The 6 Best FtM Sex Toys to Pleasure All Kinds of Trans Masc Bodies

   Cassie Mørch
I am familiar enough with the sex toy market to know how difficult it can be for trans folks to find suitable products. The marketing is often very gendered which can easily lead to some gender-dysphoric discomfort. In this review, I’ve tried my best to create a safe space to communicate which products may be suitable for certain bodies. Today, I’ll diving into FtM sex toys specifically. Together with some queer and trans members from our Tester Team, I’ve picked out of favorites for you to read about below!
1 Test Winner

Dame Com

 Dame Com

Dame Com

  • Wand vibrator with an ergonomically curved handle
  • Coated in body-safe silicone
  • Powerful cordless vibrations
  • 5 speeds and 5 patterns to explore.

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  • Comfortable grip
  • Gender-affirming design and packaging
  • Delivers deep and rumbly vibrations
  • Completely waterproof (great to use in the bath or shower)

  • Short battery life compared to the long charging time
  • A bit loud
Dame Com
Vibration speeds5
Vibration patterns5
Length10.5 inches
MaterialsMedical grade silicone
WaterproofYes
Battery Life60 minutes
RechargeableYes
Charging Time150 minutes
Travel LockYes
Storage Bag IncludedYes
Colors AvailablePeriwinkle, Quartz

I’ve picked out the Dame Com as our Test Winner today because it’s a great all-rounder. Wand vibrators are some of the most versatile sex toys out there. They’re great for stimulating any external part of the body regardless of anatomy. Our tester, Vern, loved the overall quality and feel of the Dame Com at first: “Dame products are silky smooth, likely the best body-safe silicone I’ve ever felt, and easy to use! It’s shaped for accessibility. […] It’s angled to rest closer to your body, it’s like my hands and arms are getting a break! Plus, the vibrations are deep and rumbly without going overboard.” I think it’s great as a FtM sex toy since it works wonders for any erogenous zones on all kinds of bodies. It’s also a great transitional toy that will keep stimulating you as your body changes. Last but not least, the design itself offers some mild gender affirmation: “The Dame Com is perfect for my bottom dysphoria and gender euphoria. At times, I wish that I had something more that I could grab, like a penis, rather than my vulva and clitoris. […] When my hand grasps onto its shaft it feels like I’m holding and stroking a penis of my own.” The packaging as well “is gender-neutral and promotes safe, healthy sex and highlights the Dame Com’s ability to be used by a variety of body types and genitalia”.

2 Runner-Up

Satisfyer Curvy 1+

 Satisfyer Curvy 1+

Satisfyer Curvy 1+

  • Clitoral suction toy with air pulse and vibration
  • Wide suction nozzle
  • Coated in soft, body-safe silicone
  • Connect to the Satisfyer Connect app to unlock unlimited stimulation modes and long-distance features.

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  • Suitable for an enlarged clitoris
  • A lot of different pleasure combinations to explore
  • Great for long-distance couples
  • 100% waterproof

  • The surface gets scuff marks easily
  • Long charging time
Satisfyer Curvy 1+
Clitoral suction11 modes
Vibration speeds3
Vibration patterns7
Length5.2 inches
MaterialsABS plastic, silicone
WaterproofYes
Battery Life60 minutes
RechargeableYes
Charging Time240 minutes
Storage Bag IncludedNo
Travel LockNo
Colors AvailableRed, White

“I don’t hesitate to claim that the Satisfyer Curvy 1+ is my favourite sex toy to date. […] As a trans man, I worried that my clit wouldn’t fit into the chamber due to hormone growth, or that the sensation would be too intense. […] The Curvy 1+ enveloped my clit and fit like a glove, creating a perfect vacuum seal.” The Runner-Up is another favorite here at Bedbible, a clit sucker from Satisfyer. First of all, the Satisfyer Curvy 1+ is a great quality construction, it offers both vibrations and air pulse stimulation, it’s app compatible, has an ergonomic design, and completely waterproof. Having tried out the Satisfyer Curvy 2+ myself, I am very familiar with all the pleasure this little thing has to offer. That said, I picked out the Satisfyer Curvy 1+ as a great FtM sex toy specifically because of it’s wide suction nozzle. It was also the main advantage for our tester, Nick: “The most cherished attribute I hold is the suitability for trans-masc users. As I mentioned earlier, I have clitoral growth due to hormone treatment, but that didn’t impede on the immense pleasure the toy provides.” One of my favorite parts of this clit sucker is the app control function. They unlock so many extra settings, interactive features, and allow you to be intimate with someone long-distance. It just offers a lot more versatility compared to your average clit sucker out there!

3 Best For Beginners

NEW Tenga Iroha+ Kushi

 NEW Tenga Iroha+ Kushi

NEW Tenga Iroha+ Kushi

  • Soft and squishy palm vibrator
  • New and improved version of the Iroha+ Kushi
  • Ribbed texture and pinpoint tip.

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  • Quiet motor
  • Single-button control is easy to use
  • Super lightweight and compact
  • The design offers varied sensations

  • Not the most powerful
  • Quite pricey
NEW Tenga Iroha+ Kushi
Vibration speeds5
Vibration patterns3
Length4.01 inches
MaterialsSilicone, TPU
WaterproofYes
Battery Life60 minutes
RechargeableYes
Charging Time120 minutes
Travel LockNo
Storage Bag IncludedNo
Colors AvailableBeige, Pink

I like to recommend soft and versatile vibrators to complete beginners since they’re so unintimidating and easy to use. The NEW Tenga Iroha+ Kushi is just that! This vibrator is covered in incredibly soft and squishy silicone. Our tester, Vern, found it “extra cozy and comfortable to hold and use.”  I like how the design allows for you to enjoy both pinpoint stimulation with the tip as well as broader stimulation with some added texture. This makes it a lot more versatile when using it different body parts and erogenous zones. However, for Vern, “as someone who prefers widespread vibration, my only issue is the Kushi’s motor, where most vibrations are in the tip of and not much is going on in the wider section of the toy.” There are also a few minor drawbacks about the Kushi. Vern noted that the price was a bit steep for such a small vibrator. The vibrations themselves are also not the most powerful. The small size itself could also prove to be tricky for some. “As a fat person with some issues with wrist mobility, I sometimes had trouble finding the perfect angle to fit the vibrator against my body.”  That said, the quality of the materials and the construction still shines through. It’s super cute, has a pretty unassuming design, and feels really nice to grind up against!

4 Best Rabbit Vibe

Fun Factory JEWELS MISS BI

 MISS BI

  • Want dual points of vibration
  • Need a travel-friendly toy
  • Use your toys in the shower

MISS BI

  • Want a budget-friendly option
  • Prefer silicone lubricant
  • Only need a simple vibrator

  • Rabbit-style vibrator
  • Dual-motor design for internal and external stimulation
  • Short and curved insertable shaft
  • Flexible clitoral stem on the outside.

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  • Great for those who don't like deep penetration
  • Can be used both vaginally and anally
  • Suitable for any phase of your transition journey
  • “Booster” button amps up the intensity quickly

  • Easily attracts dust and lint
MISS BI
Vibration speeds6
Vibration patterns6
MaterialsABS plastic, silicone
Length6.69 inches
Diameter1.6 inches
RechargeableYes
Battery Life30 - 60 minutes
Charging Time600 - 720 minutes
Travel LockYes
WaterproofYes
Colors AvailablePink, Grape, Jade, Black

“Honestly, my previous rabbit vibrators never massaged my G-spot as well as Miss Bi did mine! Between its broad extension arm for clitoris/perineum stimulation, its heavenly curve, and the full feeling it gives, I was in paradise! “ Vern, our tester, was already interested in Fun Factory since they “love toys and brands that highlight their gender neutrality and ability to pleasure a wider array of bodies”. The unique design of the Fun Factory Miss Bi is exactly why I’ve included it in this review of FtM sex toys. The finger loop base design makes it easier to use solo, and less awkward to use with a partner. Combined with the unique dual-arm, dual-motor design, I think this unique option could appeal to a lot of people. The main appeal to me is definitely the shape and size of the insertable arm. The fact that you get to enjoy targeted g-spot stimulation without the penetration feeling too deep or overwhelming is a huge plus for people who may struggle with the idea of being penetrated.

5 Best Packer

Vixen Mr. Right Silicone Packer

 Vixen Mr. Right Silicone Packer

  • Are looking for a durable and long-lasting packer
  • Enjoy a packer with a really soft and smooth texture
  • Want a high-quality packer made of body-safe materials
  • Like the idea of a packer that doubles as a dildo

Vixen Mr. Right Silicone Packer

  • Discreet packaging is important to you
  • Prefer something on the smaller size
  • Are on a budget

  • Platinum silicone packer from Vixen
  • Doubles as a soft dildo
  • Available in 3 colors: Vanilla, Caramel, Chocolate.

  • Very realistic design
  • Easy to clean
  • Can be used with packing straps
  • 100% body-safe materials
  • Non-slip base

  • Material can feel a bit sticky to the touch
  • A bit too flexible for anal penetration
  • No size variations to choose from
Vixen Mr. Right Silicone Packer
Length5.5 inches
Diameter1.25 inches
MaterialsPlatinum silicone
WaterproofYes
Storage Bag IncludedResealable packaging
Colors AvailableVanilla, Caramel and Chocolate

“The Vixen Mr. Right Packer isn’t just adequate at its job, but is an absolute MUST for someone seeking a high-quality piece to stuff into their undies, themselves, or a play partner!” Our tester, Nick, had a really positive experience with the Vixen Mr. Right Silicone Packer. The realistic design, especially the detailed textures on the ball sack, was impressive. The soft silicone made it really comfortable for packing, making it feel more like a natural extension of his body. However, its size made it look somewhat conspicuous under clothing, particularly for people who are more petite or short. I love that this packer doubles as a functional dildo! Of course, it’s not the stiffest thing out there, but it gets the job done. It’s comfortable and enjoyable, though its softness makes it less suitable for more intense play or anal penetration. The price might seem high, but considering its handmade quality and high-grade materials, I think it’s a reasonable investment for those seeking a high-quality packer. It’s a great option for those who pack regularly and are looking for a durable, realistic option.

6 Best Stroker

Arcwave Ghost Silicone Stroker

 Arcwave Ghost

Arcwave Ghost

  • Small silicone stroker
  • Super soft and stretchy
  • Reversible design with varied textures on both sides
  • Comes with a discreet storage case with ventilation holes.

  • Small size is perfect for bottom growth
  • Reversible design offers more variation
  • High-quality, body-safe silicone
  • 100% waterproof and easy to clean
  • Reusable and long-lasting

  • No added vibrations or suction
  • Gets very slippery with lube
Arcwave Ghost
Length4 inches
Diameter1.3 inches
MaterialsSilicone
WaterproofYes
Storage Bag IncludedYes
Colors AvailableBlack, Blue, Teal

The Arcwave Ghost is one of the best beginner-friendly strokers that we’ve tested here at Bedbible. It’s basically a TENGA Egg but made with 100% body-safe premium silicone. This means that it’s reusable and easy to clean! I love that this stroker is soft and stretchy enough to wrap around all penis sizes. Being able to adjust the pressure with you hand as you stroke makes it super accessible to newbies, since it’s basically an elevated hand job. Our tester, Nicolae, really enjoyed the Arcwave Ghost. Even though it was simple, it definitely was stimulating enough to get the job done and make the experience more enjoyable overall. My favorite part is definitely the reversible feature that gives you some variety in sensation. For Nicolae, he found “the intense surface with nodules to be more exciting for a quick release, as for the smooth part with grooves for a longer experience.”

Other Helpful Accessories for GNC Folx

So far, we’ve looked at a bunch of different great transgender sex toys. Hopefully, by this point, you’ve found a few you liked! However, you might find yourself searching for some accessories to enjoy with your newfound toy(s). Here are a few other types of sex toys that might be helpful for all kinds of gender non-conforming people out there.

Lube Tube Applicator Syringe

Lube Tube Applicator Syringe - Other Helpful Accessories for GNC Folx
Pretty much every sex toy out there requires lube. If you’ve ever used lube before, chances are, you’re well aware of how messy it can get! Fortunately, you can easily minimize the mess simply by using a lube tube!

Ohnut Wearable Penetration Buffer

Ohnut Wearable Penetration Buffer - Other Helpful Accessories for GNC Folx
If your current partner or toy selection is currently too big for you to enjoy comfortably, that can really take away from the mood. However, using the Ohnut, you can easily limit how deep the penetration goes while increasing pleasure for both partners!

Fifty Shades of Grey Nipple Suckers

Fifty Shades of Grey Nipple Suckers - Other Helpful Accessories for GNC Folx
Lots of people enjoy nipple play. If you fall into that group then why not pick up a cheap pair of nipple suckers, like the Fifty Shades of Grey Nipple Suckers? They might be gentler than nipple clamps, but that doesn’t mean they’re any less stimulating!

Bumpher Soft Silicone Dildo Base

Bumpher Soft Silicone Dildo Base - Other Helpful Accessories for GNC Folx
Even if you’re buying a FTM dildo, there’s no guarantee that the experience will feel as good for you as it will for your partner. Even out the playing field (i.e., increase your own stimulation) with the Bumpher, a silicone dildo base that fits comfortably behind a harness!

Strap-On Harness Boxer Shorts

Strap-On Harness Boxer Shorts - Other Helpful Accessories for GNC Folx
Perfect for packing as well as strap-on play, these harness boxer shorts are both comfortable and practical. Not only can you use these for a standard dildo, but these shorts also work with double-ended dildos for twice the fun!

Specifically for Trans Femmes

We’ve seen plenty of toys for trans men, so now let’s take a look at some options for trans femmes!

Exo Hands Free Wearable Stimulator

Exo Hands Free Wearable Stimulator - Specifically for Trans Femmes
Enjoy hands-free masturbation with the Exo, a unique wearable stimulator that allows you to enjoy a more natural-feeling session without needing to rely on electronics.

Calexotics Inspire Dilator Kit

Calexotics Inspire Dilator Kit - Specifically for Trans Femmes
Designed for training (either vaginal or anal), this dilator training set offers a safe and comfortable way to work your way up to penetrative sex with a large penis. Check out our review of the Calexotics Inspire Dilator Kit here!

How to Use FTM Sex Toys

You probably already knew this, but there are many different types of transgender sex toys! As you might expect, toys for trans men are a bit different than toys for trans women. Even within the toys for trans men, there are many different designs, making it impossible for us to give you a one-size-fits-all how-to guide. Instead, we’ve outlined the general process you’ll want to follow for any trans sex toys you pick up.

Read the Instructions

Read the Instructions

Each toy is unique, and yours may have specific methods that need to be followed. Even if you think you know how it works, it’s always a good idea to read the manual before using a new toy.

Prepare the Toy

Prepare the Toy

After you’ve read the required information, you can prep your toy for use. Generally, this will require lube at a minimum. Simply refer to the manual and follow any prep they recommend.

Test the Waters

Test the Waters

When testing your new toy, it’s best to start slowly using lower settings. As you get more comfortable with the toy and work your way up, you should be able to find the “sweet spot”. Experiment with your new toy until you find what works best for you!

How to Clean FTM Sex Toys

If you want your trans sex toys to last a long time then routine maintenance is an important part of the routine. Even if long-term durability isn’t a concern, you should always clean your toys (for sanitary reasons!). Fortunately, cleaning transgender sex toys isn’t very hard. If your toy is made from a non-porous material like silicone and doesn’t contain any electric parts, you can sterilize it by dropping it into a pot of boiling water for five minutes or more. If not, then you can only wash it. Clean the toy using antibacterial soap and water, then wash it off using only water. Pat the toy dry with a toy and leave it out to air dry completely before storing it away. Never store a toy while it’s still wet, as this will cause bacteria to build!

FAQ

Generally, we recommend opting for water-based lubricants, as these are safe to use with any type of sex toy material. We recommend consulting your manual before trying to use a different type of lube.

Yes, they do! While different people prefer different forms of stimulation and some may respond more to specific types, people with penises can still enjoy vibrators.

It depends on the toy. However, length and width restraints are generally only something you’ll run into when a toy uses suction. If your penis isn’t big enough to make a proper seal then the toy won’t be able to be used to its full potential.

No, but we would recommend picking one up anyway. Even strapless strap-ons are easier to use with a harness; the benefit of being “strapless” is that you always have the option of not using one! However, you’ll have much more control over the dildo if you use one.

The longest you should wear a cock ring at one time is 20 - 30 minutes. Fortunately, you need only take a few minute break before you can put it back on! The main reason you need to take it off every so often is to ensure proper circulation to your nether regions, which is limited by the cock ring.

What are FTM Sex Toys?

FTM sex toys are sex toys that are designed for—or can be used by—transgender men. This includes many different types of toys, including cock rings, masturbators, packers, dildos, vibrators, and butt plugs. Different folks will have different needs; fortunately, there are plenty of options to choose from.

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