4 Best Strap-Ons for Lesbians

I chose the Lovense Lapis as the Test Winner because it’s one of the best vibrating strapless strap-ons on the market. I picked it as the best strap-on for lesbians, because it also provides internal, and external stimulation for the wearer, and it’s quite flexible, so you can have an easier time adjusting the angles. What I love about it is that it provides deep and rumbly vibrations, and it’s also app-controlled, which ensures smooth, hands-free play. Our Bedbibe tester Joseph, who tested this toy for us also agreed that the Lapis is a top-quality strap-on “The powerful vibrations are incredibly satisfying, and the soft silicone feels luxurious.” I also appreciate how quiet it is, which makes it great for discreet play. That said, I do think using a harness with it makes a big difference. Joseph mentioned that “maintaining its position without a harness was a bit difficult,” which is pretty common with strapless strap-ons. But with a harness, it stays securely in place, making it much easier to focus on the fun.

I think the Tantus Bend Over Strap-On Kit is a fabulous combination of great quality at a great price. Compared to the other strap-ons for lesbians we are looking at today, this falls in the mid-price range, which makes this pretty good value for money when you consider everything you get in the kit! Not only do you get two dildos to choose from, these are the Tantus Silk dildos made of premium silicone. They’re super smooth and have the perfect design for beginners or those who are interested in some strap-on anal. I love how well the harness is made to fit a lot of different sizes. That said, people in smaller pieces may find that the excess strap can get a bit annoying during use. Still, our tester Christina loved that “the harness did not loosen at all while thrusting and the dildo stayed securely in place.” It also didn’t chafe like she had suspected it would. Although, the small vibrator pocket didn’t keep the vibrator in place very well. “The little vibrator comes with a battery and feels like a cheap plastic cover, but has a decently strong buzz and has proven durable.” So, if you already have a favorite bullet vibrator you could use that instead. If you have other dildos, or want to buy other dildos then this harness will accommodate them too. Compared to some of the other products in this review, this kit is super easy to clean. The dildos can be fully sterilized. For Christina, “the fact that the harness can be thoroughly washed gives this kit a big advantage over my leather harness for using with other partners.”

I’ve had the pleasure of testing out the Strap-On-Me Bendable Strap-On Small myself. Now, even though I’m not a big fan of using strap-ons in general (as the wearer, that is), I absolutely LOVE this little guy! First things first, the silicone is so luxuriously soft and smooth. As a professional sex toy tester, I’ve tried a lot of different silicone toys, and this is one just feels so comfortable! The adjustable hinge allowed me to customize the angle to fit my body (which I always feel is a struggle with some sex toys). This, along with the wide, egg-shaped pony, helped it stay pretty securely in place when thrusting about. My absolute favorite part is the internal massage. Now, I’ve tried both ends of this strapless strap-on, and they both deliver some satisfying g-spot and a-spot massage. I especially like that every movement in the dildo can be felt (intensely) in the pony! The dildo is super flexible and lightweight which does make it a bit difficult to maneuver (especially for anal penetration). Another small thing to keep in mind is that the dildo in the Small size is a bit short. So if you have a larger FUPA or tummy, this can make the full length even less accessible when wearing it.

The Lovehoney Desire Luxury Strapless Strap-On offers something that most of the other strapless strap-ons in this review don’t: direct clitoral stimulation. The silicone rabbit ears adds to the wearer’s pleasure so simultaneous orgasm is made possible! Of course, this device is best suited for those who already know that they enjoy a classic rabbit-style vibrator. The design is not a universal fit and the toy isn’t adjustable so be sure that your body already knows and likes those rabbit ears. What I like about this toy, as a lesbian strap-on, is the vibration settings. First of all, there are many to explore and enjoy. But being able to control them separately makes it easy to customize to your likings. Of course, it would be easier to play around with those settings with remote control. Our tester, Vicki, also noted that she “pleasantly discovered that this toy could be used as two separate toys too: G-spot vibrator and a vibrating dildo!”. Technically, it’s also a rabbit vibrator. Versatility is always a plus in my book. The main drawback is the design of the insertable pony. It doesn’t stay in place during thrusting and “it is a lot of pressure on the vagina to hold onto the strap on so it can get quite tiring, however the vibrations do help to increase the pleasure.” I recommend using it with a harness to make the whole experience more enjoyable.