness or penetration. Some advanced sounding practitioners can even stimulate the prostate from the urethra, if the sounding toy is long enough.
- Cock Pillories: These are devices that immobilize the penis and/or testicles, often in a stretched or exposed position. They can be great devices to keep someone in place during impact play, sensation play, or humiliation scenarios.
- Ball Crushers: These are devices that apply pressure to the testicles, often through a screw or vise mechanism. The level of pressure can be adjusted to create a range of sensations and push your sub to their limit!
- Humbler: A device that locks around the base of the scrotum and sits at the top of the thighs, forcing the wearer to keep their legs bent and their genitals exposed.
How to use BDSM Toys & bondage gear
While I can’t cover every type of BDSM toy, here are some of the most common types and how to use them to make your partner tremble with pleasure and excitement! So every piece of bondage gear is going to be used in a different way and I couldn’t possibly cover them all here but I will go over some basic guidelines to help you get started. If you want some more in depth info, check out these complete guides to using different BDSM gear we’ve put together!
- BDSM for Beginners
- Your Ultimate Guide to Kinky Sex
- How to Use Nipple Clamps
- How to Use Whips and Floggers
- 190 BDSM Punishment Ideas
- Your Ultimate Guide to Breast Bondage
- Everything You Need to Know About Wax Play
Flogger
![Flogger](https://wp.bedbible.com/wp-content/uploads/2021/12/flogger.jpg)
Floggers are great for all intensities and level of BDSM play. At the low intensity level, you can trail the flogger over your partner’s body for some tickly stroking sensations. Trailing the flogger gently over your partner’s genitals can feel incredible arousing! Moving on from that you can start with some gentle swings to flog meaty parts of the body such as the thighs, buttocks, and calves. You should never flog any bony areas or areas near organs such as the spine, chest, or kidney area.
Tickler
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Ticklers look innocent but the psychological torture can be extreme! You can use these pretty much anywhere on the body. Start with less sensitive areas to get used to the sensation and slowly move towards the more tickly spots, making sure to check in with your partner about what feels good and where to avoid.
Bondage Rope
![Bondage Rope](https://wp.bedbible.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/02/BedBible-extra-section-image-frames.jpg)
Bondage rope is extremely versatile and can be used to restrain certain limbs, like binding your partners hands behind their back, restraining them to an item of furniture, like a bed or a chair, and it can be used for the more artistic Shibari rope tying. Be sure not to tie the rope too tight — you should be able to insert a few fingers between the rope and your partner’s body and keep your safety shears handy! I recommend watching some YouTube videos to learn some basic knots as a starting point.
Spanking Paddle
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Spanking paddles are great for light to more intense impact play. Stick to using them on fleshy area such as the buttocks and thigh. Start with some more gentle slaps to warm up before moving onto stingier slaps. You can intensify the experience by alternating between gentle slaps, stroking with your hand, and harder slaps.
Restraints
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Make putting on your restraints part of the fun! Slowly and sexily fasten the restraints around your partner’s body while telling them how hot they look and all the things you are going to do to them.
Gags
![Gags](https://wp.bedbible.com/wp-content/uploads/2021/10/gag.jpg)
Gags are great for power play and removing your subs ability to talk but they also make the wearer drool a lot, which can be fun to play with!
How to Clean BDSM Toys
Given the broad range of BDSM toys and all the different materials, you should check the cleaning instructions that come with your particular BDSM toy. You should clean your BDSM gear before and after every use, using soap and water or a sex toy cleanser if your toy is made of waterproof materials. If your toy is made of leather, you can use saddle soap to clean it and remember to condition it after to keep it in good condition for longer. Bear in mind that many BDSM tools are porous and difficult to clean, so you shouldn't share them with multiple partners. Again, this depends a lot on the product and the materials it is made of. You should always follow the manufacturer's cleaning instructions to keep your toys clean and in great condition. Bondage gear made from silicone, metal, or glass can be cleaned with fragrance-free soap and water. If you BDSM toy is made from leather, you can use warm water and fragrance free soap and/or saddle soap. Some restraints that are made from fabric are machine washable, but always check the instructions first!
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FAQ
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What is a BDSM Toy?
BDSM stands for bondage, discipline, submission and dominance or sadomasochism. It encompasses a wide range of kinky sexual activities including using restraints for bondage play, power play, impact play, sensation play, temperature play, and role play, amongst others. Pretty much any sex toy can be used as a BDSM toy but there are some that are designed for specific types of BDSM play to make it possible to live out your wildest fantasies! Anoyone can use BDSM toys to explore their kinks — you don't have to be a BDSM expert, as there are plenty of beginner friendly options as well! Many people start off with something less intimidating like a pair of handcuffs or a feather tickler, but there are also plenty of BDSM toys designed for more experienced players as well. Bondage makes up the B in BDSM. It includes all forms of sexual restraint from hand cuffs right up to full body restraint and suspension. Bondage creates a feeling of submission that can be extremely freeing for some people. Bondage is commonly accompanied by the other members of the BDSM gang — Dominance/Discipline Submission/Sadism and Masochism, which is why we've also included some of out favorite BDSM tools! It doesn't have to be though, bondage can be enjoyed as a form of stimulation itself or with more vanilla sexual activities, so anyone who wants to can enjoy a bit of bondage!
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