6 Best Gay Male Sex Toys for Penis and Anal Pleasure Alike

I picked out the SquarePegToys Mega Milk’it as the best prostate massager in this review because of the intense pressure it puts on the prostate. That’s right, it’s not vibrations or rotations that massage the prostate directly, it’s the sensation of fullness and the unique pressure that stimulates the area. It is definitely not a beginner-friendly shape or size, but it’s a perfect match for those with plenty of experience looking for something a bit extreme to play with.  The unique egg-like shape with the spikey texture on one side felt amazing according to Allen. He already owns a few prostate massagers, and he noted that all work the same way and provide the same kind of stimulation that’s limited to one small area. When he first inserted the Mega Milk’It, he said: “I think my brain short circuited”.  “The Mega Milk’it due to it’s overall size and its concave side with ample ridges felt like someone was simultaneously fisting me while trying to squeeze my prostate”. Our tester, Allen, was a bit taken aback by the size at first. But because of how soft and squishy the silicone is, it doesn’t feel as intimidating as it looks. However, along with the lack of taper, this does mean it’s difficult to insert at first. Allen did have to experiment with his approach a few times before he had some luck.  “Even though I finally started to get the toy in me, it wasn’t a cake walk and once it was in I felt just about stretched and filled to my limit, but oh my god did it feel good”.

The best masturbator in a review of the best male gay sex toys had to be an anal fleshlight. Not just any anal fleshlight. I’ve picked one that, in my expert opinion, best replicates the sensation of anal sex. Introducing the Fleshlight Ice Butt!  The Fleshlight Ice Butt is a clear fleshlight that still has realistic design features. The opening looks like an anus and the clear material allows you to see your penis going in and out of the sleeve. Having tried a few clear Fleshlights with my partner, I know how great the added visuals are for partnered play.  As far as the performance goes, our tester, Andrew, describes that “the soft sleeve has a suction feeling that grips your shaft tightly and it is lined with 4 intensity chambers along with dozens of ticklers, teasers, pleasure nubs and ribs”. The “Crystal”-sleeve is pretty impressive, especially with the internal diameter of 0.4 inches. It feels nice and tight, just like the real thing.

I picked out the Oxballs Tri-Sport Cock Ring because it’s a great quality product. It’s one of the most sturdy yet comfortable cock rings we’ve tested here at Bedbible. Even though it can look a bit complicated to use, our tester, James, “didn’t really have much of an issue and although it might look slightly intimidating in photos, it’s surprisingly easy to use and feels great!”.  Putting in on actually is a “a nice experience because the material of the Oxballs Tri-Sport is incredibly stretchy”. While I would prefer this to be made of non-porous silicone, this kind of stretch is mostly available with TPE products. Since it’s not being used internally, the porous material shouldn’t be a huge problem if cleaned properly between uses. “The Tri-Sport felt very much like a regular cock ring and I liked how thick the rings were because they provided more pressure over a larger area. Overall, it felt snug and like everything was supported”. It doesn’t feel too bulky during sex but keep in mind that the thick rings do sacrifice a bit of penis length.

The Lovense Hush 2 Large is a premium quality vibrating butt plug with an impressive size and some impressive features.  I think the size is perfect for very experienced anal adventurers looking for an advanced level butt plug. The size and firmness of the plug is stimulating enough as is. Our tester, James, thought it felt amazing and especially liked how the tapered neck of the plug is made perfectly so “it feels so good when it’s in place”. In terms of vibrations, the sensations are powerful and super fun to use because of the app controlled settings. James and his partner had a lot of fun playing with these controls but “unfortunately the vibration is just too loud to use in public”, which was one of its main appeals to him originally.  The drawbacks are definitely the firmness. With something so large, the firmness can make it uncomfortable during insertion and removal. Luckily, the Lovense Hush 2 is available in a few different sizes!

Of all the inflatable anal toys I have seen in my time as a sex toy reviewer, the b-Vibe Expand Plug is one of the most impressive ones I’ve encountered. It doesn’t offer the largest size ever, but it is without a doubt a high quality item with some wonderful added vibrations. Most inflatable toys are made of latex, so the b-Vibe Expand Plug starts off by getting some points from being made of non-porous silicone. This makes it super easy to keep clean even though it’s only splashproof. Allen, our tester, loved this plug. After years of trying to find a plug that would fit perfectly and stay put during use, he found the perfect product. Although, he didn’t find the vibrations to be quite powerful enough and the size wasn’t satisfying: “I love the creativeness, but sadly for a size king like myself, the expanding element doesn’t really feel like much for me”. Still, I think the features could be a hit for less experienced users. The vibrations are felt in both the shaft and the perineum stimulator, and they’re even controlled by a remote that works form up to 30 ft away! The ergonomic shape is designed to put pressure on the prostate even when it isn’t inflated.  In my humble opinion, this plug is very much worth trying out. Luckily, Allen also shared that “the Expand Plug is still one of the best plugs I’ve used to this day, so I don’t really mind if all the other features aren’t instantly sending me into orgasmic bliss.”

Last but certainly not least, I wanted to include a male sex doll that can be used for lifelike sex for both tops and bottoms out there!  First things first, the design is incredibly impressive. According to our tester, Vernon, “the toy had a great feel to it. The gelatinous body made it a joy to squeeze and toss around. […] I even slapped the toy on the ass a couple of times. And yes, it was phenomenal”. Now, where he found some flaws were in the performance. Even though the dildo has beautifully realistic features, it’s not quite erect enough for a realistic penetration experience. Vernon noted that “if there were to be a stronger rod within the penis that still provided flexibility, the toy would be almost perfect”. While it can be difficult to penetrate Channing’s anus as well, the tightness and texture of the canal will make the effort worthwhile. This sensation combined with the realism of this weighted torso really makes for an amazing experience.