The 9 Best Grinder Sex Toys for Bumping & Grinding

   Kevin Foley
1 Test Winner

Ruby Glow Blush Vibrator & Wand Combination

 Ruby Glow Blush

  • Want a versatile toy
  • Enjoy buzzy vibrations
  • Enjoy remote controls

Ruby Glow Blush

  • Prefer rumbly vibrations
  • Have a smaller budget
  • Want a toy with a storage bag

Starting off this list strong is my “Test Winner”, the Ruby Glow Blush Vibrator & Wand Combination. As the name implies, you get two toys in one with this tiny device. While its main function is to serve as a grinder sex toy, you can also detach the toy from the base if you want to use it internally. The grind toy offers a mixture of buzzy and rumbly vibes, although the buzzes tend to reign supreme overall. Perfectly curved for G-spot stimulation and designed with bumps that are sure to arouse your clitoris. Even better? No more dealing with batteries with this grinding sex toy! Rechargeable, able to be controlled with a remote, and offering a battery life of around 90 minutes, the Ruby Glow Blush Vibrator & Wand Combination is definitely a grinding vibrator you’ll want to get your hands on!

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  • Two-toy combo
  • For internal & external stimulation
  • Dual-motor design
  • Waterproof wand

  • Could be quieter
  • Hard exterior
  • Vibes travel down the handle
Ruby Glow Blush
MaterialsSilicone, ABS Plastic
Length7.4 inches
Insertable length5 inches
Diameter(Insertable) 1.5 inches
Vibration speeds3
Vibration patterns7
Battery Life90 minutes
RechargeableYes
Charging Time90 minutes
Remote ControlsYes (physical remote)
Travel LockNo
Waterproof(Wand) yes, (stand & remote) no
Storage Bag IncludedNo
Colors AvailableBurgundy

Like any toy, the Ruby Glow Blush Vibrator & Wand Combination has its pros and cons. Fortunately, the pros outweigh the cons, but nonetheless, let’s start with the cons first. Well, it has a battery life of 90 minutes. This isn’t bad, but it’s not the best I’ve seen either. Despite being covered in silicone, the toy is relatively hard, which means you’ll want to take care when settling down on this clit grinder for the first time. It’s also worth noting that it’s not the quietest thing around, so it might attract a bit more attention than the other humping toys you already own. That said, the pros are important. This toy offers a combination of both buzzy and rumbly vibrations, can be used hands-free, is waterproof (wand only), and can be controlled by the remote up to 49 feet away. Priced around $100, it’s not the cheapest toy, but I’d say it’s still with your money. If you want something that can stimulate you both inside and out then the Ruby Glow Blush Vibrator & Wand Combination is a hard bargain to beat!

2 Cheapest

ROMP Wave Rechargeable Clitoral Vibrator

 ROMP Wave

  • Are buying your first sex toy
  • Want something flexible
  • Need a waterproof toy

ROMP Wave

  • Prefer strong, deep vibrations
  • Want an extended battery life
  • Want internal stimulation

If you’re after a grinding vibrator on a tight budget then the ROMP Wave Rechargeable Clitoral Vibrator is definitely worth looking into. These affordable humping toys are shaped like a leaf, paired with an extremely flexible silicone body that easily bends to provide tons of external stimulation. Operated via a single button (or two, depending on the model you get), this clit grinder gives you four patterns and six speeds to enjoy. All of this in the palm of your hand! Travel-sized, body-safe, easy to use, and affordably priced, the ROMP Wave Rechargeable Clitoral Vibrator is an excellent option for anyone on a budget who’s looking to expand their current toy collection.

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  • Affordable
  • Leaf-shape design
  • Made of silicone
  • Soft surface

  • Short battery life
  • Only offered in one color
ROMP Wave
MaterialsSilicone
Length4 inches
Diameter1.9 inches
FlexibilityFlexible
Vibration speeds6
Vibration patterns4
Battery Life60 minutes
RechargeableYes
Charging Time120 minutes
Travel LockNo
WaterproofSubmersible
Storage Bag IncludedNo

Costing less than $40, the ROMP Wave Rechargeable Clitoral Vibrator easily earned the title of “Cheapest” on this list. Don’t let that title fool you though. While this grinder sex toy definitely does have a few downsides, overall, it’s a worthy option that I’m sure can bring you a lot of fun. The main downside is honestly the battery. It only lasts for about an hour, and the grind toy actually takes about two hours to charge. If you’re a person who prefers longer sessions, this definitely isn’t ideal. On the plus side, the silicone exterior of this grinding sex toy is extremely soft, making it comfortable both in your hand and against your skin. It offers a decent variety of vibration functions, which pair well with its flexible frame for grinding. By itself, the toy likely won’t be enough to finish the job. However, as a grinding sex toy, this toy does well, complementing your body’s movements with light vibrations to help push you over the edge. All in all, I’d recommend the ROMP Wave Rechargeable Clitoral Vibrator, whether you need something budget-friendly or just want to try a new toy!

3 Beginner

Series Two Iroha Midori Vibrator

 Series Two Iroha Midori

  • Need something compact
  • Require a quiet toy
  • Want a toy that won’t attract attention

Series Two Iroha Midori

  • Need something you can mount
  • Prefer penetrative stimulation
  • Want intense vibrations

The Tenga company is well-known for its male stroker toys, but today, we’ll be looking at its grinder sex toy, the Series Two Iroha Midori Vibrator! This compact vibrator can be used as either a grind toy or as a handheld vibrator, thanks to its ergonomic design and compact size. Offered in two colors and covered in silicone, this grinding sex toy gives you a small variety of satisfying vibrations, paired with a silicone exterior & a battery life of up to 90 minutes. Whether you need something for home or for travel, this compact vibe is up to the task. It might not offer the most intense experience around, but if what you’re after is a satisfying orgasm then the Series Two Iroha Midori Vibrator will surely deliver!

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  • Silicone exterior
  • 90-minute battery life
  • Water-resistant
  • Rechargeable

  • Vibes could be stronger
  • Not fully waterproof
  • Doesn’t include a storage bag
Series Two Iroha Midori
MaterialsSilicone, TPU
Length1.54 inches
Width3.03 inches
Weight0.22 lbs
Vibration modes2
Vibration speeds3
Battery Life90 minutes
RechargeableYes
Charging Time120 minutes
WaterproofYes
Storage Bag IncludedNo
Colors AvailableOriginal (Melon), Nadeshiko Pink

I think the Series Two Iroha Midori Vibrator fits perfectly into the “Beginner” category. It’s easy to use, relatively compact, body-safe, and even offers a fairly decent battery life! One downside is that this grinding vibrator takes about two hours to charge. Of course, this won’t pose an issue if you take less than 90 minutes to finish, so whether this matters really depends on the individual. I like how these humping toys have two color options, although it would be nice to see more. Still, having options is always great. Speaking of, this clit grinder gives you two vibe modes, paired with three different speeds. I think this goes along with the “Beginner” vibe. You get a few different options, but not so many that the toy becomes overwhelming. The toy is best described as water-resistant, as it’s not suitable for deep submersion. Still, that does work in its favor. Overall, I think the Series Two Iroha Midori Vibrator is an excellent buy for the money. There are certainly more stimulating options out there, but if you want something that can be grinded on and used as a handheld toy, this vibe is definitely a good one to pick up.

4 Squishy

Tenga Iroha Kushi Vibrator

 Tenga Iroha Kushi

  • Love rumbly vibes
  • Need something portable
  • Enjoy broad stimulation

Tenga Iroha Kushi

  • Prefer powerful vibes
  • Want lots of patterns
  • Need something silent

Another great option from Tenga is the Tenga Iroha Kushi Vibrator. Similar to the grinding vibrator above, this toy is quite compact, but this one uses a unique ribbed shell design to stimulate your clit. Completely waterproof, rechargeable, and offering five different vibration speeds, the Kushi is one of the quieter, compact humping toys you’ll find while shopping around. It offers rumbly vibes, easy-to-use controls, and enough surface to stimulate your entire clit at once. If you’re looking for humping toys that are travel-friendly but also have a sense of luxury around them, look no further than the Tenga Iroha Kushi Vibrator!

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  • Offers broad & precise stimulation
  • Made of silicone
  • Completely waterproof
  • Comes with a display case charger

  • A bit loud
  • Vibrations travel quite a bit
Tenga Iroha Kushi
MaterialsSilicone, ABS Plastic
Length4 inches
Width2 inches
RechargeableYes
Battery Life60+ minutes
Vibration patterns2
Vibration speeds5
Charging Time120 minutes
WaterproofYes
Travel LockNo
Storage Bag IncludedYes (comes with charging case)
Colors AvailableCream

The soft silicone exterior of this classy clit grinder earned it the “Squishy” mention on this list. This soft, squishy exterior pairs well with the deeper vibrations of this clit grinder, ensuring that you’ll be able to take full advantage of all five speeds—and both patterns—this toy has to offer. Of course, only having two patterns is a bit of a letdown, but the toy seems to do the job nonetheless. The battery life is only around an hour though, so I feel at least one of these areas could use improvement. One thing that really stands out about this grind toy is the charging case. It doesn’t come with a travel case, but the display box that comes with this grinder sex toy actually doubles as a charging box. This not only helps reduce waste, but also means your toy can look its best while recharging for the next session. I think this might be better for beginners or those preferring a less intense experience. If you fall into one of these two categories and don’t mind the somewhat lackluster battery life then you really should consider getting a Tenga Iroha Kushi Vibrator of your own!

5 Vibepad

VibePad 2 Grinding Vibro-Tongue Vibrator

 VibePad 2

  • Want a dedicated grinding toy
  • Need an easy-to-clean option
  • Enjoy facesitting

VibePad 2

  • Prefer silicone or oil-based lubes
  • Don’t like the integrated tongue
  • Prefer something wall-powered

If you’re looking for a dedicated grinder sex toy cuthan it’s really hard to beat the VibePad 2 Grinding Vibro-Tongue Vibrator. This grind toy literally has it all. Made of silicone and flexible enough to sit firmly pretty much anywhere you can put it, this toy is made just to mount and go. Naturally, this grinding sex toy gives you plenty of deep vibrations to enjoy. The fun doesn’t stop there though, as you also get a warming function and even a mini tongue to help do some of the work! Priced at less than $160 and probably the last grinding vibrator toy you’ll ever need, the VibePad 2 Grinding Vibro-Tongue Vibrator is truly a clitoris owner’s new best friend!

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  • Made of silicone
  • Warming action
  • Integrated flicking tongue
  • Remote-controlled

  • Only for use with water-based lubes
  • Not the most compact toy
  • Short battery life
VibePad 2
MaterialsBody-Safe Silicone
Length11.42 inches
Width8.15 inches
Weight0.9 lbs
RechargeableYes
Battery Life60 minutes
Charging Time120 minutes
Vibration modes7
Vibration patterns7
Remote ControlsYes, Handheld Remote
WaterproofYes
Colors AvailablePurple

The original Vibepad was great, don’t get me wrong. I’m just saying that this new version of the grinding vibrator is better! The VibePad 2 Grinding Vibro-Tongue Vibrator offers extremely rumbly vibrations, which are great because they penetrate deep within your body. Unlike many of the other humping toys I’ve shown you, this one is a bit more sizable, but it can still be folded up easily if you need to move it around. The heating function helps get the blood flowing, while the tongue makes it feel more like “the real thing”. Essentially, it’s a facesitting simulator! In my opinion, this puts it leagues above other clit grinder toys that rely mainly on your own movements to get things going. Of course, there are a few downsides. The battery doesn’t last very long, it’s no good for internal stimulation, and being made of silicone sadly limits it to only water-based lubricants. Still, I’d say these shortcomings are easy to overlook once you consider the bigger picture. If you’re looking for the last clit grinder you’ll ever need, news flash: the VibePad 2 Grinding Vibro-Tongue Vibrator is the one you’re looking for!

6 Panty Vibrator

We-Vibe Moxie + Clitoral Panty Vibrator

 We-Vibe Moxie +

  • Want something wearable
  • Need something waterproof
  • Have a long-distance partner

We-Vibe Moxie +

  • Want internal stimulation
  • Have a smaller budget
  • Prefer simple toys

Tired of using a grinding vibrator that requires you to hold onto it all of the time? Well, with the We-Vibe Moxie + Clitoral Panty Vibrator, you won’t have to! Perfect for grinding and clitoral stimulation in general, the We-Vibe Moxie + is one of the more capable humping toys on this list. It simply clips onto your panties, positioning itself up against your clit for hands-free stimulation. You can easily control it using the handheld remote. However, if you want a bit more range, give the We-Vibe app a try instead. Thanks to the magic of the internet, even a partner from halfway across the world can drive you wild with it! Perfect for solo adventures and partner play alike, the We-Vibe Moxie + Clitoral Panty Vibrator is a premium option for those who love going hands-free.

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  • Tons of options via app
  • Can be controlled over the internet
  • Offered in two colors
  • Includes storage bag

  • Pricey
  • Not completely silent
  • Requires wearing underwear
We-Vibe Moxie +
MaterialsSilicone
Length3 inches
Width1 inches
Battery Life120 minutes
RechargeableYes
Charging Time90 minutes
Remote ControlsYes (physical remote + app)
Vibration speeds3 (more in app)
Vibration patterns7 (more in app)
Travel LockNo
WaterproofYes
Storage Bag IncludedYes
Colors Availableblue or black

As my “Panty Vibrator” pick, I think the major limitation of this grinder sex toy is obvious: you need to be wearing underwear to use it as intended! Of course, you technically could just hold this grind toy in your hand, but that really eliminates the major advantage that this toy offers. By simply clipping onto your panties, this grinding sex toy can be used hands-free, whether you feel like grinding or not. This makes it ideal for public play as well, so long as you can keep the volume down (or the noises around you up). It’s nearly whisper quiet, but whether or not public play is worth it to you really depends on your personal risk tolerance. Fortunately, you have a few control options. Option A is using the included remote, while option B would be using the We-Vibe app. Since this app operates over the internet, you can also use this for long-distance play when your partner is far away but you still want to “share a moment” together. With decently powerful vibrations, nearly silent operation, and tons of control options using the app, the We-Vibe Moxie + Clitoral Panty Vibrator is definitely a promising option. If you’re tired of having to hold your toy in your hands but want something highly stimulating then I definitely recommend giving this one a go!

7 Magic Wand

Fun Factory VIM Silicone Wand Vibrator

 Fun Factory VIM

  • Want something powerful
  • Prefer rumbly vibrations
  • Struggle to hold small toys

Fun Factory VIM

  • Prefer internal stimulation
  • Want something small
  • Don’t like rechargeable toys

This next grinder sex toy is a pricey one, but I’m sure it will win you over once you give it a go! The Fun Factory VIM Silicone Wand Vibrator can be used as a grind toy or a handheld powerhouse. Exactly what you do with it is up to you, but you’re sure to enjoy it regardless. This toy offers deep, rumbly vibrations at five different speeds, paired with three different patterns for you to choose from. With a battery life lasting an hour or—often—more, the battery of this grinding sex toy should be enough for you to enjoy some quality “alone time”. Body-safe, easy to clean, and USB rechargeable, this seemingly simple toy proves that you don’t need to be overly complex to provide a satisfactory experience!

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  • Powerful vibrations
  • Large surface area
  • Slightly texturing
  • Rechargeable

  • Expensive
  • No color options
Fun Factory VIM
MaterialsSilicone, Brushed Aluminum, ABS Plastic
Length12.3 inches
Diameter(Head) 2.4 inches
FlexibilityFlexible (neck)
TextureVarious
RechargeableYes (USB)
Battery Life60-360 minutes
Charging TimeUp to 360 minutes
Vibration speeds5
Vibration patterns3
Travel LockYes
WaterproofSplashproof
Storage Bag IncludedNo
Colors AvailableSunrise Orange, Midnight Blue

It might not be the Magic Wand, but the Fun Factory VIM Silicone Wand Vibrator definitely works as a Magic Wand replacement. If anything, it’s just a bit more orange! Usable as a grinding vibrator or as a regular wand vibrator, this toy manages to pack a lot of power into its medium-sized frame, despite being powered solely by batteries. It’s worth noting that it specializes in rumbly vibrations, which might not be ideal if you’re the type of person who prefers a buzzy clit grinder. I think the main appeal of this toy over alternative options is the battery life. At full blast, you might only get an hour. However, at lower settings, this toy can offer up to six hours of enjoyment! It doesn’t come with a travel bag and costs quite a bit, but I’d say the experience is worth it. Thanks to the highly adjustable vibrations, I can confidently recommend this to beginners, advanced users, and everyone in between!

8 Luxury

POM Silicone Vibrator by Dame

 Dame POM

  • Want a compact toy
  • Are buying your first vibe toy
  • Need something quiet

Dame POM

  • Don’t like magnetic chargers
  • Require a long battery life
  • Want more than five patterns

Another great option worth considering is the POM Silicone Vibrator by Dame. Made of premium silicone and designed with the beginner in mind, this grinding vibrator offers satisfying stimulation with a gentle touch. Whereas many other clit grinder toys are limited to either pinpoint or broad stimulation, the POM can do both, largely thanks to its highly flexible body. With five speeds and five patterns to choose from, you won’t be spoiled for choice but you’re still sure to end up with a smile on your face. Rechargeable, shipped with its own storage bag, completely waterproof, and offering a battery life of 60+ minutes, the POM Silicone Vibrator by Dame is an enjoyable toy for beginners and more experienced users alike.

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  • Fits in your palm
  • Flexible frame
  • Can do broad & pinpoint stimulation
  • Silicone exterior

  • Pricey
Dame POM
MaterialsMedical-grade silicone
Length3.5 inches
Width4.4 inches
WaterproofYes
Battery Life60+ minutes
RechargeableYes (USB)
Vibration patterns5
Charging Time120 minutes
Vibration speeds5
Travel LockYes
Storage Bag IncludedYes
Colors AvailablePlum, Ice

Dame is known for making luxury items, and the POM Silicone Vibrator by Dame is no exception. Covered in medical-grade silicone and flexible enough to easily accommodate your body’s natural curves, this beginner-friendly grinder sex toy is one you’ll want to get your hands on. Of course, no product is perfect. While the silicone does help the toy feel soft and smooth against your skin, it also limits you to water-based lubes. Being rechargeable eliminates the need for batteries, but it also means you’re held hostage by the battery life. Still, this is a grind toy meant for beginners, so it’s not fair to expect peak performance from it. As an introduction or something you use for those special nights, I think it does a good job of providing a stimulating experience (without overdoing it). Unlike many of the other grinding sex toy options I’ve shown you, it also comes with its own storage bag, which is a major bonus in my book! While I wouldn’t recommend this to someone looking for a more intense experience (see above!), I think those who are happy with “gentle and satisfying” sensations are sure to love the POM Silicone Vibrator by Dame.

9 Non-Vibrating

The LaBae Labia Heart Shaped Grinder

 LaBae

  • Prefer manual stimulation
  • Love highly textured toys
  • Like the bright coloring

LaBae

  • Want a vibrating toy
  • Prefer using silicone lubes
  • Have a smaller budget

Last but not least is something a bit different, The LaBae Labia Heart Shaped Grinder. Unlike the other grinder sex toy models I’ve shown you so far, this particular grind toy doesn’t have any special functions or features, instead relying on external texturing and your body motion to get the job done. The coloring is quite striking, consisting of a combination of pinks and blues that form into unique patterns. Each LaBae is handmade, resulting in a grinding sex toy that’s unlike any other one in the world. If you prefer to do things “the old fashioned way” and want a toy that can help you do it better then The LaBae Labia Heart Shaped Grinder is definitely worth adding to your wishlist!

  • Reasonably priced
  • Exotic coloring
  • Highly textured
  • Waterproof

  • No additional features
  • Only offered in one size
LaBae
MaterialsSilicone
Length3.5 inches
Insertable length2.65 inches
Height1.5 inches
WaterproofYes
AllergiesPhthalate-free

As my “Non-Vibrating” pick, I think a lot of people might avoid this one at first glance. Still, if you’re searching for humping toys, surely you have to respect where it all started from! The biggest advantage that this toy has is the external texturing. Squishy and soft, the exterior is designed to put pressure in all the right places as you grind yourself on it. Being made of silicone, you’re essentially going to be limited to water-based lubricants with this toy. That’s pretty standard, but it still might be a bummer if your favorite lube isn’t water-based. I really like how each one of these is handcrafted. Not only is it a unique tidbit, but it also means that your LaBae Labia Heart Shaped Grinder is essentially an art piece. Of course, this has nothing to do with the sexual stimulation factor, but it’s nice nonetheless. All in all, I’d recommend The LaBae Labia Heart Shaped Grinder to anyone who enjoys the manual method. While it might not have any fancy bells or whistles, thanks to the unique shape and high-quality materials, you’ll definitely still end up satisfied with these unique, handcrafted sex toys.

Honrable Grinder Mentions

Alright, well, I’ve shown you all of the best grinding vibrator and humping toys you can buy online right now. Still, there are a few more honorable mentions I want to make, so—if you haven’t found the perfect clit grinder for you just yet—keep reading!

VibePad Rechargeable Grinding Vibrator

VibePad Rechargeable Grinding Vibrator - Honrable Grinder Mentions
Slightly cheaper and without the tongue, the original VibePad is still a great toy that you’re sure to fall in love with. Offering remote controls and seven vibe modes to choose from, this toy is an amazing option for anyone who wants to enjoy some grinding fun!

The Rosae Platinum Silicone Rose Grinder

The Rosae Platinum Silicone Rose Grinder - Honrable Grinder Mentions
Like the previous Uberrime toy, the Rosae is a sex toy that doubles as an art piece. Designed for manual stimulation, this highly textured toy is handmade one at a time for the perfect experience, every time.

The Sella Saddle Platinum Silicone Grinder

The Sella Saddle Platinum Silicone Grinder - Honrable Grinder Mentions
Fittingly named “The Sella Saddle”, this grinding toy is a bit bigger than the others. The unique shape of this toy is perfect for labia and clitoris stimulation, making it an excellent option for those who prefer manual masturbation.

VibePad 3 Triple Stimulation Grinder

VibePad 3 Triple Stimulation Grinder - Honrable Grinder Mentions
Offering clitoral, vaginal, and anal stimulation all at the same time, the VibePad 3 is a trifecta of pleasure that’s sure to scratch any itch. Remote-controlled and fitted with three motors, this toy can fulfill all of your fantasies (and more!).

The Ultimate Grinder Sex Toy: The Cowgirl Premium

Looking for the best of the best? Look no further than this next option below!

The Cowgirl

The Cowgirl - The Ultimate Grinder Sex Toy: The Cowgirl Premium
Loud, overpowered, and challenging to stay on for any length of time, The Cowgirl is a powerhouse that requires a wall outlet to keep going. Perfect for grinding, penetrative play, or a combination of both, this is a toy you’ll likely have to work to keep up with!

Grinder Sex Toy Comparison

Now that we’ve gone over all the various grinder sex toy options, let’s do a quick recap and summary to make sure you remember all of the important highlights of the various models! Pretty much anyone will be satisfied with the Ruby Glow Blush Vibrator & Wand Combination. While it functions primarily as a grinding sex toy, this toy can also be used as a wand vibrator, giving it external and internal potential. Beginners are sure to love the Series Two Iroha Midori Vibrator, with its small size and long battery life. Costing less than $100, this is a solid option that they’re sure to treasure for years to come. Another great option from Tenga is the Tenga Iroha Kushi Vibrator, which offers a unique, ribbed shell design that’s perfect for grinding. Prefer the manual approach? Then The LaBae Labia Heart Shaped Grinder—where sex toy meets art piece—is what you want. Lastly, for those who want to grind and enjoy some “cunnilingus”, the VibePad 2 Grinding Vibro-Tongue Vibrator is a solid option.

The Best Positions & Places for You to Get Your Grind On

Now you’ve got a new grinding vibrator, but what’s the best way to use it? Well, you have quite a few options. After all, it’s literally up to you how you enjoy your humping toys! Still, if you’re looking for inspiration, here are a few different ways to enjoy your new clit grinder:
  • Use Pillows – To do this, simply mount two pillows and place the grinding toy on top. Enjoy the clitoral stimulation and experience of “riding” a partner without the need for penetration!
  • Use a Chair – You can do a similar thing with the chair, sitting backward on a chair and grabbing onto the back for support as you grind away.
  • Use Your Bed – Depending on the design of your toy, lying down in bed and placing the toy underneath you might offer a satisfying grind!
  • Using Your Underwear – Certain toys can fit comfortably inside your underwear. Some are even made for this! To enjoy the process, simply get your grinder in place, find a chair, and grind to your heart’s content!

How to Use a Grinder Sex Toy

Using a grinding vibrator is fairly straightforward, but it also leaves a lot of room for creativity. Still, if you want to learn the basics, here they are.

Find a Suitable Surface

Find a Suitable Surface

You’ll need to find a surface where you can lay your grinder down, and then lower yourself onto the grinder for clitoral contact. Chairs and pillows are great options, but you can get a bit adventurous with your selection if you’d like. It’s also a good idea to cover the surface with something that you don’t mind getting a bit dirty.

Apply Lube

Apply Lube

Once you’ve placed the grinder, it’s time to apply lube. Lubricate your clitoris, labia, and the toy itself, making sure that all points of contact are covered in lubrication.

Mount the Toy & Grind Away

Mount the Toy & Grind Away

From here, you can mount the toy! Some toys are easier to turn on before you get on them, while others may be easier to control after you’re on top. Regardless, once you’re on top, you can start grinding away. Experiment with different patterns and speeds of vibrations if you have them for extra stimulation!

How to Clean a Grinder Sex Toy

Cleaning a grinder sex toy is very easy, requiring only warm water and antibacterial soap. Most of these toys are waterproof, but some may only be splashproof, so double-check to ensure you won’t need to take extra care when cleaning your toy. I recommend cleaning once with soap and water, then using water only to wash away any leftover soap. Toys that are made of silicone and that do not contain any electrical components can also be sterilized. To do so, simply boil some water, drop the toy in the boiling water, and remove it after five minutes have passed. Once you’re done cleaning and/or sterilizing your grinding sex toy, pat it down using a towel and leave it out to air dry completely before storing it away. Never attempt to store your toy away while it’s still wet or damp, as doing so allows bacteria to grow in the leftover moisture.

FAQ

Anyone with a clitoris can use a grinder sex toy! Technically, someone with a penis could also use a grinder sex toy, but these toys are designed with the labia and clitoris in mind, so stimulation may be less than ideal.

In general, I recommend sticking to water-based lubes. This type of lube is great because it can be used safely with any type of sex toy material!

Silicone is easily the best material for a grinder sex toy. Soft to the touch, non-porous, easy to clean, and body-safe, silicone is always a great option.

Yes, although it depends on the toy. Some provide relatively light stimulation, while others are so stimulating that they can quickly become overwhelming! As such, make your purchases accordingly.

Most definitely! You can have your partner control the sex toy, you can mutually masturbate with your grinder sex toy, you can tease them with your grinder sex toy, or—in some cases—you can even take turns with the grinder sex toy!

What is a Grinder Sex Toy?

A grinder sex toy is any type of sex toy that can be grinded on for clitoral stimulation. Although many of these toys are larger and are designed to be mounted, I’ve also included smaller toys that can be mounted in this list as well. Most of the options you’ll find offer features like vibrations or heating, although manual options still exist as well.

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