The 11 Best Strap-Ons for Lesbians, Whatever Your Style
Gail Hooper
Tracey Cox Supersex Strap-On Pegging Kit
Tracey Cox Pegging Kit
- Want a versatile set with two dildos
- Love having a removable bullet vibrator
- Want an adjustable strap-style harness
- Are looking for beginner-friendly strap-on
Tracey Cox Pegging Kit
- Prefer an underwear-style harness
- Want very strong vibrations
- Need a harness size larger than 65 inches
The Tracey Cox Supersex strap on pegging kit a great all-rounder as it comes with two different sized dildos. I think it’s also a nice touch that they have different textures and both come with a suction cup bases. The harness is fully adjustable – able to fit hips up to 65-inches. Plus, it’s fully washable and can fit a variety of different sized dildos. I also love that it comes with a bullet vibrator that slips inside the harness for some added stimulation for the wearer or inside the bigger of the two dildos. Finally, the kit contains 3 different sized O rings so that you can use any different sized dildos that you have, or would like to buy.
- Two different size dildos
- Bullet vibe can be worn in harness or dildo
- Comfortable, adjustable harness
- Comes with multiple O rings
- Vibrator may not that strong
- Long straps can be awkward on smaller bodies
- Packaging unnecessarily gendered
- Bullet vibe takes small batteries that are hard to find
| Tracey Cox Pegging Kit | |
|---|---|
| Vibration speeds | 2 |
| Vibration patterns | 5 |
| Insertable length | Textured dildo: 6 inches. Smooth dildo: 4.5 inches inches |
| Diameter | Textuted dildo: 1.5 inches Smooth Dildo: 0.8 inches inches |
| Harness Size | Up to 65 inches |
| Adjustable | Yes |
| Materials | Silicone, ABS plastic, Neoprene, Nylon |
| Waterproof | Yes |
| Storage Bag Included | No |
| Colors Available | Harness: black. Dildos: pink, black. |
The Tracey Cox Supersex strap on pegging kit is an almost perfect beginner strap on for lesbians in my opinion! I can also see this being a kit that can grow with your experience and your exploration, as the O-rings allow you to use. There are a couple of things that I would love to see improved, though. The first being the unnecessary gendering of the product. Calling it a pegging dildo is very heteronormative, as it only refers to a female partner using the strap-on on a male partner, when in reality this set can be used by anyone! Also, it would be much better if the bullet was rechargeable or took batteries that are easier to find.
Sportsheets Bikini Harness and Dildo Strap On Kit
Sportsheets Bikini Harness and Dildo
- Are new to strap on play
- Don't want a different sized dildo
- Want a thong back harness
Sportsheets Bikini Harness and Dildo
- Want a harness for different sized dildos
- Prefer a jock-style harness
- Want a more durable, sturdy harness for regular use
The Sportsheets Bikini Harness and Dildo Strap On Kit is a great budget priced set. I would say it makes a great set for first timers or those that only use a strap-on occasionally. It consists of an adjustable harness – fits up to 60-inch hips, that has a decorative thong back, a silicone dildo that is 6.5-inches in length and 1.25-inches diameter. The harness is machine washable and you can use any dildo of the same diameter with it. The dildo is a fabulous colour and is the Sportsheets “Skyn” range. It has a luscious bulbous head that’s perfect for G-spot stimulation.
- A great budget priced strap on kit
- Fully adjustable and decorative back
- Silicone dildo with a bulbous head
- Thong back can be uncomfortable
- Straps aren't very wide
- Harness will only take one size dildo
| Sportsheets Bikini Harness and Dildo | |
|---|---|
| Length | 6.5 inches |
| Diameter | 1.25 inches |
| Waterproof | Dildos - yes |
| Materials | Dildos: silicone, harness: polyester binding, polypropylene webbing, plastic hardware |
| Adjustable | Yes |
| Harness Size | Up to 60 inches |
If you’re looking for a harness and dildo kit and don’t want to break the budget then the Sportsheets Bikini harness and strap on dildo kit is worth a look. While I think this is pretty good value for money, I can see some drawbacks. Firstly, the harness will only accommodate 1.25-inch diameter dildos if you want to try a different dildo, so it does limit what you can use. Secondly, the straps are pretty thin so don’t offer a huge amount of support. I would say this is great for occasional use but you would be better off investing a little more for a studier harness if you are going to use it more regularly.
Tantus Bend Over Intermediate Harness Kit
Tantus Bend Over Intermediate
- Want a beginner - intermediate strap on kit
- Love silicone dildos
- Prefer something with a bullet vibrator
- Prefer a harness style strap-on
Tantus Bend Over Intermediate
- Prefer a thong back harness
- Already have the dildos that you want
Although this is the intermediate kit, I think this is actually a fantastic beginners option, as the smallest dildo is just 1.25 inches in diameter! The kit contains a washable durable harness with a soft pad at the front, 2 high-quality silicone dildos, 2 different sized O rings and a waterproof bullet vibrator. The single-speed bullet vibrator fits into a pocket in the harness itself to give the wearer some gorgeous tingly vibes. The harness itself is comfortable and is adjustable between 15-inches and 60-inches (approximately US dress sizes 4-30). It has poppers at the front and is suitable for other strap on toys. The dildos themselves are 5-inches and 6.5 inches in length and they are both curved with bulbous heads for the ultimate in sweet spot stimulation.
- A complete strap on harness kit
- Great quality
- Dildos shaped for G-spot stimulation
- Includes bullet vibrator
- May need to cut the straps to keep it neat
- Bullet vibrator isn't the best
| Tantus Bend Over Intermediate | |
|---|---|
| Vibration speeds | 1 |
| Rechargeable | No |
| Length | Small: 5.5, Large: 7 inches |
| Diameter | Small: 1.25, Large: 1.5 inches |
| Waterproof | Dildos - yes |
| Materials | Dildos - silicone, harness - velvet |
| Adjustable | Yes |
| Harness Size | 15-60 inches |
| Allergies | Latex-Free , Phthalate-Free |
I think the Tantus Bend Over Intermediate strap on harness kit is a fabulous combination of great quality at a great price. Compared to the other strap-ons for lesbians we are looking at today, this falls in the mid-price range, which makes this pretty good value for money when you consider everything you get in the kit! Some reviewers say that the bullet vibrator can’t be felt that well, so if you already have a favourite bullet vibrator then you could use that instead. If you have other dildos, or want to buy other dildos then this harness will accommodate them too. As a strap on harness for lesbians, this Tantus product has the comfort, quality and versatility that you’re looking for alongside some incredible toe-curling penetration from the superb quality dildos.
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ShareVibe
- Prefer a strapless design
- Love vibrations
- Enjoy a slightly thicker dildo
- Want a rechargeable bullet vibrator
ShareVibe
- Are new to strap on sex
- Aren't willing to hold it stable or use a harness
I love the idea of being able to explore strap-on sex without a harness getting in the way, and the ShareVibe does exactly that! This strapless strap-on has a bulb or pony that’s worn inside the wearer’s vagina while the longer dildo is used to penetrate their partner. It also comes with a removable bullet vibrator that adds powerful vibrations that travel into both the shaft and the bulb giving both partners an added boost of pleasure! Plus, I love that it’s rechargeable — something you don’t often see in strapless strap-ons!
- Pleasure for both partners
- Powerful, rechargeable bullet
- Flexible design
- Silky soft silicone
- Attracts a lot of dust and lint
- Can slip out easily
| ShareVibe | |
|---|---|
| Vibration speeds | 2 |
| Vibration patterns | 3 |
| Length | 11 inches |
| Insertable length | 5.5 inches |
| Diameter | 1.4-1.6 inches |
| Materials | Silicone |
| Flexibility | Flexible |
| Waterproof | Yes |
| Battery Life | 45-90 minutes |
| Rechargeable | Yes |
| Charging Time | 120 minutes |
| Weight | .92 lbs |
| Travel Lock | No |
| Colors Available | Dark Violet & Pink |
I’ll start with the things that impressed me: the bullet vibrator is rechargeable and powerful — no weak, buzzy, battery-powered bullet vibe here! Also, the flexible design makes it more comfortable and easier to wear than other strapless strap-ons. Now, what didn’t I like about it? Well, like most strapless strap-ons, it has a tendency to slip out, so you will most likely need to hold it in place or use a harness. And, while the silicone is great quality, this thing is a lint magnet! This is also the most expensive strap-on for lesbians I’ve included, so I would say this is best suited to those with a bit more experience, who use a strap-on fairly regularly and are aware of the fact it’s unlikely to stay put without added support.
SpareParts Joque
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SpareParts Joque
- Are looking for high-quality harness
- Prefer having a high level of control
- You will use it often
- Prefer an open-back harness
- Already have a dildo you want to use
SpareParts Joque
- Want a kit that comes with a dildo
- Prefer a thong-style harness design
I had to include the Joque Harness from SpareParts as it’s widely known as one of the best, most comfortable strap-on harnesses out there! The thick adjustable straps make it super study in use, so you don’t have to worry about your dildo flopping around! It comes with a stretchy O-ring that can accommodate dildos of most sizes and it can even be used with strap-less strap-ons for more support. Plus, it has not one but two bullet vibrator pockets so you can get some added stimulation!
- Very comfortable
- Holds dildo sturdy in use
- Quick and easy to put on/take off
- Easy to adjust
- Pricey
- Harness only — no dildo included
| SpareParts Joque | |
|---|---|
| Materials | Nylon and spandex |
| Adjustable | Yes — legs and waist straps |
| Harness Size | Size A: 20-50 inches, B: 35-65 inches |
I’m a massive fan of the Joque Harness and think it’s definitely one of the best strap-on harnesses for lesbians or anyone for that matter! I love just how supportive the straps are while also being incredibly comfortable! It also looks great on and doesn’t look or feel overly bulky. Plus, the waistband has a velcro release on each side so it’s super quick to take on and off! The only real downside to the Joque is that it’s pricey and doesn’t come with a dildo. However, if strap-on sex is one of the main ways you have sex and you already have a flared base dildo to use it with, this is worth every cent in my opinion!
Lovehoney Unisex Strap-On Harness Briefs
Lovehoney Harness Briefs
- Prefer underwear-style harness
- Already have a dildo you want to use
- Want a harness you can wear under clothes
Lovehoney Harness Briefs
- Want more sturdy control
- Are bigger than a US dress size 18
- Are smaller than a US dress size 4
- Have a dildo bigger than 1.5 in diameter
If you love the ease and comfort of underwear harness, I have just the thing for you! These soft, stretchy panties have an stretchy O-ring at the front, which can accommodate a dildo of your choice up to 1.5 inches in diameter! What I love most about these is that you can wear them comfortably under your clothes, so you are ready to go whenever! They come in five different sizes from a US size 4 up to a size 18.
- Stretchy, comfortable design
- Can be worn under clothes
- Fits smaller and intermediate size dildos
- Not adjustable
- Only goes up to sixe 18
- Can't switch out the O-ring
| Lovehoney Harness Briefs | |
|---|---|
| Harness Size | S/M, M/L, L/XL, XXL inches |
| Diameter | O-Ring: 1.5 inches |
| Materials | Cotton and Elastane |
| Adjustable | No |
| Colors Available | Black |
I think this underwear-style harness is great value for money and would make a great harness for occasional use or for beginners who find strap-style harnesses intimidating. That being said it’s not the most sturdy option, so if you are looking for a harness with better control that would last a long time, I would instead recommend the SpareParts Joque.
Happy Rabbit Vibrating Strap-On Harness Set
Happy Rabbit Strap-On Harness Set
- Are looking for added clit stimulation for the receiver
- Crave powerful vibrations
- Prefer a harness that's compatible with more dildos
- Want a rechargeable strap-on
Happy Rabbit Strap-On Harness Set
- You want a toy for thrusting
- Prefer separate clitoral stimulation
- Enjoy a more realistic design
- Want a flexible dildo
Lovehoney’s Happy Rabbit rechargeable vibrating strap-on harness set incorporates your love of rabbit vibrators with a versatile and very comfortable harness. I would say this is a great option for anyone who needs added clitoral stimulation to climax! The rabbit vibrator itself is made of velvety smooth silicone and has a beautifully shaped head that’s perfect for G-spot stimulation and I love that it has a suction cup base for solo play too! This kit comes with a washable adjustable harness that fits up to a waist size of 57-inches. It also comes with 3 different sized O rings so you can use other sized dildos with it.
- Versatile harness can be used with other dildos
- Dildo is fully waterproof with a suction cup
- Travel lock for safe travels
- Rechargeable
- Not so great for thrusting
- Might not be girthy enough for some
| Happy Rabbit Strap-On Harness Set | |
|---|---|
| Vibration speeds | 3 |
| Vibration patterns | 9 |
| Rechargeable | Yes |
| Insertable length | 5 inches |
| Diameter | 1.27 inches |
| Waterproof | Yes |
| Travel Lock | Yes |
| Materials | Silicone |
| Adjustable | Yes |
| Harness Size | Up to 67 inches |
| Allergies | Phthalate-free |
I think overall, The Happy Rabbit Strap-On Kit is a quality strap-on but whether it works for depends on what type of stimulation you enjoy! If you enjoy more vigorous thrusting, I don’t think this would work so well as you lose contact with the clitoral stimulation. However, if you love vibrations and grinding, I can see this being a great little strap-on for lesbians! In terms of size, I would say this is a relatively beginner-friendly design, but those who crave a bit more in the size department might be disappointed.
Desire Luxury Remote Control Vibrating Strap-On Kit
Desire Luxury Remote Control Strap-On Kit
- Want a great quality versatile harness and dildo
- Desire a dildo with a remote control
- Prefer a curved dildo for added stimulation
- Want something with a storage case
Desire Luxury Remote Control Strap-On Kit
- Prefer a slimmer toy
- Are on a budget
The Desire Luxury remote control vibrating strap-on kit is a great quality product that’s going to give you a fantastic level of stimulation. I’m impressed that this strap-on comes with built in, powerful vibrations from not one but two motors! I also really appreciate the addition of a remote control, so you don’t have to stop the action to change the settings! The dildo also has a suction cup base so you can have hands-free fun with or without the harness. The fully adjustable harness is machine washable and once adjusted to fit, holds everything in place perfectly, and it comes with an extra 3 O rings of different sizes. The cherry on the top of this kit is its handy storage case that lets you discreetly store this rather special kit.
- Powerful dual motor dildo
- Easy to use remote control
- Versatile and adjustable harness
- Fully waterproof dildo with a suction cup
- Flexible but not a lot of give in the dildo
- Remote control isn't waterproof
| Desire Luxury Remote Control Strap-On Kit | |
|---|---|
| Vibration speeds | 12 |
| Vibration patterns | 8 |
| Rechargeable | Yes |
| Insertable length | 7 inches |
| Diameter | 1.59 inches |
| Waterproof | Yes |
| Materials | Silicone |
| Adjustable | Yes |
| Allergies | Latex-Free , Phthalate-Free |
I think this is a fantastic quality dildo that goes the extra mile with the addition of a remote and discreet storage case. So while this is more expensive than most of the other strap-ons in the post, I think it’s well worth the investment, especially if strap-on sex is a regular in your sex life. The only thing I would keep in mind is that at 1.59 inches in diameter, the dildo is one of the thicker options in the review and it’s not very flexible, so I would recommend this to those with a bit more experience.
Wet For Her Union Double Ended Dildo
Wet For Her Union
- Want a strapless strap on toy
- Prefer a posable or adjustable strap-on
- Enjoy the option of added vibrations
Wet For Her Union
- Prefer a harness style strap-on
- Need very strong vibrations
The Wet For Her Union is strap on for lesbians made by a lesbian-owned business! One feature that sets this strap-on apart for me is the flexible, posable shaft that makes it easier for both partners to find a comfortable and stimulating position! I also love that it comes in three sizes, making this a strapless strap-on that anyone can enjoy! The Union also comes with a USB rechargeable bullet vibrator that sends vibrations cascading through an ergonomic stimulator that is located above the vibrator, increasing sensations for the wearer.
- Gives you a close, intimate experience
- Completely posable
- Added clitoral stimulation for the wearer
- Rechargeable bullet vibrator
- There's a learning curve to using it
- May be easier to use in a harness for some
| Wet For Her Union | |
|---|---|
| Vibration speeds | 5 |
| Rechargeable | Yes |
| Insertable length | Shaft: 5.9; Bulb: (s+m) 2, (l) 2.75 inches |
| Diameter | Shaft: (s) 1.06, (m) 1.38, (l) 1.61; Bulb: (s+m) 1.34, (l) 1.45 inches |
| Waterproof | Yes |
| Materials | Silicone |
| Adjustable | Posable |
| Allergies | Phthalate-free |
I think the Wet For Her Union is a beautifully designed strap on for lesbians and you can tell it’s been designed by people who actually use these types of toys! There may well be a learning curve with this dildo as some may find it difficult to keep firm control of it while thrusting into their partner. Some reviewers have said that it’s easier for the wearer to be lying on their back with their legs together while their partner rides the dildo. It is also harness compatible though. It’s not the cheapest but I think it’s a worthwhile investment if you often have strap-on sex!
Doc Johnson Gal Pal Strapless Strap On
Doc Johnson Gal Pal
- Want a slim strapless dildo
- Prefer a very slim dildo
- Are looking for a beginner's strapless strap-on
Doc Johnson Gal Pal
- Want a strap-on for doggy style
- Have a larger body
- Prefer a larger dildo
Doc Johnson’s Gal Pal is a strapless strap on dildo made from body-safe silicone. This strapless strap-on features and extra slim shaft and a curved bulb that’s designed to hit the G-spot of the wearer. I would say this would suit beginners or those who prefer very slim toys. The slimmer head makes for easy insertion for both vaginal and anal use and the rounded beads give you that bit more stimulation.
- Slim, non-threatening strapless dildo
- Can be worn in a harness too
- Fully waterproof
- Doesn't stay in well
- Will be too small for many
- Not the most stimulating shape
| Doc Johnson Gal Pal | |
|---|---|
| Insertable length | 5.5 inches |
| Diameter | 1.25 inches |
| Waterproof | Yes |
| Materials | Silicone |
| Allergies | Phthalate-Free |
While the Gal Pal might suit those looking for a very slim strapless strap-on, I would say this is going to be too small and underwhelming for many. The short shaft means it is also unlikely to work for those in bigger bodies or for doggy style sex.
Calexotics Scandal Crotchless Pegging Panty Set
Calexotics Scandal Crotchless Pegging Panty Set
- Prefer to have harness free fun
- Want something sexy to wear
- Desire a slender dildo
- Want a comfortable harness for your dildos
Calexotics Scandal Crotchless Pegging Panty Set
- Want to use heavier dildos
- Prefer the look of harnesses
The Calexotics Scandal Crotchless Pegging Panty Set is comes with some kinky but comfortable panties that a hold a slim silicone dildo. The front of the panties feature a reinforced stretchy O ring to accommodate the dildo. For your comfort, there is also some padding on the back so that the dildo doesn’t press uncomfortably on your body. I also like that the open-back design adds a little spice! The panties come in two different sizes S/M which fits waists of 26 inches and can stretch an extra 18 inches and L/XL which fits waists up to 31 inches and can stretch an extra 23 inches.
- Very comfortable and sexy panty harness
- Can accommodate different sized dildos
- No scratchy straps to deal with
- Very easy to pull on and use
- Might not offer enough support for heavier dildos
- Dildo may not be large enough for some
- Only two sizes to choose from
| Calexotics Scandal Crotchless Pegging Panty Set | |
|---|---|
| Insertable length | 5 inches |
| Diameter | 1.25 inches |
| Waterproof | Yes |
| Materials | Silicone |
| Allergies | Phthalate-Free |
| Harness Size | S/M: Up to 26 in (plus 8" stretch), L/XL: up to 31 in (plus 23" stretch) inches |
Calexotics Scandal crotchless pegging panty set is a perfect strap on for lesbians who prefer the comfort of under-wear style harness but still want to keep it sexy! While the underwear is very comfortable, it might not be able to support heavier dildos quite as well as lighter ones, so this is something to bear in mind. Plus, as there are only two sizes, it might be a little difficult to get a snug fit. Overall, I would say the slim dildo and easy to use harness are make this a great set for beginners, but more experienced users might want a bigger or more exciting dildo.
Choose Your Own Harness
If you already own a favourite dildo, or a few favourite dildos and are looking for a harness to enjoy some hands-free strap on fun, then take a look at these products. They’re all designed to give you the ultimate in lesbian strap on play.
Lovehoney Unisex Crotchless Open-Back Harness Panties
- It has an O-ring that can accommodate 1.5-inch diameter dildos.
- These panties have a through-and-through O-ring design that makes them compatible with strapless strap-ons as well as flared base dildos.
- They’re made of soft and stretchy fabric for great comfort and fit. The soft lace adds sensuality to them.
- Being crotchless ensures that the wearer can also easily be stimulated.
- The panties have removable garter straps so you can attach your sexiest stockings.
- They’re washable, non-intimidating and sexy as hell coupled with your favourite dildo and your favourite girl.
Packer Gear Strap-On Harness Boxer Shorts
- These boxers have two pockets that are suitable for bullet vibrators to give you more luscious stimulation.
- There is a double panel inside the pouch making it suitable for double-ended dildos or strapless strap ons.
- They have internal strap supports for toys or packers so nothing slips during wear.
Bondage Boutique Leg Strap-On Harness
- It can fit thighs between 10 and 20 inches around.
- So easy to use and it gives you oodles of choices for hands-free penetrative play.
- If you want something for solo play then it wraps perfectly around a pillow, giving you and your favourite toy a great night in!
Get Comfy
What could be better than the perfect comfortable harness, your favourite dildo and your amazing partner? It’s something you never knew that you were missing… The Bumpher.
Bumpher Strap-On Dildo Base Cushion
- It means that there are no more dildo bases digging into your body and no need to put padded material between you and your favourite toy either.
- Best of all, its curves are designed to stimulate your clitoris, making strap on fun even more fun!
- This strap on dildo base cover is made of velvety soft and supple silicone and fits onto the base of dildos that are up to 3.25 inches in diameter.
- The Bumpher is designed with curves that contour and stimulate the clitoral area and padding for extra comfort during strap on play.
- Perfect for grinding against while pleasuring your partner.
- Phthalate, latex, paraben & fragrance-free for body-safe fun.
- It’s suitable for use with open O-ring and underwear harnesses.
- Suitable for use with water-based lubes.
- It’s incredibly easy to clean – use hot water and soap or a dedicated sex toy cleaner.
- The Bumpher also comes in a range of fabulous colours.
Comparing the Best Strap-Ons For Lesbians
We’ve seen a lot of great strap-ons in this post, but if you need a little more information before you commit, here are some more details to help you choose!Price:
The cheapest strap-on for lesbians on a budget is the Sportsheets Bikini Harness, which is great value for money, considering you get a harness and dildo! I would say this is fine for occasional use but not the best for more frequent use. The test winner, the Tracey Cox Super Sex Pegging Kit is not that much more expensive and it comes with a lot more, so if you can stretch to it, I would recommend this instead!Rating:
There are four strap-ons for lesbians that stand out in terms of overall score, which is based on both the Bedbible rating and the user ratings from webshops. The highest scorer was the SpareParts Joque, with a score of 4.8. While this is a fantastic harness, you should keep in mind that it doesn’t come with a dildo. Then in joint second place with 4.7 are the Tracey Cox Pegging Kit, the Lovehoney Desire Luxury Strap-On, and the Wet for Her Union.Size:
The slimmest strap-on for lesbians in the review belongs to the Tracey Cox Supersex Pegging Kit, at just 0.8 inches in diameter but there are plenty of slim dildos around the 1.25 inch mark in the review. If you are looking for something girthier, the strap-on with the thickest shaft is the Wet for Her Union in large, which measures 1.61 inches in diameter.Vibrations:
I have a couple of great options for a vibrating strap-on for lesbians! If vibrations are an important feature, I recommend looking for a strap-on with built in vibrations rather than just a removable bullet vibrator. Firstly, the Happy Rabbit Strap-On features powerful rechargeable vibrations and rabbit ears for clitoral stimulation. Secondly, the Lovehoney Desire Luxury Remote Control Strap-On has two powerful motors and a remote control!Harness style:
The majority of the harnesses in this review are strap-style harnesses, which have more adjustability. However, the Lovehoney Harness Briefs, and CalExotics Scandal Crotchless Pegging Panty Set both have under-wear style harnesses, which are more comfortable to wear under clothes and easier to get on and off!Perfect Positions for Lesbian Strap-Ons
Now that you’ve had a good look at some of the best strap ons for lesbians available, let’s see some of the different positions that you can use them in. Strap on sex doesn’t have to be complicated and you don’t have to be a contortionist to enjoy the intimacy that penetrative sex can bring.Missionary
- In this position it’s also possible to slip a vibrator between your bodies – if your strap on dildo doesn’t have a vibrating option.
- It’s easier to control the depth of penetration in this position,
- Plus you can pop a pillow under your hips to allow for deeper penetration.
Heels to Ears
Climb Aboard
- The partner wearing the strap-on lays down on their back and their partner straddles them.
- For the reverse cowgirl, the woman on top simply turns around to face her partners feet.
- It’s a great way for the partner being penetrated to control everything about their ride!
Chair Straddle
- The partner wearing the strap on sits on a chair and her partner lowers herself onto the dildo.
- She can either face her parter, or sit on her knee.
- This is great for very close, intimate contact.
Doggy Style
- The person being penetrated gets onto her hands and knees while her partner penetrates her from behind.
- This position gives lots of opportunity to control the depth of penetration and it’s easy to stimulate her more with hands, or a vibrator.
How To Use A Strap On For Lesbians
Here are some of my top tips for getting started with your new strap-on.
First Of All
Before you begin, make sure that you know how to put on your strap-on.
- Adjust to fit.
- Check the controls of any vibrating bullets or parts – charge up if necessary.
- Admire your new strap-on kit.
Lube It Up
Lubrication is so important.
- It makes everything more comfortable, especially if you are using silicone dildos – they can be a bit ‘draggy’ on the skin.
- Lube is essential for anal play too.
Playtime!
If you’re new to strap-on play be sure to take it easy to begin with.
- Communicate with your partener so that you are both happy, comfortable and enjoying yourselves.
- You can experiment with role play, power-play, sensory deprivation.
- You can take it in turns to use the strap on with each other.
- Experiment with postitions to see what you like the best.
How To Clean A Strap On For Lesbians
If you have a harness, check to see if it is machine washable. If it is simply pop it in the washing machine and it's good to go. If it isn't machine washable then wipe it town with a soapy cloth to get it clean, remember to rinse off any soap. To clean your dildo you'll need to check to see if it is waterproof. If it is then simply wash it with gentle soap, or a sex toy cleaner in hot water. Make sure that you clean in any nooks, crannies and ridges. Rinse off the soap and dry with a lint-free cloth. Store your dildo in its storage bag or box. If your dildo isn't waterproof then clean it well with a soapy cloth, again, make sure you clean it thoroughly. Wipe off the soap residue and dry well. Store it carefully and it will be ready to go next time.
FAQ
What Is A Strap On For Lesbians?
A strap on for lesbians is a dildo that is worn by a woman to penetrate her female partner. Strap-ons can be held in place by harnesses or harness briefs or they can also be strapless. “Strapless” strap-ons are held in place by a woman's kegel muscles so both partners are experiencing penetration simultaneously (although they can also be used in harnesses for additional support). Strap ons come in a variety of different sizes and shapes, can be used for vaginal and/or anal penetration, and can be packaged individually or with a harness.
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