6 Best FtM Sex Toys

   Cassie M
I am familiar enough with the sex toy market to know how difficult it can be for trans folks to find suitable products. The marketing is often very gendered which can easily lead to some gender-dysphoric discomfort. In this review, I’ve tried my best to create a safe space to communicate which products may be suitable for certain bodies at different stages of transition. Today, I’ll diving into FtM sex toys specifically. Together with some queer and trans members of our Tester Team, I’ve picked out our favorites for you to read about below!
1 Test Winner

Dame Com

 Dame Com

Dame Com

  • Wand vibrator with an ergonomically curved handle
  • Coated in body-safe silicone
  • Powerful cordless vibrations
  • 5 speeds and 5 patterns to explore.

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  • Comfortable grip
  • Gender-affirming design and packaging
  • Delivers deep and rumbly vibrations
  • Completely waterproof (great to use in the bath or shower)

  • Short battery life compared to the long charging time
  • A bit loud
Dame Com
Vibration speeds5
Vibration patterns5
Length10.5 inches
MaterialsMedical grade silicone
WaterproofYes
Battery Life60 minutes
RechargeableYes
Charging Time150 minutes
Travel LockYes
Storage Bag IncludedYes
Colors AvailablePeriwinkle, Quartz

I’ve picked out the Dame Com as our Test Winner today because it’s a great all-rounder. Wand vibrators are some of the most versatile sex toys out there. They’re great for stimulating any external part of the body regardless of anatomy. Our tester, Vern, loved the overall quality and feel of the Dame Com at first: “Dame products are silky smooth, likely the best body-safe silicone I’ve ever felt, and easy to use! It’s shaped for accessibility. […] It’s angled to rest closer to your body, it’s like my hands and arms are getting a break! Plus, the vibrations are deep and rumbly without going overboard.” I think it’s great as a FtM sex toy since it works wonders for any erogenous zones on all kinds of bodies. It’s also a great transitional toy that will keep stimulating you as your body changes. Last but not least, the design itself offers some mild gender affirmation: “The Dame Com is perfect for my bottom dysphoria and gender euphoria. At times, I wish that I had something more that I could grab, like a penis, rather than my vulva and clitoris. […] When my hand grasps onto its shaft it feels like I’m holding and stroking a penis of my own.” The packaging as well “is gender-neutral and promotes safe, healthy sex and highlights the Dame Com’s ability to be used by a variety of body types and genitalia”.

2 Runner-Up

Satisfyer Curvy 1+

 Satisfyer Curvy 1+

Satisfyer Curvy 1+

  • Clitoral suction toy with air pulse and vibration
  • Wide suction nozzle
  • Coated in soft, body-safe silicone
  • Connect to the Satisfyer Connect app to unlock unlimited stimulation modes and long-distance features.

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  • Suitable for an enlarged clitoris
  • A lot of different pleasure combinations to explore
  • Great for long-distance couples
  • 100% waterproof

  • The surface gets scuff marks easily
  • Long charging time
Satisfyer Curvy 1+
Clitoral suction11 modes
Vibration speeds3
Vibration patterns7
Length5.2 inches
MaterialsABS plastic, silicone
WaterproofYes
Battery Life60 minutes
RechargeableYes
Charging Time240 minutes
Storage Bag IncludedNo
Travel LockNo
Colors AvailableRed, White

“I don’t hesitate to claim that the Satisfyer Curvy 1+ is my favourite sex toy to date. […] As a trans man, I worried that my clit wouldn’t fit into the chamber due to hormone growth, or that the sensation would be too intense. […] The Curvy 1+ enveloped my clit and fit like a glove, creating a perfect vacuum seal.” The Runner-Up is another favorite here at Bedbible, a clit sucker from Satisfyer. First of all, the Satisfyer Curvy 1+ is a great quality construction, it offers both vibrations and air pulse stimulation, it’s app compatible, has an ergonomic design, and completely waterproof. Having tried out the Satisfyer Curvy 2+ myself, I am very familiar with all the pleasure this little thing has to offer. That said, I picked out the Satisfyer Curvy 1+ as a great FtM sex toy specifically because of it’s wide suction nozzle. It was also the main advantage for our tester, Nick: “The most cherished attribute I hold is the suitability for trans-masc users. As I mentioned earlier, I have clitoral growth due to hormone treatment, but that didn’t impede on the immense pleasure the toy provides.” One of my favorite parts of this clit sucker is the app control function. They unlock so many extra settings, interactive features, and allow you to be intimate with someone long-distance. It just offers a lot more versatility compared to your average clit sucker out there!

3 Best For Beginners

NEW Tenga Iroha+ Kushi

 NEW Tenga Iroha+ Kushi

NEW Tenga Iroha+ Kushi

  • Soft and squishy palm vibrator
  • New and improved version of the Iroha+ Kushi
  • Ribbed texture and pinpoint tip.

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  • Quiet motor
  • Single-button control is easy to use
  • Super lightweight and compact
  • The design offers varied sensations

  • Not the most powerful
  • Quite pricey
NEW Tenga Iroha+ Kushi
Vibration speeds5
Vibration patterns3
Length4.01 inches
MaterialsSilicone, TPU
WaterproofYes
Battery Life60 minutes
RechargeableYes
Charging Time120 minutes
Travel LockNo
Storage Bag IncludedNo
Colors AvailableBeige, Pink

I like to recommend soft and versatile vibrators to complete beginners since they’re so unintimidating and easy to use. The NEW Tenga Iroha+ Kushi is just that! This vibrator is covered in incredibly soft and squishy silicone. Our tester, Vern, found it “extra cozy and comfortable to hold and use.”  I like how the design allows for you to enjoy both pinpoint stimulation with the tip as well as broader stimulation with some added texture. This makes it a lot more versatile when using it different body parts and erogenous zones. However, for Vern, “as someone who prefers widespread vibration, my only issue is the Kushi’s motor, where most vibrations are in the tip of and not much is going on in the wider section of the toy.” There are also a few minor drawbacks about the Kushi. Vern noted that the price was a bit steep for such a small vibrator. The vibrations themselves are also not the most powerful. The small size itself could also prove to be tricky for some. “As a fat person with some issues with wrist mobility, I sometimes had trouble finding the perfect angle to fit the vibrator against my body.”  That said, the quality of the materials and the construction still shines through. It’s super cute, has a pretty unassuming design, and feels really nice to grind up against!

4 Best Grinder

Uncover Creations Lunar Grinder

 Uncover Creations Lunar Grinder

Uncover Creations Lunar Grinder

  • Soft and squishy grinder with a space-inspired design
  • Made of platinum silicone
  • Can be strapped onto a pillow or a partner’s thigh for hands-free grinding
  • Each strap measures 2.5 feet.

  • Playful and whimsical design
  • Made-to-order and available in many different colors and styles
  • Super easy to use
  • Easy to secure onto a stable surface

  • The neoprene straps may become loose over time
  • Requires thorough cleaning
  • Easily attracts dust and lint
Uncover Creations Lunar Grinder
Length7 inches
Width5.5 inches
Insertable length3.14 inches
Harness SizeMax. 2.5ft inches
MaterialsSilicone, Neoprene, ABS Plastic
AllergiesSilky-smooth upgrade may affect those with durian, tree nuts and tree nut derivatives, or musk thistle seed allergies
Storage Bag IncludedNo
Colors AvailableLots of customization options

Grinders are always amazing for those who love to masturbate by rubbing against something. This type of masturbation is also great regardless of how much bottom growth you have. Vern absolutely LOVED the Uncover Creations Lunar Grinder: “As a fiction fan and a person who loves a little fantasy in the bedroom, the Lunar Grinder is a great addition to my toy arsenal. Easy to use and soft to the touch, I’m obsessed with the squishy silicone and beautiful design of this alien tentacle and moon base creation!” Now, it may not sound like much to rub passionately against some textured, squishy silicone but you might want to keep an open mind, according to Vern: “As someone who prefers vibrating toys, I was surprised with how much feeling I got from the textures involved with the Uncover Creations Lunar Grinder. I love the grooves and ridges of the tentacle, how it dips internally just a couple of inches like it’s teasing me.”  Not all grinders have an insertable element, so if this isn’t your jam, there are plenty other to choose from. But Vern really enjoyed that the tentacle did provide some shallow penetration. It’s definitely not as stimulating as a dildo, but it does add some fun!

5 Best Stroker

PeenPocket Pleasure Sleeve

 PeenPocket Pleasure Sleeve

PeenPocket Pleasure Sleeve

  • Small silicone stroker with a realistic design
  • Slightly ribbed internally
  • Creates a stimulating vacuum around enlarged bottom growth.

  • Very gender-affirming
  • Incredibly realistic details
  • Great for both solo and couples' play
  • Easy to clean

  • Takes a while to get the hang of it
  • Packaging implies poorer quality which isn't the case
  • Not a lot of stimulation on its own
PeenPocket Pleasure Sleeve
Length3.5 inches
Width1.25 inches
Diameter (internal)0.5 inches
Weight0.11 lbs
MaterialsSilicone
WaterproofYes
Storage Bag IncludedYes
Colors Available4 Different Skin Tones

Now, this stroker is one of my favorite FtM sex toys to recommend. It’s perfect for those who are already on testosterone and have enough bottom growth to stroke. As our tester, Vern, noted, it is incredibly gender-affirming and generally great for those with bottom dysphoria. Now, it’s only for stroking and does not double as a packer, but it’s a wonderful visual to enjoy during playtime. “This pleasure sleeve is made of high-quality silicone with details to swoon over, like a “urethral” hole for lube to appear like pre-cum and a ribbed canal for good stimulation for you. I really love the PeenPocket Pleasure Sleeve, and that’s coming from someone who doesn’t tend to enjoy realistic phallic toys!” Sure, Vern did say that it’s not the most stimulating on it’s own. Although, once you get the hang of it, it’s a great toy to whip out for foreplay and partnered play. In terms of quality, “the silicone can be thin in some places which can lead to it tearing”. This doesn’t bode well for the longevity of the product which is honestly not super cheap as is. Still, it’s a great first-time stroker for trans men out there who want something tailored to their bodies.

6 Best Strap-On

Lovense Lapis

 Lovense Lapis

Lovense Lapis

  • Vibrating strapless strap-on
  • 3 independently controlled vibrating motors
  • Adjustable base for the wearer
  • Textured shaft with a pronounced head for more stimulation during penetration
  • App-controlled

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  • Strong and rumbly vibrations
  • Adjustable design
  • Pleasure for the wearer and the receiver
  • Semi-realistic design
  • Realistic experience

  • Can slip out of wearer if not using harness
  • Insertion point can be uncomfortable or too big for wearer
Lovense Lapis
Vibration speeds3 preset
Vibration patterns4 preset
Length9 inches
Insertable lengthShaft: 5.43 inches, Base: 3.43 inches
DiameterShaft: 1.61 inches, Base: 1.52 inches
AdjustableYes
MaterialsSilicone
WaterproofYes
Battery LifeUp to 150 minutes
RechargeableYes
Charging Time105 minutes
Travel LockNo
Remote ControlsApp controls
Storage Bag IncludedYes
Colors AvailablePink

The Lovense Lapis is one of the best vibrating strapless strapons on the market. It features three powerful motors, and its shape provides rumbly vibrations for both, the wearer and receiver. As a sex toy expert, I’ve tried plenty of strapless strap-ons, but this one is the most high-end and it’s app-controlled, which helps a lot with hands-free play. According to our tester, Joseph, the Lovense Lapis is a high-quality toy: “The motor is strong but quiet, the patterns are highly customizable, you can adjust the fit, and the material feels just like skin once it’s warmed up.” They also highlighted the powerful and rumbly vibrations saying: “I could feel the motor all through my whole body even on the lowest setting.” They enjoyed the size, and the ergonomic design saying “Using it to top was fun, and I did get some gendergood feelings about having a penis with no obvious straps holding it up.” However, as it often happens with strapless strap-ons the toy was slipping out, so I highly recommend using it with a harness. For those looking for a more realistic experience, I suggest using it with harness underwear for a more natural and comfortable fit. On the plus side, our tester actually enjoyed the combination of the Lapis and a harness saying, “Using it with a harness is fantastic, though. It really presses the ribbed bottom of the shaft against you, so you can feel just as much of the vibrations as your partner can.” In my opinion, the Lovense Lapis is a top-of-the-line strapless strap-on. It’s nice and weighty, with powerful vibrations, and the app-controlled features are a great solution for couples that want full control of their experience.

Other Helpful Accessories for GNC Folx

So far, we’ve looked at a bunch of different great transgender sex toys. Hopefully, by this point, you’ve found a few you liked! However, you might find yourself searching for some accessories to enjoy with your newfound toy(s). Here are a few other types of sex toys that might be helpful for all kinds of gender non-conforming people out there.

Trinity Vibes Lubricant Launcher

Trinity Vibes Lubricant Launcher - Other Helpful Accessories for GNC Folx
Pretty much every sex toy out there requires lube. If you’ve ever used lube before, chances are, you’re well aware of how messy it can get! Fortunately, you can easily minimize the mess simply by using a Lubricant Launcher!

Ohnut Wearable Penetration Buffer

Ohnut Wearable Penetration Buffer - Other Helpful Accessories for GNC Folx
If your current partner or toy selection is currently too big for you to enjoy comfortably, that can really take away from the mood. However, using the Ohnut, you can easily limit how deep the penetration goes while increasing pleasure for both partners!

Fifty Shades of Grey Nipple Suckers

Fifty Shades of Grey Nipple Suckers - Other Helpful Accessories for GNC Folx
Lots of people enjoy nipple play. If you fall into that group then why not pick up a cheap pair of nipple suckers, like the Fifty Shades of Grey Nipple Suckers? They might be gentler than nipple clamps, but that doesn’t mean they’re any less stimulating!

Bumpher Soft Silicone Dildo Base

Bumpher Soft Silicone Dildo Base - Other Helpful Accessories for GNC Folx
Even if you’re buying a FTM dildo, there’s no guarantee that the experience will feel as good for you as it will for your partner. Even out the playing field (i.e., increase your own stimulation) with the Bumpher, a silicone dildo base that fits comfortably behind a harness!

Unisex Strap-On Harness Briefs

Unisex Strap-On Harness Briefs - Other Helpful Accessories for GNC Folx
Perfect for packing as well as strap-on play, the Lovehoney Unisex Strap-On Harness Briefs are both comfortable and practical. Not only can you use these for a standard dildo, but these shorts also work with double-ended dildos for twice the fun!

Specifically for Trans Femmes

We’ve seen plenty of toys for trans men, so now let’s take a look at some options for trans femmes!

Calexotics Inspire Dilator Kit

Calexotics Inspire Dilator Kit - Specifically for Trans Femmes
Designed for training (either vaginal or anal), this dilator training set offers a safe and comfortable way to work your way up to penetrative sex with a large penis. Check out our review of the Calexotics Inspire Dilator Kit here!

How to Use FTM Sex Toys

You probably already knew this, but there are many different types of transgender sex toys! As you might expect, toys for trans men are a bit different than toys for trans women. Even within the toys for trans men, there are many different designs, making it impossible for us to give you a one-size-fits-all how-to guide. Instead, we’ve outlined the general process you’ll want to follow for any trans sex toys you pick up.

Read the Instructions

Read the Instructions

Each toy is unique, and yours may have specific methods that need to be followed. Even if you think you know how it works, it’s always a good idea to read the manual before using a new toy.

Prepare the Toy

Prepare the Toy

After you’ve read the required information, you can prep your toy for use. Generally, this will require lube at a minimum. Simply refer to the manual and follow any prep they recommend.

Test the Waters

Test the Waters

When testing your new toy, it’s best to start slowly using lower settings. As you get more comfortable with the toy and work your way up, you should be able to find the “sweet spot”. Experiment with your new toy until you find what works best for you!

How to Clean FTM Sex Toys

If you want your trans sex toys to last a long time then routine maintenance is an important part of the routine. Even if long-term durability isn’t a concern, you should always clean your toys (for sanitary reasons!). Fortunately, cleaning transgender sex toys isn’t very hard. If your toy is made from a non-porous material like silicone and doesn’t contain any electric parts, you can sterilize it by dropping it into a pot of boiling water for five minutes or more. If not, then you can only wash it. Clean the toy using antibacterial soap and water, then wash it off using only water. Pat the toy dry with a toy and leave it out to air dry completely before storing it away. Never store a toy while it’s still wet, as this will cause bacteria to build!

FAQ

Generally, we recommend opting for water-based lubricants, as these are safe to use with any type of sex toy material. We recommend consulting your manual before trying to use a different type of lube.

Yes, they do! While different people prefer different forms of stimulation and some may respond more to specific types, people with penises can still enjoy vibrators.

It depends on the toy. However, length and width restraints are generally only something you’ll run into when a toy uses suction. If your penis isn’t big enough to make a proper seal then the toy won’t be able to be used to its full potential.

No, but we would recommend picking one up anyway. Even strapless strap-ons are easier to use with a harness; the benefit of being “strapless” is that you always have the option of not using one! However, you’ll have much more control over the dildo if you use one.

The longest you should wear a cock ring at one time is 20 - 30 minutes. Fortunately, you need only take a few minute break before you can put it back on! The main reason you need to take it off every so often is to ensure proper circulation to your nether regions, which is limited by the cock ring.

What are FTM Sex Toys?

FTM sex toys are sex toys that are designed for—or can be used by—transgender men. This includes many different types of toys, including cock rings, masturbators, packers, dildos, vibrators, and butt plugs. Different folks will have different needs; fortunately, there are plenty of options to choose from.

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