5 Best BDSM Whips
Cassie Mørch
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Tantus Tawse Small
Tantus Tawse Small
- Classic tawse whip with two tongues
- Made of 100% premium silicone
- Handle can be used for vaginal or anal penetration.
- Versatile design
- Sharp and intense sensations
- Silicone is 100% body-safe and can be sterilized
- You can secure your own wrist loop to the handle
- Silicone is floppy and tricky to wield at first
- Less intense than real bull whip
| Tantus Tawse Small | |
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| Length | Tongue: 9 inches, Total length: 15.75 inches inches |
| Insertable length | Handle: 6.75 inches |
| Width | Tongue: 1.75 inches |
| Diameter | Handle: 0.53 inches |
| Waterproof | Yes |
| Materials | Premium silicone |
I picked out the Tantus Tawse Small as the Test Winner in this review because it is one of the most impressive and intense impact toys I have ever tried. It may look small and slightly innocuous but the dense silicone delivers quite a sting when wielded properly! For anyone who has not tried a BDSM whip or paddle made of 100% silicone, I can highly recommend it. There’s nothing like it! It doesn’t take much force to get some serious impact. That’s why it also takes a bit of practice to master. The Tantus Tawse Small is a bit floppy and this can be a bit tricky to get used to. Other than being able to submerge it in water for cleaning or being able to sterilize it completely, I love how the silicone allows you to use this whip for penetration as well. There’s really nothing quite like being penetrated (and pleasured) by the one thing that’s been causing you “harm” during a heated BDSM session. All in all, this is a fantastic BDSM whip that feels a lot more intimidating than it looks!
DOMINIX Deluxe Thick Leather Flogger
DOMINIX Deluxe Thick Leather Flogger
DOMINIX Deluxe Thick Leather Flogger
- Medium-sized flogger
- Made of genuine leather
- 48 falls.
- Durable and longlasting (wth proper care)
- Comfortably weighted
- Makes a great sound upon impact
- Provides varied sensations
- Takes a bit of practice to master
- Pricey
| DOMINIX Deluxe Thick Leather Flogger | |
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| Length | 20 inches |
| Materials | Genuine leather |
| Waterproof | No |
The DOMINIX Deluxe Thick Leather Flogger is another great option for anyone who loves some intense lashings. While this is definitely more of a flogger than a whip, I still think it deserved a spot in this review because of its performance. For our tester, Lea, it wasn’t a perfect fit in terms of size: “I have rather small hands and I personally find it a bit too big and I find the laces a bit too long which doesn’t make it the easiest to handle.” Other than that, she found that it, in general, “is a good quality leather flogger that can deliver some strong impact.” The slightly weighted leather flogger is definitely well suited for more experienced and even advanced users. Of course, one has to be aware that “because of its size, it requires more distance to be able to target where one wants the impact to land on the body.” The genuine leather is also a lot more long-lasting and durable compared to a lot of vegan leather alternatives. Although, keep in mind that maintenance is important. Clean and condition the leather once in a while with saddle soap and leather conditioner.
Sex & Mischief Silicone Tickler
Sex & Mischief Silicone Tickler
Sex & Mischief Silicone Tickler
- Long and slender silicone tickler
- Silicone falls
- Rubber handle
- ABS plastic wand
- Affordable and versatile
- Nice and stingy when used as a whip
- Soft and smooth when used as a tickler
- Silicone falls are easy to clean
- Quality is a bit lacking
| Sex & Mischief Silicone Tickler | |
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| Length | Wand: 14 inches, Silicone falls: 7 inches |
| Materials | Silicone falls, ABS plastic wand, rubber handle |
| Waterproof | Splashproof |
Now, for stingy lashings that won’t break the bank, I can highly recommend the Sex & Mischief Silicone Tickler. This is basically a small BDSM whip and a tickler in one. It’s super beginner-friendly, surprisingly versatile, and an affordable alternative to a full-sized BDSM whip. I was the lucky tester of the Sex & Mischief Silicone Tickler. At first I was a bit skeptical about the quality since it was so cheap and didn’t come in any packaging. Although, after using it a few times, I was very pleasantly surprised at how good it felt. As a tickler, the soft silicone falls feel really nice when dragged across the skin. The silicone feels a bit cold (which is a nice touch) and it tickles delightfully! For more sharp sensations and some light impact play, lashing the silicone falls at sensitive parts of the body feels great. Since the falls are made of silicone, they’re safe to use on intimate areas and super easy to clean afterwards. I particularly liked using it on the clitoris and my partner’s scrotum and peineum.
Sportsheets Saffron Braided Flogger
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Sportsheets Saffron Braided Flogger
Sportsheets Saffron Braided Flogger
- Braided flogger with cat-o’-nine-tails
- Made of vegan PU leather
- Black and red design
- Beaded handle with a wrist loop.
- Vegan-friendly materials
- Heavier tails for more impact
- Sturdy and durable
- Stunning design
- Not as long-lasting as genuine leather
- May be too heavy for some
| Sportsheets Saffron Braided Flogger | |
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| Length | Flogger: 24 inches, Falls: 17 inches |
| Materials | PU Faux Leather, Nylon |
| Waterproof | No |
The Sportsheets Saffron Braided Flogger is a step in the right direction for those who want more intense impact play. Its falls are heavier and the cat-o’-nine-tails deliver a deliciously sharp bite. I am also partial to the gorgeous black and red design as well the braided look. In terms of performance and suitable experience levels, our tester, Theo, did note that “it’s a little heavy for the start of a scene, but is good for amping things up once things are going. This isn’t going to be a lifetime investment, but it will get the job done.” It delivers mostly thuddy thwacks but these were “accented by a stingy bite”, and he found that it swung nicely. As with most vegan leather, it’s not as durable or long-lasting as a genuine leather item. However, Theo did find that it got the job done and that he “personally find(s) the texture to be similar enough not to mind.”
Bondage Boutique Skip a Beat Riding Crop
Bondage Boutique Skip a Beat
Bondage Boutique Skip a Beat
- Heart-shaped riding crop
- Tip is made of body-safe silicone
- Plastic handle (18 inches).
- The tip is super easy to clean
- Feels amazing to use on the nipples, clit, or labia
- Delivers sharp and stingy sensations
- Even light taps can easily feel too sharp
- Plastic handle doesn't seem very durable
| Bondage Boutique Skip a Beat | |
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| Length | 18 inches |
| Materials | Silicone, hard plastic |
| Waterproof | Yes (silicone parts) |
“My heart did skip a beat for this sweet but spicy spanker! I love the cute heart design that’s just a little more fun than a standard crop.” That’s how our tester, Isabelle, started her review of the Bondage Boutique Skip a Beat Riding Crop. She is “also a big fan of anything silicone! It creates a lovely crisp spank and can be cleaned easily.” I also love the fact that the tip of this crop is made of silicone. This just makes it so much easier to use on intimate areas without worrying about the material. Because of the length and weight of this crop, it is particularly good for swatting on your nipples, clitoris, scrotum, or perineum. That said, it isn’t just for gentler impact. The silicone can provide a really sharp sting when wielded properly! Therefore, it’s a super versatile crop that can be used for teasing foreplay or relentless punishing depending on your mood. Oh, and the cute heart design does add a nice touch!
BDSM Whips vs Floggers: A Deep Dive Into the Difference
The names ‘whip’ and ‘flogger’ are sometimes used interchangeably, but there are some differences, and similarities, so, let’s have a look at some of them.Stingy and Thuddy and Sharp, Oh My!
If someone asked you which was better, sex whips or floggers, you’d have a hard time answering. Both are fantastic for exploring sensation play but there are some key differences in design and sensation! So let’s take a look at what makes them so uniquely individual!- Design – here’s the most obvious divergence between floggers and whips! Whips contain a handle with a long, slim, flexible tail that can be lashed and literally whipped against someone. Floggers on the other hand have multiple tails or “falls” that can come in loads of different size and numbers. Depending on this, some floggers can feel similar to sex whip or have more of a “thuddy” impact, if the fails are broad and heavy. Some people prefer whips, some prefer floggers. It’s all down to personal taste, but floggers are often more suitable for complete beginners.
- Pros and cons – There are definitely pros and cons to both the sex whip and the flogger. These are relatively subjective pros and cons of course, but still! Floggers may feel harsher and leave bigger, wider marks that may be painful. Whips on the other hand can leave thin, targeted marks that could – if taken too far – break the skin. On the other hand they both provide different sensations that are sexy in their own ways. This leads us neatly onto the next section…
- Thuddy vs Stingy – Because of the shape of floggers they give you a much more impactful ‘thud’ as it hits you. That larger surface area only makes the thud deeper and more sensual (if you like that kind of thing)! On the other hand, sex whips, BDSM crops and canes sting. The tails hit only a narrow, thin strip of your skin, and as such it causes a pleasurable and concentrated sting.
Let's have a look at some similarities
- They both have a rigid handle.
- They both sometimes have a wrist loop for extra security, control that can be used for hanging it up.
- They both come in different lengths, sizes and materials.
- They can both be used in a variety of different ways for different sensations.
- They can both have multiple tails/tresses.
- They are both used in impact play.
The differences in tails/tresses
- Sex whips tend to have fewer tails than floggers.
- Flogger tails can be made from softer materials like suede, rubber, even fabric as well as more sturdy materials such as leather or faux-leather.
- Sex whip tails tend to be made of of leather or faux-leather with a ‘popper’ at the end.
The differences in sensations
- Sex whips and floggers can both be used to trail across the skin, to build anticipation, to tease, to tickle to strike.
- Floggers, because they have more tails and the tails can be of different thicknesses and weight, can elicit a wide variety of sensations depending on the level of force used.
- A strike from a flogger can feel like a ‘thud’ or can sting
- A strike from a sex whip will sting and cause more intense pain.
For beginners or advanced?
- Low-intensity floggers can be used by beginners.
- These let you build up your practice, figure out what your likes and dislikes are, and see if you’d like to venture into more stronger pain sensations.
- Although sex whips can be used to tease, they can also cause more intense pain.
- Sex whips aren’t recommended for beginners. They need practice and skill before using them on a person as incorrect use can be very painful and damaging.
- Sex whips are only recommended for advanced BDSM practitioners.
Benefits Of Using BDSM Whips
If you’re new to the whole concept of BDSM whips, you might have been itching to ask the question: why would people use BDSM whips? Well, the answer may either seem confusing or it may be quite simple to you, but I guarantee you that there are many reasons as to why people would want to use sex whips in their kinky session. So, let’s go over some of benefits there are to using BDSM whips.Gadgets are always handy!
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Things to Consider Before Buying a BDSM Whip
So, let me guess. After reading all this you’re definitely thinking of getting a BDSM whip for yourself. Well, I’m here to guide you in making sure you get the right fit for you.Design: Size & Shape
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How to Use a BDSM Whip
Let’s go over a few different ways to use different kinds of BDSM whips depending on your experience level.
Safety First!
It’s very tempting to buy a new toy and want to use it straight away! We understand! However, before you get carried away there are some tips on BDSM for beginners that you need to follow.
- Consent is key! Make sure that all involved are ready and willing to play.
- Practice on an inanimate object first – a pillow or cushion.
- Every flogger is different and you need to practice your aim and test the intensity of your new toy.
- Agree on a safe words or safe gesture that will stop the activity immediately. These are an essential part of play. They’re for your safety and cannot be skipped over. You can have a word or action to stop play completely and one to slow things down.
- Don’t hit too hard or too frequently.
- Stick to safe areas such as the buttocks, back of the thighs if you are a beginner.
- Never hit the spine, kidneys or any other vital organs.
Which body parts?
- For beginners, we suggest that you start with the soft and squishy buttocks.
- Always avoid the tailbone, spine, kidneys, face and neck, regardless of experience.
- Be gentle on breasts, soles of feet, calves and genitals.
Types of flogger
- To begin with, try a flogger with shorter tails.
- Work up to floggers with longer tails, knotted tails, braids or beads.
- Floggers come in a variety of materials. To start with choose something softer to begin with – suede or faux-fur.
- With practice you can move onto leather, faux-leather, rubber or even chain.
- Give yourself time to find out what each flogger can do.
Let's begin!
- Decide on the position of the flogg-ee. Over the knee, on all fours, standing, lying down restrained?
- Warm up the part that you’re going to flog. If your hands are cold, rub them together, then give those buttocks a massage and a squeeze.
- Gently run the flogger over your partner’s body, let them get used to the feel of it on their skin. Build up the anticipation.
- Remember to start gently and build up the intensity.
Techniques
There are some basic flogging techniques:
- Back and forth – step back and gently sway the flogger backwards and forwards across the buttocks. Just using the bottom 1/4 of the falls if you are using longer falls.
- If you’re too close then the falls can wrap around the body which isn’t that pleasant.
- Circle or pinwheel – swing the flogger around in a downwards circle that catches the buttocks with the falls.
- Figure 8 – swing the flogger in a figure 8 motion, catching the buttocks on the downwards stroke either side. This can also be reversed to catch the buttocks on the upward stroke.
- Flick – grab the falls all in one hand, you can twist them too, then intentionally flick the bottom.
- The back and forth and figure 8 are great warm up strokes, but the flick is more intense
- When you’re more practiced, move onto the Florentine or the two-handed figure of 8.
- The aim is to vary the sensation.
- Always practice on a pillow before moving on to using a flogger on a person.
Using whips
BDSM whips or sexual whips look incredible, but they should only be used by advanced BDSM practitioners.
- BDSM whips can inflict intense pain and damage on a person so need to be used only by experts.
- If you’re experienced and want to learn about BDSM whips take a look at flicker whips or dragon tails.
- These sex whips are easier to control, easier to learn and are less likely to inflict serious pain or damage.
- More rigid, so easier to master and control
- Intense and stingy pain, but less so than traditional sex whips.
- Just a handle and a tail that finishes at a point.
- Easier to control and handle than traditional sex whips.
- Still stings hellishly for higher impact play.
- Made from soft suede or soft leather.
How to Clean BDSM Whips
It is important to clean your sex whips and floggers after each use. As most of them are made from porous materials, they can harbour bacteria, so it is really important to get them cleaned up. If your flogger is 100% waterproof and made of silicone, then a good wash in hot soapy water, then air-dried, will be all that it needs. Other materials, such as PVC, nylon, faux leather can be wiped down with hot, soapy water or antibacterial toy wipes. Leather and suede need a different kind of care. If the leather becomes wet, then blot it with paper towels and let it dry naturally. If a cleaner is needed, then use one specifically made for leather. Leather will need to be conditioned occasionally to keep it supple, and after it has been cleaned. Again, use one specifically for leather. If you need to sterilize, or remove mildew from your leather flogger or BDSM whip, then mix equal parts of rubbing alcohol and water. Spray this mixture onto the leather in a fine mist or wet a soft cloth with it. Gently wipe the surfaces and allow it to dry naturally. Suede can be cleaned with a product made specifically for it.
FAQ
What is a Sexual BDSM whip?
A BDSM whip is tool most commonly used in impact play. It can refer to anything like a flogger, tickler, crop and actual sex whips. The term is used interchangeably, so it can get a little confusing. It's basically anything that can be used to spank, cane, flog or whip a person at different intensities in order to elicit different sensations. The sensations you feel will vary from tickling to teasing to experiencing pain like a 'thud' or a 'sting' that can be mild or intense. It all depends on what you are using and how you are using it.
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