5 Best BDSM Spreader Bars

I selected the Bondage Boutique Expandable Spreader Bar with Leather Cuffs as the Test Winner because it has some great features and a decent quality for a great price. The expandable feature is my favorite. I always appreciate adjustability in sex toys–especially BDSM restraints! This makes it easier to customize the experience to your body size or whatever position you’re in. Our tester, Jason,  “was immediately pleased with the quality of the bars, they were much stronger, and I believe more durable, than what I had been expecting.” While he expected the the leather cuffs to be thicker, both he and his wide agreed that they were non-escapable nonetheless. As far as comfort goes, they “were nice and soft and supple with a faux fur lining that again I wasn’t expecting.” The main drawbacks are that “the jangling of the rings attached to the ball lock pins” are quite distracting. The included padlocks are also quite flimsy and don’t seem to hold up well during vigorous play. Although, if this is an issue, you can easily use your own padlocks!

In my opinion, the Sportsheets Saffron Spreader Bar is an excellent choice for both beginners and advanced users in the world of BDSM. Its sturdy construction, ease of use, and versatility make it a great investment for enhancing bondage play. I really like that it has additional restraint points for your wrists and that it comes with 2 sets of cuffs. The fact that the cuffs are removable makes the product really versatile as well! You can use these independently of the BDSM spreader bar and opt for more light bondage sessions once in a while! While the wrist and ankle restraints offer some creative positioning options, the fact that it isn’t expandable does mean that it may not suit all body types and sizes. Our tester, Isabelle, was really satisfied with her experience: “The Sportsheets Saffron Spreader Bar is a fantastic bondage accessory that has a lot of potential for creative positioning and use! If you are ready to explore more intense restraint play, I would highly recommend this set! I think the overall quality and versatility make this a great investment!

I had the pleasure of testing out the Bondage Boutique Black Rose Spreader Bar myself! I wanted to include it in this review because it’s one of the better budget-friendly options that’s we’ve tested here at Bedbible. While I was skeptical of the glittery, floral design at first, I actually ended up liking it a lot! It may not be for everyone, but the florals are surprisingly subtle and the glitter-y effect is pretty fun! The length was also a cause of concern for me initially. Since it isn’t expandable, you only have those 20 inches to work with. As someone with larger thighs, I didn’t think that would spread my ankles as far enough apart. Luckily, it worked really well in the right positions! I don’t think it’s suitable for those who want a high quality BDSM spreader bar that will last them lifetime and withstand several sessions of heavy-duty bondage fun. For newbies on a budget, however, it’s perfect! The removable cuffs are perfect for beginners who might also want to play around some wrist or ankle cuffs independently of the spreader bar sometimes!

While this isn’t technically a BDSM spreader bar, I think the Sportsheets Saffron Thigh Spreader deserved a spot in this review. This thigh sling acts as a spreader bar but without the bar getting in the way! Our tester, Mariah, noted in her review that this is designed help achieve “hands free positions, and deeper penetration”, which according to her felt absolutely amazing! The padded neck rest makes it comfortable to lie back on and stops the sling from pulling too much on your neck. It’s also nice and easy to customize to your body and your desired positions because both the straps and the stirrups are adjustable. While it doesn’t have a fixed spreader bar, it’s more versatile in the ways you can use it!  Thank to the extra D-rings on the padded collar, you have the opportunity to attach your own handcuffs to restrain your partner’s wrists to the collar.

I included the Fifty Shades of Grey Spreader Bar as my Expert Pick because it looks and feels a bit more like a premium product. It’s also a bit expensive, but it’s a great option for those who like this elegant faux leather design with the brass, brushed metal clips. Our tester, Erin, was ” immediately impressed by how beautiful this spreader bar was and how smoothly the snap swivels operate.” These swivels make the spreader bar so much more comfortable to use, especially when both your ankles and wrists are restrained! While the faux leather wrapping looks and feel very luxurious, Erin mentioned that real leather may be more long-lasting in the long run. However, the brass elements were well made and “should hold up very well even under heavy use”. One main con is that you need to have your own wrist and ankle cuffs to attach to the spreader bar. This also makes it a lot more expensive compared to other BDSM spreader bars that usually include a set. Erin’s recommendation, however, was “If you have a little cash to splash, I say go for it.”