The 6 Best Soft Dildos

The Vixen Mustang has to be one of the best soft dildos out there, and that’s why I’ve picked it out as the Test Winner in this review. Since I have a Vixen Vixskin dildo of my own (the Vixen Maverick) I know how amazing the silicone feels. The Vixskin silicone formula is extra elasticated which means the exterior is a lot more soft and squishy compared to other dildos out there. It is a premium quality product with a hyper-realistic design (yes, it’s available in skin tones as well) that’s made of hand-poured, platinum-cured silicone. It’s super durable and long-lasting with proper care and maintenance. Isabelle, who tested this dildo found it to be THE most realistic feeling dildo she had ever used (until she got a larger version, the Vixen Vixskin Buck, that is). “I can see it being my go-to dildo for a long while yet, and I have actually found myself choosing it over my favorite clitoral toys, which is high praise indeed!”. In terms of softness, Isabelle described it as “the perfect combination of sculpted and squishy”. It nice and soft but still offers the sensation of an erection. The size and softness of the Mustang also makes it ideal for beginners, anal play, or “for double penetration with a partner”. It’s also a very flexible dildo, which adds that extra comfort to your experience. The base does have some suction abilities but Vixen even state that this is a non-slip base not a suction cup so if you are looking specifically for a strong suction cup base, this probably isn’t the one for you. It does, however work wonderfully in a harness.

I picked out the Square Peg Toys Wyatt as the Runner-Up because it’s insanely soft and flexible. Our tester, Charlotte, didn’t give it a great rating because it was actually too soft for her liking. “Despite being a well-made dildo that looks and feels very realistic, this just doesn’t hit the spot with its super soft material”. While I definitely understand the need for something that provides a bit more internal massage, I still think this dildo would be a great match for those specifically looking for a soft dildo. I think it’s actually a super high quality item that has a very detailed, realistic design. Charlotte still did note that it is a beautiful piece to behold and that “the 100% Platinum Cured Silicone is excellent, it feels luxurious. This was built to last if properly cared for”. A big benefit of getting this dildo would be the suction cup base. This opens up to a lot of ways to use it during solo play. Another great pro about the Square Peg Toys Wyatt is the wide range of sizes available. This way you can find the perfect fit for you and your needs. That’s always a win in my book!

The Blush Neo Elite 7.5″ Dual Density Dildo is ideal for those who are on a tight budget but still want a decent quality dildo that’s made from body-safe materials and offers a realistic design. Our tester, Alice, was really impressed with its versatility and performance: “With an approachable size and girth, as well as hyper-realistic surfacing and finishes, it is an easy and accessible tool to use during individual play, partnered or group play, and pegging”. I do think the Blush Neo Elite 7.5″ Dual Density Dildo may have too much of a slender design to please very experienced users. As far as internal stimulation goes, Alice pointed out that she “did occasionally feel as though the dual density feature of this dildo, which feels so nice on the skin and is a fantastic quality, left me with the sensation that the penis I had inside of me was a bit flaccid”. While this didn’t deter her enjoyment, it’s still something those who are used to firm stimulation may not appreciate.

The slim shaft of the Tantus Charmer makes it an ideal option for beginners who need a soft dildo to start out with. What love about this dildo is that it works great both vaginally and anally because of the unique, non-representational shape. For very seasoned dildo users, our tester, Isabelle, noted that it may be a it underwhelming: “If you are looking for a dildo to use vaginally, bear in mind that, unlike many dildos, the shaft get’s narrower towards the base, so you might not get that full feeling with the whole dildo inserted”. On the flip side, this shape may just help newbies feel a lot more comfortable. The Tantus Charmer is a beginner-friendly and a flexible dildo. For both vaginal and anal use, the tapered tip makes insertion easier, and the ridges “add some subtle stimulation while the toy is inside”. “The Tantus Charmer is pretty easy to use, although it doesn’t have a suction cup base, which would open up a whole more options for positions and hands-free riding”. Tantus dildos generally don’t have suction cups on the base, but they still work very well in strap-on harnesses.

I chose the Mr. Right Packer because it’s a unique 2-in-1 toy. It can be used as a gender-affirming toy, but it also doubles as a regular dildo! Since it’s supposed to mimic the feel of a flaccid penis, the materials used to make this toy are incredibly soft and squishy. Our tester, Nick, who reviewed this toy, highlighted the “silky soft texture” and that he enjoyed using this dildo for “softer and less hardcore play.” Nick also mentioned that “when penetrating, the lack of rigidity can cause the shaft to bend, especially with anal play.” So, I wouldn’t recommend it for anal play, but it’s going to be great for vaginal penetration, foreplay, and grinding. I think this is a great option if you are looking for a super soft dildo with that skin-like feel. I definitely recommend it if you experience any soreness or discomfort when using firmer insertables.

I chose to include the SelfDelve Marshmallow Dildo as my Expert Pick because it truly is one of the most soft and squishy dildos I’ve encountered. Yes, it does have an unconventional design that won’t be for everyone, but I suggest you don’t be too quick to judge a book by its cover (or a dildo by its design). I think anyone out there looking for a super soft and flexible dildo will be impressed by this item! Our tester, Kiki, thought the “the marshmallowy feel was a nice change from the usual firmness of other dildos and the colorful ribs are amazinggggly stimulating”. First of all, the quality in itself is pretty impressive. Soft and stretchy materials aren’t a new thing in the world of sex toys, but they’re usually made of TPE or TPR (which is porous and not 100% safe for internal use). This dildo offers the same kind of softness and flexibility but it is made of 100% non-porous silicone. The design itself is also very well-made. The colors are gorgeous and the glossy finish makes it look and feel like a premium product. In terms of performance, Kiki wrote in her review that she was “pleasantly surprised by how gentle it is despite the larger size and girth. The silicone material is incredibly smooth and flexible, making insertion easy and comfortable, especially when properly lubed up”. The only real limitation it has is the base, which is neither flared nor features a suction cup base. While this keeps the marshmallow illusion alive, it doesn’t bode well for versatility. It’s not suitable for anal play, strap-on play, or to use for hands-free riding. “This might be a deal breaker for some, and at times I did wish I could use it hands-free, but I think its texture and uniqueness won me over in the end”.