11 Best Gay Male Sex Toys for Penis and Anal Pleasure Alike

   Josh Gill
When you’re looking for the best gay male sex toys, the Bedbible team has you covered! I’ve searched through all of our +600 sex toy reviews to bring you the best of the best. From gay strokers and male sex dolls to vibrating prostate massagers! So here is my take on the the best tried-and-true gay male sex toys right now!
1 Test Winner

Lelo Loki Wave Vibrating Prostate Massager

 Lelo Loki Wave Massager

  • Want a travel-sized, discreet toy
  • Love P-spot pleasure
  • Enjoy WaveMotion stimulation

Lelo Loki Wave Massager

  • Prefer hands-free frun
  • Would rather pay less for a toy

The Lelo Loki Wave 2 Vibrating Prostate Massager is a fantastic kit to have in your ever-growing arsenal of P-spot vibrators! This quickly rechargeable toy makes sure that both your prostate and your perineum get in on the action and receive as much pleasure as possible. Double the delicious trouble! The WaveMotion technology is the absolute cherry on top, increasing the overall pleasurability of solo or partner plays! It will simulate a come-hither movement and stimulate you like no other classic vibrating toy has ever done.


  • Quick recharge time
  • WaveMotion technology
  • Prostate and your perineum pleaser

  • Not hands-free
  • Vibrator could be quieter
  • The steep price tag
Lelo Loki Wave Massager
Length8 inches
Insertable length4.5 inches
Width1.43 inches
Vibration patterns10
RechargeableYes: USB cable
Battery Life120 minutes
Charging Time60 minutes

Well hello there, Lelo Loki Wave Vibrating Prostate Massager! We think it’s high time you gave yourself a toy-induced orgasm – after all, masturbating just doesn’t seem as fun without a toy! Luckily you’re never too far away from a masturbation session as the quick recharge time means you’ll be good to go in an hour or less! The smooth silicone feels warm and realistic, and it will glide smoothly in and out. Yes, this toy could be a little quieter or go a little deeper, but for duel pleasure of both the prostate and perineum you really can’t go wrong with this little beauty!

2 Runner Up

Blowmotion Warming Vibrating Male Masturbator

 Blowmotion Warming Masturbator

  • Are looking for a travel toy
  • Need something inconspicuous
  • Want a toy that warms up

Blowmotion Warming Masturbator

  • Need an automatic masturbator
  • Want frenulum-specific stimulation
  • Don’t like warming toys

If you’re after vibrators for gay men that can easily hide in plain sight, you should check out the Blowmotion Warming Vibrating Male Masturbator! Shaped like an air freshener, this travel-sized masturbator blesses your penis with a combination of vibrations and warmth. The silicone interior has six vibration patterns and three intensities to offer, complete with warmth up to 104°F for a more realistic penetration experience. Equipped with a travel lock and designed to be splashproof, the Blowmotion Warming Vibrating Male Masturbator is an excellent option if you need something for your travels!


  • Unique look
  • Travel-friendly
  • Has a warming function
  • Easy to use

  • Can get uncomfortable
  • Warming feature can become uncomfortable
  • Expensive
Blowmotion Warming Masturbator
Vibration speeds3
Vibration patterns6
Length5.1 inches
Insertable length3 inches
Width3.9 inches
Diameter (internal)~1.5 inches
Battery Life60 minutes
Travel LockYes
Storage Bag IncludedNo
Colors AvailableBlack

As a gay vibrator, the Blowmotion Warming Vibrating Male Masturbator has two main features to offer. The most unique one is the warming function, although this isn’t perfect. Our tester reported that the toy actually got a bit too warm for his liking, although it never reached a painful level. Still, this is something to consider if you’re temperature sensitive. The toy offers a good selection of vibrations, which should be more than enough to push you over the edge. However, since the toy is mainly designed to stimulate the end of your penis, you’ll only have three inches of insertable length to work with. For some, this could be a dealbreaker. For others, this is a non-issue. The plus side is that pretty much any size of penis will get the same experience! Easy to clean, priced somewhat reasonably, and offering a warming function, the Blowmotion Warming Vibrating Male Masturbator is worth picking up if you really want a vibrator with a lifelike feel!

3 Beginner

Fun Factory Manta Versatile Penis Vibrator

 Fun Factory Manta

  • Want a vibrating stroker
  • Love experimenting
  • Need a quiet toy

Fun Factory Manta

  • Have a small budget
  • Hate long charging times
  • Need a long battery life

The Fun Factory Manta Vibrating Male Stroker is a gay vibrator that’s perfect for both personal and partnered use. Its unique design sends waves of vibrations through the ribbed “wings” on the sides of the toy, which wrap around your penis to provide stimulation. Waterproof, rechargeable, and easy to use, the Fun Factory Manta is an incredibly versatile toy. Being made of silicone & ABS plastic, it’s high-quality as well! If you’re looking for a vibrator that you can use while masturbating that actually offers stimulation then the Fun Factory Manta Vibrating Male Stroker is a toy worth checking out!


  • Made of silicone & ABS plastic
  • Quiet during use
  • Easy to clean
  • Hypoallergenic
  • Waterproof

  • Short battery performance
  • Long charging time
  • Proprietary charger
Fun Factory Manta
Length7 inches
Width3 inches
MaterialsMedical-Grade Silicone, ABS Plastic
Battery Life40-120 minutes
Charging Time300-420 minutes
Travel LockYes
Weight.5 lbs

Design-wise, these gay vibrators perform very well. Sure, the color may be a bit lackluster, but the design itself performs well during use. Since the wings are fairly flexible, the Fun Factory Manta Vibrating Male Stroker can easily accommodate most sizes of penises. When fun time is over, cleaning the toy is a breeze! Really, the main drawback of this toy is the battery. It uses a proprietary charger, takes up to seven hours to charge, and lasts anywhere from 40 to 120 minutes. For a toy that costs over $100, this is extremely disappointing. That said, since many people don’t masturbate for forty minutes straight, this lackluster battery life may be enough to keep you satisfied. I selected this toy as my “Stroker” pick because its unique design allows it to enhance male masturbation. If you like the design and don’t mind the short battery life then the Fun Factory Manta Vibrating Male Stroker might be worth picking up. However, if you need a device that can last for hours and charges quickly, it would be best to look elsewhere.

4 Cheapest

Lovehoney Butt Tingler Anal Plug Vibrator

 Lovehoney Butt Tingler

  • Need an easy-to-use toy
  • Want something quiet
  • Have a small budget

Lovehoney Butt Tingler

  • Want intense vibrations
  • Prefer rechargeable toys
  • Are used to larger toys

Although many vibrators for gay men can set you back a pretty penny, the Lovehoney Butt Tingler Vibrating Plug isn’t one of them. Costing less than $30, this vibrating butt plug technically gives you two toys for the price of one! The gay vibrator features a removable bullet vibe inside of the plug itself, which is powered by a single AAA battery. Despite this simple design, it still has the main two features you’d want from your gay vibrators: a silicone build and a waterproof design! Easy to use, designed with beginners in mind, and offered at an extremely affordable price, the Lovehoney Butt Tingler Vibrating Plug is a great option for those new to the worlds of vibrators and anal play.


  • Made of silicone
  • Multiple speeds & patterns
  • Two color options
  • Easy to clean
  • Affordable

  • Not rechargeable
  • Needs batteries (one AAA)
  • Only one size offered (small)
  • Not the most exciting
Lovehoney Butt Tingler
Vibration speeds3
Vibration patterns7
Insertable length3.5 inches
Length5 inches
Diameter1.1 inches
MaterialsSilicone, ABS Plastic
Travel LockNo
Remote ControlsNo
Storage Bag IncludedNo
Colors AvailableBlack

The Lovehoney Butt Tingler Vibrating Plug earned the “Cheapest” mention on this list of gay vibrators. As such, a few sacrifices have been made to keep the price low. First, this toy isn’t rechargeable like many other vibrators for gay men. This isn’t necessarily an issue since you’ll never have to wait on it to recharge, but it does mean you’ll want to keep batteries around. On the plus side, you could always remove the bullet vibe and just use the toy as a regular plug! The vibrations also may be underwhelming, as they’re relatively weak compared to more premium products. Still, if all you want is a relatively quiet gay vibrator with some vibrations then this toy will meet your needs. The three speeds and seven patterns at least give you some variety to work with. While I wouldn’t recommend this to anyone who wants powerful vibrations, as a first vibrating butt plug, I think it works for those on a tight budget!

5 Anal Masturbator

Fleshjack Brent Corrigan Bliss Masturbator

 Fleshjack Brent Corrigan

  • Want a top-quality fleshlight
  • Enjoy manual stimulation
  • Want a realistic-looking sex toy

Fleshjack Brent Corrigan

  • Are looking for an automatic sex toy
  • Prefer a sex toy for couples
  • Are not into pornstars

Live out each and every one of your fantasies with the Fleshjack Brent Corrigan Bliss Masturbator! As a super accurate replica of the adult film stars but, you get a realistic looking and feeling experience, akin to the real thing! The textured inner canal is ridged and textured for extra pleasure, and it is all contained in a stylish and discreet blue case for easy and discreet storage.

  • Life-like pornstar butt replica
  • Super textured inner sleeve
  • Easy to use and easy to store

  • Not hands-free
  • Kind of bulky
  • Quite expensive
  • Requires a powder treatment to remain feeling good
Fleshjack Brent Corrigan
Length10 inches
Insertable length7.25-9 inches
Width3.5 inches
MaterialsThermoplastic Elastomer (TPE), ABS Plastic
TextureBliss Texture
OpeningsTop lid to cover the toy entry point, bottom lid for suction adjustment.
AdjustableSuction strength utilizing the bottom twist lid.
Weight1.4 lbs

The Fleshjack Brent Corrigan Bliss Masturbator is a fleshlight that accurately replicates the butt of the eponymous adult film star. The tight entrance conceals a long and highly detailed inner canal featuring bumps and ridges specifically designed to stimulate your rock hard cock. Texture wise it feels pretty realistic. The fleshlight might be a little bulky and it’s kind of a pain to clean due to the tight entrance, but it’s still a worthwhile toy if you want to live out all of your Levi Karter fantasies!

6 Prostate Plug

Lovense Edge 2 Prostate Massager

 Lovense Edge 2

  • Want an app-controlled toy
  • Require a long battery life
  • Are relatively new to anal play

Lovense Edge 2

  • Struggle with apps
  • Need something silent
  • Want a different size

My next pick on this list of vibrators for gay men is the Lovense Edge 2 Rechargeable Prostate Massager. Like many other gay vibrators from Lovense, this toy can be connected to the Lovense app for instant access to a wide variety of features. Some of the options include additional vibration patterns, the option to sync with music, alarms, and even remote controllability! The vibrations themselves won’t let you down, providing strong stimulation directly to your P-spot. If you’re after a powerful prostate massager that offers a ton of advanced vibe functions for you to explore then the Lovense Edge 2 Rechargeable Prostate Massager is just what you need!


  • Powerful vibrations
  • Dual-motor design
  • App-controllable
  • Easy to clean

  • Somewhat noisy
  • Requires app for full experience
  • Expensive
Lovense Edge 2
Vibration speeds3 (more in-app)
Vibration patterns4 (more in-app)
Length4.9 inches
Insertable length3.6 inches
Diameter1.4 inches
Battery Life100 minutes
Charging Time30-45 minutes
Remote ControlsApp
Storage Bag IncludedYes

The Lovense Edge 2 Rechargeable Prostate Massager is a very good gay vibrator. In terms of strength, the vibrations are more than adequate. When combined with the nearly unlimited amount of options you get from the app, this toy easily outperforms a lot of similar gay vibrators. That said, there is one area where the Lovense Edge 2 Rechargeable Prostate Massager falls short, and that’s in its ability—or lack thereof—to be quiet. True, it’s not the loudest thing around, but you’ll definitely need to turn on some background noise for this one! The massager measures 4.5 inches long, and 3.5 inches are insertable. It has a maximum diameter of 1.35 inches, giving it an approachable size for all but the newest of anal toy users. It would be nice if there were other sizes available, and the ability to use a toy in almost complete silence is always a plus. Even so, I still think the Lovense Edge 2 Rechargeable Prostate Massager is worth picking up. Where it’s lacking in sizing and silence, it more than makes up for with pure performance!

7 App-Enabled

Lovense Max 2 - Automatic Masturbator

 Lovense Max 2

  • Are looking for powerful male vibrator
  • Are looking for more realistic sensations
  • Want an app-enabled toy for long-distance pleasure
  • Want to try out VR porn

Lovense Max 2

  • Prefer a simple masturbator
  • Are on a budget
  • Are not into Fleshlights
  • Want a more couple-oriented sex toy

Meet the Lovense Max 2, the automatic male masturbator that will take your pleasure to a new level! Beneath its sleek and discreet exterior, you’ll find a textured sleeve that offers incredible sensations! But the Max 2 takes it up a notch with deep, rumbly vibrations that pulse through your entire length. And let’s not forget its unique inflatable lining, creating a suction effect that feels incredibly lifelike. Use it manually, or use the Lovense Remote app to personalize your experience, from vibrations to suction levels. And if you are feeling adventurous, give control to a partner, wherever they might be! Also, you can connect Max 2 to other Lovense sex toys for multi-toy play!


  • Powerful vibrations
  • App-controlled
  • Suction feature
  • Textured inner sleeve
  • More sleeves available for purchase

  • Not so easy to use
  • Quite expensive
  • Cleaning takes a lot of effort
Lovense Max 2
Vibration speeds3
Vibration patterns4
Thrust Modes3 Contraction Levels
Length9.5 inches
Insertable length6.25 inches
Diameter3.4 inches
Diameter (internal)2 inches
Openings1 Neutral Opening
MaterialsSleeve: TPE, Case: ABS Plastic
Battery Life300 minutes
Charging Time100 minutes
Travel LockNo

The Lovense Max 2 is among the most popular vibrating masturbators! It’s got everything from a textured sleeve to powerful vibrations and even a suction feature. But remember, this toy is on the bigger side, so finding a discreet spot for it might be challenging. And yeah, the price might make you double-take, but if you’re up for splurging, the experience is worth it. Whether you’re using it alone or letting a partner take the reins, this toy is all about next-level pleasure!

8 Cock Ring

Hot Octopuss Atom Plus Cock ring

 Hot Octopuss Atom Plus

  • Love to use cock rings
  • Like the feeling of a butt plug
  • want to spice up your cock ring experience with vibrations
  • Want a flexible silicone toy
  • want to add a unique toy to your sex toy arsenal
  • mostly want to use if for solo or oral play

Hot Octopuss Atom Plus

  • Want something less flexible
  • don't want to pay that much for a cock ring
  • Have a girthier cock
  • have mobility or grip issues
  • are overly concerned about the snug fit

The Hot Octopuss Atom Plus Cock Ring is a unique sex toy designed for men, particularly beneficial for those with erectile dysfunction (ED). It’s noted for its dual integrated motors, which provide deep, rumbly vibrations to both the wearer and their partner. This product stands out for its versatility, being equally effective in solo and partnered situations. It’s also USB rechargeable and fully waterproof, adding to its convenience and usability in different environments.


  • Nice stretchy cock ring
  • Decent size butt plug
  • Body-safe material
  • Vibrations are powerful and very pleasant
  • Buttons on it make sense and are easy to interact with
  • Materials are extremely soft

  • Quite tight for girthier cocks
  • Not a very deep butt plug
  • Can be difficult to put on solo
  • Can feel too snug at certain times
  • On the larger side
Hot Octopuss Atom Plus
Vibration modes5 modes with adjustable frequency
Vibration patterns5 different patterns
Length4.72 inches
Width2.36 inches
Battery LifeUp to 40 minutes
Charging Time120 minutes
Weight0.22 lbs
Storage Bag IncludedYes
Colors AvailableBlack

In my opinion, the Hot Octopuss Atom Plus Cock Ring is an innovative and high-quality sex toy that offers unique benefits, especially for individuals with ED. Its dual motor design and versatility in use make it a standout option. However, the loudness and price point could be potential drawbacks for some. If you prioritize intense stimulation and are open to exploring new sexual experiences, this product could be a great addition to your collection. On the other hand, if you’re sensitive to loud noises or prefer more traditional, less intense sex toys, you might want to consider other options.

9 Male Sex doll

Tantaly Channing

 Tantaly Channing

  • Love to ride a big cock
  • Want a realistic feeling toy
  • Want a top-notch male sex doll

Tantaly Channing

  • Prefer more holes to use
  • Want to pay a little less
  • Want a small and easy to store sex toy

If you’re looking for an erotic and exciting male specimen then look no further because the Tantaly Channing has you covered! Alongside an impressive 7 inch cock, it also has a tight and realistic feeling entrance for you to enjoy. The perfectly sculpted torso gives you some eye candy too!

  • Realistic feeling
  • Deep and tight opening
  • Can be used for role play

  • Hole might be too tight for some
  • Can be heavy for some
  • Penis does not maintain erection
Tantaly Channing
Height21.26 inches
LengthPenis: 7.09, Leg: 3.94 inches
Insertable lengthAnus: 5.91 inches
Diameter (internal)Anus: 0.28 inches
Weight37.17 lbs
Condom safeYes
Storage Bag IncludedYes
Colors AvailableFair & Wheat

The Tantaly Channing is an impressively endowed toy that has plenty of options. You can enjoy the 7 inch cock, you can experience the small, tight hole, and you can enjoy it in a variety of ways. The textures are realistic and the internal depth is good and should be able to handle most cocks. The hole however might prove to be a little too tight for some people, so getting in could be tricky. Also the size and shape makes it a difficult one to keep hidden! And you know how difficult it can be to hide it when you’re pitching a tent down there!

10 Anal Beads

B-Vibe Cinco Remote Control Anal Beads

 B-Vibe Cinco Anal Beads

  • Already know that you love anal vibrations
  • Are interested in trying larger anal beads
  • Enjoy deep anal stimulation
  • You want to allow someone else to be in control
  • You want a more hands free experience

B-Vibe Cinco Anal Beads

  • You're looking for something thicker/longer like a dildo
  • Have never tried anal beads before
  • Prefer very rumbly vibrations over buzzy ones

When it comes to gay male sex toys, the b-Vibe Cinco is an impressive contender. It provides the thrill of anal vibrations and anal beads in a package that’s very large and in charge! These vibrating anal beads are a fantastic anal play item if you are looking for something to give you a special thrill, as well as some hands-free fun. The beads start out small but gradually become larger as you work your way down the stiff shaft. However, this doesn’t mean that they beginner-friendly. These babies are definitely in the larger category, providing a thrilling sensation for anyone out there who likes a little intensity in their anal adventures. Use the included remote (with a 30 ft. range!) to control the vibrations to spare yourself the trouble of reaching behind for manual control, or to enjoy your partner deciding what you feel and when!

  • Powered by three separate motors
  • Wide range remote control for hands-free fun
  • Great for partnered play
  • Splash proof remote control
  • 100% non-porous, body-safe silicone

  • Battery life is not great
  • Not as handy for manual use
  • Only splashproof
  • Some settings can feel a bit buzzy
B-Vibe Cinco Anal Beads
Vibration speeds6
Vibration patterns15
Length8.2 inches
Insertable length7.4 inches
DiameterWidest bead: 1.3 inches
Battery Life60 minutes
Charging Time120 minutes
Travel LockYes
Remote ControlsYes — physical remote
Storage Bag IncludedYes

The b-Vibe Cinco beads are a great way to get that impressive anal thrill in a generally hands free way. I really like remote controlled anal toys. They’re super practical for both solo use and partnered fun. Best part is that you do’t have to deal with using the controls at an impractical angle when it’s inserted. That said, when it comes to remote controls you want them to work from an appropriate range. One thing I really appreciate about these anal beads is that the remote has a 30 ft range! The handy little remote control allows you (or your partner) to set the speed, intensity and pattern at will. The USB charger is handy and can be fully charged in 2 hours, however the battery only lasts for up to an hour, meaning that if you’re having some extended fun you might have to use this particular toy sparingly. Now, this is an expensive product, I’m not going to lie. I do think they’re great at what they do. They provide some fulfilling sensations in terms of size and shape, and the vibrations are pretty powerful and deep, albeit somewhat buzzy at times. But I wouldn’t recommend a product in this price range for anyone who doesn’t engage in anal play regularly, haven’t tried anal beads before, or simply find these to be a tad too sizable. However, if you happen to fulfill all that criteria, I suggest you go forth and masturbate with style!

11 Pulsating

Arcwave Ion Pleasure Air Male Masturbator

 Arcwave Ion

  • Love frenulum stimulation
  • Want to try “Pleasure Air”
  • Enjoy edging

Arcwave Ion

  • Want traditional vibrations
  • Require an extended battery life
  • Prefer stroker toys

Last but not least is the Arcwave Ion Pleasure Air Smart Silence Male Masturbator. Unlike most gay vibrators, this toy doesn’t require direct contact with your penis to provide stimulation. Instead, it uses the same “Pleasure Air” tech found in the Womanizer sex toys! Offering eight intensities and able to be used one-handed, this sleek masturbator will give you an experience like you’re never felt before. The toy is great for edging, thanks to a “Smart Silence” feature that automatically shuts the toy off when it loses skin contact. Of course, if you just want to finish right away, the Arcwave Ion is more than happy to help! If you’re ready to upgrade from physical vibrations and give “Pleasure Air” a try then the Arcwave Ion is a must-try toy!


  • “Pleasure Feature”
  • “Smart Silence” feature
  • Rechargeable
  • Waterproof

  • Short battery life
  • Only offered in one size
  • Difficult to hide due to bulky charging stand
Arcwave Ion
Vibration modes8 Intensities
Height3.2 inches
Length6 inches
Width2 inches
Diameter (internal)1.3 inches; stretches up to 1.75 inches
MaterialsMedical-Grade Silicone, ABS Plastic
Battery Life60-70 minutes
Charging Time120 minutes
Travel LockYes
Storage Bag IncludedNo, But Comes With Case
Colors AvailableBlack

Being my “Air Pulse” pick, this toy is unlike any other on the list. This gives it a few advantages but also may make it an unattractive option to some potential users. The Arcwave Ion Pleasure Air Smart Silence Male Masturbator mainly focuses on frenulum stimulation. This makes it effective for edging, solo play, and partner-based fun! Although you could technically count these as vibrators for gay men, since they technically pulse the air, it’s up for debate whether or not they actually qualify. The sleeve could be used as a stroker as well, but this would limit your ability to effectively target your frenulum. As such, you should mainly use this for the “Pleasure Air” function. It’s not a quiet toy and the battery only lasts for about an hour, but it provides an experience unlike any other toy at the moment. Ultimately, if you find yourself constantly underwhelmed by other gay vibrator toys on the market, I’d suggest giving the Arcwave Ion Pleasure Air Smart Silence Male Masturbator a try for yourself!

Will My Gay Sex Toy be Shipped Discreetly?

Of course it will! Discretion is always a priority when buying sex toys. After all you don’t particularly want your mailman or neighbors knowing what you like to get up to in the bedroom! So all shops will ship their toys in discreet packaging that will be indescernable from any other average package. In fact we’ve done a few posts that explore this very thing, reviewing the packaging from companies such as TooTimid, SheVibe, Adam&Eve, and Lovehoney. So don’t fret, your gay sex toy won’t be shipped in a vibrating neon pink flashing box wrapped with feather boas and playing “I Want To Break Free” by Queen! Like Frankie Goes To Hollywood said: Relax!


It’s important to know what your new “best friend” is made of. More specifically, is he porous or non-porous? Porous toys have tiny little holes (pores) in them, making it impossible to sterilize them. They also tend to collect more dirt and debris, which can be irritating without a proper place to store your toys. Non-porous toys, on the other hand, don’t have any pores, allowing them to be both washed and sterilized. This is ideal for internal use toys since it reduces your risk of introducing unwanted bacteria into the mix. Not to mention, soft plastics, jelly, rubber, PVC and vinyl often contain phthalates that can leach into your body!
  • Porous: TPE, TPR, Fanta Flesh, Cyberskin, Superskin, vinyl, PVC, rubber, and jelly (among others!)
  • Non-Porous: Silicone, stainless steel, ABS plastic, and glass.

Different Types of Gay Vibrators

There are many different types of vibrators for gay men. However, designs can vary quite a bit, and the type of toy you purchase will have a major effect on your overall enjoyment of the product. Read through the short list below to learn about the different toy types!
  • Cock RingsThese toys are designed to wrap around the penis, restricting blood flow. This causes harder, more impressive erections while also delaying orgasm for increased stamina!
  • Butt Plugs – These toys are inserted inside the anus, providing a “full” feeling that can be used to enhance orgasm.
  • Prostate Massagers – These toys specifically target the “P Spot”, giving users additional pleasure during sexual activities. Alternatively, these toys can also be used to achieve prostate orgasm!
  • Dildos – Designed to look like a penis, these toys work great for solo and partner-based activities. Dildos can also be used for pegging.
  • Strokers/Masturbators – These types of toys are designed to enhance masturbation. Designs vary, but they generally use physical movement to provide stimulation.

How to use gay male sex toys

There are many different kinds of gay male sex toys out there, and for each one there’s a plethora of ways you can use them, so we won’t go into the details of how to use each and every toy or we’d be here all week. Luckily there are a few general hints and tips that can be applied to all toys, so here are a few of the most important ones!

Use a lot of lube!

Use a lot of lube!

Making sure that everything’s as slippy and slidey as possible is essential. The importance of ensuring that your toys and your body are good to go cannot be understated and you can do this by using water-based lube! Lubricating both the toy AND your butt makes for plenty a safe, easy, and fun sexual encounter!

Use a little patience!

Use a little patience!

It’s important that you have patience and take your time when using gay male sex toys. More often than not you can’t just crank it up to 11 and jump in feet first; you have to take things slow, prepare, and let your body become accustomed and familiar with the toy you’re using.

Use some common sense!

Use some common sense!

This might seem a little obvious, but when using your gay male sex toys it’s always helpful to use your common sense. Stop and think a little. We know the horniness can be intoxicating, but taking a moment to engage your brain can really help you heighten the moment. If you’re not sure how to use something or what to do then checking manufacturers guidance is super helpful. It’s better than just jumping in and damaging the toy or – even worse – yourself!

How to clean gay male sex toys

We know this might seem obvious, but cleaning your gay male sex toys when done is super important! But it's a fairly simple task, and all you need is some warm water and mild soap to ensure that you clean away all the dirt from it. You don't want to find them all covered in bacteria and other such icky nastiness the next time you come to use them! Cos that's just gross! So here are a few handy guides on how to keep your gay male sex toys (and all sex toys for that matter) clean and hygienic!


Yes, of course they are. If used properly! If in doubt we would ALWAYS recommend stopping and consulting the manufacturer’s guidance. Better safe than sorry, right?!

Depending on the toy, yes! Vibrations can add an extra level of enjoyment to a traditional toy. However, the biggest thing to keep in mind is the design and style of the toy itself. Pay close attention to the dimensions if buying your first toy.

Any lubrication is good to use with your gay male sex toys, but we would always recommend water-based lubes and we would do so for a variety of reasons. Firstly it's body-safe and contains fewer chemicals than other types of lube, secondly it leaves no horrible sticky residue, and thirdly it's easy to clean up when you're all done.

Hell yes! Obviously you want to find the gay male sex toy for you, one that suits your needs and your body etc., but when you find THE ONE...oh boy, you're in for a treat! You're going to enter into a whole new world of pleasure!

Silicone is the best material. Not only is it soft to the touch, but it’s also non-porous, meaning it can technically be sterilized and won’t harbor bacteria like its porous counterparts.

Of course you can! Many of the gay male sex toys that we've talked about are awesome for masturbation sessions, but can totally be incorporated into the bedroom with your partner! Allowing them to take control of the toys or you using the toys on them really is an intimate act, and can really take the sex session up to the next level!

There are a number of reputable online retailers but I’d suggest SheVibe, Lovehoney, and Hustler Hollywood as my top three!

There are many online stores where you can pick up sex toys, but we recommend the following trusted online shops: Lovehoney, LELO, Shevibe, Spectrum Boutique, PinkCherry, Fleshlight, Adam & Eve, Bestvibe, and Hustler Hollywood.

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