The 6 Best Thin Strap-Ons for Slender Sharing

   Rachel Worthington
Interested in trying out a strap-on? We don’t blame you — they’re a super versatile and inclusive couples sex toy that opens up all kinds of pleasure and power dynamics! If you’re a newbie, or just prefer something less girthy, then you’re in luck. Here are our 6 top thin strap-on picks in all kinds of shapes, styles and fits, as well as some top tips for picking your perfect thin-strap-on.
1 Test Winner

Tantus Bend Over Beginner Harness Kit

 Tantus Beginner Harness Kit

  • Are new to strap-on play
  • Want a strap-on kit you can progress with
  • Are looking for a super high-quality strap-on
  • Are after a highly adjustable harness

Tantus Beginner Harness Kit

  • Prefer a longer or more textured dildo
  • Want a brief-style harness
  • Are on a budget

Tantus are true experts at creating high-quality, practical and stylish sex toys for everyone. This complete strap-on set is one of their best examples, and is our top pick! Included are two sleek, thin strap-on dildos, made from premium silicone, along with a double-leg-strap harness, two o-rings to secure the dildos in place as you thrust. Plus, there’s also a bullet vibrator that can slot neatly into a pocket in the front of the harness for some extra clitoral stimulation for the wearer! Both dildos have a smooth texture, with a slightly curved shaft that allows greater contact with the g-spot or prostate. The two different sizes also mean that you can progress from the smaller to the larger size as you gain more experience. It’s the perfect beginner’s strap-on kit!

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  • 2-dildo set
  • Premium silicone
  • Comfortable, adjustable harness
  • Comes with removable bullet vibrator

  • Vibrator lacks power and different modes
  • Dildos might be too uninteresting for some
  • Not overly budget-friendly
Tantus Beginner Harness Kit
Vibration modes1
LengthDildo 1: 4.5 inches; Dildo 2: 5.25 inches
DiameterDildo 1: 0.75 inches; Dildo 2: 1.25 inches
MaterialsDildos: Silicone
WaterproofDildos: Yes; Vibrator: Splashproof
RechargeableNo
Harness SizeUS size 4-30, or 17-60 inches inches
AdjustableYes

The Tantus Bend Over Harness Kit is the perfect option for those looking for an accessible, thin strap-on set that still offers lots of satisfaction! It’s totally unisex, and offers pleasure to whoever you wish to penetrate. The harness itself fits a large range of sizes and body types, and will stay on securely once strapped on. It is slightly more expensive than other strap-on sets out there, but if offers a level of quality that won’t be found everywhere. We do wish that, for the price, they could have included a better bullet vibrator, but it’s easy to sub it out for another one with more power and different modes. Check out the reviews of our favorite bullet vibes here!

2 Cheapest

Sportsheets New Comers Strap-On Kit

 New Comers Strap-On Kit

  • Want a very small, thin strap-on dildo
  • Are on a budget
  • Are looking for a highly adjustable harness

New Comers Strap-On Kit

  • Are more experienced and want a longer dildo
  • Would like a pocket for a bullet vibrator
  • Want a set of dildos to progress through

The Sportsheets New Comers thin strap-on set was designed specifically with total beginners in mind. This kit comes with a simple but sturdy harness with double leg straps, and a very slim, silicone dildo to sit inside it. With a slightly curved shape and smooth texture, it’s totally un-intimidating even for those who are hesitant about pegging and penetration. The harness is also adjustable to fit hip sizes of up to 60 inches, and can be tightened or loosened around the hips and legs for a great fit no matter your shape.

  • Beginner-friendly
  • Affordable
  • Highly adjustable and comfortable

  • Only comes with one dildo
  • Less suitable for those with more experience
  • No vibrations
New Comers Strap-On Kit
Length5 inches
Insertable length4.5 inches
Diameter0.85 inches
MaterialsDildo: Silicone; Harness: Velboa fabric and plastic
WaterproofYes
Harness SizeMax. 60 inches inches
AdjustableYes

The New Comers set is a great match for those who are looking for a really thin strap-on. It’s size might not be suitable for those who want a dildo with a little more substance and stimulation, but in that case, check out some of our other recommendations! As an extra bonus, this set is one of the most affordable out there, whilst still have a quality, body-safe silicone dildo — a must if you want to stay hygienic and avoid infections.

3 Posable

Fun Factory Limba Flex Small

 Fun Factory Limba

  • Have a harness already
  • Like the idea of a flexible, posable dildo
  • Prefer a tapered tip

Fun Factory Limba

  • Prefer a longer dildo
  • Want a strap-on set with a harness
  • Like a very firm dildo

We love the Fun Factory Limba Flex for so many reasons, but not least of which is because it makes a fantastic strap-on dildo! It’s a slender, fairly short dildo with a tapered tip that makes it super easy to insert, and a slight bump on the end that allows for greater contact with the g-spot or prostate. The best thing about it, however, is that you can bend it into any shape you like! Within the shaft is a wire that can flex and hold the shape you bend it into, whether that’s a sharp curve or an undulating s-shape. Try it out in any strap-on harness and experiment with different poses to find the perfect shape, or use its strong suction cup to stick it to any smooth surface.

  • Posable shaft
  • Premium-quality silicone
  • Strong suction cup

  • Doesn't come with a harness
  • May not be suitable for more experienced users
  • Grippy texture
Fun Factory Limba
Length5 inches
Insertable length4.5 inches
Diameter1.2 inches
MaterialsSilicone
WaterproofYes
FlexibilityFlexible and Poseable

It’s important to note about the Fun Factory Limba that it doesn’t come with a harness or o-rings to use it as a thin strap-on. That means, if you don’t already have one, you’ll have to purchase these things separately. It can be used with all kinds of harnesses, from more traditional double-leg-strap harnesses like those above to underwear-style harnesses. Also, like all Fun Factory toys, the Limba dildo has some interestingly-textured silicone. It feels a bit rough and grippy, which holds on really well to lube but might feel a little strange at first. It doesn’t change the fact, however, that it’s super high-quality silicone and 100% body-safe.

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Wet For Her Union Small Double Ended Dildo

 Wet For Her Union

  • Have a vagina
  • Want a more authentic strap-on experience
  • Like the idea of pleasure for both parties
  • Are looking for a non-phallic dildo

Wet For Her Union

  • Have pelvic floor issues
  • Want a dildo with very strong vibrations
  • Are on a budget

What’s this, a strap-on with no straps?! Yep, the world is changing, and a strap-on can be whatever you want it to be! This strapless strap-on is made by Wet For Her, specialists in lesbian sex toys, is perfect for those who want an authentic-looking and feeling experience without necessarily using a realistic dildo. The ‘bulb’ end is meant to be inserted into the wearer’s vagina and held there with the pelvic floor muscles as they thrust the dildo end. The way the dildo protrudes from the vagina is described by many as much more lifelike than wearing a traditional harness, meaning you can feel much closer to each other. The Wet For Her Union has a flexible shaft that can be posed how you prefer, as well as a bullet vibrator that you can insert inside it, meaning there’s pleasure for both parties! There are three sizes to choose from, but we’re featuring the Small size, which is only two fingers wide and makes a perfect thin strap-on.

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  • Internal vibrations for the giver and the receiver
  • Looks much more 'realistic' than wearing a harness
  • Medical-grade silicone

  • Expensive
  • Can be very difficult to use without a harness
  • Weak vibrations
Wet For Her Union
Vibration speeds5
Insertable length5.9 inches
Diameter1 inches
Diameter (internal)(Bulb) 1.45 inches
MaterialsSilicone
WaterproofYes
RechargeableYes
AdjustableYes

A strapless strap-on like the Wet For Her Union can be a really unique way to experience strap-on play with your partner! Of course, it can only be worn by someone with a vagina, but there’s no limits to what it can penetrate. Many people also feel that these kinds of toys can be tricky or intimidating to use. Yet, if you don’t have kegel muscles of steel, then don’t worry, the Union can also be used with a harness! We recommend underwear-style harnesses to keep the dildo portion secure and the bulb portion inside of you.

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Lovehoney Double Up Vibrating Dual Penetration Strap-On Kit

 Lovehoney Double Up Strap-On Kit

  • Have a vagina
  • Enjoy giving and receiving penetration
  • Are looking for a beginners dildo
  • Want some gentle vibrations
  • Are after a super comfortable harness

Lovehoney Double Up Strap-On Kit

  • Want a longer dildo
  • Don't want to be penetrated as the wearer
  • Are looking for a more adjustable harness
  • Prefer stronger vibrations

If you’re looking for a bit less of a pelvic floor workout but still don’t want to miss out on the pleasure of penetration, then this thin strap-on kit might be for you! In it, you’ll receive an ultra-comfortable boxer-brief-style harness with a built-in o-ring, 2 silicone dildos and a bullet vibrator. Unlike other strap-on sets with multiple dildos, only the slim pink dildo is designed to penetrate your partner, while the black dildo sits in an o-ring in the gusset on the harness to penetrate the wearer. You can also slip the bullet vibrator into the hollow of the black dildo and enjoy extra vibrations as you thrust.

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  • Penetration for both parties
  • Comfortable and secure underwear-style harness
  • Beginner-friendly dildos
  • Comes with a removable bullet vibrator

  • Dildos may be too short for more experienced users
  • Harness is not adjustable
  • Built-in o-rings can't accommodate large dildos
Lovehoney Double Up Strap-On Kit
Vibration speeds2
Vibration patterns5
Insertable lengthPink Dildo: 5 inches; Black Dildo: 4 inches
DiameterPink Dildo: 1 inch; Black Dildo: 1.3 inches
MaterialsDildos: Silicone; Harness: Cotton
WaterproofYes
Harness SizeS/M: US size 4-8; M/L: US size 10-14 inches
AdjustableNo
RechargeableNo

While the Double Up Strap-On Kit from Lovehoney might not be the most fancy one around, but it offers a unique experience for wearers who don’t want to miss out on the fun. It’s also great for those trying out pegging for the first time, with a super slender and smooth dildo. However, since it doesn’t come with multiple o-rings, you might struggle if you want to graduate to larger dildos later. It’s also a shame that the bullet vibrator is battery-powered, and doesn’t produce the strongest vibrations. Lovehoney do provide the 6 LR44 batteries required, but you could also switch out this bullet vibrator for another that fits into the base of the dildo.

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Tracey Cox Supersex Strap-On Pegging Kit

 Tracey Cox Pegging Kit

  • Want a strap-on kit you can progress with
  • Like to switch between a thin strap-on and a thicker one
  • Are looking for adjustability
  • Like the idea of vibrations in the harness
  • Want the option to add or remove vibration

Tracey Cox Pegging Kit

  • Only want thin strap-on dildos
  • Prefer strong vibrations
  • Are looking for a very high-quality, long-lasting kit
  • Prefer a brief style harness
  • Need a harness size larger than 65 inches

Finally, we have another Bedbible favorite! The Tracey Cox Supersex Pegging Kit from Lovehoney is a great all-rounder and is great for those who are looking to get into strap-on play for the first time, as well as those who are looking for their new fave kit. Included is a sturdy double leg strap harness, 2 silicone dildos, 2 o-rings to match, and a bullet vibrator. For the price, it’s pretty crazy how much that actually is included. The first dildo is thin and slightly curved, making it the perfect starter dildo both for vaginal and anal penetration. Then, there’s the pink dildo for those ready to up their game — it’s girthier, longer and features some gentle ribbing along the shaft for extra stimulation with each thrust. It also has a hollow inside where you can place the bullet vibe and turn it into a vibrating dildo! If that’s not your thing, slip the bullet into the pocket in the front of the harness for some clitoral buzz instead.

  • Suitable for beginners and intermediate users
  • 2 silicone dildo set
  • Sturdy, adjustable harness
  • Removable bullet vibrator
  • Complete kit
  • Multiple O ring and dildo sizes
  • Submersible
  • Dildos can be used with harness or own their own

  • Larger dildo is less beginner-friendly
  • Bullet vibrator pocket is in the wrong place for some
  • Less comfortable harness
  • O-ring can stretch over time
  • Straps can be awkward
  • Packaging is heavily gendered
  • Bullet vibe takes LR44 batteries which can be hard to find
Tracey Cox Pegging Kit
Vibration speeds2
Vibration patterns5
Insertable lengthTextured dildo: 6 inches. Smooth dildo: 4.5 inches inches
DiameterTextuted dildo: 1.5 inches Smooth Dildo: 0.8 inches inches
Harness SizeUp to 65 inches
AdjustableYes
MaterialsSilicone, ABS plastic, Neoprene, Nylon
WaterproofYes
Storage Bag IncludedNo
Colors AvailableHarness: black. Dildos: pink, black.

If you want a thin strap-on with versatility, you can’t go wrong with the Tracy Cox Supersex Pegging Kit. It will grow with you, and can be used with all kinds of dildos as you continue your strap-on journey. Plus, it’s a total steal! Like before, we wish the bullet vibrator was rechargeable and stronger, but it’s not a dealbreaker. Lovehoney provides the batteries you’ll need, but you can sub in any bullet vibrator you prefer! And the great thing is that you can choose if you want it or not in some other harnesses you don’t get the option at all.

More Strap-On-Compatible Thin Dildos

The fun doesn’t stop there! If you have a strap-on harness you love, you can explore all kinds of dildos, big or small — the world is truly your oyster! Here are just a few more of our favorite thin dildos that you can slot into a strap-on and get thrusting…

Doc Johnson The Slim Dildo

Doc Johnson The Slim Dildo - More Strap-On-Compatible Thin Dildos
This is an OG of the thin dildo world, but it still holds up. This sturdy silicone dildo is slim, sleek and slightly curved for maximum pleasure without the girth. It has a suction cup base that works well in a harness or stuck to any smooth surface, even the shower!

Tantus Charmer

Tantus Charmer - More Strap-On-Compatible Thin Dildos
Described by some as the ultimate pegging dildo, the Tantus Charmer has everything! It’s slim, has a tapered tip for easy insertion, a bulbous head for tantalizing g-spot or p-spot massage, undulating waves down the shaft, and a flared base that sits nicely in all kinds of harness. Plus, it really is the prettiest pearlescent purple color.

Lovehoney Curved Dildo

Lovehoney Curved Dildo - More Strap-On-Compatible Thin Dildos
For those on a budget, look no further than Lovehoney’s range of curved dildos. They’re made from smooth, high-quality silicone and have a semi-realistic look with a slightly bulbous head. This is smallest of the bunch, at 5.5 inches long and 1.1 inches in diameter, but there are loads more available for if and when you want to size up.

Make Your Strap-On Comfier

Bumpher Silicone Dildo Base Pad

Bumpher Silicone Dildo Base Pad - Make Your Strap-On Comfier
If you’re anything like us, then comfort is always a top priority with any sex toy! And, when it comes to strap-ons, it’s doubly important. If you struggle with pain in your pubic mound from your strap-on dildo pressing against and digging in through the harness, then you may well love the Bumpher dildo base pad. Just slip it over the base of your dildo and it will act as a squishy cushion between you and the dildo. Plus, it has textured bumps that provide you with extra stimulation — you can even grind against them as you thrust away.

Why You Should Be Using Lube With Your Strap-On

Here at Bedbible, we are huge advocates of the wonders of lube! Lubricants, in short, make sex more comfortable and more pleasurable. When using a strap-on, even a thin one, lube is essential to the receiver’s comfort and safety, especially if you’re using it anally. The anus doesn’t produce any of its own lubrication, unlike the vagina, and is a very delicate area, so it needs some help to avoid friction and tears. We recommend using a specialized anal lube, like this one from Lovehoney, which is thicker and longer-lasting than traditional lubes. Plus, if you’re using a silicone dildo, you should stick with a water-based lube to avoid damaging the material. Finally, stay away from anal numbing lubes — they do more harm than good!

How to Use a Thin Strap-On

If you’ve never tried a strap-on before, then there’s a few things you’ll have to get the hang of before you can go full steam ahead! This is especially true if you’re not used to being the penetrating partner — it turns out thrusting takes some skill and effort! Here are some tips to ensure that both of you will love your new thin strap-on…

Adjust the Harness

Adjust the Harness

Depending on the type of harness you’re using, it will have more or less adjustability. Harnesses with straps need to be fitting snugly to your body before you start using them. Adjust all the straps until the harness is comfortable and the base sits flat against your pubic mound.

Practice Wearing It For a While

Practice Wearing It For a While

Wearing a harness can feel a bit weird and unnatural at first, so it can be a good idea to just wear it around the house to get used to the sensation. You can get a feel for how it moves, and it will start feeling more and more natural and sexy!

Warm Up

Warm Up

When it’s time to get down and dirty, make sure you take the time to warm up your partner first. If you’re penetrating vaginally, then clitoral and/or vaginal stimulation first will help, while anal penetration calls for some gentle anus and perineum massage, followed by slipping a lubed up finger into the anus.

Start Off Slow

Start Off Slow

Once you’re ready to penetrate your partner with your thin strap-on, then first lube up! Then, go very slowly and give your partner time to adjust to the sensations. You don’t get any physical feedback from a dildo like you would a penis, so keep checking in with your partner to see if you need to stop or adjust anything.

Allow Your Partner to Move First

Allow Your Partner to Move First

Before you start thrusting, it can be a good idea to allow your partner to do the moving. That way, they can control the depth and speed of penetration, and you can get an idea of what they enjoy. The cowgirl (or boy, or person) position is good for this. Then, when you’re ready, you can start thrusting!

How to Clean a Thin Strap-On

Cleaning your thin strap-on after every use (and before, if you can) is the best way to keep yourself safe and your strap-on in great condition. Always check the instructions from your strap-on manufacturer before you do anything, but there are also some general guidelines to follow. Waterproof dildos can be cleaned with some simple mild soap and water, though non-waterproof dildos are best cleaned with a damp cloth or sex toy cleaner. Many harnesses are machine-washable, but those made from silicone or leather should be cleaned gently by hand. Then, make sure everything is dry before storing it.

FAQ

There's no rules when it comes to who can wear a strap-on! Whether you're male, female, or non-binary, there's a strap-on to suit everybody. Women who want to try pegging with their male partners often prefer a thin strap-on, as it's a much more comfortable option for those who aren't used to anal penetration.

No — some strap-ons come as kits that include a dildo (or dildos), a harness, and sometimes a bullet vibrator, too. However, there are also many dildos that can be used in a harness, but aren't sold with one. If your dildo has a flat, flared base, like a suction cup, it can be used in a strap-on harness!

Thin strap-ons are a great beginners option as they are smaller and less intimidating for penetration. This is especially relevant if you want to use your strap-on anally. Other things to look out for are a smoother textured dildo, and one that's not too long.

If you want to use your thin strap-on anally, a little bit of anal cleaning beforehand can be a good idea. You don't need to douche — just hop in the shower and clean the outside of your anus, then insert a finger an inch or so inside and give it a quick rinse. It's also a good idea to take a poop before anal play. Then, lube up well (this counts for vaginal penetration, too), relax and go slow.

What is a Thin Strap-On?

A thin strap-on is any dildo or strap-on harness set that includes a slim dildo. They're ideal for beginners, including those who want to give pegging a try for the first time, but they're also just as good for more experienced users who just prefer a more slender, comfortable dildo. In a thin strap-on set, you can expect to get a harness for one partner to wear, one or more slimline dildos to put into the harness, and one or more o-rings that go around the base of the dildo and affix it to the harness. Many sets also include a bullet vibrator that can be inserted into a pocket in the front of the harness, or inside the base of the dildo. However, there's also strap-on compatible dildos that don't come with harnesses, or even strapless strap-ons!

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