7 Best Remote Control Vibrators and Sex Toys

I’ve picked out the Lovense Exomoon as the Test Winner because I honestly think it’s one of the best bullet vibes on the market today. It’s super easy to use and beginner-friendly but still packs enough of a punch to satisfy experienced users. Our tester, Isabelle, “was surprised by both the power and rumbliness of the Lovense Exomoon. On the lowest settings (accessible in the app) the Exomoon provides a gentle rumble that would suit even the most sensitive clits”. What I love most about it is the lipstick design. Yes, it’s cute and fun, but it’s also super practical and very discreet with both the case and the storage bag. I just love sex toys that are small enough to fit in your purse when you’re going on a little trip. Plus, “the small size means you can use it in pretty much any position, solo or with a partner!” For manual control, there’s only one button to use, which is quite limited since you have to scroll through all the settings to find the one you want. Of course, this is where the app control comes in to offer so much more customization. However, I will say, compared to the wearable vibrators in the post, a lipstick vibrator might not be the most intuitive to use long-distance and it doesn’t work for public play. All things considered though, I think the Lovense Exomoon is one of the best bullet vibrators on the market, along with the We-Vibe Tango X.

I picked out the Lovense Lush 3 because it really is a crowd pleaser. It’s surprisingly versatile, since the rumbly vibrations from the egg can be used to caress any part of the body, really. I also appreciate when powerful vibrators are quiet enough to be used even when living with roommates or family members. In this case in particular, it’s ideal for public play. In my experience, Lovense toys have great Bluetooth connectivity for app controlled sessions. Although, keep in mind that bulky clothes or thicker thighs can sometimes interfere with the Bluetooth connection when you’re out and about. The one thing that I feel lets this toy down slightly is the weak clitoral vibration in the tail. If you are someone who relies on very strong clitoral vibrations to orgasm, this toy might not get you all the way but rather aid in some manual stimulation. Instead I would recommend checking out the Lovense Flexer or We-Vibe Moxie+ later in the review as they offer more clitoral stimulation. Our tester Kasia was initially excited for some hands-free orgasms with the Lush 3. Although, after discovering that the vibrations didn’t travel very well through the “tail” for some extra clitoral stimulation while the egg was inserted, she had to give up on that dream. But there was ultimately a solution: “I also finally found a way to enjoy the tail that I thought was cursed! I found it a great addition to delicate fingerplay on my clit, and then the gentle vibrations turned out to be not so useless. And in combination with powerful G-spot stimulation and a long and exciting foreplay beforehand, the orgasms were incredible!”

I think, as far as panty vibrators go, the We-Vibe Moxie+ is a fantastic option. I like that the design features a pronounced ridge that creates direct contact with the vulva when secured to snug underwear. I also think it works really well as a toy for some long drawn out teasing at home or out and about in public! Our tester, Daphne, was pleasantly surprised by just how much fun this little vibrator can be! She found it was better suited to foreplay since she “need(s) something stronger to send (her) over the edge. That being said, I like this toy way more than I thought I would. It’s fun to slide into my panties and let it touch me without having to do any work.”  She did have quite a bit of trouble connecting to the app but got it to work after resetting the toy and the phone. However, the connectivity does seem to be a problem for a lot of users in general. While the We-Vibe app seems to work a lot better these days, I still think the app compatibility can be a bit hit or miss. On the bright side, the physical remote control still allows you to use it for public play, power play, or general hands-free fun while wearing it. While the Moxie+ is more expensive than other remote control panty vibrators on the market, this little device definitely offers a certain sense of quality and some pretty impressive, rumbly vibrations.

For anyone who struggles to orgasm during partnered sex and needs a lot of clitoral stimulation to get there, this remote controlled vibrator is fantastic! It offers deep and rumbly vibrations for both internal and external stimulation, stays in place during use, and can even be enjoyed by your partner as well. Our tester, Isabelle, was super impressed by how powerful and rumbly the vibrations were with this couple’s remote control vibrator. It was a fantastic addition to penetrative PIV sex and was a great help in achieving some awesome hands-free, simulataneous orgasms. “… the We-Vibe Chorus allowed me to have some of the best PIV sex yet, with some of the most intense blended orgasms I have ever experienced. So on that level, it scores 110%. If you need clitoral stimulation during PIV sex, this thing is magical! As well as being hands-free, staying in place, and having powerful vibrations, the Chorus has an internal stimulator that can be enjoyed by both partners.” I love that it’s also more versatile than you would think. It can definitely be used for solo play by itself or with a dildo. It can also work well as a panty vibrator and for public play. The option of a physical remote may also be a plus for some that can’t be bothered with connecting the device to an app! The squeeze control is also a fun feature but comes with a bit of a learning curve. I would love to give the We-Vibe Chorus a perfect 5/5, as this really is a revolutionary couples vibrator. However the app connectivity lets it down. It’s not the most reliable and for this price, I would expect full access to all the features it promises.

Our tester, Mariah, was beyond impressed with this remote control g-spot vibrator. She even unlocked the secret to squirting using this little device! “I can say this with complete confidence, if you are interested in squirting, or aren’t sure if you can or even if you can but only if you physically try, purchase the Rave 2, and your waterfall will come… and likely involuntarily. The ability to bend the neck of this toy to fit your anatomy, as well as the dual-controlled motors (one for g-spot stimulation and one for stimulating the vaginal opening) is a complete game changer. […] Buy it, use it. Come back and thank me later, after you’ve mopped up.” I love the new improvements that We-Vibe made to this toy! The dual motor vibrations just add more rumbles to more sensitive areas (this time including the vaginal opening), and the adjustable shaft offers a lot more customization to hit those sweet spots. I’ve tested the original We-Vibe Rave myself and wasn’t too impressed with the rigid shaft and slightly spiraled, off-center shape. It’s safe to say that this upgrade is so much better! I also think that We-Vibe have done a great job of improving the app and connectivity, which definitely was a problem with some of their older models.

The Lovense Dolce is a real standout for egg vibrators, especially if you’re looking for something that does it all. Unlike most egg vibes that focus solely on G-spot stimulation, this one features dual motors—one for your clit and one for your G-spot. Cassie, our sex expert was impressed with the powerful dual stimulation and reported that “The sturdy head provides intense clitoral vibrations while the wide bulb on the insertable shaft puts firm pressure on the g-spot and provides a full sensation.” It’s like getting the best of both worlds in one sleek toy! As I mentioned before, the Lovense app is the best sex toy app control on the market. I’ve tried many Lovense app-controlled sex toys and I found them easy to use and super intuitive, especially for long-distance play. Cassie had a blast with it, saying she “loved the interactive feature and had a blast letting my partner control my stimulation, catching me by surprise or teasing me to frustration.” Now, I will say, the Dolce isn’t exactly the most discreet option if you’re thinking about wearing it out and about. It doesn’t stay in place super securely, so it’s probably best saved for at-home adventures. But once you’re settled in, the posable design makes it super easy to adjust to your body, so that you can find that sweet spot without too much fuss. Just experiment with angles and positions—it’s worth it to get everything right.

I think the We-Vibe Vector + is one of the most impressive prostate vibrators out there, and it’s easy to see why. As our reviewer, Robby raved, “I have never used a more powerful, well-designed, comfortable, or fun vibrator before this one.” One of the biggest highlights is how quickly it gets the job done. As Robby put it, “I have been able to climax with this vibrator faster than any of my previous ones, and it is comfortable to wear for long periods of time.” That’s a win-win in my book. The We-Vibe Vector + has been specifically designed to be a wearable butt plug, so I can highly recommend it for public play, and long-time wear. The flexible design and adjustable angle mean it fits just right, so you can focus on the pleasure without any distractions. I also appreciate the addition of the remote and app control. It really helps with having a total control of the experience, and enjoying hands-free play. Our reviewer said, “Not everything is better with an app, but apparently, prostate vibrators really benefit from having a good app. The app has a touch mode which is to die for.” And I totally agree with that. Whether you’re playing solo or with a partner, the app lets you customize vibrations, try out different patterns, or even hand over control for some long-distance fun.