5 Most Realistic Strap On Dildos

   Katarzyna Halinowska
Whether you’re new to the world of pegging or just want a more realistic dildo, you can’t go wrong with a realistic strap-on dildo! All the dildos I’ve chosen together with our team of testers are compatible with any harnesses. This is my ranking of the 5 Best and Most Realistic Strap On Dildos. Interested in the best overall strap-on toys, check that link instead.
1 Test Winner

Blush Neo Elite Realistic Dildo With Balls

 Blush Neo Elite Dildo With Balls

Blush Neo Elite Dildo With Balls

  • Double density (hard core, softer outer layer)
  • Compatible with almost all harnesses

  • Strong Suction Cup
  • Perfect Balance of Stiffness and Softness
  • Easily Cleaned Silicone Material

  • May be too girthy for a beginner
  • May be too soft for someone who likes firmer toys
Blush Neo Elite Dildo With Balls
Length7.5 inches
Insertable length5.5 inches
Diameter1.5 inches
FlexibilityVery Flexible
MaterialsSilicone
WaterproofYes
Storage Bag IncludedNo
Colors AvailableVanilla, Orange, Pink

The Blush Neo Elite is by far the best reviewed realistic dildo compatible with harnesses we’ve had on Bedbible. Ashley, who tested it, said it is “a fantastic choice if you’re looking for something hands-free, harness compatible.”. Ashley was “going crazy” about especially two things “the suction cup, and the softness of the toy”, and added about the double density construction that she loved the “smooth outer layer is very luxurious” it created. Most of our testers who’ve tried a double (or triple) density dildo come away amazed by it. In fact, Ashley didn’t have any negatives to say, hence why it landed as the best realistic and strap-on compatible dildo. The Runner up was a close second, but Ashley said “this one has a firmer core” that made it not as flaccid feeling as the other.

2 Runner Up

Blush Neo Elite Realistic Dildo

 Blush Neo Elite Realistic Dildo

Blush Neo Elite Realistic Dildo

  • Double density (hard core, softer outer layer)
  • Compatible with almost all harnesses

  • Skin is very soft and comfortable
  • Great average size
  • Versatile

  • May be too flexible
  • May be too soft
Blush Neo Elite Realistic Dildo
Length7.5 inches
Diameter1.5 inches
MaterialsPlatinum-Cured Silicone
WaterproofYes
FlexibilityVery Flexible
Storage Bag IncludedNo
Colors AvailableVanilla, Blue, Pink

Alice had the pleasure of testing the Blush Neo Elite for us, and only had a few drawbacks she highlighted, which at the end of the day came down to personal preferences. First, she though it had an “approachable size and girth”, and loved the “hyper-realistic surfacing” that is “detailed down to the last vein”. A large part of the realism is because it’s a platinum-cured dual density silicone and construction – that just feels and look super realistic! Almost anyone of our testers, and the whole office for that sake, love dual density dildos. Alice had used the dildo “in a number of ways, and each of them worked wonderfully”, but she did say that he favorite part was its remarkable strap-on compatibility.”. They already owned a strap-on harness that “it worked perfectly with” because it’s the “perfect size and design for use with a strap-on.” The only thing she didn’t like was that because of the “soft exterior, the dildo was a bit difficult to initially insert.”, and that left her with the feeling that “the penis I had inside of me was a bit flaccid.”

3 Budget-Friendly

Colours Dual Density 5″ Dildo

 Colours Dual Density 5″ Dildo

Colours Dual Density 5″ Dildo

  • Double density (hard core, softer outer layer)
  • Compatible with almost all harnesses
  • Stiff inner core

  • Suction cup is very strong
  • Dual layers make it feel more real
  • Body-safe silicone is easily cleaned

  • A little too soft
  • Could use a tab to help remove suction cup
Colours Dual Density 5″ Dildo
Length6.8 inches
Insertable length5.3 inches
Width1.5 inches
WaterproofYes
MaterialsSilicone
FlexibilityVery flexible
Storage Bag IncludedNo
Colors AvailableVanilla; Chocolate; Dark Chocolate; Blue; Purple; Pink

I’ll be honest with you, I considered making this a great beginner choice, but because both the test winner and the runner up are such great choices for beginners as well as advanced that didn’t make sense. Also, on top of that the price is pretty great on the Colors dildo, which ultimately made it my budget option. Even our tester, Ashley (who also tested the Neo Elite) said it was “cheap for what you get”. She was most impressed by the strong suction cup commenting “Holy cow!!!!”, which says it all coupled with the fact she struggled getting it off certain surfaces. Something I definitely think you can live with, especially when I consider how some of the suction cup dildos we’ve tested struggle to keep suction. Ashley said she would “recommend this to anyone”, because it “feels more real than regular dildos”. She also added that “unlike the typical dildo that is normally sometimes almost too stiff and straight, this dildo has a bit more give to it”. Especially the fact that it both feels more real, and not as stiff is caused by the dual density construction with a harder core and a softer outer layer. That in turns also contributes to the fact that it “holds heat better than a regular dildo”.

4 Best Large

Vixen Vixskin Johnny

 Vixen Vixskin Johnny

Vixen Vixskin Johnny

  • Double density construction (hard core, softer outer layer)
  • Compatible with ring-based strap ons (not suction cup bases)

  • Realistic look and dual-density texture
  • Availsble in multiple skin tones
  • Suitable for anal use
  • Premium quality silicone
  • Easy to clean and sterilize

  • Quite expensive
  • No suction cup
Vixen Vixskin Johnny
Length8 inches
Insertable length7 inches
Diameter1.8 inches
MaterialsSilicone
WaterproofSubmersible
FlexibilityFlexible

I’ve picked out the Vixen Vixskin Johnny as the best large one for good reason. First, because when Kasia, who tested it, first unpacked it she was “pretty intimidated by its size and how real it looked”. It makes it a perfect fit as the best large strap on dildo with a realistic look, especially considering how much Kasia eventually liked it – she considers it her go-to for whenever she “want to have fun with something thick, and lifelike”. She also noted how realistic it was, and that it actually felt “just like a real erect penis” and that it “deserved an A+”. One of the added benefits is the upwards curve, making it perfect when you want to “reach the G-spot easily”, or P-spot if you want to use it as a pegging strap-on. At the higher end of our price scale compared to other realistic dildos, the Johnny is definitely an investment. If you ask any of our tester who have tried out a Vixskin dildo for themselves, they would say it’s a very worthy investment!

5 Best Small

Vixen Creations Vixskin Tex

 Vixen Creations Vixskin Tex

Vixen Creations Vixskin Tex

  • Double density construction (hard core, softer outer layer)
  • Compatible with almost all harnesses

  • Premium-quality, hand-poured silicone
  • Realistic glans design
  • Suction cup base
  • Perfect size for everyday use

  • A little too short to use comfortably hands-free
  • Suction cup could be stronger
  • Limited color range on most stores
  • Expensive
Vixen Creations Vixskin Tex
Length5.75 inches
Insertable length5.25 inches
Diameter1.75 inches
FlexibilityFlexible
MaterialsSilicone
WaterproofYes
Storage Bag IncludedNo
Colors AvailableVanilla, Caramel, Chocolate (+ Tie-Dye, direct from Vixen Creations' website)

Rachel, who tested the Vixskin Tex, called it“a dream to use both for masturbation and with a partner, without needing too much warm up”. That is due to the small size, which did prove to be a bit of a problem and cause some frustration as it wasn’t “quite long enough for me to use hands-free”. But, this does make it a great small realistic dildo for strap-on use. Initially, after just “one squish of that dual density head” Rachel didn’t have any doubt that it would “feel pretty amazing to use”. One of the thing she did point out was that the suction cup base isn’t as strong as some others, and it is in fact also called a non-slip base, which is “to make it easier to use in a harness”. She loved the curve it had that made it “great for hitting the g-spot perfectly”, and the “pronounced glans textures are extra stimulating” she said. Overall, it’s a great option for those seeking a small realistic dildo compatible with harnesses.

Choose Your Harness

For sublime strap on sensations, you’ll need a harness. These three from LoveHoney are fantastic, sturdy choices that take your comfort level into account. Important to consider when choosing is whether you would like to be fully clothed, scantily clad, or completely naked during use. Don’t forget to account for the measurements of your dildo when choosing a harness.

Lovehoney Unisex Harness Briefs

Lovehoney Unisex Harness Briefs - Choose Your Harness
The Lovehoney Unisex Harness Briefs are made for comfort and convenience, with no obvious harness lines these unisex briefs can be worn all day for endless fun. Whether you are looking for spur-of-the-moment fun, packing, or an easy setup this harness is comfy and on the low end of our price range. The built-in O ring is only compatible with dildos that have a 1.5-inch diameter.

Strap-On-Me Diva Lingerie Harness

Strap-On-Me Diva Lingerie Harness - Choose Your Harness
The Strap-On-Me Diva Lingerie Harness is a super comfortable harness, that made Isabelle, who tested it, feel amazing wearing it. She did say that it isn’t the most stable, and would opt for something with adjustable straps for more avid users. It does come in 5 different sizes, and choosing just the right one, could solve the stability issue.

What to Look for in a Realistic Strap On Dildo

Searching for a realistic strap on dildo is not quite as straightforward as it may seem. Look below for a checklist of which aspects you’re really looking for.

Balls or No Balls

Balls or No Balls - What to Look for in a Realistic Strap On Dildo
While some need attached balls to complete the fantasy, others may only care about the shaft. If balls are a must, do they just need to be there to complete the look or do they need to move like the real thing?

The Look to Match the Feel

The Look to Match the Feel - What to Look for in a Realistic Strap On Dildo
While inside you may want a convincing texture and thick veins, but do you want your toy to look real as well? Most realistic strap on dildos come in a couple different skin tones, but not everyone is a fan of a too-convincing toy. Bold colors can help to separate the look from the feel.

Sizing

Whether a beginner or an expert, sizing can be tricky. One toy may be absolutely perfect for a solo suction-cup ride but when strapped onto another person it could be too much or not enough. Even if you find yourself with a toy a little girthier than expected, go slow, use lube, and don’t be afraid to shelve the toy to use after a little bit of practice.

Materials

Materials  - What to Look for in a Realistic Strap On Dildo
Silicone? PVC? TPE? Dual Density? Triple Density? These can all be extremely confusing to sort through. Non-porous and non-toxic materials are what we recommend as the best and safest material. Porous toys are less easy to sterilize and can very quickly harbor bacteria, germs, or even grow mold. It’s important to replace your porous toys at the first signs of damage. For feel, it can be difficult to truly know what you prefer unless you have tried it. Find what is in your price range and which type of material you feel most comfortable caring for, then give it a whirl!

Different types of real feel strap on

  • O-ring- a strap on can attach to an O-ring in a harness or strap on underwear, but the strap on must have a flared base, suction cup, or balls to be secured; O-rings can come in different sizes or can be stretchable to accomodate different sized dildos
  • Vac-U-Lock- this attachment is great for larger strap ons; the strap on will have hollow, ridged center which attaches to a Vac-U-Lock system on the harness
  • Hollow- a strap on with a hollow center; these are great for putting bullet vibes inside, or if the centre is large enough, a penis
  • Strapless strap on- made to be worn by people with vaginas; a curved strap on for G-spot stimulation, one end of the strapless strap on on is inserted into the wearer and the other can be used to penetrate their parnter- great for double pleasure
  • Vibrating-vibrating strap on can have a motor inside that is controlled by buttons or a remote; can also be made to vibrate by adding a bullet vibrator to a hollow center.

Does a Strap-On Feel Better than the Real Thing?

If you haven’t tried real feel strap ons in the past and you’ve carefully studied the sex toys we’ve reviewed so far, you may ask yourself if they are really worthy. In other words, is sex better with a strap on or with the real thing? We have made our research and this is what we can tell you:

It's All About Experiences

With all of us being different from each other, it’s difficult to say if strap-on sex is better than sex with a real penis. It will all depend on the mood we are in, who we are with, if we want G-spot stimulation or not, and how playful or open to introduce sex toys to your sexual life you are in that precise moment. In other words, what feels great tonight, may not feel that good tomorrow and what you discarded tonight may be a great idea in the near future.

It's not (Always) About Real Feel Strap On vs A Penis

Sex with a real feel strap on shouldn’t always be seen in opposition to sex with a real penis. In fact, not all real feel strap ons come with realistic dildos.

Feel Rebellious with a Strap On

There’s something forbidden, kinky and naughty about sex toys in general and real feel strap ons are not the exception to the rule. Adding a strap on to your sex life can help you reveal a more rebellious, kinky or naughty side of you and, therefore, help you reach a better sexual experience.

Strap Ons and G-spot Stimulation

If there’s one aspect in which sex is better with a strap on is for women interested in receiving targetted G-spot stimulation. Real feel strap ons that have a curved shaft with a bulbous tip  are usually better at aiming at the women’s sweet spot and delivering explosive orgasms.

Strap Ons To Live Out Fantasies

Another aspect in which strap on sex is better than sex with the real thing is that it makes it easier for people to live out their fantasies. Even if it is just to try it on alone and discover how powerful it makes you feel and then introduce it to your sex session with your partner, it will help you enjoy better sex.

How to Use a Realistic Strap On Dildo

It may seem obvious how to use a strap on at first. But, once all rigged up and ready to go, there can be some confusion on how much you should treat strap on sex like play with a real penis. There are several differences to keep in mind.

The Harness

The Harness

The first time using the strap on with a partner isn’t the first time you should try out the harness. Give it a whirl the second it arrives! Figure out how to clip it on, adjust it to your size, make sure the dildo fits securely, and check how you would like to wear it; with clothes, without clothes, or maybe over some lingerie. Even fit the dildo in and try some thrusting, see how it all moves. That way, when it’s time to play, you’ll be prepared and comfortable.

Forplay

Forplay

Just having the strap on with the lifelike dildo can create power and tension in the room, but don’t skip out on the warmup. Oral, fingering, stretching, whatever you and your partner likes. But, make sure to include it.

Lubrication

Lubrication

Use a little more. Even with vaginal penetration or if using a condom on a toy, start with lube. Even the most high-quality, hyper realistic strap on dildo in existence can benefit from lube.

Anal

Anal

While both previous how-to’s also cover anal, there are often a few extra steps to take. Firstly, an average sized dildo should not be the very first toy for anal beginners. Preemptive stretching is required. Plus, more research than normal on lube is needed. The most commonly recommended lube for dildos is water-based, but when researching anal sex, silicone lubricants will often appear which can damage silicone toys. Make sure to choose a lube that is safe for your toy as well as optimal for anal play.

Penetration

Penetration

Going very slowly or letting the receiver control the pace of penetration can make or break whether the use of a strap on will be enjoyable. Once the receiver is comfortable, experiment with shallow thrusts that slowly increase in depth and force.

Grinding, Thrusting, and Riding. Oh My!

Grinding, Thrusting, and Riding. Oh My!

Now, have fun! Often vaginal penetration is not enough for people with a clitoris, so experiment with grinding or sawing back and forth. Try modifying poses (legs up, on your side, from behind, etc)  to see if anything hits that g-spot. The same goes with anal penetration, especially if there is a P-spot to hit!

How to Clean a Realistic Strap On Dildo

In this roundup, the three different materials included are silicone, PVC (polyvinyl chloride), and TPE (thermoplastic elastomer). All are able to be cleaned with soap and water, or with whatever toy cleaner is recommended on each specific product website. However, there are more thorough ways to sterilize all of these toys that should be done regularly. Silicone is not porous and can be boiled in water for 3-5 minutes, or some toys can even be placed in the dishwasher. PVC and TPE are both porous, which means they pick up more bacteria than silicone. They are best cleaned with gentle soap and water, but as they are porous it can be hard to really get into all nooks and crannies. It is recommended to use a condom with these toys, and still wash after every use.

FAQ

Realistic dildos nail that soft, slightly squishy outside with a firm, penetrative shaft and are veined for pleasurable texture. Especially if you are new to using dildos, this attention to detail can go a long way in ensuring comfort.

Definitely! No matter your genitalia, you can wear a real feel strap on. Some harnesses are designed with a more 'male build' in mind, so be aware of what you'll feel most comfortable in before buying. (You'll notice who they are targeted to by the pictures and descriptions).

For beginners, girth is the best thing to pay attention to. The entire toy does not need to be inserted lengthwise, but choosing something too girthy is hard to workaround. Choosing something less than 1.5 inches in diameter to start is usually best. For intermediates, you'll know when you start feeling a little bored of your current toy! Try sizing up girth .25 inches at a time.

You can use this sex toy for power play or bondage but you can also use a real feel strap on for couples play, live out your fantasies or add variety to your sex life.

The first thing to look for is that the dildo has a suction cup or balls at the end, ensuring a wide base. As far as material, using a non-porous dildo is recommended as there is less ability for bacteria to stick around even If a condom is being used.

If you’ve never tried a strap-on before, we’d recommend starting with a short dildo like the Colours Pleasures 4 inch Dildo!

You can buy a real feel strap on in any of the online sex shops mentioned in this review! Some well-known options are Lovehoney, SheVibe, and Adam&Eve.

Anyone can wear a realistic strap-on, regardless of their genitalia! For those with vaginas, a regular strap-on harness will do. For people with penises, they have special dual-penetration strap-on harnesses that allow you to use both shafts with ease!

Yes! These sex toys are not only for men to wear. Some have a harness that is more comfortable for men than for women so make sure you shop around before making your purchase.

For those who prefer true real-feel, such as 'Cyberskin', the best material is TPE or PVC. This gives the feel of skin and allows the flexibility that a real penis would have. The downside to TPE and PVC is that they are not body-safe, and are porous. For those who prefer a body-safe material, silicone is a great option, however the feel of skin is more difficult to re-create with silicone.

What is a Realistic Strap On Dildo

A realistic strap on dildo is a toy that is harness-compatible and mimics a real penis. A dildo needs a flared base, like a suction cup, to be harness compatible. The details that make a realistic sex toy are mostly about how the toy feels. Whether it has a soft, squishy head and shaft that feels firm inside when squeezed. If it is firm and insertable with textured details such as veins or foreskin. Some realistic strap on dildos also closely imitate the look of a real cock, with various skin-tone colors and blue coloration on the raised veins. What is a "Real Feel" strap on? A real feel strap on is a two-piece sex toy that includes a dildo, which is generally penis-shaped; the dildo is held in place by a harness, which attaches to the hips of the person wearing it. Strap-ons are used for penetrative sex, either vaginal or anal, which is also called pegging when someone with a vagina uses a strap-on to penetrate someone with a penis. A real-feel strap on is given it's name due to it's appearance, which closely resembles a penis; the strap on may range from a light resemblance such as testicles, all the way to real-feel skin, veins, and color. To hold the dildo, you can either use a harness which has straps that can be adjusted, or strap on panties. The harness typically provides more support for heavier, larger dildos. Anyone can wear a real-feel strap on, however they are more common among those who enjoy the phallic aesthetic. When it comes to material, the more realistic strap ons are usually made from TPE or PVC as this allows the true likeness and feel of skin.

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