7 Best Anal Toys for Beginners

Having tried every (body-safe) butt plug material there is, I knew I wanted to choose a glass or metal plug as the overall test winner. Choosing such a rigid material instead of a softer silicone might seem like an odd choice, but there is method to my madness! Glass slides so much more smoothly than silicone and the rigidity actually makes it easier to insert! And don’t worry, borosilicate glass is extra strong and can even be boiled for a deep clean! I chose the Icicles no. 48 because it is slim and non-intimidating and our tester, Kasia gave it a glowing review! She loved the that the “glass material looks so luxurious and classy” and the “unusual and unique” daisy design on the base. She was also a fan of how the glass butt plug felt in use, commenting that it “is quite small and easy to insert” and she “found it comfortable to wear, even during sex.” The main downside to this material is that “the glass gets very slippery when used with lube,” which can make it a little tricky to handle.

I don’t think it gets much better than the b-Vibe Novice Plug when it comes to beginners butt plugs. That being said, I know that not every beginner wants to spend so much on something they don’t know if they’ll enjoy or not, which the main reason I didn’t choose this as the test winner. That being said, this plug has a lot to offer and it really is a top-quality product, which is why I included it! I have tried a few b-Vibe products and am consistently impressed by their designs and vibration quality. Our tester, Jess, “absolutely LOVED the B-Vibe Novice butt plug,” commenting that it “is by far the most comfortable plug” she’s ever worn! I think the “tapered design that is roughly the size of a finger” is the ideal shape and size for anyone feeling a bit nervous about a more bulbous plug. Jess also enjoyed that added vibrations which she described as “small but mighty” but also likes that it feels great with or without the vibrations, making it more versatile. As a sex toy expert, I am always happy to see a remote control with anal toys as it can be super fiddly to change the settings while wearing the plug otherwise! The last thing I really love is that the plug comes with an anal play guidebook full of helpful info that I would have loved to have when I first started my anal journey!

Metal is another sex toy material I highly recommend for anal toy beginners, because of its smooth, gliding surface, and doesn’t get any less intimidating than a rainbow butt plug with a heart-shaped base, in my opinion! Our tester, Naomi, was unsure of using a metal butt plug at first but was pleasantly surprised that “with a little lube, insertion was easy and comfortable” She “loved the rainbow color scheme and the cute heart gem” and being able to heat it or cool before use for a wider variety of sensations. Although she found it a little on the small side for her tastes, she “would recommend this for people curious about trying anal play for the first time.”

“This thing made me glimpse God.”

I’ve always found that textures feel a lot more intense when using a toy anally because the anus is much tighter, which is why I think the Tantus Silk is by far the best anal dildo for beginners! It’s so smooth, meaning there will be little resistance when sliding it in. Our tester, Kasia, found that the “the size was too small” and she “didn’t feel a ton of stimulation” when using it vaginally but was happy to have it as an “anal play buddy.” She also pointed out that it would make a great pegging dildo as it’s harness compatible. In my experience, it’s much better to have a firmer dildo for anal play, otherwise it can be difficult to insert, which is another reason I chose the Tantus Silk. For me, the simplicity and quality of the Tantus Silk makes it a real winner! And at just 1.1 inches in diameter it’s a super accessible size.

“I am glad that I chose the Fifty Shades of Grey Pleasure Intensified Anal Beads for my first journey into the world of anal beads. They really are perfect for any anal beginners who are curious about trying anal beads.”

As I mentioned earlier, I’m a huge fan of b-Vibe’s anal toys and think they’ve really mastered their niche! I really love the how thoughtful this anal training kit it is and think it’s fantastic for anyone looking to explore anal training. Our reviewer, Aaron, was impressed with all the kit has to offer. He found the smallest plug very approachable as “the end is only slightly bigger around than a finger” and the larger plug more satisfying size-wise. His favorite was the middle plug as he really enjoyed the variation and intensity of sensations, commenting that, to his surprise, the vibrations just kept “ramping up the intensity.” Alongside the plugs, he was impressed by the anal play guidebook that was “very thorough, and full of valuable information.” He was surprised to find things he’d never heard before, including “tips to control breathing during anal play.” I love to see sex toy companies taking safety and education so seriously! The only bit of the set that didn’t excite Aaron was the lube applicator, which he found a little unnecessary, but I would say this a small critique for an otherwise fantastic set!