5 Most Realistic Strap On Dildos
Blush Neo Elite Realistic Dildo With Balls
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Blush Neo Elite Dildo With Balls
Blush Neo Elite Dildo With Balls
- Double density (hard core, softer outer layer)
- Compatible with almost all harnesses
- Strong Suction Cup
- Perfect Balance of Stiffness and Softness
- Easily Cleaned Silicone Material
- May be too girthy for a beginner
- May be too soft for someone who likes firmer toys
Blush Neo Elite Dildo With Balls | |
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Length | 7.5 inches |
Insertable length | 5.5 inches |
Diameter | 1.5 inches |
Flexibility | Very Flexible |
Materials | Silicone |
Waterproof | Yes |
Storage Bag Included | No |
Colors Available | Vanilla, Orange, Pink |
The Blush Neo Elite is by far the best reviewed realistic dildo compatible with harnesses we’ve had on Bedbible. Ashley, who tested it, said it is “a fantastic choice if you’re looking for something hands-free, harness compatible.”. Ashley was “going crazy” about especially two things “the suction cup, and the softness of the toy”, and added about the double density construction that she loved the “smooth outer layer is very luxurious” it created. Most of our testers who’ve tried a double (or triple) density dildo come away amazed by it. In fact, Ashley didn’t have any negatives to say, hence why it landed as the best realistic and strap-on compatible dildo. The Runner up was a close second, but Ashley said “this one has a firmer core” that made it not as flaccid feeling as the other.
Blush Neo Elite Realistic Dildo
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Blush Neo Elite Realistic Dildo
Blush Neo Elite Realistic Dildo
- Double density (hard core, softer outer layer)
- Compatible with almost all harnesses
- Skin is very soft and comfortable
- Great average size
- Versatile
- May be too flexible
- May be too soft
Blush Neo Elite Realistic Dildo | |
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Length | 7.5 inches |
Diameter | 1.5 inches |
Materials | Platinum-Cured Silicone |
Waterproof | Yes |
Flexibility | Very Flexible |
Storage Bag Included | No |
Colors Available | Vanilla, Blue, Pink |
Alice had the pleasure of testing the Blush Neo Elite for us, and only had a few drawbacks she highlighted, which at the end of the day came down to personal preferences. First, she though it had an “approachable size and girth”, and loved the “hyper-realistic surfacing” that is “detailed down to the last vein”. A large part of the realism is because it’s a platinum-cured dual density silicone and construction – that just feels and look super realistic! Almost anyone of our testers, and the whole office for that sake, love dual density dildos. Alice had used the dildo “in a number of ways, and each of them worked wonderfully”, but she did say that he favorite part was “its remarkable strap-on compatibility.”. They already owned a strap-on harness that “it worked perfectly with” because it’s the “perfect size and design for use with a strap-on.” The only thing she didn’t like was that because of the “soft exterior, the dildo was a bit difficult to initially insert.”, and that left her with the feeling that “the penis I had inside of me was a bit flaccid.”
Colours Dual Density 5″ Dildo
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Colours Dual Density 5″ Dildo
Colours Dual Density 5″ Dildo
- Double density (hard core, softer outer layer)
- Compatible with almost all harnesses
- Stiff inner core
- Suction cup is very strong
- Dual layers make it feel more real
- Body-safe silicone is easily cleaned
- A little too soft
- Could use a tab to help remove suction cup
Colours Dual Density 5″ Dildo | |
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Length | 6.8 inches |
Insertable length | 5.3 inches |
Width | 1.5 inches |
Waterproof | Yes |
Materials | Silicone |
Flexibility | Very flexible |
Storage Bag Included | No |
Colors Available | Vanilla; Chocolate; Dark Chocolate; Blue; Purple; Pink |
I’ll be honest with you, I considered making this a great beginner choice, but because both the test winner and the runner up are such great choices for beginners as well as advanced that didn’t make sense. Also, on top of that the price is pretty great on the Colors dildo, which ultimately made it my budget option. Even our tester, Ashley (who also tested the Neo Elite) said it was “cheap for what you get”. She was most impressed by the strong suction cup commenting “Holy cow!!!!”, which says it all coupled with the fact she struggled getting it off certain surfaces. Something I definitely think you can live with, especially when I consider how some of the suction cup dildos we’ve tested struggle to keep suction. Ashley said she would “recommend this to anyone”, because it “feels more real than regular dildos”. She also added that “unlike the typical dildo that is normally sometimes almost too stiff and straight, this dildo has a bit more give to it”. Especially the fact that it both feels more real, and not as stiff is caused by the dual density construction with a harder core and a softer outer layer. That in turns also contributes to the fact that it “holds heat better than a regular dildo”.
Vixen Vixskin Johnny
Vixen Vixskin Johnny
Vixen Vixskin Johnny
- Double density construction (hard core, softer outer layer)
- Compatible with ring-based strap ons (not suction cup bases)
- Realistic look and dual-density texture
- Availsble in multiple skin tones
- Suitable for anal use
- Premium quality silicone
- Easy to clean and sterilize
- Quite expensive
- No suction cup
Vixen Vixskin Johnny | |
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Length | 8 inches |
Insertable length | 7 inches |
Diameter | 1.8 inches |
Materials | Silicone |
Waterproof | Submersible |
Flexibility | Flexible |
I’ve picked out the Vixen Vixskin Johnny as the best large one for good reason. First, because when Kasia, who tested it, first unpacked it she was “pretty intimidated by its size and how real it looked”. It makes it a perfect fit as the best large strap on dildo with a realistic look, especially considering how much Kasia eventually liked it – she considers it her go-to for whenever she “want to have fun with something thick, and lifelike”. She also noted how realistic it was, and that it actually felt “just like a real erect penis” and that it “deserved an A+”. One of the added benefits is the upwards curve, making it perfect when you want to “reach the G-spot easily”, or P-spot if you want to use it as a pegging strap-on. At the higher end of our price scale compared to other realistic dildos, the Johnny is definitely an investment. If you ask any of our tester who have tried out a Vixskin dildo for themselves, they would say it’s a very worthy investment!
Vixen Creations Vixskin Tex
Vixen Creations Vixskin Tex
Vixen Creations Vixskin Tex
- Double density construction (hard core, softer outer layer)
- Compatible with almost all harnesses
- Premium-quality, hand-poured silicone
- Realistic glans design
- Suction cup base
- Perfect size for everyday use
- A little too short to use comfortably hands-free
- Suction cup could be stronger
- Limited color range on most stores
- Expensive
Vixen Creations Vixskin Tex | |
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Length | 5.75 inches |
Insertable length | 5.25 inches |
Diameter | 1.75 inches |
Flexibility | Flexible |
Materials | Silicone |
Waterproof | Yes |
Storage Bag Included | No |
Colors Available | Vanilla, Caramel, Chocolate (+ Tie-Dye, direct from Vixen Creations' website) |
Rachel, who tested the Vixskin Tex, called it“a dream to use both for masturbation and with a partner, without needing too much warm up”. That is due to the small size, which did prove to be a bit of a problem and cause some frustration as it wasn’t “quite long enough for me to use hands-free”. But, this does make it a great small realistic dildo for strap-on use. Initially, after just “one squish of that dual density head” Rachel didn’t have any doubt that it would “feel pretty amazing to use”. One of the thing she did point out was that the suction cup base isn’t as strong as some others, and it is in fact also called a non-slip base, which is “to make it easier to use in a harness”. She loved the curve it had that made it “great for hitting the g-spot perfectly”, and the “pronounced glans textures are extra stimulating” she said. Overall, it’s a great option for those seeking a small realistic dildo compatible with harnesses.
Choose Your Harness
For sublime strap on sensations, you’ll need a harness. These three from LoveHoney are fantastic, sturdy choices that take your comfort level into account. Important to consider when choosing is whether you would like to be fully clothed, scantily clad, or completely naked during use. Don’t forget to account for the measurements of your dildo when choosing a harness.
Lovehoney Unisex Harness Briefs
Strap-On-Me Diva Lingerie Harness
What to Look for in a Realistic Strap On Dildo
Searching for a realistic strap on dildo is not quite as straightforward as it may seem. Look below for a checklist of which aspects you’re really looking for.Balls or No Balls
The Look to Match the Feel
Sizing
Materials
Different types of real feel strap on
- O-ring- a strap on can attach to an O-ring in a harness or strap on underwear, but the strap on must have a flared base, suction cup, or balls to be secured; O-rings can come in different sizes or can be stretchable to accomodate different sized dildos
- Vac-U-Lock- this attachment is great for larger strap ons; the strap on will have hollow, ridged center which attaches to a Vac-U-Lock system on the harness
- Hollow- a strap on with a hollow center; these are great for putting bullet vibes inside, or if the centre is large enough, a penis
- Strapless strap on- made to be worn by people with vaginas; a curved strap on for G-spot stimulation, one end of the strapless strap on on is inserted into the wearer and the other can be used to penetrate their parnter- great for double pleasure
- Vibrating- a vibrating strap on can have a motor inside that is controlled by buttons or a remote; can also be made to vibrate by adding a bullet vibrator to a hollow center.
Does a Strap-On Feel Better than the Real Thing?
If you haven’t tried real feel strap ons in the past and you’ve carefully studied the sex toys we’ve reviewed so far, you may ask yourself if they are really worthy. In other words, is sex better with a strap on or with the real thing? We have made our research and this is what we can tell you:It's All About Experiences
It's not (Always) About Real Feel Strap On vs A Penis
Feel Rebellious with a Strap On
Strap Ons and G-spot Stimulation
Strap Ons To Live Out Fantasies
How to Use a Realistic Strap On Dildo
It may seem obvious how to use a strap on at first. But, once all rigged up and ready to go, there can be some confusion on how much you should treat strap on sex like play with a real penis. There are several differences to keep in mind.
The Harness
The first time using the strap on with a partner isn’t the first time you should try out the harness. Give it a whirl the second it arrives! Figure out how to clip it on, adjust it to your size, make sure the dildo fits securely, and check how you would like to wear it; with clothes, without clothes, or maybe over some lingerie. Even fit the dildo in and try some thrusting, see how it all moves. That way, when it’s time to play, you’ll be prepared and comfortable.
Forplay
Just having the strap on with the lifelike dildo can create power and tension in the room, but don’t skip out on the warmup. Oral, fingering, stretching, whatever you and your partner likes. But, make sure to include it.
Lubrication
Use a little more. Even with vaginal penetration or if using a condom on a toy, start with lube. Even the most high-quality, hyper realistic strap on dildo in existence can benefit from lube.
Anal
While both previous how-to’s also cover anal, there are often a few extra steps to take. Firstly, an average sized dildo should not be the very first toy for anal beginners. Preemptive stretching is required. Plus, more research than normal on lube is needed. The most commonly recommended lube for dildos is water-based, but when researching anal sex, silicone lubricants will often appear which can damage silicone toys. Make sure to choose a lube that is safe for your toy as well as optimal for anal play.
Penetration
Going very slowly or letting the receiver control the pace of penetration can make or break whether the use of a strap on will be enjoyable. Once the receiver is comfortable, experiment with shallow thrusts that slowly increase in depth and force.
Grinding, Thrusting, and Riding. Oh My!
Now, have fun! Often vaginal penetration is not enough for people with a clitoris, so experiment with grinding or sawing back and forth. Try modifying poses (legs up, on your side, from behind, etc) to see if anything hits that g-spot. The same goes with anal penetration, especially if there is a P-spot to hit!
How to Clean a Realistic Strap On Dildo
In this roundup, the three different materials included are silicone, PVC (polyvinyl chloride), and TPE (thermoplastic elastomer). All are able to be cleaned with soap and water, or with whatever toy cleaner is recommended on each specific product website. However, there are more thorough ways to sterilize all of these toys that should be done regularly. Silicone is not porous and can be boiled in water for 3-5 minutes, or some toys can even be placed in the dishwasher. PVC and TPE are both porous, which means they pick up more bacteria than silicone. They are best cleaned with gentle soap and water, but as they are porous it can be hard to really get into all nooks and crannies. It is recommended to use a condom with these toys, and still wash after every use.
FAQ
What is a Realistic Strap On Dildo
A realistic strap on dildo is a toy that is harness-compatible and mimics a real penis. A dildo needs a flared base, like a suction cup, to be harness compatible. The details that make a realistic sex toy are mostly about how the toy feels. Whether it has a soft, squishy head and shaft that feels firm inside when squeezed. If it is firm and insertable with textured details such as veins or foreskin. Some realistic strap on dildos also closely imitate the look of a real cock, with various skin-tone colors and blue coloration on the raised veins. What is a "Real Feel" strap on? A real feel strap on is a two-piece sex toy that includes a dildo, which is generally penis-shaped; the dildo is held in place by a harness, which attaches to the hips of the person wearing it. Strap-ons are used for penetrative sex, either vaginal or anal, which is also called pegging when someone with a vagina uses a strap-on to penetrate someone with a penis. A real-feel strap on is given it's name due to it's appearance, which closely resembles a penis; the strap on may range from a light resemblance such as testicles, all the way to real-feel skin, veins, and color. To hold the dildo, you can either use a harness which has straps that can be adjusted, or strap on panties. The harness typically provides more support for heavier, larger dildos. Anyone can wear a real-feel strap on, however they are more common among those who enjoy the phallic aesthetic. When it comes to material, the more realistic strap ons are usually made from TPE or PVC as this allows the true likeness and feel of skin.
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