12 Best Prostate Massagers in Test [First-Hand Experience]

   Josh Gill
Do you want to find the very best prostate massagers for your next prostate play session? With the help of my team here at Bedbible, we’ve thoroughly tested and reviewed enough prostate massagers to help you find the best of the best. In this review, I’ll walk you through our top picks and guide you through which products are best suited for different needs. I’ll also help you out with a few tips and tricks along the way, so you can find the perfect prostate massager for you and get the most out of it!
1 Test Winner

Lovense Edge 2 Prostate vibrator

 Lovense Edge 2

  • already have some experience with anal play
  • enjoy anal vibrations
  • want a flexible, poseable shaft for precise stimulation
  • like toys that are app compatible

Lovense Edge 2

  • are on a budget
  • need something very beginner-friendly

  • High quality prostate massager coated in smooth, matte silicone
  • Beaded design for added stimulation during insertion and removal
  • Curved shaft is fully adjustable for targeted p-spot pleasure
  • Broad base with perineum vibrator
  • Connect with the Lovense app for unlimited vibrations patterns, customizations, music synchronization, and long-distance features!


  • App compatible
  • Strong vibrations
  • Long distance feature
  • Top quality materials
  • Flexible shaft

  • Expensive
  • Can be too much for beginners
  • Might slip out in some positions
Lovense Edge 2
Vibration modes4 (more in-app)
Vibration speeds3 (more in-app)
Length4.8 inches
Insertable length3.59 inches
Remote ControlsApp control
Battery Life100 minutes
Charging Time30-40 minutes

What Did Our Tester Think? Tim tested the Lovense Edge 2 for us and had nothing but good things to say about it. He was beyond impressed with the app-controlled features and the long-distance options. Both he and his partner had a blast exploring everything it had to offer. I think Tim’s final verdict says it all, really: “If you’re not a beginner to anal play and are looking for something new to play with alone or with a partner, this is a must have in your toy collection. This has shot straight into my mine and my partner’s top 3 toys to play with.”   Sex Expert Opinion Just like Tim, I’m a big fan of this prostate massager. The design, the features, the materials, the app control, and the adjustability all comes together to create a great foundation for some intense prostate pleasure. The dual motor design sends equally strong vibrations to the p-spot internally as well as the perineum externally. The fact that these vibrations can be controlled separately and customized with the app makes the experience even better. Also, adjustability will always be a win in my book. It just allows people with different body types to explore how they prefer their prostate to be stimulated! I do think it might take a while for complete beginners to get used to it, but trust me, the practice is worth it for this premium prostate toy. Of course, this is a more expensive product, but I think it’s very much worth splurging on if you’re not on the tightest budget.

2 Runner-up

Lelo Hugo SenseMotion Remote Control Prostate Massager

 Lelo Hugo Prostate Massager

  • are looking for a luxury prostate massager
  • want something remote controlled
  • enjoy gentle and sensual vibrations

Lelo Hugo Prostate Massager

  • need very powerful vibrations
  • are on a budget

  • Luxury prostate massager that offers gentle and sensual vibrations
  • Smooth and matte silicone with metallic accents create a sleek and elegant design
  • Tapered tip for easy insertion and a broad base for perineum stimulation
  • Mid-sized insertable bulb is ideal for adventurous beginners and intermediate users
  • SenseMotion remote control allows you to adjust the settings by moving the remote in a certain direction without pressing any buttons.


  • High quality prostate massager
  • Sensual vibrations
  • SenseMotion feature
  • Super smooth perineum stimulator
  • Long battery life

  • Expensive
  • Can be a bit noisy
Lelo Hugo Prostate Massager
Vibration modes6
Diameter1.3 inches
Length5.5 inches
Remote ControlsRemote control
Battery Life120 minutes

What Did Our Tester Think? Vernon tested the Lelo Hugo for us and had an overall good experience with the soft and sensual vibrations it had to offer. While most people value powerful vibrations, Vernon was open to exploring what this kind of mild stimulation could do for him and his prostate adventures. He did mention that the shaft could have been a bit longer, since he sometimes was craving a bit more depth the penetration. “The Lelo Hugo, though pricy, provides a joyful experience. It has definitely replaced my favorite prostate massager. When I say the soft vibrations have made an impact, I mean it. It brought a brand new feel; one that I truly needed.” Sex Expert Opinion The Lelo Hugo is definitely considered a luxury prostate massager. It also had price tag that matches that status. From all the toys on this list, this is one of the most expensive toys. Now, if you’re on a budget, there are certainly other great options out there to explore. Although, if you’re willing to splurge, I don’t necessarily think this device is horribly overpriced. It does have a lot to offer! I love how the SenseMotion remote control can be operated by your movements for a very customized experience.  Of course, if you find yourself needing incredibly powerful vibrations to feel anything substantial during your prostate play, I would recommend the Lovense Edge 2 or the Mantric P-Spot Probe instead. But if you, like Vernon, are open to expanding your horizons with softer vibrations, you might find great pleasure with the Lelo Hugo.

3 Most Powerful

Mantric P-Spot Probe Vibrator

 Mantric P-Spot Probe Vibrator

  • love very powerful prostate vibrations
  • want to explore a lot of different stimulation modes
  • like the idea of handheld prostate massager for thrusting
  • need a fully waterproof toy

Mantric P-Spot Probe Vibrator

  • also want some frenulum stimulation
  • aren't a big fan of intense vibrations
  • need very curved devices for targeted p-spot massage

  • Sleek and simple handheld prostate massage with an easy-grip handle
  • The shaft is nice and smooth, slightly curved and tapered, and easy to insert
  • Provides very powerful vibrations
  • LED panel on the handle allow you to monitor the vibration settings
  • The flared base in the middle features a nubby texture for some extra stimulation around the anus
  • 100% waterproof and fully submersible for some underwater fun!


  • Wide array of vibration modes to choose from
  • Sleek and neutral design
  • 100% waterproof

  • Does not provide super targeted prostate massage
  • Not wearable
  • No perineum stimulation
Mantric P-Spot Probe Vibrator
Vibration modes4
Vibration speeds3
Length7 inches
Insertable length3 inches
Diameter1.43 inches
Travel LockYes
Charging Time180 minutes

What Did Our Tester Think? When Jesse tested this prostate massager, he enjoyed the many vibrations settings this little device had to offer. He also liked the overall design and ease of use. Although, in terms of performance, he did mention that it didn’t quite hit the spot (yes, literally!). Compared to other prostate toys he has used before, the shape of the Mantric P-Spot Probe didn’t seem to target the prostate as intensely. Still, he found it pleasurable to use! “What a great toy! I thoroughly enjoyed the Mantric P-spot Vibrator, multiple times! 😉 It’s a brilliant little sex toy and is suitable for everyone from beginners to the more advanced. It’s easy to use, pleasing to the eye (and the prostate!), and has a great variety of vibration settings.” Sex Expert Opinion I think Jesse is definitely on to something about the Mantric P-Spot Probe not targeting the prostate properly. The shaft itself isn’t very curved and the tip is a bit too tapered to provide enough massage. In my experience, prostate massagers with a tight curve and a bit of bulbous tip are the ones to look for if you enjoy intense stimulation. Check out the njoy Pure Wand or the Lovense Edge 2! That said, I still think this handheld device can offer a different type of prostate massage that can be equally fun to explore! The handheld design makes it easier to thrust and angle to your own liking. It’s also great for partnered fun because of the easy to use handle! Apart from the Test Winner, it’s also the most powerful prostate massager included in this review and will do wonders for anyone who loves anal earth-shattering vibrations!

4 Beginner

Aneros Helix Trident

 Aneros Helix Trident

  • are looking for a beginner prostate massager
  • want a wearable prostate massager
  • want a prostate massager to use in the bath or shower

Aneros Helix Trident

  • prefer something that vibrates
  • prefer silicone over hard plastic
  • need something bigger

  • Manual prostate massager from Aneros with an ergonomic design
  • Beginner-friendly size with a slightly tapered tip for easy insertion
  • “Hooked” base allows you to rock the massager back and forth by flexing your pelvic floor muscles
  • The small bulbous head puts just enough pressure on the prostate while the slim neck makes it super comfortable to leave in for a while.

  • A great beginner toy
  • Ergonomic shape for manual stimulation
  • Wearable
  • Firm stimulation with the hard ABS plastic

  • The two tabs on the base can cause irritation after a while
  • Reaching prostate pleasure with this product can take some practice
Aneros Helix Trident
Insertable length3.5 inches
Diameter0.98 inches
MaterialsABS plastic
Storage Bag IncludedNo

What Did Our Tester Think? “The Aneros Helix Trident was my first prostate toy and continues, to this day, to be a great one. From the beginning, the Helix Trident inserted easily, was very comfortable, and keeps me coming back for more.” Moe Lawn tested the Aneros Helix Trident for us and continues to be a fan of this entry-level prostate massager despite having explored many other Aneros products since then. He notes that it can take a bit of time to learn the ropes when it comes to this kind of manual stimulation using your pelvic floor muscles. When you’re got the technique down, it’s apparently very much worth it! Sex Expert Opinion I think the Aneros Helix Trident is one of the best beginner-friendly prostate massagers out there. It’s a simple prostate massager that won’t overwhelm you as you begin your journey towards prostate pleasure. It’s a great size for beginners but also a great shape for delivering impressive sensations to even seasoned prostate players! While it may take a while to allow your body to enjoy the pleasures that this little device can provide, I think it’s one of the best option on the market. It’s made of high-quality, body-safe ABS plastic and is well worth its price. If you’re curious about how a manual prostate massager could elevate any sexual experience, I would recommend this guy as a great place to start.

5 Cheapest

Lynk Cock Ring Prostate Massager

 Lynk Prostate Massager w. Cock Ring

  • Enjoy a snug-feeling cock ring
  • Want a wearable prostate massager
  • Prefer body-safe, non porous-materials

Lynk Prostate Massager w. Cock Ring

  • Aren't that interested in using cock rings
  • Have a very girthy penis
  • Are new to anal play

  • Combined cock ring and prostate massager
  • Wearable design makes it ideal to use during sex
  • Snug cock ring helps maintain a strong erection
  • Large bulbous shaft puts delicious pleasure on the prostate
  • 100% body-safe silicone and fully waterproof

  • Wearable prostate stimulation
  • Snug and comfortable silicone cock ring helps maintain a strong erection
  • Great to wear during sex
  • Can be fully sterilized

  • May fall out under pressure
  • Difficult to reach climax with this toy alone
  • Cock ring may be too snug for some
Lynk Prostate Massager w. Cock Ring
Length4 inches
Width(of anal plug) 1.25 inches
Diameter(of cock ring) 2 inches
Insertable length3.3 inches
MaterialsPremium-grade silicone
Storage Bag IncludedNo
Colors AvailableNavy Blue
Storage Bag IncludedNo

What Did Our Tester Think? “I love using this with a partner because it makes me feel like all of my parts are getting attention. It’s very well made, easy to use, and fun to play with. I recommend it for anyone comfortable or just starting to explore anal sex and prostate stimulation. I will never get rid of this toy. I am putting it in my will that it is to be buried alongside me upon my death.” There isn’t much to add to this quote from Robby’s review of this product. He really really liked! Although, he mention that it wasn’t enough to make him orgasm alone, but that it worked beautifully as a wearable enhancement to partnered play. Sex Expert Opinion I think the Lynk Plugged Cock Ring Prostate Massager is a standout product. Not only is it affordable (being the cheapest item on this list) it is functional and very pleasurable to use – especially as an additional accessory to your usual sexual routine. You may want a bit of experience with anal play before you take on this device since the insertable bulb is a bit large for beginners. That said, the size of this bulb puts the perfect amount of pressure on the prostate to add a lot of extra sensations to your pleasure! I love that the cock ring not only helps keep it in place but also helps maintain a strong erection. Although, the cock ring is a bit snug already, so if you have a particularly girthy penis, you may have to opt for a similar product with a larger ring. All in all, for such a small price, you’re getting a whole lot of bang for your buck!

6 Remote Control

Aneros Vice 2 Remote Control Prostate Massager

 Aneros Vice 2

  • enjoy vibrations for prostate massage
  • want a remote controlled device for hands-free fun
  • want the option of both manual and vibrating stimulation
  • are looking for a high-quality prostate massager

Aneros Vice 2

  • are on a budget
  • dont enjoy anal vibrations
  • are a complete beginner at anal play

  • Premium quality vibrating prostate massager
  • Body-safe silicone with satin-smooth finish looks and feels luxurious
  • Physical remote control with LED display allows you to select the right settings for your session. This is great for hands-free control as well as power play with a partner!
  •  Ergonomic design that also feels great to use manually without vibrations
  • Explore 18 vibrations patterns and 4 speeds levels as well as the interactive “joy button” that lets you create your own pattern.

  • Hooked base allows for manual stimulation with the pelvic floor
  • Multiple vibration modes
  • Excellent quality materials
  • Fully waterproof

  • May be a bit too big for some people
  • A bit too expensive compared to similar toys
  • Base is uncomfortable to sit on
Aneros Vice 2
Vibration patternsYes
Vibration speedsYes
Length5 inches
Diameter1.3 inches
Insertable length4.5 inches
Battery Life~90 minutes
Charging Time~120 minutes
Remote ControlsYes
Travel LockNo
Storage Bag IncludedNo
Colors AvailableBlack

What Did Our Tester Think? David tested the Aneros Vice 2 for us, and was generally impressed with it. He liked the overall quality and design of the toy. He didn’t expect it to be as big as it was, and was surprised that more warm-up was required at first. Although, the ergonomic design with the hooked base allows for some wonderful manual stimulation (even though it was uncomfortable to sit on). He also enjoyed the different vibration patterns that offered some variety in sensation! Overall, he noted that the biggest con was the high price point that didnt’ seem to match similar products on the market. “The Vice became more enjoyable with every use as I got more use to the sensations and became better at controlling it’s motions. I was unable to orgasm from prostate stimulation alone, but the Vice provided some excellent blended orgasms. The base is comfortable when standing, laying and during intercourse, but is uncomfortable to sit on.”   Sex Expert Opinion Not only is Aneros great at designing manual prostate massagers that hit the exact right spots for some serious p-spot bliss, they amped up the pleasure by adding some intense (and optional) vibrations. Additionally, those vibrations are easy to manage as it includes a remote control! This is always a great plus for anal toys in my book! I do like that the shape allows for both manual and motorized stimulation. Although, those who are new to using prostate massagers from Aneros may need to train their pelvic floor muscles to properly rock the device back and forth for manual pleasure. It may also be a bit big for complete beginners. Be sure to warm up properly and be generous with the lube! I do think it’s a wonderful toy with a great design and made from top quality materials. However, it is on the pricier side and probably not the best option for anyone on a tight budget.

7 Come-Hither Motion

Lelo Loki Wave 2 Vibrating Prostate Massager

 Lelo Loki Wave 2

  • enjoy being able control the prostate massage
  • like the idea of a "come hither" motion
  • love vibrations on your perineum
  • are already a bit experienced with prostate play

Lelo Loki Wave 2

  • are a complete anal beginner
  • want something wearable or hands-free
  • are on a budget

  • Luxurious handheld prostate massager with a dual motor design
  • Bulbous shaft with a tapered tip for easy insertion yet full internal satisfaction
  • WaveMotion™ technology creates a “come hither”-motion in the shaft to replicate the fingering technique
  • The second motor in the wide base sends powerful vibrations to the perineum and scrotum
  • Easy-grip handle allows you (or your partner) to have full control over the prostate massage.


  • Also stimulates the perineum and scrotum
  • Large bulbous shaft for fulfilling sensation
  • Handle for more manual massage options
  • "Come hither"-motion for unique sensations

  • Vibrations could be stronger
  • Not wearable
Lelo Loki Wave 2
Vibration modes10
Length8 inches
Insertable length3.9 inches
Diameter1.47 inches
MaterialsSilicone & ABS plastic
Battery Life120 minutes
Charging Time120 minutes
Storage Bag IncludedYes
AllergiesLatex-free & phthalate-free

What Did Our Tester Think? “The “come here” motion of the Loki Wave is no joke. It’s not just a gimmick—it actually feels incredible. The way it moves and vibrates together is a unique sensation that my partner couldn’t get enough of. It quickly became our favorite toy for his pleasure.” Kasia and her partner tested out the LELO Loki Wave 2 and loved the overall design, quality, and, of course, the unique features. Although, they both felt like the vibrations could have been a bit more powerful, just to add that extra spark of sensation. Even though it is a handheld prostate massager, the buttons were a bit tricky to operate once in use. So, they also wished that there was a remote control option to make things a bit easier. Sex Expert Opinion I think the LELO Loki Wave 2 is a premium quality handheld prostate massager. It’s super sleek and has a great design that will pamper multiple spots at once. LELO products do have a tendency to provide softer, more sensual vibrations rather than earth-shattering ones. I’ve learned by now that this is a question of preference. Some people may need more power but others may enjoy the soft and rumbly sensations from the LELO Loki Wave 2. Even though terms like WaveMotion™ technology don’t usually impress me when brands use them to describe their new sex toys, I will admit that this “come hither”-motion in fact seems to be impressive! A unique form of prostate massage for anyone who needs some more than just vibrations. Ideal for more experienced users who are longing for a little bit more of everything. When this is delivered by a high-quality, dual motor design, body-safe prostate massager, it’s got my stamp of approval. While this device is definitely not for those on a tight budget, I’d say it’s worth saving up for! 

8 Rotating

Nexus Revo Intense Prostate Massager

 Nexus Revo Intense

  • like the idea of a rotating shaft
  • you want a top quality toy
  • don't mind splurging on a good toy

Nexus Revo Intense

  • don't get along with noisy vibrations
  • need something for long-term wear
  • are on a budget

  • Rotating shaft for intense prostate massage
  • 2 speeds of rotation and 2 possible rotation directions
  • Thick vibrating base provides some textured stimulation to the perineum
  • Wearable design for hands-free fun
  • Slim yet satisfying shape for targeted p-spot massage


  • Good battery life
  • Easy to use
  • Waterproof
  • Powerful perineum stimulator

  • Can sometimes slip out
  • Pricey
Nexus Revo Intense
Vibration modes6
Vibration speeds6 vibration modes & 2 rotating speeds
Diameter1.35 inches
LengthShaft: 5 inches, Base: 5.25 inches inches
Insertable length4 inches
Charging Time150 minutes
Battery Life390 minutes

What Did Our Tester Think? Kasia and her partner also tested this prostate massager for us. Their overall experience was really great, although they did have a few points of critique. The buttons are a bit difficult to find during use at first and may require a bit of getting used to. They also found the vibrations to be a bit too buzzy for them. However, the combination of the perineum stimulation and the intense rotations felt amazing. Kasia had her partner make a statement, describing his experience with the Nexus Revo Intense: “First, I started with vibrations to get comfortable, and then I turned on the rotations… And Oh my god. It felt amazing. Orgasm reaches within a few seconds! It was a different experience that lasted longer than a regular orgasm.” Sex Expert Opinion This incredible toy can give you up to 34 different combinations of speed, vibrations, and rotations. If you were looking for a new toy that offers you a bit more than the average toy, then I think this is the way to go! Of course, the price also indicates this. It’s on the pricier side, for sure. But all the added sensation that this guy can provide is also quite impressive. I like that the shaft is beginner-friendly yet ergonomically designed to hit all the right spots for your pleasure. It’s a good quality prostate massager that won’t disappoint if you enjoy the rotating sensations along with the vibrations. Although if you really dislike buzzy vibrations, you may find these vibes a bit too overstimulating.

9 Metal

nJoy Pure Wand Stainless Steel Dildo

 nJoy Pure Wand

  • like the idea of a metal anal toy
  • want to explore temperature play
  • enjoy firm internal stimulation
  • might enjoy a weighted anal toy

nJoy Pure Wand

  • want something with vibrations
  • don't enjoy heavier insertables
  • want something textured

  • Versatile metal dildo for super intense prostate stimulation
  • The weighted, rigid material provides very firm manual massage
  • Double-ended design for different levels of experience or preferences
  • Curved shaft helps you find the perfect angle for targeting the p-spot
  • Stainless steel is temperature responsive and great for exploring temperature play!

  • Premium grade stainless steel
  • Versatile use
  • Works well with any kind of lube
  • Temperature responsive

  • Can be a bit pricey
  • Can get slippery when using lube
nJoy Pure Wand
Length9 inches
Insertable length8 inches
Width1 inches
Diameter1.8 inches
Weight1.5 lbs
MaterialsStainless steel

What Did Our Tester Think? Isabelle tested the nJoy Pure Wand and wrote her review based on using it vaginally for g-spot stimulation. Although a lot of the same feedback is also relevant for p-spot owners! She really loved how intense the massage is with the metal dildo. It has completely changed the way she views g-spot stimulation and manual massage of that internal sweet spot. “The weight distribution and curve take all of the hard work out of getting that deep stimulation exactly where you want it, and you only have to apply minimal pressure to get some incredibly intense sensations. It really opens up the range of movements you can make as well, with it being much easier to make the come hither motion that so many g- and p-spots love!” Sex Expert Opinion The njoy Pure Wand is a premium quality metal dildo that deserves all the glory it’s gotten over the years! This thing provides some super intense manual massage towards any erogenous zone you want to pamper. It can easily be used both anally and vaginally. The stainless steel is also super easy to clean and can be sterilized in between uses! Although it is definitely not a cheap toy, you are also getting great value, good versatility, premium quality, and a metal dildo that will last you a lifetime! Of course, it might not be the best choice for anyone who doesn’t enjoy firm stimulation or a weighted feeling. If you’re also looking for a hands-free prostate massager, this is probably not the best choice. Although it may be perfect for someone who enjoys manual massage instead of vibrations or rotations!

10 App-Control

We-Vibe Vector+

 We-Vibe Vector

  • enjoy internal and external vibrations
  • want something app compatible
  • are looking for long-distance features
  • enjoy very firm prostate massagers

We-Vibe Vector

  • are on a budget
  • want something quieter
  • prefer a toy that's more flexible or adjustable

  • App-compatible prostate massager allows you to explore unlimited patterns and customized vibrations, as well as long-distance features
  • Dual motor designs ensures powerful vibrations both internally on the prostate and externally on the perineum
  • Tapered tip and slim neck makes the We-Vibe Vector+ very beginner-friendly
  • Rigid silicone build provides very firm sensations
  • Adjust the toy to your liking with the adjustable head and the flexible base.

  • App compatible
  • Up to 2 hours of play
  • Endless vibration modes in app
  • Powerful vibrations

  • App connectivity can be unstable
  • Loud
  • Pricey
We-Vibe Vector
Vibration speeds4
Vibration patterns6
Length4.5 inches
Insertable length4 inches
Diameter1.1 inches
Battery Life~120 minutes
Charging Time60 minutes
Remote ControlsYes, Physical Remote and App
Travel LockNo
Storage Bag IncludedYes
Colors AvailableBlack, Blue

What Did Our Tester Think? Robby had a great experience testing out the We-Vibe Vector+ for us. He found that the adjustability allowed him to find the perfect positioning during use. The overall design of it also just made it breeze to insert while still putting the perfect amount of pressure of the prostate and perineum. “I love this toy and I highly recommend it to anyone who is looking for a prostate vibrator that is high tech, comfortable, extremely portable, and well designed. Really what it comes down to is the customization the app allows me to have. I am a complete slut for the We-Vibe app and it’s innumerous personal settings each user can cater to themselves with.” Sex Expert Opinion For anyone interested in some high-tech prostate play and intense vibrations, the We-Vibe Vector+ is an amazing option. App-controlled sex toys offer so much customization and versatility for both solo and partnered use. That said, Robby did have a few issues with the app connectivity. It can disconnect in unfortunate moments and that obviously defeats the purpose. However, I know that We-Vibe has attempted to improve their app connection issues already! I love an adjustable design for optimal customization, and I’m a big fan of the beginner-friendly shape and size the We-Vibe Vector+ comes in. This just makes the toy a lot more accessible to a lot more people! It’s also provides some of the strongest vibrations out of all the products on this list. This is definitely a prostate massager for those who love deep and rumbly vibes instead of manual massage or rotations! However, the noise level matches the power level. This may not be the best choice for anyone who lives with roommates or family members.

11 Large

SquarePegToys Mega Milk’it Prostate Massager

 SquarePegToys Mega Milk’it

  • You are already very experienced with prostate play
  • Are looking for intense prostate stimulation
  • Want a soft and squishy prostate massager

SquarePegToys Mega Milk’it

  • Are relatively new to anal play
  • Prefer something with vibrations
  • Need a gradual taper for easy insertion
  • Prefer firm over squishy toys

  • Unique shape and texture designed to provide incredible prostate stimulation
  • Soft and squishy silicone makes the toy very comfortable to use
  • The non-porous silicone is very easy to clean and sterilize
  • Curved T-bar base for extra anal security!
  • The large size and wide shape provide a satisfying feeling of fullness

  • Extremely full feeling
  • Unique texture provides intense prostate stimulation
  • Very easy to clean and sterilize

  • Even advanced users may have a hard time inserting it
SquarePegToys Mega Milk’it
MaterialsPlatinum grade silicone
Length5.5 inches
Diameter2.4 inches

What Did Our Tester Think? Our tester, Allen, had a magnificent time with the Mega Milk’it! He was a bit worried about the sheer size of it at first, but was a bit relieved to learn how soft and squishy the silicone was. This made for a more comfortable (and less intimidating) wear. Although, the flexibility did also make it more tricky to insert. Since there is no taper to the tip of this prostate massager, it took a lot of patience and warm-up. It was worth it, though! “As soon as I got the Mega Milk’it all the way in, I think my brain short circuited. With most of the prostate based toys I’ve tried the sensation is there but it’s generally small, not weak, but centralized to a fine point. The Mega Milk’it due to it’s overall size and its concave side with ample ridges felt like someone was simultaneously fisting me while trying to squeeze my prostate.” Sex Expert Opinion I think the Mega Milk’it is a superb prostate massager for advanced users looking for the next big thing in terms of sensation. As opposed to some of the other options in this review, this toy doesn’t provide vibrations or rotations. It’s also more squishy than it is firm. It’s definitely a good choice for anybody out there who wants to try a different kind of prostate stimulation and doesn’t mind BIG anal toys. I definitely wouldn’t recommend it for beginners, and must warn all experienced users that it can still be difficult to insert at first. Overall, I like that it’s made of high quality materials and has a unique design with impressive textures. It’s also easy to clean and pretty affordable!

12 With Cock Ring

Hueman Black Hole Anal Vibrator with Cock Ring

 Hueman Black Hole

  • like the idea of a cock ring butt plug but also want vibrations
  • want a physical remote control
  • enjoy a unique yet sleek design

Hueman Black Hole

  • aren't big on vibrations on the perineum
  • are on a tight budget

  • Anal vibrator, perineum vibrator, and cock ring combined
  • Rounded tip and medium-sized bulb that gets narrower towards the base
  • L-shape keeps the device in place and provides broad stimulation on the perineum
  • Physical remote included for hands-free control during use
  • Snug cock ring helps maintain a strong erection
  • Coated in metallic blue silicone for that space-themed aesthetic.


  • Strong vibrations in the prostate massage
  • Snug fit with the flexible cock ring
  • Gorgeous metallic blue color
  • Fun space-themed packaging
  • Physical remote control

  • The ring can be a bit tight for some
  • Remote requires batteries
Hueman Black Hole
Vibration patterns6
Vibration speeds4
Length6 inches
Insertable length4.5 inches
Diameter1.3 inches
MaterialsSilicone, ABS Plastic
Battery Life50 minutes
Charging Time80 minutes
Remote ControlsYes, Physical Remote
Travel LockNo
Colors AvailableMetallic Blue

What Did Our Tester Think?  When David was testing the Hueman Black Hole, his favorite part was the space-themed packaging! He also enjoyed the many features and stimulation modes available with this multi-functional prostate massage. The fact that it has a physical remote control makes it a lot easier to control both for solo and couples’ play. It also stayed in place really well – even without the cock ring attached! “The base is a bit short, which makes it difficult to get the ring on when the plug is in place. The motor in the the Human Black Hole is well positioned to stimulate my prostate. I laid down and just enjoyed the sensations. Eventually I added some penis stimulation resulting in a powerful blended orgasm.” Sex Expert Opinion I think the large L-shaped body of this device makes it perfect for those who love broad stimulation on their perineum. At the same time, the placement of the motors does provide plenty of vibrations straight to the prostate! I really like that this product offers manual stimulation, vibrations, a remote control, as well as enhanced erections by wearing the cock ring. There’s a lot to explore and enjoy with this little thing! Now, the cock ring is stretchy but it may be a bit too snug for those with girthier penises. It is on the more expensive side, but I actually think it’s well worth the price for all the variety and versatility you’re getting in one product.

Start Your Prostate Journey With an Anal Training Kit

While looking for your first time prostate massager, you may notice that the items listed are a bit thicker than you think you’ll be able to easily accommodate. If that’s the case, then what should you do? Well, you actually don’t need to start with a prostate massager for beginners. Instead, you can work your way into anal play with one of these anal training kits!

b-Vibe Anal Training Kit & Education Set

b-Vibe Anal Training Kit & Education Set - Start Your Prostate Journey With an Anal Training Kit
This comprehensive kit from b-Vibe is the perfect option for people who’ve never tried anal play before. Complete with three differently-sized plugs, an anal douche, a lubricant applicator, and a short guide to anal play, you can have all of your anal questions answered with a single purchase! Check out the full review of the b-Vibe Anal Training Kit & Education Set here.

They-ology Anal Training Set

They-ology Anal Training Set - Start Your Prostate Journey With an Anal Training Kit
Perhaps you’ve tried anal play once or twice in the past, but overall, your experience in the area is still lacking. If so, then we highly recommend checking out this anal training kit from They-Ology. The set comes with five different anal dilators, each made of silicone for comfort and simplicity.

Aneros: Some of Best Prostate Massagers On the Market

Aneros is known for making sex toys that are designed to delivers pure prostate bliss to any and all levels of anal experience. Here are some of my top picks!

Aneros Helix Syn V

Aneros Helix Syn V - Aneros: Some of Best Prostate Massagers On the Market
Fallen in love with the shape and feel of the original Aneros Helix Trident? If you like the idea of adding some delicious vibrations to that experience, the Aneros Helix Syn V is a great option! This rechargeable vibrating prostate massager is very likely to impress!

Aneros Progasm

Aneros Progasm - Aneros: Some of Best Prostate Massagers On the Market
Now the Aneros Progasm is for anyone looking for a fuller anal experience and a more firm pressure against their prostate. More suitable for experienced uses who need that extra girth in their prostate massager.

Anal Lube is Essential

Lubrication is an important part of anal play, but it’s especially important for first time prostate massager users: you want your initial experience to be a positive one! Of course, some lubricants are better than others, although most water-based lubricants will get the job done. However, you’ll want to stay away from numbing lubes, which—due to their numbing effect—can increase the likelihood of you accidentally injuring yourself without noticing. So, you shouldn’t use numbing lubes; what should you use then? Well, here are a few options I recommend.

Lovehoney Discover Anal Lubricant

Lovehoney Discover Anal Lubricant - Anal Lube is Essential
Appropriately labeled “Discover”, this water-based anal lubricant is condom-safe, can be used with any type of sex toy material, and is designed to last a long time during use. Spend less time lubing up and more time “in the action” with Lovehoney Discover Lubricant!

Sliquid Sassy Lubricant

Sliquid Sassy Lubricant - Anal Lube is Essential
Hypoallergenic, non-toxic, flavorless, and odorless, the Sliquid Sassy Lubricant is a neutral anal lube that pairs perfectly with any prostate massager for beginners. Did we mention it’s also vegan!?

Pjur Back Door Silicone Anal Lubricant

Pjur Back Door Silicone Anal Lubricant - Anal Lube is Essential
This last lubricant is more of a luxury option, but it may be worth the premium to the right person. Infused with jojoba, the Pjur Back Door Silicone Anal Lubricant relaxes and lubricates the anus with each application for a superior anal experience!

More Prostate Massagers with a Cock Ring

Looking for something else that’s similar to the Lynk Plugged Cock Ring Prostate Massager and the Hueman Black hole Anal Vibrator? These contraptions actually have a few great benefits:

  • The cock ring helps the prostate massager stay put during use. These types of prostate massagers are also just great to wear around the house for some subtle stimulation or build-up.
  • By gently restricting blood flow out of the penis, the cock ring itself can also help maintain stronger erections for longer.
  • With the combined sensations from the prostate massager and the cock ring, penetration and orgasms can feel much more intense!

Tracey Cox EDGE Remote Control Prostate Massager with Cock Ring

Tracey Cox EDGE Remote Control Prostate Massager with Cock Ring - More Prostate Massagers with a Cock Ring
Not only do you get intense stimulation of the prostate with this product, you also have the additional perineum stimulator working its magic. On top of that, the vibrating motor can be controlled (by you or your partner) with the included remote control! This vibrating wonder is held securely in place as the dual cock rings are secured around your scrotum and penis, keeping you harder for longer!

Fun Factory Bootie Ring

Fun Factory Bootie Ring - More Prostate Massagers with a Cock Ring
The Fun Factory Bootie Ring is a more manual option. If you’re not into vibrations but simply enjoy the feeling of being plugged up and having your prostate massaged by the curves of the plug and your own movements, then this product might be perfect for you! With a large cock ring to fit around both the shaft and the scrotum, this provides stability and helps maintain an erection while you get to enjoy some bootie bliss.

What Exactly is the Prostate (Male G-Spot) Again?

The prostate is a small gland located between the bladder and the penis also called the male P-spot. It is important to the production of sperm, secreting a fluid that provides nourishment and protection to seamen. Given its close proximity, the prostate can be stimulated via the rectum. The prostate contains almost as many nerve endings as the clitoris, making it very receptive to external stimulation.


What? - What Exactly is the Prostate (Male G-Spot) Again?
The prostate is a walnut sized gland in (born) male bodies. The prostate gland is very sensitive, and used in the human body to nourish and transport sperm. Another important function of the prostate gland is, that it helps close the urinal tube during ejaculation. You don’t want to mix those two.


Where? - What Exactly is the Prostate (Male G-Spot) Again?
It is accessible anally, and sits up towards the stomach just below the bladder. It is situated close to, and around the tube that drains urine from the bladder. That is also why prostate massaging and milking can be beneficial to help against male incontinence.


How? - What Exactly is the Prostate (Male G-Spot) Again?
When playing around with butt stuff on men, you want to “hit that spot” (aka the walnut sized gland), as it will be a new world opening up for them. Any kind of anal penetration ‘runs the risk’ of hitting the prostate. So if you are in the middle of some butt stuff, playing around with your new prostate massager, and you feel something very good. Then that is very likely your walnut sized gland called the prostate.

How to Find Your P-Spot

Much like how the g-spot can seem impossible to find on women, the p-spot can also be very elusive for men (especially first-timers). No worries though: I’ll quickly walk you through how to find your p-spot and what to do once you get there!

Locating Your P-Spot Internally

Locating Your P-Spot Internally - How to Find Your P-Spot
First, you’ll want to get your hands on some water-based lubricant for easy insertion. Apply this to your finger, begin to gently massage your anus, then work a finger in there. Once this is done, start making a “come-hither” motion with your fingers until you find your p spot. Found it? Time to grab a toy and let the fun begin!

Locating Your P-Spot Externally

Locating Your P-Spot Externally  - How to Find Your P-Spot
There are two ways you can find your prostate: internally or externally. For the external approach, you’ll need to stimulate your taint (perineum). Touching the area may make you feel like you need to pee; this is a sign that you’re in the right place! Instead, you’ll be feeling around for the soft area behind the penile bulb.

Benefits of Using Prostate Massagers

Prostate massage is obviously a great way of exploring non-penis-centered pleasure. You can experience hands-free orgasms as well as the general pleasure of anal play. But what other benefits are there to using prostate massagers? Beyond sexual purposes, there are a small variety of potential prostate massage health benefits. Using prostate massagers can help you urinate easier, ejaculate easier, and help combat erectile dysfunction. Results will vary from person to person, of course. Using a prostate massager can also help treat Prostatitis (a condition where the prostate causes pain due to inflammation).

What to Look for in a Beginner Prostate Toy 

Before we start to get into the toys themselves, let’s briefly go over what you should be considering when looking for a beginner prostate toy. There are quite a few things that you’ll want to keep in mind!  

Step 1

Step 1 - What to Look for in a Beginner Prostate Toy 
First, you need to consider the size of the toy itself. That includes both the diameter (thickness) and the length of the toy. If you’ve never experimented with anal toys before, you may be tempted to choose the thinnest option. Don’t do that. Instead, use your fingers to get a rough idea of how big of a toy you’ll be able to comfortably accommodate. This will prevent you from purchasing a toy that you quickly outgrow!

Step 2

Step 2 - What to Look for in a Beginner Prostate Toy 
Next, you’ll want to consider the shape of the toy. Some toys (like plugs) are shaped in a way that allows them to stay in place once inserted. Other toys (such as probers) are shaped in a way that allows you to easily move and position the toy, making them more suitable for active stimulation. For toys that stay in place, you’ll want to ensure the toy(s) in question have a flared base. This will prevent them from slipping up inside your anus, which would require an unpleasant trip to the ER.

Step 3

Step 3 - What to Look for in a Beginner Prostate Toy 
After sizing and shape considerations, you’ll want to start thinking about materials and functionality. Non-porous materials like silicone can be completely sterilized but generally cost more, whereas porous materials are cheaper but impossible to sterilize. In terms of functionality, some toys feature additional functions like vibrations, travel locks, or rechargeable internal batteries. Don’t forget to consider these goodies as well! Alright, now that you have a general idea of what to look out for (and think about) when buying a beginner prostate toy, let’s start looking at the options!

How to Find the Best Prostate Massager for You

As you can tell from this review, there are lot of differet types of prostate massagers out there! It can be difficult to know which one might be best for you and your needs. There are lot of factors to consider. So, here’s a thorough guide to finding the best prostate massager for you.

Stimulation Mode

Stimulation Mode - How to Find the Best Prostate Massager for You
Consider how you would like your prostate to be massaged – there are so many options! Do you enjoy manual stimulation by your own (or your partner’s) hand? Do you like firm or soft stimulations? Strong vibrations or a slight tapping motion? Perhaps you might be a fan of a rotating shaft to press up against your prostate!

Plugs VS Handheld Toy

Plugs VS Handheld Toy - How to Find the Best Prostate Massager for You
Some of the prostate massagers in this review are plugs that will stay in place by themselves during use. Others have handles with which you’re suppposed to manually massage your prostate. If you like being able to move the toy around yourself, a handheld toy is probably more enjoyable to you. Although handheld prostate massagers also tend to be more heavy duty products, whereas the plugs are often smaller and lighter. If you’re planning on using the prostate massager during sex or wearing it about the house, I would definitely opt for something that plugs in and stays in place.

Extra Stimulation

Extra Stimulation - How to Find the Best Prostate Massager for You
Do you usually enjoy stimulation around the perineum or scrotum? Finding the perfect prostate massager for you might include a secondary motor or “arm” that will sit snugly against your perineum and be able to send delicious sensations to your perineum and scrotum.


Materials - How to Find the Best Prostate Massager for You
It’s important to always go for products with 100% body safe materials when it comes to insertables. The best prostate massagers will be made of non-porous materials like silicone, ABS plastic, glass or metal.


Rechargeability - How to Find the Best Prostate Massager for You
Of course, this isn’t super relevant if you’re going for a manual prostate massager. But if you’re going for something with a motor, it’s important for consider it’s rechargeability. I would definitely recommend getting a rechargeable toy over something that runs of batteries. Consider whether you’re looking for something that has a long battery life or need something with a shorter charging time.


Size - How to Find the Best Prostate Massager for You
Are you a complete anal beginner or are you looking for a fulfilling feeling suitable for someone more experienced? Knowing which size you are comfortable with anally will definitely help find out which prostate massager you should go for! When it comes to anal, my tip is to always start out small and work your way up. Luckily, a lot of prostate massagers will deliver a wonderful massage regardsless of size!


Design - How to Find the Best Prostate Massager for You
While all prostate massagers claim to have the absolute best ergonomic design to hit all those sweet spots, there is no one recipe for that. Everybody’s body is different. Some toys might hit different spots for different people. You can consider which types of shapes and designs you might respond well too. A beaded shaft, something super curved, or something with a tapered tip?

Remote Control

Remote Control - How to Find the Best Prostate Massager for You
If having your hands freed up or letting your partner easily control your pleasure is important to you during sex, then getting a remote controlled prostate massager might be a good option for you. If you like to enjoy different vibrations settings at different times during use, it can be nice not having to reach for the buttons all the time. That said, products with a remote control can be a bit more expensive, so if you find you don’t really have the need for one, you should perhaps opt for one without.

How To Use A Prostate Massager

You’ve got yourself the perfect prostate massager for you. Chance are this isn’t your first rodeo! Still, there are some simple tips everyone should follow for the most enjoyable experience possible.


Lubricate - How To Use A Prostate Massager
As with any anal play, you don’t want to skimp on the lube! I recommend using a dedicated water-based anal lubricant as they tend to be thicker and longer lasting. Apply a generous amount of lube to the anus and any insertables you will be using.


Locate - How To Use A Prostate Massager
First things first, you’re going to want to familiarize yourself with the target. If you are unaccustomed to prostate play I recommend using a lubricated finger first. The prostate is located roughly 2 inches inside the rectum. With a finger curved toward the belly, feel around for a slightly smoother area. You may feel a sudden urge to pee once pressure is applied.

Patience & Experimentation

Patience & Experimentation - How To Use A Prostate Massager
It may take time to find your preferred level of stimulation – don’t expect to achieve a hands-free orgasm right off the bat! Experiment with different intensity levels and positions; the pressure applied can be just as important as the level of vibrations. A soft touch may be better at first, once your body grows accustomed to the sensation you can begin to ramp it up.


Enjoy! - How To Use A Prostate Massager
The key takeaway from any sexual experimentation is to have a good time – that’s what it’s all about folks! Anal stimulation isn’t for everyone, though with the right toy, patience and care, many can reach levels of pleasure hitherto unimagined.

How to Use a Prostate Massager

Prostate massagers are different in size, features, colors, prices, materials, and shapes, it is important, no matter what kind of user you are that you take your time to get into the real fun, here we will show you a few steps you must follow to have a safe and nice time. They can be a super nice addition to intercourse or as an extra spice to oral sex. A lot of the best prostate massagers also come with a perineum stimulator that will double the fun for you. Who knows, it might lead to some incredible intense orgasms as well.

Prepare Your Space

Prepare Your Space

Get all the essentials you need for a good time with your prostate massager and set it all up. Get your lube out, set the mood, and maybe there are some other toys you want to use as well!

Start Soft and Gentle

Start Soft and Gentle

Relaxing is key to inserting your prostate massager. Use all the lube you need for a comfortable insertion and take things nice and slow. If you’re alone, take your time to explore yourself, get yourself into the mood and enjoy. If you are with your partner and they’re helping with the insertion, be sure to keep a slow pace and keep open lines of communication. There’s definitely no need to rush into the pleasure of it all. It’s not a race!  

Time for an Adventure!

Time for an Adventure!

Once you’ve safely and comfortably inserted your prostate massager, you don’t need to immediately jump to the rough part. Keep slowly exploring how different angles, different amounts of pressure or different methods of thrusting feel to you. Have fun exploring solo or with your partner. Try out the different features of your toy! How do the vibrations feel? How does it feel during oral or penetration?

How to Clean a Prostate Massager

It's always important to clean sex toys throughly before and after use. How to do this properly depends largely on the materials of your toy and whether or not it has any electrical components. All of the products in this review are ewither fully submersible or water resistant. This means you can carefully rinse any residue off with water, lather it up with a mild, unscented soap or any sex toy cleaner, and rinse it thoroughly (or carefully wipe it clean with a damp cloth if it is only water resistant). Dry completely and store it safely away from any dust or lint until you're ready for your next use!

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I always recommend water-based lube, as it’s safe to use with any sex toy material! If you’re looking for specific recommendations, check my list of lubes above.

Basically anyone who wants to! Of course, these products are specifically designed for anyone who has a prostate, so they might bring you optimal pleasure if you've got one of those. But if you enjoy any kind of anal play, prostate massagers are a great way to engage in some booty bliss.

Remember, less lube means more friction: you don’t want that! When you’re just starting out, don’t be afraid to use more lube than you think you’ll actually need. In time, you’ll figure out the minimum amount you can get by with.

It’s helpful, but not 100% necessary. You can also milk the prostate using your finger or other anal toys.

Good, hopefully! If you're doing everything right then it should be an amazing experience! It's all down to how you use the toy: gentle and slow use allows for the orgasm to build up more gradually, while more vigerous use has a more intense and faster feel. The choice is yours!

This depends largely on the materials your toy is made of. If you're using prostate stimulators made of metal, glass or ABS plastic, then you're good to use any kind of lubricant you feel like. Although, when using silicone toys you should only stick to using water-based lubes as they are guaranteed to not damage the material!

Make sure you're in the right mood and setting. Feeling relaxed and ready. Apply a generous amount of water-based lubrication to your prostate massager, and use the tip to massage your anus. Slowly press the tip into your anus, only continuing to insert the rest of the toy when you feel ready. Enjoy your session of hot prostate pleasure.

As usual, nonporous materials like silicone and metal are preferred. Being non-porous, they’re not only easy to clean, but they can also be sterilized!

Prostate toys are usually curved and bulbed so they rest against the prostate, which is highly sensitive. The stimulation can come from moving the prostate massager manually or from vibrating or rotating features. During prostate play, you stimulate your prostate with the massager and can achieve an orgasm from this. Also called prostate milking. It is one of the most underappreciated sex toys for men.

You should clean (and dry) your p-spot vibrator after every use. If you don’t, bacteria can start to build up and the toy will smell!

The prostate is located below the bladder and behind the base of the penis (but in front of the rectum). You can find it by going up inside your rectum and feeling around toward the front of your body.

No. Make sure that you and the toy are lubricated up, comfortable and ready to go. Going slowly and gently and allowing your body to relax and enjoy the sensation is key, and if at any point you feel any pain or discomfort then you should stop. But it shouldn't come to that if you've followed all the instructions!

Using a lubricated finger curved toward the belly button, gently insert and feel roughly 2 inches inside the rectum with a come-hither motion. The prostate will feel slightly smoother and protruding than the rest of the rectum.

Unfortunately, silicone lubricants can actually damage your silicone p-spot vibrator. You should stick to water-based lubricants unless otherwise specified by the manufacturer.

“Work better” is a subjective term. What works great for one guy may do nothing for another! While dual motors generally provide more intense vibrations, the actual results depend more on the shape of the p-spot vibrator and your body than the individual motor count.

The We-Vibe Vector+ has a great shape and size that will work for most beginners. It's also a very powerful vibrator!

Stimulating the prostate is not always a particularly pleasurable experience at first. Many people experience a sudden urge to pee when pressure is first applied, this is due to the prostate's close proximity to the bladder. It can take time for your body to grow accustomed to this new type of stimulation before that discomfort turns to pleasure.

What is a Prostate Massager?

Ergonomically designed to stimulate the prostate through the rectum, these anal toys often have a slight curve and a bulbous tip that can effectively massage that sweet spot. Prostate massagers often have special features, like vibrations, rotations, perineum stimulators, and different shapes and textures for enhanced pleasure. Some are flexible, some are rigid and they generally come in all sorts of different shapes and sizes.

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